FARM FAMILY HOLDINGS INC
DEFA14A, 1998-10-26
FIRE, MARINE & CASUALTY INSURANCE
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                          SCHEDULE 14A INFORMATION
                  Proxy Statement Pursuant to Section 14(a) of
                     the Securities Exchange Act of 1934 

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Filed by the Registrant  |X|

Filed by a Party other than the Registrant  |_|

Check the appropriate box:


|_|  Preliminary Proxy Statement        | |        Confidential, for Use of the
                                                   Commission Only (as permitted
                                                   by Rule 14a-6(e)(2))
                                                                   
|X|  Definitive Proxy Statement

|_|  Definitive Additional Materials

|_|  Soliciting Material Pursuant to Rule 14a-11(c) or Rule 14a-12

                          FARM FAMILY HOLDINGS, INC.
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               (Name of Registrant as Specified in its Charter)
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        (Name of Person(s) Filing Proxy Statement, if Other Than the Registrant)
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Payment of Filing Fee (Check the appropriate box):
|_|    No fee required.
|_|    Fee computed on table below per Exchange Act Rules 14a-6(i)(4) and 0-11.
       (1)      Title of each class of securities to which transaction applies:
                Common  Stock,  par  value  $0.01  per  share,  of the  Company;
                Preferred  Stock,  Series A, par value  $0.01 per share,  of the
                Company
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          (2)  Aggregate number of securities to which applies:

               The number of shares of Common Stock and Series A Preferred Stock
               to be  issued  in the  transaction  to the  stockholders  of Farm
               Family Life Insurance Company (the "Selling  Stockholders")  will
               be   equal   to   approximately   $31,500,000   and   $6,000,000,
               respectively,  less certain expenses  (currently  estimated to be
               equal to  approximately  $0.96  million to be paid by Farm Family
               Life  Insurance  Company  in the  transaction  on  behalf  of the
               Selling  Stockholders)  divided by the average  closing price per
               share of Common Stock as reported on the New York Stock Exchange,
               Inc.  during the 20 trading days prior to the third  business day
               preceding  the  closing  date of the  transaction  (the  "Average
               Closing Price"). If the closing had occurred on October 16, 1998,
               the  aggregate  number of shares  of  Common  Stock and  Series A
               Preferred  Stock to be issued to the Selling  Stockholders in the
               transaction  would be  estimated  to be  1,032,794  and  196,723,
               respectively,  based on an  Average  Closing  Price of $29 23/32.
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          (3)  Per unit price or other underlying value of transaction  computed
               pursuant to Exchange Act Rule 0-11 (set forth the amount on which
               the filing fee is  calculated  and state how it was  determined):
               The   filing   fee  has   been   calculated   pursuant   to  Rule
               0-11-(c)(1)(i)  and is equal to 1/50 of 1% of $37.5 million,  the
               aggregate value of the shares of common stock of Farm Family Life
               Insurance  Company to be  acquired  in the  transaction  from the
               Selling  Stockholders less certain expenses estimated to be equal
               to $0.9 million.
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          (4)  Proposed maximum aggregate value of transaction: $37,500,000 less
               certain expenses estimated to be equal to $0.9 million. 
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          (5)  Total fee paid: $7,320.00
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|X|    Fee paid previously with preliminary materials.
|_|    Check box if any part of the fee is offset as provided  by  Exchange  Act
       Rule  0-11(a)(2) and identify the filing for which the offsetting fee was
       paid previously.  Identify the previous filing by registration  statement
       number,  or the form of schedule  and the date of its filing.  
       (1)      Amount previously paid:
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                                                              October 21, 1998

Dear Stockholder:

     You are cordially  invited to attend a special meeting of stockholders (the
"Special  Meeting") of Farm Family Holdings,  Inc. (the "Company") to be held on
December 2, 1998 at 9:00 a.m., New York time, at the corporate  headquarters  of
the  Company,  344  Route  9W,  Glenmont,  New  York.  At the  Special  Meeting,
stockholders  of the Company  will be asked to consider and vote upon a proposal
to  approve  and  adopt an  Option  Purchase  Agreement  (the  "Option  Purchase
Agreement")  and a proposal  to approve  the  consummation  of the  transactions
contemplated therein.

     Under the  Option  Purchase  Agreement,  the  Company  would  acquire  (the
"Acquisition")  all of  the  outstanding  capital  stock  of  Farm  Family  Life
Insurance  Company,  a New York life insurance company (the "Life Company") from
the Farm  Bureaus(R)  or their  affiliates  in the ten  states in which the Life
Company's business is concentrated (the "Selling  Stockholders"),  at a purchase
price of $37.5  million,  less certain  expenses  (the  "Exercise  Price").  The
Exercise  Price would be payable in (i) a number of shares of common stock,  par
value $.01 per share  ("Common  Stock"),  of the Company  equal to $31.5 million
(less certain expenses) divided by the Average Closing Price (as defined below),
and (ii) a number of shares of 6 1/8% Preferred Stock,  Series A, par value $.01
per share ("Series A Preferred Stock"), of the Company equal to $6 million (less
certain  expenses)  divided by the Average Closing Price.  The "Average  Closing
Price" will be equal to the average  closing  price per share of Common Stock as
reported on the New York Stock  Exchange,  Inc. during the 20 trading days prior
to the third business day preceding the closing of the Acquisition. The Series A
Preferred  Stock  will be  entitled  to one vote per  share in the  election  of
directors  and on all matters on which  holders of Common  Stock are entitled to
vote, not voting separately as a class but together with all other stockholders.

     If the closing of the  Acquisition  had occurred on October 16,  1998,  the
Average  Closing  Price  would have been $29 23/32 and the  aggregate  number of
shares of Common  Stock  and  Series A  Preferred  Stock  issued to the  Selling
Stockholders would have been 1,032,794 and 196,723,  respectively  (representing
16.43% of the total  number of  shares  of Common  Stock  outstanding  after the
Acquisition and 18.96% of the combined  voting power of the  stockholders of the
Company after the  Acquisition).  The closing of the  Acquisition is expected to
occur on the fifth  business day following the Special  Meeting,  unless another
date is agreed to by the  parties.  As a result of  fluctuations  in the  market
price of the Common Stock,  the Average Closing Price used to compute the number
of shares  of Common  Stock  and  Series A  Preferred  Stock to be issued to the
Selling  Stockholders,  and the number of shares actually issued at the closing,
may be more or less than those illustrated above and throughout this document.

     A Notice of Special Meeting,  a Proxy Statement and a form of proxy for the
Special Meeting are enclosed.  The Proxy Statement  describes in more detail the
Life Company,  the Option Purchase  Agreement and the  Acquisition.  Please give
this information your careful attention.

     Salomon  Smith  Barney  has  delivered  a written  opinion  to the Board of
Directors  that,  as of the date of this  Proxy  Statement,  and  subject to the
qualifications  set forth in such opinion,  the  consideration to be paid by the
Company in connection  with the  Acquisition  is fair from a financial  point of
view to the Company.  For purposes of its opinion,  Salomon Smith Barney assumed
and did not opine that the aggregate value of the Series A Preferred Stock to be
issued in the  Acquisition is equal to the aggregate  stated value of $6 million
and that the aggregate value of the Common Stock to be issued in the Acquisition
is equal to $31.5 million.  The Proxy Statement contains a detailed  description
of Salomon  Smith  Barney's  fairness  opinion and the analyses  underlying  the
opinion.

     The Board of  Directors  of the Company has  approved  the Option  Purchase
Agreement and the  Company's  exercise of the option to acquire the Life Company
and  recommends  that the  stockholders  of the Company vote FOR approval of the
Option Purchase Agreement and the consummation of the transactions  contemplated
therein.

     The  effectiveness  of the  proposal  relating to the  consummation  of the
transactions  contemplated by the Option Purchase  Agreement is conditioned upon
the  approval of the proposal  relating to the  adoption of the Option  Purchase
Agreement.

     Whether or not you plan on attending  the Special  Meeting,  we urge you to
complete,  date  and  sign  the  enclosed  proxy  card  and  return  it  in  the
postage-paid envelope provided as soon as possible. If you plan on attending the
Special Meeting, please check the appropriate box on the attached proxy card.

     Thank you for your  continued  interest  in and  commitment  to Farm Family
Holdings, Inc.

                                                Sincerely,

                                                /S/ William M. Stamp, Jr

                                                William M. Stamp, Jr.
                                                Chairman of the Board
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                          FARM FAMILY HOLDINGS, INC.
                                344 ROUTE 9 W
                           GLENMONT, NEW YORK 12077

                 NOTICE OF SPECIAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                        TO BE HELD ON DECEMBER 2, 1998



To the Stockholders of Farm Family Holdings, Inc.:

         NOTICE IS HEREBY  GIVEN  that a special  meeting of  stockholders  (the
"Special  Meeting") of Farm Family Holdings,  Inc., a Delaware  corporation (the
"Company"),  will be held at the  corporate  headquarters  of the Company at 344
Route 9W, Glenmont,  New York, on Wednesday,  December 2, 1998 at 9:00 a.m., New
York time, for the following purposes:

               1. To consider  and vote upon a proposal to approve and adopt the
          Amended and Restated Option Purchase  Agreement,  dated as of February
          26, 1998,  as amended by  Amendment  No. 1, dated as of April 28, 1998
          (as so amended,  the "Option Purchase  Agreement"),  among the Company
          and the stockholders  (collectively,  the "Selling  Stockholders")  of
          Farm Family Life Insurance Company (the "Life Company").

               2.  To  consider   and  vote  upon  a  proposal  to  approve  the
          consummation of the  transactions  contemplated in the Option Purchase
          Agreement,  including the Company's acquisition (the "Acquisition") of
          all of the outstanding capital stock of the Life Company at a purchase
          price of $37.5 million,  less certain  expenses,  payable in shares of
          the Company's common stock, par value $.01 per share ("Common Stock"),
          and 6 1/8%  Preferred  Stock,  Series  A, par  value  $.01  per  share
          ("Series A Preferred  Stock"). A copy of the Option Purchase Agreement
          is  attached as Annex A to the  accompanying  Proxy  Statement  and is
          incorporated by reference herein.

               3. To transact  such other  business as may properly  come before
          the Special Meeting or any adjournments or postponements thereof.

     The close of business on October 23, 1998 has been fixed as the record date
for  determination of the stockholders  entitled to notice of and to vote at the
Special Meeting and any adjournments or postponements  thereof.  Only holders of
record  of the  Common  Stock on the  record  date are  entitled  to vote at the
Special Meeting and any adjournments or postponements  thereof.  The proposal to
approve and adopt the Option Purchase Agreement requires the affirmative vote of
a majority of the  outstanding  shares of Common  Stock  present in person or by
proxy at the Special  Meeting.  The proposal to approve the  consummation of the
transactions   contemplated  in  the  Option  Purchase  Agreement  requires  the
affirmative vote of a majority of the outstanding shares of Common Stock present
in person or by proxy at the Special Meeting,  provided, that under the rules of
the New York  Stock  Exchange,  Inc.,  if shares of  Common  Stock and  Series A
Preferred Stock  representing more than 20% of the shares of Common Stock or the
voting power of the Common Stock  outstanding  prior to the Acquisition would be
issued in the  Acquisition,  then such proposal will further require that 50% in
interest of all shares of Common Stock entitled to vote actually be voted at the
Special  Meeting.  Three days prior to the proposed  closing of the Acquisition,
the Company will issue a press  release  disclosing  whether  such  proposal has
carried under the applicable required vote.

         The Board of Directors of the Company has approved the Option  Purchase
Agreement and the  Company's  exercise of the option to acquire the Life Company
and  recommends  that the  stockholders  of the Company vote FOR approval of the
Option Purchase Agreement and the consummation of the transactions  contemplated
therein.

         The  effectiveness of the proposal  relating to the consummation of the
transactions  contemplated by the Option Purchase  Agreement is conditioned upon
the  approval of the proposal  relating to the  adoption of the Option  Purchase
Agreement.

                                        By Order of the Board of Directors,
                                        
                                        /s/ Victoria M. Stanton
                                         
                                        Victoria M. Stanton
                                        Secretary



October 21, 1998

Glenmont, New York

YOUR VOTE IS IMPORTANT.  PLEASE  PROMPTLY  COMPLETE,  DATE AND SIGN THE ENCLOSED
PROXY CARD AND RETURN IT IN THE POSTAGE-PAID  ENVELOPE PROVIDED,  WHETHER OR NOT
YOU PLAN TO ATTEND THE SPECIAL MEETING.
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                        FARM FAMILY HOLDINGS, INC.
                              344 ROUTE 9W
                         GLENMONT, NEW YORK 12077
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                             PROXY STATEMENT
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                      SPECIAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                         TO BE HELD DECEMBER 2, 1998
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         This Proxy  Statement is furnished to the  stockholders  of Farm Family
Holdings,  Inc., a Delaware corporation (the "Company"),  in connection with the
solicitation  of proxies by the Board of  Directors  of the Company for use at a
special  meeting of  stockholders  to be held on Wednesday,  December 2, 1998 at
9:00 a.m.,  New York time, at the corporate  headquarters  of the Company at 344
Route 9W, Glenmont,  New York, and at any adjournments or postponements  thereof
(the "Special Meeting"). This Proxy Statement and the accompanying form of proxy
are first  being sent to  stockholders  of the  Company on or about  October 28,
1998.

         At the Special Meeting, stockholders will be asked to consider and vote
upon (i) a  proposal  to  approve  and adopt the  Amended  and  Restated  Option
Purchase  Agreement,  dated as of February 26, 1998, as amended by Amendment No.
1, dated as of April 28, 1998 (as so amended, the "Option Purchase  Agreement"),
among  the   Company   and  the   stockholders   (collectively,   the   "Selling
Stockholders") of Farm Family Life Insurance  Company, a New York life insurance
company (the "Life Company"), and (ii) a proposal to approve the consummation of
the transactions  contemplated in the Option Purchase  Agreement,  including the
Company's  acquisition  (the  "Acquisition")  of all of the outstanding  capital
stock of the Life Company  (the "Life  Company  Shares") at a purchase  price of
$37.5 million,  less certain expenses  (currently  estimated to be approximately
$0.96  million) (the "Exercise  Price").  The Exercise Price would be payable in
(i) a number  of  shares of common  stock,  par  value  $.01 per share  ("Common
Stock"),  of the Company equal to $31.5 million (less certain  expenses) divided
by the Average Closing Price (as defined below) and (ii) a number of shares of 6
1/8%  Preferred  Stock,  Series A, par value $.01 per share ("Series A Preferred
Stock"),  of the Company equal to $6 million (less certain  expenses) divided by
the Average  Closing  Price.  The "Average  Closing  Price" will be equal to the
average Closing Price (as defined in the Option Purchase Agreement) per share of
Common Stock as reported on the New York Stock  Exchange,  Inc.  ("NYSE") during
the 20 Trading Days (as defined in the Option Purchase  Agreement)  prior to the
third business day preceding the date of the closing of the Acquisition.  A copy
of the  Option  Purchase  Agreement  is  attached  as  Annex A  hereto,  and the
description of the  transactions  contemplated by the Option Purchase  Agreement
contained  in this Proxy  Statement is qualified in its entirety by reference to
Annex A.

         As of October  23,  1998,  5,253,813  shares of the  Common  Stock were
outstanding and entitled to be voted. Each share entitles the holder to one vote
on each matter to come before the Special Meeting.  The record date and hour for
determining  stockholders  entitled  to  receive  notice  of and to  vote at the
Special Meeting has been fixed at the close of business on October 23, 1998.

         All  information  contained in this Proxy Statement with respect to the
Company has been  provided by the  Company.  All  information  contained in this
Proxy  Statement  with respect to the Life Company has been provided by the Life
Company.

         NO PERSONS HAVE BEEN  AUTHORIZED TO GIVE ANY INFORMATION OR TO MAKE ANY
REPRESENTATIONS OTHER THAN THOSE CONTAINED IN THIS PROXY STATEMENT IN CONNECTION
WITH THE  SOLICITATION  OF PROXIES  MADE  HEREBY,  AND,  IF GIVEN OR MADE,  SUCH
INFORMATION OR REPRESENTATIONS MUST NOT BE RELIED UPON AS HAVING BEEN AUTHORIZED
BY THE COMPANY OR ANY OTHER PERSON.

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           The date of this Proxy Statement is October 21, 1998
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                          AVAILABLE INFORMATION

         The  Company  is  subject  to  the  informational  requirements  of the
Securities  Exchange  Act of 1934,  as  amended  (the  "Exchange  Act"),  and in
accordance therewith files reports,  proxy statements and other information with
the Securities and Exchange Commission (the "Commission").  Such reports,  proxy
statements and other information filed may be inspected and copied at the public
reference facilities maintained by the Commission at Room 1024, Judiciary Plaza,
450 Fifth  Street,  N.W.,  Washington,  D.C.  20549 and may be  available at the
following  Regional Offices of the Commission  located at: Citicorp Center,  500
West Madison Street, Suite 1400, Chicago, Illinois 60661-2511; and 7 World Trade
Center,  Suite 1300, New York,  New York 10048.  Copies of such materials can be
obtained at prescribed rates from the Public Reference Section of the Commission
at Judiciary Plaza, 450 Fifth Street, N.W., Washington,  D.C. 20549. The Company
makes filings of reports, proxy statements and other information pursuant to the
Exchange  Act with the  Commission  electronically,  and such  materials  may be
inspected  and  copied at the  Commission's  Web site  (http://www.sec.gov).  In
addition,  material  filed by the Company can be inspected at the offices of the
New York Stock Exchange,  Inc., 11 Wall Street, New York, NY 10005, on which the
shares of the Common Stock are listed.

         Statements  contained herein concerning the provisions of documents are
necessarily  summaries of such documents  and, while such summaries  contain all
material  provisions  of such  documents,  each  statement  is  qualified in its
entirety by  reference  to the copy of the  applicable  document  filed with the
Commission or attached as an annex hereto.

                  INCORPORATION OF DOCUMENTS BY REFERENCE

         The Company hereby  incorporates by reference into this Proxy Statement
the following  documents  previously  filed with the Commission  pursuant to the
Exchange Act under file number 001-11941:

               1. The Company's 1997 Annual Report on Form 10-K/A;

               2. The  Company's  Proxy  Statement  Dated March 20, 1998 for its
          Annual Meeting of Shareholders held on April 28, 1998;

               3.  The  Company's  Quarterly  Reports  on  Form  10-Q/A  for the
          quarters ended March 31, 1998 and June 30, 1998;

               4. The  Company's  Current  Reports on Form 8-K dated January 27,
          1998,  February 26, 1998,  April 6, 1998, April 28, 1998, May 5, 1998,
          June 26, 1998 and August 7, 1998; and

               5. The description of the Common Stock set forth in the Company's
          registration  statement filed with the Commission  pursuant to Section
          12 of the  Exchange  Act,  and any  amendment  or report filed for the
          purpose of updating any such description.

         In  addition,  all  reports  and other  documents  filed by the Company
pursuant to Section 13(a),  13(c), 14 or 15(d) of the Exchange Act subsequent to
the date  hereof  and  prior  to the  Special  Meeting  shall  be  deemed  to be
incorporated by reference herein and to be a part hereof from the date of filing
of such reports and documents.  Any statement  contained herein or in a document
incorporated or deemed to be incorporated by reference herein shall be deemed to
be modified or  superseded  for  purposes of this Proxy  Statement to the extent
that  a  statement  contained  herein  (in  the  case  of  any  statement  in an
incorporated  document filed with the Commission prior to the date of this Proxy
Statement) or in any other subsequently filed document that also is incorporated
or deemed to be  incorporated by reference  herein,  modifies or supersedes such
statement.  Any such  statement so modified or  superseded  shall not be deemed,
except  as so  modified  or  superseded,  to  constitute  a part of  this  Proxy
Statement.

         This Proxy Statement  incorporates documents by reference which are not
presented herein or delivered herewith.  These documents (other than exhibits to
such documents unless such exhibits are  specifically  incorporated by reference
herein) are  available,  without  charge,  upon  written or oral  request by any
person to whom this Proxy  Statement  is  delivered,  including  any  beneficial
owner, in the case of documents relating
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to the Company,  directed to Farm Family Holdings,  Inc.,  Attention:  Corporate
Secretary,  P.O. Box 656, Albany,  New York 12201-0656,  if sent by mail, or 344
Route 9W,  Glenmont,  New York  12077,  if by hand,  express  mail or  overnight
courier. In order to ensure timely delivery of the documents, any request should
be made before November 17, 1998.

           CAUTIONARY STATEMENT REGARDING FORWARD-LOOKING STATEMENTS

         This Proxy Statement contains forward-looking statements that are based
on  management's  current  knowledge,   expectations,   estimates,  beliefs  and
assumptions.  These  forward-looking  statements  are identified by their use of
such terms and phrases as, but not limited to, "intends," "intend,"  "intended,"
"goal," "estimate,"  "estimates,"  "expects," "expect,"  "expected,"  "project,"
"projects," "projected,"  "projections," "plans," "anticipates,"  "anticipated,"
"should,"  "designed  to,"  "foreseeable   future,"  "believe,"  "believes"  and
"scheduled."

     The forward-looking statements in this Proxy Statement include, but are not
limited to,  statements  with  respect to the  financial  condition,  results of
operations  and  business  of each of the  Company  and the  Life  Company  on a
stand-alone  basis  and of the  Company  and the  Life  Company  on a pro  forma
combined basis following the completion of the Acquisition, including statements
with respect to the Company's potential  acquisition of the Life Company and the
impact of such  acquisition on the results of operation and financial  condition
of the Company,  statements  regarding expansion into the states of Pennsylvania
and Maryland,  projections  of revenue,  earnings,  capital  structure and other
financial items, statements of the plans and objectives of the Company, the Life
Company and their managements, and statements of future economic performance and
assumptions  underlying  statements  regarding the Company, the Life Company and
their respective businesses. Readers are hereby cautioned that certain events or
circumstances  could  cause  actual  results  to differ  materially  from  those
estimated,  projected or predicted. The forward-looking statements in this Proxy
Statement are not guarantees of future  performance  and are subject to a number
of important  risks and  uncertainties,  many of which are outside the Company's
and the Life  Company's  control,  that  could  cause  actual  results to differ
materially.  These risks and uncertainties  include, but are not limited to, the
results of operations of the Company and the Life Company,  fluctuations  in the
market  value of shares of the Common  Stock,  the  satisfaction  of the closing
conditions set forth in the Option Purchase Agreement (which conditions include,
but are not limited to, the approval of the Company's  stockholders  and receipt
of  all  required  governmental  approvals),   the  risks  associated  with  the
legislative,   regulatory  and   competitive   environments  in  the  states  of
Pennsylvania  and  Maryland,  which may delay,  prohibit or  otherwise  make the
Company's  expansion  into these  states  undesirable,  factors  relating to the
Company's and the Life Company's ability to successfully address their Year 2000
issue, exposure to catastrophic loss, geographic concentration of loss exposure,
general economic conditions and conditions specific to the property and casualty
insurance  industry,  including  its  cyclical  nature,  regulatory  changes and
conditions,   rating  policies  and  practices,   competitive  factors,   claims
development and the impact thereof on loss reserves and the Company's  reserving
policy, the adequacy of the Company's reinsurance programs,  developments in the
securities markets and the impact thereof on the Company's  investment portfolio
and  other  risks  listed  from  time to time in the  Company's  Securities  and
Exchange Commission filings, including the Form 10-K/A filed for the fiscal year
ended December 31, 1997 and the Prospectus dated July 22, 1996. Additional risks
and  uncertainties  that may cause actual  results of operations and business of
the Life Company to differ  materially  from those  contemplated  or  projected,
forecasted,  estimated or budgeted in such forward looking statements,  include,
among others:  (i) assumptions  regarding future morbidity,  persistency,  lapse
rates,  expenses,  mortality and interest rates used in calculating  reserve and
liability  amounts;  (ii) significant  variations of actual experience from that
assumed by the Life Company as to the expected morbidity,  lapse rates and other
factors in developing  pricing and other terms of its life  insurance  products;
(iii) the ability of the Life Company to maintain  its current  rating from A.M.
Best  Company,  Inc.;  (iv)  changes in interest  rates  causing a reduction  of
investment  income,  operating cash flow and other sources which affect the Life
Company's  ability  to  pay  policyholder   benefits;  (v)  policyholder  lapses
resulting from interest rate fluctuations; (vi) inability of the
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Life Company to maintain  appropriate  levels of statutory  capital and surplus,
particularly in light of continuing  scrutiny by rating  organizations and state
insurance regulatory authorities,  and to maintain acceptable financial strength
and claims-paying  ratings;  (vii) a significant change in or termination of the
Life  Company's  relationship  with the Farm  Bureaus(R) in the states where the
Life  Company's  business  is  concentrated;  (viii)  adverse  state and federal
legislation and regulation,  including limitations on premium levels,  increases
in minimum capital and reserves and other financial viability requirements; (ix)
heightened  competition,  including,  specifically the  intensification of price
competition,  the entry of new or existing  competitors and the formation of new
products by new and existing  competitors which may have  substantially  greater
technical,  financial  and  operating  resources;  (x)  inability  to carry  out
marketing and sales plans;  (xi) loss of key executives;  (xii) general economic
and  business  conditions  which  are  less  favorable  than  expected;   (xiii)
unanticipated  changes in industry trends;  and (xiv) the reserving policies and
the adequacy of the reinsurance and  retrocession  programs of the Life Company.
Accordingly,  there can be no assurance  that the actual results will conform to
the forward looking statements in this Proxy Statement.
                                       
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                              TABLE OF CONTENTS

AVAILABLE INFORMATION.........................................................ii
INCORPORATION OF DOCUMENTS BY REFERENCE.......................................ii
CAUTIONARY STATEMENT REGARDING FORWARD-LOOKING STATEMENTS....................iii
SUMMARY........................................................................1
The Special Meeting............................................................1
The Companies..................................................................2
The Acquisition................................................................3
Selected Historical Consolidated Financial Data................................8
Unaudited Pro Forma Selected Financial Data...................................12
Comparative Per Share Data....................................................13
Market Prices and Dividend Information........................................14
THE SPECIAL MEETING...........................................................16
Date, Time and Place..........................................................16
Purpose of the Special Meeting................................................16
Record Date; Shares Outstanding and Entitled to Vote..........................16
Required Vote.................................................................16
Voting and Revocation of Proxies..............................................17
Proxy Solicitation............................................................17
THE ACQUISITION...............................................................18
General.......................................................................18
Background of the Acquisition.................................................18
Optionee Valuation............................................................25
Opinion of the Company's Financial Advisor....................................26
Reasons for the Acquisition; Recommendation of the Negotiating Committee and 
Board of Directors............................................................31
Exercise Price................................................................33
Management and Operations of the Life Company After the Acquisition...........35
Interests of Certain Persons in the Acquisition...............................35
Regulatory Approvals..........................................................36
Federal Income Tax Consequences...............................................37
Accounting Treatment..........................................................37
THE OPTION PURCHASE AGREEMENT.................................................38
The Option....................................................................38
The Closing...................................................................38
Representations and Warranties................................................38
Certain Covenants.............................................................39
Other Agreements..............................................................40
Conditions to Closing.........................................................40
Amendment, Waiver and Termination.............................................41
Survival of Representations and Warranties....................................42
Expenses......................................................................42
Material Change In Law........................................................42
Changes to Original Option Purchase Agreement.................................43
UNAUDITED PRO FORMA CONSOLIDATED FINANCIAL INFORMATION........................44
BUSINESS OF THE LIFE COMPANY..................................................52
Overview......................................................................52
Products......................................................................52
Interest Crediting............................................................55
Marketing.....................................................................55
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Underwriting..................................................................56
Participating Business........................................................56
Related Party Transactions....................................................57
Relationship with Farm Bureaus................................................58
Reinsurance...................................................................58
Future Policy and Contract Benefits...........................................58
Investments...................................................................59
A.M. Best Rating..............................................................62
Competition...................................................................62
Regulation....................................................................63
Properties....................................................................63
Employees.....................................................................63
Legal Proceedings.............................................................63
MANAGEMENT'S DISCUSSION AND ANALYSIS OF FINANCIAL CONDITION AND RESULTS OF
   OPERATIONS OF THE LIFE COMPANY.............................................64
General.......................................................................64
Results of Operations.........................................................67
Liquidity and Capital Resources...............................................71
DESCRIPTION OF SERIES A PREFERRED STOCK.......................................73
General.......................................................................73
Designation and Amount........................................................73
Rank..........................................................................73
Dividends.....................................................................73
Redemption....................................................................74
Voting Rights.................................................................74
Liquidation Rights............................................................74
STOCK OWNERSHIP OF MANAGEMENT AND CERTAIN BENEFICIAL OWNERS...................75
Section 16(a) Beneficial Ownership Reporting Compliance.......................79
INDEPENDENT ACCOUNTANTS.......................................................79
PROPOSALS OF STOCKHOLDERS.....................................................80

ANNEXES:
ANNEX A-Option Purchase Agreement ANNEX B-Opinion of Salomon Smith Barney Inc.
ANNEX B-Opinion of Salomon Smith Barney Inc.
ANNEX C-Consolidated Financial Statements of Farm Family Life Insurance Company
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                                  SUMMARY

     The following is a brief summary of certain information contained elsewhere
in this Proxy Statement.  Reference is made to, and this summary is qualified in
its entirety by, the more detailed  information  and the  financial  statements,
including the notes  thereto,  appearing  elsewhere  herein or  incorporated  by
reference herein and in the annexes hereto.  As used herein,  the term "Company"
means  Farm  Family  Holdings,  Inc.  and its  subsidiaries,  and the term "Life
Company" means Farm Family Life Insurance Company and its subsidiary,  except as
the context may require. All financial information set forth herein is presented
in accordance with generally accepted  accounting  principles  ("GAAP"),  unless
otherwise  noted.  Certain  capitalized  terms used in this  summary are defined
elsewhere in this Proxy  Statement.  You are urged to read this Proxy  Statement
and the  annexes  hereto and the  documents  incorporated  by  reference  herein
carefully and in their entirety.

                              THE SPECIAL MEETING

Date, Time and Place of Special Meeting

     The Special  Meeting  will be held on  Wednesday,  December 2, 1998 at 9:00
a.m., New York time, at the corporate  headquarters  of the Company at 344 Route
9W, Glenmont, New York.

Purpose of the Special Meeting

     At the  Special  Meeting,  the  Company's  stockholders  will be  asked  to
consider  and act upon (i) a proposal to approve  and adopt the Option  Purchase
Agreement and (ii) a proposal to approve the  consummation  of the  transactions
contemplated therein. See "The Acquisition" and "The Option Purchase Agreement."

     The Board of  Directors  of the Company has  approved  the Option  Purchase
Agreement and the  Company's  exercise of the option to acquire the Life Company
and  recommends  that the  stockholders  of the Company vote FOR approval of the
Option Purchase Agreement and the consummation of the transactions  contemplated
therein.

Record Date; Shares Entitled to Vote

     Only  holders of record of Common Stock at the close of business on October
23,  1998  (the  "Record  Date")  are  entitled  to notice of and to vote at the
Special  Meeting.  As of the close of  business on the Record  Date,  there were
5,253,813 shares of Common Stock outstanding and entitled to vote at the Special
Meeting. Each of the shares of Common Stock outstanding at the close of business
on the Record  Date is entitled  to one vote at the  Special  Meeting.  See "The
Special Meeting."

Required Vote

     The proposal to approve and adopt the Option  Purchase  Agreement  requires
the  affirmative  vote of a majority of the  outstanding  shares of Common Stock
present in person or by proxy at the Special  Meeting.  The  proposal to approve
the  consummation  of  the  transactions  contemplated  in the  Option  Purchase
Agreement  requires the affirmative vote of a majority of the outstanding shares
of Common Stock present in person or by proxy at the Special Meeting,  provided,
that  under  the rules of the NYSE,  if  shares  of  Common  Stock and  Series A
Preferred Stock  representing more than 20% of the shares of Common Stock or the
voting power of the Common Stock  outstanding  prior to the Acquisition would be
issued in the  Acquisition,  then such proposal will further require that 50% in
interest of all shares of Common Stock entitled to vote actually be voted at the
Special  Meeting.  Three days prior to the proposed  closing of the Acquisition,
the Company will issue a press  release  disclosing  whether  such  proposal has
carried under the applicable  required vote. The  effectiveness  of the proposal
relating to the  consummation  of the  transactions  contemplated  by the Option
Purchase  Agreement is conditioned upon the approval of the proposal relating to
the  adoption of the Option  Purchase  Agreement.  In the event that the Company
fails to obtain the  requisite  stockholder  approvals,  the Company will either
re-solicit stockholder approval or abandon
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the transaction.  Proxies voting against a specific proposal will not be used by
the persons named in the proxies to vote for  adjournment of the Special Meeting
for the purpose of allowing  additional  time to solicit  votes to approve  such
proposal. See "The Special Meeting-Required Vote."

                               THE COMPANIES

The Company

         The  Company  is  an  insurance   holding   company,   whose  principal
subsidiary,  Farm Family Casualty Insurance Company ("FFCIC"),  is a specialized
property and casualty insurer of farms,  other generally related  businesses and
residents  of rural and suburban  communities  principally  in the  Northeastern
United States.  FFCIC was established in 1955 to meet certain insurance needs of
Farm Bureau(R) members in the Northeastern  United States, and provides property
and  casualty   insurance   coverages  to  members  of  the  state  Farm  Bureau
organizations  in New York, New Jersey,  Delaware,  West Virginia and all of the
New England states (collectively,  the "Farm Bureaus"). Membership in a state or
county  Farm Bureau  organization  is a  prerequisite  for  voluntary  insurance
coverage  with  the  Company  except  for  employees  of  the  Company  and  its
affiliates. FFCIC principally provides flexible multi-line packages of insurance
for those engaged in agricultural  pursuits,  as well as automobile,  commercial
general liability,  workers' compensation,  umbrella liability,  businessowners,
homeowners and other insurance  products to rural and suburban  policyholders in
ten states. The operations of the Company are also closely related with those of
its affiliates,  the Life Company and its wholly owned  subsidiary,  United Farm
Family Insurance Company ("United"). The Company was incorporated under the laws
of the State of Delaware in 1996.  Its principal  office is located at 344 Route
9W  Glenmont,   New  York,  12077,  telephone  (518)  431-5000.  For  additional
information regarding the Company and its business, see "Available Information,"
"Incorporation   of  Documents  by   Reference,"   and   "-Selected   Historical
Consolidated Financial Data."

The Life Company

         The Life Company is an  affiliate  of the Company  owned by Farm Bureau
organizations  and their  affiliates  in New York,  New Jersey,  Delaware,  West
Virginia and all of the New England states.  These entities,  which comprise all
of the  Selling  Stockholders,  are  Connecticut  Farm Bureau  Service  Company,
Delaware Farm Bureau Service  Company,  Inc., Maine Farm Bureau Service Company,
Massachusetts  Farm Bureau  Service  Company,  Inc.,  New Hampshire  Farm Bureau
Federation, New Jersey Farm Bureau Service Company, New York Farm Bureau Service
Company,  Inc., Rhode Island Farm Bureau Federation,  Inc., Vermont Farm Bureau,
Inc. and West Virginia Farm Bureau, Inc.

         The Life  Company was  established  in 1953 to provide  life  insurance
products for Farm Bureau members  principally in the Northeastern United States.
The Life Company  principally  sells  individual  whole life, term and universal
life products,  in addition to single and flexible premium  deferred  annuities,
single premium immediate annuities and disability income insurance products. The
Life Company  operates in the same ten states as the  Company,  through a common
distribution  system  consisting  of more than 200 agents who are located in the
rural and suburban  communities the Life Company serves.  In addition,  the Life
Company is licensed to write insurance business in Pennsylvania and Maryland and
began marketing its products in those states in 1998.  Unlike FFCIC,  membership
in a  state  or  county  Farm  Bureau  organization  is not a  prerequisite  for
purchasing insurance coverage from the Life Company or United.

         The Company and the Life Company have substantially identical directors
and  officers,  share the same agency force and certain  employees,  and utilize
common  office  facilities.  Most  administrative  and  operating  expenses  are
allocated  between the two companies  pursuant to an expense sharing  agreement.
Service as a director or officer of both the Company and the Life Company  could
create or appear to create potential  conflicts of interest when the director or
officer is faced with decisions that could have different  implications  for the
Company  and the Life  Company.  A conflict  of  interest  could also exist with
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respect to the  allocation  of time and attention of persons who are officers of
both the Company and the Life Company.

     The Life Company's wholly owned subsidiary, United, is a stock property and
casualty  insurance  company formed in 1988. Prior to January 1, 1998,  United's
principal business was reinsurance of direct business written by FFCIC. In 1998,
United commenced  writing direct property and casualty  business in Pennsylvania
and Maryland.

     The Life Company's principal executive offices are located at 344 Route 9W,
Glenmont,  New York 12077,  telephone (518) 431-5000. For additional information
regarding the Life Company and its business, see "Business of the Life Company,"
"Management's  Discussion  and  Analysis of Financial  Condition  and Results of
Operations of the Life Company," "-Selected  Historical  Consolidated  Financial
Data" and the financial  statements  of the Life Company  attached as Annex C to
this Proxy Statement.

                            THE ACQUISITION

The Option

     At the time of the  reorganization  and  conversion  of Farm Family  Mutual
Insurance  Company  ("Farm Family  Mutual") in 1996, the Company and the Selling
Stockholders  entered into the Option Purchase  Agreement  pursuant to which the
Company was granted an option (the  "Option") to acquire all of the Life Company
Shares,  exercisable  for a two-year period which commenced on July 26, 1996. On
February 26, 1998 (the "Exercise Date"), the Company exercised such Option.

Exercise Price

     The Exercise  Price to be paid by the Company for the Life  Company  Shares
will  be  $37.5  million  (less  certain  expenses,  currently  estimated  to be
approximately  $0.96 million,  to be paid by the Life Company in the transaction
on behalf of the Selling  Stockholders).  The Exercise  Price was  determined by
arm's-length  negotiations between a special negotiating  committee of the Board
of  Directors  of the  Company  (the  "Negotiating  Committee")  and a committee
representing  the Selling  Stockholders,  in consultation  with their respective
financial  advisors and other  representatives,  based upon separate  valuations
prepared by such  financial  advisors in  accordance  with  specified  valuation
procedures set forth in the Option Purchase  Agreement.  Upon the closing of the
Acquisition  (the  "Closing"),  the Company will pay the  Exercise  Price to the
Selling  Stockholders  in (i) a number of shares of Common  Stock equal to $31.5
million (less certain expenses  currently  estimated to be  approximately  $0.81
million)  divided by the  Average  Closing  Price and (ii) a number of shares of
Series A Preferred  Stock equal to $6 million (less certain  expenses  currently
estimated to be  approximately  $0.15  million)  divided by the Average  Closing
Price.  The Average Closing Price will be equal to the average Closing Price (as
defined in the Option Purchase  Agreement) per share of Common Stock as reported
on the NYSE  during the 20  Trading  Days (as  defined  in the  Option  Purchase
Agreement)  prior to the third business day preceding the date of the closing of
the Acquisition (the "Closing Date").

     The following  table  illustrates  the manner in which the Average  Closing
Price  determines  the number of shares of Common  Stock and Series A  Preferred
Stock that will be issued at the Closing. This information  should  not be
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construed  to be  indicative  of the actual  number of shares of Common Stock or
Series A Preferred Stock that will be issued at the Closing.
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                                                                  Shares of
        Average Closing                  Shares of            Series A Preferred        % of Common Stock           % of Combined
             Price                  Common Stock Issued          Stock Issued           Outstanding(1)(2)        Voting Power(1)(2)

<C>                                               <C>                        <C>                      <C>                     <C>   
$25.............................                  1,227,744                  233,856                  18.94%                  21.76%
$26.............................                  1,180,523                  224,862                  18.35                   21.10
$27.............................                  1,136,800                  216,533                  17.79                   20.48
$28.............................                  1,096,200                  208,800                  17.26                   19.90
$29.............................                  1,058,400                  201,600                  16.77                   19.34
$30.............................                  1,023,120                  194,880                  16.30                   18.82
$31.............................                    990,116                  188,594                  15.86                   18.32
$32.............................                    959,175                  182,700                  15.44                   17.85
$33.............................                    930,109                  177,164                  15.04                   17.41
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(1)  Based on 5,253,813 shares of Common Stock outstanding as of the Record Date
     plus the number of shares of Common Stock and, with respect to the combined
     voting  power,  Series A  Preferred  Stock  estimated  to be  issued at the
     respective  Average  Closing  Price set  forth in the first  column of this
     table.

(2)  Excludes  shares  of  Common  Stock  currently  owned  by  certain  Selling
     Stockholders,  which  in  the  aggregate  constitute  less  than  1% of the
     outstanding  shares of Common  Stock as of  October  16,  1998.  See "Stock
     Ownership of Management and Certain Beneficial Owners."

     The Average  Closing  Price will be based on the market price of the Common
Stock as reported on the NYSE during a 20 day period prior to the Closing  Date,
which may  fluctuate.  Accordingly,  the actual  Average  Closing  Price and the
actual  number of shares of Common Stock and Series A Preferred  Stock that will
be  issued  to  the  Selling   Stockholders  may  vary  significantly  from  the
illustrations  set forth  above.  The actual  value of the  securities  that the
Company issues in the Acquisition may have a value on the Closing Date in excess
of (or less than) $37.5 million,  prior to reduction for certain  expenses.  The
value of the  Common  Stock to be issued  will be based on the  Average  Closing
Price, which may be higher or lower than the market price of the Common Stock on
the Closing Date. In addition,  the market value of the Series A Preferred Stock
may be higher or lower on the Closing  Date than its stated value of $6 million,
depending  on interest  rates,  perceived  credit  quality,  market  conditions,
valuations of  comparable  companies and other factors at the time it is issued.
The Company's financial advisor advised the Negotiating  Committee and the Board
of Directors that, as of the date of its February 26, 1998 fairness opinion, the
Series A Preferred Stock would likely trade at approximately its stated value of
$6 million.  The financial advisor did not value the Series A Preferred Stock or
the Common Stock for purposes of its fairness opinion,  however. See "-Review of
Series A  Preferred  Stock"  under  "The  Acquisition-Opinion  of the  Company's
Financial  Advisor,"  "The  Acquisition-Background  of  the  Acquisition,"  "The
Acquisition-Exercise  Price" and "Stock  Ownership  of  Management  and  Certain
Beneficial Owners."

Recommendation of Board of Directors

     The  Board  of  Directors  believes  that  the  Acquisition  is in the best
interests  of the  Company.  The Board of  Directors  has  approved  the  Option
Purchase  Agreement  and the  exercise of the Option to acquire the Life Company
pursuant  to  the  Option  Purchase  Agreement  and  has  recommended  that  the
stockholders of the Company vote FOR approval of the Option  Purchase  Agreement
and  the  consummation  of  the  transactions  contemplated  therein.  See  "The
Acquisition-Reasons  for  the  Acquisition;  Recommendation  of the  Negotiating
Committee and Board of Directors."
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Fairness Opinion

     Salomon  Brothers Inc, a predecessor by merger to Salomon Smith Barney Inc.
(collectively with all other predecessors to Salomon Smith Barney Inc., "Salomon
Smith Barney"),  was retained by the Company to act as financial  advisor to the
Company in connection with the possible  acquisition of the Life Company and, in
connection with such  engagement,  rendered an opinion as to the fairness from a
financial  point of view to the Company of the  consideration  to be paid by the
Company to the Selling  Stockholders  in  connection  with the  Acquisition.  On
February 26, 1998, the date the Board of Directors  approved the exercise of the
Option to purchase the Life Company, Salomon Smith Barney delivered to the Board
of Directors its written  opinion to the effect that,  based upon and subject to
the considerations set forth in such opinion,  as of such date the consideration
to be paid by the Company in connection with the proposed  Acquisition of all of
the  outstanding  shares of capital  stock of the Life  Company  was fair from a
financial  point of view to the Company.  Salomon Smith Barney has confirmed its
opinion dated February 26, 1998 by delivery of a written  opinion dated the date
of this Proxy  Statement.  For  purposes of its  opinion,  Salomon  Smith Barney
assumed  and did not opine that the  aggregate  value of the Series A  Preferred
Stock to be issued in the Acquisition is equal to the aggregate  stated value of
$6 million and that the aggregate  value of the Common Stock to be issued in the
Acquisition  is equal to $31.5  million.  A copy of the opinion of Salomon Smith
Barney, dated the date of this Proxy Statement, which sets forth the assumptions
made, general procedures  followed,  matters considered and limits on the review
undertaken,  is attached as Annex B to this Proxy  Statement.  Stockholders  are
urged to read the opinion of Salomon Smith Barney in its entirety. Salomon Smith
Barney was also  retained by the  Negotiating  Committee to act as its financial
advisor and to prepare the initial  valuation  for purposes of  determining  the
exercise    price   under   the   Option    Purchase    Agreement.    See   "The
Acquisition-Background    of   the   Acquisition,"   "The   Acquisition-Optionee
Valuation," and "The Acquisition-Opinion of the Company's Financial Advisor."

Series A Preferred Stock

     Each share of the Series A Preferred Stock will be entitled to one vote per
share in the election of directors and on all matters on which holders of Common
Stock are entitled to vote,  not voting  separately as a class but together with
all other stockholders.  Cumulative  dividends will be payable quarterly in cash
on each share at a rate equal to 6 1/8% per annum.  The Series A Preferred Stock
will be subject to mandatory redemption by the Company on the date following the
twentieth  anniversary  of the issuance  date (or the next  business  day),  and
optional  redemption on and after the tenth  anniversary  of the issuance  date.
Each share of Series A  Preferred  Stock may be  redeemed,  at the option of the
Company, in cash or in shares of Common Stock. The Company's decision whether to
redeem  shares of Series A  Preferred  Stock in cash or in shares will depend on
its financial  condition  and other  circumstances  at that time,  including its
liquidity. See "Description of Series A Preferred Stock."

Conditions to Consummation of the Acquisition

     The respective  obligations of the Company and the Selling  Stockholders to
consummate the Acquisition  are  conditioned on, among other things,  receipt of
governmental and regulatory consents (including termination or expiration of the
waiting period under the Hart-Scott-Rodino  Antitrust  Improvements Act of 1976,
as  amended,  and the rules and  regulations  promulgated  thereunder  (the "HSR
Act"), and approval of the  Superintendent of Insurance of the State of New York
(the "New York  Superintendent")),  approval of the Acquisition by the requisite
vote of the Company's  stockholders,  the absence of  injunctions  or restraints
preventing  consummation of such  transaction and  satisfaction of certain other
usual  conditions.  On May 27, 1998,  notice of early termination of the waiting
period under the HSR Act was received.  On May 28, 1998,  the Life Bureau of the
New    York    Superintendent    approved    the    Acquisition.     See    "The
Acquisition-Regulatory  Approvals" and "The Option Purchase Agreement-Conditions
to Closing."
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Closing Date

     If the proposals to approve and adopt the Option Purchase  Agreement and to
approve  the  transactions  contemplated  therein  are  approved  at the Special
Meeting,  it is  expected  that the  Closing  will be  consummated  on the fifth
business day after satisfaction or waiver of all of the conditions  specified in
the Option Purchase Agreement,  unless another date is agreed to by the parties.
The Company  does not intend to waive any material  conditions  under the Option
Purchase  Agreement.  If the Company  does waive any such  material  conditions,
however, it would resolicit proxies at that time.

Interests of Certain Persons in the Acquisition

     The Company is closely  affiliated  with the Farm Bureaus in the ten states
in which it operates, and these Farm Bureaus or their affiliates comprise all of
the Selling  Stockholders.  Substantially  all of the  directors of the Company,
including  the  Chairman  and Vice  Chairman  of the  Board,  are  directors  or
executive  officers  of,  employed by or otherwise  associated  with the Selling
Stockholders and their  affiliates.  Certain of these directors also own capital
stock of certain of the Selling  Stockholders,  although such capital stock will
be  redeemed  by  or  returned  to  such  Selling   Stockholders  prior  to  the
consummation  of  the  Acquisition.  The  Company  also  has  various  financial
arrangements and  interrelationships  with the Selling Stockholders and the Life
Company.  Substantially  all of the  directors  and  executive  officers  of the
Company  are also  directors  and  executive  officers  of the Life  Company and
United.  As a result of these  interests,  the Board of Directors  appointed the
Negotiating  Committee,   which  was  comprised  of  independent  directors,  to
negotiate  the  Exercise  Price  on  behalf  of the  Company  with  the  Selling
Stockholders.   See  "The   Acquisition-Interests  of  Certain  Persons  in  the
Acquisition" and "Stock Ownership of Management and Certain Beneficial Owners."

Material Change in Law

     The Option Purchase  Agreement provides that in the event a Material Change
in Law (as defined in the Option  Purchase  Agreement)  could  adversely  affect
certain of the Federal income tax  consequences  of the  transaction for certain
Selling Stockholders,  the Company will negotiate in good faith with the Selling
Stockholders  to amend or modify the terms of the Series A Preferred  Stock,  to
arrange  for  substitute   consideration   or  otherwise  to   restructure   the
transactions under the Option Purchase Agreement. If the Company and the Selling
Stockholders  are not able to agree on the terms of a modification to the Option
Purchase  Agreement,  then,  among  other  things,  neither  the Company nor the
Selling  Stockholders  will be required to consummate the Acquisition  under the
terms described in this Proxy Statement and the option purchase  agreement which
was in effect between the Company and the Selling Stockholders prior to February
26, 1998 (the "Original Option Purchase  Agreement") will continue in full force
and effect as if the Option Purchase  Agreement had never become  effective.  If
the Original Option Purchase Agreement is reinstated,  the Company's exercise of
the Option to purchase the Life  Company as  described  in this Proxy  Statement
will be  void.  In the  event  that the  Company  and the  Selling  Stockholders
renegotiate  material terms of the  consideration to be paid or the transactions
under the Option  Purchase  Agreement or, in the event that the Original  Option
Purchase  Agreement is reinstated  and the Company elects to exercise its Option
thereunder,  the Company would re-solicit  proxies at that time. See "The Option
Purchase Agreement-Material Change in Law."

Termination of the Option Purchase Agreement

     The Option  Purchase  Agreement  may be terminated at any time prior to the
Closing  Date,  whether  before or after  approval  by the  stockholders  at the
Special  Meeting  (i) by the mutual  written  agreement  of the  Company and the
Selling  Stockholders or (ii) by either the Company or the Selling  Stockholders
if the Closing  Date has not occurred by February  26, 1999  (provided  that the
right to terminate the Option  Purchase  Agreement is not available to any party
whose failure to fulfill any of its obligations under the Option  Purchase
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Agreement  results in the  failure  of the  Closing to occur on or prior to such
date). See "The Option Purchase Agreement-Amendment, Waiver and Termination."

Management and Operations of the Life Company After the Acquisition

     It is not expected that the  consummation of the Acquisition will result in
any changes to the Board of Directors or officers of the Life Company. Following
the  Acquisition,  it is  intended  that the Life  Company  will be  managed  in
substantially the manner and with substantially the same operating management as
it is currently.

Accounting Treatment

     The  Acquisition  will be  accounted  for  under the  "purchase"  method of
accounting. See "The Acquisition-Accounting Treatment."
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                   SELECTED HISTORICAL CONSOLIDATED FINANCIAL DATA
         The following selected  historical  consolidated  financial data of the
Company for the years ended December 31, 1997,  1996, 1995, 1994 and 1993 and as
of December 31, 1997,  1996,  1995 and 1994 has been derived from the historical
audited  consolidated  financial  statements  of the Company and such  financial
statements and notes thereto  should be read in  conjunction  with the Company's
Annual Report on Form 10-K/A for the year ended December 31, 1997, and Quarterly
Report  on  Form  10-Q/A  for  the  quarter  ended  June  30,  1998,  which  are
incorporated by reference herein. See "Available Information" and "Incorporation
of Documents by Reference." The selected historical  consolidated financial data
of the  Company  for the six  months  ended  June  30,  1998  and 1997 and as of
December  31,  1993 and as of June 30, 1998 and 1997 has been  derived  from the
unaudited consolidated financial statements of the Company. The Company believes
that such unaudited  financial  data fairly  reflect the unaudited  consolidated
financial  condition of the Company as of December 31, 1993.  Interim  unaudited
historical  data which in the opinion of management  of the Company  reflect all
adjustments  (consisting only of normal recurring  adjustments)  necessary for a
fair  presentation of such data, and unaudited results of operations for the six
months ended June 30, 1998 and 1997, are not  necessarily  indicative of results
which may be expected for any other  interim  period or for the fiscal year as a
whole.

         The following selected  historical  consolidated  financial data of the
Life  Company for the years ended  December  31,  1997,  1996 and 1995 and as of
December  31, 1997 and 1996 has been derived  from the  historical  consolidated
audited  financial  statements  of the  Life  Company  and  should  be  read  in
conjunction with such financial  statements and the notes thereto,  set forth in
Annex C to this Proxy Statement.  The selected historical consolidated financial
data of the Life Company for the year ended December 31, 1994 and as of December
31, 1995 has been derived from the  historical  consolidated  audited  financial
statements of the Life Company.  The selected  historical  financial data of the
Life  Company for the six months ended June 30, 1998 and 1997 and as of December
31, 1994 and as of June 30, 1998 and 1997 has been derived  from the  historical
unaudited  consolidated  financial  statements  of the  Life  Company.  The Life
Company  believes  that  such  unaudited   financial  data  fairly  reflect  the
consolidated  results of operations and the consolidated  financial condition of
the Life Company for such periods.  Interim  unaudited  historical data which in
the  opinion  of  management  of  the  Life  Company   reflect  all  adjustments
(consisting  only  of  normal  recurring   adjustments)  necessary  for  a  fair
presentation  of such data,  and  unaudited  results of  operations  for the six
months ended June 30, 1998 and 1997, are not  necessarily  indicative of results
which may be expected for any other  interim  period or for the fiscal year as a
whole.  The consolidated  financial  statements for the Life Company prepared in
accordance with GAAP and the selected historical consolidated financial data for
the year ended  December 31, 1993 and as of December 31, 1993 are not  available
because, during 1997, the Life Company's financial statements for 1996, 1995 and
1994 were,  for the first time,  converted to and presented in  conformity  with
GAAP.  Previously,  the Life  Company's  financial  statements  and those of its
subsidiary  were  presented in accordance  with statutory  accounting  practices
prescribed  or permitted by the  Insurance  Department of the State of New York.
This data should be read in  conjunction  with the  financial  statements of the
Life Company set forth in Annex C to this Proxy Statement, and notes thereto and
other financial information, as well as "Management's Discussion and Analysis of
Financial  Condition and Results of  Operations  of the Life  Company"  included
elsewhere herein.
                                   8
<PAGE>
                 Selected Consolidated Financial Data of the Company
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

                                          Six Months
                                            Ended
                                           June 30,                                   Year Ended December 31,
                                     --------------------        ---------------------------------------------------------------
                                     1998            1997         1997           1996           1995          1994          1993
                                     ----            ----         ----           ----           ----          ----          ----   
                                                                 (dollars in millions, except per share data)

Statement of Income Data:
Revenues:
<S>                                 <C>            <C>           <C>            <C>             <C>           <C>              <C>  
   Premiums....................     $87.7          $70.7         $149.2          $130.8          $116.9        $101.5         $96.7
   Net investment income.......       9.5            8.9           18.1            15.9            14.3          13.2          13.8
   Net realized investment gains
      (losses), net............       0.4            5.5            5.4            (0.6)            0.9           1.3          (0.2)
   Other income(1).............       0.5            0.5            1.0             0.9             0.9           0.7           0.7
                                -------------   -------------  -------------  -------------  -------------   -------------  --------
      Total revenues...........      98.1           85.6          173.7           147.0           133.0         116.7         111.0
                                -------------   -------------  -------------  -------------  -------------   -------------  --------
Losses and expenses:
   Losses and loss
      adjustment expenses......      66.1           49.7          103.3           95.0            83.2           82.7          73.2
   Underwriting expenses.......      23.6           21.0           43.3           39.5            36.1           29.1          26.8
   Early retiremen
      program expense..........        -              -              -             1.2              -              -             -
   Interest and other expense..       0.1            0.2            0.4            0.5             0.3            0.3           0.3
                                -------------   -------------  -------------  -------------  -------------   -------------  --------
     Total losses and expenses..     89.8           70.9          147.0          136.2           119.6          112.1         100.3
                                -------------   -------------  -------------  -------------  -------------   -------------  --------
Income before federal income tax
   and extraordinary item......       8.3           14.7           26.7           10.8            13.4            4.6          10.7
Federal income tax expense.....       2.6            4.9            9.2            3.3             4.6            1.3           3.1
                                -------------   -------------  -------------  -------------  -------------   -------------  --------
Income before
   extraordinary item.........        5.7            9.8           17.5            7.5             8.8            3.3           7.6
Extraordinary
   item-demutualization expene         -              -              -             1.5              -              -              -
                                -------------   -------------  -------------  -------------  -------------   -------------  --------
Net income....................       $5.7           $9.8          $17.5           $6.0            $8.8           $3.3          $7.6
                                -------------   -------------  -------------  -------------  -------------   -------------  --------
                                -------------   -------------  -------------  -------------  -------------   -------------  --------
Income before extraordinary item
   per share-basic............      $1.09          $1.86          $3.33          $1.90           $2.95          $1.10         $2.53
                                -------------   -------------  -------------  -------------  -------------   -------------  --------
                                -------------   -------------  -------------  -------------  -------------   -------------  --------
Income before extraordinary item
   per share-diluted..........      $1.08          $1.86          $3.32          $1.90           $2.95          $1.10         $2.53
                               -------------   -------------  -------------  -------------  -------------   -------------  ---------
                               -------------   -------------  -------------  -------------  -------------   -------------  ---------
Net income per share-basic....      $1.09          $1.86          $3.33          $1.51           $2.95          $1.10         $2.53
                                -------------   -------------  -------------  -------------  -------------   -------------  --------
                                -------------   -------------  -------------  -------------  -------------   -------------  --------
Net income per share-diluted...     $1.08          $1.86          $3.32          $1.51           $2.95          $1.10         $2.53
                                -------------   -------------  -------------  -------------  -------------   -------------  --------
                                -------------   -------------  -------------  -------------  -------------   -------------  --------
Diluted weighted average shares   
 outstanding(2)..............    5,307,442       5,253,813     5,270,947      3,979,115       3,000,000      3,000,000     3,000,000
Balance Sheet Data (at period end):
Total investments..............     $292.5         $255.6         $280.4         $244.7          $207.9         $170.6       $177.7
Total assets...................      394.4          347.3          371.2          321.8           280.3          244.7        244.1
Long term debt.................        -              1.3            1.3            1.3             2.7            2.7          2.8
Total liabilities..............      265.1          235.9          248.0          216.8           210.9          195.7        183.6
Total equity...................      129.3          111.4          123.2          105.0            69.4           49.0         60.5
Book value per share...........      24.61          21.21          23.46          20.00           23.13          16.33        20.17
GAAP Ratios:
Loss and loss adjustment expense
   ratio(3)....................      75.4%          70.3%          69.2%          72.6%           71.1%          81.5%         75.7%
Underwriting expense ratio(4)..      26.9%          29.7%          29.0%          30.2%           30.8%          28.7%         27.7%
Combined ratio(5)..............     102.3%         100.0%          98.2%         102.8%          101.9%         110.2%        103.4%
Statutory Ratios:
Statutory combined ratio(6)....      99.8%          96.5%          95.6%         101.8%          101.0%         108.9%        104.2%
Statutory surplus..............     $98.3          $86.8          $94.6          $83.2           $55.9          $42.9         $39.1
Ratio of annual net written 
   premiums to statutory 
   surplus(7)..................      1.79x          1.61x          1.68x          1.61x           2.16x          2.46x         .52x
- ------------------------------
</TABLE>

(Footnotes begin on following page)
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<PAGE>
(1)  Primarily  represents  service  fee income on the  Company's  property  and
     casualty insurance business.

(2)  Gives  effect  to  the   allocation   of   3,000,000   shares  to  eligible
     policyholders on July 26, 1996 pursuant to FFCIC's conversion from a mutual
     company to a stockholder owned company.

(3)  Calculated by dividing losses and loss adjustment expenses by premiums.

(4)  Calculated by dividing underwriting expenses by premiums.

(5)  The sum of the loss and loss adjustment  expense ratio and the underwriting
     expense ratio.

(6)  The sum of the loss and loss  adjustment  expense  ratio  and the  ratio of
     statutory underwriting expense divided by net written premium.

(7)  Calculated  by dividing  statutory  net written  premiums for the period by
     statutory surplus at the end of the period.
                                   10
<PAGE>

                Selected Consolidated Financial Data of the Life Company
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

                                                                   Six Months
                                                                      Ended
                                                                     June 30                        Year Ended December 31,
                                                                     -------              -----------------------------------------
                                                                1998         1997         1997         1996         1995       1994
                                                                ----         ----         ----         ----         ----       ----
                                                                            (dollars in millions, except per share data)
Statement of Income Data:
Revenues:
   Premiums from life and health
<S>                                                             <C>          <C>          <C>          <C>          <C>        <C>  
      operations(1)........................................     $15.5        $15.2        $30.5        $30.3        $29.4      $35.9
   Policy and contract charges.............................       2.4          2.6          5.0          5.0          4.5        4.2
                                                            -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  -------
      Total policy revenues................................      17.9         17.8         35.5         35.3         33.9       40.1
   Premiums from property/casualty operations(2)...........       -            4.3          9.0          9.5          9.3        9.8
   Net investment income...................................      27.8         27.5         55.0         55.7         52.6       49.5
   Realized investment gains...............................       1.7          3.0          2.9          0.3          5.6        4.4
   Other income............................................       0.5          0.5          1.1          0.9          0.9        0.9
                                                            -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  -------
      Total revenues.......................................      47.9         53.1        103.5        101.7        102.3      104.7
                                                            -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  -------
Benefits and expenses:
   Benefits to policyholders...............................      13.3         14.6         26.8         27.0         26.8       26.8
   Losses and loss adjustment expenses
      on property/casualty operations......................       0.9          3.8         10.0          7.8          6.9        7.7
   Operating expenses......................................       4.1          3.5          7.7          8.8          9.0        9.2
   Non-recurring charges(3)................................       0.2            -          0.7          0.9            -          -
   Interest credited to policyholders......................      11.3         13.1         24.8         24.6         26.5       24.0
   Amortization of policy acquisition costs................       3.6          3.4          6.9          6.9          7.3        7.1
   Participating policyholders' interest(4)................      12.2         11.8         21.6         21.2         19.1       22.7
                                                            -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  -------
      Total benefits and expenses..........................      45.6         50.2         98.5         97.2         95.6       97.5
                                                            -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  -------
Income before income taxes.................................       2.3          2.9          5.0          4.5          6.7        7.2
Income tax expense.........................................       0.8          1.0          1.7          1.5          2.3        2.4
                                                            -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  -------
Net income attributable to common
   stockholders............................................      $1.5         $1.9         $3.3         $3.0         $4.4       $4.8
                                                            -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  -------
                                                            -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  -------
Net income per common share................................     $25.96       $31.76       $55.66       $49.17       $73.97    $79.54
                                                            -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  -------
                                                            -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  -------

Weighted average shares outstanding........................     60,011       60,011       60,011       60,011       60,011    60,011
Balance Sheet Data (at period end):
Total investments..........................................     $797.6       $736.1       $780.8       $726.5       $717.5    $599.8
Total assets...............................................      855.3        817.4        843.9        800.8        779.1     685.2
Participating policyholders' interest(4)...................      113.9        100.2        109.6         96.5         99.6      69.9
Total liabilities..........................................      814.9        780.6        804.8        766.1        746.7     657.1
Total equity...............................................       40.4         36.8         39.1         34.7         32.4      28.1
Book value per share.......................................     673.54       612.70       651.60       577.99       540.60    468.21
</TABLE>
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(1)      Premiums for life and health  operations  in 1994 include $10.6 million
         of premium for group major medical  insurance.  The Life Company ceased
         writing this line of business  during 1994,  accordingly  premiums from
         group  major  medical  were zero for 1997,  1996,  1995 and for the six
         months ended June 30, 1998 and 1997.

(2)      Premiums from  property/casualty  operations prior to 1998 were assumed
         from FFCIC pursuant to a reinsurance agreement between United and FFCIC
         which was terminated effective December 31, 1997.

(3)      The Life  Company  recorded a  non-recurring  charge for the six months
         ended  June 30,  1998  and for the  year  ended  December  31,  1997 of
         $176,000  and  $707,000,   respectively,  for  costs  incurred  by  the
         shareholders of the Life Company relating to the Acquisition.  In 1996,
         the Life Company  recorded a  nonrecurring  expense of $914,000 for its
         share of the costs relating to the  implementation of a voluntary early
         retirement program offered to certain eligible employees.

(4)       The majority of the Life Company's  insurance  policies are written on
          "participating"  basis,  as  defined  in the New York  Insurance  Law.
          Profits earned on participating  business are reserved for the payment
          of dividends to policyholders  except for the  stockholders'  share of
          profits on participating policies,  which is limited to the greater of
          10% of the statutory profit on participating business, or 50 cents per
          thousand dollars of the face amount of participating life insurance in
          force. Participating  policyholders' interest includes the accumulated
          net income from  participating  policies  reserved for payment to such
          policyholders  in the form of dividends (less net income  allocated to
          stockholders as indicated  above) as well as a pro rata portion of net
          unrealized  investment gains (losses).  Dividends to policyholders are
          approved  by the  Board of  Directors  based on the net  income of the
          participating  policies.  In  addition  to the  greater  of 10% of the
          statutory  profit on  participating  business or 50 cents per thousand
          dollars of the face amount of  participating  life insurance in force,
          earnings  attributable to common  stockholders  consist of earnings on
          non-participating  business  and a pro rata  share  of net  investment
          income and realized investment gains (losses).
                                   11
<PAGE>
                    UNAUDITED PRO FORMA SELECTED FINANCIAL DATA

         The   following   table  sets  forth   selected   unaudited  pro  forma
consolidated  financial  information  for the six months ended June 30, 1998 and
the year ended  December 31, 1997,  giving effect to the  Acquisition  using the
purchase method of accounting. See "The  Acquisition-Accounting  Treatment." The
Statement of Income and Per Common Share Data give effect to the  Acquisition as
if the  Acquisition  occurred at January 1, 1997.  The balance  sheet data gives
effect to the  Acquisition as if the  Acquisition had occurred at June 30, 1998.
The pro forma information is provided for informational purposes only and is not
necessarily  indicative of actual  results that would have been achieved had the
Acquisition  been  consummated  at the beginning of the periods  presented or of
future results.  The selected pro forma  consolidated  financial  information is
derived  from  the  pro  forma  consolidated   financial  information  appearing
elsewhere  herein.  This  information  should  be read in  conjunction  with the
consolidated  financial statements of the Company,  including the notes thereto,
incorporated by reference herein, the consolidated  financial  statements of the
Life  Company,  including the notes  thereto,  attached as Annex C to this Proxy
Statement,  and the  unaudited  pro forma  consolidated  financial  information,
including  the  notes  thereto,   appearing  elsewhere  herein.  See  "Available
Information," "Incorporation of Documents by Reference" and "Unaudited Pro Forma
Consolidated Financial Information."
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                                                    Six Months Ended                 Year Ended
                                                                                     June 30, 1998                 December 31, 1997
                                                                                    ----------------               -----------------
                                                                                      (dollars in millions, except per share data)
Statement of Income Data:
Revenues:
<S>                                                                                        <C>                           <C>   
Premiums from property/casualty operations.................................                $87.7                         $158.2
Premiums from life and health operations...................................                 15.5                           30.5
Net investment income......................................................                 37.3                           73.0
Realized investment gains (losses), net....................................                  2.1                            8.3
Policy and contract charges................................................                  2.4                            5.1
Other income...............................................................                  0.6                            1.4
                                                                                ----------------------  ----------------------------
      Total revenues.......................................................                145.6                          276.5
                                                                                ----------------------  ----------------------------
Losses, benefits and expenses:
Losses and loss adjustment expenses........................................                 67.0                          113.3
Benefits to policyholders..................................................                 13.3                           26.8
Underwriting & operating expenses..........................................                 27.3                           50.4
Non-recurring charges......................................................                  0.2                            0.7
Interest credited to policyholders.........................................                 11.3                           24.8
Amortization of present value of future profits............................                  0.9                            2.2
Interest and other expense.................................................                  0.1                            0.4
Participating Policyholders' Interest......................................                 14.6                           25.7
                                                                                ----------------------  ----------------------------
      Total losses, benefits and expenses..................................                134.7                          244.3
                                                                                ----------------------  ----------------------------
Income before federal income tax expense...................................                 10.9                           32.2
Federal income tax expense.................................................                  3.4                           11.1
                                                                                ----------------------  ----------------------------
Income before preferred stock dividends....................................                  7.5                           21.1
Preferred stock dividends..................................................                  0.2                            0.4
                                                                                ----------------------  ----------------------------
Income applicable to common shareholders...................................                 $7.3                          $20.7
                                                                                ---------------------  -----------------------------
                                                                                ---------------------  -----------------------------
Net income per common share-basic..........................................                $1.15                          $3.30
                                                                                ----------------------  ----------------------------
                                                                                ----------------------  ----------------------------
Net income per common share-diluted........................................                $1.14                          $3.29
                                                                                ----------------------  ----------------------------
                                                                                ----------------------  ----------------------------

Weighted average shares-basic(1)...........................................             6,286,607                      6,286,607
Weighted average shares-diluted(1).........................................             6,340,236                      6,303,741
Balance Sheet Data (at period end):
Total investments..........................................................             $1,090.1                              -
Total assets...............................................................              1,224.8                              -
Participating policyholders' interest......................................                113.9                              -
Total liabilities..........................................................              1,059.0                              -
Redeemable preferred stock.................................................                  5.8                              -
Total equity...............................................................                160.0                              -
Book value per share(1)....................................................                 25.45                             -
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</TABLE>
(1)  Weighted  average  shares and book value per share are  computed  as if the
     Closing of the  Acquisition  had occurred on October 16, 1998, and assuming
     an Average Closing Price of $29 23/32. The actual Average Closing Price and
     the  actual  number of shares  of Common  Stock  that will be issued to the
     Selling  Stockholders may vary significantly  from these amounts.  See "The
     Acquisition-Exercise Price."
                                   12
<PAGE>
                        COMPARATIVE PER SHARE DATA

         The following table presents comparative per share data for the Company
on a historical and pro forma  consolidated  basis and for the Life Company on a
historical and equivalent pro forma consolidated basis based upon the historical
financial  statements of the Company and the Life  Company.  The Company has not
paid any cash dividends.  Pro forma consolidated  information is not necessarily
indicative  of actual or future  operating  results or financial  position  that
would have  occurred or will occur upon  consummation  of the  Acquisition.  The
information presented below should be read in conjunction with the unaudited pro
forma consolidated financial information,  including the notes thereto, included
elsewhere  herein,  the  historical  consolidated  financial  statements  of the
Company, including the notes thereto,  incorporated by reference herein, and the
historical consolidated financial statements of the Life Company,  including the
notes  thereto,  attached  as Annex C to this Proxy  Statement.  See  "Available
Information,"     "Incorporation    of    Documents    by    Reference,"    "The
Acquisition-Accounting   Treatment"  and   "Unaudited  Pro  Forma   Consolidated
Financial Information."

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

                                                                                              Six
                                                                                         Months Ended               Year Ended
                                                                                         June 30, 1998          December 31, 1997
                                                                                         -------------          -----------------

Company Common Stock
Historical:
<S>                                                                                          <C>                        <C>  
Net income per share(1)............................................................          $1.08                      $3.32
Book value per share(2)............................................................          24.61                      23.46
Cash dividends declared per share(3)...............................................           0.00                       0.00
Pro forma consolidated:
Net income per share(4)............................................................          $1.14                      $3.29
Book value per share(5)............................................................          25.45                      24.49
Cash dividends declared per share..................................................           0.00                       0.00
Life Company Common Stock
Historical:
Net income per share(1)............................................................         $25.96                     $55.66
Book value per share(2)............................................................         673.54                     651.60
Cash dividends declared per share(6)...............................................           0.00                       8.00
Equivalent pro forma consolidated(7):
Net income per share...............................................................         $19.62                     $56.62
Book value per share...............................................................         437.99                     421.47
Cash dividends declared per share..................................................           0.00                       0.00
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</TABLE>

(1)  Historical  net income per share data for the Company and the Life  Company
     is computed by dividing historical net income for the six months ended June
     30, 1998 and the year ended  December 31, 1997 for the Company and the Life
     Company,  as the case may be, by the diluted weighted average common shares
     outstanding  for the Company and the Life Company,  as the case may be, for
     the six months ended June 30, 1998 and the year ended December 31, 1997.

(2)  Historical  book value per share data for the Company and the Life  Company
     is computed by dividing historical stockholders' equity as of June 30, 1998
     and December 31, 1997 for the Company and the Life Company, as the case may
     be, by the  number of shares of Common  Stock  outstanding  of the  Company
     (5,253,813  shares) and the number of common shares outstanding of the Life
     Company (60,011 shares),  as the case may be, at June 30, 1998 and December
     31, 1997.

(3)  The Company has never paid cash  dividends on shares of Common  Stock.  See
     "-Market Prices and Dividend Information."

Footnotes continued on following page
                                   13
<PAGE>
Footnotes continued from previous page

(4)  Pro forma  consolidated net income per share for the Company is computed by
     dividing  pro forma net income for the six months  ended June 30,  1998 and
     the year ended December 31, 1997 by pro forma consolidated diluted weighted
     average  shares of Common  Stock  outstanding.  Pro forma net income  gives
     effect to the Acquisition by consolidating  the statements of income of the
     Company and the Life Company for the six months ended June 30, 1998 and the
     year ended December 31, 1997 under the purchase  method of accounting as if
     the Acquisition had occurred on January 1, 1997.


(5)  Pro forma  consolidated book value per share for the Company is computed by
     dividing pro forma stockholders'  equity by the sum of the number of shares
     of Common Stock  outstanding  as of June 30, 1998 and December 31, 1997, as
     the case may be, and an  estimated  1,032,794  shares of Common Stock to be
     issued in the Acquisition assuming an Average Closing Price of $29 23/32 if
     the Closing had occurred on October 16, 1998.  The actual  Average  Closing
     Price and the actual  number of shares of Common  Stock that will be issued
     to the Selling  Stockholders may vary significantly from these amounts. See
     "The Acquisition-Exercise Price." The Company has never paid cash dividends
     on shares of Common Stock. See "-Market Prices and Dividend Information."

(6)  Historical  cash  dividends  declared  per  share for the Life  Company  is
     computed by dividing historical cash dividends declared as of June 30, 1998
     and  December  31,  1997 for the Life  Company,  as the case may be, by the
     number of shares of common stock  outstanding  of the Life Company  (60,011
     shares),  as the case may be, at June 30, 1998 and December  31, 1997.  See
     "-Market Prices and Dividend Information."

(7)  Equivalent pro forma  consolidated net income,  cash dividends declared and
     book value per share for the Life Company  represent  pro forma net income,
     cash  dividends  declared  and book  value per  share,  as the case may be,
     multiplied by an assumed  exchange  ratio of 17.21,  which  represents  the
     ratio of the number of shares of Common  Stock  issued in exchange  for one
     share of Life Company common stock assuming an Average Closing Price of $29
     23/32. The Company has never paid cash dividends on shares of Common Stock.
     See "-Market Prices and Dividend Information."

MARKET PRICES AND DIVIDEND INFORMATION

         The Company

         The  Common  Stock is traded on the NYSE  under the  symbol  "FFH." The
following  table  sets  forth the high and low  sales  price per share of Common
Stock on the consolidated  transaction reporting system, as reported on the NYSE
Composite Tape,  with respect to each quarterly  period since July 26, 1996, the
date of the Company's initial public offering.
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>


                                                                                                  High     Low

1996
                                                                                                   
<S>                                                                                                <C>      <C>
          Third Quarter......................................................................   $19 1/8   $16 1/2                   
          Fourth Quarter.....................................................................    20 1/2    18 1/8
1997                                                                                                         
          First Quarter......................................................................   $23 1/2   $19 1/2   
          Second Quarter.....................................................................    27 7/8    22 1/8
          Third Quarter......................................................................    32 1/8    27 7/8 
          Fourth Quarter.....................................................................    32 9/16   29 1/4
1998                                                                                                   
          First Quarter......................................................................   $38 3/4   $31 5/8    
          Second Quarter.....................................................................    42 5/8    38 9/16
          Third Quarter......................................................................    40 5/8    29 1/4 
          Fourth Quarter (through October 20, 1998)..........................................    29 3/4    28 5/8
</TABLE>
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         On February  26,  1998,  the last full  trading day prior to the public
announcement  of the  Company's  exercise  of the Option  pursuant to the Option
Purchase  Agreement,  the  closing  price per share of Common  Stock on the NYSE
Composite  Tape was $34 1/8 per share.  On October  20,  1998,  the most  recent
available  date prior to printing  this Proxy  Statement,  the reported  closing
price of Common Stock on the NYSE Composite Tape was $28 15/16 per share.  There
were approximately  28,346 registered holders of the Common Stock at October 20,
1998. Stockholders should obtain current market quotations for the Common Stock.

         The Company has never paid cash  dividends  on shares of Common  Stock.
The  Company  currently  intends to retain any  earnings in order to develop its
business and support its  operations,  and, as such, does not anticipate that it
will  pay  any  dividends  to  stockholders  in  the  foreseeable   future.  The
declaration  and payment of dividends in the future are at the discretion of the
Board of Directors of the Company, are subject to certain regulatory constraints
and will depend upon, among other things,  the Company's  results of operations,
financial condition, cash requirements, future prospects and other factors.

         The Life Company

         The Life Company's  common stock is privately held and therefore is not
registered or traded on a securities exchange and there is no established public
trading  market for the Life  Company's  common  stock.  As of October 20, 1998,
there were ten holders of record of the Life Company's common stock.

         For each of the years ended December 31, 1995, 1996, and 1997, the Life
Company  paid an  annual  dividend  of $8.00  per  share of  common  stock.  The
declaration  and payment of dividends in the future are at the discretion of the
Board of  Directors  of the Life  Company,  are  subject to  certain  regulatory
constraints and will depend upon, among other things, the Life Company's results
of operations,  financial  condition,  cash  requirements,  future prospects and
other factors.
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                          THE SPECIAL MEETING

Date, Time and Place

     The Special  Meeting  will be held on  Wednesday,  December 2, 1998 at 9:00
a.m., New York time, at the corporate  headquarters  of the Company at 344 Route
9W, Glenmont, New York.

Purpose of the Special Meeting

     At the  Special  Meeting,  the  Company's  stockholders  will be  asked  to
consider  and vote upon (i) a proposal to approve and adopt the Option  Purchase
Agreement and (ii) a proposal to approve the  consummation  of the  transactions
contemplated by the Option Purchase  Agreement.  See "The  Acquisition" and "The
Option Purchase Agreement."

     The consummation of the transactions under the Option Purchase Agreement is
subject to  stockholder  approval  pursuant to the terms of the Option  Purchase
Agreement.  The  Company  is also  seeking  stockholder  approval  of the Option
Purchase Agreement in order to obtain  stockholder  ratification of changes made
to the  Original  Option  Purchase  Agreement by the Option  Purchase  Agreement
including,  without  limitation,  the  reduction  in the  vote of the  Company's
stockholders   required  to  approve  the   consummation  of  the   transactions
contemplated  by  the  Option  Purchase  Agreement.  See  "The  Option  Purchase
Agreement-Changes to Original Option Purchase Agreement."

     The Board of Directors  knows of no matters  that are to be brought  before
the Special Meeting other than as set forth in the Notice of Special Meeting. If
any other matters properly come before the Special Meeting,  including,  without
limitation, a motion to adjourn the Special Meeting to another time or place for
the purpose of soliciting  additional proxies, the persons named in the enclosed
form of proxy or their  substitutes  will vote in  accordance  with  their  best
judgment on such matters.  Notwithstanding the foregoing, proxies voting against
a specific proposal will not be used by the persons named in the proxies to vote
for  adjournment of the Special  Meeting for the purpose of allowing  additional
time to solicit votes to approve such proposal.

     If the Special  Meeting is postponed or  adjourned  for any reason,  at any
subsequent  reconvening of the Special  Meeting all proxies will be voted in the
same manner as such proxies  would have been voted at the original  convening of
the Special  Meeting (except for any proxies that have  theretofore  effectively
been revoked or withdrawn),  notwithstanding that they may have been effectively
voted on the same or any other matter at a previous meeting.

     The Board of  Directors  of the Company has  approved  the Option  Purchase
Agreement  and the  Company's  exercise  of the Option and  recommends  that the
stockholders of the Company vote FOR approval of the Option  Purchase  Agreement
and consummation of the transactions contemplated therein.

Record Date; Shares Outstanding and Entitled to Vote

     The Record Date and hour for determining  stockholders  entitled to receive
notice  of and to vote at the  Special  Meeting  has been  fixed at the close of
business on October 23,  1998.  Only holders of record of the Common Stock as of
the Record Date are entitled to notice of and to vote at the Special Meeting. As
of the Record Date, there were 5,253,813 shares of Common Stock  outstanding and
entitled to vote, with each share entitled to one vote.

Required Vote

     The proposal to approve and adopt the Option  Purchase  Agreement  requires
the  affirmative  vote of a majority of the  outstanding  shares of Common Stock
present in person or by proxy at the Special  Meeting.  The  proposal to approve
the  consummation  of  the  transactions  contemplated  in the  Option  Purchase
Agreement  requires the affirmative vote of a majority of the outstanding shares
of Common Stock present in person or by proxy at the Special Meeting,  provided,
that  under  the rules of the NYSE,  if  shares  of  Common  Stock and  Series A
Preferred Stock representing more than 20% of the shares of Common Stock or the
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voting power of the Common Stock  outstanding  prior to the Acquisition would be
issued in the  Acquisition,  then such proposal will further require that 50% in
interest of all shares of Common Stock entitled to vote actually be voted at the
Special  Meeting.  Three days prior to the proposed  Closing of the Acquisition,
the Company will issue a press  release  disclosing  whether  such  proposal has
carried  under the  applicable  required  vote.  The  presence,  in person or by
properly  executed proxy, of the holders of one-third of the outstanding  shares
of  Common  Stock  entitled  to vote at the  Special  Meeting  is  necessary  to
constitute a quorum of the holders of Common Stock at the Special Meeting.

     The  effectiveness  of the  proposal  relating to the  consummation  of the
transactions  contemplated by the Option Purchase  Agreement is conditioned upon
the  approval of the proposal  relating to the  adoption of the Option  Purchase
Agreement.

     As of the Record Date, the Company's  directors and other  stockholders  of
the Company whose shares may be deemed beneficially owned by such directors held
less than 1.0% of the outstanding shares of Common Stock entitled to vote at the
Special  Meeting.  Such  directors of the Company have  indicated to the Company
that they intend to vote for approval of the  proposals to approve and adopt the
Option Purchase  Agreement and to approve the  consummation of the  transactions
contemplated therein.

     In the event that the  Company  fails to obtain the  requisite  stockholder
approvals,  the Company will either re-solicit  stockholder  approval or abandon
the transaction.

Voting and Revocation of Proxies

     Stockholders are requested to complete,  date, sign and promptly return the
accompanying  form of proxy in the  enclosed  envelope.  Shares of Common  Stock
represented by properly executed proxies received by the Company and not revoked
will be  voted at the  Special  Meeting  in  accordance  with  the  instructions
contained  therein.  If  instructions  are not given,  proxies will be voted FOR
approval  and  adoption of the Option  Purchase  Agreement  and  approval of the
consummation of transactions  contemplated  therein. In accordance with Delaware
law, abstentions will, while broker nonvotes will not, be treated as present for
purposes of  determining  whether a proposal has received  sufficient  votes for
adoption.  A  broker  nonvote  is a  proxy  submitted  by  a  broker  for  which
instructions  have not been  received  from the  beneficial  owners  or  persons
entitled  to  vote  and  with   respect  to  which  the  broker  does  not  have
discretionary authority to vote on a particular matter.

     Any proxy signed and returned by a  stockholder  may be revoked at any time
before it is voted by filing with the  Secretary of the Company,  at Farm Family
Holdings,  Inc., P.O. Box 656, Albany, New York 12201-0656,  if sent by mail, or
344 Route 9W,  Glenmont,  New York 12077, if by hand,  express mail or overnight
courier,  written  notice of such  revocation or a duly executed proxy bearing a
later date or by attending the Special Meeting and voting in person.  Attendance
at the Special  Meeting  will not in and of itself  constitute  revocation  of a
proxy.

Proxy Solicitation

     The Company will bear the cost of soliciting  proxies from its stockholders
and will enlist the help of banks and  brokerage  houses in  soliciting  proxies
from  their  customers.  In  addition  to the use of the mails,  proxies  may be
solicited  personally  or by telephone by the  directors,  officers,  agents and
employees of the Company or its  subsidiaries.  Such directors and officers will
not receive  additional  compensation,  but may be reimbursed for  out-of-pocket
expenses in  connection  with such  solicitation.  Such agents and employees may
receive additional  compensation,  in an aggregate amount not expected to exceed
$5,000, and may be reimbursed for out-of-pocket expenses in connection with such
solicitation.  The  Company has  engaged  Georgeson & Company  Inc. to assist in
soliciting  proxies  for  a  fee  of  approximately   $6,000,   plus  reasonable
out-of-pocket expenses.
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                            THE ACQUISITION

     The following  description  contains certain information  pertaining to the
Company's  proposed  acquisition of the Life Company.  Reference is made to, and
this description is qualified in its entirety by, the more detailed  information
contained in the annexes hereto, including the Option Purchase Agreement, a copy
of which  is  attached  as Annex A to this  Proxy  Statement,  and the  fairness
opinion,  a copy of which is  attached  as Annex B to the Proxy  Statement.  All
stockholders are urged to read the annexes in their entirety.

General 

     The Company and the Selling  Stockholders  entered into the Original Option
Purchase  Agreement on February 14, 1996 in connection  with the  reorganization
and conversion of Farm Family Mutual from a mutual to a stock insurance  company
(the "Reorganization").  Pursuant to the Original Option Purchase Agreement, the
Company was granted an option to acquire the Life Company in exchange for shares
of the  Company's  capital  stock for a two-year  period  commencing on July 26,
1996, the effective date of the Reorganization, and ending on July 26, 1998 (the
"Expiration Date"),  unless extended for an additional year by agreement between
the  parties.  On February 26,  1998,  the Company and the Selling  Stockholders
entered  into the Option  Purchase  Agreement,  which  amended and  restated the
Original  Option  Purchase  Agreement.  On April 28,  1998,  the Company and the
Selling   Stockholders   further  amended  the  Option  Purchase  Agreement.   A
description of the material  differences  between the Original  Option  Purchase
Agreement and the Option Purchase Agreement is set forth below under "The Option
Purchase Agreement-Changes to Original Option Purchase Agreement."

         Under the Option Purchase  Agreement,  the exercise price of the Option
is the fair market value of the Life  Company  Shares as of the date the Company
first provided notice to the Selling  Stockholders  that it proposed to exercise
the Option (the "Fair Market  Value"),  determined in accordance  with specified
valuation  procedures and assumptions set forth in the Option Purchase Agreement
(the  "Valuation  Procedures"),  less  certain  expenses.  The  Option  Purchase
Agreement  requires the Company and, if necessary,  the Selling  Stockholders to
obtain  separate  valuations of the Fair Market Value,  determined in accordance
with  the  Valuation  Procedures,   by  investment  banking  firms  of  national
reputation.  The  Valuation  Procedures  generally  provide that the Fair Market
Value is based on the fully distributed, independent, public market value of the
Life  Company  Shares,   without  giving  effect  to  the  percentage  ownership
represented  by the Life Company  Shares being  valued  (individually  or in the
aggregate),  the  aggregate  amount of the  valuation of the Life Company or the
relationship  between the Life Company and FFCIC,  including the Life  Company's
lack of  stand-alone  management,  infrastructure  or  distribution  system.  In
determining such value, the Valuation Procedures also provide that consideration
may be given  to the  trading  value  of the  publicly  traded  common  stock of
comparable companies as well as any other valuation methods or criteria that are
deemed  relevant.  As  discussed  more fully  below  under  "-Background  of the
Acquisition," the Negotiating Committee and the Selling Stockholders  negotiated
the Fair Market Value of $37.5 million at  arm's-length,  in  consultation  with
their  financial  advisors  and  other  representatives,   based  upon  separate
valuations prepared by such financial advisors determined in accordance with the
Valuation Procedures.

Background of the Acquisition

     Farm Family Mutual and the Life Company considered the possibility, as part
of the Reorganization, of bringing these two affiliated companies under a common
ownership  structure.  The  achievement  of such common  ownership  prior to the
effective  date of the  Reorganization  was not  practical  due, in part, to the
difficulty  of  valuing  the Life  Company  at that  time.  The  Life  Company's
financial  statements  were,  at that time,  prepared  only in  accordance  with
statutory  accounting  principles  prescribed  or  permitted  by  the  New  York
Insurance Department (the "New York Insurance Department"). The Company believed
that such financial statements did not provide an adequate basis to determine an
appropriate  valuation  for the  Life  Company.  Financial  statements  prepared
according to GAAP for the Life Company were not expected to be available until
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after the  effective  date of the  Reorganization.  The  Company and the Selling
Stockholders did, however, enter into the Original Option Purchase Agreement.

     Salomon  Smith  Barney was  retained  by the Company on February 1, 1996 to
provide investment banking advice, including a valuation of the Life Company, in
connection  with the Original  Option  Purchase  Agreement  and to render to the
Company, at its request,  an opinion as to the fairness,  from a financial point
of view, to the Company of the exercise price for each Life Company  Share.  See
"-Opinion  of  the   Company's   Financial   Advisor."  On  December  13,  1996,
representatives of Salomon Smith Barney presented a preliminary valuation of the
Life  Company,  based  on  statutory  financial  information,  to the  Board  of
Directors of the Life Company and to the Board of Directors of FFCIC.

     At a meeting of the Board of  Directors  of the Company on April 22,  1997,
Philip P. Weber, President and Chief Executive Officer of the Company,  reviewed
the reasons for the acquisition of the Life Company with the Board of Directors.
After  discussion,  the Company's  Board of Directors  authorized the Company to
give notice to the Selling  Stockholders of the Life Company that it proposed to
exercise the Option and  instructed  Salomon  Smith Barney to determine the Fair
Market Value of the Life Company  Shares,  as of April 30, 1997,  in  accordance
with the Valuation Procedures.  The Company did not consider alternatives to the
proposed   Acquisition,   in  view  of  the  Company's  close   affiliation  and
interrelationship  with the  Life  Company  and the  Company's  belief  that the
acquisition  of the Life Company and  resulting  common  ownership  structure of
FFCIC and the Life Company could be  beneficial  to the Company by  perpetuating
the operating  efficiencies  which the two companies  currently enjoy. By letter
dated April 30, 1997,  the Company  gave notice of its proposed  exercise of the
Option (the "Election Notice") to each of the Selling Stockholders.

     During May 1997,  Salomon Smith Barney conducted due diligence with respect
to the Life  Company.  In addition to  reviewing  certain  public and  nonpublic
information concerning the Life Company, representatives of Salomon Smith Barney
met with  members of senior  management  of the Life  Company and the Company to
discuss the Life Company's  business,  financial condition and prospects and the
Company's plan for the Life Company.

     At    Salomon    Smith    Barney's    request,    the    Company    engaged
PricewaterhouseCoopers  LLP ("PWC") to perform a limited  actuarial  analysis of
the Life  Company.  On June 24, 1997,  PWC provided the Company with its written
actuarial analysis of the Life Company,  as of March 31, 1997.  Thereafter,  the
Company  provided such analysis to Salomon Smith Barney.  Although Salomon Smith
Barney  reviewed PWC's actuarial  analysis,  it did not rely on or otherwise use
the analysis for purposes of its  determination  of the Fair Market Value of the
Life Company or its fairness opinion.

         Salomon Smith Barney's  determination of the Fair Market Value included
the  reallocation  of  approximately  $21.2  million  from  the  Life  Company's
unassigned  surplus to shareholders'  surplus.  In 1979, the shareholders of the
Life Company adopted a resolution limiting the Life Company's unassigned surplus
allocated  to  shareholders  to  $4.0  million.  In  1995,  the  Life  Company's
shareholders  voted to  remove  the $4.0  million  limit on  unassigned  surplus
allocated  to  shareholders.  The  amount of  unassigned  surplus  allocated  to
shareholders as of December 31, 1995 was $7.4 million. By letter dated September
22, 1995 and subsequent correspondence,  the Life Company requested that the New
York  Insurance  Department  approve  the  reallocation  of  a  portion  of  its
unassigned surplus to shareholders' surplus. On September 16, 1996, the New York
Insurance Department approved the Life Company's proposal for fund transfer from
policyholders'  surplus to shareholders'  surplus.  As a result, on February 13,
1997, the Life Company  shareholders  approved the reallocation of approximately
$21.2 million of the Life Company's unassigned surplus to shareholders' surplus.

     On May 15, 1997,  representatives of the Company and its counsel,  LeBoeuf,
Lamb, Greene & MacRae, L.L.P. ("LeBoeuf"),  met with representatives of the Life
Insurance Bureau of the New York Insurance Department in order to inform the New
York Insurance  Department of the Company's  proposed exercise of the Option and
the proposed structure of the transaction.
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     At  the  time  the  Company  gave  the  Election   Notice  to  the  Selling
Stockholders, 21 of the Company's 23 directors,  including the Chairman and Vice
Chairman  of the  Board,  were  officers,  directors  or  both  of  the  Selling
Stockholders or their affiliates. In order to address any potential conflicts of
interest  that might  arise as a result of such  relationships,  at a meeting on
June 6, 1997,  the Board of Directors of the Company  appointed two  independent
directors,  Messrs.  John P.  Moskos and  Howard T.  Sprow,  as the  Negotiating
Committee.  The  purpose  of the  Negotiating  Committee  was to  negotiate  the
Exercise Price on behalf of the Company with the Selling Stockholders.

     On June 18, 1997,  the  Negotiating  Committee met for the first time.  The
Negotiating  Committee met with a  representative  of LeBoeuf.  The  Negotiating
Committee discussed with LeBoeuf the qualifications of LeBoeuf and Salomon Smith
Barney to act as legal  advisor and  financial  advisor,  respectively,  for the
Negotiating Committee.  Following discussion, the Negotiating Committee retained
LeBoeuf  and  Salomon  Smith  Barney  based  on  their   experience  in  similar
transactions,  their  knowledge  of the Company  and the Life  Company and their
representations  that  they  could  function  as  independent  advisors  for the
Negotiating Committee.  Thereafter, LeBoeuf provided preliminary legal advice to
the Negotiating Committee.

     On June 26, 1997, the  Negotiating  Committee met with  representatives  of
LeBoeuf and Salomon Smith Barney. The Negotiating Committee, LeBoeuf and Salomon
Smith Barney  discussed the procedures for the  determination of the Fair Market
Value of the Life Company Shares. Thereafter, the Negotiating Committee, LeBoeuf
and Salomon Smith Barney met with Mr. Weber,  James J. Bettini,  Executive  Vice
President-Operations   of  the  Company,   Timothy  A.  Walsh,   Executive  Vice
President-Finance  and  Treasurer  of the  Company,  and  Victoria  M.  Stanton,
Executive  Vice  President,  General  Counsel and  Secretary of the Company,  to
discuss historical and projected financial  information with respect to the Life
Company. The Negotiating  Committee discussed with Mr. Weber his views about the
exercise  of the Option  and the future  prospects  of the Life  Company.  After
Messrs.   Weber,   Bettini  and  Walsh  and  Ms.   Stanton   left  the  meeting,
representatives  of Salomon Smith Barney made a presentation  to the Negotiating
Committee of their calculation of the Fair Market Value of $36 million as of the
date of the Election  Notice (the  "Optionee  Valuation").  For a summary of the
Optionee Valuation and the Salomon Smith Barney  presentation to the Negotiating
Committee of the Optionee Valuation, see "-Optionee Valuation" below.

     The  Negotiating   Committee   discussed  with  the  Salomon  Smith  Barney
representatives the various methodologies Salomon Smith Barney used to calculate
the  Optionee  Valuation.  Salomon  Smith Barney then  provided the  Negotiating
Committee with a letter setting forth its calculation of the Optionee Valuation.
After  discussion,  the  Negotiating  Committee  determined  to proceed with the
proposal  to exercise  the Option on the basis of the  Optionee  Valuation,  and
directed  LeBoeuf  to  provide a copy of Salomon  Smith  Barney's  letter to the
Selling Stockholders.  By letter dated June 27, 1997, LeBoeuf provided a copy of
the  Optionee  Valuation to each  Selling  Stockholder  and notified the Selling
Stockholders that, on the basis of the Optionee Valuation, the Company continued
to propose to exercise the Option.

     In January  1996,  a  committee  of  shareholders  of the Life  Company was
established  to  review  and  address  the  proposed  Original  Option  Purchase
Agreement and the  acquisition  of the Life Company by Farm Family Mutual or its
designee.  On May  27,  1997,  the  committee  of  shareholders  retained  Dewey
Ballantine LLP ("Dewey  Ballantine")  to act as special counsel to the committee
of shareholders  in connection  with the Original Option Purchase  Agreement and
the possible sale of the Life Company.  On July 29, 1997, the Board of Directors
of the Life  Company  determined  that it was in the best  interests of the Life
Company  and  its   shareholders   to  formally   constitute  the  committee  of
shareholders  (the  "Shareholders'  Committee")  as a committee  of the Board of
Directors of the Life Company  chaired by John W. Lincoln,  President of the New
York Farm  Bureau,  Inc.  and the New York Farm  Bureau  Service  Company,  Inc.
(collectively, the "New York Farm Bureau").
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     Under the Option Purchase  Agreement,  if the Selling  Stockholders did not
agree with the Optionee  Valuation and the Company and the Selling  Stockholders
were unable to resolve the disagreement,  the Selling Stockholders were required
to select  an  investment  banking  firm of  national  standing  and  reasonably
acceptable to the Company for purposes of  determining  the Fair Market Value in
accordance with the Valuation  Procedures  (the  "Shareholder  Valuation").  The
Option Purchase Agreement provides that if the Shareholder  Valuation was within
5% (plus or minus) of the Optionee Valuation (the "Target Range"), then the Fair
Market  Value for  purposes  of the Option  Purchase  Agreement  would equal the
average  of  the  Optionee  Valuation  and  the  Shareholder  Valuation.  If the
Shareholder  Valuation was not within the Target Range, then the Company and the
Selling  Stockholders  would  use  their  reasonable  efforts  to  resolve  such
disagreement.  If the Company and the Selling Stockholders were able to agree on
a  Shareholder  Valuation  within the Target  Range  (the  "Revised  Shareholder
Valuation"),  then the Fair Market  Value for  purposes  of the Option  Purchase
Agreement  would equal the  average of the  Optionee  Valuation  and the Revised
Shareholder Valuation. If the Company and the Selling Shareholders were not able
to reach an agreement,  a third  independent  appraiser would determine the Fair
Market Value.

     On June 26, 1997, the Shareholders' Committee retained Donaldson,  Lufkin &
Jenrette  Securities  Corporation  ("DLJ") to provide the Shareholder  Valuation
pursuant to the Original Option Purchase Agreement.  In July 1997, DLJ conducted
due  diligence  with  respect  to the  Life  Company.  In  performing  such  due
diligence,  representatives  of DLJ met with members of senior management of the
Life  Company  and the  Company  and  reviewed  certain  public  and  non-public
information concerning the Life Company, including projections.

     On July 25, 1997,  Dewey  Ballantine  provided notice to the Company of the
Selling Stockholders' disagreement with the Optionee Valuation.

     On July 29, 1997, the  Negotiating  Committee met with  representatives  of
LeBoeuf and Salomon  Smith  Barney to discuss  strategies  for  negotiating  the
exercise price of the Option. The Negotiating  Committee determined to arrange a
meeting with the Shareholders' Committee to negotiate the exercise price.

     On August 20,  1997,  the  Negotiating  Committee  and  representatives  of
LeBoeuf  and  Salomon  Smith  Barney  met  with  the  Shareholders'   Committee,
representatives of Dewey Ballantine and DLJ, and representatives of the New York
Farm  Bureau and the  Massachusetts  Farm  Bureau  Service  Company,  Inc.  (the
"Massachusetts  Farm Bureau") for the purpose of negotiating  the exercise price
of the Option.  At the meeting,  Mr. Lincoln informed the Negotiating  Committee
that DLJ had concluded its valuation work and that the  Shareholders'  Committee
proposed  that the  Fair  Market  Value  be $40  million.  Mr.  Moskos,  for the
Negotiating Committee, informed the Shareholders' Committee that the Negotiating
Committee proposed a Fair Market Value of $37 million.  Upon further discussion,
Mr. Lincoln informed the Negotiating Committee that the Shareholders'  Committee
could not accept a Fair Market  Value below $39 million.  The parties  discussed
this proposal as well as certain  structural  issues relating to the transaction
for  certain  Selling  Stockholders  and the  possible  inclusion  of cash as an
element of the consideration to be paid upon exercise of the Option. The meeting
concluded without resolution of these issues.

     On September 8, 1997, Dewey  Ballantine  provided a copy of the Shareholder
Valuation to the Negotiating Committee.  The Shareholder Valuation estimated the
Fair Market Value to be  approximately  $36 million to $39 million.  Thereafter,
the Negotiating  Committee,  through a LeBoeuf  representative,  proposed a Fair
Market Value of $37.35 million to the Shareholders' Committee.

     During September,  October and November,  1997, Dewey Ballantine  evaluated
the structure of the  acquisition  on behalf of the Selling  Stockholders.  As a
result  of  this  review  and  analysis,  Dewey  Ballantine  recommended  to the
Shareholders'  Committee  that, in seeking to secure the intended  United States
Federal income tax  consequences  with respect to certain  Selling  Stockholders
that are  service  companies,  the  Company  and each such  Selling  Stockholder
execute  an  Agreement  and Plan of  Reorganization.  See  "-Federal  Income Tax
Consequences" and "The Option Purchase Agreement-Other Agreements."
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     On December  12, 1997 the  Negotiating  Committee  and  representatives  of
LeBoeuf  and  Salomon  Smith  Barney  met  with  the  Shareholders'   Committee,
representatives  of  Dewey  Ballantine  and  DLJ,  and  representatives  of  the
Massachusetts  Farm Bureau and the New York Farm Bureau. Mr. Moskos reviewed the
Negotiating Committee's offer of $37.35 million made in September 1997 and asked
for DLJ's  point  valuation  of the Fair  Market  Value on behalf of the Selling
Stockholders.  Dewey Ballantine informed the Negotiating  Committee that DLJ had
calculated  such Fair Market Value to be $38  million.  DLJ provided a copy of a
letter confirming such value to the Negotiating  Committee,  LeBoeuf and Salomon
Smith Barney.  Thereafter, the Salomon Smith Barney representative proposed that
the  Fair  Market  Value  be set at $37.5  million,  and that the  consideration
include $5 million of each of mandatory cash and preferred stock.  After a brief
recess,  Mr. Lincoln,  for the Shareholders'  Committee,  proposed a Fair Market
Value of  $37.5  million,  and that the  consideration  include  $5  million  of
mandatory  cash  and no  preferred  stock.  After  discussion,  the  Negotiating
Committee,  through  Salomon Smith Barney,  offered a Fair Market Value of $37.5
million,  and that the consideration  include $5.5 million of mandatory cash and
$6 million of optional  preferred stock. The  Shareholders'  Committee,  through
Dewey  Ballantine,  suggested that the preferred  stock be deleted  because,  in
their view, none of the Selling Stockholders would elect to take it. The parties
then  agreed on a proposed  Fair  Market  Value of $37.5  million,  and that the
consideration include $5.5 million of mandatory cash.


     On December 16, 1997,  the Company  issued a press release  announcing  the
proposed  terms.  Representatives  of LeBoeuf and Dewey  Ballantine  prepared an
amendment  of the  Original  Option  Purchase  Agreement  and  Dewey  Ballantine
forwarded it to the Selling Stockholders on December 19, 1997.

     In late December,  1997, a representative  of Dewey  Ballantine  informed a
representative  of LeBoeuf that Dewey  Ballantine  had  concluded  that the cash
component  of the  purchase  price  could be  problematic  for  certain  Selling
Stockholders.  Thereafter,  LeBoeuf  conveyed the information to the Negotiating
Committee, Salomon Smith Barney and Ms. Stanton.

     On December 31, 1997,  Mr.  Sprow,  for the  Negotiating  Committee,  had a
telephone conversation with representatives of LeBoeuf and Salomon Smith Barney,
Messrs. Weber and Walsh and Ms. Stanton. After discussion,  Mr. Sprow, on behalf
of the Negotiating Committee, authorized the Salomon Smith Barney representative
to propose to the Shareholders'  Committee through DLJ, that (i) the Fair Market
Value be reduced to $37.35 million, (ii) the cash component of the consideration
be eliminated and (iii) the consideration  include $6 million of preferred stock
paying a 6% annual dividend.  Salomon Smith Barney conveyed the revised proposal
to DLJ.  On January 8,  1998,  a  representative  of Dewey  Ballantine  gave the
Shareholders'   Committee's   response   to  a   LeBoeuf   representative.   The
Shareholders'  Committee  proposed that the Fair Market Value be $37.5  million,
including up to $6.0 million stated value of optional  preferred stock paying an
8% annual dividend. In addition,  the Shareholders'  Committee asked for certain
registration rights with respect to the Common Stock.

     On January 9, 1998, the  Negotiating  Committee  convened a conference call
with  representatives of LeBoeuf and Salomon Smith Barney and Messrs.  Weber and
Walsh  and Ms.  Stanton.  After  discussions  of the  Shareholders'  Committee's
proposal,  the  Negotiating  Committee  instructed  LeBoeuf  to  convey to Dewey
Ballantine a proposal  consisting of (i) a $37.5 million Fair Market Value, (ii)
$6.0  million  stated  value of  mandatory  preferred  stock  paying a 6% annual
dividend and (iii) a registration rights agreement.

     On January 20, 1998, a representative  of DLJ informed a representative  of
Salomon  Smith  Barney that the  Shareholder  Committee  had  accepted the terms
proposed by the Negotiating Committee,  except that the Shareholders'  Committee
believed that the  preferred  stock should pay a 6 1/4% annual  dividend.  After
discussion,  the DLJ representative and the Salomon Smith Barney  representative
agreed that they would  recommend a dividend rate of 6 1/8% to their  respective
clients.

     On January 20, 1998, the Negotiating  Committee  convened a conference call
with a  representative  of  Salomon  Smith  Barney.  The  Salomon  Smith  Barney
representative  recommended that the Negotiating Committee accept the proposed 6
1/8% dividend rate on the preferred  stock.  After  discussion,  the Negotiating
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Committee   accepted  the  proposal.   Thereafter,   the  Salomon  Smith  Barney
representative  called the DLJ  representative  to communicate  the  Negotiating
Committee's  acceptance of the proposal.  The DLJ representative  indicated that
the Shareholders' Committee had also accepted the proposal.

     On January 27, 1998,  the Company  issued a press  release  describing  the
revised terms of the transaction.

     LeBoeuf  proceeded  to prepare  the Amended and  Restated  Option  Purchase
Agreement  and a form of  Registration  Rights  Agreement to reflect the revised
terms of the  transaction.  Dewey  Ballantine  proceeded  to prepare the form of
Agreement  and  Plan of  Reorganization  to  reflect  the  revised  terms of the
transaction.  Such documents were received by Dewey  Ballantine and disseminated
to the Selling Stockholders on February 23, 1998.

     At a meeting of the Board of Directors of the Company on February 26, 1998,
the Board of  Directors  approved  the Option  Purchase  Agreement,  dated as of
February 26, 1998, and the  transactions  contemplated  thereby,  authorized the
execution,  delivery  and  performance  of the  Option  Purchase  Agreement  and
approved the exercise of the Option at a Fair Market Value of $37.5 million.  On
February 26, 1998,  the Option  Purchase  Agreement was executed by each Selling
Stockholder.  Pursuant to the terms of the Option Purchase Agreement,  by letter
dated February 26, 1998, the Company gave notice (the "Exercise Notice") to each
of the Selling  Stockholders  that it was exercising the Option. On February 26,
1998,  the Company issued a press release  describing the Company's  exercise of
the Option and the revised terms of the Option Purchase Agreement.

     By letter dated March 13, 1998, the Company notified the New York Insurance
Department  of its  exercise  of the  Option  and its plan to submit  regulatory
filings with the New York Insurance  Department in connection  with the proposed
Acquisition.

     In March  1998,  a  representative  of the  Company  instructed  LeBoeuf to
prepare  Amendment  No.  1 to the  Option  Purchase  Agreement,  in order to (i)
provide that the Closing of the Acquisition  could take place at a date, time or
place other than as provided for in the Option  Purchase  Agreement if agreed to
by the parties and (ii) change the required vote by the  Company's  stockholders
to approve the consummation of the transactions  thereunder from the affirmative
vote of the holders of at least a majority of the  outstanding  shares of Common
Stock to the affirmative vote of a majority of the outstanding  shares of Common
Stock present in person or by proxy at the Special Meeting or such other vote as
may be required by applicable law, the Certificate of Incorporation  and By-laws
of the Company and the rules of the NYSE.

     On April 27, 1998,  the  Negotiating  Committee had a conference  call with
representatives of LeBoeuf and Ms. Stanton. A representative of LeBoeuf reviewed
a draft of Amendment No. 1 to the Option Purchase Agreement with the Negotiating
Committee.  Ms.  Stanton  reviewed  reasons  for  recommending  a change  in the
required vote of the Company's stockholders under the Option Purchase Agreement.
Ms. Stanton noted that the Original Option Purchase Agreement contained a higher
vote  requirement  to approve the  Acquisition  than is required  under Delaware
corporate law, the Company's  Certificate of  Incorporation  and By-laws and the
rules of the NYSE.  Ms.  Stanton  further noted that,  because of the relatively
large number of  stockholders  of the Company  which  resulted  from Farm Family
Mutual's  demutualization  in  1996  in  which  most  of  Farm  Family  Mutual's
policyholders received Common Stock, the Company may have difficulty obtaining a
higher  vote.  The  Negotiating  Committee  discussed  the  risks of  having  an
insufficient  number  of  the  Company's   stockholders  actually  vote  on  the
Acquisition.  The Negotiating Committee unanimously resolved to recommend to the
Board of Directors of the Company  that it adopt  Amendment  No. 1 to the Option
Purchase Agreement.
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     A meeting of the Board of Directors  was held on April 28,  1998,  at which
the  Negotiating  Committee  recommended to the Board of Directors that it adopt
Amendment  No.  1 to the  Option  Purchase  Agreement.  After  determining  that
Amendment  No.  1 was  in the  best  interests  of the  Company,  the  Board  of
Directors, including all members of the Negotiating Committee, then approved and
adopted  Amendment  No. 1 to the Option  Purchase  Agreement.  In  finding  that
Amendment No. 1 to the Option  Purchase  Agreement was in the best  interests of
the Company,  the Board of  Directors  relied on the factors  considered  by the
Negotiating Committee and on the recommendation of the Negotiating Committee.

     The Company filed  preliminary proxy materials with the Commission on April
24,  1998.  In the  course of its  review  of the  Company's  preliminary  proxy
materials,  the  Commission  commented  on, among other  things,  the  Company's
accounting policy for its agents' extended earnings program. During July, August
and September  1998,  the Company had various  discussions  with,  and submitted
correspondence  to, the  Commission  regarding  this  issue.  In response to the
Commission's  comments, the Company restated certain of its financial statements
and on October 20, 1998,  the Company filed with the Commission an annual report
on Form 10-K/A for the year ended  December  31, 1997 and  quarterly  reports on
Form 10-Q/A for the periods ended March 31, 1998 and June 30, 1998.

     On May 20, 1998,  the  Company's  Common Stock reached a new high of 42 5/8
per share.  Thereafter,  the stock price  fluctuated  and began to decline  more
significantly in August 1998. On September 3, 1998, the stock closed at $30 7/8.

     At a special  meeting of the Board of Directors of the Company on September
3, 1998, Mr. Weber discussed with the Board of Directors his views regarding the
possible  dilutive  effect of the  Acquisition  on the Company's  estimated 1999
earnings as a result of the recent  decline in the  Company's  stock price.  The
Board of Directors asked the Negotiating  Committee to contact the Shareholders'
Committee to discuss this issue.

     On September 9,  September  21, and  September  25, 1998,  the  Negotiating
Committee had conference calls with representatives of LeBoeuf and Salomon Smith
Barney to discuss the effect of the decline in the Company's  stock price on the
Acquisition,  as well as the results of  discussions  regarding  this issue with
advisors to the  Shareholders'  Committee.  At the  September 9 and September 25
meetings,  Mr. Weber  presented his view to the  Negotiating  Committee  that it
should seek to negotiate a price "collar" to protect against further declines in
the  price  of the  Company's  stock.  Between  September  9 and  September  21,
discussions occurred between  representatives of LeBoeuf,  Salomon Smith Barney,
Dewey  Ballantine  and  DLJ  during  which  the  advisors  to the  Shareholders'
Committee indicated they were not inclined to implement a price collar.

     On  October 8, 1998,  the  Negotiating  Committee  and  representatives  of
LeBoeuf  and  Salomon  Smith  Barney met with the  Shareholders'  Committee  and
representatives  of  Dewey  Ballantine  and  DLJ.  Mr.  Weber  was  asked by the
Negotiating  Committee to present his views about the effect of the  Acquisition
on the Company's estimated 1999 earnings.  Mr. Weber then left the meeting.  The
Negotiating  Committee  and the  Shareholders'  Committee  discussed  fixing the
number of shares to be issued in the Acquisition.  The committees were unable to
come to an  agreement.  The  Shareholders'  Committee  then  requested  that the
Company take the steps  necessary to close the  Acquisition as soon as possible.
The  Negotiating  Committee  expressed  concern  about  the  effect of a further
decline in the Company' stock price from October 8 levels on its  recommendation
that  stockholders  vote for the Option Purchase  Agreement and the transactions
contemplated  therein. The two committees concluded their meeting by agreeing to
discuss  the issue again if the  Company's  stock  price  experienced  a further
material decline from October 8 levels.

     At a Board of  Directors  meeting  on October  13,  1998,  the  Negotiating
Committee  reported  to the Board of  Directors  that it had  determined  not to
change its original  recommendation  with respect to the  Acquisition.  Based on
this  report,  the  Board  resolved  not to  change  its  recommendation  to the
Company's stockholders.
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Optionee Valuation

     The following is a summary of the Optionee  Valuation and the Salomon Smith
Barney  presentation to the Negotiating  Committee of the Optionee  Valuation on
June 26, 1997. The following quantitative information, to the extent it is based
on market  data,  is based on market data as it existed at April 30, 1997 and is
not necessarily indicative of current market conditions.

     As noted above under "-General," the Valuation Procedures generally provide
that Fair Market  Value is the fully  distributed,  independent,  public  market
value of the Life  Company  Shares.  In order to  arrive  at such a Fair  Market
Value,  Salomon Smith Barney performed two valuation analyses: a discounted cash
flow analysis and a comparable  company  analysis.  The two  valuation  analyses
described  below  constitute  all material  analyses  performed by Salomon Smith
Barney in arriving at the Optionee Valuation.

     Discounted  Cash  Flow  Analysis.   Salomon  Smith  Barney   performed  two
discounted  cash flow  analyses,  based on  financial  projections  provided  by
management of the Life Company,  pursuant to which the implied value of the Life
Company was estimated at April 30, 1997. For purposes of these analyses, Salomon
Smith  Barney  assumed  that  stockholders  would  continue  to  receive  annual
dividends,  payable on January 1 of each year 1998-2001, equal to their historic
level of $480,000,  and that all other  earnings would be reinvested in the Life
Company's  business.  Salomon Smith Barney utilized  discount rates of 12%, 14%,
16% and 18% to estimate the present value of such  dividends and of the terminal
value of the Life Company in 2001  calculated  based upon terminal  multiples of
0.9x,  1.0x,  1.1x,  1.2x,  1.3x and 1.4x  year 2001 book  value,  and  terminal
multiples of 9.0x, 10.0x,  11.0x, 12.0x and 13.0x projected 2001 earnings.  From
the analysis  based on a terminal  multiple of projected  2001 book value of the
Life  Company,  Salomon Smith Barney  derived a range for the aggregate  implied
value of the Life Company of approximately $22 million to $43 million.  From the
analysis  based on a terminal  multiple of projected  2001  earnings of the Life
Company, Salomon Smith Barney derived a range for the aggregate implied value of
the Life  Company of  approximately  $18 million to $33 million.  Salomon  Smith
Barney used these  ranges of values in arriving at its  valuation of $36 million
for the Life Company.

     Comparable Company Analysis. Salomon Smith Barney reviewed certain publicly
available  financial,  operating and stock market  information for six insurance
companies (Lincoln National, Reliastar Financial, Protective Life, FBL Financial
Group,  AmerUs Life Holdings and Kansas City Life (each of which is a "Valuation
Comparable  Company"  and  collectively  referred  to as  "Valuation  Comparable
Companies")). Salomon Smith Barney considered the Valuation Comparable Companies
to be  reasonably  similar to the Life Company  insofar as they  participate  in
business segments similar to the Life Company's business  segments,  but none of
these  companies  has the  same  management,  makeup,  size and  combination  of
businesses as the Life Company. Accordingly, the analysis described below is not
purely  mathematical.  Rather it involves complex  considerations  and judgments
concerning  differences  in  historical  and  projected  financial and operating
characteristics of the Life Company and the Valuation  Comparable  Companies and
other factors that could affect public trading value.

     For  each of the  Valuation  Comparable  Companies,  Salomon  Smith  Barney
reviewed,  among other things, its April 30, 1997 market  capitalization,  April
30, 1997 closing  price and  estimated  1997 and 1998 earnings per share ("EPS")
(based upon Institutional  Brokers Estimate Systems ("IBES") reports as of April
17, 1997),  and calculated  multiples of price to book value (ranging from 0.82x
to  2.22x,  with a median  of 1.23x  and a mean of  1.35x),  estimated  1997 EPS
(ranging  from  9.1x to 12.8x,  with a median of 11.4x and a mean of 11.3x)  and
estimated  1998 EPS  (ranging  from 8.7x to  11.3x,  with a mean and a median of
10.2x).  Salomon Smith Barney considered these multiples and applied  subjective
and  qualitative  judgments  in  utilizing a narrow  range of such  multiples to
derive a value  for the Life  Company  of $36  million,  which  more  accurately
reflected Salomon Smith Barney's  judgment of the value of the Life Company,  as
implied by this analysis.
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Opinion of the Company's Financial Advisor

     Salomon  Smith  Barney was  retained  by the  Company  pursuant to a letter
agreement dated February 1, 1996 (the  "Engagement  Letter") to act as financial
advisor to the  Company  in  connection  with the  possible  acquisition  by the
Company of the Life Company.  Pursuant to the Engagement  Letter,  Salomon Smith
Barney rendered an opinion to the Board of Directors on February 26, 1998 to the
effect  that,  based upon and  subject to the  considerations  set forth in such
opinion,  as of such  date,  the  consideration  to be paid  by the  Company  in
connection  with the proposed  Acquisition of all of the  outstanding  shares of
capital stock of the Life Company was fair from a financial point of view to the
Company.  Salomon  Smith  Barney  subsequently  confirmed  its February 26, 1998
opinion by delivery to the Board of  Directors  of a written  opinion  dated the
date of this Proxy  Statement.  Such written opinion will not be further updated
prior to consummation of the Acquisition.  For purposes of its opinion,  Salomon
Smith  Barney  assumed,  without  independent  verification,  that the shares of
Common  Stock that are being  issued as a portion of the  consideration  have an
aggregate value of $31.5 million and that the shares of Series A Preferred Stock
that are being issued as a portion of the consideration  have an aggregate value
equal to the aggregate stated value of $6 million.  Salomon Smith Barney did not
opine that this was the actual  valuation of the Series A Preferred  Stock or of
the Common Stock to be issued in the Acquisition.

     The full text of Salomon Smith Barney's  fairness opinion dated the date of
this Proxy Statement,  which sets forth the assumptions made, general procedures
followed, matters considered and limits on the review undertaken, is attached as
Annex B to this Proxy  Statement.  The summary of Salomon Smith Barney's opinion
set forth below is  qualified  in its  entirety by reference to the full text of
such opinion. Stockholders are urged to read the opinion in its entirety.

     In connection  with rendering its opinion,  Salomon Smith Barney  received,
reviewed,  analyzed and relied upon certain  internal  information  furnished or
prepared by the  management of the Life Company  concerning  the Life  Company's
businesses  and  operations,  including  historical  and current  statements  of
financial  position and results of  operations of the Life Company and financial
forecasts of the Life Company.  In  conducting  its analysis and arriving at its
opinion,  Salomon Smith Barney considered such financial and other factors as it
deemed  appropriate  under  the  circumstances,  including,  among  others,  the
following:  (i) the Option Purchase  Agreement;  (ii) the historical and current
financial  position and results of  operations  of the Life  Company;  (iii) the
business  prospects of the Life Company;  (iv) the historical and current market
for the equity  securities of companies that Salomon Smith Barney believed to be
comparable in certain respects to the Life Company;  (v) the terms of the Series
A Preferred Stock and the terms of publicly traded preferred  securities  issued
by other  financial  institutions;  (vi)  certain  other  internal  information,
including  financial  and  operating  projections  relating to the Life Company,
prepared by the management of the Life Company, provided to Salomon Smith Barney
for  purposes  of its  analysis;  (vii) the fact that the  Company  and the Life
Company  have common  management  and share  facilities,  employees  and agents;
(viii)  certain  other  publicly  available   financial  and  other  information
regarding  the  Company;  and  (ix)  the  nature  and  terms  of  certain  other
transactions  which Salomon Smith Barney believed to be relevant to its inquiry.
Salomon Smith Barney also met with certain officers and  representatives  of the
Company and the Life Company to discuss the  foregoing as well as other  matters
relevant  to its  inquiry.  Salomon  Smith  Barney  also took into  account  its
assessment  of  general  economic,  market  and  financial  conditions  and  its
experience in securities valuation.

     In its review and analysis and in arriving at its  opinion,  Salomon  Smith
Barney assumed and relied, without independent  verification,  upon the accuracy
and completeness of the information  provided to it or publicly  available,  and
did  not  assume  any  responsibility  for  independent   verification  of  such
information.  With  respect  to the  financial  forecasts  of the Life  Company,
Salomon Smith Barney  assumed that they have been  reasonably  prepared on bases
reflecting  the  best  currently   available  estimates  and  judgments  of  the
management  of the Life Company as to the future  financial  performance  of the
Life Company, and Salomon Smith Barney expressed no opinion with respect to such
forecasts or the assumptions on which they are based. In addition, Salomon Smith
Barney  did not  conduct  a  physical  inspection  of any of the  properties  or
facilities  of the  Life  Company  nor did it  make  or  obtain  or  assume  any
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responsibility for making or obtaining any independent evaluations or appraisals
of any of the assets (including properties and facilities) or liabilities of the
Life Company.

     Salomon Smith Barney's  opinion was  necessarily  based upon  conditions as
they  existed and could be  evaluated  on the date  thereof,  and Salomon  Smith
Barney  assumed no  responsibility  to update or revise its  opinion  based upon
circumstances or events occurring after the date thereof. Salomon Smith Barney's
opinion was limited to the  fairness,  from a  financial  point of view,  to the
Company  of the  consideration  to be  paid  in  connection  with  the  proposed
Acquisition  of all of the  outstanding  shares  of  capital  stock  of the Life
Company and did not address the  Company's  underlying  decision to exercise the
Option  or  to  effect  the  proposed  Acquisition  and  did  not  constitute  a
recommendation  as to how any  Board  member  should  vote with  respect  to the
exercise of the Option.  Salomon Smith Barney's opinion also does not constitute
a  recommendation  to any stockholder of the Company as to how such  stockholder
should vote with respect to the proposed Acquisition.

     Salomon Smith Barney's  opinion  expressed  therein was for the benefit and
use of the  Board of  Directors  of the  Company  in  considering  the  proposed
Acquisition  and may not be used by the  Company  for any  other  purpose  or be
reproduced,  disseminated,  quoted or referred to by the Company at any time, in
any manner or for any  purpose,  without  the prior  written  consent of Salomon
Smith  Barney,  except that Salomon Smith Barney has consented to the release of
its  opinion  to the New York  Insurance  Department  and the  inclusion  of its
opinion and this description in this Proxy Statement.

     In connection  with rendering its opinion dated February 26, 1998,  Salomon
Smith Barney made a presentation to the Board of Directors on February 26, 1998,
with respect to certain analyses performed by Salomon Smith Barney in evaluating
the  consideration  to be paid by the Company in  connection  with the  proposed
Acquisition.   The   following  is  a  summary  of  such  Salomon  Smith  Barney
presentation.  The following quantitative information, to the extent it is based
on market  data,  is based on market data as it existed at February 25, 1998 (or
otherwise noted) and is not necessarily indicative of current market conditions.

     Discounted  Cash Flow  Analysis-the  Life  Company.  Salomon  Smith  Barney
performed two  discounted  cash flow  analyses,  based on financial  projections
provided by management of the Life Company,  pursuant to which the implied value
of the Life Company was  estimated  at February 25, 1998.  For purposes of these
analyses,  Salomon  Smith Barney  assumed that  stockholders  would  continue to
receive annual dividends,  payable on January 1 of each year 1998-2002, equal to
their  historic  level  of  $480,000,  and  that  all  other  earnings  would be
reinvested  in the  Life  Company's  business.  Salomon  Smith  Barney  utilized
discount  rates of 12%,  14%, 16% and 18% to estimate the present  value of such
dividends and of the terminal value of the Life Company in 2002 calculated based
upon terminal multiples of 0.9x, 1.0x, 1.1x, 1.2x, 1.3x, 1.4x and 1.5x year 2002
book value, and terminal multiples of 9.0x, 10.0x, 11.0x, 12.0x, 13.0x and 14.0x
projected  2002  earnings.  From the  analysis  based on a terminal  multiple of
projected  2002 book value of the Life Company,  Salomon Smith Barney  derived a
reference  range for the  aggregate  implied  value of the Life  Company  of $33
million  to $45  million.  From the  analysis  based on a terminal  multiple  of
projected  2002  earnings of the Life Company,  Salomon  Smith Barney  derived a
reference  range for the  aggregate  implied  value of the Life  Company  of $28
million to $39 million.

     Comparable Company Analysis. Salomon Smith Barney reviewed certain publicly
available  financial,  operating and stock market information for nine insurance
companies (Lincoln National, Reliastar Financial, Protective Life, FBL Financial
Group,   AmerUs  Life  Holdings,   Kansas  City  Life,  Allied  Life  Financial,
Intercontinental  Life and Standard  Management  (each of which is a "Comparable
Company" and collectively referred to as "Comparable Companies")). Salomon Smith
Barney considered the Comparable  Companies to be reasonably similar to the Life
Company  insofar as they  participate in business  segments  similar to the Life
Company's  business  segments,   but  none  of  these  companies  has  the  same
management,  makeup,  size and  combination  of  businesses as the Life Company.
Accordingly, the analysis described below is not purely mathematical.  Rather it
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involves  complex   considerations  and  judgments  concerning   differences  in
historical  and projected  financial and operating  characteristics  of the Life
Company and the Comparable  Companies and other factors that could affect public
trading value.

     For each of the Comparable Companies,  Salomon Smith Barney reviewed, among
other  things,  its market  capitalization,  February 24, 1998 closing price and
estimated  1997 and 1998 EPS (based upon IBES  reports as of January 14,  1998),
and calculated multiples of price to book value (ranging from 0.7x to 3.0x, with
a median of 1.1x and a mean of 1.5x), 1997 EPS (ranging from 8.5x to 19.7x, with
a median of 16.4x and a mean of 15.2x) and estimated 1998 EPS (ranging from 7.8x
to 17.3x,  with a median of 15.6x and a mean of  13.6x).  Salomon  Smith  Barney
derived  reference  ranges  of  multiples  from the  foregoing  analysis  of the
Comparable  Companies.  These reference ranges (0.7x to 1.1x book value; 9.7x to
12.0x 1997 EPS; and 8.7x to 11.8x  estimated  1998 EPS) were  narrower  than the
ranges based solely on the calculations from the public data based on subjective
and qualitative  judgments  applied by Salomon Smith Barney to such calculations
to more accurately  reflect Salomon Smith Barney's  judgment of the value of the
Life Company,  as implied by this  analysis.  Using the reference  ranges of the
multiples  of  price  to book  value,  1997  EPS and  estimated  1998 EPS of the
Comparable  Companies,  Salomon Smith Barney  derived a reference  range for the
implied value of the Life Company of $28 million to $44 million,  $36 million to
$45 million and $34 million to $46 million, respectively.

     Analysis of Selected Insurance Company  Acquisitions.  Salomon Smith Barney
also analyzed certain publicly available  financial,  operating and stock market
information for eighteen selected merger or acquisition transactions in the life
insurance  industry since April 1995 (the "Insurance  Transactions") and for six
selected small merger or acquisition transactions in the life insurance industry
since  January  15,  1993  (the  "Small  Life   Transactions").   The  Insurance
Transactions reviewed included the following: Conseco,  Inc./Washington National
Corp., AmerUs Life Holdings,  Inc./AmVestors  Financial Corp.,  American General
Corp./Western  National Corp.,  ING  Group/Equitable  of Iowa,  Unitrin/Reliable
Life,   Conseco,   Inc./Colonial   Penn  Life  Insurance  Co.,   Jefferson-Pilot
Corp./Chubb  Life Insurance Co.,  American  General  Corp./USLife  Corp.,  Aegon
NV/Providian  Corporation,  American General Corp./Home Beneficial  Corporation,
Conseco,  Inc./Pioneer  Financial Services,  Conseco,  Inc./Transport  Holdings,
Inc.,  Conseco,   Inc./Capitol   American  Financial,   Conseco,   Inc./American
Travellers  Corp., G.E. Capital  Corp./First  Colony Corp.,  Conseco,  Inc./Life
Partners Group, Inc., American Annuity Group,  Inc./Laurentian Capital Corp. and
Zurich Insurance Group/Kemper Corporation.  The Small Life Transactions reviewed
included the following:  Life Partners Group,  Inc./Lamar  Financial Group Inc.,
Life  Re  Corp./First   Delaware  Life  Insurance   Co.,   AmVestors   Financial
Corp./Financial  Benefit Group Inc., Torchmark Corp./ICH Corp., Stephens Holding
Co./ICH Corp. and United  Insurance  Cos./Southern  Educators Life Insurance Co.
Salomon  Smith  Barney   considered  the  precedent   mergers  and   acquisition
transactions to be reasonably similar to the proposed  Acquisition,  but none of
these  precedents  is  identical  to  such   transaction.   For  each  Insurance
Transaction,  Salomon Smith Barney calculated the transaction  value,  price per
share,  the  premium  offered  over the  market  price  one  month  prior to the
announcement  of the offer,  and the  multiples of price to latest twelve months
("LTM") operating  earnings (ranging from 10.0x to 27.5x, with a median of 16.4x
and a mean of 16.9x),  price to book value  (ranging  from 1.0x to 2.9x,  with a
median of 1.5x and a mean of 1.7x) and price to the  estimated  earnings for the
year  following  the  announcement  date  (based  on  IBES  reports)   ("Forward
Earnings")  (ranging  from 10.7x to 18.0x,  with a median of 13.9x and a mean of
13.5x).  For each Small Life  Transaction,  Salomon Smith Barney  calculated the
transaction  value and the multiples of price to book value  (ranging from 0.25x
to 1.63x,  with a median of 0.88x and a mean of 0.85x) and price to LTM earnings
(ranging from 0.4x to 20.4x, with a median of 7.9x and a mean of 9.0x). Based on
the  foregoing  analyses,  Salomon  Smith  Barney  derived  reference  ranges of
multiples.  These reference ranges (1.0x to 1.5x book value,  10.0x to 13.0x LTM
EPS and 9.0x to 12.0x Forward Earnings for the Insurance Transactions;  0.88x to
1.38x book value and 9.0x to 12.0x LTM earnings for the Small Life Transactions)
were narrower than the ranges based solely on the  calculations  from the public
data based on  subjective  and  qualitative  judgments  applied by Salomon Smith
Barney to such  calculations to more  accurately  reflect Salomon Smith Barney's
judgment of the value of the Life Company, as implied by this analysis. Applying
the  reference  ranges  of the  multiples  of price to book  value,  LTM EPS and
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Forward  Earnings in the  Insurance  Transactions  to book  value,  1997 EPS and
estimated  1998 EPS of the Life  Company,  respectively,  Salomon  Smith  Barney
derived a reference range for the aggregate implied value of the Life Company of
$40  million to $60  million,  $37 million to $48 million and $35 million to $47
million,  respectively.  Applying the reference ranges of the multiples of price
to book value and price to LTM earnings in the Small Life  Transactions  to book
value and estimated  1997 EPS of the Life Company,  respectively,  Salomon Smith
Barney  derived a reference  range for the  aggregate  implied value of the Life
Company  of  $35  million  to $55  million  and  $33  million  to  $44  million,
respectively.

     Accretion/Dilution   Analysis.  Salomon  Smith  Barney  also  analyzed  the
financial  impact of the proposed  Acquisition on estimated 1998 EPS.  Utilizing
the number of shares of Common Stock to be issued,  assuming an Average  Closing
Price of $34.00,  which was the closing price of the Common Stock on the NYSE on
February 20, 1998,  Salomon Smith Barney  estimated  that 1998 EPS would accrete
5.1% to $2.97.  Salomon  Smith  Barney  then  performed a  sensitivity  analysis
calculating  the impact on  estimated  1998 EPS of the  issuance of a greater or
lesser number of shares in the proposed  Acquisition  resulting  from an assumed
price per share of Common  Stock  ranging  from $28.00 to $40.00.  Based on this
analysis,  Salomon Smith Barney  estimated  that 1998 EPS would accrete within a
range of 1.8% to 7.5%,  which  would  result in  estimated  1998 EPS of $2.88 to
$3.04.

     Review of Series A Preferred Stock. Salomon Smith Barney reviewed the terms
of the  Series A  Preferred  Stock and the terms of  publicly  traded  preferred
securities  issued  by  other  financial  institutions.   Salomon  Smith  Barney
estimated,  based on this review,  that a preferred  security  like the Series A
Preferred  Stock would  trade in line with the then  current  30-Year  Treasury,
which as of February 24, 1998, had a yield of 5.96%.  Salomon Smith Barney added
that the Series A Preferred Stock might demand a slight premium to such Treasury
yield  as a  result  of (i) the  private  nature  of the  transaction,  (ii) the
Company's  10-year  call option and (iii) the size of the issue,  which  premium
would be partially  offset by voting  rights.  Based on the  foregoing,  Salomon
Smith Barney  advised the Board of Directors  that the Series A Preferred  Stock
would likely trade at  approximately  stated value.  Salomon Smith Barney noted,
however,  that,  for purposes of its opinion,  it had assumed that the aggregate
value of the Series A Preferred  Stock to be issued in the  Acquisition is equal
to the aggregate  stated value of $6 million,  without so opining as to an exact
valuation.

     In  connection  with the  opinion  dated the date of this Proxy  Statement,
Salomon Smith Barney performed  procedures to update,  as necessary,  certain of
the analyses described above and reviewed the assumptions on which such analyses
were based and the factors  considered  in connection  therewith.  Salomon Smith
Barney did not perform any  analyses  in  addition to those  described  above in
updating its opinion.  Based on the  foregoing  analyses,  Salomon  Smith Barney
reconfirmed  its opinion as to the fairness of the  consideration  to be paid by
the  Company  in  connection  with  the  proposed  Acquisition  of  all  of  the
outstanding shares of capital stock of the Life Company.

     The  foregoing is a summary of the material  analyses  furnished by Salomon
Smith  Barney to the Board of Directors on February 26, 1998 and used by Salomon
Smith Barney in arriving at its opinion.  The preparation of financial  analyses
and fairness opinions is a complex process involving subjective judgments and is
not necessarily susceptible to partial analysis or summary description.  Salomon
Smith Barney made no attempt to assign specific  weights to particular  analyses
or  factors  considered,  but  rather  made  qualitative  judgments  as  to  the
significance and relevance of the analyses and factors considered.  Accordingly,
Salomon  Smith  Barney  believes  that its  analyses  (and the summary set forth
above)  must be  considered  as a whole,  and that  selecting  portions  of such
analyses  and of  the  factors  considered  by  Salomon  Smith  Barney,  without
considering  all of such  analyses  and factors,  could  create a misleading  or
incomplete  view of the processes  underlying the analyses  conducted by Salomon
Smith  Barney and its  opinion.  With regard to the  comparable  public  company
analysis and the comparable transaction analysis summarized above, Salomon Smith
Barney  selected  comparable  public  companies  and  comparable   transactions,
respectively,  on the basis of various factors, including the size of the public
company or  transaction  and  similarity  of the line of business;  however,  no
public company or transaction  utilized as a comparison is identical to the Life
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Company,  any business segment of the Life Company or the proposed  Acquisition.
As a result, the foregoing analyses are not purely  mathematical,  but also take
into account  differences  in financial  and  operating  characteristics  of the
Comparable  Companies  and other  factors that could affect the  transaction  or
public trading value of the Comparable  Companies and  transactions to which the
Life  Company,  the  business  segments  of the Life  Company  and the  proposed
Acquisition  are being  compared.  In its  analyses,  Salomon  Smith Barney made
numerous  assumptions  with respect to the Life Company,  industry  performance,
general business,  economic,  market and financial conditions and other matters,
many of which  are  beyond  the  control  of the  Life  Company.  Any  estimates
contained in Salomon Smith Barney's  analyses are not necessarily  indicative of
actual  values  or  predictive  of  future  results  or  values,  which  may  be
significantly  more or less  favorable  than those  suggested by such  analyses.
Estimates of values of companies do not purport to be appraisals or  necessarily
to reflect the prices at which  companies  may  actually be sold.  Because  such
estimates are inherently subject to uncertainty,  none of the Life Company,  the
Board  of  Directors,   Salomon  Smith  Barney  or  any  other  person   assumes
responsibility  if future  results or actual values differ  materially  from the
estimates.  Salomon Smith  Barney's  analyses  were  prepared  solely as part of
Salomon Smith Barney's  analysis of the fairness of the consideration to be paid
by the  Company  in  connection  with  the  proposed  Acquisition  of all of the
outstanding shares of capital stock of the Life Company and were provided to the
Board of Directors in that  connection.  The opinion of Salomon Smith Barney was
one of the factors taken into  consideration by the Board of Directors in making
its determination to approve the proposed Acquisition.

     Salomon Smith Barney is an  internationally  recognized  investment banking
firm  engaged,  among other things,  in the  valuation of  businesses  and their
securities  in  connection  with  mergers  and   acquisitions,   restructurings,
leveraged buyouts,  negotiated  underwritings,  competitive biddings,  secondary
distributions  of  listed  and  unlisted  securities,   private  placements  and
valuations for estate, corporate and other purposes.  Salomon Smith Barney acted
as financial  advisor and lead underwriter to the Company in connection with the
demutualization and initial public offering of Farm Family Mutual and received a
fee for its services.  Also,  Salomon Smith Barney or its affiliates  previously
rendered  certain  investment  banking and  financial  advisory  services to the
Company  and  affiliates  of  the  Company  for  which  it  received   customary
compensation. In addition, in the ordinary course of its business, Salomon Smith
Barney actively trades the equity  securities of the Company for its own account
and for the accounts of customers and, accordingly,  may at any time hold a long
or short  position in such  securities.  Salomon Smith Barney and its affiliates
(including  Citigroup  Inc.)  may have  other  business  relationships  with the
Company or the Life Company.

     Pursuant to the Engagement Letter, as amended, the Company will pay Salomon
Smith Barney a fee equal to $300,000 of which $100,000 was paid in June 1997 and
the balance  will be paid upon  consummation  of the  proposed  Acquisition.  In
addition,  the Company will pay Salomon Smith Barney an  additional  $35,000 for
updating its opinion to the date of this Proxy  Statement.  The Company has also
agreed to reimburse  Salomon  Smith Barney for its  reasonable  travel and other
out-of-pocket expenses incurred in connection with its engagement (including the
reasonable fees and disbursements of its counsel) and to indemnify Salomon Smith
Barney against certain  liabilities  and expenses  relating to or arising out of
its engagement, including certain liabilities under the federal securities laws.

     Salomon Smith Barney has consented to the inclusion in this Proxy Statement
of the foregoing description of its fairness opinion and the analyses underlying
its fairness  opinion.  Salmon  Smith  Barney's  opinion  does not  constitute a
recommendation,  and by giving such consent Salomon Smith Barney does not make a
recommendation,  to any  stockholder  of the Company as to how such  stockholder
should vote with respect to the proposed Acquisition.

     As noted under the caption "-Reasons for the Acquisition; Recommendation of
the  Negotiating  Committee  and Board of  Directors,"  the fairness  opinion of
Salomon Smith Barney was only one of several factors  considered by the Board of
Directors  in  determining  to approve the proposed  Acquisition.  The amount of
consideration payable in the proposed Acquisition was determined by arms'-length
negotiations between the Shareholders'  Committee and the Negotiating Committee,
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in   consultation   with  their   respective   financial   advisors   and  other
representatives, and was not established by such financial advisors.

Reasons for the  Acquisition;  Recommendation  of the Negotiating  Committee and
Board of Directors

     On February 25, 1998, the Negotiating  Committee had a conference call with
representatives of LeBoeuf and Salomon Smith Barney. LeBoeuf reviewed a draft of
the Option  Purchase  Agreement with the  Negotiating  Committee.  Salomon Smith
Barney  informed  the  Negotiating  Committee  that it was prepared to deliver a
written opinion to the effect that the consideration  proposed to be paid by the
Company in connection with the  Acquisition  would be fair from a financial view
to the  Company.  LeBoeuf  reviewed  the  fiduciary  duties  of the  Negotiating
Committee.  After a full  discussion  and on a motion  duly made,  seconded  and
carried,  the  Negotiating  Committee  unanimously  resolved to recommend to the
Board of Directors that it adopt the Option  Purchase  Agreement and approve the
exercise of the Option at a Fair Market Value of $37.5 million.

     A meeting of the Board of Directors was held on February 26, 1998,  and was
attended by the members of the Negotiating  Committee,  members of the Company's
management  and  representatives  of LeBoeuf and Salomon Smith  Barney.  Salomon
Smith Barney  presented its research,  analyses and  conclusions to the Board of
Directors,  including  its  opinion  that  the  consideration  to be paid by the
Company in connection  with the  Acquisition  was fair from a financial point of
view to the Company. The Negotiating  Committee then recommended to the Board of
Directors that it adopt the Option  Purchase  Agreement and approve the exercise
of the Option at a Fair Market Value of $37.5 million.

     The Board of Directors, including all members of the Negotiating Committee,
then determined that the Option Purchase Agreement and the Company's exercise of
the Option at a Fair Market Value of $37.5 million were in the best interests of
the Company.  The Board of Directors,  including all members of the  Negotiating
Committee,  then  approved  and adopted the Option  Purchase  Agreement  and the
transactions  contemplated  thereby,  authorized  the  execution,  delivery  and
performance  of the Option  Purchase  Agreement and approved the exercise of the
Option at a Fair  Market  Value of $37.5  million.  In  finding  that the Option
Purchase  Agreement  and the  Company's  exercise of the Option at a Fair Market
Value of $37.5 million were in the best  interests of the Company,  the Board of
Directors relied on the factors  (enumerated below) relied on by the Negotiating
Committee and on the recommendation by the Negotiating Committee.

     In  determining  to recommend  to the Board of Directors  that it adopt the
Option  Purchase  Agreement  and  approve  the  exercise of the Option at a Fair
Market Value of $37.5 million, the Negotiating  Committee considered a number of
factors. The material factors considered by the Negotiating Committee were:

                  (a) the  Negotiating  Committee's  belief  that  the  Exercise
         Price,  which was determined by arm's-length  negotiations  between the
         Negotiating Committee and the Shareholders'  Committee, in consultation
         with their  respective  financial  advisors and other  representatives,
         based upon separate  valuations  prepared by such financial advisors in
         accordance with the Valuation Procedures,  provides the Company with an
         opportunity to acquire the Life Company at a fair price;

                  (b) the  fact  that  the Fair  Market  Value of $37.5  million
         represented a discount to the Life  Company's  GAAP book value of $39.1
         million at December 31, 1997, and that such discount is attributable to
         the nature of the Life Company's operating results, business production
         and size, and not the Life Company's financial condition;

                  (c) Salomon Smith Barney's estimate that the Acquisition could
         result in an  accretion to the  Company's  estimated  1998  earnings of
         approximately 5.1%, assuming an Average Closing Price of $34, which was
         the closing price of the Common Stock on the NYSE on February 20, 1998;

                  (d) the form of the  consideration  to be issued in payment of
         the Exercise Price,  which was negotiated as part of the Exercise Price
         and represents an allocation  between the Common Stock and the Series A
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         Preferred  Stock  that is  consistent  with the  terms of the  Original
         Option Purchase Agreement and the Option Purchase Agreement;

                  (e) the terms and conditions of the Option Purchase Agreement,
         including the formula for determining the payment of the Exercise Price
         set forth  therein,  which provides that the number of shares of Common
         Stock and Series A Preferred Stock to be issued in the Acquisition will
         be based upon the Average  Closing  Price,  causing the Company and its
         stockholders to benefit from increases in, but be adversely affected by
         decreases  in, the price of the Common Stock prior to the date on which
         the Average Closing Price is determined;

                  (f) the compatibility of the operations of the Company and the
         Life Company and the  potential for  long-term  strategic  value to the
         Company and the Life Company  which could result from common  ownership
         of  the  two   companies   by  (i)   perpetuating   current   operating
         efficiencies,  including shared management and facilities,  the loss of
         which could  negatively  affect the  operating  results of the Company,
         (ii)  the  creation  of  additional   critical  mass,  (iii)  potential
         diversification of earnings and (iv) increased product  capabilities by
         providing  agents  the  opportunity  to offer  additional  products  to
         clients;

                  (g) the  fact  that  certain  directors  and  officers  of the
         Company may be deemed to have interests in the  Acquisition as a result
         of their affiliation with certain of the Selling Stockholders;

                  (h) the  fact  that the  previously  affiliated  "Farm  Family
         Group" will  remain  together  as a result of the  Acquisition  and the
         interests  of the Farm Bureaus and their  affiliates,  who will receive
         stock in the Acquisition,  will be better aligned with the interests of
         the Company's stockholders;

                  (i) Salomon Smith  Barney's  presentation  to the  Negotiating
         Committee  on  February  25,  1998 and its  statement  that it would be
         prepared to deliver a written opinion that the consideration to be paid
         by the  Company  in  connection  with the  Acquisition  is fair  from a
         financial  point of view to the Company,  which  written  opinion dated
         February 26, 1998, was in fact delivered; and

                  (j) the fact that the  Closing  is  conditioned  on  obtaining
         stockholder  approval  of the  transactions  under the Option  Purchase
         Agreement.

     In reaching its  conclusions,  the Negotiating  Committee viewed all of the
above factors as favorable,  except the potential  adverse effects and conflicts
of  interest  discussed  in  (e)  and  (g)  above,  respectively.  Although  the
Negotiating  Committee did not generally consider business risks associated with
the Acquisition,  the Negotiating  Committee did consider but did not give great
weight  to the risk that  alternative  uses of  capital  could  generate  higher
returns for stockholders  and, in view of the estimated  percentage of stock and
voting  power  to  be  issued  in  the   Acquisition,   that  existing   Company
stockholders' voting power would be diluted.

     The  Negotiating  Committee and the Board of Directors  were aware that the
actual  value of the Common  Stock and Series A  Preferred  Stock  issued on the
Closing Date may exceed (or be less than) $37.5 million,  prior to reduction for
certain expenses.  The amount of Common Stock will be determined by reference to
the  Average  Closing  Price,  not its market  value on the  Closing  Date.  The
Negotiating  Committee and the Board of Directors believed that an average price
would produce a fairer result for all parties  because it helps to eliminate the
risk  that a short  term  price  fluctuation  which  was not  reflective  of the
normalized  trading  price  for the  Common  Stock  would  become  the basis for
determining  the number of shares to be issued.  In considering the value of the
Series A  Preferred  Stock to be  issued  in the  Acquisition,  the  Negotiating
Committee  and the  Board of  Directors  relied  principally  on  Salomon  Smith
Barney's advice that, as of the date of its February 26, 1998 fairness  opinion,
the Series A Preferred  Stock would  likely  trade at  approximately  its stated
value of $6 million.  Salomon  Smith Barney did not value the Series A Preferred
Stock or the Common  Stock for purposes of its fairness  opinion,  however.  See
"-Review of Series A Preferred stock" under "-Opinion of the Company's Financial
Advisor" above.

     The Board of Directors  was aware of the  potential  conflicts of interests
referred to in (g) above and, as a result,  appointed the Negotiating Committee,
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which was composed of independent directors,  to negotiate the Exercise Price on
behalf of the Company with the Selling Stockholders.  See "-Interests of Certain
Persons in the Acquisition."

     In  determining  to recommend  for approval  Amendment  No. 1 to the Option
Purchase  Agreement,  the  Negotiating  Committee  considered,  in  view  of the
reduction to the vote required by the Company's stockholders, the risk of having
an  insufficient  number  of the  Company's  stockholders  actually  vote on the
Acquisition  due,  in  part,  to  the  Company's   relatively  large  number  of
stockholders resulting from Farm Family Mutual's demutualization in 1996 and the
fact that the higher vote was not required.

     Subsequent to the Negotiating  Committee's  recommendation and the Board of
Director's  approval of the exercise of the Option,  the  Company's  stock price
declined  from  $341/8 on February  26,  1998,  the date of the  exercise of the
Option,  to $29 on October 9, 1998. As a result of the greater  number of shares
that may be issued,  the Acquisition  may be slightly  dilutive to the Company's
estimated 1999 earnings.  Nevertheless, the Negotiating Committee determined not
to change  its  recommendation  to the Board of  Directors  with  respect to the
Acquisition.  Further,  the  Board  of  Directors  determined  to  continue  its
recommendations  that  the  stockholders  of the  Company  vote  for the  Option
Purchase  Agreement  and  the  consummation  of  the  transactions  contemplated
therein. In reaching their conclusions,  the Negotiating Committee and the Board
of Directors  weighed the factors  discussed above against the possibility  that
the Acquisition  may not be accretive to the Company's  estimated 1999 earnings,
and determined that the Acquisition continued to be in the best interests of the
Company.

     The foregoing  discussion of the information and factors  considered by the
Negotiating  Committee  is not  intended  to be  exhaustive  but is  believed to
include all material factors considered by the Negotiating Committee. In view of
the variety of factors  considered  in  connection  with its  evaluation  of the
proposed  Acquisition,  the Negotiating Committee did not find it practicable to
and did not  quantify  or  otherwise  assign  relative  weights to the  specific
factors  considered  in reaching  its  determination.  In  addition,  individual
members  of the  Negotiating  Committee  may have  given  different  weights  to
different factors.

Exercise Price

     The Exercise  Price to be paid by the Company for the Life  Company  Shares
will  be  $37.5  million  (less  certain  expenses,  currently  estimated  to be
approximately  $0.96 million,  to be paid by the Life Company in the transaction
on behalf of the Selling  Stockholders).  Upon the Closing, the Company will pay
the  Exercise  Price to the  Selling  Stockholders  in (i) a number of shares of
Common Stock equal to $31.5 million (less certain expenses  currently  estimated
to be approximately $0.81 million) divided by the Average Closing Price and (ii)
a number of shares of Series A Preferred Stock equal to $6 million (less certain
expenses currently  estimated to be approximately  $0.15 million) divided by the
Average  Closing Price.  The Average  Closing Price will be equal to the average
Closing Price (as defined in the Option Purchase  Agreement) per share of Common
Stock as  reported  on the NYSE  during the 20 Trading  Days (as  defined in the
Option Purchase Agreement) prior to the third business day preceding the Closing
Date.
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     The following  table  illustrates  the manner in which the Average  Closing
Price  determines  the number of shares of Common  Stock and Series A  Preferred
Stock  that  will be issued  at the  Closing.  This  information  should  not be
construed to be  indicative  of the actual  number of shares of Common Stock and
Series A Preferred Stock that will be issued at the Closing.

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>


        Average Closing                   Shares of                Shares of           % of Common Stock         % of Combined
             Price                  Common Stock Issued       Series A Preferred        Outstanding(1)(2)        Voting Power(1)(2)
                                                                 Stock Issued

<C>                                      <C>                        <C>                      <C>                         <C>   
$25.............................         1,227,744                  233,856                  18.94%                      21.76%
$26.............................         1,180,523                  224,862                  18.35                       21.10
$27.............................         1,136,800                  216,533                  17.79                       20.48
$28.............................         1,096,200                  208,800                  17.26                       19.90
$29.............................         1,058,400                  201,600                  16.77                       19.34
$30.............................         1,023,120                  194,880                  16.30                       18.82
$31.............................           990,116                  188,594                  15.86                       18.32
$32.............................           959,175                  182,700                  15.44                       17.85
$33.............................           930,109                  177,164                  15.04                       17.41
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</TABLE>


(1)  Based on 5,253,813 shares of Common Stock outstanding as of the Record Date
     plus the number of shares of Common Stock and, with respect to the combined
     voting  power,  Series A  Preferred  Stock  estimated  to be  issued at the
     respective  Average  Closing  Price set  forth in the first  column of this
     table.

(2)  Excludes  shares  of  Common  Stock  currently  owned  by  certain  Selling
     Stockholders,  which  in  the  aggregate  constitute  less  than  1% of the
     outstanding  shares of Common  Stock as of  October  16,  1998.  See "Stock
     Ownership of Management and Certain Beneficial Owners."

     The Average  Closing  Price will be based on the market price of the Common
Stock as reported on the NYSE during a 20 day period prior to the Closing  Date,
which may  fluctuate.  Accordingly,  the actual  Average  Closing  Price and the
actual  number of shares of Common Stock and Series A Preferred  Stock that will
be  issued  to  the  Selling   Stockholders  may  vary  significantly  from  the
illustrations  set forth  above.  The actual  value of the  securities  that the
Company issues in the Acquisition may have a value on the Closing Date in excess
of (or less than) $37.5 million,  prior to reduction for certain  expenses.  The
value of the  Common  Stock to be issued  will be based on the  Average  Closing
Price, which may be higher or lower than the market price of the Common Stock on
the Closing Date. In addition,  the market value of the Series A Preferred Stock
may be higher or lower on the Closing  Date than its stated value of $6 million,
depending  on interest  rates,  perceived  credit  quality,  market  conditions,
valuations of  comparable  companies and other factors at the time it is issued.
Salomon  Smith  Barney  advised  the  Negotiating  Committee  and the  Board  of
Directors  that, as of the date of its February 26, 1998 fairness  opinion,  the
Series A Preferred Stock would likely trade at approximately its stated value of
$6 million.  Salomon Smith Barney did not value the Series A Preferred  Stock or
the Common Stock for purposes of its fairness opinion,  however. See "-Review of
Series A Preferred Stock" under "-Opinion of the Company's  Financial  Advisor,"
"-Background of the  Acquisition" and "Stock Ownership of Management and Certain
Beneficial Owners."

     Each share of the Series A Preferred Stock will be entitled to one vote per
share in the election of directors and on all matters on which holders of Common
Stock are entitled to vote,  not voting  separately as a class but together with
all other stockholders.  Cumulative  dividends will be payable quarterly in cash
on each share at a rate equal to 6 1/8% per annum.  The Series A Preferred Stock
will be subject to mandatory redemption by the Company on the date following the
twentieth  anniversary  of the issuance  date (or the next  business  day),  and
optional  redemption on and after the tenth  anniversary  of the issuance  date.
Each share of Series A  Preferred  Stock may be  redeemed,  at the option of the
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Company, in cash or in shares of Common Stock. The Company's decision whether to
redeem  shares of Series A  Preferred  Stock in cash or in shares will depend on
its financial  condition  and other  circumstances  at that time,  including its
liquidity. See "Description of Series A Preferred Stock."

Management and Operations of the Life Company After the Acquisition

     It is not expected that the  consummation of the Acquisition will result in
any changes to the Board of Directors or officers of the Life Company. Following
the  Acquisition,  it is  intended  that the Life  Company  will be  managed  in
substantially the manner and with substantially the same operating management as
it is currently.

Interests of Certain Persons in the Acquisition

     Stockholders  of the Company  should be aware that  certain  directors  and
officers of the Company may be deemed to have  interests in the  Acquisition  in
addition to their interests as Company  stockholders.  The Negotiating Committee
and the Board of Directors were aware of these  interests and  considered  them,
among other matters, in approving the exercise of the Option to acquire the Life
Company pursuant to the Option Purchase  Agreement and recommending the same for
stockholder approval.

     Relationship  of Company  Directors and Officers with Selling  Stockholders
and Life Company.  Substantially all of the directors of the Company,  including
the Chairman and Vice Chairman of the Board, are directors or executive officers
of, employed by or otherwise  associated with the Selling Stockholders and their
affiliates.  Certain of these directors also own capital stock of certain of the
Selling  Stockholders,  although  such  capital  stock  will be  redeemed  by or
returned  to  such  Selling  Stockholders  prior  to  the  consummation  of  the
Acquisition.  No officer or director of the Company  will  receive any shares of
Common Stock or Series A Preferred Stock in the Acquisition.

         Substantially  all of  the  directors  and  executive  officers  of the
Company  are also  directors  and  executive  officers  of the Life  Company and
United.  The Company and the Life  Company  also share the same agency force and
certain employees, and utilize common office facilities. Most administrative and
operating  expenses  are  allocated  between  the two  companies  pursuant to an
expense sharing agreement.  Service as a director or officer of both the Company
and the Life  Company  could create or appear to create  potential  conflicts of
interest  when the director or officer is faced with  decisions  that could have
different  implications  for the  Company  and the Life  Company.  A conflict of
interest  could also exist with respect to the  allocation of time and attention
of persons who are  officers of both the  Company  and the Life  Company.  Under
Delaware  and New York law, a person who is a director  of both the  Company and
the Life Company owes fiduciary duties to both corporations and their respective
shareholders. As a result, persons who are directors of the Company and the Life
Company are required to exercise  their  fiduciary  duties in light of what they
believe to be best for each of the companies and its shareholders.

     Relationships of the Company and Life Company with Farm Bureaus.  FFCIC and
the Life  Company  were  organized  through the efforts of certain  Farm Bureaus
which comprise certain of the Selling  Stockholders,  and both the Company's and
the Life  Company's  relationship  with the Farm  Bureaus  in states  where they
operate  continues to be a fundamental  aspect of their  businesses.  These Farm
Bureaus are affiliated  with the American Farm Bureau  Federation,  the nation's
largest  general farm  organization  with over four million  members,  which has
traditionally sought to advance the interests of the agricultural community.

     It historically  has been the practice of the Farm Bureau  organizations to
establish or sponsor  farm-oriented and  member-oriented  insurance companies to
provide insurance for their members.  FFCIC was established in 1955 and the Life
Company was  established  in 1953 through the efforts of certain Farm Bureaus to
provide   property  and  casualty   insurance  and  life   insurance   products,
respectively, for Farm Bureau members in the Northeast. Substantially all of the
directors of the Company,  FFCIC and the Life Company are  associated  with Farm
Bureau  organizations in the Northeast.  FFCIC has the exclusive  endorsement of
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the Farm Bureaus to market property and casualty  insurance in the ten states in
which it operates.  The Life Company also has the exclusive  endorsement  of the
Farm Bureaus to market life  insurance  products in the same ten states in which
FFCIC  operates.  In addition,  the Life Company is licensed to write  insurance
business in Maryland and  Pennsylvania and began marketing its products in those
states in 1998. The Life Company does not have the endorsement of the state Farm
Bureaus in Maryland or Pennsylvania.

     The  endorsement  of the Farm  Bureaus  generally  means  the Farm  Bureaus
provide  the  Company  and the Life  Company  with the  right to  utilize  their
membership  lists  and  authorize  the use of their  name and  service  marks in
connection  with the marketing of FFCIC's and the Life  Company's  products.  In
exchange for these  rights,  the Company and the Life Company pay to each of the
Farm  Bureaus  an  annual  fee of $7.50  per Farm  Bureau  member,  pursuant  to
agreements with each Farm Bureau (the  "Membership  List Purchase  Agreements").
For each of the years ended December 31, 1997 and 1996, FFCIC paid approximately
$600,000 and $571,000,  respectively, in the aggregate under the Membership List
Purchase  Agreements  and the  Life  Company  paid  approximately  $600,000  and
$571,000,  respectively.  The  current  term of each  Membership  List  Purchase
Agreement  is six years,  which  commenced  on January 1, 1996.  Pursuant to the
Membership  List  Purchase  Agreements,  the Farm  Bureaus  may not  endorse the
products of other property and casualty insurers with respect to the Company and
other life  insurers,  with respect to the Life  Company,  within the  ten-state
region covered by such Membership List Purchase Agreements.

     FFCIC advertises its products in state and local Farm Bureau  publications,
for which it pays  advertising  fees to the Farm Bureaus,  and  participates  in
meetings and shows sponsored by Farm Bureau  organizations.  Such  participation
typically  consists  of  purchasing  booth space at such  meetings  and shows to
market  FFCIC's  products.  In  general,  FFCIC  will not  issue a policy in the
voluntary  market to anyone  (other than an  employee)  who is not a member of a
county or state Farm Bureau  organization.  Policyholders  are also  required to
maintain such membership to renew a policy.  Annual Farm Bureau  membership fees
generally  range from $50 to $500,  depending upon the county and state in which
the member resides and the type of membership. Annual associate members fees for
members not engaged in agricultural pursuits generally range from $38 to $100.

Regulatory Approvals

     Insurance.  Consummation of the Acquisition is conditioned  upon receipt of
the  approval of the New York  Superintendent.  The Company and the Life Company
are  subject  to the  insurance  holding  company  laws of the State of New York
(where FFCIC,  the Life Company and United are  domiciled).  Under such laws, no
person may acquire control  (generally defined to include the acquisition of 10%
or more of the voting  securities of any other person),  directly or indirectly,
of FFCIC, the Life Company or United without first obtaining the approval of the
insurance  regulatory  authority  in such  jurisdiction  pursuant  to  specified
procedures or rebutting the  presumption  of control with respect to such voting
securities. By letters dated April 28, 1998, the Company filed applications with
the New York Superintendent,  for the acquisition of control of the Life Company
and United.  On May 28,  1998,  the Life  Bureau of the New York  Superintendent
approved  the  Acquisition.  See "The Option  Purchase  Agreement-Conditions  to
Closing" and "The Option Purchase Agreement-Amendment, Waiver and Termination."

     In addition, the Life Company is a licensed, foreign insurer in Connecticut
and New  Hampshire  and  will be  required  to  requalify  for  its  license  in
Connecticut and to reapply for its license in New Hampshire,  in accordance with
the  applicable  insurance  laws of such states.  The Life Company will make the
required  filings with the  Connecticut  Insurance  Department and New Hampshire
Insurance  Department  to  requalify  for and reapply  for its  licenses in such
states.

     HSR  Act.  Under  the HSR Act and the  rules  that  have  been  promulgated
thereunder by the Federal Trade Commission (the "FTC"),  the Acquisition may not
be consummated until  notifications have been given and certain  information has
been  furnished  to the FTC and the  Antitrust  Division  of the  United  States
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Department of Justice (the  "Antitrust  Division") and specified  waiting period
requirements  have been satisfied.  Pursuant to the requirements of the HSR Act,
the Company and the Life Company each filed a Notification  and Report Form with
the  Antitrust  Division  and  the  FTC  on  May  8,  1998  and  May  11,  1998,
respectively,  requesting early  termination of the waiting period under the HSR
Act. Such request for early  termination of the waiting period under the HSR Act
was  granted  and  such  termination  became  effective  on May  27,  1998.  The
requirements  of the HSR Act will be satisfied if the Acquisition is consummated
within one year from the termination of the waiting period.

     Other than the approvals  discussed  above, the Company is not aware of any
federal, state or foreign regulatory  requirements that must be complied with or
approval that must be obtained in connection with the Acquisition other than the
filing  with  the  Commission  of  this  Proxy  Statement  and  compliance  with
applicable state  securities laws and  regulations.  Should any such approval be
required, it is currently contemplated that such approval will be sought.

Federal Income Tax Consequences

     The following  discussion  summarizes  the material  United States  Federal
income tax considerations relevant to the Acquisition.  This discussion is based
on  currently  existing  provisions  of the Internal  Revenue  Code of 1986,  as
amended (the  "Code"),  existing  Treasury  Regulations  thereunder  and current
administrative rulings and court decisions,  all of which are subject to change.
Any such  change,  which  may or may not be  retroactive,  could  alter  the tax
consequences  to the  Company,  the Life  Company  or the  stockholders  of such
corporations.  This  discussion  does  not  deal  with all  Federal  income  tax
considerations that may be relevant to particular stockholders in light of their
particular circumstances.

     The  authorization  and issuance by the Company of the shares of the Common
Stock and Series A Preferred  Stock to the Selling  Stockholders in exchange for
all of the outstanding  capital stock of the Life Company will be treated as the
issuance  by the  Company  of its stock in  exchange  for  property,  within the
meaning of Section 1032 of the Code, and,  accordingly,  no gain or loss will be
recognized  by the  Company  with  respect to such  exchange  for United  States
Federal  income tax  purposes.  Stockholders  of the  Company,  who are not also
stockholders  of the Life  Company,  will  not be  affected  by the  Acquisition
because they are not selling or exchanging any of their shares in the Company.

     Pursuant to the Option Purchase Agreement, the Company entered into an
Agreement  and Plan of  Reorganization  dated as of February 26, 1998 (each,  an
"Agreement   and  Plan  of   Reorganization"),   with  the   following   Selling
Stockholders:  Connecticut  Farm Bureau  Service  Company,  Delaware Farm Bureau
Service Company,  Inc., Maine Farm Bureau Service  Company,  Massachusetts  Farm
Bureau Service  Company,  Inc.,  New Jersey Farm Bureau Service  Company and New
York Farm Bureau Service Company, Inc. (each, a "Service Company"). With respect
to each Selling Stockholder which constitutes a Service Company, the Acquisition
is  intended  to  qualify  as a tax-free  reorganization  within the  meaning of
Section 368(a) of the Code. Regardless of whether the Acquisition qualifies as a
tax-free  reorganization  within the meaning of Section  368(a) of the Code, the
Acquisition  will  not  result  in the  recognition  of any  gain or loss by the
Company pursuant to Section 1032 of the Code.

THE  FOREGOING  IS ONLY A SUMMARY OF CERTAIN  FEDERAL  INCOME TAX  CONSEQUENCES.
STOCKHOLDERS  SHOULD  CONSULT THEIR OWN TAX ADVISERS  REGARDING THE SPECIFIC TAX
CONSEQUENCES TO THEM OF THE ACQUISITION, INCLUDING THE APPLICABILITY OF THE LAWS
OF ANY STATE OR OTHER JURISDICTION.

Accounting Treatment

     The Company and the Life Company will account for the Acquisition under the
purchase  method of  accounting  pursuant to which the Company  will include the
assets  and  liabilities  of the  Life  Company  in its  consolidated  financial
statements  at their  estimated  fair  market  value at the  Closing  Date.  See
"Summary" and "Unaudited Pro Forma Consolidated Financial Information."
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                        THE OPTION PURCHASE AGREEMENT

     The following summary description of the Option Purchase Agreement does not
purport to be complete  and is  qualified  in its  entirety by  reference to the
Option Purchase Agreement,  which is attached as Annex A to this Proxy Statement
and is incorporated  herein by reference.  Terms which are not otherwise defined
in this summary have the meaning set forth in the Option Purchase Agreement.

The Option

     Under the Option Purchase  Agreement,  the Company was granted an option to
acquire  all of the Life  Company  Shares,  exercisable  for a  two-year  period
commencing on July 26, 1996, unless extended for an additional year by agreement
between the parties.  The exercise price of the Option is the Fair Market Value,
less certain expenses.  The Option Purchase Agreement provides that the exercise
price will be payable in $6 million  stated  value of Series A  Preferred  Stock
(less certain  expenses  described below) and the balance (less certain expenses
described  below) will be paid in shares of Common  Stock  having a market value
(based on the Average  Closing  Price) equal to such balance.  As discussed more
fully  above  under  "The   Acquisition-Background   of  the  Acquisition,"  the
Negotiating  Committee and the Selling  Stockholders  negotiated the Fair Market
Value of $37.5 million at  arm's-length,  in  consultation  with their financial
advisors and other  representatives,  based upon separate valuations prepared by
such financial advisors  determined in accordance with the Valuation  Procedures
specified in the Option Purchase Agreement.

The Closing

     If the proposals to approve and adopt the Option Purchase  Agreement and to
approve  the  transactions  contemplated  therein  are  approved  at the Special
Meeting,  it is  expected  that the  Closing  will be  consummated  on the fifth
business day after satisfaction or waiver of all of the conditions  specified in
the Option Purchase Agreement,  unless another date is agreed to by the parties.
See "-Conditions to Closing."

Representations and Warranties

     The  Option  Purchase  Agreement  contains  various   representations   and
warranties made by each Selling  Stockholder in favor of the Company, in respect
of such Selling  Stockholder (as to certain matters only),  the Life Company and
United and made by the Company in respect of the Company and FFCIC,  in favor of
each Selling  Stockholder.  The  representations  and warranties of each Selling
Stockholder include those relating to, among other things, the following matters
(which  representations  and  warranties  are  subject,  in  certain  cases,  to
specified  exceptions):  (a) organization,  standing,  qualification and similar
corporate  matters;  (b)  authorization,  execution,  delivery,  performance and
enforceability  of the  Option  Purchase  Agreement  and  related  matters;  (c)
capitalization  of the Life  Company and title to the Life Company  Shares;  (d)
subsidiaries  of the Life Company;  (e) the absence of violation of or breach of
provisions of charter documents,  bylaws,  material  agreements,  orders or laws
from the execution,  delivery and performance of the Option Purchase  Agreement;
(f) the absence of consents for the execution of the Option Purchase  Agreement;
(g)  compliance  with laws by the Life  Company and United;  (h) licenses of the
Life  Company;  (i) the  absence  of  pending  litigation  or  known  threatened
litigation against the Life Company;  (j) an affirmation of financial statements
of the Life Company and United filed or to be filed (for the period ending after
December 31, 1995) with  various  insurance  regulators  and an  affirmation  of
financial  statements  provided;  (k) material contracts of the Life Company and
United;  (l) payment of taxes and certain  other tax matters of the Life Company
and  United;  (m)  title to and use of  certain  real and  personal  of the Life
Company and United;  (n)  environmental  matters of the Life Company and United;
(o) benefit plans of the Life Company; and (p) investment intent of such Selling
Stockholder.                         
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     The Company's  representations  and  warranties  include those relating to,
among other things, the following matters (which  representations and warranties
are  subject in certain  cases,  to  specified  exceptions):  (a)  organization,
standing,  qualification  and  similar  corporate  matters;  (b)  authorization,
execution,  delivery,  performance  and  enforceability  of the Option  Purchase
Agreement and related matters; (c) issuance of the Common Stock and the Series A
Preferred Stock to the Selling Stockholders; (d) subsidiaries of the Company and
FFCIC;  (e) the  absence  of  violation  of or breach of  provisions  of charter
documents,  bylaws,  material  agreements,  orders or laws  from the  execution,
delivery and  performance of the Option Purchase  Agreement;  (f) the absence of
consents for the execution of the Option Purchase Agreement; (g) compliance with
laws by the Company and FFCIC;  (h)  licenses of the Company and FFCIC;  (i) the
absence of pending  litigation or known threatened  litigation of the Company or
FFCIC; (j) an affirmation of financial  statements of the Company filed or to be
filed (for the period  ending after  December  31, 1995) with various  insurance
regulators  and an affirmation of financial  statements  provided;  (k) material
contracts of the Company and FFCIC;  (l) payment of taxes and certain  other tax
matters  of the  Company  and FFCIC;  (m) title to and use of  certain  real and
personal of the Company and FFCIC; (n) environmental  matters of the Company and
FFCIC; (o) benefit plans of the Company and FFCIC; and (p) investment  intent of
the Company.

Certain Covenants

     The Option  Purchase  Agreement  provides that, from the date of the Option
Purchase  Agreement  through  the later of the  Expiration  Date and the Closing
Date, each of the Selling  Stockholders will do or use its reasonable efforts to
cause to be done all things necessary to preserve,  renew and keep in full force
and effect the  corporate  existence of the Life Company and,  without the prior
written  consent  of  the  Company,  each  Selling  Stockholder  shall  use  its
reasonable efforts to, among other things,  cause the Life Company and United to
(i) operate its business in the usual,  regular and ordinary manner,  and to the
extent  consistent with such operation,  use its best efforts to preserve intact
the present  business  organization,  keep available the services of the present
officers,  employees  and agency  personnel  of the Life  Company and United and
preserve their present  relationships with persons having business dealings with
the Life  Company and United,  (ii)  maintain  the books,  accounts  and records
relating to the  business of the Life  Company and United in the usual,  regular
and ordinary manner, on a basis consistent with past practice, and (iii) use all
reasonable  efforts not to permit any event to occur that would result in any of
the  representations  and warranties  contained in the Option Purchase Agreement
not being, except as specifically contemplated by the Option Purchase Agreement,
materially true and correct.  Each Selling  Stockholder also agrees that it will
do or cause to be done all things necessary as promptly as practicable after the
date of the Option  Purchase  Agreement to amend the By-laws of the Life Company
to permit the Company to acquire the Life Company Shares  pursuant to the Option
Purchase Agreement.

     In addition, without the prior written consent of the Company, each Selling
Stockholder  will not,  and will use its  reasonable  efforts  to cause the Life
Company and Untied not to,  among other  things,  (i) enter into an agreement or
incur any  obligation,  the terms of which  would  violate  the Option  Purchase
Agreement or be violated by the consummation of the transactions contemplated by
the Option Purchase Agreement,  (ii) issue, pledge, sell, transfer,  distribute,
dispose of or otherwise encumber the capital stock of the Life Company or United
including any Life Company Shares,  or (in one or a series of transactions)  any
material  portion of the assets or  properties  of the Life  Company  and United
taken as a whole,  (iii)  redeem or  otherwise  acquire  any  shares of the Life
Company  common stock or issue capital stock or any option,  warrant or right or
any  similar  security,   (iv)  declare  or  pay  dividend  or  make  any  other
distribution  in respect  of the  capital  stock of the Life  Company or United,
except for dividends on the Life Company common stock not to exceed $480,088 per
annum in the aggregate,  (v) provide for the consolidation with or merger of the
Life Company or United or the  liquidation or dissolution of the Life Company or
United,  (vi) amend the Life Company's  Certificate of Incorporation or By-laws,
or adopt any  stockholders'  or  directors'  resolution or take any action which
would  restrict  the  alienation,  voting,  dividend or other rights of the Life
Company  Shares,  or (vii)  take any other  action or enter  into any  agreement
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similar to the foregoing  which could have the effect of frustrating the purpose
of the Option Purchase Agreement.

Other Agreements

     Agreement  and  Plan of  Reorganization.  In  connection  with  the  Option
Purchase  Agreement,   the  Company  entered  into  an  Agreement  and  Plan  of
Reorganization with each of the Selling  Stockholders which constitute a Service
Company.   The  Agreement  and  Plan  of  Reorganization  is  required  for  the
transactions  under  the  Option  Purchase  Agreement  to  qualify  as  tax-free
reorganizations  within  the  meaning of  Section  368(a) of the Code.  See "The
Acquisition-Federal Income Tax Consequences."

     Registration  Rights.  The Common Stock and Series A Preferred Stock issued
to the Selling  Stockholders  in  connection  with the  Acquisition  will not be
registered under the Securities Act of 1993, as amended (the  "Securities  Act")
and, accordingly,  will constitute "restricted securities" within the meaning of
Rule 144 under the  Securities  Act which may not be sold except  pursuant to an
effective  registration statement under the Securities Act covering such shares,
or in compliance with Rule 144  promulgated  under the Securities Act or another
applicable  exemption from the registration  requirements of the Securities Act.
Under the Option  Purchase  Agreement,  on the Closing Date, the Company and the
Selling  Stockholders  will  enter into a  registration  rights  agreement  (the
"Registration Rights Agreement") pursuant to which the Selling Stockholders will
be entitled to certain limited demand  registration rights from the Company with
respect to the shares of Common Stock  received by the Selling  Stockholders  in
the Acquisition.  The holders of a majority of the shares of Common Stock issued
to the  Selling  Stockholders  pursuant  to the Option  Purchase  Agreement  may
request,  up to one time in the two year period following the Closing Date, that
the Company file a registration statement covering such shares. The Company will
be  obligated to use its best  efforts to effect such  registration,  subject to
certain  conditions  and  limitations.  These  rights will be subject to certain
"blackout"  provisions.  The number of shares registered in connection with such
demand  registration  must represent more than thirty-five  percent of shares of
Common Stock issued to the Selling  Stockholders  in the  Acquisition,  and must
have an  aggregate  expected  offering  price  of at  least  $10  million.  Such
registration  rights  will be  transferrable  by the Selling  Stockholders.  The
Company  will agree to pay  fifty-percent  (the  Selling  Stockholders  or their
transferees  to pay the  other  fifty  percent)  of all costs  and  expenses  in
connection with such registration, except underwriting discounts and commissions
applicable to the shares of Common Stock sold by the Selling  Stockholders.  The
Registration  Rights Agreement will contain  customary terms and provisions with
respect to, among other things,  registration  procedures  and certain rights to
indemnification  granted  by the  parties  thereunder  in  connection  with  the
registration of Common Stock on behalf of the Selling Stockholders.

Conditions to Closing

     The respective obligations of the parties to consummate the Acquisition are
subject to the following conditions, among others: (i) all consents,  approvals,
orders or authorizations of, or registrations, declarations or filings with, any
Governmental Authority required in connection with the transactions contemplated
by the Option  Purchase  Agreement  shall have been  obtained or made;  (ii) the
transactions  contemplated  by the  Option  Purchase  Agreement  shall have been
approved  by the  affirmative  vote of the  outstanding  shares of Common  Stock
present in person or by proxy at the  Special  Meeting or such other vote of the
Company's  stockholders as may be required by applicable law, the Certificate of
Incorporation  or  By-laws of the  Company  or the rules of the NYSE;  (iii) all
waiting periods applicable to the Acquisition,  including any extension thereof,
under  the  HSR  Act  shall  have  expired;  (iv) no  preliminary  or  permanent
injunction or other order by any court of competent jurisdiction  prohibiting or
otherwise  restraining  the  transactions  contemplated  by the Option  Purchase
Agreement shall be in effect.  On May 27, 1998,  notice of early  termination of
the waiting period under the HSR Act was received.                          
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     The  Company's  obligation  to  consummate  the  Acquisition  is subject to
additional  conditions,  including  that:  (i) all of the terms,  covenants  and
conditions of the Option Purchase  Agreement to be complied with or performed by
the Selling  Stockholders  at or prior to the Closing shall be complied with and
performed  by  them  in all  material  respects,  and  the  representations  and
warranties made by the Selling  Stockholders  in the Option  Purchase  Agreement
shall be true and correct in all  material  respects  at and as of the  Closing;
(ii) the Company  shall have  received the opinion,  dated the Closing  Date, of
counsel to each  Selling  Stockholder  substantially  to the effect set forth in
Exhibit D to the Option  Purchase  Agreement;  (iii) the Life Company's  By-Laws
shall have been amended to permit the Company to acquire the Life Company Shares
pursuant to the Option Purchase Agreement;  (iv) the Company shall have received
an opinion, in form and substance  reasonably  acceptable to the Company from an
investment  banking  firm  of  national  standing  as to  the  fairness,  from a
financial point of view, to the Company of the transactions  contemplated by the
Option Purchase Agreement; and (v) since the Exercise Date, there shall not have
occurred  any event  that has had or is  reasonably  likely  to have a  Material
Adverse Effect (as defined in the Option Purchase Agreement) on the Life Company
and United, taken as a whole. The Company currently does not intend to waive any
material  conditions  to the  Acquisition.  If the  Company  does waive any such
material conditions, however, it would resolicit proxies at that time.

     Each Selling  Stockholder's  obligation to consummate  the  Acquisition  is
subject to additional  conditions,  including that: (i) all the terms, covenants
and conditions of the Option Purchase Agreement to be complied with or performed
by the  Company at or prior to the  Closing  shall have been  complied  with and
performed by it in all material respects, and the representations and warranties
made by the Company in the Option  Purchase  Agreement shall be true and correct
in all material respects at and as of the Closing; (ii) such Selling Stockholder
shall have received the opinion,  dated the Closing Date, of general  counsel to
the  Company,  substantially  to the effect set forth in Exhibit E to the Option
Purchase  Agreement;  (iii) the Company  shall have  executed and  delivered the
Registration  Rights  Agreement;  and (d) the Life Company's  By-Laws shall have
been amended to permit the Company to acquire the Life Company  Shares  pursuant
to the Option Purchase Agreement.

     There can be no assurance  that such  conditions  will be satisfied  or, if
such  conditions  are  satisfied,  that such  conditions  will be  satisfied  by
February 26, 1999,  the date specified in the Option  Purchase  Agreement as the
date after which the Selling  Stockholders  may  terminate  the Option  Purchase
Agreement if the Closing has not yet occurred.

Amendment, Waiver and Termination

     The  Company  and the Selling  Stockholders  may amend the Option  Purchase
Agreement and may waive any term or condition thereof,  in each case, by written
agreement at any time without the approval of the  stockholders  of the Company.
The  Company  will not,  however,  waive any  material  condition  to the Option
Purchase  Agreement or materially  amend the Option  Purchase  Agreement or make
material  changes  in the  terms of the  Acquisition  after the  Acquisition  is
approved by the Company's  stockholders without obtaining the requisite approval
of such stockholders.

     The Option  Purchase  Agreement  may be terminated at any time prior to the
Closing  Date,  whether  before or after  approval  by the  stockholders  at the
Special  Meeting (i) by mutual written  agreement of the Company and the Selling
Stockholders,  or (ii) by either the Company or the Selling  Stockholders if the
Closing Date has not occurred by February 26, 1999, the one year  anniversary of
the Exercise Date,  provided that the right to so terminate the Option  Purchase
Agreement will not be available to any party whose failure to fulfill any of its
obligations  under the Option Purchase  Agreement  results in the failure of the
Closing to occur on or prior to such date.

     In the event of termination of the Option Purchase  Agreement by either the
Company or the Selling  Stockholders  as  provided  above,  the Option  Purchase
Agreement  will be void and there will be no liability or obligation on the part
of the Company or the Selling Stockholders,  other than liability by reason of a
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party's  knowing  misrepresentations  with  respect to matters  under the Option
Purchase  Agreement or willful failure to have performed its  obligations  under
the Option Purchase Agreement.

Survival of Representations and Warranties

     The  representations  and warranties of the parties in the Option  Purchase
Agreement or in any certificate or instrument  delivered at Closing will survive
the Closing  until the first  anniversary  of the Closing  Date,  except for the
representations  and  warranties  of the Company  and the  Selling  Stockholders
relating  to:  (i)  taxes and  benefit  plans,  which  shall  survive  until the
expiration  of  applicable  statutes  of  limitation;  and  (ii)  the  corporate
organization and standing and similar corporate  matters of the Company,  FFCIC,
the Life Company,  United and the Selling  Stockholders,  capitalization  of the
Life Company,  issuance of the Common Stock and the Series A Preferred  Stock to
the Selling  Stockholders  in connection  with the  Acquisition and title to the
Life Company Shares, which shall survive indefinitely.

Expenses

     The Option Purchase Agreement provides that unless otherwise provided,  the
Company  and the  Selling  Stockholders  will pay their  own costs and  expenses
incurred  in  connection  with  the  transactions   under  the  Option  Purchase
Agreement,  including,  without limitation,  this Proxy Statement. Any party who
makes  knowing  misrepresentations  with  respect  to  matters  under the Option
Purchase  Agreement or who willfully fails to perform its obligations  under the
Option Purchase  Agreement may be liable for damages  occasioned by such breach.
The  Option  Purchase  Agreement  provides  that the Life  Company  will pay the
reasonable  out-of-pocket fees and expenses of the Selling Stockholders incurred
in connection with the Option Purchase  Agreement for: (i) one legal counsel and
one investment banking firm, engaged by the Shareholders' Committee; (ii) travel
and per diem expenses  incurred in connection with attendance at meetings of the
Shareholders'  Committee;  and (iii) a real estate  appraisal  in respect of the
Life Company's real property.  The Option Purchase  Agreement  further  provides
that the Exercise Price payable to each Selling Stockholder shall be net of such
expenses, determined on a pro rata basis, which expenses are currently estimated
to be approximately $0.96 million.

Material Change In Law

     The Option Purchase  Agreement provides that in the event a Material Change
in Law (as defined in the Option  Purchase  Agreement)  could  adversely  affect
certain of the Federal income tax  consequences  of the  transaction for certain
Selling  Stockholders,  the Company and the Selling  Stockholders have agreed to
negotiate  in good faith to amend or modify the terms of the Series A  Preferred
Stock, to arrange for substitute  consideration  or otherwise to restructure the
transactions under the Option Purchase Agreement. If the Company and the Selling
Stockholders  are  unable  to  agree  on the  terms  of any  such  amendment  or
modification,  substitute  consideration  or  restructuring,  despite their good
faith  efforts to do so, the Company and the Selling  Stockholders  have agreed,
among other  things,  that (i)  neither the Company nor any Selling  Stockholder
will be obligated to consummate the Closing under the Option Purchase Agreement,
(ii) the amendments to the Original Option Purchase Agreement made by the Option
Purchase  Agreement  generally will be void ab initio and  correspondingly,  the
Original Option Purchase  Agreement will continue in full force and effect as if
the Option Purchase Agreement had never become effective and (iii) the Company's
exercise  of the  Option  described  in this  Proxy  Statement  pursuant  to the
Exercise  Notice  delivered  pursuant  to Section  4(a) of the  Option  Purchase
Agreement will be void ab initio.  In the event that the Company and the Selling
Stockholders  renegotiate  material terms of the consideration to be paid or the
transactions  under the  Option  Purchase  Agreement  or, in the event  that the
Original  Option  Purchase  Agreement is  reinstated  and the Company  elects to
exercise its Option  thereunder,  the Company would  re-solicit  proxies at that
time.
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Changes to Original Option Purchase Agreement

     The Option Purchase Agreement made certain significant changes to the terms
of the Original Option Purchase Agreement. Such changes include the following:

     Required  Vote. The vote required by the Company's  stockholders  under the
Option  Purchase  Agreement to approve the  transactions  thereunder was reduced
from requiring the affirmative vote of the holders of at least a majority of the
outstanding  shares of  Common  Stock to  requiring  the  affirmative  vote of a
majority of the outstanding shares of Common Stock present in person or by proxy
at the Special  Meeting or such other vote as may be required by applicable law,
the Certificate of Incorporation and By-laws of the Company and the rules of the
NYSE. See "The Special Meeting-Required Vote."

     Series A Preferred Stock;  Common Stock  Allocation.  The $6 million stated
value of Series A  Preferred  Stock was made a  mandatory  part of the  Exercise
Price  to be paid to the  Selling  Stockholders,  rather  than  optional  at the
Selling Stockholder's  election, and the dividend was reduced to 6 1/8% from 8%.
In addition, the formula for determining the number of shares of Common Stock to
be issued to the  Selling  Stockholders  was  modified  so that the value of the
Series A Preferred  Stock included as part of the formula would be based upon on
the stated  value per share of Series A  Preferred  Stock  (equal to the Average
Closing Price) rather than the fair market value per share of Series A Preferred
Stock.  See  "The  Acquisition-Exercise  Price"  and  "Description  of  Series A
Preferred Stock."

     Tax Considerations. In seeking to secure the intended United States Federal
income  tax  consequences  to  certain  Selling  Stockholders  that are  Service
Companies,  the Company and each such Selling Stockholder  executed an Agreement
and Plan of Reorganization. See "-Other Agreements" and "The Acquisition-Federal
Income Tax Consequences."

     Agreement  and Plan of  Reorganization.  Pursuant  to the  Option  Purchase
Agreement, the Company entered into an Agreement and Plan of Reorganization with
certain    Selling    Stockholders.    See   "-Other    Agreements"   and   "The
Acquisition-Federal Income Tax Consequences."

     Fair Market Value.  The  determination of the Fair Market Value was revised
to occur prior to the exercise of the Option by the  Company,  rather than after
the  Company's  exercise of the Option,  so that the Company would know the Fair
Market Value prior to making a decision to exercise the Option.  This change was
originally made by Amendment No. 1 to the Original  Option  Purchase  Agreement,
dated April 22, 1997.

     Material  Change in Law.  The  provision in the  Original  Option  Purchase
Agreement  entitled  "Changes in Tax Laws" was  expanded  and revised into a new
section  entitled  "Material  Change in Law," described  above under  "-Material
Change in Law."

     Registration Rights. Limited demand registration rights were granted to the
Selling  Stockholders  with  respect to the Common Stock to be issued to them in
the  Acquisition  pursuant to the  Registration  Rights  Agreement.  See "-Other
Agreements."

     Expense Allocation.  Certain expenses of the Selling Stockholders  incurred
in  connection  with  the  Option  Purchase  Agreement  will be paid by the Life
Company and the Exercise Price payable to the Selling Stockholders is net of the
amount of such expenses. See "-Expenses."
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             UNAUDITED PRO FORMA CONSOLIDATED FINANCIAL INFORMATION

     The  following  unaudited  pro  forma  consolidated  financial  information
reflects  the  Acquisition  by the  Company of the Life  Company.  The pro forma
consolidated balance sheet, which combines balance sheets of the Company and the
Life Company as of June 30, 1998,  gives effect to the  Acquisition as if it had
occurred as of June 30, 1998.  The pro forma  consolidated  statements of income
combines the  operations  of the Company and the Life Company for the year ended
December 31, 1997 and the six months  ended June 30, 1998 as if the  Acquisition
had occurred on January 1, 1997. See "Available Information,"  "Incorporation of
Documents by Reference" and the  consolidated  financial  statements,  and notes
thereto,  of the Life  Company for the six months  ended and as of June 30, 1998
and 1997 and the  years  ended  and as of  December  31,  1997,  1996 and  1995,
attached as Annex C to this Proxy Statement.


     The  Acquisition  will be  accounted  for  under  the  purchase  method  of
accounting. See "The Acquisition-Accounting Treatment."

     The pro forma  adjustments and pro forma combined  amounts are provided for
informational  purposes  only and are not  necessarily  indicative of the actual
financial  position or results of  operations  that would have been achieved had
the  Acquisition  been  consummated at the dates indicated or of future results.
The pro  forma  financial  statements  should  be read in  conjunction  with the
historical  financial  statements  of the  Company,  incorporated  by  reference
herein, and the Life Company and subsidiary which are included elsewhere herein.

     The pro forma financial statements are based upon available information and
certain   assumptions   that  the  Company   believes  are   reasonable  in  the
circumstances.  The Company's preliminary allocation of purchase price was based
upon the estimated fair value of assets  acquired and liabilities  assumed.  The
actual  allocation  will be based upon  valuations as of the Closing Date of the
Acquisition and,  accordingly,  the final allocations will be different from the
amounts herein.
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<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

                            Farm Family Holdings, Inc.
                   Unaudited Pro Forma Consolidated Balance Sheet
                                June 30, 1998
                            (dollars in thousands)
                                                                 
                                                                                          Pro Forma
                                                             The         The Life        Adjustments
                                                           Company        Company     Dr.             Cr.          Pro Forma
                                                                                      -------------------        

Assets
Investments
   Fixed maturities:
      Available for sale, at fair
<S>                                                         <C>           <C>         <C>               <C>          <C>           
        value........................................       $269,825      $707,719    $                 $             $977,544
      Held to maturity, at amortized cost............          8,471                                                     8,471
   Equity securities.................................          4,841        41,121                                      45,962
   Mortgage loans....................................            728        13,259                                      13,987
   Policy loans......................................                       29,842                                      29,842
   Other invested assets.............................            458           624                                       1,082
   Short-term investments............................          8,172         5,082                                      13,254
                                                          ------------   ------------                               -------------
        Total investments............................        292,495       797,647                                    1,090,142
Cash.................................................          5,523           525                                        6,048
Insurance receivables:
   Reinsurance receivables...........................         17,513           810                                       18,323
   Premiums receivable...............................         33,472                                   (d)    102        33,370
Deferred acquisition costs...........................         13,437        28,375                     (b) 28,375        13,437
Present value of future profits......................                                   (b) 18,229                       18,229
Accrued investment income............................          5,351        13,491                                       18,842
Property and equipment, net..........................                       12,262      (b)  4,281                       16,543
Deferred income tax asset, net.......................          4,992                                                      4,992
Prepaid reinsurance premiums.........................            505                                                        505
Receivable from affiliates, net......................         17,690                                    (d) 17,690            0
Other assets.........................................          3,404         2,189      (e)   247       (a)  1,400        4,440
                                                         ------------   ------------  ------------     -----------  -------------
        Total assets.................................       $394,382      $855,299        $22,757          $47,567    $1,224,871  
                                                         ------------   ------------  ------------     -----------  -------------
                                                         ------------   ------------  ------------     -----------  -------------
Liabilities and Stockholders'
   Equity
Liabilities:
   Reserves for losses and loss
      adjustment expenses............................       $168,411      $              $                  $          $ 168,411
   Future policy and contract
      benefits.......................................                      215,978                                       215,978
   Funds on deposit from
      policyholders..................................                      420,579       (b) 2,209                       418,370
   Unearned premium reserve..........................         72,650                                                      72,650
   Accrued dividends to policyholders................                        5,683                                         5,683
   Reinsurance premiums payable......................          2,122                                                       2,122
   Deferred income tax liability.....................                       36,755       (b) 1,276                        35,479
   Payable to affiliate..............................                       17,792       (d)17,792                             0
   Accrued expenses and other liabilities............         21,892         4,234                      (b)(e) 347        26,473
   Participating policyholders'interest...............                      113,858                                       113,858
                                                           ------------   ------------  -------------     -----------  -----------
        Total liabilities............................        265,075       814,879          21,277             347     1,059,024
Commitments and contingencies
Mandatory redeemable Series A
   Preferred Stock...................................                                                    (a) 5,846         5,846
Stockholders' equity:
   Common stock......................................             53         3,001        (c) 3,001         (a) 10            63
   Additional paid in capital........................         92,906                                    (a) 30,684       123,590
   Retained earnings.................................         28,616        35,585        c) 35,585                       28,616
   Accumulated other comprehensive
      income.........................................          7,732         1,834        (c) 1,834                        7,732
                                                          ------------   ------------  ----------------    ----------- ------------
        Total stockholders' equity...................        129,307        40,420           40,420          30,694      160,001
                                                          ------------   ------------  ----------------    ----------- ------------
    Total liabilities and                                                                                                   
           stockholders' equity......................       $394,382      $855,299          $61,697         $36,887     $1,224,871
                                                          ------------   ------------  ----------------    ----------  ------------
                                                          ------------   ------------  ----------------    ----------  ------------
</TABLE>
See accompanying notes to unaudited pro forma consolidated balance sheet.



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                           Farm Family Holdings, Inc.
               Notes to Unaudited Pro Forma Consolidated Balance Sheet
                                June 30, 1998
                           (dollars in thousands)



(a)  The following pro forma  adjustments  reflect the funding of
     the  Acquisition  and  consideration   given  ($37,500  less
     certain  expenses   currently   estimated  to  be  equal  to
     approximately  $960  to be  paid  by  the  Life  Company  in
     connection  with the  Acquisition  on behalf of the  Selling
     Stockholders).

          Series A Preferred Stock...............................       $(5,846)

          Unregistered  Common Stock issued (estimated  1,032,794
          shares  issued,  $.01  par  value)  in the  Acquisition
          assuming an Average  Closing  Price of $29 23/32 if the
          Closing had  occurred on October 16,  1998.  The actual
          Average  Closing  Price and the actual number of shares
          of Common  Stock  that  will be  issued to the  Selling
          Stockholders may vary significantly from these amounts.
          See "The Acquisition-Exercise Price."..................           (10)

          Additional paid in capital.............................       (30,684)

          Expenses relating to acquisition.......................          1,400

(b)  The  following  pro  forma   adjustments   result  from  the
     allocation of the purchase price for the  Acquisition  based
     on the fair value of the underlying net assets acquired.

          Assets

          Adjustment of carrying amount of properties occupied by
          the Life  Company  based on a current  appraisal of the
          estimated  fair  market  value  of  the  building.   In
          addition, based on information contained in the current
          appraisal and an evaluation of the current condition of
          the  building,  the  estimated  useful  life  has  been
          changed to 20 years....................................         $4,281

          Elimination   of   historical   deferred    acquisition
          costs..................................................       (28,375)

          Adjustment to record  present  value of future  profits
               calculated  based on a discount rate equal to each
               year's  earned  rate  for  traditional   insurance
               products,  which  range  from 8% to 9%,  and  each
               year's  credited  rate for annuities and universal
               life products, which range from 6% to 7%, less the
               excess of net assets  acquired  over the  purchase
               price.   The  earned  rate  for  traditional  life
               insurance  products  and  the  credited  rate  for
               annuities and universal  life products is the rate
               used by the Life  Company  to credit  interest  to
               policyholders'  funds held by these products.  The
               amount  of  interest  accrued  on the  unamortized
               present value of future profits balance during the
               year was $0.4 million.  The interest  accrual rate
               was 6.5% for  universal  life  products,  6.3% for
               annuities, and 9.0% for traditional life products.

Notes continued on following page
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Notes continued from previous page


          For traditional  insurance products,  the present value
          of  future  profits  is  amortized,  with  interest  in
          proportion  to the ratio of estimated  annual  revenues
          over the contract period.  For universal life contracts
          and  annuity  contracts,  the  present  value of future
          profits is amortized at a constant  rate based upon the
          amount  expected  to be  realized  over the life of the
          contracts, which is reevaluated annually. For most life
          insurance,  a 15-year to 40-year amortization period is
          used,  and a  20-year  period  is used  for  annuities.
          Approximately  $2.1 million is expected to be amortized
          during each of the years ended December 31, 1998, 1999,
          2000, 2001 and 2002.....................................       $18,229
  
          Liabilities

          Adjustment  to reflect the net  deferred tax benefit of
          purchase accounting  adjustments using a statutory rate
          of 34%...................................................        1,276

          Adjustment    to   record    liability   for   Guaranty
          Funds....................................................        (100)

          Adjustment of carrying  amount of funds on deposit from
          policyholders based on fair market value.  Policyholder
          funds  held at  variable  rates  are  carried  at their
          account value which  approximates  fair value. The fair
          value of policyholder  funds held at fixed rates is the
          present  value of the funds  calculated  using  current
          market rates.............................................        2,209

(c)  Adjustment  to eliminate  the Life  Company's  stockholders'
     equity

(d)  Adjustment to eliminate intercompany balances

(e)  Adjustment  to accrue  additional  expenses  relating to the
     acquisition expected to be incurred............................         247
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<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                           Farm Family Holdings, Inc.
                Unaudited Pro Forma Consolidated Statement of Income
                     For the six months ended June 30, 1998
                 (dollars in thousands, except per share data)

                                                                                     Pro Forma Adjustments
                                               The          The Life                 ---------------------              Pro
                                             Company         Company              Dr.                     Cr.          Forma

Revenues:
   Premiums from
      property/casualty
<S>                                         <C>                 <C>            <C>                 <C>                 <C>          
      operations........................    $87,744             $3             $                   $                    $87,747
   Premiums from life and health
      operations........................                    15,531                                                       15,531
   Net investment income................      9,518         27,798                                                       37,316
   Realized investment
      gains (losses), net...............        342          1,707                                                        2,049
   Policy and contract charges..........                     2,406                                                        2,406
   Other income.........................        483            493             (c) 434                                      542
                                        ---------------  ------------  ----------------------  ------------------  -----------------
      Total revenues....................     98,087         47,938                 434                                  145,591
Losses, benefits and expenses:
   Losses and loss adjustment expenses..     66,127            900                                                       67,027
   Benefits to policyholders............                    13,292                                                       13,292
   Underwriting & operating expenses....     23,591          4,070              (a) 72               (c) 434             27,299
   Non-recurring charges................                       176                                                          176
   Interest credited to policyholders...                    11,312                                                       11,312
   Amortization of policy
      acquisition costs.................                     3,583                                 (a) 3,583                  0
   Amortization of present
      value of future profits...........                                      ( a) 899                                      899
   Interest expense.....................         25                                                                          25
   Dividends to policyholders...........         55                                                                          55
   Participating policyholders'
      interest..........................                     12,261            (a)3,168             (a)  773             14,656
                                         -------------  -------------  ----------------------  ----------------------  -------------
      Total losses and expenses.........     89,798          45,594               4,139                4,790            134,741
Income before federal income tax expense      8,289           2,344               4,573                4,790             10,850
Federal income tax expense..............      2,556             786              (b) 73                                   3,415
                                         ---------------  ------------  ----------------------  ----------------------  ------------
Income before preferred
   stock dividends......................      5,733           1,558               4,646                4,790              7,435
Series A preferred stock dividends......                                        (a) 179                                     179
                                         ---------------  ------------  ----------------------  ----------------------  ------------
Income applicable to common
shareholders............................     $5,733          $1,558              $4,825               $4,790             $7,256
                                         ---------------  ------------  ----------------------  ----------------------  ------------
                                         ---------------  ------------  ----------------------  ----------------------  ------------
Net income per common share-basic.......      $1.09                                                                       $1.15
                                         ---------------                                                                ------------
                                         ---------------                                                                ------------

Net income per common share-diluted.....      $1.08                                                                       $1.14
                                         ---------------                                                                ------------
                                         ---------------                                                                ------------

Weighted average shares-basic...........   5,253,813                                               (d) 1,032,794         6,286,607
Weighted average shares-diluted.........   5,307,442                                               (d) 1,032,794         6,340,236
</TABLE>
See accompanying notes to unaudited pro forma consolidated statement of income.
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                              Farm Family Holdings, Inc.
                Notes to Unaudited Pro Forma Consolidated Statement of Income
                       For the six months ended June 30, 1998
                   (dollars in thousands, except per share data)


(a)  Adjustment  resulting  from the  allocation  of the purchase
     price for the Acquisition  based on the estimated fair value
     of the underlying net assets are as follows:

          Additional  depreciation  expense  incurred  due  to an
          adjustment  of  the   fair market value of the building
          based  on a  current  appraisal  and a  change  in  the
          estimated useful life of the building to 20 years based
          on information  contained in the current  appraisal and
          an   evaluation   of  the  current   condition  of  the
          building...............................................            $72
          
          Adjustment   to  reverse   amortization   of   deferred
          acquisition costs......................................        (3,583)

          Participating  policyholders'  share of amortization of
          deferred acquisition costs.............................          3,168
          
          Adjustment to record  amortization  of present value of
          future profits.........................................           899
          
          Participating  policyholders'  share of amortization of
          present value of future profits........................          (773)
          
          Series A Preferred Stock dividends on estimated  stated
          value of $5,846 of preferred  stock at a rate of 6 1/8%
          per annum..............................................            179

(b)  Adjustment to reflect the federal  income tax effect of item
     (a) above using statutory rate of 34%.......................             73

(c)  Adjustment to eliminate intercompany balances...............            434

(d)  Adjustment to reflect estimated  additional shares of Common
     Stock issued in the Acquisition  assuming an Average Closing
     Price of $29 23/32 if the  Closing  had  occurred on October
     16, 1998.  The actual  Average  Closing Price and the actual
     number of shares of Common  Stock that will be issued to the
     Selling  Stockholders  may  vary  significantly  from  these
     amounts.See "The Acquisition-Exercise Price."...............      1,032,794
<PAGE>
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>



                           Farm Family Holdings, Inc.
                Unaudited Pro Forma Consolidated Statement of Income
                       For the year ended December 31, 1997
                   (dollars in thousands, except per share data)
     
                                              The          The Life                 Pro Forma Adjustment                   Pro    
      Revenues:                             Company         Company              Dr.                     Cr.              Forma   
   Premiums from property/casualty
<S>                                          <C>             <C>              <C>                     <C>                 <C>       
            operations..................     $149,220        $9,020           $                       $                   $158,240
   Premiums from life and health 
            operations..................                     30,505                                                         30,505
   Net investment income................       18,077        54,964                                                         73,041
   Realized investment
      gains (losses), net...............        5,406         2,914                                                          8,320
   Policy and contract charges..........                      5,041                                                          5,041
   Other income.........................        1,020         1,153             (c)  808                                     1,365
                                         ---------------  ------------       ----------------         ----------------  ------------
      Total revenues....................      173,723       103,597                  808                                   276,512

Losses, benefits and expenses:
   Losses and loss
      adjustment expenses...............      103,301         9,975                                                        113,276
   Benefits to policyholders............                     26,843                                                         26,843
   Underwriting & operating expenses....       43,320         7,748             (a)  158                (c)   808           50,418
   Non-recurring charges................                        707                                                            707
   Interest credited to policyholders...                     24,813                                                         24,813
   Amortization of policy acquisition 
    costs.................                                    6,852                                     (a) 6,852                0
   Amortization of present
      value of future profits...........                                        (a) 2,233                                    2,233
   Interest expense.....................          102                                                                          102
   Dividends to policyholders...........          282                                                                          282
   Participating policyholders'
      interest..........................                     21,617             (a) 5,994               (a) 1,929           25,682
                                         --------------  ------------       ----------------         --------------    ------------
      Total losses and expenses.........      147,005        98,555                 8,385                   9,589          244,356
Income before federal
   income tax expense...................       26,718         5,042                 9,193                   9,589           32,156
Federal income tax expense..............        9,218         1,702             (b)   135                                   11,055
                                         --------------  ------------       ----------------         ---------------  ------------
Income before preferred
   stock dividends......................       17,500         3,340                 9,328                   9,589           21,101
Series A preferred stock dividends......                                        (a)   358                                      358
                                         ---------------  ------------       -----------------        ---------------  ------------
Income applicable to     
   common shareholders..................      $17,500        $3,340                $9,686                  $9,589          $20,743
                                         ---------------  ------------       ----------------         ----------------  ------------
                                         ---------------  ------------       ----------------         ----------------  ------------
Net income per common share-basic.......        $3.33                                                                       $3.30
                                         ---------------                                                                ------------
                                         ---------------                                                                ------------
Net income per common share-diluted.....        $3.32                                                                       $3.29
                                         ---------------                                                                ------------
                                         ---------------                                                                ------------
Weighted average shares-basic...........     5,253,813                                                (d) 1,032,794      6,286,607
Weighted average shares-diluted.........     5,270,947                                                (d) 1,032,794      6,303,741

</TABLE>
See  accompanying  notes  to  unaudited  pro  forma  consolidated
statement of income.
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                            Farm Family Holdings, Inc.
            Notes to Unaudited Pro Forma Consolidated Statement of Income
                      For the year ended December 31, 1997
                (dollars in thousands, except per share data)


(a)  Adjustment  resulting  from the  allocation  of the purchase
     price for the Acquisition  based on the estimated fair value
     of the underlying net assets are as follows:

          Additional  depreciation  expense  incurred  due  to an
          adjustment  of the fair  market  value of the  building
          based  on a  current  appraisal  and a  change  in  the
          estimated useful life of the building to 20 years based
          on information  contained in the current  appraisal and
          an   evaluation   of  the  current   condition  of  the
          building...............................................           $158
    
         
          Adjustment   to  reverse   amortization   of   deferred
          acquisition costs......................................        (6,852)
          
          Participating  policyholders'  share of amortization of
          deferred acquisition costs.............................          5,994
          
          Adjustment to record  amortization  of present value of
          future profits.........................................          2,233
          
          Participating  policyholders'  share of amortization of
          present value of future profits........................        (1,929)
          
          Series A Preferred Stock dividends on estimated  stated
          value of $5,846 of preferred  stock at a rate of 6 1/8%
          per annum..............................................            358
          
(b)  Adjustment to reflect the federal  income tax effect of item
     (a) above using statutory rate of 34%.......................            135

(c)  Adjustment to eliminate intercompany balances...............            808
          
(d)  Adjustment to reflect estimated  additional shares of Common
     Stock issued in the Acquisition  assuming an Average Closing
     Price of $29 23/32 if the  Closing  had  occurred on October
     16, 1998.  The actual  Average  Closing Price and the actual
     number of shares of Common  Stock that will be issued to the
     Selling  Stockholders  may  vary  significantly  from  these
     amounts. See "The Acquisition-Exercise Price."...............     1,032,794
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                            BUSINESS OF THE LIFE COMPANY

Overview

     The following  discussion  includes the  operations of the Life Company and
its wholly owned subsidiary, United. The operations of the Life Company are also
closely related with those of its  affiliates,  the Company and its wholly owned
subsidiary, FFCIC. See "-Related Party Transactions."

     The Life  Company is a stock life  insurance  company  owned by Farm Bureau
organizations  and their  affiliates  in New York,  New Jersey,  Delaware,  West
Virginia and all of the New England States.  These entities  comprise all of the
Selling  Stockholders.  The Life Company was established in 1953 to provide life
insurance  products  for Farm Bureau  members  principally  in the  Northeastern
United States.  The Life Company  principally  sells individual whole life, term
and universal life products, in addition to single and flexible premium deferred
annuities,  single premium  immediate  annuities and disability income insurance
products.  The Life  Company  operates  in the same ten  states as the  Company,
through a common  distribution system consisting of more than 200 agents who are
located  in the rural and  suburban  communities  the Life  Company  serves.  In
addition,   the  Life  Company  is  licensed  to  write  insurance  business  in
Pennsylvania and Maryland and began to conduct business in those states in 1998.
Membership in a state or county Farm Bureau  organization  is not a prerequisite
for  purchasing  insurance  coverage  from the Life Company or United.  The Life
Company's  wholly owned  subsidiary,  United,  is a stock  property and casualty
insurance company formed in 1988. Prior to January 1, 1998,  United's  principal
business was  reinsurance of direct business  written by FFCIC. In 1998,  United
commenced  writing direct  property and casualty  business in  Pennsylvania  and
Maryland.  The Life  Company's  principal  executive  offices are located at 344
Route 9W, Glenmont, New York 12077; its telephone number is (518) 431-5000.

     As of June 30,  1998,  the Life  Company's  shareholders'  equity was $40.4
million and its total assets were $855.3 million.  Premiums from life and health
operations  for the six months  ended June 30,  1998 were $15.5  million and for
each of the years ended  December  31, 1997,  1996 and 1995 were $30.5  million,
$30.3  million  and $29.4  million,  respectively.  Policy and  contract  charge
revenues were $2.4 million for the six months ended June 30, 1998,  $5.0 million
for each of the years ended  December 31, 1997 and 1996 and $4.5 million for the
year ended December 31, 1995. Net income attributable to common shareholders was
$1.6 million for the six months ended June 30, 1998 and was $3.3  million,  $3.0
million and $4.4 million for each of the years ended December 31, 1997, 1996 and
1995,  respectively.  The Life  Company had  approximately  $3.7 billion of life
insurance in force at June 30, 1998.

Products

     The Life Company  offers a variety of insurance  products to its clients in
the rural and suburban communities in which it does business. The Life Company's
primary product lines are individual  life  insurance,  annuities and disability
income.  Individual  life  insurance,  annuities and disability  income products
accounted  for 99% and 98%,  respectively,  of the  Company's  direct  collected
premiums for the six months ended June 30, 1998 and for the year ended  December
31,  1997.  Group sales of life  insurance,  annuities  and  accident and health
insurance comprise the remaining direct collected premiums for the Life Company.

         Life Insurance Products

     Whole Life Insurance  Products.  The Life Company  markets a  participating
whole life product.  Participating  whole life  insurance is designed to provide
benefits for the life of the insured.  It is generally designed to provide level
premiums and a level death benefit and requires  payments in excess of mortality
charges in early  years to offset  increasing  mortality  costs in later  years.
Under the terms of the contract,  policyholders  have a right to  participate in
the surplus of the Life Company to the extent  determined by the Life  Company's
Board of Directors, through annual participating policyholder dividends. For the
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six months ended June 30, 1998 and for the year ended  December 31, 1997,  sales
of traditional life insurance  represented 63% and 58%,  respectively,  of first
year direct life premiums collected.

     Term Life Products.  The Life Company's term insurance policy provides life
insurance  protection for a specified  time period.  Term insurance is mortality
based and generally has no accumulation  values.  The Life Company can choose to
change the premium  scales at any time;  however,  the scales can not exceed the
guaranteed  rates. For the six months ended June 30, 1998 and for the year ended
December  31,  1997,  sales  of  term  life  insurance  represented  5%  and  6%
respectively, of first year direct life premiums collected.

     Universal Life Products.  Universal life provides  benefits for the life of
the  insured.  Interest  is  credited  to the cash  value of the policy at rates
periodically  set by the Life  Company.  The Life  Company  also  markets a last
survivor  universal life product  designed  especially  for the estate  planning
market.  There is no set premium scale for the Life Company's flexible universal
life policies except premium  contributions  cannot exceed Internal Revenue Code
limitations.  The Life  Company's  Single  Premium Life policy states a one time
premium  payable at issue.  For the six months  ended June 30,  1998 and for the
year ended December 31, 1997, sales of universal life insurance  represented 32%
and 36%, respectively, of first year direct life premiums collected.

     Annuity  Products 

     The Life  Company  markets  single  premium  fixed  annuities  and flexible
premium annuities.  Fixed annuities accumulate tax-deferred interest and provide
for periodic  fixed  payments to the annuitant in the future.  Flexible  premium
annuities allow for flexibility,  within certain  parameters  established by the
Life  Company,  in the payment of periodic  annuity  premiums.  The Life Company
periodically  determines  the interest  rate  credited to single  premium  fixed
annuities and flexible premium annuities.

     Disability Income Insurance Products

     The Life Company's disability income policy provides payment of benefits in
the event of a disabling accident or illness.  Disability benefits reimburse the
insured for a specified dollar amount payable over a specific time period or for
the duration of the disability. Disability is generally defined as the inability
for the  policyholder to perform one's  occupation for the first two years after
disability,  and  inability  to  pursue  any  occupation  thereafter.  Since the
policies are guaranteed  renewable rather than  noncancelable,  the Life Company
may change the premium scale at any time based on claim costs incurred,  subject
to regulatory approval.
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     The  following  table  sets forth the first year  collected  premiums  on a
statutory basis for the Life Company's products for the periods indicated:

                    Collected Premiums by Product-Statutory Basis
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                                               Six months
                                                                             ended June 30,               Year ended December 31,
                                                                             --------------               -----------------------
                                                                            1998         1997         1997         1996         1995
                                                                            ----         ----         ----         ----         ----
                                                                                         (dollars in thousands)

Direct life premiums collected:
   Universal life
<S>                                                                       <C>          <C>          <C>          <C>          <C>   
      First year.......................................................   $1,700       $2,469       $3,879       $2,423      $2,976
      Renewal..........................................................    3,229        3,172        6,524        6,634       6,804
                                                                        -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  --------
        Total..........................................................    4,929        5,641       10,403        9,057       9,780
                                                                        -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  --------
   Whole life and term
      First year.......................................................    3,621        3,380        6,754        8,235       6,347
      Renewal..........................................................   11,124       10,749       21,663       20,726      19,782
                                                                        -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  --------
        Total..........................................................   14,745       14,129       28,417       28,961      26,129
                                                                        -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  --------
           Total direct life...........................................   19,674       19,770       38,820       38,018      35,909
Reinsurance ceded......................................................    (350)        (360)        (730)        (609)        (513)
                                                                       -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  --------
Total life, net of reinsurance.........................................   19,324       19,410       38,090       37,409      35,396
                                                                       -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  ---------
Direct annuity premiums collected:
      First year.......................................................    3,961        4,356       10,024       11,232      23,402
      Renewal..........................................................    3,296        3,703        5,268        7,427      16,550
                                                                        -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  -------
        Total annuities................................................    7,257        8,059       15,292       18,659      39,952
Reinsurance ceded......................................................        -            -            -            -           -
                                                                        -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  --------
Total annuities, net of reinsurance....................................    7,257        8,059       15,292       18,659      39,952
                                                                        -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  --------
Direct accident and health premiums collected:
Accident and health-individual
      First year.......................................................      177          191          382          428         479
      Renewal..........................................................    1,241        1,192        2,355        2,220       1,997
                                                                        -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  --------
        Total..........................................................    1,418        1,383        2,737        2,648       2,476
                                                                        -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  --------
Accident and health-group
      First year.......................................................        -           34           46           10          16
      Renewal..........................................................       28           12           45        (180)         (43)
                                                                        -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  --------
        Total..........................................................       28           46           91        (170)         (27)
                                                                        -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  --------
        Total accident and health......................................    1,446        1,429        2,828        2,478       2,449
Reinsurance ceded......................................................     (150)        (127)        (243)        (220)       (196)
                                                                        -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  --------
Total accident and health, net of reinsurance..........................    1,296        1,302        2,585        2,258       2,253
                                                                        -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  --------
Total collected premiums, net of reinsurance...........................  $27,877      $28,771      $55,967      $58,326     $77,601
                                                                        -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  --------
                                                                        -----------  -----------  -----------  -----------  --------
</TABLE>
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         The following table sets forth information regarding life insurance and
annuities in force at the end of each period presented:

                    Life Insurance and Annuities in Force
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

                                                                       As of or for the
                                                                       six month period               As of or for the year ended
                                                                        ended June 30,                       December 31,
                                                                        --------------                       ------------
                                                                      1998          1997           1997          1996           1995
                                                                      ----          ----           ----          ----           ----
                                                                         (dollars in thousands, except face amounts in millions)

Life insurance:
   Universal
<S>                                                                  <C>           <C>            <C>           <C>            <C>  
      Number of policies........................................     8,966         9,132          9,053         9,164          9,250
      Direct statutory premiums.................................    $5,110        $5,640        $14,542       $14,661        $13,783
      GAAP policyholder account balances........................  $107,405      $100,181       $103,970       $97,231        $90,233
      Direct face amounts.......................................    $1,061        $1,065         $1,067        $1,056         $1,063
   Whole life and term
      Number of policies........................................    66,928        67,561         67,262        67,268         66,564
      Direct statutory premiums.................................   $14,897       $12,068        $24,335       $23,758        $23,960
      GAAP future policy benefits...............................  $205,664      $193,034       $200,526      $186,408       $174,922
      Direct face amounts.......................................    $2,615        $2,706         $2,629        $2,526         $2,334
   Total life
      Number of policies........................................    75,894        76,693         76,315        76,432         75,814
      Direct statutory premiums.................................   $20,007       $17,708        $38,877       $38,419        $37,743
      Direct face amounts.......................................    $3,676        $3,771         $3,696        $3,582         $3,397
Annuities:
   Number of policies...........................................    10,921        11,779         11,490        12,033         12,263
   Direct statutory premiums....................................    $7,257        $8,059        $15,292       $18,660        $39,952
   GAAP policyholder account balances...........................  $272,125      $283,913       $279,130      $284,783       $285,008

</TABLE>

Interest Crediting

     Interest  crediting  rates for universal life type contracts and investment
contracts  are set annually by the Life  Company's  Board of  Directors  and are
based on each  product's  target  interest  rate spread and  competitive  market
conditions.  For the Life  Company's  flexible  annuity  products  the  interest
crediting rate is set by the Life Company's  Board of Directors and is generally
a formula that varies monthly based on an established  market rate subject to an
approved minimum and maximum rate. Interest rates credited on the Life Company's
universal life contracts for the six months ended June 30, 1998 and 1997 and the
years ended December 31, 1997,  1996 and 1995 range from 6% to 7 1/2%.  Interest
rates credited on the Life Company's  annuity  contracts range from 5% to 8% for
the six months  ended June 30,  1998 and 1997 and the years ended  December  31,
1997, 1996 and 1995.

Marketing

     As of June 30, 1998, the Life Company marketed its life insurance  products
through  approximately 200 agents, 30 independent  agents and 13 field managers.
Many of the Life  Company's  agents are  established  residents of the rural and
suburban  communities  in which  they  operate  and often  have  specific  prior
experience in agricultural-related  businesses. Almost all of the Life Company's
agents market and write the full range of its products. In addition to marketing
the Life  Company's  life  insurance  products,  the agency  force also  markets
property and  casualty  insurance  products for FFCIC.  For the six months ended
June 30,  1998 and each of the years ended  December  31,  1997,  1996 and 1995,
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approximately 57%, 55%, 54% and 58%, respectively,  of the Life Company's direct
business was written in the states of New York and New Jersey.

     Agent  compensation is comprised  primarily of commissions,  office expense
allowance and an annual  persistency  bonus. In addition,  in order to assist in
the  development of a book of business,  most new agents receive a salary during
their first two years of licensing provided they meet certain minimum production
requirements.

     The Life Company  emphasizes  personal  contact  between its agents and the
policyholders. The Life Company believes that its name recognition, policyholder
loyalty and policyholder  satisfaction  with agent and claims  relationships are
the principal  sources of new customer  referrals,  cross-selling  of additional
insurance  products and policyholder  retention.  In addition,  the Life Company
believes  that its  relationship  with the Farm  Bureaus in its  target  markets
promotes the Life Company's name  recognition  and new customer  referrals among
Farm Bureau members. See "-Relationship with Farm Bureaus."

Underwriting

     The Life  Company has adopted and follows  detailed,  uniform  underwriting
practices and  procedures  designed to assess risks before  issuing  coverage to
qualified  applicants.  The Life Company's  underwriters review each applicant's
written  application,  which  is  prepared  under  the  supervision  of the Life
Company's  agents,  and any required medical  records.  The Life Company employs
blood and urine testing to provide  additional  information on applications over
$100,000 face amount.  Based on the results of these tests, the Life Company may
adjust the mortality charge or decline coverage completely.  Any nicotine use by
a life insurance  applicant within the preceding year results in a substantially
higher mortality charge.

Participating Business

     The  majority of the Life  Company's  insurance  policies  are written on a
"participating" basis, as defined in the New York Insurance Law. A participating
policy is a policy under which there is a right to  participate in the divisible
surplus of an  insurance  company.  Typically,  there is an  expectation  that a
participating policy will pay a dividend to the policyholder based on the actual
experience of the insurer. Favorable operating results are more likely to result
in the payment of such dividends.  Annual policyholder  dividends are often paid
in a manner that identifies  divisible  surplus and distributes  that surplus in
approximately  the same  proportion  as the  contracts  are  considered  to have
contributed to divisible surplus.  Participating business as a percentage of the
Life Company's  total life insurance in force was 90.9% as of June 30, 1998, and
92.4%,  94.5% and 96.9% for each of the years ended December 31, 1997,  1996 and
1995,  respectively.  Profits earned on participating  business are reserved for
the payment of dividends to policyholders  except for the stockholders' share of
profits on participating policies,  which is limited each year to the greater of
10% of the statutory profits on participating  business, or fifty cents per year
per thousand dollars of the face amount of participating life insurance in force
other  than group  term  insurance.  In  addition  to the  greater of 10% of the
statutory profit on participating  business or fifty cents per year per thousand
dollars of the face amount of  participating  life insurance in force,  earnings
available to stockholders consist of earnings on non-participating  business and
a pro  rata  share  of net  investment  income  and  realized  investment  gains
(losses).  The  accumulated  profit held by the Life  Company for the benefit of
participating  policyholders  is shown  as a  liability  on the  Life  Company's
balance  sheet,  under the  caption,  "Participating  policyholders'  interest."
Policyholder  dividends  are paid to  participating  policyholders,  principally
holders of whole life  products,  based on the  profitability  of the  products.
Policyholder dividends are declared annually by the Board of Directors,  and are
effective  on  the  anniversary  date  of  the  policy.  At  the  option  of the
policyholder,  policyholder  dividends can be paid in cash,  credited to renewal
premiums due,  left to accumulate at interest with the Life Company,  or used to
purchase  additional life insurance.  Policyholder  dividend  expense is charged
against Participating  policyholders' interest.  Policyholder dividends incurred
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for the six months  ended June 30,  1998 were $5.6  million  and for each of the
years ended December 31, 1997,  1996 and 1995 were $10.1  million,  $9.8 million
and $9.4 million, respectively.

Related Party Transactions

     The  operations  of the Life Company are closely  related with those of its
affiliates,  the  Company  and FFCIC and with the Life  Company's  wholly  owned
subsidiary,  United. The companies operate under substantially  identical Boards
of Directors and have substantially  identical senior  management.  In addition,
the companies share home office facilities, data processing equipment, an agency
force and certain personnel and other operational expenses.

     Expense  Sharing  Agreement.  The Life  Company,  the Company and FFCIC are
parties to an Amended and Restated  Expense Sharing  Agreement,  effective as of
February 14, 1996 (the "Expense  Sharing  Agreement"),  pursuant to which shared
expenses for goods,  services and  facilities  are allocated in accordance  with
applicable provisions of the New York Insurance Law and regulations  promulgated
thereunder.  Direct  expenses are charged as incurred to the Life  Company,  the
Company and FFCIC,  as applicable,  at cost. In 1995 the parties shared expenses
under a similar expense sharing agreement.  For each of the years ended December
31, 1997 and 1996, 33% and 35%,  respectively,  of aggregate  operating expenses
totaling  $29.4 million and $30.7 million,  respectively,  were allocated to the
Life Company under the Expense Sharing Agreement and 67% and 65%,  respectively,
were  allocated to the Company and FFCIC.  For the year ended December 31, 1995,
39% of aggregate  operating expenses totaling $26.7 million was allocated to the
Life  Company  and 61% was  allocated  to the  Company and FFCIC under a similar
expense sharing agreement.

     Lease  Agreement.  The  Life  Company  and  FFCIC  are  parties  to a Lease
Agreement  dated July 1,  1988,  as amended  by  Amendment  to Lease  Agreement,
effective  January 1, 1994 (the "Lease  Agreement"),  pursuant to which the Life
Company  leases home office  space in Glenmont,  New York to FFCIC.  Annual rent
under the Lease  Agreement was  $760,000,  $712,000 and $687,000 for each of the
years ended December 31, 1997, 1996 and 1995, respectively.

     Service  Agreement.  United and FFCIC are  parties to a Service  Agreement,
dated July 25, 1988 (the "Service Agreement"),  pursuant to which FFCIC provides
United with  certain  administrative  and  special  services  necessary  for its
operations,  including,  but not limited to,  claims  management,  underwriting,
accounting,  tax and auditing,  investment  management,  and functional  support
services. In addition,  FFCIC provides United with certain personnel,  property,
equipment  and  facilities  for its  operations.  For  each of the  years  ended
December 31, 1997, 1996, and 1995, United incurred  approximately  $0.5 million,
$0.7 million, and $0.8 million,  respectively,  in direct and allocated expenses
and overhead under the Service Agreement.

     Per  Risk  Reinsurance  Contract.  FFCIC  and  United  were  parties  to an
Underlying Multi-Line Per Risk Reinsurance Contract,  effective January 1, 1995,
as amended by  Addendum  No. 1,  effective  January  1,  1996,  Addendum  No. 2,
effective January 1, 1996, Addendum No. 3, effective July 26, 1996, and Addendum
No. 4,  effective  January  1, 1997 (as so  amended,  the "Per Risk  Reinsurance
Contract").  For the year ended December 31, 1997, net earned  premiums ceded by
FFCIC to United under the Per Risk Reinsurance  Contract were $8.7 million.  The
Per Risk Reinsurance Contract was terminated effective December 31, 1997.

     Umbrella  Reinsurance  Contract.  United  had  assumed  5% of  FFCIC's  net
liability retained under an Umbrella Quota Share Reinsurance Contract, effective
January  1,  1995,  as amended by  Addendum  No. 1,  effective  January 1, 1995,
Addendum  No.  2,  effective  July  25,  1996  and  Addendum  No.  3,  effective
retroactively to January 1, 1995 as to Article IV and effective  January 1, 1997
as to all other changes (as so amended,  the "Umbrella  Reinsurance  Contract").
For the year ended  December 31, 1997,  net written  premiums  ceded by FFCIC to
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United under the Umbrella  Reinsurance  Contract were $0.2 million. The Umbrella
Reinsurance Contract was terminated effective December 31, 1997.

     Catastrophe  Reinsurance  Contract.  United had  assumed  16.67% of the 1st
layer and 2% of the 3rd and 4th layers of FFCIC's per occurrence losses under an
Excess  Catastrophe  Reinsurance  Contract,   effective  January  1,  1997  (the
"Catastrophe  Reinsurance Contract").  For the year ended December 31, 1997, net
earned  premiums  ceded by FFCIC to  United  under the  Catastrophe  Reinsurance
Contract were $0.1 million.  The  Catastrophe  Reinsurance  Contract  expired on
December 31, 1997.

     Although the Company  terminated  all  reinsurance  agreements  with United
effective December 31, 1997, United retains liability for covered losses arising
from occurrences prior to the termination  date.  Effective January 1, 1998, all
reinsurance  agreements  for FFCIC  will be  provided  solely by  non-affiliated
reinsurers.

Relationship with Farm Bureaus

     The Life Company was organized through the efforts of certain Farm Bureaus,
and its relationship with the Farm Bureaus continues to be a fundamental  aspect
of its  business.  See "The  Acquisition-Interests  of  Certain  Persons  in the
Acquisition" for a more detailed description of the Life Company's  relationship
with the Farm Bureaus.

Reinsurance

     In accordance with industry practices,  the Life Company reinsures portions
of its life insurance and disability income exposure with unaffiliated insurance
companies  under  traditional  indemnity  reinsurance  agreements.   Reinsurance
contracts do not relieve the Life Company from its obligations to  policyholders
as the  primary  insurer.  The  Life  Company  as  the  ceding  insurer  remains
responsible  for policy  claims to the extent  the  reinsurer  fails to pay such
claims.  The Life Company  regularly  evaluates the  financial  condition of its
reinsurers to minimize the Life Company's credit risk from its reinsurers. As of
December  31,  1997,  the Life  Company's  reinsurance  program was  provided by
reinsurers which were rated "A" (Excellent) or above by A.M. Best Company,  Inc.
("A.M.  Best").  The Life Company does not carry an allowance for  uncollectible
reinsurance.  The Life Company's retained exposure is generally $400,000 for any
one life,  with  lesser  amounts for  persons  considered  to have a higher than
average mortality risk. The Life Company reinsures its level term life insurance
product on a 50% quota share basis. Disability income products are reinsured for
claim payments in excess of $1,500 per month.  The Life Company's  total premium
ceded to reinsurers was $974,000,  $829,000 and $694,000 in 1997, 1996 and 1995,
respectively,  and the Life  Company  received  commission  on premium  ceded of
$233,000 and $134,000 in 1997 and 1996,  respectively.  The Life Company did not
receive any commission on premium ceded in 1995.

Future Policy and Contract Benefits

     Liabilities  for  future  policy  benefits  for  term  life  contracts  are
calculated  using the net level premium method and  assumptions as to investment
yields,  mortality and withdrawals.  These  assumptions are based on projections
and past experience and include provisions for possible  unfavorable  deviation.
These assumptions are made at the time the contract is issued.

     Liabilities  for  future  policy  benefits  for whole  life  contracts  are
calculated  using the net level premium  method and statutory  assumptions as to
interest and mortality.  Whole life is written on a  participating  basis with a
provision for dividends to policyholders. See "-Participating Business."

     Liabilities for future policy and contract benefits on universal  life-type
and investment-type contracts are based on the policy account balance.

     The  liabilities  for future  policy and contract  benefits  for  long-term
disability  income  contracts  are based  upon  interest  rate  assumptions  and
morbidity and  termination  rates from  published  tables.  In 1995, the Company
completed its  withdrawal  from the group  accident and health line of business.
The  Company  continues  to write  individual  accident  and  health  coverages,
primarily disability income policies.
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Investments

     An  important  component of the  operating  results of the Life Company has
been the return on invested assets. The Life Company's  investment  objective is
to maximize  current  yield while  maintaining  safety of capital  together with
adequate  liquidity for its insurance  operations.  Since 1995, the Life Company
has significantly  reduced its holdings of  non-investment  grade fixed maturity
securities and improved the overall credit quality of its invested assets.

     Although all of its assets support all of its liabilities, the Life Company
has  an   asset-liability   management  program  which  includes  designing  and
developing  products which  encourage  persistency  and, as a result,  creates a
stable  liability  structure;  and  structuring  the  investment  portfolio with
duration and cash flow  characteristics  similar to the Life Company's insurance
liabilities.

     At June 30, 1998,  the Life  Company had cash and  invested  assets with an
aggregate  carrying value of $798.2 million.  The Life Company primarily invests
in high  quality  fixed  maturity  securities  and to a  lesser  extent,  equity
securities.  At June 30, 1998,  88.7% of the Life Company's total carrying value
of cash and invested  assets  consisted of fixed  maturities,  5.2% consisted of
equity  securities,  3.7% consisted of policy loans,  1.7% consisted of mortgage
loans,  and the remainder  consisted of short-term  investments,  cash and other
invested assets.

     Prior to September 1, 1997, the Life Company  managed its invested  assets.
During 1997,  the Life Company  retained  the services of a  professional  asset
management  firm,  specializing  in the management of investments  for insurance
companies,  to  supplement  its  internal  capabilities  and  improve  upon  the
management  of  its  invested  assets.  Investment  activities  are  subject  to
oversight by management of the Life Company, as well as the Investment Committee
of the Board of Directors of the Life Company.

     The Life Company actively manages and monitors its exposure to credit risk.
Invested  assets are reviewed  regularly for credit quality.  Investments  which
have  experienced  payment  delinquencies,  adverse changes in credit ratings or
deterioration  in  the  financial  condition  of the  borrower,  or  which  have
otherwise been identified as having  potential  adverse credit  implications are
placed on a credit watch report.  Securities placed on the credit watch list are
reviewed by management and the investment  committee on a regular basis. At June
30,  1998,  the Life Company had  identified  10  securities,  with an aggregate
carrying  value of $15.9  million,  on the credit  watch  report.  None of these
securities were considered  non-performing or in default. In addition,  the Life
Company's  holdings  of NAIC  Class 3  through  6  bonds,  generally  considered
non-investment grade, were $19.5 million or 2.8% of its fixed maturity portfolio
at June 30, 1998. Due to uncertainties in the economic environment,  however, it
is possible that the quality of investments currently held in the Life Company's
investment portfolio may change.

     The average duration and average  effective  maturity of the Life Company's
fixed maturity  investments as of June 30, 1998 were  approximately  5.2 and 8.3
years,  respectively.  As a  result,  the  market  value of the  Life  Company's
investments  may  fluctuate  significantly  in  response  to changes in interest
rates. In addition, the Life Company may also be likely to experience investment
losses to the  extent its  liquidity  needs  require  the  disposition  of fixed
maturity securities in unfavorable interest rate environments.

     For the six month  period  ended June 30, 1998 and the year ended  December
31,  1997,  compared  with the  prior  period,  the  amortized  cost of the Life
Company's cash and invested assets  increased 1.1% to $721.8 million and 3.6% to
$713.7  million,  respectively,  primarily as a result of the cash flow from the
Life Company's  operations.  For the six months ended June 30, 1998 and 1997 and
each of the years ended December 31, 1997, 1996 and 1995, the Life Company's net
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investment  income,  average cash and invested assets and return on average cash
and invested assets were as follows:


<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                                                   Six Months
                                                                                  Ended June 30,           Year Ended December 31,
                                                                                 1998       1997        1997        1996        1995
                                                                                 ----       ----        ----        ----        ----
                                                                                                 (dollars in millions)

<S>                                                                             <C>        <C>         <C>         <C>         <C>  
Net investment income.........................................................  $27.8      $27.5       $55.0       $55.7       $52.6
Average cash and invested assets at amortized cost............................ $717.8     $702.9      $701.3      $675.0      $608.7
Return on average cash and invested assets....................................    7.7%       7.8%        7.8%        8.3%       8.6%

</TABLE>

     The  reduction in the return on average  cash and  invested  assets for the
year ended  December  31,  1997 and for the six months  ended June 30,  1998 was
primarily  attributable to an overall reduction in the prevailing  interest rate
environment  during  1996,  1997,  and during the six months ended June 30, 1998
compared to earlier  periods and to the redemption of certain fixed  maturities.
During 1997,  and during the six months ended June 30, 1998,  issuers paid $34.4
million and $31.6 million, respectively, to redeem fixed maturities.

     The following  table sets forth  certain  information  concerning  the Life
Company's investments:


<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                   June 30, 1998                 December 31, 1997              December 31, 1996
                                                    -------------                 -----------------              -----------------
                                              Amortized        Market         Amortized        Market        Amortized       Market
Type of Investment                              Cost          Value(2)          Cost          Value(2)         Cost         Value(2)
- ------------------                              ----          --------          ----          --------         ----         --------
                                                                                (dollars in thousands)


Available for sale
   portfolio:
Fixed maturities(1):
      United States government and
        government agencies
<S>                                           <C>             <C>             <C>             <C>             <C>            <C>    
        and authorities...................    $17,066         $18,420         $15,009         $16,173         $30,511        $30,748
      States, municipalities and political
        subdivisions......................     91,010          98,566          91,897          99,687          88,928         93,793
      Public utilities....................    139,095         146,348         149,406         156,189         158,872        160,534
      All other corporate bonds...........    301,096         330,988         309,912         336,383         286,593        298,862
      Mortgaged-backed securities.........    100,918         103,223          70,640          72,741          40,981         42,905
      Redeemable preferred stock..........      8,902          10,174          10,343          12,260          13,456         14,382
                                           --------------  --------------  --------------  --------------  -------------- ---------
          Total fixed maturities..........    658,087         707,719         647,207         693,433         619,341        641,224
Equity securities.........................     14,360          41,121          14,360          37,636          13,419         30,722
                                           --------------  --------------  --------------  --------------  -------------- ----------
           Total available for sale.......    672,447         748,840         661,567         731,069         632,760        671,946

                                           --------------  --------------  --------------  --------------  -------------- ----------
Mortgage loans(1).........................     13,259          13,259          15,151          15,151          13,919         13,919
Policy loans(1)...........................     29,842          29,842          28,937          28,937          28,841         28,841
Short-term investments(1).................      5,082           5,082           4,864           4,864          10,542         10,542
Other invested assets(1)..................        624             624             741             741           1,250          1,250
                                           --------------  --------------  --------------  --------------  -------------- ----------
           Total investments..............   $721,254        $797,647        $711,260        $780,762        $687,312       $726,498
                                           --------------  --------------  --------------  --------------  -------------- ----------
                                           --------------  --------------  --------------  --------------  -------------- ----------
</TABLE>
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(1)      Fixed   maturities    (bonds,    redeemable    preferred   stocks   and
         mortgage-backed  securities) and equity securities in the available for
         sale  portfolio  are  carried  at  market  value  in  the  consolidated
         financial  statements of the Life  Company.  Mortgage  loans,  cash and
         short-term  investments  and other invested assets are carried at cost,
         which  approximates  market  value.  Policy  loans are  carried  at the
         outstanding principal balance which approximates market value.

(2)      The Life Company primarily obtains market value information through the
         pricing service offered by Interactive Data Corporation.  Market values
         are also obtained, to a lesser extent, from various brokers who provide
         price quotes.
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     The Life Company's  investments  in fixed maturity  securities are composed
primarily of  intermediate-term,  investment grade  securities.  The table below
contains  additional  information  concerning the investment ratings of the Life
Company's fixed maturity investments at June 30, 1998:
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                                                      Amortized       Market
Type/Ratings of Investment(1)                                                           Cost           Value         Percentage(2)
                                                                                                  (dollars in thousands)

Available for sale portfolio:(3)
<S>                                                                                    <C>           <C>                  <C> 
U.S. Government and Agencies......................................................     $31,692       $33,958              4.8%
AAA...............................................................................     104,527       107,848             15.2
AA ...............................................................................     100,947       106,642             15.1
A  ...............................................................................     210,284       228,746             32.4
BBB...............................................................................     196,526       215,445             30.4
                                                                                   --------------  ------------  -------------------
      Total BBB or Better.........................................................     643,976       692,639             97.9
                                                                                   --------------  ------------  -------------------
BB ...............................................................................       9,798        10,194              1.4
B and Below.......................................................................       4,313         4,886              0.7
                                                                                   --------------  ------------  -------------------
      Total available for sale....................................................    $658,087      $707,719            100.0%
                                                                                   --------------  ------------  -------------------
                                                                                   --------------  ------------  -------------------
</TABLE>
- -------------------------
(1)      The ratings set forth in this table are based on the  ratings,  if any,
         assigned by Standard & Poor's  Corporation  ("S&P").  If S&P's  ratings
         were unavailable,  the equivalent ratings supplied by Moody's Investors
         Services,  Inc.,  Fitch Investors  Service,  Inc. or the NAIC were used
         where available.  The percentage of securities that were not assigned a
         rating by S&P at June 30, 1998 was 2.7%.

(2)      Represents percent of market value for classification as a percent of 
         total for each portfolio.

(3)      Fixed  maturities in the  available  for sale  portfolio are carried at
         market  value  in the  consolidated  financial  statements  of the Life
         Company.

         The table below sets forth the maturity  profile of the Life  Company's
fixed maturity investments as of June 30, 1998:

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

                                                                                          Amortized        Market
Maturity                                                                                   Cost(1)        Value(2)       Percentage
                                                                                                    (dollars in thousands)

<C>                                                                                        <C>             <C>               <C> 
1 year or less........................................................................     $8,798          $9,513            1.3%
More than 1 year through 3 years......................................................     28,664          30,617            4.3
More than 3 years through 5 years.....................................................     20,316          21,065            3.0
More than 5 years through 10 years....................................................     55,628          58,078            8.2
More than 10 years through 15 years...................................................     73,308          81,993           11.6
More than 15 years through 20 years...................................................     90,169          98,585           13.9
More than 20 years....................................................................    280,286         304,645           43.1
Mortgage backed securities............................................................    100,918         103,223           14.6   
                                                                                       --------------  -------------- --------------
      Total...........................................................................   $658,087        $707,719           100.0%  
                                                                                       --------------  -------------- --------------
                                                                                       --------------  -------------- --------------
</TABLE>
- -------------------

(1)      Fixed  maturities in the  available  for sale  portfolio are carried at
         market  value  in the  consolidated  financial  statements  of the Life
         Company.

(2)      The Life Company obtains market value information primarily through the
         pricing service offered by Interactive Data Corporation.  Market values
         are also obtained, to a lesser extent, from various brokers who provide
         price quotes.
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     As of June 30, 1998,  mortgage  backed  securities  accounted for 14.6% (or
$100.9 million in amortized  value) of the total investment  portfolio.  Of this
amount,  38%  (or  $38.1  million)  was  invested  in  collateralized   mortgage
obligations,  19% (or $19.0  million) was invested in United  States  government
agency  mortgage  pools and the remaining 43% (or $43.8 million) was invested in
asset backed  securities.  98% of the combined  mortgage backed and asset backed
portfolio carries an S&P rating of AA or higher.

A.M. Best Rating

     A.M. Best,  which rates insurance  companies based on factors of concern to
policyholders,  currently assigns a Best's Rating of "A" (Excellent),  its third
highest  rating  category to the Life  Company.  A.M.  Best  assigns "A" or "A-"
ratings to companies which, in its opinion, have demonstrated  excellent overall
performance when compared to the standards  established by A.M. Best.  Companies
rated  "A"  or  "A-"  have  a  strong  ability  to  meet  their  obligations  to
policyholders  over a long period of time. In  evaluating a company's  financial
and  operating  performance,  A.M.  Best  reviews the  company's  profitability,
leverage and liquidity,  as well as the company's book of business, the adequacy
and soundness of its reinsurance,  the quality and estimated market value of its
assets, the adequacy of its benefit reserves,  the adequacy of its surplus,  its
capital  structure,  the  experience  and  competency of its  management and its
market presence. No assurance can be given that A.M. Best will not downgrade the
Life Company's current rating in the future.

     Ratings  assigned by A.M.  Best are an  important  factor  influencing  the
competitive position of insurance  companies.  In reaffirming the Life Company's
rating in April 1998, A.M. Best placed a "negative outlook" on the rating of the
Life Company.  A.M. Best cited the Life Company's continued lack of new business
growth,  referring to the Life Company's first year direct ordinary life premium
production which has declined annually since 1994, and individual  annuity sales
which have also declined in recent years as the primary  reason for the negative
outlook on the Life Company's  rating.  A.M. Best further indicated that meeting
1998 marketing goals (calling for modest new premium growth in the ordinary life
segment as well as an  increase in annuity  sales),  "within  reason,"  would be
necessary to maintain  the current  rating.  There can be no assurance  that the
Life Company will be able to maintain  its current  rating.  If the Life Company
were to experience a rating downgrade,  the Life Company's  business and results
of operations could be materially adversely affected.

Competition

     The Life Company operates in a highly competitive environment and industry.
Numerous  life  insurance  companies,  banks  and other  financial  institutions
compete  with the Life  Company.  Many of the Life  Company's  competitors  have
greater  financial and other resources than those of the Life Company.  The Life
Company believes that the principal competitive factors in the sale of insurance
and annuity products by the Life Company are product features,  price, perceived
stability of the insurer,  claims-paying  ratings from rating  agencies  such as
A.M.  Best, the ability of the Life  Company's  agent to provide  service to the
client after the sale, and the endorsement of the Life Company by the state Farm
Bureaus to their members.

     In addition to competing for sales, the Life Company competes for qualified
agents to distribute its products.  Strong  competition  exists among  insurance
companies  for  agents  with  demonstrated  ability to sell life  insurance  and
annuity  products.  The Life Company  maintains  strong  relationships  with its
agents through a competitive commission structure,  support services, a range of
competitive  products,  and  continuing  communication  with the Life  Company's
management.
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Regulation

     The Life Company is subject to regulation  and  supervision  by each of the
states in which the Life Company does business.  State  insurance laws generally
establish  supervisory agencies with broad administrative and supervisory powers
related to granting and revoking licenses,  transacting  business,  establishing
guaranty fund associations, licensing agents, approving policy forms, regulating
premium  rates,  setting  limits  on the  amount of new  business  that the Life
Company  may  write,  establishing  reserve  requirements,  requiring  cash flow
testing,  prescribing the form and content of required financial  statements and
reports,  determining the adequacy of statutory capital and surplus,  regulating
the amount and types of investments permitted,  limiting the amount of dividends
that may be paid without prior  regulatory  approval and regulating  advertising
and sales illustrations. In addition, the Life Company is licensed as a New York
domestic  company,  and the Life  Company  must conform to the New York laws and
regulations  in all of the states in which it does  business.  New York laws and
regulations  governing  insurance  companies  are  generally  regarded  as  more
restrictive  than the laws and regulations of most other states.  State laws and
regulations are intended to protect the interests of policyholders,  and not the
interests of stockholders.

     The New York  Insurance  Department  conducts  an  examination  of the Life
Company approximately once every three years as part of their routine regulatory
oversight.  The examination is conducted in the Life Company's  office by a team
of examiners assigned by the New York Insurance Department.  The examination for
the years  1994  through  1996 has  recently  been  completed.  The  examination
included  a  review  of  the  Life  Company's  statutory  financial  statements,
investments,  reserves,  advertising,  licensing,  training and  compensation of
agents, underwriting practices, and policyholder service. There were no material
adverse  findings  that arose from the  examination.  The Life Company  incurred
examination fees of $105,000 in 1997.

Properties

     The Life Company owns its home office  buildings  located in Glenmont,  New
York,  consisting of three buildings containing a total of approximately 140,000
square feet of office  space.  The Life Company  occupies  approximately  44,000
square  feet for its  executive  and  administrative  offices,  and  leases  the
remaining space  principally to the Company.  The Lease  Agreement  provides for
FFCIC to pay the Life Company an annual rental of  approximately  $760,000.  The
Lease Agreement expires on December 31, 1998. See "-Related Party Transactions."

Employees

     The Life  Company  shares most of its  employees  with the  Company.  As of
September 30, 1998,  there were 459 full time  employees of the Life Company and
the Company,  of which 324 employees were employed in the home office.  Based on
annual time studies,  33% of total employee expenses,  including salary expense,
is  currently  allocated  to the  Life  Company,  including  United,  and 67% is
allocated to the  Company.  See  "-Related  Party  Transactions."  None of these
employees are covered by a collective bargaining agreement, and the Life Company
believes that its employee relations are good.

Legal Proceedings

     The Life Company is subject to litigation in the normal course of business.
Based upon  information  presently  available to it,  management  believes  that
resolution of these legal actions will not have a material adverse effect on the
Life   Company's   consolidated   financial   condition.   However,   given  the
uncertainties  attendant to litigation,  there can be no assurance that the Life
Company's consolidated results of operations and financial condition will not be
materially adversely affected by any threatened or pending litigation.
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                       MANAGEMENT'S DISCUSSION AND ANALYSIS
                        OF FINANCIAL CONDITION AND RESULTS
                        OF OPERATIONS OF THE LIFE COMPANY



General

     Corporate  Profile.  The  following  discussion  and  analysis of financial
condition and results of operations  includes the operations of the Life Company
and its  wholly  owned  subsidiary,  United.  The Life  Company  is a stock life
insurance  company  owned by the  state  Farm  Bureau  organizations  and  their
affiliates in New York, New Jersey,  Delaware,  West Virginia and all of the New
England states.  These entities  comprise all of the Selling  Stockholders.  The
operations of the Life Company are closely related with those of its affiliates,
the Company and its wholly  owned  subsidiary,  FFCIC.  The Life Company and the
Company are affiliated by common management and  substantially  identical Boards
of Directors.

     The Life  Company  incurred  nonrecurring  expenses of $176,000 for the six
month period ended June 30, 1998 and $707,000 in 1997 at the  discretion  of its
shareholders  related to their  evaluation of the Option Purchase  Agreement and
the proposed sale of the Life Company to the Company.

     Nature of Business.  The Life Company  principally  sells  individual  life
insurance,  annuities and disability  income insurance to residents of rural and
suburban   communities,   principally  to  members  of  the  state  Farm  Bureau
organizations  in New York, New Jersey,  Delaware,  West Virginia and all of the
New England  states.  Membership  in a state Farm Bureau  organization  is not a
prerequisite for purchasing  insurance coverage from the Life Company.  The Life
Company  intends to begin  marketing its products in  Pennsylvania  and Maryland
during 1998. The Life Company is a New York  corporation,  and is subject to the
regulatory authority of the New York Insurance Department.

     The Life  Company's  wholly  owned  subsidiary,  United,  is a property and
casualty  insurance  company.  Prior to  January  1,  1998,  United's  principal
business was reinsurance of direct business  written by FFCIC.  United commenced
writing direct property and casualty business in Pennsylvania  during the second
quarter of 1998 and commenced  writing direct property and casualty  business in
Maryland during the third quarter of 1998.

     As of December 31,  1997,  the Life  Company  marketed  its life  insurance
products through  approximately 200 agents,  30 independent  agents and 13 field
managers.  Many of the Life Company's  agents are  established  residents of the
rural and suburban  communities  in which they  operate and often have  specific
prior  experience  in  agricultural-related  businesses.  Almost all of the Life
Company's agents market and write the full range of its products. In addition to
marketing the Life  Company's  life  insurance  products,  the agency force also
markets property and casualty  insurance  products for FFCIC. For the six months
ended June 30, 1998 and for the years ended  December 31,  1997,  1996 and 1995,
approximately 57%, 55%, 54% and 58%, respectively,  of the Life Company's direct
business was written in the States of New York and New Jersey.

     Participating Business. Most of the policies issued by the Life Company are
classified  as  "participating,"  as  defined  by the New  York  Insurance  Law.
Pursuant to New York Insurance Law, profits on participating business inuring to
the benefit of  stockholders  are limited to the greater of 10% of the statutory
profits on participating  business, or fifty cents per year per thousand dollars
of  participating  life insurance in force other than group term insurance.  The
profits on participating business represent the excess of revenues over benefits
and  expenses  and  income  taxes  allocated  to  participating   policies.  The
accumulated  profit held by the Life Company for the benefit of policyholders is
shown  as  a  liability  on  the  consolidated  Life  Company's  balance  sheet.
Participating  business,  as a  percentage  of the  Life  Company's  total  life
insurance  in force,  was 90.9% as of June 30,  1998 and was 92.4%,  94.5%,  and
96.9% as of December 31, 1997, 1996, and 1995, respectively.

     Sources of Income for Common  Stockholders.  Net income available to common
stockholders  is provided by these sources:  (i) an allocation of net investment
income  and  net  realized  investment  gains  (losses)  and,  (ii)  profits  on
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non-participating  policies,  and  (iii)  the  greater  of 10% of the  statutory
profits on  participating  policies or fifty cents per year per thousand dollars
of participating life insurance in force other than group term insurance.

     Expense  Management.  During 1997,  the Life Company  continued the expense
management  initiatives  it began  during 1996.  The goal of the Life  Company's
expense  management  initiatives is to continually review its cost structure and
reduce or eliminate  certain expenses.  Additionally,  the Life Company seeks to
tie expenses to operating  results so that  expenses  become  increasingly  more
variable with the Life Company profitability and less fixed or volume sensitive.
As a result,  portions of the  compensation  for  employees and  management  are
influenced by the Life Company's  operating  results.  These programs help align
the Life Company's interests more directly with those of its shareholders.  As a
result of these initiatives,  the Life Company's operating expenses as a percent
of premium from life and health  operations  were  reduced  during 1997 to 25.4%
compared to 28.9% for 1996.  For the six months  ended June 30,  1998,  the Life
Company's  operating  expenses as a  percentage  of premium from life and health
operations was 26.2%.

     Agent compensation is the Life Company's principal policy acquisition cost.
Agents receive  commission as a percentage of policy premium,  with higher rates
for new  business.  Most of the agent's  first year  commission  is deferred and
amortized  over future  premium  collections  for the  policy.  Agent and agency
manager  compensation cost, as a percentage of total deferred  acquisition cost,
was  71.5%  and  79.4%  for the  six  months  ended  June  30,  1998  and  1997,
respectively,  and 76.9%,  80.7%,  and 83.7% for the years ended 1997, 1996, and
1995,  respectively.  Amortization of deferred acquisition costs as a percentage
of premium from life and health  operations  was 20.5%,  20.7% and 22.4% for the
years ended 1997, 1996 and 1995, respectively.

     During the fourth quarter of 1996, the Life Company implemented a voluntary
early retirement  program and other changes to the Life Company's  benefit plans
as part of its continuous expense management program.  The Life Company recorded
a nonrecurring charge of $594,000,  which is net of a Federal income tax benefit
of $320,000,  for the Life Company's  share of the costs of this voluntary early
retirement  program.  Eligibility  for the program was based on age and years of
service. In addition, effective January 1, 1997, the Life Company froze benefits
available through its defined benefit plan and enhanced its defined contribution
plan. As a result, the Life Company's  contributions to the defined contribution
plan will vary to a greater extent based upon the Life  Company's  profitability
than the contributions previously required to fund its defined benefit plan.


     Year 2000. The Life  Company's  primary  policy  administration  system was
created  using four digits to identify a year in the date field and is generally
Year 2000 compliant. However, many of the other computer programs upon which the
Life Company relies were created using only two digits to identify a year in the
date field.  These programs were designed and developed without  considering the
impact of the upcoming  change in the century.  If not corrected,  many of these
computer  applications  could  fail or  produce  erroneous  results by or at the
beginning of the year 2000. The Life Company's overall plan for dealing with the
Year 2000 problem covers Information Technology ("IT") systems,  non-IT systems,
and third party  providers.  The Life Company has  established a dedicated  Year
2000  team to lead the  Life  Company's  activities  relating  to its Year  2000
issues.  The Life  Company's  current state of readiness with respect to each of
these elements is discussed below.

     All IT systems that the Life Company  considers to be critical at this time
have been  evaluated  for Year 2000  problems.  Management  of the Life  Company
believes that these systems will have been diagnosed, modified and tested by the
end of 1998.  The Life Company is currently  testing the operation of IT systems
working  together in an integrated  test  environment  that  replicates the Life
Company's  live  environment.  This test  exercises  software and hardware using
dates advanced to Year 2000 and beyond.  There can be no assurances that testing
will  discover  all  potential  Year 2000  problems  or that it will not  reveal
additional material problems that will have to be resolved.
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     Non-IT   systems   typically   include   embedded    technology   such   as
microcontrollers.  The Life  Company's  non-IT  systems  include  machinery  and
equipment  in its  buildings,  such as  elevators,  telephone  equipment,  HVAC,
security and alarm  systems,  copiers,  fax machines,  and print  shop/mail room
equipment.  The Life Company is reviewing these systems for Year 2000 compliance
with the third party  providers  the Life  Company  uses to service and maintain
this equipment.

     The Life  Company  uses a variety of third  party  providers  in the normal
course of conducting its day to day operations. Year 2000 problems may result in
a loss of service  from  these  providers.  The Life  Company  believes  loss of
electric  power,  phone,  banking or mail  services  could have an immediate and
critical  adverse  material  impact on the Life Company's  operations.  The Life
Company is  contacting  each of its third party  providers  to  determine if the
provider  is Year 2000  compliant.  If a  provider  is not  currently  Year 2000
compliant,  and its plans to become Year 2000 compliant are uncertain,  then the
Life Company intends to seek other providers.

     The Life  Company's  incremental  costs to address the Year 2000 issues did
not have a material  impact on the Life  Company's  operations in 1997 or during
the six months  ended June 30,  1998,  and are not  expected  to have a material
impact in the remainder of 1998 or 1999.

     The work of finding, correcting and testing the Life Company's software for
Year 2000  issues has been done  primarily  by the Life  Company's  existing  IT
staff.  Correction of Year 2000 issues is a high  priority  project and other IT
projects have been deferred due to Year 2000 efforts;  however, the Life Company
does not believe the deferral of other IT projects has had a material  effect on
the Life  Company's  financial  condition  or results of  operations  in 1997 or
during  the six months  ended June 30,  1998.  The Life  Company's  IT staff has
continued to work on other high priority projects  concurrent with the Year 2000
project.

     The Life Company  believes that its most reasonably  likely worst case Year
2000 scenario will include these elements; (1) one or more of the Life Company's
third party providers will be unable to provide the services  expected,  and (2)
one or more  parts  of the  Life  Company's  processing  software  will  operate
incorrectly. The Life Company believes that its testing of its critical hardware
and software will reveal any significant Year 2000 problems,  that such problems
will be  capable  of  remediation,  and  that the Life  Company's  software  and
hardware will perform substantially as planned when Year 2000 processing begins.

     Because of the  progress  which has been made  toward  achieving  Year 2000
compliance, the Life Company has not made specific contingency plans relating to
Year 2000 issues.  If adverse  development  with  respect to the Life  Company's
plans or knowledge of outside  providers'  non-compliance  becomes evident,  the
Life Company will develop and implement  contingency plans as required.  Despite
the Life  Company's  efforts to address  its Year 2000  issues,  there can be no
assurances that Year 2000 related  failures of the Life Company's  software,  or
that Year 2000  related  failures by third  parties  with which the Life Company
interacts, will not have a material adverse effect on the Life Company.

     Application of Accounting Standards. In June 1997, the Financial Accounting
Standards  Board  issued  Statement of Financial  Accounting  Standards  No. 130
("Statement 130"),  "Comprehensive  Income," which establishes standards for the
reporting and disclosure of comprehensive  income and its components  (revenues,
expenses,  gains and losses).  Statement  130  requires  that all items that are
required  to  be  recognized  under   accounting   standards  as  components  of
comprehensive income be reported in a financial statement that is displayed with
the same prominence as other financial  statements.  Statement 130 requires that
an enterprise (a) classify items of other  comprehensive  income by their nature
in a  financial  statement  and (b)  display  the  accumulated  balance of other
comprehensive  income separately from retained  earnings and additional  paid-in
capital in the equity  section of a statement of financial  position.  Statement
130 is effective for the fiscal years  beginning  after  December 15, 1997.  The
Life Company and United have adopted Statement 130 for the first quarter of 1998
financial statements and restated prior years financial statements to conform to
this reporting standard.
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     In June 1997, the Financial  Accounting Standards Board issued Statement of
Financial  Accounting  Standards No. 131 ("Statement  131"),  "Disclosures about
Segments of an Enterprise  and Related  Information"  effective for fiscal years
beginning  after December 15, 1997. The adoption of Statement 131 will result in
revised  and  additional  disclosures  but will have no effect on the  financial
position, results of operations, or liquidity of the Life Company.

     In February 1998, the Financial Accounting Standards Board issued Statement
of  Financial  Accounting  Standards  No.  132  ("Statement  132"),  "Employers'
Disclosures  about Pensions and Other  Postretirement  Benefits,"  effective for
fiscal  years  beginning  after  December 31,  1997.  Statement  132 revises the
disclosure  requirements  but does not change the  measurement or recognition of
pensions and other post retirement benefits.  The adoption of Statement 132 will
result in revised and additional  disclosures for the Life Company but will have
no effect on the financial position,  results of operations, or liquidity of the
Life Company.

     In June 1998, the Financial  Accounting Standards Board issued Statement of
Financial  Accounting  Standards  No. 133  ("Statement  133"),  "Accounting  for
Derivative  Instruments  and  Hedging  Activities."  This  statement,  which  is
effective for fiscal years  beginning on or after  January 1, 2000,  establishes
accounting and reporting  standards for derivative  instruments  and for hedging
activities.  Statement 133 requires  recognition  of all  derivatives  as either
assets or liabilities in the statement of financial  position and measurement of
those  instruments  at fair  value.  Management  is  evaluating  the impact this
statement may have on the Life Company's financial statements.

Results of Operations

     Six Months Ended June 30, 1998 Compared to Six Months Ended June 30, 1997

     Premiums.  Premiums  from life and  health  operations  increased  to $15.5
million  during the six months ended June 30, 1998,  an increase of $0.3 million
from the premiums for the six months ended June 30, 1997 of $15.2  million.  The
increase  is the result of an  increase  of $0.3  million in whole life and term
life  insurance   premiums.   Premiums  for  accident  and  health  (principally
disability  income)  insurance  were $0.7  million  for both  periods.  Payments
received from policyholders for asset accumulation products,  such as annuities,
and  payments  received  from  universal  life  policyholders,  are  recorded as
liabilities  rather than as  premiums.  There was $3.0  thousand of premium from
property  and  casualty  operations  during the six months  ended June 30, 1998,
compared  to $4.3  million in the 1997  period.  The  decrease  in premium  from
property and casualty operations during the six month period ended June 30, 1998
as  compared  to the  same  period  in 1997  was  primarily  the  result  of the
termination of the  reinsurance  contracts  between  United and FFCIC  effective
December  31,  1997.  United  commenced  writing  direct  property  and casualty
business in Pennsylvania during the second quarter of 1998 and commenced writing
direct  property and casualty  business in Maryland  during the third quarter of
1998.

     Net Investment  Income.  Net investment income was $27.8 million during the
six months  ended June 30,  1998 and $27.5  million for the same period in 1997.
The slight  increase in net  investment  income was  primarily the result of the
additional  income earned on an $8.6 million  increase in total invested  assets
during the six months  ended June 30, 1998  offset by an overall  decline in the
rate of return on the invested assets. The return realized on the Life Company's
cash and  invested  assets  was  7.7% for the six  months  ended  June 30,  1998
compared  to 7.8% for the same  period in 1997.  Many of the assets  held by the
Life Company in its fixed  maturities  portfolio  are subject to  redemption  on
certain dates at the option of the issuer.  During the six months ended June 30,
1998,  issuers paid $31.6  million to redeem  investments  in fixed  maturities.
Almost all of these redeemed  fixed  maturities  carried a higher  interest rate
than was  currently  available in 1998.  The effect of the  redemption  of these
fixed  maturities  is to lower the rate of return  on the Life  Company's  fixed
income portfolio.

     Net Realized  Investment  Gains.  Net realized  investment  gains were $1.7
million for the six months ended June 30, 1998  compared to $2.9 million for the
same period in 1997. During the six months ended June 30, 1997, the Life Company
decided to reduce the amount of its investments in equities,  and because of the
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significant  appreciation  in  market  value of  certain  of the Life  Company's
equities, a realized gain of $2.9 million in equities was recognized as a result
of the sale of these  securities.  During the six months  ended June 30,  1998 a
realized  gain of $1.7 million was  recognized  primarily  due to calls of fixed
maturities.

         Policy and Contract Charges.  Policy and contract charges are primarily
fees  assessed  as  surrender  charges on whole life and annuity  policies,  and
mortality and expense fees charged  against  policyholder  accounts of universal
life  policies.  These fees were $2.4  million for the six months ended June 30,
1998 and $2.6 million for the same period in 1997.

     Benefits to Policyholders. Benefits to policyholders decreased $1.3 million
to $13.3  million  for the six months  ended  June 30,  1998  compared  to $14.6
million  for the same  period in 1997.  Benefits  to  policyholders  for the six
months  ended June 30, 1998  decreased  primarily  as a result of a $4.8 million
increase in reserves  during the period  compared to a $7.4 million  increase in
reserves for the same period in 1997. The decrease was primarily attributable to
a decrease  in paid up  additions  during the six months  ended June 30, 1998 as
compared  to the same  period in 1997,  as well as a decrease  in  reserves  for
disability  income  products  resulting  from  changes in the  estimates  of the
ultimate  liabilities related to certain of the Life Company's disability income
products.

     Losses and Loss  Adjustment  Expenses on Property and Casualty  Operations.
Losses and loss adjustment  expenses  decreased $2.9 million to $0.9 million for
the six months ended June 30, 1998  compared to $3.8 million for the same period
in 1997. The decrease in losses and loss adjustment expenses was attributable to
the termination of the reinsurance agreements between United and FFCIC effective
December  31,  1997.  Losses and loss  adjustment  expenses  incurred in the six
months  ended  June 30,  1998 are the  result of the  runoff of the  reinsurance
agreement  liabilities as of December 31, 1997 from the  reinsurance  assumed by
United from FFCIC.

     Operating  Expenses.  Operating  expenses  increased $0.6 million,  to $4.1
million for the six months  ended June 30,  1998 from $3.5  million for the same
period in 1997. For the six months ended June 30, 1998,  operating expenses were
26.2% of premium revenue from life and health  operations  compared to 23.3% for
the same period in 1997.  The increase in expense is primarily  attributable  to
increases in expenditures incurred for advertising,  actuarial consultants,  and
field compensation.

     Interest  Credited to  Policyholders.  Interest  credited to  policyholders
decreased $1.7 million, to $11.3 million for the six month period ended June 30,
1998 compared to $13.0 million for the same period in 1997.  The decline was the
result of lower interest  crediting rates on annuity  business and  policyholder
funds on deposit  and a decline  in the  amount of funds held for  policyholders
under annuity contracts in the six months ended June 30, 1998 as compared to the
same period in 1997.

     Amortization of Deferred Policy Acquisition Costs. Amortization of deferred
policy acquisition costs was $3.6 million in the six month period ended June 30,
1998 and $3.4 million for the same period in 1997.

     Participating   Policyholders'   Interest.   Participating   policyholders'
interest  increased  $0.5 million to $12.3 million for the six months ended June
30, 1998 compared to $11.8 million for the same period in 1997.

     Federal Income Tax Expense. Federal income tax expense was $0.8 million and
33.5% of income  before  Federal  income taxes for the six months ended June 30,
1998  compared to $1.0 million and 34.3% of income before  Federal  income taxes
for the same period in 1997.

     Net Income Attributable to Common Stockholders.  Net income attributable to
common  stockholders  decreased  $0.3 million to $1.6 million for the six months
ended June 30, 1998 from $1.9 million in the same period of 1997  primarily as a
result of the foregoing factors.
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     Year Ended December 31, 1997 Compared to Year Ended December 31, 1996

     Premiums.  Premiums from life and health operations  increased  slightly to
$30.5  million  during the year ended  December  31,  1997,  an increase of $0.2
million from 1996's  premium of $30.3  million.  The increase is the result of a
decrease of $0.2 million in whole life and term life insurance,  and an increase
of  $0.4  million  in  accident  and  health  (principally   disability  income)
insurance.  Premium from property casualty operations  decreased $0.4 million or
4.3% during the year ended  December  31, 1997 to $9.0 million from $9.4 million
in 1996.  This  decrease was  primarily the result of a decrease in rate for the
major reinsurance  assumed contract between United and FFCIC.  Payments received
from  policyholders  of asset  accumulation  products,  such as  annuities,  and
payments received from universal life  policyholders are recorded as liabilities
rather than as premiums.

     Net  Investment  Income.  Net investment  income  decreased $0.7 million to
$55.0 million for the year ended December 31, 1997,  from $55.7 million in 1996.
The decrease in net  investment  income was primarily the result of a decline in
the investment  yield of the portfolio as maturing  investments  are replaced at
lower rates.  The return realized on the Life Company's cash and invested assets
was 7.8% in 1997 and 8.3% in 1996.  Many of the assets held by the Life  Company
in its fixed maturities  portfolio are subject to redemption on certain dates at
the option of the issuer.  During  1997,  issuers  paid $34.4  million to redeem
investments in fixed  maturities.  Almost all of these redeemed fixed maturities
carried a higher interest rate than was currently  available in 1997. The effect
of the  redemption  of these fixed  maturities is to lower the rate of return on
the Life Company's fixed income portfolio.

     Net Realized  Investment  Gains.  Net realized  investment  gains were $2.9
million for the year ended December 31, 1997,  compared to $0.3 million in 1996.
During 1997, the Life Company decided to reduce the amount of its investments in
equities, and because of the significant appreciation in market value of certain
of the Life Company's equities,  a realized gain of $3.5 million in equities was
recognized.

     Policy and Contract Charges. Policy and contract charges are primarily fees
assessed as surrender charges on whole life and annuity policies,  and mortality
and  expense  fees  charged  against  policyholder  accounts of  universal  life
policies. These fees were approximately $5.0 million for 1997 and 1996.

     Benefits to Policyholders. Benefits to policyholders decreased $0.2 million
or 0.7% to $26.8 million in 1997 compared to $27.0 million in 1996.

     Losses and Loss  Adjustment  Expenses on Property and Casualty  Operations.
Losses and loss adjustment  expenses increased $2.2 million,  or 28.6%, to $10.0
million for the year ended  December  31,  1997,  from $7.8 million for the 1996
period.  The ratio of losses and loss  adjustment  expenses to  premiums  earned
increased  from 82.2% in 1996 to 110.6% in 1997. The increase in losses and loss
adjustment  expenses was  primarily  attributable  to an increase in losses from
excess reinsurance assumed from FFCIC.

     Operating Expenses. Operating expenses decreased $1.1 million, or 11.6%, to
$7.7 million for the year ended  December  31, 1997,  from $8.8 million for same
period in 1996.  For the year ended December 31, 1997,  operating  expenses were
25.4% of premium  revenue from life and health  operations  compared to 28.9% in
1996. The reduction in the Life Company's ratio of operating expenses to premium
revenue was primarily  attributable  to the Life  Company's  continuing  expense
management program which began in 1996.

     Interest  Credited to  Policyholders.  Interest  credited to  policyholders
increased  $0.2  million,  or 0.7%,  to $24.8  million in 1997 compared to $24.6
million in 1996.  The increase was the result of an increase in funds on deposit
from policyholders in 1997 as compared to 1996.

     Amortization of Deferred Policy Acquisition Costs. Amortization of deferred
policy acquisition costs was approximately $6.9 million in 1997 and 1996.
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     Participating   Policyholders'   Interest.   Participating   policyholders'
interest decreased $0.4 million to $21.6 million for the year ended December 31,
1997 compared to $21.2 million for the same period in 1996.

     Federal Income Tax Expense.  Federal income tax expense was $1.7 million in
1997 and $1.5  million in 1996.  Federal  income tax expense was 33.8% of income
before Federal income taxes in 1997 compared to 34.2% in 1996.

     Net Income Attributable to Common Stockholders.  Net income attributable to
common  stockholders  increased  $0.3  million to $3.3 million in 1997 from $3.0
million in 1996  primarily as a result of the foregoing  factors.  In 1996,  the
Life Company  implemented a voluntary early retirement program which resulted in
a one-time  charge to earnings of $0.6 million net of tax in the fourth  quarter
of 1996.

     Year Ended December 31, 1996 Compared to Year Ended December 31, 1995

     Premiums.  Premiums from life and health operations  increased $0.9 million
or 3.3% during the year ended 1996, to $30.3 million from $29.4 million in 1995.
The increase is the result of an increase of $1.2 million in whole life and term
life insurance,  and a decrease of $0.3 million in disability  income insurance.
Premium from  property and casualty  operations  increased  $0.1 million or 1.2%
during 1996 to $9.4  million  from $9.3  million in 1995.  This  increase is the
result of growth in premiums assumed from the major reinsurance contract between
United and FFCIC.  Payments  received from  policyholders of asset  accumulation
products,  such  as  annuities,   and  payments  received  from  universal  life
policyholders are recorded as liabilities rather than as premiums.


     Net Investment Income. Net investment income increased $3.1 million or 6.0%
to $55.7  million for the year ended  December 31, 1996,  from $52.6  million in
1995.  The  increase in net  investment  income was  primarily  the result of an
increase in cash and invested assets (at amortized cost) of approximately  $27.9
million,  or 4.2%.  The return  realized on the Life Company's cash and invested
assets was 8.3% in 1996 and 8.6% in 1995.  Many of the  assets  held by the Life
Company in its fixed  maturities  portfolio are subject to redemption on certain
dates at the option of the issuer.  During 1996,  issuers paid $30.9  million to
redeem  investments  in fixed  maturities.  Almost all of these  redeemed  fixed
maturities carried a higher interest rate than was currently  available in 1996.
The effect of the  redemption of these fixed  maturities is to lower the rate of
return on the Life Company's fixed income portfolio.

     Net Realized  Investment  Gains.  Net realized  investment  gains were $0.3
million for the year ended December 31, 1996,  compared to $5.7 million in 1995.
During 1995, the Life Company decided to reduce the amount of its investments in
equities,  and  because  of the  significant  appreciation  in  market  value of
equities, a realized gain of $5.2 million in equities was recognized.

     Policy and Contract Charges. Policy and contract charges are primarily fees
assessed as surrender charges for whole life and annuity policies, and mortality
and expense fees  charged  against  policyholder  accounts  for  universal  life
policies.  These fees increased $0.5 million to $5.0 million in 1996 compared to
$4.5 million 1995. The increase is a result of the continuing growth of the Life
Company's universal life policies in force.

     Benefits to Policyholders. Benefits to policyholders increased $0.2 million
or 1.0% to $27.0 million in 1996 compared to $26.8 million in 1995.

     Losses and Loss  Adjustment  Expenses on Property  and  Casualty  Business.
Losses and loss adjustment  expenses  increased $0.8 million,  or 11.6%, to $7.8
million for the year ended  December  31, 1996,  from $7.0 million in 1995.  The
ratio of losses and loss adjustment  expenses to premiums earned  increased from
74.5% in 1995 to 82.2% in 1996.  The  increase  in  losses  and loss  adjustment
expenses  was  primarily  attributable  to an  increase  in losses  from  excess
reinsurance assumed from FFCIC.
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     Operating Expenses.  Operating expenses decreased $0.2 million, or 2.2%, to
$8.8 million for the year ended  December  31,  1996,  from $9.0 million for the
same period in 1995.  For the year ended December 31, 1996,  operating  expenses
were 28.9% of premium revenue from life and health operations  compared to 30.5%
in 1995.  The  reduction in the Life  Company's  ratio of operating  expenses to
premium  revenue was primarily  attributable to a smaller  relative  increase in
overhead expenses than in premium revenue for the period.

     Interest  Credited to  Policyholders.  Interest  credited to  policyholders
decreased  $1.9  million,  or 7.0%,  to $24.6  million in 1996 compared to $26.5
million in 1995. The decline was the result of lower interest crediting rates on
annuity business in 1996 as compared to 1995.

     Amortization of Deferred Policy Acquisition Costs. Amortization of deferred
policy  acquisition  costs  decreased $0.4 million,  or 4.9%, to $6.9 million in
1996 compared to $7.3 million in 1995.

     Participating   Policyholders'   Interest.   Participating   policyholders'
interest increased $2.1 million to $21.2 million for the year ended December 31,
1996  compared to $19.1  million for the same  period in 1995.  The  increase in
participating  policyholders'  interest is primarily attributable to an increase
in the participating policyholders' share of net investment income.

     Federal Income Tax Expense.  Federal income tax expense was $1.5 million in
1996 and $2.3  million in 1995.  Federal  income tax expense was 34.2% of income
before Federal income taxes in 1996 compared to 34.1% in 1995.

     Net Income Attributable to Common Stockholders.  Net income attributable to
common  stockholders  decreased  $1.5  million to $2.9 million in 1996 from $4.4
million in 1995  primarily as a result of the foregoing  factors.  In 1996,  the
Life Company  implemented a voluntary early retirement program which resulted in
a one-time  charge to earnings of $0.6 million net of tax in the fourth  quarter
of 1996.

Liquidity and Capital Resources

     Historically,  the principal  sources of the Life  Company's cash flow have
been premiums,  investment income, maturing investments, and proceeds from sales
of invested  assets.  In  addition  to the need for cash flow to meet  operating
expenses, the liquidity requirements of the Life Company relate primarily to the
payment of  benefits  under the Life  Company's  life  insurance,  annuity,  and
accident and health policies.  Additional  sources of cash flow include the sale
of invested assets and financing activities.  The liquidity  requirements of the
Life Company vary because of the  uncertainties  regarding the settlement  dates
for liabilities for unpaid claims and because of the potential for large claims,
either  individually  or in the  aggregate.  The Life Company  believes that its
future liquidity needs will be met from all of the above sources.

     The Life Company has paid $480,088 in dividends to  stockholders  each year
for the years  1997,  1996 and 1995.  Dividends  are paid  annually in the first
quarter of the following  year. The payment of dividends to  stockholders by the
Life Company is subject to the approval of the New York Insurance Department.

     At June 30, 1998, the Life Company's cash and invested assets, at amortized
cost, was $721.8 million,  an $8.1 million increase from the year ended December
31, 1997,  and a $32.9 million  increase from the year ended  December 31, 1996.
The increase is primarily the result of the  investment of operating cash flows.
During  1998 and  1997,  the Life  Company  continued  to  invest  primarily  in
investment-grade  fixed  maturities  to  maintain  the  overall  quality  of its
investment portfolio.  The aggregate carrying value of fixed maturity securities
rated as  non-investment  grade by the NAIC was $19.5 million and $14.7 million,
or 2.8% and 2.1% of its fixed maturity portfolio,  at June 30, 1998 and December
31,  1997,  respectively.  Approximately  12.9% and 10.1% of the Life  Company's
investment  portfolio  at June 30, 1998 and  December  31,  1997,  respectively,
consisted of  investments in  mortgage-backed  securities.  The  mortgage-backed
securities  held by the Life  Company as of December 31,  1997,  were  primarily
GNMA, FNMA, and Federal Home Loan Mortgage Corp.  pass-through  securities.  The
Life  Company  currently  has  no  investments  in  such  derivative   financial
instruments as futures,  forward, swap, or option contracts,  or other financial
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instruments with similar characteristics. The market value of the Life Company's
fixed maturity investments is subject to fluctuations  directly  attributable to
prevailing  rates of interest as well as other factors.  As of June 30, 1998 and
December 31,  1997,  the  aggregate  market  value of the Life  Company's  fixed
maturity  investments  exceeded the aggregate amortized cost of such investments
by $49.6 million and $46.2 million,  respectively.  As of December 31, 1996, the
aggregate market value of the Life Company's fixed maturity investments exceeded
the aggregate amortized cost of such investments by $21.9 million.

     The Life Company has in place an unsecured line of credit with Key Bank, NA
under which it may borrow up to $5.0 million at an annual interest rate equal to
the bank's prime rate.  At June 30, 1998 and December 31, 1997,  no amounts were
outstanding on the line of credit.  The Life Company had no debt  outstanding as
of June 30, 1998 and December 31, 1997.

     Net cash  provided by operating  activities  was $22.2  million for the six
months ended June 30, 1998 and $47.3  million,  $48.3  million and $39.6 million
during the years ended  December 31, 1997,  1996,  and 1995,  respectively.  The
principal sources of cash provided by operating  activities is interest credited
to  policyholders,  participating  policyholders'  interest,  and  increases  in
reserves for future policy and contract benefits. These sources provided cash of
$27.0  million for the six months ended June 30, 1998 and $61.9  million,  $57.9
million and $56.7 million for the years ended December 31, 1997,  1996 and 1995,
respectively. Net cash used in investing activities was $9.4 million for the six
months ended June 30, 1998 and $23.4 million, $28.7 million and $44.5 million in
1997, 1996 and 1995, respectively. Purchases of investments in fixed maturities,
net of collections  and sales,  were $10.5 million for the six months ended June
30, 1998 and $29.4 million,  $35.0 million and $52.8 million in 1997,  1996, and
1995,  respectively.  Net cash used in financing  activities  was $14.7 million,
$23.0  million and $19.1  million for the six months ended June 30, 1998 and for
the years  ended  December  31, 1997 and 1996,  respectively,  as a result of an
excess of  contractholder  fund  withdrawals over deposits in 1997 and 1996. Net
cash  provided  by  financing  activities  was $4.9  million  for the year ended
December 31, 1995 as a result of an excess of contractholder  fund deposits over
withdrawals  in  1995.  Management  believes   contractholder  fund  withdrawals
increased in 1997 and 1996 because fixed rate  contracts,  such as annuities and
universal life  contracts,  were  considered  less  attractive than other equity
security-based investment contracts as a result of the current bull market.

     The Life Company purchases  reinsurance for its life insurance and accident
and health  lines of business in part to mitigate the impact of large or unusual
claims on its liquidity and operating  results.  The Life Company's property and
casualty  business  is  written by its  subsidiary,  United,  and has  consisted
primarily of excess of loss reinsurance.  Effective December 31, 1997,  United's
reinsurance  agreements with FFCIC were  terminated.  United will continue to be
obligated to pay claims under the canceled  agreements  for losses  occurring in
the year 1997 and for prior years.  In 1998,  United  commenced  writing  direct
property and casualty  business in Pennsylvania and Maryland.  United's business
in Pennsylvania and Maryland is expected to be automobile, Special Farm Package,
homeowners,  and business owners,  and other insurance products for agribusiness
and  residents  of  rural  and  suburban  communities.   United's  business  may
experience large losses and catastrophic losses from time to time.

     The Life Company's asset/liability  management process attempts to mitigate
the risks associated with  interest-sensitive  assets and liabilities.  The Life
Company  prices its annuity and  universal  life products  based on  assumptions
considering  prevailing and expected interest rates and other factors to achieve
a positive difference, or spread, between its expected return on investments and
the crediting  rate. The Life Company  attempts to achieve this spread by active
portfolio  management  focusing on matching the durations of invested assets and
related  liabilities to minimize the exposure to  fluctuations in interest rates
and by the adjustment of the crediting rate on annuity products.  The results of
the  asset/liability  matching  are  analyzed  periodically  through  cash  flow
analysis under multiple interest rate scenarios.  The Life Company believes that
it will continue to achieve a positive  spread and that the amount of lapses and
surrender rates will remain  consistent with those assumed in the pricing of the
products.  During 1997,  the Life Company and United  retained the services of a
professional  investment  management  firm  specializing  in managing  insurance
company  assets.  Management  believes this step  supplements the Life Company's
internal  capabilities  and will enable the Life Company to further  improve the
management of the invested assets.
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                   DESCRIPTION OF SERIES A PREFERRED STOCK

     The  following  summary  description  of  certain  terms  of the  Series  A
Preferred Stock does not purport to be complete and is qualified in its entirety
by reference to the  Company's  Certificate  of  Incorporation  incorporated  by
reference  herein and to the provisions of the  Certificate of  Designations  of
Series  A  Preferred  Stock  attached  as an  exhibit  to  the  Option  Purchase
Agreement, which is incorporated by reference herein.

General

     The  Company's  Certificate  of  Incorporation  authorizes  the issuance of
1,000,000  shares of  preferred  stock,  par value $.01 per share,  issuable  in
classes or series (the "Preferred  Stock").  The Company's Board of Directors is
authorized to approve the issuance of one or more classes or series of preferred
stock without further  authorization  of the  stockholders of the Company and to
fix the number of shares, the designations,  the relative rights and limitations
of any such  class or series.  No shares of the  Company's  Preferred  Stock are
outstanding,  but the Company has  reserved for  issuance  70,000  shares of its
Junior  Participating  Cumulative  Preferred  Stock,  par  value  $.01 per share
("Junior  Preferred  Stock"),  issuable  upon  exercise of the  preferred  share
purchase rights (a "Right")  issued under a shareholders  rights plan adopted by
the  Company,  which  are  attached  to and  trade  with  the  Common  Stock.  A
description  of the terms of the Rights  are set forth in the Rights  Agreement,
dated as of July 29,  1997,  between the  Company  and The Bank of New York,  as
Rights Agent, which is incorporated herein by reference.

Designation and Amount

     The  Series  A  Preferred  Stock  will be  authorized  as a new  series  of
preferred  stock of the  Company  to be issued to the  Selling  Stockholders  in
connection with the Acquisition, consisting of that number of shares equal to $6
million stated value (less certain  expenses  described  above under "The Option
Purchase  Agreement-Expenses")  divided by the Average Closing Price. The number
of shares of Series A Preferred Stock may be decreased (but not below the number
of shares then  outstanding),  as permitted by the Delaware General  Corporation
Law by the  Company's  Board of  Directors  from  time to  time,  but may not be
increased or otherwise  decreased without the affirmative vote of the holders of
a majority of the outstanding  shares of Series A Preferred  Stock. The Series A
Preferred Stock will have a stated value per share (the "Stated Value") equal to
the Average Closing Price.

Rank

     With  respect to the payment of  dividends  and  distribution  of assets on
liquidation,  dissolution  or winding up of the Company,  the Series A Preferred
Stock will rank senior to the Common Stock,  the Junior  Preferred Stock and all
other classes of stock of the Company except those classes of preferred or other
capital stock expressly  designated as ranking senior to or on a parity with the
Series A Preferred Stock.

Dividends

         Cumulative  dividends  on the Series A Preferred  Stock will be payable
quarterly  at a rate equal to 6 1/8% per annum,  on each  January 15,  April 15,
July 15 and October 15. If dividends in full on the Series A Preferred Stock for
all prior periods and the current  period have not been paid or declared and set
apart for payment, or if there is an existing default on the Company's mandatory
redemption  obligation,  no  dividends  may be declared or paid or set apart for
payment on, nor may any  distribution  be made to holders of, any class of stock
ranking  junior  to the  Series A  Preferred  Stock  (other  than  dividends  or
distributions  made in shares of stock ranking  junior to the Series A Preferred
Stock),  and no dividends on shares of stock ranking on a parity with the Series
A Preferred Stock may be paid or set apart for payment except ratably  according
to unpaid  dividends  and  required  redemptions.  If Series A  Preferred  Stock
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dividends for all past and the current quarterly  dividend periods have not been
paid in full or been  declared  and set apart for  payment,  (i) the Company may
not, and may not permit its subsidiaries  to,  repurchase any shares of Series A
Preferred  Stock  unless  either  all  outstanding  shares  of  such  stock  are
repurchased  or the  shares are  repurchased  by the  Company  pro rata from all
holders of outstanding  shares of Series A Preferred  Stock and (ii) the Company
may not, and may not permit its  subsidiaries  to,  repurchase any shares of any
class  of  stock  ranking  junior  to  the  Series  A  Preferred  Stock,  except
repurchases  made in shares of stock  ranking  junior to the Series A  Preferred
Stock,  and may not  repurchase  any  shares of any class of stock  ranking on a
parity with the Series A Preferred  Stock,  except  ratably  according to unpaid
dividends and required redemptions.

Redemption

     The Series A Preferred Stock will be subject to mandatory redemption by the
Company on the date following the twentieth anniversary of the issuance date (or
the next business  day),  and optional  redemption,  in whole or in part, on and
after the tenth anniversary of the issuance date. The redemption price, equal to
the  Stated  Value of the  Series A  Preferred  Stock  plus  accrued  and unpaid
dividends to the date of  redemption,  may be paid in cash or, at the  Company's
option, by delivery of a number of shares of Common Stock determined by dividing
the aggregate  redemption  price by the average of the closing market prices for
the Common Stock on the NYSE for the 30  consecutive  trading days preceding the
redemption date.

Voting Rights

     The holders of shares of Series A  Preferred  Stock will be entitled to one
vote per share in the election of directors  and on all matters on which holders
of Common  Stock are  entitled  to vote,  not voting  separately  as a class but
together  with all  other  stockholders.  The  holders  of  shares  of  Series A
Preferred  Stock  will not be  entitled  to any other  voting  rights  except as
provided in the Company's  Certificate of Incorporation or as otherwise required
by law.

Liquidation Rights

     Subject to the rights of holders of any preferred or other capital stock of
the Company ranking senior to or on a parity with the Series A Preferred  Stock,
upon  any  liquidation,  dissolution  or  winding  up of  the  Company,  whether
voluntary or involuntary (a "Liquidation Transaction"), the holders of shares of
Series A Preferred Stock will be entitled to receive a liquidation preference in
an amount  per share  equal to the  Stated  Value,  plus an amount  equal to all
dividends  accrued and unpaid  thereon to the date of  distribution,  before any
distribution  or payment is made to holders of Common  Stock,  Junior  Preferred
Stock or any other class of stock of the Company  ranking  junior to the holders
of shares of Series A Preferred Stock.

     Neither the  consolidation,  merger or other  business  combination  of the
Company with or into any other person,  nor the sale of all or substantially all
of the assets of the Company will be deemed to be a Liquidation Transaction.
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                       STOCK OWNERSHIP OF MANAGEMENT AND
                          CERTAIN BENEFICIAL OWNERS

     The following table sets forth certain information regarding the beneficial
ownership of the Common  Stock of the Company as of October 16,  1998,  and such
beneficial  ownership  as  adjusted  to reflect  the  issuance  of an  estimated
1,032,794  shares of Common Stock and 144,148 shares of Series A Preferred Stock
(assuming  the Closing had  occurred on October 16, 1998 and an Average  Closing
Price  of $29  23/32,  see  "The  Acquisition-Exercise  Price")  to the  Selling
Stockholders in the  Acquisition by (i) each director,  (ii) the Chief Executive
Officer and each of the other four most highly compensated  executive  officers,
(iii) all executive  officers and directors of the Company as a group,  and (iv)
each person who is known by the Company to be the beneficial  owner of more than
5% of the  Common  Stock as of such date.  The  shareholdings  reported  for all
directors  and  executive  officers  as a  group  total  less  than  1%  of  the
outstanding  shares of the Common  Stock on October  16,  1998.  Except as noted
below, each person listed in the table has sole investment and voting power with
respect to the shares held by such person. With the exception of the information
reported  under the  captions  "Estimated  Number  of  Shares  of  Common  Stock
Beneficially  Owned After the  Acquisition"  and  "Estimated  % of Common  Stock
Outstanding  After the Acquisition" and the estimated share  information,  which
has been provided by the Company,  this  information  has been  furnished by the
persons listed in the table.

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

                                                                                              Number of Shares of
                                                                                                  Common Stock
Name                                                                                           Beneficially Owned
                                                                                               ------------------
<S>                                                                                                     <C>   
William M. Stamp, Jr............................................................                        534(1)
John W. Lincoln.................................................................                        167(2)
Philip P. Weber.................................................................                      1,237(3)
James J. Bettini................................................................                        563(4)
Stuart C. Henderson.............................................................                        213(5)
Victoria M. Stanton.............................................................                        335(6)
Timothy A. Walsh................................................................                        100(7)
Robert L. Baker.................................................................                        963(8)
Wayne R. Bissonette.............................................................                          0(9)
Randolph C. Blackmer, Jr........................................................                       800(10)
Fred G. Butler, Sr..............................................................                       587(11)
Joseph E. Calhoun...............................................................                        73(12)
James V. Crane..................................................................                       350(13)
Stephen J. George...............................................................                       100(14)
Gordon H. Gowen.................................................................                     1,017(15)
Jon R. Greenwood................................................................                     1,479(16)
Clark W. Hinsdale III...........................................................                       210(17)
Richard A. Jerome...............................................................                        50(18)
Arthur D. Keown, Jr.............................................................                         0(19)
Daniel R. LaPointe..............................................................                        62(20)
Wayne A. Mann...................................................................                        67(21)
Frank W. Matheson...............................................................                       372(22)
John P. Moskos..................................................................                         0
Norma R. O'Leary................................................................                     1,216(23)
John I. Rigolizzo, Jr...........................................................                        27(24)
Howard T. Sprow.................................................................                         0
Charles A. Wilfong..............................................................                       643(25)
Tyler P. Young..................................................................                       227(26)
All directors and executive officers as a group (31 persons)...................                     11,814


</TABLE>
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<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

                                                                                                       Estimated
                                                                                                       Number of         Estimated %
                                                                                  % of Common          Shares of          of Common
                                                        Number of Shares             Stock           Common Stock           Stock
                                                        of Common Stock           Outstanding        Beneficially        Outstanding
Holders of Greater Than 5%                             Beneficially Owned           Prior to          Owned After           After
of Common Stock                                       Prior to Acquisition        Acquisition         Acquisition        Acquisition
- ------------------------------------------------      ---------------------       -----------         -----------        -----------
FMR Corp........................................
82 Devonshire Street
<S>                                                         <C>                      <C>                <C>               <C>     
Boston, MA 02109                                            525,300(27)              9.99               525,300           8.36(28)
Gotham Partners, L.P. and
   Gotham
   Partners II, L.P.............................
110 E. 42nd Street, 18th Floor
New York, NY 10017                                          350,500(29)              6.67               350,500           5.58(30)
Franklin Resources, Inc.........................
777 Mariners Island Boulevard
San Mateo, CA 94404                                          285,800(31)             5.44               285,800           4.55(32)
W.R. Berkley Corporation........................
165 Mason Street
Greenwich, CT 06830                                          272,200(33)             5.18               272,200           4.33(34)
New York Farm Bureau, Inc.......................
Route 9W, Box 992
Glenmont, NY 12077-0992                                           2,021               *                 411,329(35)       6.54(36)
</TABLE>
- -----------------------------
*        Less than one percent.

(1)  Includes 297 shares as to which voting and investment power are shared with
     Stamp Farm Enterprises, Inc. or Carol Stamp. Excludes 1,090 shares owned by
     Rhode  Island Farm Bureau  Federation,  Inc.  (a Selling  Stockholder)  and
     excludes  37,225  shares  of  Common  Stock  and  7,090  shares of Series A
     Preferred  Stock  estimated  to be  received  by Rhode  Island  Farm Bureau
     Federation, Inc. in the Acquisition.  Mr. Stamp is President and a Director
     of Rhode Island Farm Bureau Federation,  Inc. Mr. Stamp is also Chairman of
     the Board and a Director of the Life Company.

(2)  Includes 113 shares as to which voting and investment power are shared with
     S. Anne Lincoln.  Excludes 2,021 shares owned by New York Farm Bureau, Inc.
     and excludes  409,308  shares of Common Stock and 77,964 shares of Series A
     Preferred  Stock  estimated to be received by New York Farm Bureau  Service
     Company,  Inc. (a Selling  Stockholder) in the Acquisition.  Mr. Lincoln is
     President and a Director of New York Farm Bureau,  Inc. and its  affiliate,
     New York  Farm  Bureau  Service  Company,  Inc.  Mr.  Lincoln  is also Vice
     Chairman of the Board and a Director of the Life Company.

(3)  Represents  shares as to which voting and investment  power are shared with
     Brenda Lee Weber. Mr. Weber is President and Chief Executive Officer of the
     Life Company.

(4)  Represents  shares as to which voting and investment  power are shared with
     Marie C. Bettini. Mr. Bettini is Executive Vice President-Operations of the
     Life Company.

(5)  Includes 113 shares as to which voting and investment power are shared with
     Melanie S. Henderson.

(6)  Includes 185 shares as to which voting and investment power are shared with
     Randy M. Sweeney. Ms. Stanton is Executive Vice President,  General Counsel
     and Secretary of the Life Company.

(7)  Mr. Walsh is Executive  Vice  President-Finance  and  Treasurer of the Life
     Company.

(8)  Represents  33 shares as to which  voting and  investment  power are shared
     with Pamela M. Baker, 86 shares as to which voting and investment power are
     shared with Delaware Produce  Growers,  Inc., 744 shares as to which voting
     and investment power are shared with Baker Farms,  Inc. and 100 shares held
     by the  Robert L.  Baker  Revocable  Trust.  Excludes  60  shares  owned by
     Delaware Farm Bureau,  Inc. and excludes  46,502 shares of Common Stock and
     8,857  shares of Series A  Preferred  Stock  estimated  to be  received  by
     Delaware Farm Bureau Service Company,  Inc. (a Selling  Stockholder) in the
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     Acquisition.  Mr. Baker is Second Vice President and a Director of Delaware
     Farm Bureau, Inc. and its affiliate,  Delaware Farm Bureau Service Company,
     Inc. Mr. Baker is also a Director of the Life Company.

(9)  Excludes  296  Shares  owned  by  Vermont  Farm  Bureau,  Inc.  (a  Selling
     Stockholder) and its affiliates and excludes 189 shares of Common Stock and
     36 shares of Series A Preferred  Stock  estimated to be received by Vermont
     Farm  Bureau,  Inc.  in the  Acquisition.  Mr.  Bissonette  is Second  Vice
     President  and a Director of Vermont Farm Bureau,  Inc. Mr.  Bissonette  is
     also a Director of the Life Company.

(10) Represents  shares as to which voting and investment  power are shared with
     Myrtie I.  Blackmer  or Ag  Services,  Inc.  Excludes  91  shares  owned by
     Connecticut  Farm Bureau  Association,  Inc. and excludes  83,710 shares of
     Common Stock and 15,945 shares of Series A Preferred  Stock estimated to be
     received by Connecticut Farm Bureau Service Company (a Selling Stockholder)
     in the Acquisition.  Mr. Blackmer is First Vice President and a Director of
     Connecticut Farm Bureau  Association,  Inc. and its affiliate,  Connecticut
     Farm Bureau Service  Company.  Mr.  Blackmer is also a Director of the Life
     Company.

(11) Represents  shares as to which voting and investment  power are shared with
     Norma Gene  Butler.  Excludes  7,053  shares  owned by West  Virginia  Farm
     Bureau,  Inc. (a Selling  Stockholder) and excludes 37,225 shares of Common
     Stock and 7,090 shares of Series A Preferred Stock estimated to be received
     by West  Virginia  Farm Bureau,  Inc. in the  Acquisition.  Mr. Butler is a
     Director of West Virginia  Farm Bureau,  Inc. Mr. Butler is also a Director
     of the Life Company.

(12) Represents  shares as to which voting and investment  power are shared with
     Bessie J. Calhoun.  Excludes 60 shares owned by Delaware Farm Bureau,  Inc.
     and  excludes  46,502  shares of Common  Stock and 8,857 shares of Series A
     Preferred  Stock  estimated to be received by Delaware Farm Bureau  Service
     Company,  Inc. (a Selling  Stockholder) in the Acquisition.  Mr. Calhoun is
     President and a Director of Delaware Farm Bureau,  Inc. and its  affiliate,
     Delaware Farm Bureau Service  Company,  Inc. Mr. Calhoun is also a Director
     of the Life Company.

(13) Represents  shares as to which voting and investment  power are shared with
     Crane  Bros.,   Inc.  Excludes  397  shares  owned  by  Maine  Farm  Bureau
     Association  and its affiliates and excludes  18,621 shares of Common Stock
     and 3,547  shares of Series A Preferred  Stock  estimated to be received by
     Maine  Farm  Bureau  Service   Company  (a  Selling   Stockholder)  in  the
     Acquisition.  Mr. Crane is a Director of Maine Farm Bureau  Association and
     its affiliate, Maine Farm Bureau Service Company.

(14) Represents  shares as to which voting and investment  power are shared with
     Susan  George.  Excludes  996 shares  owned by New Jersey  Farm  Bureau and
     excludes  279,062  shares of Common  Stock  and  53,155  shares of Series A
     Preferred  Stock estimated to be received by New Jersey Farm Bureau Service
     Company  (a  Selling  Stockholder)  in the  Acquisition.  Mr.  George  is a
     Director of New Jersey Farm Bureau  Service  Company.  Mr. George is also a
     Director of the Life Company.

(15) Includes 929 shares as to which voting and investment power are shared with
     Elizabeth R. Gowen.  Excludes 207 shares owned by New Hampshire Farm Bureau
     Federation  and excludes 34 shares of Common Stock and 7 shares of Series A
     Preferred  Stock  estimated  to be  received by New  Hampshire  Farm Bureau
     Federation  (a  Selling  Stockholder)  in the  Acquisition.  Mr.  Gowen  is
     President and a Director of New Hampshire Farm Bureau Federation. Mr. Gowen
     is also a Director of the Life Company.

(16) Represents  shares as to which voting and investment  power are shared with
     Linda R.  Greenwood.  Excludes  2,021 shares owned by New York Farm Bureau,
     Inc.  and  excludes  409,308  shares of Common  Stock and 77,964  shares of
     Series A Preferred  Stock  estimated to be received by New York Farm Bureau
     Service  Company,  Inc. (a Selling  Stockholder)  in the  Acquisition.  Mr.
     Greenwood is Vice  President  and a Director of New York Farm Bureau,  Inc.
     and its affiliate, New York Farm Bureau Service Company, Inc. Mr. Greenwood
     is also a Director of the Life Company.

(17) Excludes 296 shares owned by Vermont Farm Bureau,  Inc. and its  affiliates
     and excludes 189 shares of Common Stock and 36 shares of Series A Preferred
     Stock  estimated  to be received by Vermont  Farm  Bureau,  Inc. (a Selling
     Stockholder) in the  Acquisition.  Mr. Hinsdale is President and a Director
     of Vermont  Farm Bureau,  Inc. Mr.  Hinsdale is also a Director of the Life
     Company.
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(18) Represents  shares as to which voting and investment  power are shared with
     Mary Margaret Jerome.  Excludes 2,021 shares owned by New York Farm Bureau,
     Inc.  and  excludes  409,308  shares of Common  Stock and 77,964  shares of
     Series A Preferred  Stock  estimated to be received by New York Farm Bureau
     Service  Company,  Inc. (a Selling  Stockholder)  in the  Acquisition.  Mr.
     Jerome is also a Director of the Life Company.

(19) Excludes 637 shares owned by Massachusetts Farm Bureau Federation, Inc. and
     its  affiliates  and  excludes  120,918  shares of Common  Stock and 23,032
     shares  of  Series  A  Preferred   Stock   estimated   to  be  received  by
     Massachusetts Farm Bureau Service Company,  Inc. (a Selling Stockholder) in
     the  Acquisition.  Mr. Keown is President  and a Director of  Massachusetts
     Farm Bureau Federation, Inc., and its affiliate,  Massachusetts Farm Bureau
     Service Company, Inc. Mr. Keown is also a Director of the Life Company.

(20) Excludes  397  shares  owned  by  Maine  Farm  Bureau  Association  and its
     affiliates  and excludes  18,621 shares of Common Stock and 3,547 shares of
     Series A  Preferred  Stock  estimated  to be  received by Maine Farm Bureau
     Service Company (a Selling Stockholder) in the Acquisition. Mr. LaPointe is
     a Director of Maine Farm Bureau  Association and its affiliate,  Maine Farm
     Bureau Service Company.

(21) Represents  shares as to which voting and investment  power are shared with
     Ruth F.  Mann.  Excludes  207 shares  owned by New  Hampshire  Farm  Bureau
     Federation  and excludes 34 shares of Common Stock and 7 shares of Series A
     Preferred  Stock  estimated  to be  received by New  Hampshire  Farm Bureau
     Federation (a Selling  Stockholder) in the  Acquisition.  Mr. Mann is First
     Vice President and a Director of New Hampshire Farm Bureau Federation.  Mr.
     Mann is also a Director of the Life Company.

(22) Includes 69 shares as to which voting and investment  power are shared with
     Eunice  Matheson.  Excludes 637 shares owned by  Massachusetts  Farm Bureau
     Federation,  Inc. and its affiliates and excludes  120,918 shares of Common
     Stock and  23,032  shares  of  Series A  Preferred  Stock  estimated  to be
     received by  Massachusetts  Farm Bureau  Service  Company,  Inc. (a Selling
     Stockholder)  in the  Acquisition.  Mr.  Matheson is Vice  President  and a
     Director of Massachusetts Farm Bureau Federation,  Inc.  Massachusetts Farm
     Bureau Service Company,  Inc. is an affiliate of Massachusetts  Farm Bureau
     Federation, Inc. Mr. Matheson is also a Director of the Life Company.

(23) Includes 71 shares as to which voting and investment  power are shared with
     Ernest J.  O'Leary.  Excludes 91 shares  owned by  Connecticut  Farm Bureau
     Association,  Inc.  and excludes  83,710  shares of Common Stock and 15,945
     shares of Series A Preferred  Stock estimated to be received by Connecticut
     Farm Bureau Service Company (a Selling Stockholder) in the Acquisition. Ms.
     O'Leary is President and a Director of Connecticut Farm Bureau Association,
     Inc.  and its  affiliate,  Connecticut  Farm Bureau  Service  Company.  Ms.
     O'Leary is also a Director of the Life Company.

(24) Represents  shares as to which voting and investment  power are shared with
     Marita  Rigolizzo.  Excludes 996 shares owned by New Jersey Farm Bureau and
     excludes  279,062  shares of Common  Stock  and  53,155  shares of Series A
     Preferred  Stock estimated to be received by New Jersey Farm Bureau Service
     Company  (a Selling  Stockholder)  in the  Acquisition.  Mr.  Rigolizzo  is
     President and a Director of New Jersey Farm Bureau,  and Vice President and
     a Director of its affiliate,  New Jersey Farm Bureau Service  Company.  Mr.
     Rigolizzo is also a Director of the Life Company.

(25) Represents  shares as to which voting and  investment  power is shared with
     Linda  Wilfong.  Excludes  7,053 shares owned by West Virginia Farm Bureau,
     Inc. and excludes  37,225 shares of Common Stock and 7,090 shares of Series
     A Preferred  Stock  estimated to be received by West  Virginia Farm Bureau,
     Inc. (a Selling  Stockholder) in the Acquisition.  Mr. Wilfong is President
     and a Director of West  Virginia  Farm Bureau,  Inc. Mr.  Wilfong is also a
     Director of the Life Company.

(26) Represents  shares as to which voting and investment  power are shared with
     Karla K. Young.  Excludes  1,090  shares  owned by Rhode Island Farm Bureau
     Federation,  Inc.  and  excludes  37,225  shares of Common  Stock and 7,090
     shares of Series A Preferred Stock estimated to be received by Rhode Island
     Farm Bureau  Federation,  Inc. (a Selling  Stockholder) in the Acquisition.
     Mr.  Young is Vice  President  and a Director  of Rhode  Island Farm Bureau
     Federation, Inc. Mr. Young is also a Director of the Life Company.
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(27) Based on Schedule  13G/A dated  February 14, 1998 filed with the Commission
     by FMR Corp. which has the sole  dispositive  power over 525,300 shares and
     the sole voting power over 0 shares.

(28) Represents   8.10%  of  the  estimated   total  combined  voting  power  of
     stockholders of the Company after the Acquisition.

(29) Based on  Schedule  13D dated  March 7, 1997  filed  with the SEC by Gotham
     Partners,  L.P. and Gotham Partners II, L.P. Gotham Partners,  L.P. has the
     sole  dispositive  power over 345,505 shares and the sole voting power over
     345,505 shares.  Gotham Partners II, L.P. has sole  dispositive  power over
     4,995 shares and the sole voting power over 4,995 shares.

(30) Represents   5.41%  of  the  estimated   total  combined  voting  power  of
     stockholders of the Company after the Acquisition.

(31) Based on Schedule 13G/A dated January 16, 1998 filed with the Commission by
     Franklin  Resources,  Inc. and certain affiliates  thereof. An affiliate of
     Franklin Resources,  Inc.,  Franklin Advisory Services,  Inc., has the sole
     dispositive  power  over  285,800  shares  and the sole  voting  power over
     194,800 shares.

(32) Represents   4.41%  of  the  estimated   total  combined  voting  power  of
     stockholders of the Company after the Acquisition.

(33) Based on Schedule 13G dated  February 6, 1998 filed with the  Commission by
     W.R. Berkley  Corporation  which has the sole voting and dispositive  power
     over 272,200 shares.

(34) Represents   4.20%  of  the  estimated   total  combined  voting  power  of
     stockholders of the Company after the Acquisition.

(35) Includes  409,308  shares of Common  Stock  estimated to be received by New
     York Farm  Bureau  Service  Company,  Inc. (a Selling  Stockholder)  in the
     Acquisition.  New York Farm Bureau Service Company, Inc. is a subsidiary of
     New York Farm Bureau,  Inc.  

(36) Represents  7.52% of the total combined voting power of the stockholders of
     the  Company,  after giving  effect to 77,964  shares of Series A Preferred
     Stock estimated to be received by the New York Farm Bureau Service Company,
     Inc. in the Acquisition.

Section 16(a) Beneficial Ownership Reporting Compliance

     Section  16(a)  of  the  Exchange  Act  requires   executive  officers  and
directors,  and persons who  beneficially own more than 10% of the Common Stock,
to file initial reports of ownership and reports of change in ownership with the
Commission and the NYSE. Such persons are required by Commission  regulations to
provide to the Company copies of all their Section 16(a)  filings.  Based solely
on a review of the forms  furnished  to the Company and written  representations
from the Company's  executive officers and directors,  the Company believes that
there was full  compliance  with all Section 16(a) filing  requirements  for the
year ended December 31, 1997.

                          INDEPENDENT ACCOUNTANTS

     The consolidated  financial  statements of the Company incorporated in this
Proxy  Statement by reference to the Company's 1997 Annual Report on Form 10-K/A
have  been  incorporated  herein  by  reference  in  reliance  on the  report of
PricewaterhouseCoopers  LLP,  independent  public  accountants,   given  on  the
authority of that firm as experts in accounting and auditing.

     The  consolidated  financial  statements of the Life Company as of December
31, 1997 and 1996,  and for the years ended  December 31,  1997,  1996 and 1995,
included in this Proxy  Statement  have been included  herein in reliance on the
reports of PricewaterhouseCoopers LLP, independent public accountants,  given on
the authority of that firm as experts in accounting and auditing.

     Representatives  of  PricewaterhouseCoopers  LLP  will  be  present  at the
Special Meeting. While such representatives have stated that they do not plan to
make a  statement  at  such  meeting,  they  will be  available  to  respond  to
appropriate questions from stockholders in attendance.
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                        PROPOSALS OF STOCKHOLDERS

     Proposals  submitted by stockholders of the Company must be received at the
principal  executive  offices of the Company,  344 Route 9W, Glenmont,  New York
12077 (mail to: Farm Family  Holdings,  Inc.,  P.O.  Box 656,  Albany,  New York
12201-0656),  Attention:  Corporate Secretary, on or before November 20, 1998 in
order to be considered for inclusion in the proxy materials relating to the 1999
Annual Meeting of Stockholders.

     In addition to any other applicable requirements,  if a stockholder desires
to bring  business  before  an  annual  meeting  which is not the  subject  of a
proposal timely submitted for consideration for inclusion in the proxy materials
relating to the annual meeting,  the stockholder  must follow the advance notice
procedures outlined in the Company's By-Laws.  The Company's By-Laws provide, in
general,  that a proposal  for action to be  presented  by a  stockholder  at an
annual  meeting  shall be out of order  unless the  proposal is specified in the
notice of meeting  given by or at the  direction  of the Board of  Directors  or
unless the proposal  shall have been submitted in writing (in the form specified
in the By-Laws) to the  Secretary  of the Company and received at the  principal
executive  offices  of the  Company  not less than 60 days nor more than 90 days
prior to the anniversary date of the immediately  preceding  annual meeting.  If
the date of the annual meeting has been advanced or delayed by more than 30 days
from the prior  anniversary  date,  notice must be  received  not later than the
close of business on the 10th day  following the day on which such notice of the
annual  meeting was mailed or such public  disclosure of the date of such annual
meeting was made,  whichever first occurs. For the Company's 1999 Annual Meeting
of Stockholders expected to be held on April 27, 1999,  stockholders must submit
such written notice to the Secretary of the Company not earlier than January 28,
1999 or later than February 27, 1999.
       
     The  foregoing is only a summary of the detailed  provisions of the By-Laws
and is  qualified  by reference  to the text  thereof.  Stockholders  wishing to
submit a  proposal  should  review the  requirements  of the  By-Laws  regarding
proposals by  stockholders  and should  communicate  with the  Secretary of Farm
Family Holdings,  Inc., P.O. Box 656, Albany, New York,  12201-0656,  if sent by
mail, or 344 Route 9W,  Glenmont,  New York 12077,  if by hand,  express mail or
overnight courier, for further information.
                                        
                                                            Victoria M. Stanton
                                                            Secretary

October 21, 1998
Glenmont, New York



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                                                                ANNEX A

                                                            CONFORMED COPY









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                     AMENDED AND RESTATED

                   OPTION PURCHASE AGREEMENT

                           among

                   FARM FAMILY HOLDINGS, INC.

                            and

                      THE SHAREHOLDERS OF
               FARM FAMILY LIFE INSURANCE COMPANY


                Dated as of February 26, 1998









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                              TABLE OF CONTENTS

Section 1.  Definitions; Interpretation......................................A-5
            (a)      Definitions.............................................A-5
            (b)      Interpretation.........................................A-10

Section 2.  Grant of Options................................................A-10

Section 3.  Fair Market Value per Share.....................................A-10

Section 4.  Exercise of Option..............................................A-11

Section 5.  Expense Allocation..............................................A-11

Section 6.  Closing; Payment of Exercise Price..............................A-12

Section 7.  Conditions of Closing...........................................A-13

Section 8.  Representations and Warranties of Each Shareholder..............A-13
            (a)      Corporate Existence....................................A-13
            (b)      Authorization; Enforcement.............................A-14
            (c)      Capital Stock of the Company; Ownership of Shares......A-14
            (d)      Subsidiaries...........................................A-14
            (e)      No Conflict............................................A-14
            (f)      Consents...............................................A-15
            (g)      Compliance with Law....................................A-15
            (h)      Insurance Licenses.....................................A-15
            (i)      Litigation.............................................A-15
            (j)      Financial Statements...................................A-15
            (k)      Contracts..............................................A-16
            (l)      Taxes..................................................A-16
            (m)      Assets.................................................A-16
            (n)      Environmental Matters..................................A-17
            (o)      Employee Benefits......................................A-17
            (p)      Investment Purpose.....................................A-17

Section 9.  Representations and Warranties of the Optionee..................A-18
            (a)      Corporate Existence....................................A-18
            (b)      Authorization; Enforcement.............................A-18
            (c)      Capital Stock of Optionee..............................A-18
            (d)      Subsidiaries...........................................A-18
            (e)      No Conflict............................................A-18
            (f)      Consents...............................................A-19
            (g)      Compliance with Law....................................A-19
            (h)      Insurance Licenses.....................................A-19
            (i)      Litigation.............................................A-19
            (j)      Financial Statements...................................A-19
            (k)      Contracts..............................................A-20
            (l)      Taxes..................................................A-20

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            (m)      Assets.................................................A-20
            (n)      Environmental Matters..................................A-21
            (o)      Employee Benefits......................................A-21
            (p)      Investment Purpose.....................................A-21

Section 10. Covenants of each Shareholder; Restrictions on Certain Actions..A-21
            (a)      Covenants..............................................A-21
            (b)      Restrictions...........................................A-22

Section 11.  Adjustment Upon Changes in Capitalization......................A-22

Section 12.  Access and Information.........................................A-22

Section 13.  Approvals of Governmental Authorities..........................A-23

Section 14.  Stockholder Approval...........................................A-23

Section 15.  Restrictive Legends............................................A-23

Section 16.  Termination; Survival of Representations and Warranties........A-23

Section 17.  Binding Effect; No Assignment..................................A-24

Section 18.  Specific Performance...........................................A-24

Section 19.  Entire Agreement...............................................A-24

Section 20.  Effectiveness of Agreement.....................................A-24

Section 21.  Further Assurances.............................................A-24

Section 22.  Validity.......................................................A-24

Section 23.  Material Change in Law.........................................A-25

Section 24.  Notices........................................................A-26

Section 25.  Governing Law..................................................A-26

Section 26.  Descriptive Headings...........................................A-26

Section 27.  Counterparts...................................................A-26

Section 28.  Expenses.......................................................A-26

Section 29.  Amendments; Waiver.............................................A-26

Section 30.  Action by the Shareholders.....................................A-26

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EXHIBITS

Exhibit A -- Shareholders
Exhibit B -- Valuation Procedures
Exhibit C -- Form of  Certificate of  Designations  for Voting  Preferred  Stock
Exhibit D -- Form of  Opinion of  Counsel  to  Shareholder  
Exhibit E -- Form of Opinion of the General Counsel to Optionee and Insurance 
             Subsidiary 
Exhibit F -- Form of Registration Rights Agreement 
Exhibit G -- Form of Agreement and Plan ofReorganization


SCHEDULES

Schedule 8(i)    --    Litigation
Schedule 8(l)    --    Taxes
Schedule 8(n)    --    Environmental Matters
Schedule 9(d)    --    Subsidiaries
Schedule 9(i)    --    Litigation
Schedule 9(l)    --    Taxes
Schedule 9(n)    --    Environmental Matters

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                            AMENDED AND RESTATED
                          OPTION PURCHASE AGREEMENT


     THIS AMENDED AND RESTATED  OPTION PURCHASE  AGREEMENT  (this  "Agreement"),
dated as of February  26,  1998,  by and among FARM  FAMILY  HOLDINGS,  INC.,  a
Delaware corporation (the "Optionee"),  and THE SHAREHOLDERS OF FARM FAMILY LIFE
INSURANCE  COMPANY  set  forth  on the  signature  pages  hereof  (each  of such
shareholders, a "Shareholder" and collectively, the "Shareholders").

     WHEREAS, the Optionee and the Shareholders have previously entered into the
Option  Purchase  Agreement,  dated as of  February  14,  1996,  as  amended  by
Amendment No. 1 ("Amendment  No. 1") to Option Purchase  Agreement,  dated as of
April 22, 1997 (as so amended, the "Option Purchase Agreement");

     WHEREAS,  the Optionee and the Shareholders desire to amend and restate the
Option Purchase Agreement as set forth herein;

     WHEREAS, the Plan of Conversion,  as defined herein,  contemplates that the
Optionee  and the  Shareholders  will  enter  into this  Agreement  and that the
Optionee will reserve  shares of the Optionee  Common Stock (as defined  herein)
and  the  Voting  Preferred  Stock  (as  defined  herein)  for  issuance  to the
Shareholders in the event the Option granted hereunder is exercised;

     WHEREAS,  Farm Family Life Insurance  Company,  a New York domiciled  stock
life insurance  company (the "Company") has outstanding  60,011 shares of common
stock, par value $50.00 per share (the "Common Stock"),  which constitute all of
the issued and outstanding shares of capital stock of the Company;

     WHEREAS, each of the Shareholders owns the number of shares of Common Stock
set forth opposite its name on Exhibit A (each, a "Share" and, collectively, the
"Shares"); and

     WHEREAS,  each of the  Shareholders  desires  to grant to the  Optionee  an
option to  purchase  the Shares  owned by it,  upon the terms and subject to the
conditions hereinafter set forth.

     NOW,  THEREFORE,  in  consideration  of the  foregoing  and  of the  mutual
covenants and agreements set forth herein, the parties hereto agree as follows:

     Section 1. Definitions; Interpretation.

     (a) Definitions. The terms defined in this Section 1, whenever used in this
Agreement, shall have the following meanings for all purposes of this Agreement:

     "Affiliate" of a specified Person means a Person that (at the time when the
determination  is to be  made)  directly,  or  indirectly  through  one or  more
intermediaries, controls, is controlled by, or is under common control with, the
specified  Person.  As  used  in the  foregoing  sentence,  the  term  "control"
(including,  with correlative meaning, the terms "controlling",  "controlled by"
and "under common control with") means the  possession,  directly or indirectly,
of the power to direct or cause the direction of the  management and policies of
a Person,  whether  through the ownership of voting  securities,  by contract or
otherwise.

     "Agreement" has the meaning set forth in the first paragraph hereof.

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     "Agreement and Plan of  Reorganization"  means, with respect to any Service
Company, an agreement substantially in the form of Exhibit G hereto between that
Service Company and the Optionee.

     "Amendment No. 1" has the meaning set forth in the first recital hereof.

     "Benefit Plan" has the meaning set forth in Section 8(o).

     "Business  Day" means any day that is not a Saturday  or Sunday or a day on
which banks in the State of New York are authorized or required by law to close.

     "Certificate of Designations" means the Certificate of Designations for the
Voting Preferred Stock, substantially in the form attached as Exhibit C hereto.

     "Change in Law" has the meaning set forth in Section 23.

     "Closing" has the meaning set forth in Section 4(a).

     "Closing Date" has the meaning set forth in Section 4(a).

     "Closing Price" means, with respect to any security on any Trading Day, the
last reported  sale price,  regular way, or, in case no such reported sale takes
place on such day,  the average of the  reported  closing bid and asked  prices,
regular way, in either case as reported on the principal  securities exchange on
which such  security is then listed or admitted to trading or, if such  security
is not then listed or admitted to trading on any national  securities  exchange,
as quoted  through the National  Association  of  Securities  Dealers  Automated
Quotations  National  Market  System or, if such  security is not then listed or
admitted to trading on any securities exchange,  or quoted through such National
Market  System,  the  average  of  the  closing  bid  and  asked  prices  in the
over-the-counter  market as furnished by any New York Stock Exchange member firm
that makes a market in such  security  selected by the Optionee  and  reasonably
acceptable to the Shareholders.

     "Code" means the Internal Revenue Code of 1986, as amended.

     "Common Stock" has the meaning set forth in the fourth recital hereof.

     "Company" has the meaning set forth in the fourth recital hereof.

     "Company  Benefit  Plan"  means  any plan,  fund,  program  or  arrangement
(including  any  employee  benefit  plans  as  defined  in ERISA  Section  3(3))
established, maintained or to which contributions are made by the Company or for
which the Company has any obligation or liability.

     "Company Contract" means every Contract to which the Company or United is a
party or by which it is bound that materially affects the business or operations
of the Company and United taken as a whole (other than  insurance or reinsurance
policies written by the Company or United in the ordinary course of business).

     "Company Control Group" means the Company and any Person that is considered
a  single  employer  with the  Company  within  the  meaning  of  ERISA  Section
4001(b)(1) or Code Sections 414(b), (c), (m) or (o).

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     "Contract"  means any  written  or oral  contract,  agreement,  instrument,
commitment or other arrangement.

     "Effective  Date" has the  meaning  set forth in Section 5.2 of the Plan of
Conversion.

     "ERISA"  means the Employee  Retirement  Income  Security  Act of 1974,  as
amended, and regulations issued thereunder.

     "Exercise  Date" means the date as of which the Fair Market Value per Share
is determined pursuant to Section 3.

     "Exercise Notice" has the meaning set forth in Section 4(a).

     "Exercise Price" has the meaning set forth in Section 2.

     "Expense Allocation" has the meaning set forth in Section 5.

     "Expiration  Date"  means the second  anniversary  of the  Effective  Date;
provided,  however,  that the  Expiration  Date  may be  extended  to the  third
anniversary  of the Effective  Date upon the mutual  agreement in writing of the
Company and the Shareholders.

     "Fair Market Value per Share" has the meaning set forth in Section 3(a).

     "Farm Bureau" means each of (i) New Hampshire Farm Bureau Federation,  (ii)
Rhode Island Farm Bureau Federation,  Inc., (iii) Vermont Farm Bureau,  Inc. and
(iv) West Virginia Farm Bureau, Inc.

     "GAAP" means generally accepted accounting principles.

     "Governmental  Authority" means   any foreign,  federal,  state,  local or
other court,  arbitration,  administrative  agency or  commission,  insurance or
securities  regulatory or  self-regulatory  body or  securities  or  commodities
exchange.
                  
     "HSR Act" means the Hart-Scott-Rodino Antitrust Improvement Act of 1976, as
amended.

     "Insurance  Subsidiary" means Farm Family Casualty Insurance Company, a New
York domiciled stock insurance company.

     "Knowledge"  means, with respect to any representation or warranty in which
such term is  contained  to the best  knowledge  of any  officer or  director or
management  employee of the Optionee,  on the one hand, or such Shareholder,  on
the other hand, after a due and diligent inquiry.

     "Laws" has the meaning set forth in Section 8(g).

     "Lien" means any lien, encumbrance,  pledge,  mortgage,  security interest,
claim,  charge,  lease,  option,  right of first refusal,  easement,  servitude,
equity,  claim or other  third party right  (including  a right of  preemption),
restriction or other limitation, in each case of any nature whatsoever.

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     "Material  Adverse  Effect" means a material  adverse effect on the assets,
results of operations, business, prospects or condition (financial or otherwise)
of the Company and United,  taken as a whole,  or the Optionee and the Insurance
Subsidiary, taken as a whole, as the case may be.

     "Material Change in Law" has the meaning set forth in Section 23.

     "Option" has the meaning set forth in Section 2.

     "Option Purchase  Agreement" has the meaning set forth in the first recital
hereof.

     "Optionee" has the meaning set forth in the first paragraph hereof.

     "Optionee Appraiser" has the meaning set forth in Section 3(a).

     "Optionee  Benefit  Plan"  means any plan,  fund,  program  or  arrangement
(including  any  employee  benefit  plans  as  defined  in ERISA  Section  3(3))
established,  maintained or to which  contributions  are made by the Optionee or
the Insurance  Subsidiary or for which the Optionee or the Insurance  Subsidiary
has any obligation or liability.

     "Optionee  Common Stock" means the common stock,  par value $.01 per share,
of the Optionee.

     "Optionee  Common Stock Price" means the average Closing Price per share of
Optionee Common Stock during the twenty Trading Days prior to the third Business
Day preceding the Closing Date.

     "Optionee  Contract"  means  every  Contract  to which the  Optionee or the
Insurance  Subsidiary is a party or by which it is bound that materially affects
the business or operations of the Optionee and the Insurance  Subsidiary,  taken
as a  whole  (other  than  insurance  or  reinsurance  policies  written  by the
Insurance Subsidiary in the ordinary course of business).

     "Optionee  Control  Group"  means  the  Optionee  and  any  Person  that is
considered  a single  employer  with the  Optionee  within the  meaning of ERISA
Section 4001(b)(1) or Code Sections 414(b), (c), (m) or (o).

     "Optionee Valuation" has the meaning set forth in Section 3(a).

     "Permits" has the meaning set forth in Section 8(h) and 9(h).

     "Person" means any  individual,  corporation,  limited  liability  company,
partnership,   firm,   joint   venture,   association,   trust,   unincorporated
organization, Governmental Authority or other entity.

     "Plan of  Conversion"  means the Plan of  Reorganization  and Conversion of
Farm Family Mutual  Insurance  Company dated  February 14, 1996, as amended from
time to time in accordance with its terms.

     "Policies" means all insurance  policies,  annuity contracts and guaranteed
interest  contracts  (including  riders  to  any  such  policies  or  contracts,
certificates  issued with respect to group life  insurance or annuity  contracts
and any contracts  issued in connection with retirement  plans or  arrangements)
and  assumption   certificates  issued  (or  filed  pending  current  review  by
applicable  Governmental  Authorities)  by the Company,  United or the Insurance
Subsidiary, as the case may be.

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     "property" means real, personal or mixed property, tangible or intangible.

     "Registration  Rights  Agreement" means the Registration  Rights Agreement,
dated the Closing Date, among the Optionee and the  Shareholders,  substantially
in the form attached as Exhibit F hereto.

     "Revised Shareholder Valuation" has the meaning set forth in Section 3(b).

     "SAP" has the meaning set forth in Section 8(j).

     "Securities  Act" means the  Securities  Act of 1933,  as amended,  and the
rules and regulations promulgated thereunder.

     "Service  Company"  means  each  of (i)  Connecticut  Farm  Bureau  Service
Company,  (ii)  Delaware Farm Bureau  Service  Company,  Inc.,  (iii) Maine Farm
Bureau Service Company,  (iv) Massachusetts  Farm Bureau Service Company,  Inc.,
(v) New Jersey Farm Bureau Service Company and (vi) New York Farm Bureau Service
Company, Inc.

     "Shareholders"  or  "Shareholder"  has the  meaning  set forth in the first
paragraph hereof.

     "Shareholder Appraiser" has the meaning set forth in Section 3(b).

     "Shareholder Valuation" has the meaning set forth in Section 3(b).

     "Shares" or "Share" has the meaning set forth in the fifth recital hereof.

     "Stated Value" means the stated value per share of Voting  Preferred Stock,
which shall equal the Optionee Common Stock Price.

     "Subsidiary"  means, with respect to any person,  any corporation,  limited
liability company, limited or general partnership,  joint venture,  association,
joint  stock  company,  trust,  unincorporated  organization,  or  other  entity
analogous to any of the  foregoing  of which a majority of the equity  ownership
(whether voting stock or comparable  interest) is, at the time, owned,  directly
or indirectly by such person.

     "Target Range" has the meaning set forth in Section 3(b).

     "Tax" or "Taxes" means all federal, state, county, local, foreign and other
taxes (including, without limitation, income taxes, premium taxes, excise taxes,
sales taxes, use taxes, gross receipts taxes, franchise taxes, ad valorem taxes,
severance   taxes,   capital  levy  taxes,   transfer   taxes,   employment  and
payroll-related  taxes,  property  taxes,  import duties and other  governmental
charges and assessments),  and includes interest, additions to tax and penalties
with respect thereto.

     "Third Appraiser" has the meaning set forth in Section 3(c).

     "Third Valuation" has the meaning set forth in Section 3(c).

     "Trading Day" means any day the New York Stock Exchange is open for regular
trading.

     "United" means United Farm Family Insurance  Company,  a New York domiciled
property/casualty insurance and reinsurance company.

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     "Valuation Procedures" means the procedures for determining the Fair Market
Value per Share set forth in Exhibit B.

     "Voting  Preferred  Stock" means the Voting Preferred Stock, par value $.01
per share, of the Optionee,  the terms of which are set forth in the Certificate
of Designations substantially in the form attached as Exhibit C hereto.

     "Voting Preferred Stock Allocation" means, with respect to any Shareholder,
the  number  of  shares  of  Voting  Preferred  Stock  to be  allocated  to such
Shareholder as calculated pursuant to the following formula:

                                A/B x C/D

where: "A" equals  $6,000,000;  "B" equals the Stated Value of a share of Voting
Preferred Stock; "C" equals the number of Shares owned by such Shareholder;  and
"D" equals the total number of Shares owned by all Shareholders.

     (b)  Interpretation.  When a  reference  is  made in  this  Agreement  to a
Section,  Schedule or Exhibit, such reference shall be to a Section, Schedule or
Exhibit of this Agreement unless otherwise indicated or unless the context shall
otherwise  require.  The  table  of  contents  and  headings  contained  in this
Agreement  are for  reference  purposes only and shall not effect in any way the
meaning or  interpretation  of this Agreement.  The definitions of terms in this
Agreement  shall be applicable to both the plural and the singular  forms of the
terms  defined  when either such form is used in this  Agreement.  Whenever  the
words  "include",  "includes" or "including"  are used in this  Agreement,  they
shall be deemed to be  followed  by the words  "without  limitation".  The words
"hereof", "herein" and "hereunder",  and other words of similar import, refer to
this  Agreement  as a  whole  and  not to any  particular  Section,  subsection,
paragraph or clause.

     Section  2.  Grant  of  Options.  Each  Shareholder  hereby  grants  to the
Optionee,  for the period beginning on the Effective Date and ending at midnight
(New York time) on the Expiration Date, the exclusive and irrevocable  right and
option (the "Option") to purchase from such  Shareholder all of the Shares owned
by such  Shareholder at a price (subject,  however,  to Sections 5 and 6 hereof)
equal to the product of (i) the Fair Market  Value per Share and (ii) the number
of Shares sold by such  Shareholder  hereunder (as adjusted in  accordance  with
Section 5 hereof,  the "Exercise  Price"),  payable in shares of Optionee Common
Stock and Voting Preferred Stock, as provided in Section 6.

     Section 3. Fair Market  Value per Share.  (a) If the  Optionee  proposes to
exercise the Options,  the Optionee shall so notify the  Shareholders in writing
and instruct an investment banking firm of national reputation,  selected by the
Optionee  and  reasonably   acceptable  to  the   Shareholders   (the  "Optionee
Appraiser"),  to determine the fair market value of each Share as of the date of
such notice (the "Fair Market Value per Share") in accordance with the Valuation
Procedures (the "Optionee  Valuation").  If,  following  receipt of the Optionee
Valuation,  the  Optionee  continues  to propose to exercise  the  Options,  the
Optionee shall so notify the Shareholders in writing and supply the Shareholders
with  the   Optionee   Valuation.   The   Shareholders   and  their   authorized
representatives  shall review the Optionee  Valuation and,  within 30 days after
the date of such receipt,  the Shareholders shall notify the Optionee in writing
of their agreement or disagreement with the Optionee Valuation. In the event the
Shareholders agree with the Optionee Valuation,  the Optionee Valuation shall be
the Fair Market Value per Share for purposes of this Agreement. In the event the
Shareholders  disagree with the Optionee  Valuation,  the  Shareholders  and the
Optionee shall use their reasonable efforts to resolve such disagreement  within
15 days after the date the Optionee has received notice of such disagreement. If
the

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Shareholders and the Optionee are able to resolve such disagreement  within such
15-day period,  the valuation so agreed shall be the Fair Market Value per Share
for purposes of this Agreement.

     (b) In the event the  Shareholders  and the  Optionee are unable to resolve
such  disagreement  within  such 15-day  period and the  Optionee  continues  to
propose to exercise the Options,  the  Shareholders  shall  promptly  thereafter
select an investment banking firm of national standing and reasonably acceptable
to the Optionee (the  "Shareholder  Appraiser")  for purposes of determining the
Fair Market Value per Share in  accordance  with the Valuation  Procedures  (the
"Shareholder  Valuation").   The  Shareholders  shall  deliver  the  Shareholder
Valuation to the Optionee  within the 30-day period next  following  such 15-day
period.  If the  Shareholder  Valuation  is  within  5% (plus or  minus)  of the
Optionee  Valuation (the "Target  Range"),  then the Fair Market Value per Share
for purposes of this Agreement shall equal the average of the Optionee Valuation
and the Shareholder  Valuation.  If the Shareholder  Valuation is not within the
Target Range, then the Optionee and the Shareholders  shall use their reasonable
efforts to resolve such disagreement within 15 days after the Optionee's receipt
of the Shareholder  Valuation.  If the Shareholders and the Optionee are able to
agree  on  a  Shareholder  Valuation  within  the  Target  Range  (the  "Revised
Shareholder  Valuation"),  then the Fair Market  Value per Share for purposes of
this Agreement shall equal the average of the Optionee Valuation and the Revised
Shareholder Valuation.

     (c) In the event the  Shareholders  and the  Optionee are unable to resolve
such  disagreement  within  such 15-day  period and the  Optionee  continues  to
propose to  exercise  the  Options,  the  Optionee  and the  Shareholders  shall
promptly  thereafter  jointly  select an  investment  banking  firm of  national
standing and the firm so selected (the "Third  Appraiser")  shall be directed by
the Optionee and the  Shareholders  to determine the Fair Market Value per Share
in accordance with the Valuation  Procedures (the "Third Valuation").  The Third
Appraiser shall deliver the Third Valuation to the Optionee and the Shareholders
within the 30-day  period  following  its  selection.  The Fair Market Value per
Share for purposes of this Agreement shall be the middle  valuation of the Third
Valuation, the Optionee Valuation and the Shareholder Valuation.

     (d) The fees and  expenses of the Optionee  Appraiser  shall be paid by the
Optionee.  The fees and expenses of the  Shareholder  Appraiser shall be paid by
the Shareholders on a pro rata basis based on the number of Shares owned by each
of them. The fees and expenses of the Third  Appraiser  shall be paid 50% by the
Optionee and 50% by the  Shareholders on a pro rata basis based on the number of
shares owned by each of them.

     Section 4. Exercise of Option.  (a) Within 45 days after any  determination
of the Fair  Market  Value per Share  pursuant  to Section 3, the  Optionee  may
exercise  the Options in whole but not in part by sending a written  notice (the
"Exercise  Notice") to the Shareholders  specifying its election to exercise the
Options on the basis of such Fair  Market  Price per  Share.  The  closing  (the
"Closing") of the transactions  contemplated hereby shall take place on the date
that is five Business Days after the  satisfaction  or waiver of the  conditions
set forth in Section 7 at the offices of LeBoeuf, Lamb, Greene & MacRae, L.L.P.,
at 10:00 A.M.,  New York time.  The "Closing Date" shall be the date the Closing
occurs.

     (b) The Optionee  shall acquire the Shares  pursuant to the exercise of the
Option in exchange for Optionee  Common Stock and Voting  Preferred Stock as set
forth in Section 6 hereof and, in the case of a Service Company Shareholder,  in
accordance  with the Agreement and Plan of  Reorganization  between the Optionee
and such Shareholder.

     Section  5.  Expense  Allocation.  The  Company  shall  pay the  reasonable
out-of-pocket fees and expenses of the Shareholders  incurred in connection with
the Agreement for (i) one legal counsel and one investment banking firm, in each
case engaged by the Shareholders' Committee appointed by the Shareholders

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in connection with this Agreement, (ii) travel and per diem expenses incurred in
connection with attendance at meetings of the Shareholders' Committee, and (iii)
a real estate  appraisal in respect of the  Company's  real property (the amount
paid on behalf of each  Shareholder,  being  referred  to as such  Shareholder's
"Expense  Allocation," shall equal the total amount paid by the Company pursuant
to this Section 5 multiplied  by the number of Shares owned by such  Shareholder
divided by the total  number of Shares  owned by all of the  Shareholders).  The
Expense  Allocation  paid on  behalf  of the  Shareholders  shall be taken  into
account in determining the Exercise Price payable to the Shareholders hereunder,
as provided in Section 6.

     Section 6. Closing; Payment of Exercise Price. (a) At the Closing: (i) each
Shareholder  shall  deliver to the Optionee (A) a  certificate  or  certificates
representing all of the Shares owned by such Shareholder, duly endorsed in blank
or  accompanied  by duly  executed  instruments  of transfer  acceptable  to the
Optionee  and  accompanied  by all  requisite  stock  transfer  stamps and taxes
attached or provided for, and (B) all instruments  and documents  required to be
delivered by such  Shareholder to the Optionee  pursuant to this Agreement;  and
(ii) the  Optionee  shall  deliver  to each  Shareholder  (A) a  certificate  or
certificates  representing the number of shares of the Optionee Common Stock and
Voting Preferred Stock to be received by such Shareholder pursuant to subsection
(b) of this Section 6, such  certificate or certificates to be registered in the
name of such Shareholder and to bear the legend set forth in Section 15; and (B)
all instruments  and documents  required to be delivered by the Optionee to such
Shareholder pursuant to this Agreement.

     (b) In  payment  of the  Exercise  Price in  respect  of its  Shares,  each
Shareholder shall receive:

     (i) the number of shares of Voting  Preferred Stock (rounded to the nearest
whole share) calculated using the following formula:

                                  A-(A/B x C)
                                  -----------
                                       D

where:  (A) "A" equals the  product of the Stated  Value and such  Shareholder's
Voting  Preferred  Stock  Allocation;  (B) "B"  equals  the  amount  that  would
constitute the Exercise Price hereunder in respect of such Shareholder's  Shares
if  Section 5 hereof  were not given  effect;  (C) "C" equals the amount of such
Shareholder's Expense Allocation; and (D) "D" equals the Stated Value; plus

                           (ii)  the number of shares of Optionee Common Stock 
(rounded to the nearest whole share) calculated using the following formula:

                                A-B-(C/A x D)
                                -------------
                                      E

where:  (A) "A" equals  the amount  that would  constitute  the  Exercise  Price
hereunder in respect of such  Shareholder's  Shares if Section 5 hereof were not
given  effect;  (B)  "B"  equals  the  product  of the  Stated  Value  and  such
Shareholder's  Voting Preferred Stock Allocation;  (C) "C" equals "A" minus "B";
(D) "D" equals the amount of such Shareholder's Expense Allocation;  and (E) "E"
equals the Optionee Common Stock Price.

                  (c) All  instruments  and documents  executed and delivered to
the  Optionee  pursuant  hereto  shall be in form and  substance,  and  shall be
executed in a manner,  reasonably  satisfactory to the Optionee. All instruments
and documents  executed and delivered to each Shareholder  pursuant hereto shall
be in form  and  substance,  and  shall  be  executed  in a  manner,  reasonably
satisfactory to such Shareholder.

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     Section 7.  Conditions  of Closing.  (a) The  obligation of the Optionee to
consummate the Closing is subject to satisfaction of the following conditions at
or prior to the Closing (unless  expressly  waived in writing by the Optionee at
or prior to the Closing): (i) all of the terms, covenants and conditions of this
Agreement to be complied  with or performed by the  Shareholders  at or prior to
the Closing  shall have been  complied  with and performed by it in all material
respects,  and the  representations  and warranties made by the  Shareholders in
this Agreement  shall be true and correct in all material  respects at and as of
the Closing,  with the same force and effect as though such  representations and
warranties  had been made at and as of the Closing,  and the Optionee shall have
received a  certificate  executed on behalf of each of the  Shareholders  to the
effect that the foregoing  conditions  have been  satisfied;  (ii) all consents,
approvals,  orders or  authorizations  of,  or  registrations,  declarations  or
filings  with,  any  Governmental  Authority  required  in  connection  with the
transactions  contemplated  hereby shall have been obtained or made, as the case
may be; (iii) the transactions  contemplated  hereby shall have been approved by
the  affirmative  vote of the holders of at least a majority of the  outstanding
shares of the Optionee Common Stock; (iv) all waiting periods, if any, including
any extension thereof,  under the HSR Act shall have expired; (v) no preliminary
or permanent  injunction  or other order by any court of competent  jurisdiction
prohibiting or otherwise restraining the transactions  contemplated hereby shall
be in effect;  (vi) the Optionee  shall have  received  the  opinion,  dated the
Closing Date,  of counsel to each  Shareholder  substantially  to the effect set
forth in Exhibit  D;  (vii) the  Company's  By-Laws  shall have been  amended to
permit the Optionee to acquire the Shares pursuant to this Agreement; (viii) the
Optionee  shall have  received  an  opinion,  in form and  substance  reasonably
acceptable to the Optionee, from an investment banking firm of national standing
as to the  fairness,  from a  financial  point of view,  to the  Optionee of the
transactions  contemplated by this Agreement;  and (ix) since the Exercise Date,
there shall not have occurred any event that has had or is reasonably  likely to
have a Material Adverse Effect on the Company and United, taken as a whole.

     (b) The obligation of each Shareholder to consummate the Closing is subject
to the  satisfaction  of the  following  conditions  at or prior to the  Closing
(unless  expressly  waived in  writing  by such  Shareholder  at or prior to the
Closing): (i) all of the terms, covenants and conditions of this Agreement to be
complied with or performed by the Optionee at or prior to the Closing shall have
been  complied  with  and  performed  by it in all  material  respects,  and the
representations  and warranties  made by the Optionee in this Agreement shall be
true and correct in all material respects at and as of the Closing with the same
force and effect as though such  representations and warranties had been made at
and as of the Closing,  and the  Shareholder  shall have  received a certificate
executed on behalf of the Optionee to the effect that the  foregoing  conditions
have been satisfied; (ii) all consents,  approvals, orders or authorizations of,
or  registrations,  declarations  or filings with,  any  Governmental  Authority
required in connection with the transactions contemplated hereby shall have been
obtained or made, as the case may be; (iii) the transactions contemplated hereby
shall have been  approved by the  affirmative  vote of the holders of at least a
majority  of the  outstanding  shares of the  Optionee  Common  Stock;  (iv) all
waiting periods,  including any extensions thereof, under the HSR Act shall have
expired;  (v) no preliminary or permanent injunction or other order by any court
of competent jurisdiction  prohibiting or otherwise restraining the transactions
contemplated  hereby  shall be in  effect;  (vi)  such  Shareholder  shall  have
received the opinion, dated the Closing Date, of general counsel to the Optionee
and the Insurance  Subsidiary,  substantially to the effect set forth in Exhibit
E; (vii) the Optionee shall have executed and delivered the Registration  Rights
Agreement;  and (viii) the  Company's  By-Laws shall have been amended to permit
the Optionee to acquire the Shares pursuant to this Agreement.

     Section  8.  Representations  and  Warranties  of  Each  Shareholder.  Each
Shareholder represents to the Optionee as follows:

     (a)  Corporate  Existence.  (i)  Each  of  the  Company  and  United  is  a
corporation duly organized, validly existing and in good standing under the laws
of the State of New York. Each of the Company and United has all necessary power
and authority and possesses all rights, licenses, authorizations and approvals,

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governmental  or  otherwise  to own,  lease and  operate its  properties  and to
conduct its business as now being  conducted.  Each of the Company and United is
duly  qualified  as a foreign  corporation  to transact  business and is in good
standing in each jurisdiction in which the conduct of its business requires such
qualification,  except  when the  failure  to be so  qualified  would not have a
Material Adverse Effect.

     (ii) Such Shareholder is a corporation duly organized, validly existing and
in good standing  under the laws of the  jurisdiction  in which it is organized.
Such Shareholder has all necessary power and authority and possesses all rights,
licenses,  authorizations and approvals, governmental or otherwise to own, lease
and operate its  properties  and to conduct its business as now being  conducted
and to own the Shares.

     (b)  Authorization;   Enforcement.   Such  Shareholder  has  all  necessary
corporate  power and  authority  to execute and deliver  this  Agreement  and to
perform its  obligations  hereunder.  Such  Shareholder  has taken all necessary
corporate  action to duly and validly  authorize  its  execution and delivery of
this Agreement and the  consummation of the  transactions  contemplated  hereby.
This Agreement has been duly executed and delivered by such  Shareholder  and is
the legal, valid and binding obligation of such Shareholder, enforceable against
Shareholder, in accordance with its terms.

     (c) Capital Stock of the Company;  Ownership of Shares.  (i) The authorized
capital stock of the Company  consists of 61,000 shares of Common Stock of which
60,011 are issued and outstanding.  All of the issued and outstanding  shares of
Common Stock have been duly authorized and validly issued and are fully paid and
nonassessable.  The Shares have not been issued in violation of, and none of the
Shares or such  shares  of  capital  stock is  subject  to,  any  preemptive  or
subscription  rights.  There are no outstanding  warrants,  options,  contracts,
convertible or  exchangeable  securities or other  commitments  (other than this
Agreement)  pursuant  to which  such  Shareholder  or the  Company  is or may be
obligated to issue, sell, purchase, return or redeem any shares of capital stock
or other securities of the Company,  and there are not any equity  securities of
the Company reserved for issuance for any purpose.

     (ii) Such  Shareholder is the record and beneficial  owner of the number of
Shares  set forth  opposite  its name on Exhibit A, free and clear of any Liens.
Upon  consummation  of the  transactions  contemplated  by this  Agreement,  the
Optionee will acquire  record and beneficial  ownership of the Shares,  free and
clear of any Liens.  Other than this  Agreement and Article II, Section 1 of the
Company's  By-laws,  the Shares are not subject to any voting trust agreement or
other contract, agreement, arrangement,  commitment or understanding,  including
any such  agreement,  arrangement,  commitment or  understanding  restricting or
otherwise relating to the voting, dividend rights or disposition of the Shares.

     (d)  Subsidiaries.  Except  for  United,  the  Company  does  not  have any
Subsidiaries.

     (e) No Conflict.  Neither the execution,  delivery and  performance of this
Agreement  by  such   Shareholder  nor  the  consummation  of  the  transactions
contemplated  hereby  will:  (i) violate any  provision  of the  certificate  of
incorporation,  by-laws or other  charter  or  organizational  document  of such
Shareholder  or, to the  knowledge of such  Shareholder,  the Company or United,
other than Article II, Section 1 of the Company's Bylaws; (ii) violate, conflict
with or result in the breach of any of the terms of, result in any  modification
of the  effect  of,  otherwise  give any  other  contracting  party the right to
terminate,  or constitute (or with notice or lapse of time or both constitute) a
default under,  any Contract to which such  Shareholder  or, to the knowledge of
such Shareholder, the Company or United is a party or by or to which any of them
or their assets or  properties  may be bound or subject,  except for such of the
foregoing  as would  not have a  Material  Adverse  Effect or  interfere  in any
material way with the ability of such Shareholder to consummate the transactions
contemplated hereby;  (iii) violate any order,  judgment,  injunction,  award or
decree of any  Governmental  Authority  against,  or binding upon,  any Contract
with,  or condition  imposed by, any  Governmental  Authority  binding upon such
Shareholder

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or, to the  knowledge  of such  Shareholder,  the  Company or United or upon the
business,  properties or assets of such Shareholder or, to the knowledge of such
Shareholder, the Company or United, except for such violations as would not have
a Material  Adverse  Effect or interfere in any material way with the ability of
such  Shareholder  to consummate  the  transactions  contemplated  hereby;  (iv)
violate any statute,  law or regulation of any jurisdiction as such statute, law
or  regulation  relates  to  such  Shareholder  or,  to the  knowledge  of  such
Shareholder, the Company or United, or to the business,  properties or assets of
such  Shareholder  or, to the  knowledge  of such  Shareholder,  the  Company or
United,  except for such violations as would not have a Material  Adverse Effect
or  interfere  in any  material  way with the  ability  of such  Shareholder  to
consummate the transactions  contemplated  hereby; or (v) result in the creation
or imposition  of any material  Lien on any of the  properties or assets of such
Shareholder  or, to the  knowledge  of such  Shareholder,  the Company or United
(including any of the Shares).

     (f) Consents. No consent, license,  approval, order or authorization of, or
registration, declaration or filing with, any Governmental Authority is required
to be obtained,  made or given by or with respect to such Shareholder or, to the
knowledge of such  Shareholder,  the Company,  in connection with the execution,
delivery  and  performance  of  this  Agreement  or  the   consummation  of  the
transactions contemplated hereby other than under: (i) the insurance laws of the
State of New York;  (ii) the HSR Act; and (iii) any other consents and approvals
as shall have been obtained on or prior to the Closing Date.

     (g) Compliance with Law. To the knowledge of such Shareholder,  the Company
and United have complied with, and are now complying, with all foreign, federal,
state and local statutes, laws, regulations, ordinances, judgments, injunctions,
orders,  licenses,  approvals,  permits  and other  requirements  (collectively,
"Laws")  applicable  to the  Company,  United  or their  respective  businesses,
properties  or  assets,  except  where the  failure  to comply  would not have a
Material Adverse Effect.

     (h) Insurance Licenses.  To the knowledge of such Shareholder,  each of the
Company  and  United  holds  such  licenses,   certificates   and  permits  from
governmental authorities (including, without limitation, insurance licenses from
the insurance regulatory  authorities of the jurisdictions in which they conduct
an  insurance  business)  (collectively,  "Permits")  that are  necessary to the
conduct of their  business as  presently  conducted;  to the  knowledge  of such
Shareholder, the Company and United have fulfilled and performed all obligations
necessary to maintain such Permits; to the knowledge of such Shareholder,  there
is no pending or threatened action,  suit,  proceeding or investigation (and, to
the best of such  Shareholder's  knowledge,  no  reasonable  basis  for any such
action,  suit,  proceeding  or  investigation  exists)  that may  reasonably  be
expected  to lead to the  revocation,  termination  or  suspension  of any  such
Permits.

     (i)  Litigation.  Except as set forth in Schedule 8(i), to the knowledge of
such Shareholder,  there is no judicial,  administrative  or regulatory  action,
proceeding,  investigation  or inquiry  or  administrative  charge or  complaint
pending or  threatened  against  the  Company or United the  respective  assets,
properties or businesses  of the Company or United,  which,  either singly or in
the aggregate, could reasonably be expected to have a Material Adverse Effect or
which  questions  the  validity of this  Agreement  or any action taken or to be
taken by the  Company  or such  Shareholder  pursuant  to this  Agreement  or in
connection with the transactions contemplated hereby.

     (j)  Financial  Statements.  (i) The  Company  has  made  available  to the
Optionee  complete and correct copies of the Annual Statement of the Company and
United filed with the New York Insurance Department for the years ended December
31, 1993,  1994 and 1995,  together with the exhibits and schedules  thereto and
the Statement of Actuarial Opinion and any affirmations and certifications filed
therewith. To the knowledge of such Shareholder, the financial statements of the
Company and United  contained  in such Annual  Statements  and in all  Quarterly
Statements and Annual  Statements  filed with the New York Insurance  Department
for the periods  ending  after  December  31,  1995:  (A) have been  prepared in
accordance with statutory accounting
                                   
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practices  prescribed or permitted by the New York Insurance  Department applied
on a consistent  basis (except as set forth in the notes,  exhibits or schedules
thereto)  ("SAP");  (B) present fairly in all material  respects,  to the extent
required and in conformity  with SAP, the financial  condition of the Company or
United,  as the case may be,  at their  respective  dates,  and its  results  of
operations,  changes  in  capital  and  surplus,  and cash flows for each of the
periods then ended;  (C) were correct in all material  respects when filed;  and
(D) there were no material omissions therefrom when filed.

     (ii) The Company will make  available to the Optionee,  as soon as the same
are available, complete and correct copies of the audited consolidated financial
statements and the audited statutory financial statements and, in each case, the
notes  thereto of the Company and United for the years ended  December 31, 1993,
1994 and 1995. To the knowledge of such Shareholder,  such financial  statements
and the related notes  thereto will have been  prepared in accordance  with GAAP
and  SAP,  as the case  may be,  consistently  applied  throughout  the  periods
involved and will fairly present the consolidated  financial condition,  results
of operations, cash flows and changes in stockholders' equity of the Company and
United at the dates and for the periods presented.

     (k) Contracts. With respect to the Company's or United's performance of its
respective  obligations  under the Company  Contracts,  to the knowledge of such
Shareholder,  no event of default  or  non-compliance,  or event  which with the
passage of time,  giving of notice or both,  would  constitute  such an event of
default or non-compliance,  has occurred or is continuing under any such Company
Contract.  With respect to the performance by any other party of its obligations
under the Company Contracts,  to the knowledge of such Shareholder,  no event of
default or  non-compliance,  or event which with the passage of time,  giving of
notice or both, would constitute such an event of default or non-compliance, has
occurred or is continuing under any such Company Contract.

     (l) Taxes.  Except as set forth in Schedule  8(l), to the knowledge of such
Shareholder,  (A) the Company  (the term  "Company" as used in this Section 8(l)
includes  United  except  where the context  otherwise  requires),  has duly and
timely  filed all federal and state Tax returns of the Company or which  include
the Company (including  information returns relating to Policies) required to be
filed as of the date hereof and prior to the Closing Date and, to the  knowledge
of such  Shareholder,  filed  reports  with all other  Governmental  Authorities
having  jurisdiction,  with  respect to Taxes  withheld  by or imposed  upon the
Company  except such  returns  and reports  where the failure to file would not,
singly or in the aggregate,  have a Material Adverse Effect; (B) all Taxes shown
on such Tax returns and all  assessments  received  by such  Shareholder  or the
Company  with  respect  to Taxes for which the  Company  has any  liability  for
payment  have been paid or fully  reserved for to the extent that such Taxes are
required to be reserved for in accordance  with statutory  accounting  practices
prescribed or permitted by the New York Insurance  Department;  (C) neither such
Shareholder  nor the Company has requested any extension of time within which to
file any Tax return of the Company or Tax return  which  includes  the  Company,
which return or returns  have not since been filed,  nor are there any Tax liens
upon any  property  or assets of the  Company,  except for Taxes not yet due and
payable;  (D)  there  are no  outstanding  deficiencies  assessed  against  such
Shareholder or the Company for any Taxes for which the Company has any liability
for payment, and there are no proceedings or actions pending,  concerning either
(x) the liability of such  Shareholder  or the Company with respect to Taxes for
which the  Company has any  liability  for  payment,  or (y) the  collection  or
assessment  of Tax for any period for which Tax returns of the  Company,  or Tax
returns which include the Company, have been filed or were due; and (E) there is
no pending  audit of any of the Tax returns of the Company or which  include the
Company,  and neither  such  Shareholder  nor the  Company has been  notified in
writing  that any taxing  authority  proposes  to  commence an audit of such Tax
returns.

     (m) Assets.  (i) To the knowledge of such Shareholder,  each of the Company
and  United  has good and  marketable  title to, or valid  leasehold  or license
interests in, all the property and assets that they purport

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to own,  lease or license,  including  without  limitation,  property and assets
reflected on the 1995 Annual Statements of the Company and United (except assets
disposed of in the ordinary course of business between December 31, 1995 and the
Closing Date), and property and assets acquired since December 31, 1995, in each
case free and clear of all Liens,  except (A) the Lien of current  Taxes not yet
due and  payable or of Taxes the  validity of which is being  contested  in good
faith by  appropriate  proceedings,  (B)  Liens (if any)  reflected  in the 1995
Annual  Statement,  (C)  Liens  related  to  required  deposits  with  insurance
departments, (D) Liens the validity of which are being contested or litigated in
good faith by  appropriate  proceedings  and for which the Company have provided
adequate  reserves,  and (E) such other Liens which as on the Closing  Date will
not,  individually  or in the aggregate,  materially  detract from the values of
such property and assets or materially interfere with the present uses thereof.

     (ii) With respect to any  property  leased by the Company or United or that
is material to the business,  operations  or financial  condition of the Company
and United, taken as a whole, to the knowledge of such Shareholder, there exists
no default by the Company or United,  or by any third party, that materially and
adversely  affects any such lease.  To the  knowledge of such  Shareholder,  the
Company  or  United,  as the  case  may  be,  enjoys  peaceful  and  undisturbed
possession under each such lease to which it is a party.

     (n) Environmental  Matters.  Except as set forth on Schedule 8(n) and, with
respect to properties  owned,  operated or leased by the Company or United prior
to, but not on or after January 1, 1994, to such Shareholder's knowledge:

     (i) No  portion  of the  property  is being  used or has  been  used at any
previous  time,  for the  disposal,  storage,  treatment,  processing  or  other
handling of waste contamination, polychlorinated biphenyl or asbestos-containing
material,  or other toxic or  hazardous  substances;  the  property  violates no
applicable  federal,  state,  county or other municipal law,  ordinance,  order,
regulation  or  requirement,  and neither  the Company nor United have  received
notice to that effect.

     (ii) The Company  and United have  complied  with all  requirements  of any
applicable department of environmental resources or similar governmental agency,
and  there  are no  ongoing  requirements  ordered  by said  agency or any other
governmental body for environmental cleanup with respect to the property.

     (o) Employee Benefits.  Except for ongoing contribution  requirements,  all
unpaid material liabilities with respect to employee benefit plans, as that term
is defined in ERISA Section 3(3) ("Benefit  Plan"),  of the Company are included
in the Company's financial statement. With respect to each Company Benefit Plan,
the Company has made  available to the Optionee,  true and correct copies of all
the  plan,  trust,   insurance  contracts  and  related  documents,   financial,
actuarial,  employee  communications  and, where  applicable,  Internal  Revenue
Service  determination  letters.  Each Company  Benefit Plan is  maintained  and
administered  at all times in  material  compliance  with its  terms,  ERISA and
applicable  laws and  regulations.  There are no action,  suits or claims (other
than routine claims for benefits),  pending, or to the knowledge of the Company,
threatened with respect to any Company Benefit Plan or against the assets of any
Benefit  Plan.  Each Company  Benefit  Plan  subject to ERISA  Section 601 is in
compliance therewith.

     (p) Investment  Purpose.  Such Shareholder is acquiring the Optionee Common
Stock and the Voting  Preferred Stock for investment only and not with a view to
resale in connection with any distribution thereof except in compliance with the
Securities  Act and all  other  applicable  securities  laws.  Such  Shareholder
understands  that the Optionee Common Stock and the Voting  Preferred Stock have
not been registered under the Securities Act or under the securities laws of any
state and that  such  shares  may not be sold,  transferred,  offered  for sale,
pledged,  hypothecated  or otherwise  disposed of in the absence of an effective
registration  under the Securities Act except pursuant to a valid exemption from
such registration.

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     Section 9.  Representations  and  Warranties of the Optionee.  The Optionee
hereby represents and warrants to each Shareholder as follows:

     (a) Corporate Existence.  Each of the Optionee and the Insurance Subsidiary
is a corporation duly organized, validly existing and in good standing under the
laws of the jurisdiction in which it is organized.  Each of the Optionee and the
Insurance  Subsidiary  has all  necessary  power and authority and possesses all
rights,  licenses,  authorizations  and approvals,  governmental or otherwise to
own,  lease and operate its  properties and to conduct its business as now being
conducted.  Each of the Optionee and the Insurance  Subsidiary is duly qualified
as a foreign  corporation  to transact  business and is in good standing in each
jurisdiction in which the conduct of its business  requires such  qualification,
except when the  failure to be so  qualified  would not have a Material  Adverse
Effect.

     (b) Authorization;  Enforcement.  The Optionee has all necessary  corporate
power and  authority  to execute  and deliver  this  Agreement  and,  subject to
approval of the  transactions  contemplated  hereby by the  stockholders  of the
Optionee,  to perform its  obligations  hereunder.  The  Optionee  has taken all
necessary  corporate  action to duly and validly  authorize  its  execution  and
delivery  of  this  Agreement  and,  subject  to  approval  of the  transactions
contemplated hereby by the stockholders of the Optionee, the consummation of the
transactions  contemplated  hereby.  This  Agreement  has been duly executed and
delivered by the Optionee and is the legal,  valid and binding obligation of the
Optionee,  subject to approval of the  transactions  contemplated  hereby by the
stockholders  of the  Optionee,  enforceable  against the Optionee in accordance
with its terms.

     (c) Capital  Stock of  Optionee.  The shares of Optionee  Common  Stock and
Voting  Preferred  Stock  to be  issued  to the  Shareholders  pursuant  to this
Agreement will be duly authorized prior to the Closing Date and, when issued and
delivered as provided in this Agreement,  will be validly issued, fully paid and
nonassessable.  Upon delivery of the shares of Optionee  Common Stock and Voting
Preferred  Stock  to  the  Shareholders  as  provided  in  this  Agreement,  the
Shareholders will acquire such shares free and clear of any Liens.

     (d)  Subsidiaries.  Schedule  9(d) sets forth a true,  correct and complete
list of all Subsidiaries of the Optionee and the Insurance Subsidiary.

     (e) No Conflict.  Neither the execution,  delivery and  performance of this
Agreement nor the consummation of the transactions contemplated hereby will: (i)
violate any  provision of the  certificate  of  incorporation,  by-laws or other
charter or organizational  document of the Optionee or the Insurance Subsidiary;
(ii)  violate,  conflict  with or result  in the  breach of any of the terms of,
result  in  any  modification  of  the  effect  of,  otherwise  give  any  other
contracting party the right to terminate, or constitute (or with notice or lapse
of time or both  constitute) a default under, any Contract to which the Optionee
or the  Insurance  Subsidiary  is a party or by or to which any of them or their
assets or properties  may be bound or subject,  except for such of the foregoing
as would not have a Material  Adverse  Effect or  interfere  in any material way
with the ability of the Optionee to  consummate  the  transactions  contemplated
hereby; (iii) violate any order,  judgment,  injunction,  award or decree of any
Governmental  Authority  against,  or binding  upon,  or any Contract  with,  or
condition  imposed by, any Governmental  Authority  binding upon the Optionee or
the  Insurance  Subsidiary,  or upon the  business,  properties or assets of the
Optionee or the Insurance  Subsidiary,  except for such  violations as would not
have a Material Adverse Effect or interfere in any material way with the ability
of the Optionee to consummate the transactions contemplated hereby; (iv) violate
any statute,  law or regulation  of any  jurisdiction  as such  statute,  law or
regulation  relates  to the  Optionee  or the  Insurance  Subsidiary,  or to the
business,  properties  or assets of the  Optionee or the  Insurance  Subsidiary,
except  for such  violations  as would  not have a  Material  Adverse  Effect or
interfere in any material way with the ability of the Optionee to consummate the
transactions contemplated hereby; or (v) result in the creation or imposition of
any  material  Lien on any of the  properties  or assets of the  Optionee or the
Insurance Subsidiary.

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     (f) Consents. No consent, license,  approval, order or authorization of, or
registration, declaration or filing with, any Governmental Authority is required
to be  obtained,  made  or  given  by or with  respect  to the  Optionee  or the
Insurance Subsidiary in connection with the execution,  delivery and performance
of this Agreement or the  consummation of the transactions  contemplated  hereby
other than:  (i) under the insurance  laws of the State of New York;  (ii) under
the HSR Act; (iii) under federal securities laws in connection with the approval
required by the  stockholders  of the Optionee;  and (iv) any other consents and
approvals as shall have been obtained on or prior to the Closing Date.

     (g)  Compliance  with Law. The Optionee and the Insurance  Subsidiary  have
complied with, and are now complying,  with all Laws applicable to the Optionee,
the Insurance  Subsidiary,  or their respective business,  properties or assets,
except when the failure to comply would not have a Material Adverse Effect.

     (h) Insurance Licenses.  Each of the Optionee and the Insurance  Subsidiary
holds such  licenses,  certificates  and permits from  governmental  authorities
(including, without limitation, insurance licenses from the insurance regulatory
authorities of the  jurisdictions  in which they conduct an insurance  business)
(collectively, "Permits") that are necessary to the conduct of their business as
presently  conducted;  the Optionee and the Insurance  Subsidiary have fulfilled
and performed all  obligations  necessary to maintain such Permits;  there is no
pending or, to the best of the Optionee's  knowledge,  threatened action,  suit,
proceeding or investigation  (and, to the best of the Optionee's  knowledge,  no
reasonable basis for any such action, suit,  proceeding or investigation exists)
that may  reasonably  be  expected  to lead to the  revocation,  termination  or
suspension of any such Permits.

     (i) Litigation. Except as set forth on Schedule 9(i), there is no judicial,
administrative  or regulatory  action,  proceeding,  investigation or inquiry or
administrative charge or complaint pending or, to the knowledge of the Optionee,
threatened  against the Optionee or the  Insurance  Subsidiary,  the  respective
assets,  properties or  businesses of the Optionee or the Insurance  Subsidiary,
which, either singly or in the aggregate, could reasonably be expected to have a
Material Adverse Effect or which questions the validity of this Agreement or any
action  taken or to be taken by the  Optionee  pursuant to this  Agreement or in
connection with the transactions contemplated hereby.

     (j)  Financial  Statements.  (i) The  Optionee  has made  available  to the
Shareholders  complete  and  correct  copies  of  the  Annual  Statement  of the
Insurance  Subsidiary filed with the New York Insurance Department for the years
ended December 31, 1993, 1994 and 1995, together with the exhibits and schedules
thereto  and  the  Statement  of  Actuarial  Opinion  and any  affirmations  and
certifications  filed  therewith.  The  financial  statements  of the  Insurance
Subsidiary  contained in such Annual Statements and in all Quarterly  Statements
and Annual  Statements  filed  with the New York  Insurance  Department  for the
periods  ending after  December 31, 1995:  (A) have been  prepared in accordance
with SAP; (B) present fairly in all material  respects,  to the extent  required
and in  conformity  with SAP, the  financial  condition of the Optionee at their
respective dates, and its results of operations, changes in capital and surplus,
and cash  flows for each of the  periods  then  ended;  (C) were  correct in all
material respects when filed; and (D) there were no material omissions therefrom
when filed.

     (ii) The  Optionee  has made  available  to the  Shareholders  complete and
correct  copies of the audited  consolidated  financial  statements  and audited
statutory  financial  statements  and,  in each case,  the notes  thereto of the
Insurance  Subsidiary for the years ended December 31, 1993, 1994 and 1995. Such
financial  statements  and the related notes thereto were prepared in accordance
with  GAAP and SAP,  as the case may be,  consistently  applied  throughout  the
periods  involved  and  fairly  present  the  financial  condition,  results  of
operations,  cash flows and  changes in  stockholders'  equity of the  Insurance
Subsidiary at the dates and for the periods presented.

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     (k) Contracts. With respect to the Optionee's or the Insurance Subsidiary's
performance  of  its  respective   obligations  under  the  Optionee   Scheduled
Contracts,  no event of  default  or  non-compliance,  or event  which  with the
passage of time,  giving of notice or both,  would  constitute  such an event of
default or non-compliance, has occurred or is continuing under any such Optionee
Scheduled  Contract.  With respect to the  performance by any other party of its
obligations  under the Optionee  Scheduled  Contracts,  to the  knowledge of the
Optionee, no event of default or non-compliance, or event which with the passage
of time,  giving of notice or both, would constitute such an event of default or
non-compliance,  has occurred or is continuing under any such Optionee Scheduled
Contract.

     (l) Taxes.  Except as set forth in Schedule  9(l),  (A) the Optionee or the
Insurance  Subsidiary  (as  appropriate)  (the term  "Optionee"  as used in this
Section  9(l)  includes  the  Insurance  Subsidiary  except  where  the  context
otherwise  requires) has duly and timely filed all federal and state Tax returns
of the Optionee (including information returns relating to Policies) required to
be  filed as of the date  hereof  and  prior to the  Closing  Date  and,  to the
knowledge of the Optionee, filed reports with all other Governmental Authorities
having  jurisdiction,  with  respect to Taxes  withheld  by or imposed  upon the
Optionee  except such  returns and reports  where the failure to file would not,
singly or in the aggregate,  have a Material Adverse Effect; (B) all Taxes shown
on such Tax returns and all assessments received by the Optionee with respect to
Taxes for which the  Optionee  has any  liability  for payment have been paid or
fully reserved for to the extent that such Taxes are required to be reserved for
in accordance with statutory accounting practices prescribed or permitted by the
New York Insurance Department;  (C) the Optionee has not requested any extension
of time  within  which to file any Tax return of the  Optionee  which  return or
returns have not since been filed, nor are there any Tax liens upon any property
or assets of the Optionee,  except for Taxes not yet due and payable;  (D) there
are no outstanding  deficiencies assessed against the Optionee for any Taxes for
which the Optionee has any liability for payment,  and there are no  proceedings
or actions  pending,  concerning  either (x) the  liability of the Optionee with
respect to Taxes for which the Optionee has any  liability  for payment,  or (y)
the  collection or assessment of Tax for any period for which Tax returns of the
Optionee,  have been filed or were due; and (E) there is no pending audit of any
of the Tax returns of the  Optionee,  and the Optionee has not been  notified in
writing  that any taxing  authority  proposes  to  commence an audit of such Tax
returns.

     (m) Assets.  (i) The Optionee and the  Insurance  Subsidiary  have good and
marketable  title  to, or valid  leasehold  or  license  interests  in,  all the
property and assets that it purports to own, lease or license, including without
limitation,  property and assets  reflected on the Insurance  Subsidiary's  1995
Annual  Statement  (except assets disposed of in the ordinary course of business
between  December  31,  1995 and the  Closing  Date),  and  property  and assets
acquired  since  December  31,  1995,  in each case free and clear of all Liens,
except  (A) the Lien of  current  Taxes not yet due and  payable or of Taxes the
validity of which is being  contested in good faith by appropriate  proceedings,
(B) Liens (if any) reflected in the 1995 Annual Statement,  (C) Liens related to
required  deposits with insurance  departments,  (D) Liens the validity of which
are being  contested or litigated in good faith by appropriate  proceedings  and
for which the Insurance Subsidiary has provided adequate reserves,  and (E) such
other  Liens  which as on the  Closing  Date  will not,  individually  or in the
aggregate,  materially  detract  from the values of such  property and assets or
materially interfere with the present uses thereof.

     (ii) With respect to any property  leased by the Optionee and the Insurance
Subsidiary  or  that  is  material  to the  business,  operations  or  financial
condition of the Optionee and the Insurance Subsidiary,  there exists no default
by the  Optionee  or  the  Insurance  Subsidiary,  or to  the  knowledge  of the
Optionee,  by any third party,  that  materially and adversely  affects any such
lease.  The Optionee  and the  Insurance  Subsidiary,  as the case may be, enjoy
peaceful  and  undisturbed  possession  under  each such  lease to which it is a
party.

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     (n) Environmental  Matters.  Except as set forth on Schedule 9(n) and, with
respect to properties owned, operated or leased by the Optionee or the Insurance
Subsidiary  prior to, but not on or after  January 1,  1994,  to the  Optionee's
knowledge:

     (i) No  portion  of the  property  is being  used or has  been  used at any
previous  time,  for the  disposal,  storage,  treatment,  processing  or  other
handling of waste contamination,  PCBs, or other toxic or hazardous  substances;
the property violates no applicable  federal,  state,  county or other municipal
law, ordinance, order, regulation or requirement,  and the Optionee has received
no notice to that effect.

     (ii) The Optionee  and the  Insurance  Subsidiary  have  complied  with all
requirements of any applicable department of environmental  resources or similar
governmental  agency,  and there are no  ongoing  requirements  ordered  by said
agency or any other governmental body for environmental  cleanup with respect to
the property.

     (o) Employee Benefits.  Except for ongoing contribution  requirements,  all
unpaid  material  liabilities  with  respect to the Optionee  Benefit  Plans are
included in  Optionee's  financial  statements.  With  respect to each  Optionee
Benefit  Plan,  the Optionee has made  available  to the  Shareholders  true and
correct  copies  of  all  the  plan,  trust,  insurance  contracts  and  related
documents,  financial, actuarial, employee communications and, where applicable,
Internal Revenue Service  determination  letters.  Each Optionee Benefit Plan is
maintained and  administered at all time in material  compliance with its terms,
ERISA and applicable laws and regulations.  There are no action, suits or claims
(other than routine  claims for benefits),  pending,  or to the knowledge of the
Optionee,  threatened  with respect to any Optionee  Benefit Plan or against the
assets of any Optionee Benefit Plan. Each Optionee Benefit Plan subject to ERISA
Section 601 is in compliance therewith.

     (p) Investment Purpose. The Optionee is acquiring the Shares for investment
only and not with a view to resale in connection with any distribution of any of
the Shares except in compliance with the Securities Act and all other applicable
securities  laws.  The  Optionee  understands  that  the  Shares  have  not been
registered  under the Securities  Act or under the securities  laws of any state
and that the Shares may not be sold,  transferred,  offered  for sale,  pledged,
hypothecated   or  otherwise   disposed  of  in  the  absence  of  an  effective
registration  under the Securities Act except pursuant to a valid exemption from
such registration.

     Section 10. Covenants of each Shareholder; Restrictions on Certain Actions.

     (a) Covenants. (i) From the date hereof through the later of the Expiration
Date and any extension  thereof or the Closing  Date,  each  Shareholder  hereby
covenants and agrees that it will do or use its  reasonable  efforts to cause to
be done all  things  necessary  to  preserve,  renew and keep in full  force and
effect the  corporate  existence  of the  Company  and that,  without  the prior
written  consent  of the  Optionee  (which  consent  shall  not be  unreasonably
withheld),  it shall, and shall use its reasonable  efforts to cause the Company
and United to:

     (A)  operate the  business of the Company and United in the usual,  regular
and ordinary manner and, to the extent  consistent with such operation,  use its
best  efforts  to  preserve  intact  the  present  business  organization,  keep
available the services of the present  officers,  employees and agency personnel
of the Company and United and preserve their present  relationships with persons
having business dealings with the Company and United;

     (B)  maintain the books,  accounts and records  relating to the business of
the Company and United in the usual,  regular and  ordinary  manner,  on a basis
consistent with past practice;

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     (C) use all reasonable  efforts not to permit any event to occur that would
result in any of the representations and warranties  contained in this Agreement
not being,  except as specifically  contemplated  by this Agreement,  materially
true and correct; and

     (D) amend Article II,  Section 1 of the  Company's  By-laws so as to permit
the transactions contemplated by this Agreement.

     (ii) Each Shareholder  hereby covenants and agrees that it will do or cause
to be done all things necessary as promptly as practicable after the date hereof
to amend the By-laws of the Company to permit the Optionee to acquire the Shares
pursuant to this Agreement.

     (b) Restrictions.  Except as otherwise contemplated by this Agreement, from
the date  hereof  through  the later of the  Expiration  Date and any  extension
thereof or the Closing Date,  without the prior written consent of the Optionee,
each  Shareholder  shall not, and shall use its reasonable  efforts to cause the
Company and United not to:

     (i) enter  into an  agreement  or incur any  obligation  the terms of which
would  violate  this  Agreement  or be  violated  by  the  consummation  of  the
transactions contemplated by this Agreement;

     (ii) issue,  pledge, sell,  transfer,  distribute,  dispose of or otherwise
encumber  all or any part of the  capital  stock of the  Company  including  any
Shares owned by such Shareholder,  or the outstanding shares of capital stock of
United,  or (in one or a series of  transactions)  any  material  portion of the
assets or properties of the Company and United taken as a whole;

     (iii) redeem or otherwise  acquire any shares of the Company's Common Stock
or issue any capital stock or any option,  warrant or right relating  thereto or
any securities convertible into or exchangeable for any shares of capital stock;

     (iv) declare or pay any dividend or make any other  distribution,  in cash,
securities  or  otherwise,  on the  outstanding  shares of  Common  Stock or any
capital stock of the Company or United, except for dividends on the Common Stock
not to exceed $480,088 per annum in the aggregate;

     (v) provide for the  consolidation  with or merger of the Company or United
into another  corporation  or other entity or the  liquidation or dissolution of
the Company or United;

     (vi) amend the Company's  Certificate of Incorporation or By-laws, or adopt
any shareholders' or directors'  resolution or take any other action which would
restrict the alienation, voting, dividend or other rights of the Shares; or

     (vii)  take any other  action or enter  into any  agreement  similar to the
foregoing  which  could  have the  effect of  frustrating  the  purpose  of this
Agreement.

     Section 11. Adjustment Upon Changes in Capitalization. In the event of any
change  in the  Common  Stock by reason of stock  dividend,  splitups,  mergers,
recapitalizations,  combinations,  exchange of shares or the like,  the type and
number of shares  subject to the  Options  and the Fair  Market  Value per Share
shall be adjusted appropriately.

     Section  12.  Access  and  Information.  Prior to the later to occur of the
Expiration Date and any extension  thereof or the Closing Date, the Shareholders
shall cause the Company and United to afford to the

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Optionee and the Optionee's authorized  representatives reasonable access during
normal business hours to all of their properties, books, contracts,  commitments
and records and, during such period,  the Shareholders shall furnish promptly to
the Optionee all information  concerning the business,  properties and personnel
of the Company and United as the Optionee may reasonably request.

     Section 13. Approvals of Governmental Authorities.  (a) Upon the Optionee's
election to exercise the Options,  the Optionee and the Shareholders shall take,
and the Shareholders  shall cause the Company and United to take, all reasonable
steps  necessary or  appropriate,  and shall use, and shall cause the Company to
use, all commercially  reasonable  efforts, to obtain as promptly as practicable
all consents,  approvals,  authorizations,  licenses and orders of  Governmental
Authorities  required to be obtained by the  Optionee or the  Shareholders,  the
Company or United,  as the case may be, in connection  with the  consummation of
the transactions contemplated by this Agreement.

     (b) The Optionee and the  Shareholders  shall cooperate with each other and
each  other's  respective  Affiliates  in seeking  to obtain all such  consents,
approvals,  authorizations,  licenses and orders,  and shall provide,  and shall
cause  their   respective   Affiliates   to  provide,   such   information   and
communications to Governmental  Authorities as such Governmental Authorities may
reasonably request in connection therewith.

     Section 14.  Stockholder  Approval.  In the event the Optionee notifies the
Shareholders of its election to exercise the Options,  the Optionee shall call a
meeting of its  stockholders  for  purposes  of  approving  the  exercise of the
Options pursuant to this Agreement.

     Section 15. Restrictive  Legends.  Each certificate  representing shares of
Optionee Common Stock and Voting  Preferred Stock delivered to the  Shareholders
at the Closing, shall include a legend in substantially the following form:

                  THE SECURITIES  REPRESENTED BY THIS  CERTIFICATE HAVE NOT BEEN
         REGISTERED  UNDER THE  SECURITIES  ACT OF 1933, AS AMENDED,  AND MAY BE
         REOFFERED OR SOLD ONLY IF SO  REGISTERED  OR IF AN EXEMPTION  FROM SUCH
         REGISTRATION IS AVAILABLE.

     Whenever  any such shares  cease to be  restricted  securities,  the holder
thereof shall be entitled to receive from the Optionee,  without  expense,  upon
surrender to the Optionee of the  certificate  representing  such shares,  a new
certificate for such shares,  of like form but without a legend of the character
set forth above.

     Section 16. Termination;  Survival of Representations  and Warranties.  (a)
(i)  This  Agreement  shall  terminate  automatically  if the  Optionee  has not
notified  the  Shareholders  in writing of its  election to exercise the Options
prior to midnight (New York time) on the Expiration Date.

   (ii)  This Agreement may be terminated at any time prior to the Closing Date:

          (A)  by  mutual   agreement   in  writing  of  the  Optionee  and  the
     Shareholders;

          (B) by either the Optionee or the Shareholders  upon written notice to
     the other if (1) the  Effective  Date has not occurred by December 31, 1997
     or (2) the  Closing  has  not  occurred  by the  first  anniversary  of the
     Exercise  Date,  provided,  that the  right  to  terminate  this  Agreement
     pursuant  to this  clause  (B) shall not be  available  to any party  whose
     failure to fulfill any of its obligations under this Agreement  resulted in
     the Closing not occurring by such date.

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     (iii) In the event of the  termination of this  Agreement  pursuant to this
Section 16, this Agreement shall  thereafter  become void and have no effect and
no party  shall have a liability  hereunder;  provided,  however,  that no party
shall be released  from  liability if this  Agreement is terminated by reason of
(A) willful failure of such party to have performed its  obligations  hereunder,
or (B) any knowing  misrepresentation made by such party of any matter set forth
herein.

     (b) Notwithstanding any right of the Optionee and the Shareholders fully to
investigate the affairs of the Company and the Shareholders, as the case may be,
and  notwithstanding  any knowledge of facts  determined or  determinable by the
Optionee  and the  Shareholders  pursuant  to such  investigation  or  right  of
investigation, the Optionee, and each of the Shareholders have the right to rely
fully upon the  representations  and  warranties of the Optionee and each of the
Shareholders   contained  in  this  Agreement.   All  of  the   representations,
warranties,  covenants  and  agreements  contained  in this  Agreement or in any
certificate or other instrument delivered at Closing shall survive the execution
and delivery of this  Agreement and the Closing until the first  anniversary  of
the Closing  Date,  except for the  representations,  warranties,  covenants and
agreements  of  the  Optionee  and  each  Shareholder,  as the  case  may be (i)
contained in Sections 8(a), 8(c), 9(a) and 9(c), which shall survive the Closing
Date  indefinitely,  and (ii) contained in Sections 8(l),  8(o),  9(l) and 9(o),
which shall survive the Closing Date until the applicable statute of limitations
has expired.

     Section 17. Binding Effect; No Assignment.  This Agreement shall be binding
upon and  inure to the  benefit  of the  parties  hereto  and  their  respective
successors,  and  permitted  assigns.  Except as expressly  provided for in this
Agreement, neither this Agreement nor the rights or the obligations of any party
hereto are  assignable,  except by operation of law, or with the written consent
of the other parties.  Nothing contained in this Agreement,  express or implied,
is intended to confer  upon any person  other than the parties  hereto and their
respective  permitted assigns any rights or remedies of any nature whatsoever by
reason of this Agreement.

     Section 18. Specific  Performance.  The parties recognize and agree that if
for any reason any of the  provisions  of this  Agreement  are not  performed in
accordance  with their specific terms or are otherwise  breached,  immediate and
irreparable  harm or injury would be caused for which money damages would not be
an adequate  remedy.  Accordingly,  each party agrees that, in addition to other
remedies,  the other parties shall be entitled to an injunction  restraining any
violation or threatened  violation of the provisions of this  Agreement.  In the
event that any action  should be brought in equity to enforce the  provisions of
this Agreement,  no party will allege, and each party hereby waives the defense,
that there is adequate remedy at law.

     Section 19. Entire  Agreement.  This Agreement  (including the exhibits and
schedules  thereto)  constitutes  the entire  agreement  among the parties  with
respect to the subject matter hereof.

     Section 20. Effectiveness of Agreement.  Notwithstanding anything herein to
the contrary,  this  Agreement  shall not become  effective  unless and until it
shall be executed by the Optionee and  Shareholders  owning in the  aggregate at
least 80% of the issued and outstanding shares of the Common Stock.

     Section 21.  Further  Assurances.  Each party will  execute and deliver all
such further  documents and  instruments and take all such further action as may
be necessary in order to consummate the transactions contemplated hereby.

     Section 22. Validity.  The invalidity or  unenforceability of any provision
of this Agreement shall not affect the validity or  enforceability  of the other
provisions of this  Agreement,  which shall remain in full force and effect.  In
the event any court or other  competent  authority  holds any provisions of this
Agreement to be null, void or unenforceable,  the parties hereto shall negotiate
in good faith the  execution  and delivery of an amendment to this  Agreement in
order, as nearly as possible, to effectuate, to the extent permitted by law, the
intent of the

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parties hereto with respect to such  provision.  Each party agrees that,  should
any court or other  competent  authority hold any provision of this Agreement or
part hereof to be null,  void or  unenforceable,  or order any party to take any
action inconsistent  herewith, or not take any action required herein, the other
party shall not be entitled to specific  performances  of such provision or part
hereof or to any other remedy,  including but not limited to money damages,  for
breach hereof or of any other  provision of this Agreement or part hereof as the
result of such holding or order.

     Section 23.  Material  Change in Law. In the event of a Material  Change in
Law (as defined  below),  the parties hereto agree to negotiate in good faith to
amend or  modify  the  terms of the  Voting  Preferred  Stock,  to  arrange  for
substitute   consideration   or  otherwise  to  restructure   the   transactions
contemplated hereby (x) so as to eliminate the effect of such Material Change in
Law on the eligibility of the transactions contemplated hereby to qualify (i) in
respect of each  Service  Company  (other than a Service  Company  described  in
clause  (ii)  immediately   following),   as  a  reorganization   under  section
368(a)(1)(C) of the Code (without reliance on section  368(a)(2)(B) of the Code)
or (ii) as to any Service  Company  described in clause (t) of the definition of
"Material Change in Law" below, as a reorganization  under section  368(a)(1)(B)
of the Code, in either such case, having the same tax effects applicable to such
form of reorganization as under current law, (y) in a manner that  substantially
preserves the anticipated  respective  economic positions of the parties hereto;
provided,  however,  that if the parties shall not be able to agree on the terms
of  any  such   amendment   or   modification,   substitute   consideration   or
restructuring,  despite  their good faith efforts to do so, the Optionee and the
Shareholders  hereby  agree that (i) neither the  Optionee  nor any  Shareholder
shall be obligated to  consummate  the Closing  under this  Agreement,  (ii) the
amendments to the Option Purchase Agreement made by this Agreement shall be void
ab  initio   (other  than   clauses  (i)  through  (v)  of  this   proviso)  and
correspondingly,  the terms of the  Option  Purchase  Agreement  (as  amended by
Amendment  No. 1) shall  continue in full force and effect as if this  Agreement
had never become  effective,  (iii) any Exercise  Notice  delivered  pursuant to
Section  4(a) of this  Agreement  shall be void ab  initio,  (iv)  the  Optionee
Valuation,  dated  as of June  26,  1997,  prepared  by the  Optionee  Appraiser
pursuant to the Option Purchase Agreement and the Shareholder  Valuation,  dated
as of September 5, 1997,  prepared by the Shareholder  Appraiser pursuant to the
Option  Purchase  Agreement  shall  remain in  effect  and shall be deemed to be
delivered under the reinstated Option Purchase  Agreement as of the date of such
reinstatement  of the Option  Purchase  Agreement  pursuant  to the  immediately
foregoing  clause (ii),  and (v) the Expiration  Date under the Option  Purchase
Agreement  shall be extended until the date which is "X" plus 120 days following
the date of  reinstatement  of the Option  Purchase  Agreement  pursuant  to the
immediately  foregoing  clause (ii), where "X" equals the sum of (A) that number
of days from (and  including) the date of delivery of the Exercise  Notice under
this Agreement to (and  including) the date on which there is determined to be a
Material Change in Law for purposes of Section 23 of this Agreement and (B) that
number of days, if any,  remaining until the original  Expiration Date under the
Option Purchase Agreement.

         For purposes of this Section 23:

                  (I)  "Material  Change  in Law"  shall  mean a  Change  in Law
         occurring  on or before the  Closing  Date that,  in the opinion of tax
         counsel to the  Shareholders,  poses a significant  risk to any Service
         Company that the inclusion in the  transaction of the Voting  Preferred
         Stock  contemplated  hereby  (employing  the  assumption in making such
         determination that the Voting Preferred Stock constitutes  nonqualified
         preferred stock within the meaning of section 351(g) of the Code) would
         preclude the  transactions  contemplated  hereby from  qualifying  as a
         reorganization  within the meaning of (s) section  368(a)(1)(C)  of the
         Code (without  reliance on section  368(a)(2)(B) of the Code) or (t) as
         to any Service  Company that resolves not to liquidate as  contemplated
         by the Agreement and Plan of  Reorganization,  section  368(a)(1)(B) of
         the Code, in either such case,  having the same tax effects  applicable
         to such form of reorganization as under current law; and

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                  (II)  "Change  in Law"  shall  mean  (a) the  promulgation  of
         temporary or final Treasury regulations (or proposed regulations having
         a proposed  effective  date on or before  the  Closing  Date),  (b) the
         issuance  of any  Internal  Revenue  Service  notice,  ruling  or other
         administrative   pronouncement   or  any  other  issuance  of  official
         interpretative  guidance,  (c) the enactment of any law  (including any
         technical  corrections  to the Taxpayer  Relief Act of 1997) or (d) the
         proposal of any law having a proposed  effective  date on or before the
         Closing Date.

     Section 24. Notices. All notices and other  communications  hereunder shall
be in writing and shall be deemed  given if (i)  delivered  personally,  or (ii)
sent by reputable  overnight  courier  service,  or (iii)  telecopied  (which is
confirmed), or (iv) five days after being mailed by registered or certified mail
(return receipt requested) to the parties at the following addresses (or at such
other address for a party as shall be specified by like notice):

                  (a)      If to the Optionee, to:

                           Farm Family Holdings, Inc.
                           P.O. Box 656
                           Albany, New York  12201-0656

                           Attention:  General Counsel
                           Telephone:   (518) 431-5409
                           Telecopy:     (518) 431-5999

                  (b)      If to the Shareholders, to:

     The addresses of each Shareholder listed on Exhibit A hereto.

     Section  25.  Governing  Law.  This  Agreement  shall  be  governed  by and
construed in  accordance  with the laws of the State of New York  applicable  to
agreements  made and to be  performed  entirely  within  such State and  without
regard to its choice of law principles.

     Section 26.  Descriptive  Headings.  The  descriptive  headings  herein are
inserted for convenience of reference only and are not intended to be part of or
to affect the meaning or interpretation of this Agreement.

     Section  27.   Counterparts.   This   Agreement  may  be  executed  in  two
counterparts,  each of which  shall be  deemed  to be an  original,  but both of
which, taken together, shall constitute one and the same instrument.

     Section 28. Expenses.  Except as otherwise  expressly  provided herein, all
costs and expenses incurred in connection with the transactions  contemplated by
this Agreement shall be paid by the party incurring such expenses.

     Section  29.  Amendments;  Waiver.  This  Agreement  may be  amended by the
parties  hereto and the terms and  conditions  hereof  may be waived  only by an
instrument in writing signed on behalf of each of the parties hereto, or, in the
case of a waiver,  by an  instrument  signed  on  behalf  of the  party  waiving
compliance.

     Section 30. Action by the  Shareholders.  Notwithstanding  any provision of
this Agreement to the contrary,  any action or decision  required to be taken or
made by the Shareholders  pursuant to this Agreement may be taken or made by the
written  consent  of the  holders  of a  majority  of  the  Shares  held  by the
Shareholders;  provided, however, that no such action or decision shall, without
the written consent of all the Shareholders,

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reduce the  percentage  of  Shareholders  required to approve any such action or
decision  pursuant to this  Section 30. Any action or decision  taken or made by
the written  consent of the holders of a majority of the Shares pursuant to this
Section 30 shall apply equally to all Shareholders and shall be binding upon all
of them.

     IN WITNESS  WHEREOF,  the parties  hereto have caused this  Agreement to be
executed by their respective duly authorized officers as of the date first above
written.



                            FARM FAMILY HOLDINGS, INC.

                       By      /s/ Philip P. Weber
                       ------------------------------
                       Name:       Philip P. Weber
                       Title:      President & C.E.O.


                      CONNECTICUT FARM BUREAU SERVICE COMPANY
                                                          
                       By      /s/ Norma R. O' Leary
                       -------------------------------  
                       Name:       Norma R. O'Leary
                       Title:      President


                       DELAWARE FARM BUREAU SERVICE COMPANY, INC.
                                                           
                        By       /s/ Joseph E. Calhoun
                        -------------------------------
                        Name:        Joseph E. Calhoun
                        Title:       President


                       MAINE FARM BUREAU SERVICE COMPANY


                        By       /s/ Sandra A. George
                        ------------------------------
                        Name:       Sandra A. George
                        Title:      President

                                    

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                   MASSACHUSETTS FARM BUREAU SERVICE COMPANY, INC.
                    
                       By      /s/ Arthur D. Keown, Jr.
                       --------------------------------
                       Name:       Arthur D. Keown, Jr.
                       Title:      President


                   NEW HAMPSHIRE FARM BUREAU FEDERATION

                       By      /s/ Gordon H. Gowen
                       ---------------------------------
                       Name:       Gordon H. Gowen
                       Title:      President


                    NEW JERSEY FARM BUREAU SERVICE COMPANY


                        By      /s/ John I. Rigolizzo, Jr.
                        ----------------------------------
                        Name:       John I. Rigolizzo, Jr.
                        Title:      President


                    NEW YORK FARM BUREAU SERVICE COMPANY, INC.
                                                           

                         By      /s/ John W. Lincoln
                         ----------------------------
                         Name:       John W. Lincoln
                         Title:      President


                     RHODE ISLAND FARM BUREAU FEDERATION, INC.
                                                         
                         By      /s/ William M. Stamp, Jr.
                         ---------------------------------
                         Name:       William M. Stamp, Jr.
                         Title:      President

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                      VERMONT FARM BUREAU, INC.


                          By      /s/ Clark W. Hinsdale III
                          ---------------------------------
                          Name:       Clark W. Hinsdale III
                          Title:      President


                       WEST VIRGINIA FARM BUREAU, INC.


                          By      /s/ Charles A. Wilfong
                          ------------------------------
                          Name:       Charles A. Wilfong
                          Title:      President

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     AMENDMENT NO. 1 TO AMENDED AND RESTATED OPTION PURCHASE AGREEMENT

     This  AMENDMENT NO. 1 TO AMENDED AND RESTATED  OPTION  PURCHASE  AGREEMENT,
dated  as of April  28,  1998  (this  "Amendment"),  by and  among  FARM  FAMILY
HOLDINGS, INC., a Delaware Corporation (the "Optionee"), and THE SHAREHOLDERS OF
FARM  FAMILY LIFE  INSURANCE  COMPANY set forth on the  signature  pages  hereof
(individually, a "Shareholder" and collectively, the "Shareholders").

     WHEREAS, the Optionee and the Shareholders have previously entered into the
Amended and Restated Option Purchase  Agreement,  dated as of February 26, 1998,
(the "Option Purchase Agreement"); and

     WHEREAS,  the Optionee  and the  Shareholders  desire to further  amend the
Option Purchase Agreement as set forth herein.

     NOW,  THEREFORE,  for good and  valuable  consideration,  the  receipt  and
sufficiency of which are hereby acknowledged,  the Optionee and the Shareholders
hereby agree that the Option Purchase Agreement shall be, and hereby is, amended
and modified as follows:

     1. Section 4(a) of the Option  Purchase  Agreement is amended by adding the
following phrase at the end of the second sentence of Section 4(a):

     ", unless another date, time or place is agreed to by the parties hereto."

     2. Sections  7(a)(iii) and 7(b)(iii) of the Option  Purchase  Agreement are
amended by deleting the existing Sections  7(a)(iii) and 7(b)(iii) and inserting
in their place a new Section 7(a)(iii) and 7(b)(iii), which read as follows:

     "the  transactions  contemplated  hereby  shall have been  approved  by the
affirmative vote of a majority of the outstanding  shares of the Optionee Common
Stock present in person or by proxy at a meeting of stockholders of the Optionee
or such other vote of the  stockholders  of the  Optionee  as may be required by
applicable Law, the Certificate of Incorporation and By-laws of the Optionee and
the rules of the New York Stock Exchange, Inc.;"

     This Amendment may be executed in two or more  counterparts,  each of which
shall be considered  one in the same  agreement and shall become  effective when
one or more  counterparts  have been signed by each of the parties and delivered
to the other  parties,  it being  understood  that all parties need not sign the
same counterpart.

     IN WITNESS  WHEREOF,  the parties  hereto have caused this  Agreement to be
executed by their respective duly authorized officers as of the date first above
written.

                           FARM FAMILY HOLDINGS, INC.

                           By  /s/ Philip P. Weber
                           --------------------------
                           Name:   Philip P. Weber
                           Title:  President & C.E.O.
 
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                           CONNECTICUT FARM BUREAU SERVICE COMPANY              


                            By  /s/ Norma R. O'Leary
                            ------------------------
                            Name:   Norma R. O'Leary
                            Title:  President


                            DELAWARE FARM BUREAU SERVICE COMPANY, INC.
                                                           
                            By  /s/ Joseph E. Calhoun
                            -------------------------
                            Name:   Joseph E. Calhoun
                            Title:  President


                            MAINE FARM BUREAU SERVICE COMPANY

                            By  /s/ Sandra A. George
                            ------------------------
                            Name:   Sandra A. George
                            Title:  President


                            MASSACHUSETTS FARM BUREAU SERVICE COMPANY, INC.
                                                          
                            By /s/ Arthur D. Keown, Jr.
                            ----------------------------
                            Name:   Arthur D. Keown, Jr.
                            Title:  President

                            NEW HAMPSHIRE FARM BUREAU FEDERATION

                            By  /s/ Gordon H. Gowen
                            -----------------------
                            Name:   Gordon H. Gowen
                            Title:  President


                            NEW JERSEY FARM BUREAU SERVICE COMPANY

                            By  /s/ John I. Rigolizzo, Jr.
                            ------------------------------
                            Name:   John I. Rigolizzo, Jr.
                            Title:  Vice President

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                             NEW YORK FARM BUREAU SERVICE COMPANY, INC.
                                                          
                             By  /s/ John W. Lincoln
                             -----------------------
                             Name:   John W. Lincoln
                             Title:  President


                             RHODE ISLAND FARM BUREAU FEDERATION, INC.
                                                          
                              By  /s/ William M. Stamp, Jr.
                              ----------------------------
                              Name:   William M. Stamp, Jr.
                              Title:  President


                             VERMONT FARM BUREAU, INC.


                              By  /s/ Clark W. Hinsdale III
                              -----------------------------
                              Name:   Clark W. Hinsdale III
                              Title:  President


                              WEST VIRGINIA FARM BUREAU, INC.

                              By  /s/ Charles A. Wilfong
                              --------------------------
                              Name:   Charles A. Wilfong
                              Title:  President

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    SALOMONSMITHBARNEY                                           Annex B
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A member of TravelersGroup
                                        

October 21, 1998


Board of Directors
Farm Family Holdings, Inc.
344 Route 9W
Glenmont, NY 12201

Ladies and Gentlemen:

         You  have  requested  our  opinion  as  investment  bankers  as to  the
fairness,  from a financial  point of view, to Farm Family  Holdings,  Inc. (the
"Company") of the  Consideration (as defined below) to be paid by the Company in
connection with the proposed acquisition (the "Proposed  Acquisition") of all of
the  outstanding  shares of capital stock of Farm Family Life Insurance  Company
(the "Life  Company")  pursuant  to the Option  Purchase  Agreement  dated as of
February 14, 1996, as amended by Amendment No. 1 dated as of April 22, 1997, and
the Amended and  Restated  Option  Purchase  Agreement  dated as of February 26,
1998,  as amended by Amendment  No. 1 dated as of April 28, 1998 (as so amended,
the  "Option  Purchase   Agreement"),   by  and  between  the  Company  and  the
shareholders of the Life Company (the "Shareholders").

         As more  specifically set forth in the Option Purchase  Agreement,  and
subject to the terms and conditions  thereof,  the Company has delivered notice,
pursuant to Section 3 of the Option Purchase Agreement, of the proposed exercise
of its option  (the  "Option")  to  purchase  all of the  outstanding  shares of
capital  stock  of the Life  Company.  You have  advised  us that the  aggregate
Exercise  Price (as  defined in the Option  Purchase  Agreement)  payable to the
Shareholders  pursuant to Section 6(b) of the Option Purchase Agreement is $37.5
million and such  aggregate  Exercise Price will be payable in the form of $31.5
million  aggregate  value of common  stock of the Company (the  "Company  Common
Stock") and $6 million  aggregate  stated value of 6 1/8% voting preferred stock
of the Company (the  "Company  Preferred  Stock" and,  together with the Company
Common Stock, the "Consideration").

         As you are aware,  Salomon  Brothers  Inc, a  predecessor  by merger to
Salomon Smith Barney Inc.  (collectively  with all other predecessors to Salomon
Smith Barney Inc., "Salomon Smith Barney"),  acted as financial advisor and lead
underwriter to the Company in connection  with the  demutualization  and initial
public offering of Farm Family Mutual  Insurance  Company and received a fee for
its services.  Also,  Salomon  Smith Barney or its  affiliates  have  previously
rendered  certain  investment  banking and  financial  advisory  services to the
Company  and  affiliates  of  the  Company  for  which  we  received   customary
compensation.  In addition,  in the ordinary course of our business, we actively
trade the equity  securities  of the  Company  for our own  account  and for the
accounts of  customers  and,  accordingly,  may at any time hold a long or short
position in such securities.  Salomon Smith Barney and its affiliates (including
Citigroup  Inc.) may have other business  relationships  with the Company or the
Life Company.
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         In connection with rendering our opinion,  we have received,  reviewed,
analyzed,  and relied upon certain internal information furnished or prepared by
the management of the Life Company  concerning  its  businesses and  operations,
including historical and current statements of financial position and results of
operations of the Life Company and financial  forecasts of the Life Company.  In
conducting our analysis and arriving at our opinion as expressed herein, we have
considered such financial and other factors as we have deemed  appropriate under
the  circumstances,  including,  among  others,  the  following:  (i) the Option
Purchase  Agreement,  (ii) the  historical  and current  financial  position and
results of operations of the Life Company,  (iii) the business  prospects of the
Life Company,  (iv) the historical and current market for the equity  securities
of companies  that we believe to be comparable  in certain  respects to the Life
Company,  (v) the terms of the Company Preferred Stock and the terms of publicly
traded preferred securities issued by other financial institutions, (vi) certain
other  internal  information,  including  financial  and  operating  projections
relating to the Life  Company,  prepared by the  management of the Life Company,
provided to us for purposes of our analysis, (vii) the fact that the Company and
the Life Company have common  management  and share  facilities,  employees  and
agents,  (viii) certain other publicly available financial and other information
regarding   the  Company  and  (ix)  the  nature  and  terms  of  certain  other
transactions  which we believe to be relevant to our  inquiry.  We have also met
with certain officers and representatives of the Company and the Life Company to
discuss the foregoing as well as other matters relevant to our inquiry.  We have
also taken into account our assessment of general economic, market and financial
conditions and our experience in securities valuation.

         In our review and  analysis  and in  arriving at our  opinion,  we have
assumed and relied,  without  independent  verification,  upon the  accuracy and
completeness of the  information  provided to us or publicly  available,  and we
have  not  assumed  any  responsibility  for  independent  verification  of such
information.  With respect to the financial  forecasts of the Life  Company,  we
have assumed that they have been  reasonably  prepared on bases  reflecting  the
best currently  available  estimates and judgments of the management of the Life
Company as to the  future  financial  performance  of the Life  Company,  and we
express no opinion with respect to such  forecasts or the  assumptions  on which
they are based. In addition,  we have not conducted a physical inspection of any
of the properties or facilities of the Life Company nor have we made or obtained
or  assumed  any   responsibility   for  making  or  obtaining  any  independent
evaluations  or  appraisals  of any  of the  assets  (including  properties  and
facilities)  or  liabilities  of the  Life  Company.  We have  assumed,  without
independent verification, that the shares of Company Common Stock that are being
issued  as a  portion  of the  Consideration  have an  aggregate  value of $31.5
million and that the shares of Company  Preferred Stock that are being issued as
a portion of the  Consideration  have an aggregate  value equal to the aggregate
stated value of $6 million.

         Our opinion is necessarily  based upon conditions as they exist and can
be evaluated on the date hereof,  and we assume no  responsibility  to update or
revise our opinion based upon  circumstances  or events occurring after the date
hereof.  Our  opinion as  expressed  herein is limited to the  fairness,  from a
financial  point of view,  to the  Company  of the  Consideration  to be paid in
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connection  with the Proposed  Acquisition of all of the  outstanding  shares of
capital stock of the Life Company and does not address the Company's  underlying
decision to exercise the Option or to effect the Proposed  Acquisition  and does
not  constitute a  recommendation  as to how any Board  member  should vote with
respect to the exercise of the Option.  This opinion also does not  constitute a
recommendation  to any  stockholder  of the  Company as to how such  stockholder
should vote with respect to the Proposed Acquisition.

         It is understood that our opinion  expressed  herein is for the benefit
and use of the Board of Directors of the Company in considering  the transaction
to which it relates and may not be used by the Company for any other  purpose or
be reproduced,  disseminated,  quoted or referred to by the Company at any time,
in any manner or for any purpose,  without the prior written  consent of Salomon
Smith  Barney,  except that it may be referred to or included  in, to the extent
required  by  applicable  federal  securities  law,  statements  filed  with the
Securities and Exchange Commission,  including the Proxy Statement mailed to the
Company's stockholders in connection with the Option Purchase Agreement.

         Based upon and subject to the foregoing, we are of the opinion that, as
of the date hereof,  the  Consideration  to be paid by the Company in connection
with the Proposed  Acquisition of all of the outstanding shares of capital stock
of the Life Company is fair from a financial point of view to the Company.



Very truly yours,

/s/ Salomon Smith Barney
                                 B-3

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                                                                     Annex C

               INDEX TO HISTORICAL FINANCIAL STATEMENTS

           FARM FAMILY LIFE INSURANCE COMPANY AND SUBSIDIARY                  
                                                                           Page
                                                                          ------
Report of Independent Accountants...................................        C-2


Consolidated Balance Sheets at June 30, 1998 (unaudited) and at
     December 31, 1997 and 1996 ....................................        C-3

Consolidated  Statements of Income and  Comprehensive  Income for the Six Months
     Ended June 30, 1998 and 1997 (unaudited)
     and for the Years Ended December 31, 1997, 1996, and 1995......        C-4

Consolidated  Statements of  Stockholders'  Equity for the Six Months Ended June
     30, 1998  (unaudited) and for the Years Ended December 31, 1997,  1996, and
     1995 ..........................................................        C-5

Consolidated Statements of Cash Flows for the Six Months Ended June 30, 1998 and
     1997 (unaudited) and for the Years Ended December 31, 1997, 1996, and 
     1995...........................................................        C-6

Notes to Consolidated Financial Statements..........................        C-7
                                   C-1

<PAGE>
Coopers 
&Lybrand


Report of Independent Accountants



To the Stockholders and Board of Directors
Farm Family Life Insurance Company and Subsidiary

We have audited the accompanying consolidated balance sheets of Farm Family Life
Insurance  Company  and  Subsidiary  as of December  31, 1997 and 1996,  and the
related consolidated  statements of income,  stockholders' equity and cash flows
for each of the  three  years in the  period  ended  December  31,  1997.  These
financial  statements are the  responsibility of the Company's  management.  Our
responsibility  is to express an opinion on these financial  statements based on
our audits.

We  conducted  our  audits  in  accordance  with  generally   accepted  auditing
standards.  Those standards require that we plan and perform the audit to obtain
reasonable assurance about whether the financial statements are free of material
misstatement.  An audit includes examining, on a test basis, evidence supporting
the amounts and disclosures in the financial statements.  An audit also includes
assessing the  accounting  principles  used and  significant  estimates  made by
management,  as well as evaluating the overall financial statement presentation.
We believe that our audits provide a reasonable basis for our opinion.

In our opinion,  the financial  statements  referred to above present fairly, in
all material respects,  the consolidated  financial position of Farm Family Life
Insurance  Company  and  Subsidiary  as of December  31, 1997 and 1996,  and the
consolidated  results of their  operations  and their cash flows for each of the
three years in the period ended December 31, 1997, in conformity  with generally
accepted accounting principles.



Albany, New York                                     Coopers & Lybrand LLP
March 6, 1998
                                   C-2
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<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
FARM  FAMILY  LIFE  INSURANCE COMPANY & SUBSIDIARY
CONSOLIDATED BALANCE  SHEETS
                                                                               (Unaudited)
                                                                                 June 30,      December 31,
                                                                                 --------      ------------
($ in thousands)                                                                  1998       1997       1996
- ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Assets
Investments:
Fixed Maturities
 <S>                                                                             <C>        <C>       <C>
Available for sale, at fair value
  (Amortized cost: $658,087 in 1998, $647,207 in 1997 and $619,341 in 1996)      $707,719   $693,433  $641,224
Equity securities
     Available for sale, at fair value
          (Cost: $14,360 in 1998 and 1997, and $13,419 in 1996)                    41,121     37,636    30,722     
Mortgage loans on real estate                                                      13,259     15,151    13,919
Policy loans                                                                       29,842     28,937    28,841
Other invested assets                                                                 624        741     1,250
Short-term investments                                                              5,082      4,864    10,542
- ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
     Total investments                                                            797,647    780,762   726,498
- ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Cash                                                                                  525      2,481     1,600
Reinsurance receivables                                                               810      1,159     1,192
Deferred acquisition costs                                                         28,375     31,046    42,602
Property and equipment, net                                                        12,262     12,715    13,914
Accrued investment income                                                          13,491     13,954    13,837
Other assets                                                                        2,189      1,782     1,139
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
     Total Assets                                                                $855,299   $843,899  $800,782
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Liabilities:
Future policy and contract benefits                                              $215,978   $211,212  $197,050
Funds on deposit from policyholders                                               420,579    423,495   421,227
Accrued dividends to policyholders                                                  5,683      5,268     5,024
Deferred income tax liability                                                      36,755     33,824    25,085
Payable to affiliate  (see Note 9)                                                 17,792     17,888    16,133
Other liabilities                                                                   4,234      3,552     5,047
Participating policyholders' interest                                             113,858    109,557    96,530
- ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
     Total liabilities                                                            814,879    804,796   766,096
- ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Commitments and contingencies
Stockholders'  equity:
Common Stock, $50 par value, 61,000 shares authorized
     and 60,011 shares issued and outstanding                                       3,001      3,001     3,001
Accumulated other comprehensive income                                              1,834      1,595        38
Retained earnings                                                                  35,585     34,507    31,647
- ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
     Total  stockholders'  equity                                                  40,420     39,103    34,686
- ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
     Total  Liabilities  and  Stockholders'  Equity                             $ 855,299  $ 843,899 $ 800,782
- ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
- ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
See accompanying notes to Consolidated Financial Statements.
</TABLE>
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<PAGE>

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
FARM  FAMILY  LIFE  INSURANCE COMPANY & SUBSIDIARY
CONSOLIDATED STATEMENTS  OF  INCOME AND COMPREHENSIVE INCOME
                                                                  (Unaudited)
                                                                For the Six Months    For the Year Ended                        
                                                                  Ended June 30,          December 31,                          
                                                                ----------------    ----------------------
($ in thousands)                                                  1998     1997     1997     1996    1995
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------
Revenues:
<S>                                                              <C>     <C>       <C>     <C>     <C>    
Premiums from life and health operations                         $15,531 $15,227   $30,505 $30,322 $29,358
Premiums from property/casualty operations                             3   4,337     9,020   9,440   9,328
Net investment income                                             27,798  27,492    54,964  55,728  52,572
Realized investment gains, net                                     1,707   2,948     2,914     284   5,652
Policy and contract charges                                        2,406   2,573     5,041   4,960   4,482
Other income (see Note 9)                                            493     513     1,153     920     928
- -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
     Total revenues                                               47,938  53,090   103,597 101,654 102,320
- -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Benefits and expenses:
Benefits to policyholders                                         13,292  14,590    26,843  27,031  26,775
Losses and loss adjustment expenses
   on property/casualty operations (see Note 9)                      900   3,816     9,975   7,756   6,947
Operating expenses  (see Note 9)                                   4,070   3,541     7,748   8,768   8,964
Non-recurring expenses                                               176       -       707     914      --
Interest credited to policyholders                                11,312  13,055    24,813  24,629  26,495
Amortization of deferred acquisition costs                         3,583   3,420     6,852   6,910   7,269
Participating policyholders' interest                             12,261  11,767    21,617  21,159  19,130
- ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 
     Total                                                        45,594  50,189    98,555  97,167  95,580
- -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Income before income taxes                                         2,344   2,901     5,042   4,487   6,740
Income tax expense                                                   786     995     1,702   1,536   2,301
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------
    Net income attributable to common stockholders                $1,558  $1,906    $3,340  $2,951  $4,439 
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------
Other comprehensive income, net of tax
Unrealized holding gain arising during the period
(net of deferred tax of ($145), ($403), ($866), $122 and             269     748     1,608   (166)     415
($239), respectively)
Reclassification adjustment for gains included in net income
 (net of tax expense  of $6, $49, $28, $33 and $16,                  (30)    (91)      (51)    (61)    (30)
respectively)
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------
                                                                     239     657     1,557   (227)     385
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------
Other Comprehensive Income                                        $1,797  $2,563    $4,897  $2,724  $4,824
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------
</TABLE>
See accompanying notes to Consolidated Financial Statements.

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FARM  FAMILY  LIFE  INSURANCE COMPANY & SUBSIDIARY
CONSOLIDATED STATEMENTS  OF  STOCKHOLDERS'  EQUITY
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                                      (Unaudited)
                                                                       June 30,          December 31,                           
                                                                    -------------  -------------------------
($ in thousands)                                                        1998       1997      1996     1995
- ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ -----------------------------
Common  Stock
<S>                                                                    <C>        <C>       <C>       <C>   
Beginning of period                                                    $3,001     $3,001    $3,001    $3,001
- ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------
     End of period                                                      3,001      3,001     3,001     3,001
- ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------
Accumulated other comprehensive income
Beginning of period                                                     1,595         38       265     (120)
Change in unrealized investment gains (losses), net of effect
of deferred income taxes and amortization of deferred                     239      1,557     (227)       385
acquisition costs
- ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------
     End of period                                                      1,834      1,595        38       265
- ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------
Retained earnings                                                      
Beginning of period                                                    34,507     31,647    29,176    25,217
Dividends to stockholders                                                (480)      (480)     (480)     (480)
Net Income                                                              1,558      3,340     2,951     4,439    
- ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------
     End of Period                                                     35,585     34,507    31,647    29,176         
- ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------    
Total  Stockholders'  Equity                                          $40,420    $39,103   $34,686   $32,442
- ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------
- ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------


</TABLE>

See accompanying notes to Consolidated Financial Statements.

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<PAGE>
FARM  FAMILY  LIFE  INSURANCE COMPANY & SUBSIDIARY
CONSOLIDATED STATEMENTS  OF  CASH  FLOWS
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                               (Unaudited)    
                                                            For the Six months          For the Year
                                                              Ended June 30,          Ended December 31,
                                                            -----------------   ---------------------------
($ in thousands)                                              1998     1997      1997      1996      1995
- ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- ------------------------------
Operating  Activities
<S>                                                          <C>      <C>       <C>       <C>        <C>   
Net income                                                   $1,558   $1,906    $3,340    $2,951     $4,439
Adjustments to reconcile net income to  net cash provided
by operating activities
Amortization of bond discount                                   248       90       906      (181)      (520)
(premium)
Amortization of mortgage discount                                 -        -         -       (53)       (53)
Interest credited to policyholders                           11,312   13,055    24,813    24,629     26,495
Deferred income taxes                                          (917)  (2,345)   (5,432)   (2,831)    (4,283)
Participating policyholders interest                         12,261   11,767    21,617    21,159     19,130
Dividends to policyholders                                   (5,632)  (4,852)  (10,066)   (9,787)    (9,380)
Realized investment gains, net                               (1,707)  (2,948)   (2,914)     (284)    (5,652)
Amortization of deferred acquisition costs                    3,583    3,420     6,852     6,910      7,269
Capitalization of deferred acquisition  costs                (4,708)  (4,902)   (9,731)   (9,682)   (10,491)
Depreciation expense                                          1,364    1,356     2,686     2,556      2,505
Gain on sale of property and equipment                          (29)     (21)      (23)      (15)       (36)
Changes in:
         Accrued investment income                              463     (180)     (117)     (861)    (1,317)
         Reinsurance receivable                                 349       65        33      (733)      (117)
         Other assets                                          (407)    (266)     (662)     (783)       285
         Future policy and contract                           3,424    7,903    15,504    12,081     11,113
         benefits
         Payable to affiliate (see Note 9)                      (96)    (228)    1,755     2,275      1,410
         Other liabilities                                    1,097   (1,528)   (1,251)      899    (1,155)
- ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Net cash provided by operating activities                    22,163   22,292    47,310    48,250     39,642
- ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Investing Activities
Proceeds from sales:
     Fixed maturities available for sale                        484    6,636    48,913    18,184     43,560
     Equity securities                                        1,097    4,127     5,074     1,678     11,082
Investment collections:
     Fixed maturities available for sale                     41,142   26,917    49,028    51,004     54,065
     Mortgage loans on real estate                            1,892      794     1,154     7,454      5,037
     Equity securities                                            -       14       254         -        452
Investment purchases:
     Fixed maturities available for sale                    (52,138) (51,237) (127,320) (104,167)  (150,456)
      Mortgage loans on real estate                               -   (2,250)   (2,386)         -    (3,500)
      Equity securities                                           -   (2,748)   (2,748)   (4,152)      (438)
Policy loans issued, net                                       (905)    (308)      (96)    1,725       (660)
Sales of other invested assets, net                             117      434       509     1,050        449
Sales of short-term investments, net                           (218)   7,563     5,678       271     (1,767)
Purchases of property and equipment                            (949)    (843)   (1,511)   (1,944)    (2,387)
Proceeds from sale of property and equipment                     67       28        47       163         77
- ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
     Net cash used by investing activities                   (9,411) (10,873)  (23,404)  (28,734)   (44,486)
- ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Financing  Activities
Contractholder fund deposits                                 16,782   17,436    32,951    36,638     58,789
Contractholder fund withdrawals                             (31,010) (27,861)  (55,496)  (55,242)   (50,544)
Payments on mortgage payable                                      -        -         -         -     (2,884)
Dividends on common stock                                      (480)    (480)     (480)     (480)      (480)
- ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
     Net cash (used in)/provided by                         (14,708) (10,905)  (23,025)  (19,084)     4,881
                    financing activities
- ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Increase in cash                                             (1,956)     514       881       432         37
Cash at beginning of period                                   2,481    1,600     1,600     1,168      1,131
- ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- ------------------------------
Cash at end of period                                          $525   $2,114    $2,481    $1,600     $1,168
- ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
- ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
See accompanying notes to Consolidated Financial Statements.
</TABLE>
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<PAGE>
Notes to Consolidated Financial Statements

    1.  Summary of Significant Accounting Policies

         Basis of Presentation:

         The accompanying  consolidated  financial statements have been prepared
         in conformity with generally accepted accounting principles and include
         the accounts of Farm Family Life Insurance Company ("Farm Family Life")
         and its wholly owned  subsidiary,  United Farm Family Insurance Company
         ("United Farm Family") (collectively referred to as the "Company"). All
         significant   intercompany   balances   and   transactions   have  been
         eliminated.  The preparation of financial statements in accordance with
         generally accepted  accounting  principles  requires management to make
         estimates and assumptions  that affect  reported  amounts of assets and
         liabilities and disclosures of contingent assets and liabilities at the
         date of the financial  statements and the reported amounts of revenues,
         benefits and expenses during the reporting period. Actual results could
         differ from those estimates.

         Farm  Family  Life  provides  life,  annuity,  and  accident  &  health
         insurance  coverages  principally  to members of the state Farm  Bureau
         organizations in New York, New Jersey,  Delaware, West Virginia and all
         of  the  New  England  states.   Membership  in  a  state  Farm  Bureau
         organization is not a prerequisite for insurance coverage.  Farm Family
         Life is a stock life  insurance  company owned by the state Farm Bureau
         organizations of the ten states in which the Company operates.

         The  operations  of Farm Family Life are closely  related with those of
         its  subsidiary,  United Farm Family,  and its  affiliate,  Farm Family
         Casualty  Insurance  Company.  ("Farm Family  Casualty")  (see Note 9).
         United Farm Family is a property and casualty  insurance  company whose
         business  consists  primarily of  reinsurance  assumed from Farm Family
         Casualty.  Farm Family  Casualty is a wholly owned  subsidiary  of Farm
         Family  Holdings,  Inc.  ("Farm Family  Holdings"),  a publicly  traded
         company.  The Company and Farm Family Casualty are affiliated by common
         management,   shared  agents  and  employees  and  similar   Boards  of
         Directors.

         The accompanying unaudited consolidated financial statements,  reflect,
         in the  opinion of  management,  all  adjustments,  consisting  of only
         normal and recurring adjustments,  necessary for a fair presentation of
         the  consolidated   financial  position  at  June  30,  1998,  and  the
         consolidated results of operations for the six month periods ended June
         30, 1997 and 1998.  The results of operations  for the six month period
         ended June 30, 1998 are not necessarily indicative of the results to be
         expected for the full year.

         Certain  reclassifications  have  been made to prior  years'  financial
         statements to conform to the current year's presentation.


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         Investments

         Fixed  maturities  include  bonds,   redeemable  preferred  stocks  and
         mortgage-backed securities. Fixed maturities may be sold prior to their
         contractual  maturity  and are  classified  as  available  for sale and
         carried at fair value. The difference  between  amortized cost and fair
         value of fixed  maturities  classified  as available  for sale,  net of
         deferred income taxes and amortization of deferred  acquisition  costs,
         is reflected as a component of stockholders' equity.

         Equity securities  include common and  non-redeemable  preferred stocks
         which are carried at fair value.  The difference  between cost and fair
         value of equity securities, less deferred income taxes and amortization
         of  deferred   acquisition  costs,  is  reflected  as  a  component  of
         stockholders' equity.

         Mortgage  loans on real  estate are carried at  amortized  cost less an
         allowance for estimated uncollectible amounts. At December 31, 1997 and
         1996, no mortgage loans were considered  uncollectible.  Other invested
         assets, which consist primarily of investments in limited partnerships,
         are carried at cost which approximates fair value.

         Policy Loans are carried at the unpaid principal balance.

         Cash and short-term investments consist of demand deposits,  repurchase
         agreements  and money market  investments  whose  maturities  are three
         months or less from the date of purchase.  Short-term  investments  are
         carried at cost which approximates fair value.

         The  carrying  values of all  investments  are  reviewed  on an ongoing
         basis.  If this review  indicates a decline in fair value below cost is
         other than temporary, the Company's carrying value in the investment is
         reduced to its estimated  realizable value and a specific  writedown is
         taken.  Such writedowns are included in realized  investment  gains and
         losses.

         Investment  income  consists   primarily  of  interest  and  dividends.
         Interest is  recognized  on an accrual basis and dividends are recorded
         on the ex-dividend date. Interest income on mortgage-backed  securities
         is  determined  on  the  effective  yield  method  based  on  estimated
         principal   repayments.   Realized  investment  gains  and  losses  are
         determined on a specific identification basis.

         Impairments

         Effective   January  1,  1996,  the  Company   adopted  the  provisions
         prescribed by Financial  Accounting  Standards Board Statement No. 121,
         "Accounting for the Impairment of Long-Lived  Assets and for Long-Lived
         Assets  to be  Disposed  Of".  This  statement  establishes  accounting
         standards  for  the   impairment  of  long-lived   assets  and  certain
         identifiable  intangibles to be disposed of. This statement  requires a

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         write down to fair value when long-lived assets to be held and used are
         impaired.  The statement  also requires  that  long-lived  assets to be
         disposed of (e.g. real estate held for sale) be carried at the lower of
         cost or fair value less costs to sell and does not allow such assets to
         be depreciated.  The Company  periodically  reviews  long-lived  assets
         whenever events or changes in circumstances  indicate that the carrying
         amount  of such  assets  may not be  recoverable.  The  impact  of this
         standard did not have a material  impact on the Company's 1997 and 1996
         results of operations, financial condition or liquidity.

         Premium Revenue and Benefits to Policyholders

         RECOGNITION OF TRADITIONAL  LIFE, GROUP AND ANNUITY PREMIUM REVENUE AND
         BENEFITS TO POLICYHOLDERS  Traditional life insurance  products include
         those  products with fixed and  guaranteed  premiums and benefits,  and
         consist  principally  of whole  life  insurance  policies  and  certain
         annuities with life contingencies (immediate annuities). Life insurance
         premiums  and  immediate  annuity  premiums are  recognized  as premium
         revenue when due.  Group  insurance  premiums are recognized as premium
         revenue over the time period to which the premiums relate. Benefits and
         expenses  are  associated  with  earned  premiums  so as to  result  in
         recognition of profits over the life of the contracts. This association
         is  accomplished  by means of the provision for  liabilities for future
         policy benefits and the amortization of deferred acquisition costs.

         RECOGNITION OF UNIVERSAL  LIFE-TYPE  CONTRACTS  REVENUE AND BENEFITS TO
         POLICYHOLDERS Universal life-type policies are insurance contracts with
         terms that are not fixed and guaranteed.  The terms that may be changed
         could include one or more of the amounts assessed to the  policyholder,
         premiums paid by the  policyholder or interest  accrued to policyholder
         balances.  Amounts  received as  payments  for such  contracts  are not
         reported as premium revenues. Payments received are considered deposits
         and are  classified  as funds on deposit  from  policyholders.  Account
         balances are increased by interest credited and reduced by withdrawals,
         mortality charges and administrative expenses charged to policyholders.
         For the years ended  December 31, 1997,  1996 and 1995,  interest rates
         credited to policyholder funds ranged from 6% to 7 1/2%.

         Revenues for universal  life-type  policies consist of charges assessed
         against  policy  account  values for the cost of  insurance  and policy
         administration.  Policy benefits and claims that are charged to expense
         include  interest  credited to contracts and benefit claims incurred in
         the period in excess of related policy account balances.

         RECOGNITION   OF   INVESTMENT   CONTRACT   REVENUE   AND   BENEFITS  TO
         POLICYHOLDERS  Contracts  that do not  subject  the  Company  to  risks
         arising from  policyholder  mortality  or morbidity  are referred to as
         investment   contracts.   Certain  annuity   contracts  are  considered
         investment  contracts.  Amounts received as payments for such contracts
         are not reported as premium revenues.  Payments received are considered
         deposits and are  classified  as funds on deposit  from  policyholders.
         Account  balances  are  increased  by interest  credited and reduced by
         withdrawals.  For the years ended  December  31,  1997,  1996 and 1995,
         interest rates credited to policyholder funds ranged from 5% to 8%.

         Revenues for  investment  contracts  consist of  investment  income and
         policy  administration  charges.  Contract benefits that are charged to
         expense  include  benefit  claims  incurred  in the period in excess of
         related contract balances, and interest credited to contract balances.

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         Interest   crediting  rates  for  universal  life  type  contracts  and
         investment contracts are set annually by the board of directors and are
         based on current market conditions.

         Deferred Acquisition Costs

         Those  costs  of  acquiring  new  business,  which  vary  with  and are
         primarily related to the production of new business, have been deferred
         to the  extent  that such  costs are  deemed  recoverable  from  future
         premiums.  Such  costs  include  commissions,  certain  costs of policy
         issuance and underwriting, and certain variable agency expenses.

         For traditional  insurance  products,  these costs are amortized,  with
         interest,  in proportion to the ratio of estimated  annual  revenues to
         the estimated  total revenues over the contract  period.  For most life
         insurance,  a 15-year to  40-year  amortization  period is used,  and a
         20-year period is used for annuities.

         Deferred  acquisition  costs for universal  life  contracts and certain
         annuity  contracts  are  amortized  at a  constant  rate based upon the
         present  value of estimated  gross profit  expected to be realized over
         the life of the contracts, which is reevaluated annually.

         Future Policy and Contract Benefits

         Liabilities  for future  policy  benefits for term life  contracts  are
         calculated  using the net level premium  method and  assumptions  as to
         investment  yields,  mortality and withdrawals.  These  assumptions are
         based on projections  and past  experience  and include  provisions for
         possible unfavorable deviation.
         These assumptions are made at the time the contract is issued.

         Liabilities  for future  policy  benefits  for  traditional  whole life
         contracts  are  calculated  using  the net  level  premium  method  and
         statutory  assumptions as to interest and mortality.  Traditional whole
         life is written on a participating basis with a provision for dividends
         to policyholders (see Participating Policyholders' interest).

         Liabilities  for  future  policy and  contract  benefits  on  universal
         life-type and investment-type contracts are based on the policy account
         balance.

         The liabilities  for future policy and contract  benefits for long-term
         disability  income  contracts are based upon interest rate  assumptions
         and morbidity and termination rates from published tables. In 1995, the
         Company  completed its  withdrawal  from the group  accident and health
         line of business.  The Company  continues to write individual  accident
         and health coverages, primarily disability income policies.

Farm Family Life Insurance Co. & Subsidiary  C-10
                               
<PAGE>


         Income Taxes:

         The income tax  provision is  calculated  under the  liability  method.
         Deferred  income tax assets and  liabilities  are recorded based on the
         difference between the financial  statement and tax bases of assets and
         liabilities  and the  enacted  tax  rates.  The  principal  assets  and
         liabilities  giving  rise to such  differences  are  future  policy and
         contract benefits and funds on deposit from  policyholders and deferred
         acquisition  costs.  Deferred  income taxes also arise from  unrealized
         investment  gains or losses on equity  securities and fixed  maturities
         classified as available for sale.

         Property-Casualty Insurance Accounting:

         Premiums  are deferred and earned on a pro rata basis over the terms of
         the respective  policies.  Amounts paid for ceded reinsurance  premiums
         are reported as prepaid  reinsurance  premiums and  amortized  over the
         remaining contract period in proportion to premium. Premiums receivable
         are recorded at cost less an allowance for doubtful accounts.

         Policy  acquisition  costs that vary with and are primarily  related to
         the  production of business have been  deferred.  Deferred  acquisition
         costs primarily  consist of agents'  compensation,  premium taxes,  and
         certain other underwriting  expenses.  Such deferred  acquisition costs
         are amortized as premium  revenue is recognized.  Deferred  acquisition
         costs are  limited to their  estimated  realizable  value,  which gives
         effect to the  premium to be earned,  related  investment  income,  and
         losses and loss  adjustment  expenses  expected  to be  incurred as the
         premium is earned.

         Reserves for losses and loss adjustment expenses represent estimates of
         the  ultimate  amounts  necessary  to  settle  reported  losses  and  a
         provision for incurred but not reported claims of insured  losses.  The
         reserve estimates are based on known facts and circumstances, including
         the  Company's  experience  with similar  cases and  historical  trends
         involving reserving patterns,  loss payments,  pending levels of unpaid
         claims  and  product  mix,  as well as other  factors  including  court
         decisions,  economic conditions and public attitudes.  The reserves for
         losses and loss  adjustment  expenses  include case basis  estimates of
         reported  losses,  estimates of incurred but not reported  losses based
         upon prior  experience  adjusted for current  trends,  and estimates of
         losses  to be  paid  under  assumed  reinsurance  contracts.  Estimated
         amounts of recoverable  salvage and  subrogation  are deducted from the
         reserves for losses and loss adjustment expenses.  The establishment of
         appropriate  reserves,  as well as related  amounts  recoverable  under
         reinsurance  contracts  is an  inherently  uncertain  process.  Reserve
         estimates  are regularly  reviewed and updated,  using the most current
         information  available.   Any  resulting  adjustments,   which  may  be
         material, are reflected in current operations.  Reserves for losses and
         loss  adjustment  expenses  are  included in other  liabilities  on the
         accompanying consolidated balance sheets.

Farm Family Life Insurance Co. & Subsidiary  C-11
                                 

<PAGE>

         Participating Policyholders' Interest:

         The  majority  of the  Company's  insurance  policies  are written on a
         "participating"  basis, as defined in the New York State insurance law.
         Profits earned on  participating  business are reserved for the payment
         of dividends to  policyholders  except for the  stockholders'  share of
         profits on participating  policies,  which is limited to the greater of
         10% of the statutory profit on participating  business, or 50 cents per
         thousand dollars of the face amount of participating  life insurance in
         force.  Participating  policyholders' interest includes the accumulated
         net income from  participating  policies  reserved  for payment to such
         policyholders  in the form of dividends  (less net income  allocated to
         stockholders  as indicated  above) as well as a pro rata portion of net
         unrealized  investment gains (losses).  Dividends to policyholders  are
         approved  by the  Board of  Directors  based on the net  income  of the
         participating policies.

         In  addition  to  the  greater  of  10%  of  the  statutory  profit  on
         participating  business  or 50 cents per  thousand  dollars of the face
         amount of participating life insurance in force,  earnings available to
         common stockholders consists of earnings on non-participating  business
         and a pro rata share of net investment  income and realized  investment
         gains (losses).

     The change in  participating  policyholders'  interest  for the years ended
     December 31, 1997, 1996 and 1995 is as follows:
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                                            1997       1996       1995
                                                                      -------------------------------------
<S>                                                                   <C>          <C>         <C>        
          Participating policyholders' interest, beginning of year     $    96,530 $   99,561  $   69,887
          Net income attributable to participating policyholders            14,318     13,914      12,599
                       
          Change in unrealized gains (losses),  net of effect of 
             deferred income taxes and amortization of deferred  
             acquisition costs  attributable to participating
             policyholders interest                                         8,773      (7,097)     26,401  
          Dividends to policyholders and other                            (10,064)     (9,848)     (9,326)
                                                                      -------------------------------------
          Participating policyholders' interest, end of year         $    109,557 $    96,530 $    99,561
                                                                      -------------------------------------
</TABLE>


    2.  Option to Purchase Farm Family Life

         Farm Family Life entered  into an Option  Purchase  Agreement  with the
         shareholders  of Farm  Family  Holdings  pursuant  to which Farm Family
         Holdings has, for a two-year  period  commencing on July 26, 1996,  the
         option to acquire  Farm Family Life subject to certain  conditions.  On
         February  26,  1998,  the Board of  Directors  of Farm Family  Holdings
         approved the exercise of the option to acquire Farm Family Life and its
         wholly  owned  subsidiary  United Farm  Family.  Under the terms,  Farm
         Family  Holdings will pay an exercise price of $37.5 million to acquire
         Farm Family Life,  consisting  of $31.5 million of common stock of Farm
         Family Holdings, and $6 million stated value of 6-1/8% voting preferred
         stock of Farm Family Holdings, less certain expenses to be paid by Farm
         Family  Life in  connection  with  the  acquisition  on  behalf  of the
         shareholders  of Farm Family  Life.  The proposed  acquisition  of Farm
         Family  Life is subject to the  approval  of the  shareholders  of Farm
         Family  Holdings  and receipt of all required  governmental  approvals.
         Management  expects  that the  acquisition  of Farm Family Life will be
         brought to the  shareholders of Farm Family Holdings for their approval
         in 1998.

Farm Family Life Insurance Co. & Subsidiary  C-12
                                
<PAGE>


    3.  Investments

         The  cost/amortized  cost,  gross  unrealized gains and losses and fair
         value of available  for sale  securities  at December 31, 1997 and 1996
         are as follows:
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>


                                                             Cost/
                                                           Amortized    Gross Unrealized       Fair 
                                                             Cost       Gains   (Losses)       Value
                                                             ----       ----------------       -----
  ($in thousands)                                                
         1997
         ----
         Fixed maturities:
<S>                                                       <C>         <C>        <C>         <C>       
         U.S.Government & Agencies                       $   15,009   $  1,164   $  ----   $   16,173
         States,  Municipalities & Political Subdivisions    91,897      7,830      (40)       99,687
         Corporate                                          459,318     33,510     (256)      492,572
         Mortgage-backed Securities                          70,640      2,101      ----       72,741
         Redeemable Preferred Stock                          10,343      1,923       (6)       12,260
                                                     -------------------------------------------------
             Total fixed maturities                         647,207     46,528     (302)      693,433
         Equity Securities                                   14,360     23,368      (92)       37,636
                                                     -------------------------------------------------
              Total available for sale                   $  661,567   $ 69,896   $ (394)   $  731,069
                                                     -------------------------------------------------
</TABLE>

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

                                                            Cost/
                                                          Amortized       Gross Unrealized      Fair
                                                            Cost         Gains   (Losses)       Value
                                                          ---------      -----------------      ------
         1996
         -----                                                          
         Fixed maturities:
<S>                                                       <C>          <C>        <C>        <C>      
         U.S. Government & Agencies                       $   30,511   $    704   $ (467)    $  30,748
         States, Municipalites & Political Subdivisions       88,928      5,141     (276)       93,793
         Corporate                                           445,465     18,356   (4,425)      459,396
         Mortgage-backed Securities                           40,981      2,043     (119)       42,905
         Redeemable Preferred Stock                           13,456      1,002      (76)       14,382
                                                      -------------------------------------------------
             Total fixed maturities                          619,341     27,246   (5,363)      641,224
         Equity securities                                    13,419     17,311       (8)       30,722
                                                      -------------------------------------------------
             Total available for sale                     $  632,760   $ 44,557  $(5,371)    $ 671,946
                                                      -------------------------------------------------
</TABLE>


Farm Family Life Insurance Co. & Subsidiary  C-13
                                   
<PAGE>


         The table below  presents  the  amortized  cost and fair value of fixed
         maturities  at December  31,  1997,  by  contractual  maturity.  Actual
         maturities  may  differ  from  contractual  maturities  as a result  of
         prepayments.

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
         
($ in thousands)
                                                                 Amortized         Fair
                                                                   Cost            Value
<S>                                                       <C>               <C>          
         Due in one year or less                          $        5,592    $       5,923
         Due after one year through five years                    49,152           51,980
         Due after five years through ten years                   47,676           49,445
         Due after ten years                                     474,147          513,344
                                                            ---------------     ------------
                                                                 576,567          620,692
        Mortgage-backed Securities                                70,640           72,741
                                                            ---------------     ------------
           Total                                          $      647,207    $     693,433
                                                            ---------------   --------------
</TABLE>


         Expected  maturities  may differ from  contractual  maturities  because
         borrowers  may have the  right to call or  prepay  obligations  with or
         without call or prepayment  penalties.  Mortgage-backed  securities are
         included based on their final maturity.

         Unrealized  investment gains and losses on fixed maturities  classified
         as available for sale and equity  securities  included in stockholders'
         equity and participating  policyholders'  interest at December 31, 1997
         are as follows:
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

         ($ in thousands)                           Cost/                                       Net
                                                  Amortized    Fair     Gross Unrealized     Unrealized
                                                    Cost       Value    Gains     Losses       Gains
                                                  ---------   -------   ------    -------     --------
<S>                                           <C>         <C>       <C>      <C>        <C>          
         Fixed maturities available for sale  $   647,207 $ 693,433 $ 46,528 $    (302) $      46,226
         Equity securities                         14,360    37,636   23,368       (92)        23,276
                                               --------------------------------------------  ----------
                             Total           $    661,567 $ 731,069 $ 69,896 $    (394)        69,502
                                               --------------------------------------------  ----------
         Adjustment for assumed changes in
            amortization of deferred aquisition costs                                         (30,958)
         Provision for deferred income tax                                                    (13,479)
                                                                                             -----------
           Total net unrealized gain                                                           25,065
         Net unrealized gain attibutable to participating 
            policyholders' interest                                                           (23,470)
                                                                                          -------------
         Net unrealized gain attributable to common stockholders                       $        1,595
                                                                                          -------------  
</TABLE>
Farm Family Life Insurance Co. & Subsidiary  C-14

<PAGE>


         The change in unrealized  appreciation  (depreciation)  of  investments
         included  in  stockholders'  equity  and  participating  policyholders'
         interest for the years ended  December  31, 1997,  1996 and 1995 was as
         follows:
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

         ($ in thousands)                                                    1997         1996       1995
                                                                            ------       ------     ------
<S>                                                                    <C>         <C>         <C>        
         Fixed maturities available for sale                           $    24,342 $  (23,784) $    67,005
         Equity securities                                                   5,972      5,361        2,229
                                                                       ------------------------------------
                                                                            30,314    (18,423)      69,234
         Adjustment for assumed changes in amoritizaition of
         deferred aquisition costs                                         (14,430)     7,138      (28,034)                        
         
         Provision for deferred income taxes                                (5,554)     3,961      (14,414)
                                                                       ------------------------------------
            Total change in unrealized appreciation (depreciation)          10,330     (7,324)      26,786
         
         Change im unrealized appreciation (depreciation) of 
         investments attributable to participating policyholders'
         interest                                                           (8,773)     7,097      (26,401)
                                                                       -------------------------------------
         Change in unrealized appreciation (depreciation) of
         investments attributable to common stockholders               $     1,557 $     (227) $       385
                                                                       -------------------------------------
</TABLE>



         The components of net investment income are as follows:
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

         ($ in thousands)                                   1997         1996         1995
                                                            ----         ----         ----
<S>                                                 <C>           <C>          <C>         
         Interest on fixed maturities               $      52,130 $     51,262 $     48,516
         Dividends from equity securities                     937          860          837
         Interest on mortgage loans                         1,232        1,865        2,579
         Interest on short-term investments                   432          393          625
         Interest on policy loans                           1,664        1,638        1,698
         Real estate                                           23           23           23
         Other, net                                           333        1,065          305
                                                    ----------------------------------------
             Total investment income                        56,751       57,106       54,583
         Investment expense                                 (1,787)      (1,378)      (2,011)
                                                    ----------------------------------------
             Net investment income                  $       54,964 $     55,728 $     52,572
                                                    ----------------------------------------
</TABLE>


Farm Family Life Insurance Co. & Subsidiary C-15

                                   
<PAGE>


         A summary of realized investment gains (losses), net as follows:

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
         ($ in thousands)                                1997          1996         1995
                                                         ----          ----         ----
<S>                                               <C>          <C>           <C>         
         Fixed maturities                         $      (606) $         593 $        462
         Equity securities                               3,520          (309)       5,190
                                                   ----------------------------------------
            Total                                  $     2,914 $         284 $      5,652
                                                   ----------------------------------------
</TABLE>

    4.  Fair Value of Financial Instruments

         The estimated fair value of financial  instruments  has been determined
         using available market information and appropriate value methodologies.
         The estimated fair value of financial  instruments  are not necessarily
         indicative  of the amounts  the Company  might pay or receive in actual
         market  transactions.  Potential taxes and other transaction costs have
         not been  considered  in  estimating  fair  value.  As a number  of the
         Company's  significant  assets  and  liabilities   (including  deferred
         acquisition  costs,  and  deferred  income  taxes)  are not  considered
         financial  instruments,  the disclosures that follow do not reflect the
         fair value of the Company as a whole.

         The following  table  presents the carrying value and fair value of the
         Company's financial instruments at December 31, 1997 and 1996.

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
         ($ in thousands)                             December 31, 1997           December 31, 1996
                                                      -----------------           -----------------
                                                     Carrying        Fair        Carrying       Fair
                                                      Value         Value         Value        Value
         Assets
         ------
<S>                                           <C>            <C>          <C>            <C>         
         Fixed maturities available for sale  $      693,433 $    693,433 $      641,224 $    641,224
         Equity securities                            37,636       37,636         30,722       30,722
         Mortgage loans on real estate                15,151       15,151         13,919       13,919
         Policy loans                                 28,937       28,937         28,841       28,841
         Other  invested assets                          741          741          1,250        1,250
         Cash and short-term investments               7,345        7,345         12,142       12,142
         Accrued investment income                    13,954       13,954         13,837       13,837
         Other assets                                  1,782        1,782          1,139        1,139
         Liabilities
         -----------
         Other liabilities                             3,552        3,552          5,047        5,047
         Accrued dividends to policyholders            5,268        5,268          5,024        5,024
         Funds on deposit from policyholders         423,495      420,918        421,227      421,004
         PayPayable to affiliate                      17,888       17,888         16,133       16,133
</TABLE>


Farm Family Life Insurace Co. & Subsidiary  C-16
                                   
<PAGE>


         The following  methods and assumptions were used in estimating the fair
         value disclosures for the financial instruments:

           Fixed maturities,  equity securities and other invested assets -- The
            fair value is based upon quoted  market  prices  where  available or
            from independent pricing services.

           Mortgage  loans  on  real  estate  -- The  fair  value  is  based  on
            discounted  cash flows using  discount  rates at which similar loans
            would be made to borrowers with similar characteristics.

          Cash and short-term  investments,  accrued dividends to policyholders,
            accrued  investment income,  other assets,  payable to affiliate and
            other  liabilities -- Due to their short-term  highly liquid nature,
            their carrying value approximates the fair value.

           Policy Loans -- Future cash flows of policy loans are  uncertain  and
            difficult to predict.  As a result,  management deems it impractical
            to calculate the fair value of policy loans.

           Funds  on  deposit  from   policyholders  --  Deposit  funds  include
            investment  contracts that earn interest at either fixed or variable
            rates. Interest rates are adjusted monthly to market rates for those
            investment contracts with a variable rate. The carrying value is the
            fair value for these  liabilities.  Other investment  contracts earn
            interest at a fixed rate for one,  three or  five-year  terms.  Fair
            value for these liabilities is set by discounting  future cash flows
            to present value at current market rates.

   5.   Property and Equipment

         Property  and  equipment  are  carried  at  cost,  net  of  accumulated
         depreciation.  The Company depreciates property using the straight line
         method over the estimated useful lives ranging from 18 to 30 years. The
         Company  depreciates  equipment using the straight line method over the
         estimated useful lives ranging from 3 to 7 years.  Depreciation expense
         was $2,686,000  $2,556,000,  and  $2,505,000 for 1997,  1996, and 1995,
         respectively. Affiliates of the Company rent a portion of the Company's
         property and equipment (see Note 9). The Company received  depreciation
         expense  recoveries of $2,242,000  $2,134,000  and  $1,972,000 in 1997,
         1996,  and  1995  from  affiliates  for  the  rental  of  property  and
         equipment.

Farm Family Life Insurace Co. & Subsidiary  C-17
                                 

<PAGE>


     The carrying  value of the Company's  property and equipment at December 31
     is as follows:
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

         ($ in thousands)                                                       1997         1996
                                                                               ------       ------
<S>                                                                             <C>         <C>   
         Home office building                                                   $9,914      $9,790
         Furniture and equipment                                                15,550      14,555
         Automobiles                                                               832         775
                                                                           ------------------------
                                                                                26,296      25,120
         Accumulated depreciation                                              (13,581)    (11,206)
                                                                           ------------------------
              Property and equipment, net                                      $12,715     $13,914
                                                                           ------------------------
</TABLE>


    6.  Reinsurance

         Life and Accident & Health Insurance:

         The Company cedes life  insurance  and  disability  income  business to
         several unaffiliated  reinsurers.  Reinsurance contracts do not relieve
         the  Company  from its  obligations  to  policyholders  as the  primary
         insurer.   The  Company  evaluates  the  financial   condition  of  its
         reinsurers  and  monitors  concentrations  of credit risk  arising from
         similar geographic regions,  activities and economic characteristics of
         the  reinsurers  to minimize  its exposure to  significant  losses from
         reinsurer insolvencies.  Reinsurance receivables consist principally of
         amounts due from four unaffiliated reinsurers, each of which were rated
         "A"  (Excellent)  or above  by the  A.M.  Best  Company,  Inc.  Amounts
         recoverable are regularly evaluated by the Company and an allowance for
         uncollectible  reinsurance is provided when  collection is in doubt. At
         December 31, 1997 and 1996, the Company determined it was not necessary
         to provide an allowance for uncollectible reinsurance.

         The  Company's  retention  limit is  $400,000  per life for  individual
         coverage,  with lower  retentions  applicable to group and  substandard
         risks. Level term life insurance is written on a 50% quota share basis.
         As of December 31, 1997,  $335,846,000  of life  insurance  inforce was
         ceded to other companies.

The effect of reinsurance on life and accident & health  premiums and recoveries
is as follows:

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

          ($ in thousands)                                               
                                                                       Year Ended December 31,
                                                                       -----------------------
                                                                   1997           1996          1995
                                                             -----------------------------------------
<S>                                                              <C>            <C>           <C>    
          Direct Premiums                                        $31,479        $31,151       $30,052
          Reinsurance  Ceded                                       (974)          (829)         (694)
                                                             -----------------------------------------
          Net Premiums                                           $30,505        $30,322       $29,358
                                                             -----------------------------------------
                                                             -----------------------------------------
          Reinsurance Recoveries                                    $785           $416          $224
                                                             -----------------------------------------
                                                             -----------------------------------------
</TABLE>

Farm Family Life Insurance Co. & Subsidiary C-18
                                   

<PAGE>


         Property and Casualty:

         The Company assumes all of its property and casualty  business from its
         affiliate,   Farm  Family  Casualty,  (See  Note  9).  The  effects  of
         reinsurance on property and casualty  premiums written and earned,  and
         losses and loss  adjustment  expenses,  for the years indicated were as
         follows:
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                                             Year Ended December 31,
         ($ in thousands)                                                 1997          1996        1995
                                                                          ----          ----        ----                            
         Premiums written
<S>                                                                 <C>         <C>          <C>        
            Direct                                                  $        39 $        115 $       105
            Assumed from Farm Family Casualty                             8,959        9,336       9,237
            Ceded to Farm Family Casualty                                    (3)          (6)         (5)
            Ceded to non-affiliates                                          (1)          (4)         (4)
                                                                    -------------------------------------
            Premiums written, net of reinsurance                    $     8,994 $      9,441 $     9,333
                                                                    -------------------------------------

         Premiums earned
            Direct                                                  $        64 $        116 $        99
            Assumed from Farm Family Casualty                             8,960        9,334       9,238
            Ceded to Farm Family Casualty                                    (3)          (6)         (5)
            Ceded to non-affiliates                                          (1)          (4)         (4)
                                                                    -------------------------------------
            Premiums earned, net of reinsurance                     $     9,020 $      9,440 $     9,328
                                                                    -------------------------------------

         Losses and loss adjustment expense
            Direct                                                  $       270 $        479 $       343
            Assumed from Farm Family  Casualty                            9,705        7,277       6,604
                                                                    -------------------------------------
            Losses and loss adjustment expenses,
                net of reinsurance                                  $     9,975 $      7,756 $     6,947
                                                                    -------------------------------------
</TABLE>



         Effective  December 31, 1997, the reinsurance  agreement between United
         Farm Family and its affiliate, Farm Family Casualty, was terminated.

Farm Family Life Insurance Co. & Subsidiary C-19
                                   
<PAGE>


    7.  Income Taxes

          The  components of the deferred  income tax assets and  liabilities at
          December 31, 1997 and 1996 are as follows:

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
          ($ in thousands)
          Deferred Income Tax Assets                                             1997           1996
          Future policy and contract benefits and funds
<S>                                                                         <C>            <C>                                  
           on deposit from policyholders                                    $     11,742   $    10,752                          
          Reserves for losses and loss adjustment expenses                         1,305         1,018
          Unearned premium reserve                                                     6             8
          Investments                                                                729           469
          Other                                                                    2,321         2,071
                                                                            -------------  ------------
          Total deferred income tax assets                                        16,103        14,318
                                                                            -------------  ------------

          Deferred Income Tax Liabilities
          Deferred acquisition costs                                              18,972        17,966
          Unrealized investment gains, net                                        13,479         7,924
          Other                                                                   17,476        13,513
                                                                            -------------  ------------
          Total deferred income tax liabilities                                   49,927        39,403
                                                                            -------------  ------------
          Net deferred income tax liability                                 $    (33,824)   $  (25,085)
                                                                            -------------  ------------
</TABLE>
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>


         The components of income tax expense are as follows:

          ($ in thousands)                                         Year Ended December 31,
                                                           -------------------------------------
                                                                 1997          1996           1995
                                                                 ----          ----           ----
<S>                                                      <C>                   <C>    <C>                                           
          Current                                        $       6,059         4,367  $       6,585                                 
          Deferred                                              (4,357)       (2,831)        (4,284)
                                                         --------------     --------- --------------
          Total income tax expense                       $       1,702         1,536  $       2,301                                 
                                                         -------------      --------- -------------- 
                                                         -------------      --------- --------------


</TABLE>


The Company paid income taxes of $6,398,000,  $4,484,000 and $6,371,000 in 1997,
1996 and 1995, respectively.

Farm Family Life Insurance Co. & Subsidiary   C-20
                                  

<PAGE>


A reconciliation of the differences between the Company's effective rates of tax
and the United States federal income tax rates follows:
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

                                                         Year Ended December 31,
                                               --------------------------------------------------
                                                        % of               % of               % of
         ($ in thousands)                               Pretax            Pretax             Pretax
                                                1997    Income     1996   Income      1995   Income
                                                ----    ------     ----   ------      ----   ------
        <S>                                  <C>         <C>    <C>        <C>    <C>         <C>   
        Income tax prevision at
          prevailing rates                   $   1,745   34.61% $   1,553  34.61% $   2,333   34.61%
         Tax effect of:
           Tax exempt interest income              (24)  (0.47)       (87) (1.94)       (79)  (1.17)
           Dividends received deduction            (86)  (1.71)       (24) (0.52)       (54)  (0.80)
           Other, net                               67    1.33         94   2.09        101    1.50
                                                    --    ----         --   ----        ---    ----
           Federal income tax expense        $   1,702   33.76% $   1,536  34.24% $   2,301   34.14%
                                                =======  ======     ====== ======     ======  ======
</TABLE>


    8.  Benefits Plans

        Pension Plan:
         The Company and Farm Family Casualty sponsor a qualified multi-employer
         noncontributory defined benefit pension plan covering substantially all
         of the Company's  and Farm Family  Casualty's  full-time  employees who
         meet the eligibility requirements.  Benefits under the pension plan are
         primarily  based  upon  the  employee's   length  of  service  and  the
         employee's  average  compensation  for certain  periods during the last
         years of  employment.  The  Company's  funding  policy for its  defined
         benefit pension plan is to make annual contributions in accordance with
         accepted   actuarial  cost  methods   subject  to  regulatory   funding
         limitations.  Effective  January 1, 1997,  the  Company and Farm Family
         Casualty froze benefits  available through the defined benefit plan. In
         addition,  the Company implemented a voluntary early retirement program
         in the fourth quarter of 1996 (see Note 12).

         The net pension expense for the plan is as follows:

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                      
                                                                       Year Ended December 31,
          ($ in thousands)                                        1997           1996           1995
                                                        ---------------------------------------------
<S>                                                     <C>             <C>             <C>         
          Service cost                                  $       $ ----  $         869   $        708
          Interest cost on projected benefit                     1,429          1,411          1,384
          obligation
          Actual return on plan assets                          (1,502)          (854)        (1,844)
          Net amortization (deferral)                               73           (447)           632
                                                        ---------------------------------------------
          Total net periodic pension expense            $         ----  $       3,048   $        880
                                                        ---------------------------------------------
                                                        ---------------------------------------------
</TABLE>



         The Company incurred no net periodic pension expense in 1997 due to the
         freezing of the plan.  The  Company's  portion of net periodic  pension
         expense,  excluding  the  expense  of the  voluntary  early  retirement
         program,  for the years ended  December  31, 1996 and 1995 was $461,000
         and $323,000,  respectively.  In addition, the Company's portion of the
         expense related to the voluntary early retirement  program was $914,000
         for 1996.

Farm Family Life Insurance Co. & Subsidiary  C-21
                                   
<PAGE>


Assumptions used in the determination of pension obligations and assets were:
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

                                                                              Year Ended December 31,

                                                                           1997        1996       1995
                                                                        ----------------------------------
<S>                                                                           <C>        <C>        <C>  
          Weighted-average discount rate                                      7.00%      7.00%      6.40%
          Rate of increase in compensation levels                             0.00%      4.00%      3.40%
          Expected long-term rate of return on plan assets                    8.00%      8.00%      8.00%
</TABLE>


Since  benefits  under the plan were  frozen as of January 1, 1997,  the rate of
increase in compensation levels assumption for 1997 is 0.00%.

The following table summarizes the funded status of the pension plan:



<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
          ($ in thousands)
                                                                             Year Ended December 31,
                                                                               1997             1996
                                                                       --------------------------------
          Actuarial present value of benefit obligations:
<S>                                                                     <C>            <C>                                          
             Vested                                                     $      20,785  $        21,075                              
             Nonvested                                                            ---              ---
                                                                       --------------------------------
          Accumulated benefit obligation                                       20,785           21,075
          Effect of projected future salary increases on past service             ---              ---
                                                                       --------------------------------
          Projected benefit obligation                                         20,785           21,075
          Plan assets at fair value                                            19,026           18,881
                                                                       --------------------------------
          Projected benefit obligation in excess of plan assets         $      (1,759)  $       (2,194)                             
                                                                       --------------------------------
</TABLE>
Farm Family Life Insurance Co. & Subsidiary   C-22
                                  
<PAGE>

         Plan assets  primarily  consist of cash,  U.S.  government  securities,
         municipal and corporate  debt  instruments,  common stock mutual funds,
         and an insurance group annuity contract.

         The accrued pension liability of the plan is as follows:
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

           ($ in thousands)                                                   Year Ended December 31,
                                                                               1997             1998
                                                                       --------------------------------
<S>                                                                    <C>              <C>           
           Projected benefit obligation in excess of plan assets       $      (1,759)   $      (2,194)
           Unrecognized prior service asset                                      ---              ---
           Unrecognized net gain from past experience different
             from that assumed                                                   ---              ---
           Unrecognized net asset at transition                                  ---              ---
           Minimum liability adjustment                                          ---              ---
                                                                       --------------------------------
             Accrued pension liability                                 $      (1,759)   $      (2,194)
                                                                       --------------------------------
                                                                       --------------------------------
</TABLE>


         The Company's  portion of the accrued pension liability is $766,000 and
         $914,000 for the years ended  December 31, 1997 and 1996,  respectively
         and  is  included  in  payable  to   affiliate   on  the   accompanying
         consolidated balance sheets.

         Incentive Savings Plan:

         The Company and Farm Family Casualty sponsor employee incentive savings
         plans which are  qualified  under  Section 401 of the Internal  Revenue
         Code. Under the provisions of these plans,  employees may contribute up
         to 15% of their eligible compensation, with up to 6% being eligible for
         matching   contributions  from  the  Company.   In  1997,  the  Company
         contributed to the plans a matching contribution of 50% of the first 6%
         of eligible  compensation  deferred by each eligible employee and, as a
         percentage  of  each  employee's  eligible   compensation,   a  regular
         contribution  of 3%, a profit  sharing  contribution  of 3% and a money
         purchase  contribution  of 3%. The profit  sharing  contribution  and a
         portion of the matching  contributions made by the Company in 1997 were
         discretionary.  In  1997,  the  Company  established  a  non  qualified
         unfunded  supplemental  plan for  those  employees  whose  compensation
         exceeds the Internal  Revenue Code  compensation  limits for  qualified
         plans.  The Company's  expense  associated with the plans was $575,000,
         $112,000 and $86,000 in 1997, 1996 and 1995, respectively.  In 1995 and
         1996, the Company  contributed 1% of eligible  compensation (up to $240
         per employee) to the plan for all eligible employees.

         Postretirement Benefits Other Than Pensions:

         The Company and Farm Family  Casualty  provide life insurance  benefits
         for  retired  employees  meeting  certain  age and  length  of  service
         requirements.  The Company's  postretirement  benefit plan is currently
         unfunded and noncontributory. Benefits under the postretirement benefit
         plan are provided by a group term life insurance policy.

         Net  periodic  postretirement  benefit  expense  for  the  years  ended
         December 31, 1997, 1996, and 1995 included the following:
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

  
                                                             1997         1996          1995
                                                        -------------------------------------
<S>                                                         <C>          <C>          <C>   
           Service cost                                     $   26       $   27       $   37
           Interest cost                                        66           63           73
           Return on assets                                   ----         ----         ----
           Amortization of transition obligation                47           47           47
           Amortization of unrecognized net gain               (1)         ----         ----
           Voluntary early retirement program                 ----           41         ----
                                                        -------------------------------------
                                               Total:       $  138      $   178       $  157
                                                        -------------------------------------
                                                        -------------------------------------    
</TABLE>
Farm Family Life Insurance Co. & Subsidiary    C-23
                                 
<PAGE>

         The Company's  portion of net periodic  postretirement  benefit expense
         for the years  ended  December  31,  1997,  1996 and 1995 was  $58,000,
         $40,000 and  $67,000.  The  Company's  portion of the  voluntary  early
         retirement program expense in 1996 was $18,000.

         The plan's postretirement benefit obligation reconciled with the plan's
         funded status and the amount  recognized  on the Farm Family  Holdings,
         Inc. consolidated balance sheets was as follows:
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
       ($ in thousands)
                                                                              1997            1996
                                                                       ------------------------------
         Accumulated postretirement benefit obligation:
<S>                                                                    <C>             <C>          
            Retirees                                                   $       (492)   $       (487)
            Other fully eligible plan participants                             (221)           (182)
            Other active plan participants                                     (276)           (293)
                                                                       ------------------------------
            Obligation at year-end                                             (989)           (962)
         Plan assets                                                            ---             ---
                                                                       ------------------------------
         Funded status                                                         (989)           (962)
         Unrecognized transition obligation                                     759             805
         Unrecognized net loss                                                 (105)            (95)
                                                                       ------------------------------
            Accrued postretirement benefit liability                   $       (335)   $       (252)
                                                                       ------------------------------
                                                                       ------------------------------
</TABLE>


         The discount  rate used to  determine  the  accumulated  postretirement
         benefit obligation was 7.0% at December 31, 1997 and 1996.

    9.  Related Party Transactions

         The  operations  of the Company are closely  related  with those of its
         affiliates,  Farm Family  Holdings,  Farm Family  Casualty and with the
         Company's  subsidiary,  United Farm Family.  The  affiliated  Companies
         operate  under  similar  Boards of Directors  and have  similar  senior
         management.  The Company and its  affiliates  are parties to an Expense
         Sharing  Agreement  which provides for the sharing of certain  expenses
         among the parties  and  defines  the methods to be used for  allocating
         such expenses. The Companies share home office premises,  branch office
         facilities,  data  processing  equipment,  certain  personnel and other
         operational  expenses.  Shared  expenses are  allocated to each Company
         based on allocation  methods defined in the Expense Sharing  Agreement.
         The primary  allocation  method that is utilized for shared expenses is
         the Weighted Time Method. The Weighted Time Method allocates the actual
         cost of  shared  expenses  based on a series  of  ratios  derived  from
         weighted  time studies  conducted  from time to time for the purpose of
         allocating  shared  expenses on a basis to reflect  actual  usage.  All
         expenses  incurred on the Company's  behalf by its affiliates have been
         reflected in the accompanying financial statements. Management believes
         the costs  incurred by its  affiliates and allocated to the Company are
         reasonable.  During the normal  course of business  the  aforementioned
         transactions  result in  intercompany  balances  that are  settled on a
         monthly basis.
 
Farm Family Life Insurance Co. & Subsidiary    C-24
                                 

<PAGE>


The gross shared expenses and the Company's share of such expenses is summarized
below:
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

         ($ in thousands)
                                                                            Year Ended December 31,
                                                                          1997         1996          1995
                                                                          ----         ----          ----
<S>                                                                    <C>          <C>           <C>    
         Gross Shared Expenses                                         $29,364      $30,689       $26,650
         Company's Share:
             Amount                                                     $9,685      $10,777       $10,468
             Percentage                                                    33%          35%           39%
</TABLE>


         The Company held $813,000 of debentures  issued by Farm Family Casualty
         in 1995. In July 1996, Farm Family Casualty  repurchased the debentures
         owned by the Company for the principal  amount of $813,000 plus accrued
         interest of $37,000. The Company received interest income of $37,000 in
         1996  and  $65,000  in 1995 on the  debentures  issued  by Farm  Family
         Casualty.

         Farm  Family  Casualty's   reinsurance  program  includes   reinsurance
         agreements  with United Farm Family.  In accordance with the provisions
         of these  reinsurance  agreements,  the Company  recognized  commission
         expenses of approximately $63,000, $191,000 and $2,000 during the years
         ended December 31, 1997, 1996 and 1995 respectively. Effective December
         31, 1997, United Farm Family terminated all reinsurance agreements with
         Farm  Family  Casualty.  A summary  of the  effect  of the  reinsurance
         agreements with Farm Family Casualty on premiums  written and earned is
         described in Note 6.

         Amounts  payable to  affiliate  represent  amounts  due to Farm  Family
         Casualty  pursuant to a  reinsurance  agreement and amounts due to Farm
         Family Casualty for shared expenses as well as the Company's portion of
         the accrued pension liability (see Note 8).

         Rental income  received from affiliates for leased home office space is
         recorded as other income on the accompanying consolidated statements of
         income and comprehensive income. Rental income received from affiliates
         for use of other  property and  equipment is recorded as a reduction to
         operating  expenses  on the  accompanying  consolidated  statements  of
         income and comprehensive income.

        Reserves for Losses and Loss Adjustment Expenses

         As described in Note 1, the Company establishes reserves for losses and
         loss  adjustment  expenses on reported  and  incurred  but not reported
         claims of insured losses. The establishment of appropriate reserves for
         losses and loss adjustment expenses is an inherently  uncertain process
         and the ultimate cost may vary  materially  from the recorded  amounts.
         Reserve  estimates are regularly  reviewed and updated,  using the most
         current information. Any resulting adjustments,  which may be material,
         are reflected in current operations.

Farm Family Life Insurance Co. & Subsidiary    C-25
                                 
<PAGE>



         Reserves  for losses  and loss  adjustment  expenses  are  included  in
         payable to affiliate on the  accompanying  consolidated  balance sheets
         pursuant to a reinsurance  agreement between United Farm Family and the
         Company's affiliate, Farm Family Casualty.

         The following table provides a  reconciliation  of beginning and ending
         liability balances for reserves for losses and loss adjustment expenses
         for the years ended December 31, 1997, 1996 and 1995.
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                                                     Year Ended December 31,
                                                                                 1997        1996         1995
                                                                                 ----        ----         ----
         ($ in thousands)
         Reserves for losses and loss adjustment
<S>                                                                            <C>         <C>          <C>   
               expenses at beginning of year                                   16,785      15,363       14,006
         Less reinsurance recoverables and receivables                              -           -            -
                                                                          -------------------------------------
         Net reserves for losses and loss adjustment
               expenses at beginning of year                                   16,785      15,363       14,006
                                                                          -------------------------------------
         Incurred losses and loss adjustment expenses:
         Provision for insured events of current year                           9,785       8,157        8,177
         Increase (decrease) in provision for
                insured events of prior years                                     190        (401)      (1,230)
                                                                          -------------------------------------
                  Total incurred losses and loss adjustment expenses            9,975       7,756        6,947
                                                                          -------------------------------------

         Payments:
         Losses and loss adjustment expenses
             attributable to insured events of current year                     1,839       1,579        1,749
         Losses and loss adjustment expenses
             attributable to insured events of prior years                                  4,755
                                                                                7,498                    3,841
                                                                          -------------------------------------
                  Total payments                                                9,337       6,334        5,590
                                                                          -------------------------------------
         Net reserves for losses and loss
              adjustment expenses at end of year                               17,423      16,785       15,363
         Plus reinsurance recoverables and receivables                              -           -            -
                                                                          -------------------------------------
         Reserves for losses and loss adjustment
             expenses at end of year                                          $17,423     $16,785      $15,363
                                                                          -------------------------------------
                                                                          -------------------------------------
</TABLE>
Farm Family Life Insurance Co. & Subsidiary   C-26
                                  
<PAGE>


         10.      Dividends and Statutory Financial Information

         The Company's  payment of dividends to stockholders is regulated by New
         York state insurance law and is subject to certain limitations based on
         statutory  stockholder  surplus.  The Company  paid  dividends  to it's
         stockholders of $480,000 in 1997, 1996 and 1995.

         Farm Family  Life's net income and capital and surplus as determined in
         accordance with statutory accounting practices are as follows:

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

          ($ in thousands)
                                                                         1997        1996       1995
          ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
<S>                                                                       <C>         <C>        <C>   
          Net income                                                      $10,106     $8,111     $9,255
          Capital and surplus attributable
          to participating policyholders                                   
               and stockholders                                            92,237     74,081     61,801

          ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
 </TABLE>
                                 

        The National  Association of Insurance  Commissioners  ("NAIC") requires
        insurance   companies  to  calculate   and  report  risk  based  capital
        information  under a set of formulas which measure statutory capital and
        surplus  needs  based  on a  regulatory  definition  of the  risks  in a
        company's  mix of products  and its balance  sheet.  As of December  31,
        1997,  Farm Family Life's total capital  exceeds the threshold  level of
        regulatory action, as defined by the NAIC.

   11.  Commitments, Contingencies and Uncertainties

         The Company is party to numerous  legal  actions  arising in the normal
         course of business.  Management believes that resolution of these legal
         actions  will not have a material  adverse  effect on its  consolidated
         financial condition.

         The Company is a party to Membership List Purchase Agreements with each
         of the  state  Farm  Bureaus  in the ten  states  in which it  conducts
         business.  The  Membership  List Purchase  Agreements are for six years
         commencing  on January 1, 1996.  For the years ended  December 31, 1997
         and  1996,  the  Company  paid a total of  approximately  $600,000  and
         $571,000, respectively, to the Farm Bureaus, pursuant to the Membership
         List  Purchase  Agreements.  For the  year  ended  December  31,  1995,
         $547,000  was  paid to the Farm  Bureaus  under  substantially  similar
         Membership List Purchase Agreements in effect for the period.

         During  1996,  the  Company  entered  into a capital  lease for certain
         electronic data processing equipment that expires on September 1, 1999.
         At December 31, 1997,  the gross amount of property and  equipment  and
         related accumulated  depreciation  recorded under the capital lease was
         $698,000 and $140,000,  respectively.  The future minimum capital lease
         payments as of December  31, 1997 were  $255,000  for 1998 and $170,000
         for 1999. The present value of net minimum capital lease payments as of
         December 31, 1997 was $403,000.

Farm Family Life Insurance Co. & Subsidiary   C-27
                                  
<PAGE>

         At December 31, 1997,  the Company had an available line of credit with
         a bank for $5,000,000.  There were no amounts  outstanding on this line
         of credit at December 31, 1997.

         The  Company's  liability  for  funds  on  deposit  from  policyholders
         includes  amounts  subject to  discretionary  withdrawal  from  annuity
         investment  contracts.  Withdrawal  characteristics  of annuity deposit
         liabilities as of December 31, 1997 are as follows:
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

          ($ in thousands)                                                Amount               % of Total
          Subject to discretionary
          withdrawal at book
<S>                                                                <C>                                <C> 
               value less surrender                                $        7,733                     2.4%
          charge of 5% or more
          Subject to discretionary
          withdrawal at  book
               value less no or                                           301,621                    94.5%
          minimal surrender charge
          Not subject to discretionary                                      9,826                     3.1%
          withdrawal
                                                                   ---------------         ----------------
              Total annuities and deposit fund liabilities                319,180                   100.0%                          
                                                                   ---------------         ----------------
</TABLE>




         Although Farm Family Life's  primary  policy  administration  system is
         Year 2000 compliant, many of Farm Family Life's other existing computer
         programs  use only two  digits to  identify  a year in the date  field.
         These  programs  were designed and developed  without  considering  the
         impact of the upcoming change in the century. If not corrected, many of
         these computer  applications  could fail or create erroneous results by
         or at the  Year  2000.  The  Year  2000  issue  affects  virtually  all
         companies  and  organizations.  Therefore,  Farm  Family Life must also
         coordinate  with other entities with which it interacts to ensure these
         entities are also addressing the Year 2000 issue.  If not  successfully
         addressed, the Year 2000 issue could have material adverse consequences
         on Farm Family Life. Farm Family Life has an on-going,  enterprise-wide
         project to address its Year 2000 issue.  During 1998,  Farm Family Life
         will perform  system-wide  testing to support its plan of becoming Year
         2000 compliant. Year 2000 work will continue through 1999. In addition,
         Farm Family  Life has  contacted  other  entities on which it relies to
         process and support its business.  Farm Family Life will react to their
         plans to achieve Year 2000  compliance  and will adjust  operations  as
         required.  Farm Family Life believes it will  successfully  address its
         Year 2000 issue without  material  adverse  consequences to Farm Family
         Life. However, there can be no assurance that other entities with which
         Farm Family Life  interacts  will achieve Year 2000  compliance or that
         the failure by such entities to achieve Year 2000 compliance  would not
         have a material adverse effect on Farm Family Life.

Farm Family Life Insurance Co. & Subsidiary    C-28
                                 
<PAGE>
   12.   Non-Recurring Expenses

         Pursuant to the  Statement of Financial  Accounting  Standards  No. 87,
         "Employers'   Accounting  for   Pensions,"   the  Company   recorded  a
         nonrecurring  expense,  net of an income tax  benefit of  $320,000,  of
         $594,000  for the  Company's  share of the costs of a  voluntary  early
         retirement  program  offered to  certain  eligible  employees  in 1996.
         Eligibility for the program was based on age and years of service.

         The  Company  recorded  a  nonrecurring  expense,  net of an income tax
         benefit of $237,000, of $470,000 for costs incurred by the shareholders
         of the Company relating to the acquisition of Farm Family Life.

   13.   Future Application of Accounting Standards

         In June 1997, the Financial Accounting Standards Board issued Statement
         No. 130  "Comprehensive  Income",  ("Statement  130") which establishes
         standards for the reporting and disclosure of comprehensive  income and
         its components (revenues,  expenses,  gains and losses).  Statement 130
         requires  that all  items  that are  required  to be  recognized  under
         accounting  standards as components of comprehensive income be reported
         in a financial  statement that is displayed with the same prominence as
         other financial  statements.  Statement 130 requires that an enterprise
         (a) classify items of other  comprehensive  income by their nature in a
         financial  statement and (b) display the  accumulated  balance of other
         comprehensive  income  separately from retained earnings and additional
         paid-in  capital in the  equity  section of a  statement  of  financial
         position.  Statement  130 is effective  for the fiscal years  beginning
         after December 15, 1997. The Company has adopted  Statement 130 in 1998
         and  restated  prior  years  financial  statements  to  conform to this
         reporting standard.

Farm Family Insurance Co. & Subsidiary   C-29

<PAGE>

The Board of Directors recommends a vote FOR proposals I and II

Proposal I:       Approval and  adoption of the Amended and Restated  Option
                  Purchase Agreement,  dated as of February 26, 1998, as amended
                  by Amendment No. 1, dated as of April 28, 1998 (as so amended,
                  the  "Option  Purchase  Agreement")  among the Company and the
                  stockholders of Farm Family Life Insurance  Company (the "Life
                  Company").

FOR  [  ]         AGAINST  [  ]            ABSTAIN [  ]

Proposal II:      Approval  of  the   consummation   of  the   transactions
                  contemplated in the Option Purchase  Agreement,  including the
                  Company's  acquisition of all of the outstanding capital stock
                  of the Life Company at a purchase price of $37.5 million, less
                  certain  expenses,  payable in shares of the Company's  common
                  stock,  par value $.01 per share,  and 6 1/8% Preferred Stock,
                  Series A, par value $.01 per share.

FOR  [  ]         AGAINST  [  ]            ABSTAIN  [  ]

In their discretion, the proxies are authorized to vote upon such other business
as may  properly  come  before  the  Special  Meeting or any  adjournment(s)  or
postponement(s) thereof.

                                          I plan to attend  [  ]
                                          the Special Meeting


                                          Change of Address and
                                          or Comments Mark Here  [  ]

                      Please sign exactly as your name(s) appear(s) to the left.
                      (Joint owners should each sign.)  When signing as an
                      attorney,  executor,  administrator,  trustee,  guardian 
                      or corporate officer, please give your full title as such.

                      Dated:                                      , 1998

                                           Signature


                                          (Additional signature(s)
                                              if held jointly)

                     Votes MUST be indicated (X) in Black or Blue ink.


Please mark,  sign and date on this side of this Proxy Card and return it in the
postage-paid envelope provided.
<PAGE>

                                 PROXY CARD


FARM FAMILY HOLDINGS, INC.
344 Route 9W
Glenmont, New York 12077

THIS  PROXY IS  SOLICITED  ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF  DIRECTORS  OF FARM  FAMILY
HOLDINGS, INC.

PROXY CARD

     The  person(s)  signing  the front of this  Proxy  Card  hereby  appoint(s)
William M. Stamp, Jr., John W. Lincoln and Victoria M. Stanton,  or any of them,
lawful  attorneys-in-fact and proxies with full power of substitution in each of
them and hereby  authorize(s)  them to represent  and vote, as designated on the
reverse side hereof,  all shares of Common Stock of Farm Family  Holdings,  Inc.
(the  "Company")  standing  in the name of said  person(s)  with all powers said
person(s)  would possess if present at the Special  Meeting of  Stockholders  of
Farm Family  Holdings,  Inc. to be held on  Wednesday,  December 2, 1998 at 9:00
a.m., New York time, at the corporate  headquarters  of the Company at 344 Route
9W, Glenmont,  New York, or any  adjournment(s) or postponement(s)  thereof.  In
their  discretion,  the proxies are  authorized to vote upon such other business
(including  any business of which the Board of Directors  was not aware within a
reasonable time before the solicitation) as may properly come before the Special
Meeting or any adjournment(s) or postponement(s) thereof.

     This proxy,  properly  executed and returned,  will be voted as directed on
this card by the persons designated as proxies above. If no specific  directions
are given, this proxy will be voted "FOR" Proposal I and Proposal II.

(Continued, and to be dated and signed on reverse side.)


                                               FARM FAMILY HOLDINGS, INC.
                                               P.O. BOX 11098
                                               NEW YORK, N.Y. 10203-0098





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