CARRIAGE SERVICES INC
DEF 14A, 1999-03-30
PERSONAL SERVICES
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                           SCHEDULE 14A INFORMATION
          PROXY STATEMENT PURSUANT TO SECTION 14(A) OF THE SECURITIES
                    EXCHANGE ACT OF 1934 (AMENDMENT NO. __)

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                            CARRIAGE SERVICES, INC.
               (Name of Registrant as Specified in Its Charter)

                 W. CHRISTOPHER SCHAEPER, SNELL & SMITH, P.C.,
                 1000 LOUISIANA, SUITE 1200, HOUSTON, TX 77002
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                            [CARRIAGE SERVICES LOGO]

                            CARRIAGE SERVICES, INC.
                        1300 POST OAK BLVD., SUITE 1500
                              HOUSTON, TEXAS 77056

                                 March 30, 1999

Dear Carriage Stockholder:

     I am pleased to invite you to Carriage's Annual Meeting of Stockholders.
The meeting will be held at the Doubletree Hotel, 2001 Post Oak Blvd., Houston,
Texas 77056 on Tuesday, May 11, 1999, at 10:00 a.m., Houston time. If you cannot
be present at the Annual Meeting, I urge you to participate by completing the
enclosed proxy and returning it at your earliest convenience.

     At the meeting, you and the other stockholders will elect three directors
to Carriage's Board of Directors, and vote on certain other matters discussed in
the accompanying Proxy Statement. You will also have the opportunity to hear
what has happened in our business in the past year and to ask questions. I
encourage you to read the enclosed Notice of Meeting and Proxy Statement, which
contains information about the Board of Directors and its committees and
personal information about each of the nominees for the Board. The Proxy
Statement also describes in detail the other matters that will be voted upon at
the Annual Meeting.

     We hope you can join us on May 11. Whether or not you can attend
personally, it is important that your shares are represented at the Meeting.
Please MARK your votes on the enclosed proxy, SIGN AND DATE THE PROXY, and
RETURN it to us in the enclosed envelope. Your vote is important, so please
return your proxy promptly.

                                          Sincerely,

                                          MELVIN C. PAYNE
                                          CHAIRMAN OF THE BOARD AND
                                          CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER
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                            CARRIAGE SERVICES, INC.
                        1300 POST OAK BLVD., SUITE 1500
                              HOUSTON, TEXAS 77056

                    NOTICE OF ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                            TO BE HELD MAY 11, 1999

     Carriage Services, Inc. will hold its Annual Meeting of Stockholders at the
Doubletree Hotel, 2001 Post Oak Blvd., Houston, Texas 77056 on Tuesday, May 11,
1999, at 10:00 a.m., Houston time.

     We are holding this meeting:

      o   To elect three Class III directors, each for a three-year term
          expiring at the annual meeting of stockholders in 2002, and until
          their respective successors are elected and qualified.

      o   To amend Carriage's 1995 Stock Incentive Plan to increase the number
          of shares available thereunder from 950,000 to 1,450,000 shares.

      o   To amend Carriage's 1996 Stock Option Plan to increase the number of
          shares available thereunder from 800,000 to 1,300,000 shares.

      o   To amend Carriage's 1996 Directors' Stock Option Plan to increase the
          number of shares available thereunder from 200,000 to 350,000 shares,
          to provide for a one-time grant in October 1998 to certain eligible
          directors, and to expand the criteria for eligibility to participate.

      o   To ratify the selection of Arthur Andersen LLP as the independent
          public accountants of Carriage for 1999.

      o   To transact such other business as may properly come before the
          meeting or any adjournments thereof.

     Your Board of Directors has selected March 15, 1999, as the record date for
determining stockholders entitled to vote at the meeting. A list of stockholders
on that date will be available for inspection at the Company's corporate
headquarters, 1300 Post Oak Blvd., Suite 1500, Houston, Texas for ten days
before the meeting.

     You are cordially invited and urged to attend the Meeting. If, however, you
are unable to attend the Meeting, YOU ARE REQUESTED TO SIGN AND DATE THE
ACCOMPANYING PROXY AND RETURN IT PROMPTLY IN THE ENCLOSED ENVELOPE. If you
attend the Meeting, and wish to do so, you may vote in person regardless of
whether you have given your proxy. In any event, a proxy may be revoked at any
time before it is exercised.

     This Proxy Statement, proxy and Carriage's 1998 Annual Report to
Stockholders are being distributed on or about March 30, 1999.

                                          By Order of the Board of Directors

                                      /s/ THOMAS C. LIVENGOOD
                                          EXECUTIVE VICE PRESIDENT, CHIEF
                                          FINANCIAL OFFICER AND SECRETARY

Houston, Texas
March 30, 1999
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                               TABLE OF CONTENTS

                                        PAGE
                                        NO.
                                        ----
GENERAL INFORMATION..................     1
RECORD DATE AND VOTING SECURITIES....     3
SECURITY OWNERSHIP OF DIRECTORS,
  EXECUTIVE OFFICERS AND CERTAIN
  BENEFICIAL OWNERS..................     4
ELECTION OF DIRECTORS................     7
     General.........................     7
     Organization and Committees of
      the Board......................    10
SECTION 16(a) BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP
  REPORTING COMPLIANCE...............    10
CERTAIN TRANSACTIONS.................    11
EXECUTIVE COMPENSATION...............    13
     Summary Compensation Table......    13
     Stock Option Grants in 1998.....    14
     1998 Option Exercises and
      Year-End Option Holdings.......    15
     Compensation of Directors.......    15
     Employment Agreements...........    16
COMPENSATION COMMITTEE REPORT ON
  EXECUTIVE COMPENSATION.............    17
     Base Salaries...................    17
     Bonuses/Stock Option Grants for
      Executive Officers for 1998....    17
     Compensation Policies for the
      Chief Executive Officer........    18
COMPARATIVE STOCKHOLDER RETURN.......    19
COMPENSATION COMMITTEE INTERLOCKS AND
  INSIDER PARTICIPATION..............    20
AMENDMENT TO THE 1995 STOCK INCENTIVE
  PLAN...............................    20
     Amendment to Increase Authorized
      Shares.........................    20
     Summary Description of the 1995
      Plan...........................    21
AMENDMENT TO THE 1996 STOCK OPTION
  PLAN...............................    23
     Amendment to Increase Authorized
      Shares.........................    23
     Summary Description of the 1996
      Plan...........................    24
AMENDMENTS TO THE 1996 DIRECTORS'
  STOCK OPTION PLAN..................    25
     Amendments to 1996 Directors'
      Stock Option Plan..............    25
     Summary Description of the 1996
      Directors' Stock Option Plan...    26
RATIFICATION OF SELECTION OF
  INDEPENDENT PUBLIC ACCOUNTANTS.....    27
OTHER BUSINESS.......................    28
ADDITIONAL INFORMATION...............    28

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                              GENERAL INFORMATION

Q:  WHO IS SOLICITING MY PROXY?

A:  We -- the Board of Directors of Carriage Services, Inc. -- are sending you
    this Proxy Statement in connection with our solicitation of proxies for use
    at Carriage's 1999 Annual Meeting of Stockholders. Certain directors,
    officers and employees of Carriage and American Stock Transfer & Trust
    Company (a proxy solicitor) also may solicit proxies on our behalf by mail,
    phone, fax or in person.

Q:  WHO IS PAYING FOR THIS SOLICITATION?

A:  Carriage will pay for the solicitation of proxies, including the cost of
    preparing and mailing this Proxy Statement. Carriage also will reimburse
    banks, brokers, custodians, nominees and fiduciaries for their reasonable
    charges and expenses to forward our proxy materials to the beneficial owners
    of Carriage stock. No additional fee beyond the $750 monthly fee paid to
    American Stock Transfer & Trust Company ("American") to act as Carriage's
    transfer agent, together with American's out-of-pocket expenses, will be
    paid to American.

Q:  WHAT AM I VOTING ON?

A:  (1) The election of Stuart W. Stedman, Ronald A. Erickson and Mark F.
        Wilson to the Board of Directors.

    (2) An amendment to Carriage's 1995 Stock Incentive Plan.

    (3) An amendment to Carriage's 1996 Stock Option Plan.

    (4) Amendments to Carriage's 1996 Directors' Stock Option Plan.

    (5) The approval of the appointment of our independent auditors for 1999.

Q:  WHO CAN VOTE?

A:  Stockholders as of the close of business on March 15, 1999 are entitled to
    vote at the Annual Meeting.

Q:  HOW DO I VOTE?

A:  You may vote your shares either in person or by proxy. To vote by proxy, you
    should mark, date, sign and mail the enclosed proxy in the prepaid envelope.
    Giving a proxy will not affect your right to vote your shares if you attend
    the Annual Meeting and want to vote in person -- by voting in person you
    automatically revoke your proxy. You also may revoke your proxy at any time
    before the meeting by giving the Secretary written notice of your revocation
    or by submitting a later-dated proxy. If you return your proxy but do not
    mark your voting preference, the individuals named as proxies will vote your
    shares FOR the election of each of the nominees for director and vote FOR
    each of the other proposals described herein.

Q:  HOW DOES THE BOARD RECOMMEND I VOTE ON THE PROPOSALS?

A:  The Board recommends a vote FOR each of the nominees and each of the other
    proposals.

Q:  IS MY VOTE CONFIDENTIAL?

A:  Proxy cards, ballots and voting tabulations that identify individual
    shareholders are mailed or returned directly to Carriage, and handled in a
    manner intended to protect your voting privacy. Your vote will not be
    disclosed except: (1) as needed to permit Carriage to tabulate and certify
    the vote; (2) as required by law; or (3) in limited circumstances such as a
    proxy contest in opposition to the Board. Additionally, all comments written
    on the proxy card or elsewhere will be forwarded to management, but your
    identify will be kept confidential unless you ask that your name be
    disclosed.

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Q:  HOW MANY SHARES CAN VOTE?

A:  As of the Record Date, March 15, 1999, 12,058,250 shares of Class A Common
    Stock, 3,772,520 shares of Class B Common Stock and 1,682,500 shares of
    Series D Preferred Stock were outstanding. Each share of Class A Common
    Stock is entitled to one (1) vote; each share of Class B Common Stock is
    entitled to ten (10) votes; and each share of Series D Preferred Stock is
    entitled to approximately .003 of a vote. In summary, there were a total of
    49,788,568 eligible votes as of the Record Date.

Q:  WHAT HAPPENS IF I WITHHOLD MY VOTE FOR AN INDIVIDUAL DIRECTOR?

A:  Withheld votes are counted as "no" votes for the individual director.

Q:  CAN I VOTE ON OTHER MATTERS?

A:  Carriage's By-laws limit the matters presented at an annual meeting to those
    in the notice of the meeting and those otherwise properly presented before
    the meeting. We do not expect any other matter to come before the meeting.
    If any other matter is presented at the Annual Meeting, your signed proxy
    gives the individuals named as proxies authority to vote your shares on such
    matters at their discretion.

Q:  WHEN ARE STOCKHOLDER PROPOSALS DUE FOR THE ANNUAL STOCKHOLDERS MEETING IN
    2000?

A:  To be considered for inclusion in the proxy statement for Carriage's 2000
    Annual Meeting, a stockholder proposal must be received at Carriage's
    offices no later than December 1, 1999. A shareholder proposal submitted
    outside the processes of Rule 14a-8 of the SEC, if received by Carriage
    after February 15, 2000, will be considered untimely for presentation at
    Carriage's 2000 Annual Meeting of Stockholders.

Q:  HOW DO I NOMINATE SOMEONE TO BE A CARRIAGE DIRECTOR?

A:  A stockholder may recommend nominees for director by giving the Secretary a
    written notice not less than ninety (90) days prior to the anniversary date
    of the immediately preceding annual meeting. For the annual meeting in 2000,
    the deadline will be February 11, 2000, based upon this year's meeting
    falling on May 11. The notice must include the full name, age, business and
    residence address, principal occupation or employment of the nominee, the
    number of shares of Carriage Class A Common Stock, Class B Common Stock and
    Series D Preferred Stock the nominee beneficially owns, any other
    information about the nominee that must be disclosed in proxy solicitations
    under Rule 14(a) of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934, and the nominee's
    written consent to the nomination and to serve, if elected.

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                       RECORD DATE AND VOTING SECURITIES

     Only holders of record of the Class A and Class B Common Stock and Series D
Preferred Stock at the close of business on March 15, 1999, the record date for
the Meeting, are entitled to notice of and to vote at the Meeting. On that date,
Carriage had outstanding (i) 12,058,250 shares of Class A Common Stock, each of
which is entitled to one vote, (ii) 3,772,520 shares of Class B Common Stock,
each of which is entitled to ten votes, and (iii) 1,682,500 shares of Series D
Preferred Stock, each of which is entitled to approximately .003 of a vote. The
voting power of each class or series, as of March 15, 1999, is summarized below:

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                                                 PERCENTAGE OF
           CLASS OR SERIES              OUTSTANDING SHARES    NUMBER OF VOTES    VOTING POWER
- -------------------------------------   ------------------    ---------------    -------------
<S>                                     <C>                   <C>                <C>
Class A Common Stock.................       12,058,250           12,058,250           24.2
Class B Common Stock.................        3,772,520           37,725,200           75.8
Series D Preferred Stock.............        1,682,500                5,118            *
                                                              ---------------    -------------
     TOTAL...........................                            49,788,568          100.0
                                                              ===============    =============
</TABLE>
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* Less than 1%

     The presence at the Meeting, in person or by proxy, of the holders of a
majority of the total voting power of the issued and outstanding shares of Class
A and B Common Stock and Series D Preferred Stock is necessary to constitute a
quorum to transact business. Abstentions and broker non-votes will be counted
for purposes of whether a quorum is present at the Meeting. In the absence of a
quorum at the Meeting, the Meeting may be adjourned without notice other than
announcement at the Meeting until a quorum shall be formed.

     If a quorum is present at the Meeting, the nominees for the Class III
directors will be elected by a plurality of the votes cast at the Meeting, and
each other matter will need to be approved by the affirmative vote of the
holders of a majority of the voting power present or represented by proxy at the
Meeting. Since directors are elected by a plurality of the votes cast, shares
that are withheld will have no effect on the outcome of the election of
directors. With respect to any matter other than the election of directors,
abstentions will have the effect of a vote against the proposal. Broker
non-votes will not be counted to determine the stockholders entitled to vote on
a proposal, and will not affect the outcome of the vote on such matter.

     All properly signed proxies received prior to the Meeting will be voted in
accordance with the choices specified. If no choice has been specified in proxy,
the shares will be voted in favor of all proposals described herein and in the
discretion of the persons named in the Proxy in connection with any other
business that may properly come before the Meeting. A stockholder giving a Proxy
may revoke it at any time before it is voted at the Meeting by filing with the
Secretary an instrument revoking it, or by signing and delivering to the
Secretary a Proxy bearing a later date, or by voting in person at the Meeting.

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              SECURITY OWNERSHIP OF DIRECTORS, EXECUTIVE OFFICERS
                         AND CERTAIN BENEFICIAL OWNERS

     The following table sets forth, as of March 15, 1999, the ownership of
Class A and B Common Stock (including Class A and B Common Stock into which the
Series D Preferred Stock is convertible) of: (i) each director and director
nominee of Carriage, (ii) the Chief Executive Officer, (iii) the other executive
officers named in the Summary Compensation Table set forth under "Executive
Compensation" below, and (iv) all executive officers and directors of Carriage
as a group. Under the rules of the Securities and Exchange Commission, a person
is deemed to own beneficially all securities as to which that person owns or
shares voting or investment power, as well as all securities which such person
may acquire within 60 days through the exercise of currently available
conversion rights or options. Each person named in the table below has sole
voting and investment power with respect to the shares indicated, except as
otherwise stated in the notes to the table.
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                            AMOUNT AND NATURE OF
                                            BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP
                                           ----------------------
                                            CLASS A      CLASS B     PERCENT OF CLASS    PERCENT OF
                                            COMMON       COMMON          A AND B           VOTING
            BENEFICIAL OWNER               STOCK(1)     STOCK(2)       COMMON STOCK      CONTROL(3)
- ----------------------------------------   ---------    ---------    ----------------    ----------
<S>                                        <C>          <C>          <C>                 <C>
Stuart W. Stedman(5)....................     156,638      145,223           1.9              3.2
Ronald A. Erickson(6)...................      32,900       61,621            *               1.3
Mark F. Wilson(7).......................     497,637       --               3.1              1.0
Melvin C. Payne(4)(8)...................     121,768      629,769           4.7             12.7
C. Byron Snyder(4)(9)...................     102,176    1,296,311           8.8             26.2
Robert D. Larrabee(10)..................      14,500       91,254            *                *
Mark W. Duffey(4).......................     147,980      178,625           2.0              3.8
Barry K. Fingerhut(4)(11)...............     209,216      520,924           4.6             10.8
Greg M. Brudnicki.......................     218,200       --               1.4               *
Thomas C. Livengood.....................      53,619        2,000            *                *
Russell W. Allen........................      37,518       46,392            *                *
Gary O'Sullivan.........................      28,611       --                *                *
All directors and executive officers as
  a group (12 persons)..................   1,620,763    2,972,119          28.2             60.3
</TABLE>
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   * Indicates less than one percent.

 (1) The ownership of shares of Class A Common Stock shown in the table includes
     shares which may be acquired within 60 days upon exercise of outstanding
     stock options granted under one of our stock option plans by each of the
     persons and group, as follows: Mr. Stedman -- 20,500 shares; Mr.
     Erickson -- 20,500 shares; Mr. Wilson -- 14,500 shares; Mr. Payne -- 93,666
     shares; Mr. Snyder -- 22,166 shares; Mr. Larrabee -- 14,500 shares; Mr.
     Duffey -- 67,000 shares; Mr. Fingerhut -- 22,166 shares; Mr.
     Brudnicki -- 7,250 shares; Mr. Livengood -- 44,499 shares; Mr.
     Allen -- 37,333 shares; Mr. O'Sullivan -- 28,500 shares; and directors and
     executive officers as a group -- 392,580 shares.

 (2) Each share of Class B Common Stock has ten votes per share and is
     convertible at any time into one share of Class A Common Stock. If not
     converted earlier, any outstanding shares of Class B Common Stock will be
     automatically converted into shares of Class A Common Stock on December 31,
     2001.

 (3) This column sets forth the percentage of voting power held by the person
     based on the type of securities held. Each share of Class A Common Stock is
     entitled to one vote, each share of Class B Common Stock is entitled to ten
     votes, and each share of Series D Preferred Stock is entitled to
     approximately .003 of a vote.

                                         (FOOTNOTES CONTINUED ON FOLLOWING PAGE)

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 (4) C. Byron Snyder and certain of his affiliates, Melvin C. Payne and certain
     of his affiliates, Mark W. Duffey, and Barry K. Fingerhut and certain of
     his affiliates and business associates are parties to a voting agreement
     dated effective as of August 8, 1996 relating to any shares of capital
     stock of Carriage held by any of them. These parties beneficially hold an
     aggregate of approximately 515,000 shares of Class A Common Stock and
     2,675,395 shares of Class B Common Stock. Under the voting agreement, each
     party has agreed not to sell or otherwise transfer any shares of capital
     stock of Carriage held or acquired by such party to any of our
     "competitors" without the prior written consent of the holders of at
     least 80% of the voting power of the shares of capital stock subject to the
     voting agreement, unless the holders of at least 80% of the voting power of
     the outstanding shares of capital stock of Carriage are in favor of such
     action, not to vote the shares of capital stock of Carriage held by such
     party in favor of:

           o   a merger, consolidation or similar corporate action involving a
               "competitor," other than in connection with an acquisition by
               Carriage of funeral homes or cemeteries in which Carriage is the
               acquiring or controlling party;

           o   the sale of all or substantially all of our assets to a
               "competitor," or

           o   any amendment to Articles V, VI or VII of our Certificate of
               Incorporation (which relate to the classified board of directors,
               the relative rights and powers of the board of directors and the
               stockholders and the ability of our stockholders to act by
               written consent).

     A "competitor" is defined in the voting agreement as any person or entity
engaged in the funeral service, cemetery, crematory or related lines of
business.

 (5) Mr. Stedman's holdings include:

           o   2,689 shares of Class A Common Stock and 31,309 shares of Class B
               Common Stock which are held by the Betty Ann Stedman Trust, of
               which Mr. Stedman is a trustee;

           o   1,083 shares of Class A Common Stock and 8,349 shares of Class B
               Common Stock which are held by the Wesley West Descendants Trust,
               of which Mr. Stedman is a trustee;

           o   292 shares of Class A Common Stock and 3,130 shares of Class B
               Common Stock which are held by the Courtney Lynn Meagher Trust,
               of which Mr. Stedman is a trustee;

           o   239 shares of Class A Common Stock and 3,130 shares of Class B
               Common Stock which are held by the Evan Everett Meagher 1989
               Trust, of which Mr. Stedman is a trustee;

           o   19,902 shares of Class A Common Stock and 35,000 shares of Class
               B Common Stock which are held by the Wesley West Land Holding
               Company, of which Mr. Stedman is the president and an indirect
               beneficial owner through a trust of which he is a beneficiary;

           o   46,056 shares of Class A Common Stock which are held by the
               Wesley West Long Term Partnership, a partnership of which Mr.
               Stedman serves as the manager of the general partner;

           o   32,850 shares of Class A Common Stock which are held by the
               Wesley West Flexible Partnership, a partnership of which Mr.
               Stedman serves as the managing partner;

           o   24,350 shares of Class A Common Stock which are held by Wesley
               West Investment Company L.L.C., of which Mr. Stedman is the sole
               Manager; and

           o   7,120 shares of Class A Common Stock and 5,218 shares of Class B
               Common Stock which are owned jointly by Mr. Stedman and his
               spouse.

 (6) Mr. Erickson's holdings include:

           o   4,000 shares of Class A Common Stock and 44,015 shares of Class B
               Common Stock which are held by the Alfred and Rose Erickson Trust
               f/b/o Ronald A. Erickson;

           o   1,400 shares of Class A Common Stock and 17,606 shares of Class B
               Common Stock which are held by the Alfred and Rose Erickson Trust
               f/b/o Donovan A. Erickson, of which Mr. Erickson is the Trustee;

           o   7,000 shares of Class A Common Stock held by Mr. Erickson's minor
               son, David S. Erickson.

                                         (FOOTNOTES CONTINUED ON FOLLOWING PAGE)

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 (7) Mr. Wilson's holdings include 399,879 shares of Class A Common Stock held
     by the Mark F. Wilson and Anne Pedersen Wilson Living Trust; 41,629 shares
     of Class A Common Stock held by the Wilson Trust B U/A/D 9/9/77 by Francis
     Wilson; and 41,629 shares of Class A Common Stock held by the Wilson Trust
     C U/A/D 9/9/77 by Francis Wilson, both of which Mr. Wilson is a beneficiary
     of and a Co-trustee.

 (8) Mr. Payne's holdings include 119,161 shares of Class B Common Stock owned
     by 1996 Payne Family Partnership, Ltd.; 2,919 shares of Class B Common
     Stock owned by the Melvin C. Payne 1996 Trust; 2,919 shares of Class B
     Common Stock owned by the Karen P. Payne 1996 Trust; and 5,555 shares of
     Class B Common Stock owned by the Melvin C. Payne, Jr. Pension Plan and
     Trust.

 (9) Mr. Snyder's holdings include 1,278,301 shares of Class B Common Stock
     owned by 1996 Snyder Family Partnership, Ltd.; 9,005 shares of Class B
     Common Stock owned by the C. Byron Snyder 1996 Trust; and 9,005 shares of
     Class B Common Stock owned by the Martha Ann Snyder 1996 Trust.

(10) Mr. Larrabee and his spouse hold an aggregate of 1,500,000 shares of Series
     D Preferred Stock, of which 252,410 shares are held by Larrabee Land
     Company, Inc. which is owned by Mr. Larrabee and his spouse. Such shares of
     Series D preferred stock are convertible as of March 15, 1999 into 91,254
     shares of Class B Common Stock which are in turn convertible at any time
     into 91,254 shares of Class A Common Stock. Also, such shares of Series D
     Preferred Stock presently have 4,563 votes.

(11) Mr. Fingerhut's holdings include 3,000 shares of Class A Common Stock held
     by each of Mr. Fingerhut's children, Brooke Fingerhut and Andrew J.
     Fingerhut; 422,222 shares of Class B Common Stock held by Applewood
     Associates, L.P., a limited partnership of which Mr. Fingerhut is a general
     partner; 6,111 shares of Class B Common Stock held by Longboat Key
     Associates, a general partnership of which Mr. Fingerhut is a general
     partner; and 8,333 shares of Class B Common Stock held by Mr. Fingerhut
     jointly with Michael J. Marocco.

STOCK OWNERSHIP OF CERTAIN BENEFICIAL OWNERS

     As of March 15, 1999, the persons named below were, to our knowledge, the
only beneficial owners of more than 5% of the outstanding Common Stock,
determined in accordance with Rule 13d-3 of the SEC, other than directors and
executive officers whose beneficial ownership is described in the above table.

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                          AMOUNT AND NATURE OF
                                          BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP
                                          --------------------
                                                        CLASS
                                            CLASS A       B       PERCENT OF CLASS    PERCENT OF
                                            COMMON      COMMON        A AND B           VOTING
            BENEFICIAL OWNER                 STOCK      STOCK       COMMON STOCK      CONTROL(3)
- ----------------------------------------  -----------   ------    ----------------    ----------
<S>                                       <C>           <C>       <C>                 <C>
J. & W. Seligman & Co.
  Incorporated(1).......................    1,364,325     -0-            8.6              2.7
  100 Park Avenue
  New York, New York 10017
</TABLE>
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(1) Based solely on a Schedule 13G/A filed with the SEC on February 9, 1999.

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                                 PROPOSAL NO. 1
                             ELECTION OF DIRECTORS

GENERAL

     Carriage's Board of Directors currently consists of nine members, which are
divided into three classes (designated Class I, Class II and Class III,
respectively) serving staggered three-year terms. Carriage's Certificate of
Incorporation provides that such classes shall be as nearly equal in number as
possible. The term of office of the Class III directors expires at the Meeting.
The term of the Class I directors expires at the annual meeting of stockholders
in 2000 and the term of the Class II directors expires at the annual meeting of
stockholders in 2001.

     At the Meeting, you and the other stockholders will elect three individuals
to serve as Class III directors for a three-year term expiring at the 2002
Annual Meeting and until their successors are duly elected and qualified. Stuart
W. Stedman, Ronald A. Erickson and Mark F. Wilson, the Class III directors whose
terms are expiring at the Meeting, have been nominated by the Board of Directors
for re-election at the Meeting. Proxies may be voted for three directors.

     WE RECOMMEND THAT YOU VOTE "FOR" THE ELECTION OF EACH NOMINEE LISTED
ABOVE AS A CLASS III DIRECTOR. THE INDIVIDUALS NAMED AS PROXIES WILL VOTE THE
ENCLOSED PROXY "FOR" THE ELECTION OF ALL NOMINEES UNLESS YOU DIRECT THEM TO
WITHHOLD YOUR VOTES FOR ONE OR MORE OF THE NOMINEES.

     You may not cumulate your votes in the election of directors. The three
nominees receiving the highest number of affirmative votes will be elected to
the Board. You may withhold authority to vote for any or all nominees for
directors. If any nominee becomes unable to serve as a director before the
Meeting (or decides not to serve), the individuals named as proxies will vote
FOR the remainder of the nominees and for such other nominees as we may
designate as a replacement or substitute for those who become unavailable.

     The following table sets forth the names, ages and titles of the persons
who have been nominated for election as Class III directors, and our other
current directors and executive officers.

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                NAME                    AGE                           TITLE
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<S>                                     <C>   <C>
NOMINEES FOR CLASS III DIRECTORS
(TERM EXPIRING AT 2002 ANNUAL
MEETING)
Stuart W. Stedman(3).................   41    Director
Ronald A. Erickson(3)................   62    Director
Mark F. Wilson.......................   52    Director
CONTINUING CLASS I DIRECTORS
(TERM EXPIRING AT 2000 ANNUAL
  MEETING)
Melvin C. Payne(1)...................   56    Chairman of the Board, Chief Executive Officer and
                                                Director
C. Byron Snyder(1)(2)................   50    Director and Chairman of the Executive Committee
Robert D. Larrabee...................   64    Director
CONTINUING CLASS II DIRECTORS
 (TERM EXPIRING AT 2001 ANNUAL
 MEETING)
Mark W. Duffey(1)....................   42    President and Director
Barry K. Fingerhut(1)(2).............   53    Director
Greg M. Brudnicki....................   43    Director
EXECUTIVE OFFICERS WHO ARE NOT
 DIRECTORS
Thomas C. Livengood..................   43    Executive Vice President, Chief Financial Officer and
                                                Secretary
Russell W. Allen.....................   52    Executive Vice President of Operations
Gary O'Sullivan......................   46    Senior Vice President -- Marketing
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                                                   (FOOTNOTES ON FOLLOWING PAGE)

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(1) Member of Executive Committee

(2) Member of Compensation Committee

(3) Member of Audit Committee

     Set forth below is a brief description of the business experience of the
directors and executive officers of our company.

DIRECTORS (LISTED IN SAME ORDER AS TABLE SET FORTH ABOVE)

     STUART W. STEDMAN has been a director of Carriage since it went public in
August 1996. For the past twelve years, Mr. Stedman has been President of Wesley
West Interests, Inc., a management company responsible for various family
holdings, including marketable securities, oil, gas and coal properties, ranch
lands and urban real estate. Mr. Stedman also serves as a Manager of Strand
Energy, L.L.C., a private exploration and production company.

     RONALD A. ERICKSON has been a director of Carriage since it went public in
August 1996. Mr. Erickson is Chief Executive Officer of Holiday Companies,
Minneapolis, Minnesota, a family business consisting primarily of convenience
stores, supermarkets, sporting goods stores and wholesale food distribution. Mr.
Erickson is also a director of Andersen Corporation, a privately held
manufacturer of windows and patio doors. Mr. Erickson is also a director of
Kinnard Investments, Inc., a publicly traded corporation engaged in investment
banking and related financial services.

     MARK F. WILSON became a director of Carriage in January 1997 when CNM
merged with Carriage. Mr. Wilson served as the President of CNM from 1988 until
its merger with Carriage in January 1997, when he became the President of
Carriage Funeral Services of California, Inc., a subsidiary of Carriage. CNM
owned and operated nine Wilson & Kratzer Funeral Homes and the Rolling Hills
Memorial Park Cemetery in Alameda and Contra Costa Counties, California. In
connection with the CNM merger, Carriage agreed to increase the Board of
Directors to eight members and appoint Mr. Wilson as a director. Mr. Wilson also
serves on the Board of Directors of Mechanics Bank, Richmond, California.

     MELVIN C. PAYNE, one of the management founders of Carriage, has been
Chairman of the Board and Chief Executive Officer since December 1996. Prior to
then, he had been the President, Chief Executive Officer and a director of
Carriage since its inception in 1991. Mr. Payne serves on the Board of Trustees
of A. G. Series Trust, a mutual fund affiliated with American General
Corporation, and the Board of Directors of Sovereign Business Forms, Inc., a
private company in the business forms manufacturing industry.

     C. BYRON SNYDER has been a director of Carriage since 1991, was Chairman of
the Board of Directors of Carriage from 1991 to December 1996, and is currently
Chairman of the Executive Committee. Mr. Snyder is the President of Sterling
City Capital, LLC, a merchant banking firm. Mr. Snyder is the Chairman of the
Board of Directors of Integrated Electrical Services, Inc., a publicly traded
national provider of electrical contracting and maintenance services in the
commercial, industrial, and residential markets. Mr. Snyder was the owner and
President of Relco Refrigeration Company, a distributor of refrigeration
equipment, which he acquired in 1992. Prior to 1992, Mr. Snyder was the owner
and Chief Executive Officer of Southwestern Graphics International, Inc., a
diversified holding company which owned Brandt & Lawson Printing Co., a
Houston-based general printing business, and Acco Waste Paper Company, an
independent recycling business. Brandt & Lawson Printing Co. was sold to Hart
Graphics in 1989, and Acco Waste Paper Company was sold to Browning-Ferris
Industries in 1991.

     ROBERT D. LARRABEE has been a director of Carriage since it went public in
August 1996. Mr. Larrabee is the former owner of a group of four funeral homes
and two cemeteries in Washington and Idaho that Carriage acquired in April 1996.
In connection with that transaction, Carriage agreed to undertake to appoint Mr.
Larrabee to the Board if it went public, and Mr. Larrabee also became an
employee of a subsidiary of Carriage. Mr. Larrabee also is the co-founder and
co-owner of Evergreen Estates, a retirement community in Clarkston, Washington.
He is the founding President and past director of Valley Bank in Clarkston,
Washington (now part of U.S. Bank of Idaho); founding Chairman of the Board and
President of

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Purple Cross Insurance Company (now part of Service Corporation International);
and founder of Lewis-Clark Savings and Loan Association (now part of Sterling
Financial Corporation). He also serves on the Board of Directors of Sterling
Financial Corporation and, until 1995, served on the Board of Directors of
Laurentian Capital Corporation.

     MARK W. DUFFEY, one of the management founders of Carriage, has been
President since December 1996. From the inception of Carriage in 1991 to
December 1996, he was Executive Vice President and Chief Financial Officer and
he became a director in 1995. He serves on the Board of Directors of Sovereign
Business Forms, Inc., a private company in the business forms manufacturing
industry.

     BARRY K. FINGERHUT has been a director of Carriage since 1995. Since 1981,
Mr. Fingerhut has been associated with, and now serves as President of,
GeoCapital, L.L.C., a registered investment adviser located in New York City
which focuses its investment advice and management on securities of small
capitalization companies. As of December 31, 1998, GeoCapital, L.L.C. managed
accounts having a market value of approximately $2.35 billion. Mr. Fingerhut
also has co-founded several investment partnerships that invest primarily in
emerging publicly and privately traded companies and high growth companies
engaged in the communications, software, consumer and business services. Mr.
Fingerhut presently is a director of Millbrook Press, Inc., a publisher of
children's non-fiction books, and UOL Publishing, Inc., an online publisher of
academic and corporate texts.

     GREG M. BRUDNICKI became a director of Carriage in November 1997 when
Forest Lawn/Evergreen Management Corp. merged with a subsidiary of Carriage.
Forest Lawn and its affiliate owned and operated three funeral homes and three
cemeteries in Panama City and Fort Walton Beach, Florida and Dothan, Alabama.
Mr. Brudnicki served as the President and Chief Executive Officer of Forest Lawn
from its inception in 1984 until the merger, when he became the Co-Manager of
the Forest Lawn cemeteries and funeral homes operated by Carriage. In connection
with the merger, Carriage agreed to increase the Board of Directors by one
member and appoint Mr. Brudnicki to fill the resulting vacancy. Mr. Brudnicki
serves as a Trustee for Bay Medical Center, a non-profit hospital in Panama
City, Florida. He also serves on the Board of Directors of Peoples 1st Community
Bank which has locations in 15 Florida cities.

EXECUTIVE OFFICERS WHO ARE NOT DIRECTORS

     THOMAS C. LIVENGOOD has been Executive Vice President, Chief Financial
Officer and Secretary of Carriage since December 1996. Mr. Livengood, a
certified public accountant, has responsibility for the financial and
administrative functions of Carriage. Prior to joining Carriage, he served as
Vice President and Chief Financial Officer of Tenneco Energy, previously the
largest division of Tenneco Inc., a Fortune 100 company, prior to the
divestiture of its diversified businesses. Prior to joining Tenneco Energy in
1988, Mr. Livengood served in various financial management capacities with USX
Corp., Texas Oil & Gas Corp. and KPMG Peat Marwick, an international CPA firm.

     RUSSELL W. ALLEN has been Carriage's Executive Vice President of Operations
since June 1993. Mr. Allen has over 34 years of operational experience in the
funeral home industry. Prior to joining Carriage, he was affiliated with
Earthman Funeral Directors and Greenwood-Mount Olivet Funeral Homes and
Cemeteries in Fort Worth, Texas for one and 21 years, respectively, serving most
recently as Executive Vice President of Operations with each company. Mr. Allen
previously served as Vice Chairman of the Texas Funeral Service Commission and
as Chairman of the Education and Legislation Committees. He is also a member of
the Texas Cemetery Association and has served on the Legislative Committee with
that organization.

     GARY O'SULLIVAN has been Carriage's Senior Vice President -- Marketing
since October 1996. From March 1996 to September 1996, Mr. O'Sullivan was the
Regional Vice President of Sales (Florida) for Service Corporation
International. Prior to then, Mr. O'Sullivan was the Vice President of Sales and
Marketing for Woodlawn Memorial Park and Funeral Home from May 1993 to March
1996. He was the Director of Sales and Marketing for Earthman Funeral Home and
Cemeteries from August 1989 to May 1993.

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ORGANIZATION AND COMMITTEES OF THE BOARD

     During 1998, Carriage's Board met five times and acted by unanimous written
consent eleven times. Each of the directors attended at least 80% of the
meetings of the Board and the Committees on which he served. The functions of
the Executive, Audit and Compensation Committees of the Board, and the number of
meetings held during 1998, are described below.

     The members of the Executive Committee are Melvin C. Payne, Mark W. Duffey,
C. Byron Snyder and Barry K. Fingerhut. Mr. Snyder is the Chairman of the
Committee. The primary function of the Executive Committee is to exercise many
of the powers of the Board in between regular Board meetings, including the
authorization of contracts, leases and loan documents. The Executive Committee
held no meetings during 1998, but acted by unanimous written consent two times.

     The members of the Audit Committee are Stuart W. Stedman and Ronald A.
Erickson. The Audit Committee recommends to the Board the appointment of
Carriage's independent auditors, and reviews the plan, scope and results of the
audit with the auditors and Carriage's officers. The Audit Committee also
reviews with the auditors the principal accounting policies and internal
accounting controls of Carriage. The Audit Committee met three times during
1998.

     The members of the Compensation Committee are C. Byron Snyder and Barry K.
Fingerhut. The Compensation Committee reviews and makes recommendations to the
Board concerning the compensation of Carriage's officers and employees,
including stock option plans, incentive compensation programs and benefit plans.
The Compensation Committee also administers, and makes grants of stock options
under Carriage's 1995 Stock Incentive Plan and 1996 Stock Option Plan. During
1998, the Compensation Committee met two times.

     The Board also established an ad-hoc Pricing Committee, consisting of
Melvin C. Payne and Mark W. Duffey, in connection with our public offering of
Class A Common Stock in May 1998. This Committee was charged with reaching
agreement with the managing underwriters of the offering as to price and terms
of the offering and attending to related matters. The Pricing Committee acted by
unanimous consent twice in 1998. Following completion of the offering, the
Pricing Committee ceased to exist, having fulfilled its function.

            SECTION 16(A) BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP REPORTING COMPLIANCE

     Section 16(a) of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934 requires Carriage's
directors and executive officers, and persons who own more than 10% of a
registered class of Carriage's equity securities, to file with the Securities
and Exchange Commission reports of ownership and changes in ownership of Class A
Common Stock and other equity securities of Carriage. Executive officers,
directors and greater than 10% beneficial owners are required by SEC regulations
to furnish Carriage with copies of all Section 16(a) forms they file.

     Based solely on a review of the copies of such reports furnished to
Carriage or written representations that no other reports were required,
Carriage believes that all filing requirements applicable to its executive
officers, directors and greater than 10% beneficial owners were complied with
during 1998.

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                              CERTAIN TRANSACTIONS

     In connection with our acquisition in January 1997 of certain funeral homes
and cemeteries in California (hereinafter referred to as "CNM"), which was
controlled by Mark F. Wilson and others:

      o   Mr. Wilson and a subsidiary of Carriage entered into a five-year
          employment agreement providing for, among other things, the payment of
          a base salary to Mr. Wilson of $150,000 per year;

      o   Mr. Wilson and such subsidiary entered into a five-year
          non-competition agreement providing for, among other things, the
          payment to Mr. Wilson of $170,000 per year; and

      o   We agreed to appoint Mr. Wilson to the Board of Directors of Carriage.

     In addition, Mr. Wilson and the other former shareholders of CNM who
acquired equity of Carriage entered into a co-sale agreement with Messrs.
Snyder, Fingerhut, Payne, Duffey and certain affiliated stockholders. Under this
agreement, such persons agreed not to sell a certain level of their stock
holdings in a single or related group of transactions unless the former CNM
shareholders were given the opportunity to participate in the sales transaction,
and in which the selling group could require the other parties to participate in
a sales transaction. This transaction was entered into immediately prior to Mr.
Wilson becoming a director of Carriage, and the compensation detailed above does
not relate to any services provided by Mr. Wilson as a director of Carriage.

     Mr. Wilson also is a party to an arrangement with us whereby Mr. Wilson may
receive annual cash consideration if acquisition candidates which he develops
and which we subsequently acquire attain cash flow in excess of certain cash
flow targets over a ten-year period. Pursuant to this arrangement, Mr. Wilson
may elect to sell back to Carriage his share of excess cash flow during the last
three-year period at a predetermined cash flow multiple. To date, no payments
have been made by us under this arrangement.

     In connection with our acquisition in November 1997 of certain funeral
homes and cemeteries in Florida, which were controlled by Greg M. Brudnicki and
another person:

      o   Mr. Brudnicki and a subsidiary of Carriage entered into a five-year
          employment contract providing for, among other things, the payment of
          a base salary to Mr. Brudnicki of $75,000 per year;

      o   Mr. Brudnicki became a participant in an incentive compensation plan
          for certain key employees of our operations in Panama City, Florida;
          and

      o   We agreed to appoint Mr. Brudnicki to the Board of Directors of
          Carriage.

     Mr. Brudnicki also is a party to a plan whereby Mr. Brudnicki may receive
cash consideration if acquisition candidates developed by him or other
participants in the plan are subsequently acquired by Carriage and attain cash
flow in excess of certain cash flow targets. This plan covers Northern Florida,
Southern Georgia and Alabama. At the election of the participant, the
compensation is payable in cash or in shares of Class A Common Stock. To date,
no payments have been made by Carriage to Mr. Brudnicki under the plan.

     In July 1996, we loaned Russell W. Allen, an executive officer of Carriage,
$316,714 to allow Mr. Allen to exercise his options to purchase shares of Class
B Common Stock of Carriage and to pay the federal income tax liability incurred
pursuant to such exercise. The loan matures on June 30, 1999, bears interest at
7% per year payable annually on or before March 31 of each year and is secured
by approximately 39% of the Class B Common Stock purchased by Mr. Allen. In
order to pay the interest due March 31, 1997 and March 31, 1998, on this note,
Mr. Allen executed new promissory notes totaling $39,458.00 with the same terms
as the other note. On July 30, 1997, we agreed to release 7,875 shares of Class
B Common Stock from this pledge, on April 3, 1998, an additional 5,000 shares
were released from the pledge, and on November 3, 1998, an additional 3,733
shares were released.

     In August 1998, we loaned Gary O'Sullivan, one of Carriage's executive
officers, $36,000 to enable him to meet some short-term personal needs. The loan
matures on August 31, 1999, and bears interest at the rate of 5 1/2% per annum.
In March 1999, we awarded Mr. O'Sullivan a cash bonus of $54,000 for his

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performance in 1998, and a portion of this bonus will be applied toward the
repayment in full of his loan from Carriage.

     In connection with the acquisition by a subsidiary of Carriage of three
corporations controlled by Robert D. Larrabee and his wife, which owned and
operated four funeral homes and two cemeteries in Washington and Idaho:

      o   A subsidiary of Carriage executed a note payable to Mr. Larrabee and
          his wife in the original principal amount of $246,000, secured by the
          land and buildings of one of the funeral home locations, as seller
          financing for that location;

      o   Mr. Larrabee and such subsidiary entered into a five-year employment
          agreement providing for, among other things, the payment of a base
          salary to Mr. Larrabee of $25,000 per year; and

      o   We agreed to undertake to appoint Mr. Larrabee to our Board of
          Directors if we went public.

     This transaction was entered into prior to Mr. Larrabee becoming a director
of Carriage, and the compensation outlined above does not relate to any services
provided by Mr. Larrabee as a director of Carriage.

     Mr. Larrabee also is a party to an arrangement with us whereby Mr. Larrabee
may receive annual cash bonuses if acquisition candidates which he develops and
which are subsequently acquired by Carriage attain cash flow in excess of
certain cash flow targets over a ten-year period. Pursuant to the arrangement,
Mr. Larrabee may elect to sell back to Carriage his share of excess cash flow
during the last three-year period at a predetermined cash flow multiple. To
date, no payments have been made by us under this arrangement.

     In May 1998, we purchased approximately 15 acres of undeveloped property
adjacent to one of our cemeteries in Couer d'Alene, Idaho from Mr. Larrabee, for
$1.2 million in cash. The transaction was negotiated at arm's-length, and we
intend to use this property for possible future development.

     In the fourth quarter of 1998, Mark Duffey, our President, sold to Carriage
60,000 shares of Class B Common Stock and Russell Allen, our Executive Vice
President -- Operations, sold to Carriage 11,375 shares of Class A Common Stock
and 3,733 shares of Class B Common Stock, all at a price of $23 3/8 per share.

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                             EXECUTIVE COMPENSATION

SUMMARY COMPENSATION TABLE.

     The following table sets forth information regarding the compensation for
the years ended December 31, 1998, 1997 and 1996, with respect to the Chief
Executive Officer and the four other most highly compensated executive officers
of Carriage whose total annual salary and bonus during 1998 exceeded $100,000
(collectively, the "Named Executive Officers").

                           SUMMARY COMPENSATION TABLE

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                                                                                             LONG TERM
                                                                                            COMPENSATION
                                                      ANNUAL COMPENSATION                      AWARDS
                                       --------------------------------------------------   ------------
                                                                              OTHER          SECURITIES      ALL OTHER
              NAME AND                                                        ANNUAL         UNDERLYING       COMPEN-
         PRINCIPAL POSITIONS             YEAR       SALARY      BONUS    COMPENSATIONS(1)     OPTIONS        SATION(2)
- -------------------------------------  ---------  ----------  ---------  ----------------   ------------     ----------
<S>                                    <C>        <C>         <C>        <C>                <C>              <C>
MELVIN C. PAYNE......................       1998  $  233,654          0             0           32,000(3)      $1,038
  Chairman of the Board                     1997  $  225,000          0             0           20,000(4)       1,201
     and Chief Executive Officer            1996  $  194,292          0             0          250,000          1,168
MARK W. DUFFEY.......................       1998  $  192,115          0             0           26,000(3)      $2,401
  President                                 1997  $  185,000          0             0           16,000(4)       1,957
                                            1996  $  162,231          0             0          150,000          1,901
RUSSELL W. ALLEN.....................       1998  $  169,038          0             0           17,000(3)           0
  Executive Vice President                  1997  $  145,000          0             0           12,000(4)           0
     of Operations                          1996  $  121,634          0             0           50,000              0
THOMAS C. LIVENGOOD..................       1998  $  181,737          0             0           21,000(3)      $2,272
  Executive Vice President,                 1997  $  175,000          0             0           50,000(4)       2,188
     CFO and Secretary                      1996     (5)
GARY O'SULLIVAN......................       1998  $  197,308  $  54,000             0           10,000(3)           0
  Senior Vice President --                  1967  $  190,496          0             0           30,000(4)           0
     Marketing                              1996     (6)
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(1) Excludes perquisites and other personal benefits unless the aggregate amount
    of such compensation exceeded the lesser of $50,000 or 10% of the total of
    annual salary and bonus reported for the Named Executive Officer.

(2) Each of the amounts in this column reflect contributions by Carriage to its
    401(k) Plan for the executive's benefit.

(3) All of these options were granted in March 1999 for 1998 performance.

(4) All of the options issued to Messrs. Payne, Duffey, Allen and Livengood, and
    30,000 of the options issued to Mr. O'Sullivan, were granted in February
    1998. Of the February 1998 option grants, all but 38,000 shares to Mr.
    Livengood and 18,000 shares to Mr. O'Sullivan were for 1997 performance.

(5) Mr. Livengood joined Carriage in December 1996 and his compensation during
    such year did not exceed $100,000.

(6) Mr. O'Sullivan joined Carriage in October 1996 and his compensation during
    such year did not exceed $100,000.

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STOCK OPTION GRANTS IN 1998

     We have four stock option plans:

      o   the 1995 Stock Incentive Plan (the "1995 Plan");

      o   the 1996 Stock Option Plan (the "1996 Plan");

      o   the 1996 Directors' Stock Option Plan (the "Directors' Plan"); and

      o   the 1998 Stock Option Plan for Consultants (the "Consultants Plan").

A total of 950,000 shares of Class A and B Common Stock are reserved for
issuance under the 1995 Plan, but the Board has proposed to increase the shares
available to 1,450,000 shares. SEE Proposal 3 below. Options issued under the
1995 Plan prior to our initial public offering in August 1996 are satisfied with
shares of Class B Common Stock, but options issued after that date are satisfied
with shares of Class A Common Stock. 800,000 shares of Class A Common Stock are
reserved for issuance under the 1996 Plan, and the Board has proposed to
increase the shares available to 1,300,000 shares. SEE Proposal 4 below. 200,000
shares of Class A Common Stock are reserved for issuance under the Directors'
Plan, and the Board has proposed to increase the shares available to 350,000
shares. SEE Proposal 5 below. 100,000 shares of Class A Common Stock are
reserved for issuance under the Consultants Plan (no changes are proposed for
this Plan). Options issued under the 1995 Plan and the 1996 Plan may be either
"Incentive Stock Options" as defined in Section 422 of the Internal Revenue
Code of 1986, as amended (the "Code"), or non-qualified stock options. Options
issued under the Directors' Plan and Consultants Plan are non-qualified stock
options.

     The following table sets forth information on the grants of options to
acquire shares of Class A Common Stock made during the year ended December 31,
1998, to the Named Executive Officers:

                       OPTION GRANTS IN LAST FISCAL YEAR

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                                                                                                            POTENTIAL
                                                              INDIVIDUAL GRANTS                        REALIZABLE VALUE AT
                                           -------------------------------------------------------        ASSUMED ANNUAL
                                           NUMBER OF      % OF TOTAL                                   RATES OF STOCK PRICE
                                           SECURITIES      OPTIONS                                         APPRECIATION
                                           UNDERLYING     GRANTED TO     EXERCISE OR                    FOR OPTION TERM(2)
                                            OPTIONS      EMPLOYEES IN    BASE PRICE     EXPIRATION   ------------------------
                                            GRANTED          1998          ($/SH)          DATE          5%          10%
                                           ----------    ------------    -----------    ----------   ----------  ------------
<S>                                        <C>           <C>             <C>            <C>          <C>         <C>
Melvin C. Payne.........................     20,000         2.7%            17.375        2/4/08     $  218,540  $    553,820
Mark W. Duffey..........................     16,000         2.2%            17.375        2/4/08     $  174,832  $    443,056
Russell W. Allen........................     12,000         1.6%            17.375        2/4/08     $  131,124  $    332,292
Thomas C. Livengood.....................     50,000(1)      6.9%            17.375        2/4/08     $  546,350  $  1,384,550
Gary O'Sullivan.........................     30,000(1)      4.1%            17.375        2/4/08     $  327,810  $    830,730
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(1) Options granted are for a term of ten years. 38,000 of the options to Mr.
    Livengood and 18,000 of the options to Mr. O'Sullivan vest 8.33% per year on
    the first through fourth anniversary dates of the grant date and 16.66% per
    year on the fifth through eighth anniversary dates of the grant date;
    provided, however, the options scheduled to vest in years 5-8 from the grant
    date (i.e., 66 2/3 of the total grant) vest immediately if the average of
    the daily high and low prices of the Class A Common Stock exceeds $27.99 for
    20 consecutive trading days prior to the fourth anniversary of the grant
    date. All the remaining options were fully vested on the grant date.

(2) These amounts represent certain assumed rates of appreciation based on the
    actual option term and annual compounding from the date of grant. Assumed
    rates of appreciation are in accordance with guidelines established by the
    Securities and Exchange Commission. Actual gains, if any, on stock option
    exercises and Class A Common Stock holdings are dependent on the future
    performance of the Class A Common Stock and overall stock market conditions.
    There can be no assurance that the stock appreciation amounts reflected in
    this table will be achieved; conversely, actual gains may be substantially
    in excess of those presented.

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1998 OPTION EXERCISES AND YEAR-END OPTION HOLDINGS

     The following table sets forth, with respect to the Named Executive
Officers, information concerning the exercise of stock options during the year
ended December 31, 1998, and the year-end value of unexercised options. This
table sets forth options for Class A Common Stock:

AGGREGATE OPTION EXERCISES IN LAST FISCAL YEAR AND FISCAL YEAR-END OPTION VALUES

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                                       NUMBER OF UNEXERCISED              VALUE OF UNEXERCISED
                                                                          OPTIONS HELD AT               IN-THE-MONEY OPTIONS AT
                                          SHARES                        DECEMBER 31, 1998(1)              DECEMBER 31, 1998(2)
                                         ACQUIRED       VALUE      ------------------------------    ------------------------------
                NAMES                   ON EXERCISE    REALIZED    EXERCISABLE     UNEXERCISABLE     EXERCISABLE     UNEXERCISABLE
- -------------------------------------   -----------    --------    ------------    --------------    ------------    --------------
<S>                                     <C>            <C>         <C>             <C>               <C>             <C>
Melvin C. Payne......................      --            --           61,666           208,334         $843,636        $3,111,979
Mark W. Duffey.......................      --            --           41,000           125,000          548,846        $1,867,188
Russell W. Allen.....................      --            --           20,333            41,667          257,224        $  622,396
Thomas C. Livengood..................      --            --           20,333            79,667          212,434        $  818,806
Gary O'Sullivan......................      --            --           17,000            43,000          184,938        $  460,063
</TABLE>
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(1) Of the options, 20,000 shares for Mr. Payne, 16,000 shares for Mr. Duffey
    and 12,000 shares for each of Messrs. Allen, Livengood and O'Sullivan were
    immediately vested on grant date. All other options are for a term of ten
    years and vest 8.33% per year on the first through fourth anniversary dates
    of the grant date and 16.666% per year on the fifth through eighth
    anniversary dates of the grant date; provided, however, the options
    scheduled to vest in years 5-8 from the grant date (i.e., 66 2/3% of the
    total grant) vest immediately if the average of the daily high and low
    prices of the Class A Common Stock for 20 consecutive trading days exceeds
    $27.99 prior to the fourth anniversary of the grant date.

(2) An option is "in-the-money" if the market value of the Class A Common
    Stock exceeds the exercise price of the option. The values of the options
    set forth in these columns are based upon the difference between the closing
    price of $28.4375 on the New York Stock Exchange on December 31, 1998 and
    any lesser exercise price. However, on March 15, 1999, the closing price was
    $14 13/16.

COMPENSATION OF DIRECTORS

     In lieu of cash compensation, each director who is not an executive officer
of Carriage, but who may be an employee (a "qualified director") is entitled
to receive options under the Directors' Plan. It has also been a requirement
that such a director may not participate in any other stock incentive plan of
the Company, but the Board has proposed to remove this disqualification. SEE
Proposal No. 5. In addition, qualified directors are reimbursed for expenses
incurred in attending meetings of the Board of Directors and Committees thereof.

     Under the Directors' Plan, each individual who was a qualified director as
of the date of our initial public offering in August 1996 received a
non-qualified stock option (an "Initial Option") to purchase 15,000 shares (or
25,000 if the qualified director also served on the Executive Committee as of
such date) of Class A Common Stock at an exercise price per share equal to the
initial public offering price of $13.50 per share. C. Byron Snyder and Barry K.
Fingerhut were each serving on the Executive Committee on such date and received
options for 25,000 shares of Class A Common Stock. Each of the Initial Options
granted were for a term of ten years and vest 8.33% per year on the first
through fourth anniversary dates of the grant date and 16.66% per year on the
fifth through eighth anniversary dates of the grant date; PROVIDED, HOWEVER, the
options scheduled to vest in years 5-8 from the grant date (i.e. 66 2/3% of the
total grant) vest immediately if the average of the daily high and low prices of
the Class A Common Stock for 20 consecutive trading days exceeds $27.99 prior to
the fourth anniversary of the grant date.

     When a new qualified director is appointed or elected to the Board, such
qualified director will receive an option grant to purchase 15,000 shares of
Class A Common Stock (or 25,000 shares if such director also becomes a member of
the Executive Committee).

     Further, each qualified director is automatically granted a non-qualified
stock option (an "Annual Option") to purchase 6,000 shares of Class A Common
Stock on the date of each annual meeting of

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stockholders. Each Annual Option is fully vested, has a term of ten years and an
exercise price equal to the fair market value of the Class A Common Stock on the
date of grant. The Board has proposed an amendment to the Directors' Plan to
provide for a one-time grant of 18,000 options to each qualified director who is
not an employee of Carriage or any subsidiary, which options have an exercise
price equal to the fair market value of the Class A Common Stock on the date of
grant (October 29, 1998), and vest at the rate of 6,000 shares each on the
annual stockholder meeting dates in 1999, 2000 and 2001. These options are in
lieu of the Annual Options that might otherwise have been granted to these
directors on those dates. SEE Proposal No. 5. The aggregate number of shares of
Class A Common Stock reserved for issuance under the Directors' Plan is 200,000
shares, but the Board has proposed to increase the number of authorized shares
to 350,000. SEE Proposal No. 5.

EMPLOYMENT AGREEMENTS

     Effective July 1, 1996, we entered into separate employment agreements with
Melvin C. Payne, Mark W. Duffey and Russell W. Allen. The employment agreements
with Mr. Payne and Mr. Duffey have an initial term of five years with an
evergreen two-year extension continuing after the first three years of the
employment agreements unless either Carriage or the executive gives 90 days
notice of termination. The employment agreement with Mr. Allen is for an initial
term of five years. Pursuant to these agreements, Messrs. Payne, Duffey and
Allen are entitled to receive a salary of not less than $225,000, $185,000 and
$145,000, respectively, and a bonus to be determined on an annual basis by the
Board of Directors. Mr. Allen's employment agreement was amended effective March
1, 1998 to increase his salary to $165,000. Effective January 1, 1999, the Board
increased the base salaries for Messrs. Payne, Duffey and Allen to $275,000,
$225,000 and $180,000, respectively. If the executive is terminated without
cause during the term of the agreement, the executive will receive a monthly
severance payment until the end of the term had the executive not been
terminated plus a proportionate amount of the bonus earned for the year of
termination. Such monthly severance payment would be equal to the average
monthly amount (including salary and bonus) earned by the executive during the
three calendar years prior to his termination. During the period that the
executive receives the monthly severance payments, the executive also would be
entitled to participate in any employee benefit plans or programs in which the
executive was participating at the time of his termination. In addition, each
agreement contains a covenant prohibiting the executive from competing with
Carriage during the period the executive is receiving compensation under his
agreement, provided, however, that following termination of employment, the
executive may elect to forego certain severance payments which he would be
entitled to under the employment agreement and thereafter would not be
prohibited from competing with us. In addition, the agreements contain customary
benefits and perquisites.

     Effective December 13, 1996, Carriage entered into an employment agreement
with Thomas C. Livengood for a five year term ending December 31, 2001. Pursuant
to this agreement, Mr. Livengood is entitled to receive a salary of not less
than $175,000 and a bonus to be determined on an annual basis by the Board of
Directors. Effective January 1, 1999, the Board increased Mr. Livengood's salary
to $190,000. The other terms of Mr. Livengood's employment agreement are
substantially the same as those described above for Messrs. Payne, Duffey and
Allen.

     Effective October 8, 1996, we entered into an employment agreement with
Gary O'Sullivan for a five year term. Pursuant to this agreement, Mr. O'Sullivan
is entitled to receive a salary of $190,000. Effective January 1, 1999, the
Board increased Mr. O'Sullivan's salary to $200,000. Mr. O'Sullivan's bonus
structure was also changed in 1999, so that he will be entitled to receive
quarterly incentive compensation (in lieu of any annual bonus) based upon our
preneed sales volume for each quarter. The original agreement also provided for
Mr. O'Sullivan to receive options under the 1996 Stock Option Plan for 30,000
shares at an exercise price of $18.00 per share, subject to vesting requirements
similar to other options granted under such plan. If Mr. O'Sullivan is
terminated without cause during the term of the agreement, he will receive his
base salary until the end of the term. In addition, the agreement contains
customary benefits and perquisites.

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            COMPENSATION COMMITTEE REPORT ON EXECUTIVE COMPENSATION

     The Compensation Committee (the "Committee") is responsible for
recommending compensation arrangements for senior management, making
recommendations with respect to employee benefit plans, making stock option
grants under the 1995 Stock Incentive Plan and the 1996 Stock Option Plan and
administering the 1997 Employee Stock Purchase Plan. Neither member of the
Committee is an employee of Carriage or any of its subsidiaries.

     The Committee seeks to improve our performance and maximize stockholder
value through, among other things, establishing appropriate executive
compensation levels and incentives. The Committee believes that compensation
levels should be tied to performance on both an individual and corporate level
so that management will be properly motivated to achieve Carriage's annual and
long term performance goals and to maximize stockholder value. Our executive
compensation policies are designed to:

      o   Allow us to attract and retain qualified executives with the
          leadership and other skills needed by Carriage at this stage in its
          development;

      o   Provide strong incentives to achieve our annual and long term
          performance goals, with rewards for both individual and corporate
          performance; and

      o   Solidly align the interests of management with those of the
          stockholders.

The Committee seeks to achieve these policy goals through base salary and an
annual incentive and performance based compensation structure that, from year to
year, may consist of cash bonuses, stock options, or both. The Committee's basic
philosophy in the three years since Carriage became public has been to maintain
relatively modest levels of cash compensation and emphasize stock options in
order to further align the interests of management with those of the
stockholders.

BASE SALARIES

     The base salaries for each of our executive officers are determined on an
individual basis, taking into consideration the duties and levels of
responsibility of the individual and compensation levels set by industry
competitors for comparable positions. The Committee believes that maintaining a
reasonable base salary structure is necessary to attract and retain talented
executives. However, the Committee's historical practice has been to establish a
base salary structure for our executive officers significantly below that of the
other publicly traded death care companies. Prior to 1999, there had been no
increase in the base salaries for four of the executive officers since 1996, and
for the fifth the most recent raise was in early 1997. The Compensation
Committee therefore concluded that the time had come to raise the base salary
levels and recommended to the full Board raises averaging approximately 14% for
the Named Executive Officers, which the full Board approved. Even with the new
compensation levels, the Committee is of the opinion that executive salaries are
below compensation levels for comparable officers in publicly traded companies
of like size and nature, and that participation in our option plans remains a
primary motivating factor in providing incentives for senior management.

BONUSES/STOCK OPTION GRANTS FOR EXECUTIVE OFFICERS FOR 1998

     The Committee, in consultation with management, reviews the performance of
Carriage's executive officers in the context of our overall performance, on an
annual basis, in determining whether and to what extent we should award annual
cash bonuses and stock options. This review process is typically conducted
following Carriage's release of its year-end financial information, and bonuses
or options are typically awarded in March of that year.

     Carriage awards stock options to its executive officers under the 1996
Stock Option Plan and to its key employees under the 1995 Stock Incentive Plan.
The purpose of the stock options is to provide the executive officers and key
employees with an opportunity to build a meaningful equity ownership interest in
Carriage. The Committee believes that management's ownership of a significant
equity interest in Carriage firmly aligns the interests of the executive
officers and key employees with those of Carriage's stockholders.

     The Committee and the Board strongly believe that stock options should be
the primary component of our incentive compensation program for its management
and staff. In 1997, Carriage started a new program to expand substantially the
base of employees who receive options, so that most full-time employees will

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have an ownership interest in Carriage. The Board also approved the 1997
Employee Stock Purchase Plan, which gives all employees an opportunity to
purchase shares of Class A Common Stock at a discount using payroll deductions.
This Plan was made available to even part-time employees who contribute to the
success of Carriage's funeral homes and cemeteries. Employee stock ownership is
one of our guiding principles and is considered critical to Carriage's future
success.

     The decision to award a bonus or stock option grant to an executive
officer, as well as the size of the award, is not specifically formula-driven
nor based on any specific corporate performance factors. In 1998, the Committee
awarded for 1997 performance a total of 72,000 fully vested options to the five
Named Executive Officers, but there were no cash bonuses. After reviewing the
1998 financial results and the individual performance of Carriage's executive
officers, the Committee concluded that annual bonuses should be made to the
executive officers for 1998. The consensus was that while our stock price
suffered a decline since late January 1999, Carriage's operations and
performance are fundamentally sound and the decline has been due to conditions
peculiar to other industry participants that have little to do with Carriage in
particular. Consistent with the Committee's philosophy, however, the Committee
awarded stock options rather than cash bonuses to all of the Named Executive
Officers except Mr. O'Sullivan, who received a mix of cash bonus (most of which
went to repay his loan from Carriage) and options. Such stock options for shares
of Class A Common Stock were granted to the Named Executive Officers on March
24, 1999 under the 1996 Stock Option Plan, as follows:

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                              NO. OF
NAME                                       STOCK OPTIONS
- ----------------------------------------   -------------
<S>                                        <C>
Melvin C. Payne.........................       32,000
Mark W. Duffey..........................       26,000
Russell W. Allen........................       17,000
Thomas C. Livengood.....................       21,000
Gary O'Sullivan.........................       10,000
</TABLE>

All of such options were issued at the fair market value on the date of grant
($13.25 per share), have a term of ten years and are immediately vested in full.

COMPENSATION POLICIES FOR THE CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER

     Melvin C. Payne has served as our Chief Executive Officer since Carriage
was founded in 1991. Mr. Payne's base salary had been $225,000 since Carriage's
initial public offering in August 1996, and he did not receive a cash bonus for
1996, 1997, or 1998. In recognition of his contribution to our success and to
bring his base salary more in line with the chief executive officers at other
publicly traded companies of similar size and nature to ours, the Committee
recommended, and the Board approved, an increase in Mr. Payne's base salary to
$275,000 per year. At the time of the initial public offering, Mr. Payne
received a grant of options under the 1996 Stock Option Plan for 250,000 shares.
In lieu of a cash bonus for 1997, the Committee granted Mr. Payne stock options
for 20,000 shares of Class A Common Stock. As described above, in 1999 Mr. Payne
receive options for another 32,000 shares. The Committee set this level of
options based on its subjective evaluation of Mr. Payne's performance in 1998.
As Chief Executive Officer, Mr. Payne bears primary responsibility for
Carriage's overall success. While our stock price has been hurt recently by
developments associated with other death care industry consolidators, the
Committee believes that under Mr. Payne's leadership, management has laid the
groundwork for Carriage to thrive in a new environment that will allow it to
capitalize on opportunities that will significantly benefit us in the long term.
The Committee continues to have strong confidence in Mr. Payne's leadership and
management skills to help Carriage achieve its long-term goals for growth and
performance.

                                          Compensation Committee
                                          Barry K. Fingerhut, Chairman
                                          C. Byron Snyder

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                         COMPARATIVE STOCKHOLDER RETURN

     The following graph compares on a cumulative basis the percentage change
during the period from Carriage's initial public offering on August 8, 1996, to
December 31, 1998, in the total stockholder return on (i) our Class A Common
Stock, (ii) the Standard & Poor's 500 Stock Price Index, and (iii) a peer group
index of four other publicly traded companies in the death care industry
(Service Corporation International, The Loewen Group, Inc., Stewart Enterprises,
Inc., and Equity Corporation International). This graph assumes that the value
of an investment in our Class A Common Stock and in each index was $100 on
August 9, 1996, and that all dividends were reinvested. The returns for each
company in the Peer Group are weighted according to its stock market
capitalization at the beginning of each period for which a return is indicated.

     COMPARISON OF STOCKHOLDER TOTAL RETURN AMONG CARRIAGE SERVICES, INC.,
                 THE S&P 500 INDEX, AND AN INDUSTRY PEER GROUP

                 [LINEAR GRAPH PLOTTED FROM DATA IN TABLE BELOW]

                                       COMPARISON OF STOCKHOLDER RETURNS
                                   ------------------------------------------
                                   8/9/96    12/31/96    12/31/97    12/31/98
                                   ------    --------    --------    --------
Carriage Services, Inc..........   $  100     $  136      $  115      $  172

S&P 500 Index...................   $  100     $  112      $  146      $  185

Peer Group......................   $  100     $  106      $  137      $  130

     The above data is based upon the closing price of Carriage's Class A Common
Stock on its first trading day, August 9, 1996, of $16.50 per share. The initial
public offering price for the Class A Common Stock, as shown in Carriage's
registration statement, was $13.50 per share. If the initial offering price of
$13.50 were used, the stockholder returns in the table above would have been
$166 at December 31, 1996, $141 at December 31, 1997, and $211 at December 31,
1998.

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                       COMPENSATION COMMITTEE INTERLOCKS
                           AND INSIDER PARTICIPATION

     At December 31, 1998, the members of the Compensation Committee were Barry
K. Fingerhut and C. Byron Snyder. No member of the Compensation Committee was an
officer of Carriage at any time during 1998.

     During 1998, no executive officer of Carriage served as (i) a member of the
compensation committee (or other board committee performing equivalent
functions) of another entity, one of whose executive officers served on the
Compensation Committee of the Board of Directors; (ii) a director of another
entity, one of whose executive officers served on the Compensation Committee of
the Board of Directors; or (iii) a member of the compensation committee (or
other board committee performing equivalent functions) of another entity, one of
whose executive officers served as a director of Carriage.

                                 PROPOSAL NO. 2
                   AMENDMENT TO THE 1995 STOCK INCENTIVE PLAN

AMENDMENT TO INCREASE AUTHORIZED SHARES

     On January 27, 1999, the Board of Directors approved a proposal to amend
our 1995 Stock Incentive Plan (the "1995 Plan") to increase the number of
shares of Class A and B Common Stock that are authorized to be issued pursuant
to the 1995 Plan from 950,000 to 1,450,000 shares.

     Through March 15, 1999, 865,828 stock options have been granted under the
1995 Plan that have not expired, which leaves approximately 84,172 shares
available for future grants of stock options and other awards under the 1995
Plan. Therefore, we believe that it is prudent to authorize additional shares so
they will be available for future grants.

     Although our officers, directors and employees, as well as consultants and
former owners of funeral homes and cemeteries that we have acquired, are
presently eligible to participate in the 1995 Plan, the Company has used the
1995 Plan almost exclusively to grant options to employees at our funeral home
and cemetery locations and for the non-officer group of employees at our
corporate office in Houston. The Company has used the 1996 Stock Option Plan for
the executive officer group. In 1997, we extended the 1995 Plan to include
almost all of our full-time employees. This is in line with our compensation
philosophy to create a sense of ownership in Carriage among our employees. We
believe that this philosophy will create added long-term incentives for our
employees to help us meet Carriage's long-term performance goals and maximize
stockholder value.

     Another important consideration to our Board in proposing this amendment to
the 1995 Plan has been Carriage's rapid growth through acquisitions during the
past year. In 1998, 48 funeral homes and seven cemeteries chose to affiliate
themselves with Carriage, and already in 1999 we have closed on, or have non-
binding letters of intent or definitive agreements for, 16 funeral homes and 14
cemeteries. This rapid growth has increased the number of additional employees
eligible to participate in the 1995 Plan. The Board believes that it is
necessary to provide the Compensation Committee and our management with
continued flexibility to use stock options under the 1995 Plan as part of
Carriage's compensation program.

     The Board of Directors believes that the 1995 Plan serves as a valuable
employee incentive that allows our employees an opportunity to build a
meaningful equity ownership interest in Carriage. Stock options provide
long-term incentives for the participants to increase stockholder value and
directly align the interests of our employees with our stockholders.

     The affirmative vote of a majority of the voting power of the shares of
capital stock present or represented by proxy at the Meeting will be required to
approve this proposal. WE RECOMMEND THAT YOU VOTE "FOR" THIS PROPOSAL TO AMEND
THE 1995 STOCK INCENTIVE PLAN.

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SUMMARY DESCRIPTION OF THE 1995 PLAN

     The terms of the 1995 Plan, after giving effect to the amendments set forth
above, are summarized below:

          (1)  ADMINISTRATION.  The 1995 Plan is administered by the
     Compensation Committee (the "Committee") of the Board of Directors, which
     is constituted to permit the 1995 Plan to comply with Section 162(m) under
     the Code. The Committee has sole and complete authority and discretion to
     select participants and grant options or other awards provided for in the
     1995 Plan; determine the terms and conditions upon which options or other
     awards provided for in the 1995 Plan are granted including any vesting
     schedule; determine whether an option is an incentive stock option or a
     non-qualified stock option; and make all determinations deemed necessary or
     advisable for the administration of the 1995 Plan.

          (2)  ELIGIBILITY.  All officers, directors and employees of Carriage
     and its subsidiary and affiliate corporations, consultants, and former
     owners of funeral homes or cemeteries that have been acquired by Carriage,
     are eligible to receive awards under the 1995 Plan, subject to approval of
     the Committee.

          (3)  AVAILABLE SHARES AND INDIVIDUAL AWARD LIMITATION.  The maximum
     number of shares of Class A or B Common Stock that may be issued under the
     1995 Plan, after giving effect to the amendment described above, is
     1,450,000 shares. Awards under the 1995 Plan prior to the public offering
     in August 1996 were satisfied with shares of Class B Common Stock, but
     awards after that time have been and will be satisfied with shares of Class
     A Common Stock. The maximum number of shares of Class A or B Common Stock
     that may be subject of awards granted under the 1995 Plan to any one
     employee during any calendar year is 200,000 shares.

          (4)  STOCK OPTIONS.  The 1995 Plan provides for the grant to eligible
     employees of incentive stock options under Section 422 of the Code, and
     non-qualified stock options to any eligible individual. The exercise price
     for any stock options is determined by the Compensation Committee and
     cannot be less than the fair market value on the date of grant. The fair
     market value of the Class A Common Stock on any date means the closing
     price on such trading date as reported by the New York Stock Exchange and
     published in THE WALL STREET JOURNAL. Unless a shorter period is specified
     by the Committee or the terms of the 1995 Plan, a stock option shall have a
     term of ten years from the date of grant. The exercise price of an option
     granted under the 1995 Plan may be paid in cash, in shares of Class A or B
     Common Stock, or, at the discretion of the Committee, in whole or in part
     with the surrender of another award under the 1995 Plan, the withholding of
     shares issuable upon exercise of the option, other property, or any
     combination thereof.

          (5)  RELOAD OPTIONS.  The 1995 Plan provides that in the event a
     holder pays all or a part of the exercise price or tax withholding
     requirement of an incentive stock option or a non-statutory stock option in
     shares of Class A or B Common Stock, the Committee may grant a
     corresponding "reload option," which is not qualified as an incentive
     stock option, for an equal number of shares of Class A Common Stock. Reload
     options may be granted concurrently with the award of a stock option or
     subsequent to the award of a stock option. Each reload option is fully
     exercisable six months from the effective date of grant.

          (6)  ALTERNATE APPRECIATION RIGHTS.  Alternate appreciation rights may
     be granted to eligible individuals in conjunction with options. Alternate
     appreciation rights give the holder, among other things, the right to a
     payment of Class A Common Stock in an amount equal to the difference
     between the fair market value of the Class A Common Stock at the date of
     exercise and the option exercise price.

          (7)  LIMITED RIGHTS AWARDS.  In conjunction with options and alternate
     appreciation rights, "limited rights" also may be granted to eligible
     individuals. Limited rights give the holder, among other things, the right
     to cash in an amount equal to the difference between the fair market value
     of the Class A Common Stock at the date of exercise and the option exercise
     price. Limited rights are exercisable for a period of seven months
     following the date of a "Change of Control." The 1995 Plan

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     provides that a Change in Control occurs (i) if Carriage is dissolved and
     liquidated, (ii) if Carriage is not the surviving entity in any merger,
     consolidation, or reorganization, (iii) if Carriage sells, leases or
     exchanges, or agrees to sell, lease, or exchange, all or substantially all
     of its assets, (iv) if any person, entity or group acquires or gains
     ownership or control of more than 50% of the outstanding shares of
     Carriage's voting stock (based upon voting power), or (v) if, after a
     contested election of directors, the persons who were directors before such
     election cease to constitute a majority of the Board of Directors.

          (8)  BONUS STOCK AWARDS.  The 1995 Plan also provides for the issuance
     of shares of Class A Common Stock which may be subject to forfeiture under
     circumstances specified by the Committee at the time of the award of such
     shares ("bonus stock"). Pursuant to a bonus stock award, shares of Class
     A Common Stock will be issued to the individual at the time the award is
     made without any payment to Carriage (other than any payment amount that
     may be determined by the Committee in its discretion), but such shares may
     be, if so specified by the Committee, subject to a vesting schedule,
     certain restrictions on the disposition thereof and certain obligations to
     forfeit such shares to Carriage, as determined in the discretion of the
     Committee. The Committee may provide that the restrictions on the transfer
     of bonus stock will lapse upon (i) the attainment of one or more
     performance targets established by the Committee that are based on (a) the
     price of a share of Class A or B Common Stock, (b) Carriage's earnings per
     share, (c) Carriage's revenue, (d) the revenue of a business unit of
     Carriage designated by the Committee, (e) the return on stockholders'
     equity achieved by Carriage, or (f) Carriage's pre-tax cash flow from
     operations, (ii) the participant's continued employment with Carriage for a
     specified period of time, or (iii) a combination of any of the foregoing.

          (9)  DEATH, RETIREMENT OR TERMINATION OF EMPLOYMENT.  Unless otherwise
     provided in an award agreement or otherwise agreed to by the Committee: (i)
     upon an optionee's death, the optionee's estate or transferee by bequest or
     inheritance may exercise such option within the lesser of one year after
     the date of death or the remaining term of the stock option, but only to
     the extent of any rights exercisable on the date of death; (ii) upon an
     optionee's termination of employment because of retirement or permanent
     disability, the optionee may, up to a maximum of 36 months (or such shorter
     time as reflected in the optionee's award agreement), exercise any stock
     options to the extent such options are exercisable during such 36-month
     period; and (iii) if an optionee's employment is terminated for any reason
     other than death, retirement or permanent disability, any stock options
     terminate three months after the date of termination.

          (10)  STOCK SPLITS AND CAPITAL READJUSTMENTS.  The 1995 Plan provides
     that the total number of shares covered by each award will be
     proportionately adjusted in the event of a stock split, reverse stock
     split, or other similar capital adjustment affected without the receipt of
     consideration by Carriage. Further, the total number of shares covered by
     the 1995 Plan, the exercise price per share under each option, the annual
     award limitation applicable to each employee, and any other matters deemed
     appropriate by the Committee, may be appropriately adjusted in event of a
     stock dividend or distribution, recapitalization, merger, consolidation,
     split-up, combination, exchange of shares, or similar transaction.

          (11)  AMENDMENT.  The Committee may amend, modify or terminate the
     1995 Plan at any time, but no amendment may be made without approval of our
     stockholders which (i) increases the maximum aggregate number of shares of
     Common Stock which may be issued under the 1995 Plan, or (ii) changes the
     class of individuals who are eligible to receive awards under the 1995
     Plan.

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                                 PROPOSAL NO. 3
                    AMENDMENT TO THE 1996 STOCK OPTION PLAN

AMENDMENT TO INCREASE AUTHORIZED SHARES

     The Board of Directors has approved a proposal to amend our 1996 Stock
Option Plan (the "1996 Plan") to increase the number of shares of Class A
Common Stock that are authorized to be issued thereunder from 800,000 to
1,300,000 shares. The Board of Directors' approval of this amendment to the 1996
Plan was subject to stockholder approval. If our stockholders do not approve
this amendment to the 1996 Plan, then any award made under the 1996 Plan, to the
extent the award (in combination with other such awards) causes the existing
share authorization limit to be exceeded, will be void and canceled.

     The reasons for this proposed increase are substantially the same as the
reasons for the proposed increase in authorized shares for the 1995 Plan which
are discussed in Proposal 3. Therefore, these reasons will not be repeated
except for discussion specific to the 1996 Plan.

     Carriage has used the 1996 Plan primarily to grant options to our executive
officers. As of December 31, 1998, 694,000 stock options were outstanding under
the 1996 Plan. Of these, 616,000 options have a vesting schedule in which
one-third vest over a period of four years and the balance of two-thirds vest
immediately if, within four years, Carriage's stock price exceeds $27.99 for 20
consecutive trading days prior to the fourth anniversary of the grant date;
otherwise, the two-thirds balance vests over years five through eight during the
term of the option. Most of these options have been outstanding for two years,
so that 50% of the one-third portion of these options has been vested. Although
our stock price exceeded the $27.99 level for a brief time at the end of 1998
and beginning of 1999, it was not sustained for the necessary 20-day period and
so the remaining two-thirds of these options have not vested. The remaining
78,000 options outstanding at December 31, 1998, are fully vested, almost all of
which were granted in lieu of cash bonuses for 1997 performance.

     In March 1999, we granted to the Named Executive Officers a total of
106,000 options, all fully vested, in lieu of cash bonuses for 1998 performance.
SEE "Executive Compensation -- Compensation Committee Report." These grants
brought the total outstanding options to 800,000, which is the 1996 Plan's
current capacity, subject to the amendment now being proposed.

     The $27.99 target was established in August 1996 at the time of our initial
public offering based upon a presumed return on equity formulation which
management believed was appropriate in the environment at that time. Although
there are no present intentions to change the vesting requirements for the
existing options, the Compensation Committee nevertheless felt it necessary,
given the new environment which the Committee believes has existed since January
1999 following certain announcements by other death care consolidators and
market reactions to these announcements, to provide further incentives for
senior management to seek to enhance stockholder value through a stock price
recovery from its March 1999 levels. Accordingly, the Compensation Committee has
approved the grant of 400,000 new options to the Named Executive Officers at
$13.25 per share, to become fully vested one year after grant date regardless of
future stock performance. These options have been issued subject to stockholder
approval of this increase in the authorized shares issuable under the 1996 Plan
and will be cancelled if the increase is not approved by the stockholders. If
the increase is approved, 1,200,000 stock options will be outstanding under the
1996 Plan, leaving 100,000 shares available for future grants.

     The affirmative vote of a majority of the voting power of the shares of
capital stock present or represented by Proxy at the Meeting will be required to
approve this proposal. WE RECOMMEND THAT YOU VOTE "FOR" THIS PROPOSAL TO AMEND
THE 1996 STOCK OPTION PLAN.

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SUMMARY DESCRIPTION OF THE 1996 PLAN

     The terms of the 1996 Plan, after giving effect to the amendment described
above, are summarized below:

          (1)  ADMINISTRATION.  The 1996 Plan is administered by the Committee,
     which is constituted to permit the 1996 Plan to comply with Section 162(m)
     under the Code. The Committee has sole and complete authority and
     discretion to select participants and grant options under the 1996 Plan;
     determine the terms and conditions upon which options under the 1996 Plan
     are granted including any vesting schedule; and make all determinations
     deemed necessary or advisable for the administration of the 1996 Plan.

          (2)  ELIGIBILITY.  All employees (including officers and directors who
     are also employees) of Carriage and its subsidiaries are eligible to
     receive options under the 1996 Plan, subject to approval of the Committee.

          (3)  AVAILABLE SHARES AND INDIVIDUAL AWARD LIMITATIONS.  The maximum
     number of shares of Class A Common Stock that may be issued under the 1996
     Plan, after giving effect to the amendment described above, is 1,300,000
     shares. The maximum number of shares of Class A Common Stock that may be
     the subject of options granted under the 1996 Plan to any one employee
     during any calendar year is 200,000 shares.

          (4)  STOCK OPTIONS.  The 1996 Plan provides for the grant to eligible
     employees of incentive stock options under Section 422 of the Code and
     non-qualified stock options. The exercise price for any stock options are
     determined by the Committee and cannot be less than the fair market value
     on the date of grant. The fair market value of the Class A Common Stock on
     any date means the closing price on such trading date as reported by the
     New York Stock Exchange and published in THE WALL STREET JOURNAL. The
     exercise price of an option granted under the 1996 Plan may be paid in
     cash, in shares of Class A Common Stock (valued at fair market value at the
     date of exercise) or by a combination of such means of payment as may be
     determined by the Committee.

          (5)  STOCK APPRECIATION RIGHTS.  The 1996 Plan provides that stock
     appreciation rights may be granted to employees in conjunction with
     options. Stock appreciation rights give the holder, among other things, the
     right to a payment in an amount equal to the difference between the fair
     market value of the Class A Common Stock at the date of exercise and the
     option exercise price. Such payment may be made, at the election of the
     holder (subject to the consent or disapproval of the Committee of any
     election to receive cash), in cash, in shares of Class A Common Stock
     (valued at fair market value at the date of exercise), or by a combination
     thereof.

          (6)  STOCK SPLITS AND CAPITAL READJUSTMENTS.  The 1996 Plan provides
     that the total number of shares covered by each award will be
     proportionately adjusted in the event of a stock split, reverse stock
     split, or other similar capital adjustment affected without the receipt of
     consideration by Carriage. Further, the total number of shares covered by
     the 1996 Plan, the exercise price per share under each option, the annual
     limitation on the number of shares that may be subject to options awarded
     to each employee, and any other matters deemed appropriate by the
     Committee, may be appropriately adjusted in event of a stock dividend or
     distribution, recapitalization, merger, consolidation, split-up,
     combination, exchange of shares, or similar transaction.

          (7)  AMENDMENT.  The Committee may amend, modify or terminate the 1996
     Plan at any time, but no amendment may be made without approval of the
     stockholders of Carriage which (i) increases the maximum aggregate number
     of shares of Common Stock which may be issued under the 1996 Plan, or (ii)
     changes the class of individuals who are eligible to receive awards under
     the 1996 Plan.

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                                 PROPOSAL NO. 4
              AMENDMENTS TO THE 1996 DIRECTORS' STOCK OPTION PLAN

AMENDMENTS TO 1996 DIRECTORS' STOCK OPTION PLAN

     The Board of Directors has approved a proposal to amend our 1996 Directors'
Stock Option Plan (the "Directors' Plan") to increase the number of shares of
Class A Common Stock which are authorized to be issued thereunder from 200,000
to 350,000 shares. The Board of Directors' approval of this amendment to the
Directors' Plan was subject to stockholder approval. If our stockholders do not
approve this amendment to the Directors' Plan, then any award made under the
Directors' Plan on or after October 29, 1998 will be void and canceled, to the
extent the award (in combination with other such awards) causes the existing
share authorization limit to be exceeded.

     The Board has approved two other amendments, one to authorize a one-time
grant of options to purchase 18,000 shares to each non-employee director serving
as of October 29, 1998, in lieu of the automatic grants that otherwise might be
awarded on the annual meeting dates in 1999, 2000 and 2001, and the other to
permit directors who are employees of a subsidiary of Carriage, but who are not
executive officers of the parent corporation, to participate in other Carriage
option plans.

     Prior to October 1998, there were outstanding 188,000 stock options under
the Directors' Plan. As described below, the Directors' Plan provides for
automatic grants to eligible directors in the amount of 6,000 shares on each
annual meeting date. The one-time grant to certain eligible directors on October
29, 1998, described below covered 18,000 shares for each such director, and
there were four such directors, for a total grant on such date of 72,000 shares.
These four directors are thereby disqualified, however, to receive automatic
option grants for the annual stockholder meetings occurring in 1999, 2000 and
2001. As the Board is presently composed, there are three remaining directors
who are eligible to receive option grants on such dates. Therefore, there are
now 260,000 options outstanding, if the other options which are expected to be
granted at the 1999 annual stockholders meeting would bring the total to
278,000. If there are no changes in Board composition, the total outstanding
options would increase to 314,000 by the annual stockholders meeting in 2001.
The Board concluded that an increase in the number of authorized shares under
the Directors' Plan to 350,000 was warranted by the awards made and expected to
be made under the Directors' Plan's terms.

     On October 29, 1998, the Board approved another amendment to the Directors'
Plan which provided for a one-time award of 18,000 shares to those directors who
were eligible to participate in the Directors' Plan on such date but who were
not then full-time employees of Carriage or any subsidiary. These directors were
Messrs. Snyder and Fingerhut (who both serve on the Executive Committee) and
Messrs. Erickson and Stedman (who serve on the Audit Committee). These options
vest over three-years at the rate of 6,000 shares per year, based upon the
continued service of these directors on the Board through the annual stockholder
meeting dates in 1999, 2000 and 2001. The option price is $23.00 per share, the
market price in effect on the date of award. In consideration for this one-time
award, these four directors are ineligible to receive automatic option grants on
those three annual meeting dates. The Board concluded that these options were
appropriate in special recognition of the contributions made by these four
directors since they joined the Board.

     Finally, the Board has approved an amendment to remove the requirement that
in order for a director to be eligible to participate in the Directors' Plan,
the director must not be eligible to participate in any other stock option plan
sponsored by Carriage. When the Directors' Plan was originally adopted, only
directors who were not employees of Carriage or any of its subsidiaries were
eligible to participate. The Directors' Plan was amended in 1997 to allow
directors to participate, even if employees of a Carriage subsidiary, so long as
they are not executive officers of the parent corporation and are not eligible
to participate in other Carriage option plans. Management has come to believe,
however, that directors who are subsidiary employees can, in addition to their
contributions to the Board, also make valuable contributions in their capacities
as subsidiary employees, and that it is inconsistent with Carriage's philosophy
and principles to deny them the opportunity, as employees, to participate in
Carriage's equity through the grant of options in

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a manner consistent with other Carriage employees. Nevertheless, if the
amendments are approved, directors who are executive officers of the parent
corporation would remain ineligible to participate in the Directors' Plan.

     The affirmative vote of a majority of the voting power of the shares of
capital stock present or represented by proxy at the Meeting will be required to
approve this proposal. WE RECOMMEND THAT YOU VOTE "FOR" THIS PROPOSAL TO AMEND
THE 1996 DIRECTORS' STOCK OPTION PLAN.

SUMMARY DESCRIPTION OF THE 1996 DIRECTORS' STOCK OPTION PLAN

     The terms of the Directors' Plan, including the amendments described above,
are summarized below:

          (1)  AUTHORIZED SHARES.  The aggregate number of shares of Class A
     Common Stock that may be issued pursuant to the exercise of options granted
     under the Directors' Plan, after giving effect to the amendment described
     above, is 350,000 shares. Shares issuable pursuant to the Directors' Plan
     may be authorized but unissued shares or reacquired shares, and the Company
     may purchase shares required for this purpose.

          (2)  ELIGIBILITY.  A director who is not an executive officer of the
     Company and does not participate in any other stock incentive plans of the
     Company shall be eligible to participate in the Directors' Plan
     (hereinafter an "Eligible Director").

          (3)  INITIAL IPO OPTION GRANT.  On the date of the Company's initial
     public offering ("IPO") in August 1996, each director who met the
     eligibility requirements on such date, or who was elected to the Board at
     such date, received a stock option to purchase 15,000 shares of Class A
     Common Stock at an exercise price per share equal to the initial public
     offering price of $13.50 per share; provided that any such director then
     serving on the Executive Committee also received an additional stock option
     to purchase 10,000 shares of Class A Common Stock at the same price.

          (4)  INITIAL OPTION GRANT TO SUBSEQUENT DIRECTORS.  Any new Eligible
     Director who is appointed or elected to the Board subsequent to the
     Company's IPO shall receive an initial option grant to purchase 15,000
     shares of Class A Common Stock, or 25,000 shares if such new director also
     becomes a member of the Executive Committee at such date. If an Eligible
     Director is elected to the Board for the first time at an annual meeting of
     stockholders, such Eligible Director shall receive both the initial option
     grant and the annual option grant described in the next paragraph.

          (5)  ANNUAL OPTION GRANT.  On the date of each annual meeting of
     stockholders, each Eligible Director shall receive a stock option to
     purchase 6,000 shares of Class A Common Stock.

          (6)  TERMS OF OPTION GRANTS.  All stock options granted under the
     Directors' Plan are non-qualified stock options not entitled to special tax
     treatment under Section 422 of the Code, and have a term of ten years from
     the date of grant. Except for the initial options granted contemporaneous
     with the Company's IPO, the exercise price of all other stock options
     granted under the Directors' Plan will be the "fair market value" of the
     Class A Common Stock on the date of grant. Fair market value, as of any
     date, means the average of the high and low prices of the Class A Common
     Stock on such date, as reported on the New York Stock Exchange (or any
     other exchange that the Class A Common Stock shall then be traded). The
     number of shares covered by each option and the exercise price per share
     will be proportionately adjusted in the event of a stock split, reverse
     stock split, stock dividend, or similar capital adjustment affected without
     receipt of consideration by the Company.

          (7)  TERMINATION AFTER DEATH, DISABILITY OR CHANGE OF CONTROL.  All
     options granted under the Directors' Plan will also become fully vested and
     exercisable in full if an Eligible Director's membership on the Board
     terminates by reason of death or disability or upon the occurrence of a
     "Change of Control" while a director is a member of the Board of
     Directors. The Directors' Plan provides that a Change of Control occurs (i)
     if the Company is dissolved and liquidated, (ii) if the Company is not the
     surviving entity in any merger, consolidation, or reorganization, (iii) if
     the Company sells, leases or exchanges, or agrees to sell, lease, or
     exchange, all or substantially all of its assets, (iv) if any person,
     entity or group acquires or gains ownership or control of more than 50% of

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     the outstanding shares of the Company's voting stock (based upon voting
     power), or (v) if, after a contested election of directors, the persons who
     were directors before such election cease to constitute a majority of the
     Board of Directors. Upon termination of an Eligible Director's membership
     on the Board of Directors, the Eligible Director will have three months (12
     months if such termination is by reason of death or disability) to exercise
     his or her options, but only to the extent such options are vested as of
     the date of such termination.

OPTION GRANTS

     For each of our executive officers and the various groups indicated below,
the following table shows (i) the number of shares of Common Stock subject to
options collectively granted under the 1995 Plan, the 1996 Plan and the
Directors' Plan that are currently outstanding, and (ii) the weighted average
exercise price payable per share under such options.

                                                             WEIGHTED AVERAGE
                                        NUMBER OF             EXERCISE PRICE
          NAME AND POSITION             OPTIONS SHARES      OF GRANTED OPTIONS
- -------------------------------------   --------------      ------------------
Melvin C. Payne......................       452,000(1)            $13.57
  Chairman and Chief Executive
     Officer
Mark W. Duffey.......................       292,000(1)            $13.60
  President
Russell W. Allen.....................       119,000(1)            $13.77
  Executive Vice President of
     Operations
Thomas C. Livengood..................       201,000(1)            $15.68
  Executive Vice President, CFO and
     Secretary
Gary O'Sullivan......................       100,000(1)            $15.91
  Senior Vice President-Marketing
All executive officers, as a group (5
  persons)...........................       764,000(1)            $14.16
All current directors (other than
  executive officers),
  as a group (7 persons).............       275,000(2)            $19.17
All employees, excluding executive
  officers, as a group (728
  persons)...........................       855,995(3)            $17.95
- ------------
(1) Issued under the 1996 Plan.

(2) Issued under the Directors' Plan, except for 15,000 options issued to Mr.
    Larrabee under the 1995 Plan.

(3) Issued under the 1995 Plan.

                                 PROPOSAL NO. 5
          RATIFICATION OF SELECTION OF INDEPENDENT PUBLIC ACCOUNTANTS

     We have selected Arthur Andersen LLP as Carriage's independent public
accountants for the year ending December 31, 1999, and have further directed
that management submit the selection of the independent accountants for your
ratification at the Meeting. Arthur Andersen LLP has audited Carriage's
financial statements since 1992. Representatives of Arthur Andersen LLP are
expected to be present at the Meeting and will have an opportunity to make a
statement if they so desire and will be available to respond to appropriate
questions.

     Stockholder ratification of the selection of Arthur Andersen LLP as
Carriage's independent public accountants is not required by our By-laws or
otherwise. If Carriage's stockholders fail to ratify the selection, we will
reconsider whether to retain that firm. Even if the selection is ratified, the
Board, in its discretion may direct the appointment of a different independent
accounting firm at any time during the year if we feel that such a change would
be in the best interests of Carriage and its stockholders. The affirmative vote
of the holders of a majority of the voting power of the shares of capital stock
present or represented by proxy at the Meeting will be required to ratify the
selection of Arthur Andersen LLP.

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     WE RECOMMEND THAT YOU VOTE "FOR" THIS PROPOSAL TO RATIFY THE SELECTION OF
ARTHUR ANDERSEN LLP.

                                 OTHER BUSINESS

     Management does not intend to bring any other business before the Meeting
and has not been informed that any other matters are to be presented at the
meeting by others. If other matters properly come before the Meeting or any
adjournment thereof, the persons named in the accompanying proxy and acting
thereunder will vote in accordance with their best judgment.

     Proposals of stockholders intended to be presented at the next Annual
Meeting of Stockholders, and otherwise eligible, must be received by the
Secretary of Carriage (at the address indicated on the first page of this Proxy
Statement) no later than December 1, 1999, in order to be included in Carriage's
proxy material and form of proxy relating to that meeting.

                             ADDITIONAL INFORMATION

ANNUAL REPORT

     THE ANNUAL REPORT TO STOCKHOLDERS FOR THE YEAR ENDED DECEMBER 31, 1998, IS
BEING MAILED TO ALL STOCKHOLDERS ENTITLED TO VOTE AT THE MEETING. THE ANNUAL
REPORT TO STOCKHOLDERS DOES NOT FORM ANY PART OF THE PROXY SOLICITING MATERIALS.
COPIES OF THE COMPANY'S ANNUAL REPORT ON FORM 10-K FOR THE YEAR ENDED DECEMBER
31, 1998, AS FILED WITH THE SECURITIES AND EXCHANGE COMMISSION, ARE AVAILABLE
WITHOUT CHARGE TO STOCKHOLDERS UPON REQUEST TO THOMAS C. LIVENGOOD, EXECUTIVE
VICE PRESIDENT AND SECRETARY, CARRIAGE SERVICES, INC., 1300 POST OAK BLVD.,
SUITE 1500, HOUSTON, TEXAS 77056.

REGARDLESS OF THE NUMBER OF SHARES YOU OWN, IT IS IMPORTANT THAT THEY BE
REPRESENTED AT THE MEETING, AND YOU ARE RESPECTFULLY REQUESTED TO SIGN, DATE AND
RETURN YOUR PROXY CARD IN THE ENVELOPE PROVIDED AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.

                                          By Order of the Board of Directors

                                      /s/ THOMAS C. LIVENGOOD
                                          EXECUTIVE VICE PRESIDENT, CHIEF
                                          FINANCIAL OFFICER AND SECRETARY

Houston, Texas
March 30, 1999

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                            CARRIAGE SERVICES, INC.

             PROXY SOLICITED ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS OF
       THE COMPANY FOR THE ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS ON MAY 11, 1999

        The undersigned, hereby revoking all prior proxies, hereby appoints Mark
     W. Duffey and Thomas C. Livengood, and each of them, his true and lawful
     proxies, with full and several power of substitution, to vote all the
     shares of Class A or B Common Stock or Series D Preferred Stock of
     CARRIAGE SERVICES, INC. standing in the name of the undersigned, at the
     Annual Meeting of Stockholders of CARRIAGE SERVICES, INC. to be held on May
     11, 1999 and at any adjournment(s) thereof, on all matters coming before
     said meeting.

        THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS RECOMMENDS A VOTE FOR EACH OF THE PROPOSALS
     AS STATED ON THE REVERSE SIDE OF THIS PROXY CARD AND, UNLESS A CONTRARY 
     CHOICE IS SPECIFIED, THIS PROXY WILL BE VOTED FOR EACH OF SUCH PROPOSALS.

        CONTINUED AND TO BE SIGNED ON REVERSE SIDE                   SEE REVERSE
                                                                         SIDE
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                PLEASE DETACH AND MAIL IN THE ENVELOPE PROVIDED
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
           PLEASE MARK YOUR
    [X]    VOTES AS IN THIS
           EXAMPLE.

                                                       
                
                      VOTE FOR all         VOTE                                 
                      nominees listed    WITHHELD   NOMINEES: Stuart W. Stedman
1. ELECTION OF                                                Ronald A. Erickson
 THREE CLASS III           [ ]             [ ]                Mark F. Wilson
 DIRECTORS for                                                        
 a three-year term
 ending at the 2002 Annual Meeting of Stockholders.

 VOTE FOR all nominees listed, except vote withheld
 from the following nominees(if any):

____________________________________________________

                                                          FOR   AGAINST  ABSTAIN
2. Proposal to amend the 1995 Stock Incentive Plan        [ ]     [ ]      [ ]

3. Proposal to amend the 1996 Stock Incentive Plan.       [ ]     [ ]      [ ]  

4. Proposal to amend the 1996 Directors Stock             [ ]     [ ]      [ ]  
   Option Plan.

5. Proposal to ratify Arthur Andersen LLP as the          [ ]     [ ]      [ ]  
   independent public accountants of the Company                                
   1999.                                                                        

6. In their discretion, the Proxies are authorized to     [ ]     [ ]      [ ]  
   vote upon any other business as may properly come 
   before the meeting or any adjournment(s) thereof. 
   
   PLEASE MARK, SIGN, DATE AND RETURN THE PROXY CARD PROMPTLY BY USING THE 
   ENCLOSED ENVELOPE.

SIGNATURE:___________________  DATED:______________  , 1999

PRINT NAME:_______________________________________________             

NOTE: (Please sign exactly as your name appears hearon. For joint           
      accounts, each joint owner should sign. Executors, administrators,     
      trustees, etc., should also so indicate when signing.)                 



                                                                    EXHIBIT 99.1

                            CARRIAGE SERVICES, INC.

                 AMENDMENT NO. 2 TO 1995 STOCK INCENTIVE PLAN

            THIS AMENDMENT NO. 2 (this "Amendment") to the Amended and Restated
1995 Stock Incentive Plan (the "Plan"), of CARRIAGE SERVICES, INC., a Delaware
corporation (the "Company"), adopted effective March 25, 1999;

            WHEREAS, the Company originally adopted the 1995 Stock Incentive
Plan effective July 1, 1995, amended the Plan effective as of July 18, 1996, and
then amended and restated the Plan effective as of January 7, 1997 and further
amended the Plan effective February 4, 1998; and

            WHEREAS, the Board of Directors of the Company has proposed that the
Plan be further amended as hereafter described;

            NOW, THEREFORE, the Plan shall be amended as follows:

            1. DEFINED TERMS. Capitalized terms used but not defined herein
shall have the meanings given such terms in the Plan.

            2. NUMBER OF AUTHORIZED SHARES. The third sentence of Section 1.5(a)
of the Plan is hereby amended in its entirety so that, as amended, the third
sentence of said Section 1.5(a) shall read as follows:

                  "The maximum number of shares of Common Stock that may be
            issued under this Plan shall be 1,450,000."

            3. EFFECTIVENESS OF AMENDMENT. The amendment to the Plan evidenced
by this Amendment shall be effective as of March 25, 1999, provided that such
amendment is approved by the stockholders of the Company on or before December
31, 1999.

            4. RATIFICATION. As amended hereby, the Plan in hereby ratified and
confirmed.

                                                                    EXHIBIT 99.2

                            CARRIAGE SERVICES, INC.

                   AMENDMENT NO. 2 TO 1996 STOCK OPTION PLAN

            THIS AMENDMENT NO. 2 (this "Amendment") to the Amended and Restated
1996 Stock Option Plan (as thereafter amended, the "Plan"), of CARRIAGE
SERVICES, INC., a Delaware corporation (the "Company"), adopted effective
January 27, 1999;

            WHEREAS, the Company originally adopted the 1996 Stock Option Plan
effective August 13, 1996, and then amended and restated the Plan effective as
of January 7, 1997 and amended the Plan effective February 4, 1998; and

            WHEREAS, the Board of Directors of the Company has proposed that the
Plan be further amended as hereafter described;

            NOW, THEREFORE, the Plan shall be amended as follows:

            1. DEFINED TERMS. Capitalized terms used but not defined herein
shall have the meanings given such terms in the Plan.

            2. NUMBER OF AUTHORIZED SHARES. The first sentence of Paragraph V of
the Plan is hereby amended in its entirety so that, as amended, the first
sentence of said Paragraph V shall read as follows:

                  "The aggregate number of shares which may be issued under
            Options granted under the Plan shall not exceed 1,300,000 shares of
            Stock."

            3. EFFECTIVENESS OF AMENDMENT. The amendment to the Plan evidenced
by this Amendment shall be effective as of January 27, 1999, provided that such
amendment is approved by the stockholders of the Company on or before December
31, 1999.

            6. RATIFICATION. As amended hereby, the Plan in hereby ratified and
confirmed.

                                                                    EXHIBIT 99.3

                            CARRIAGE SERVICES, INC.

             AMENDMENT NO. 1 TO 1996 DIRECTORS' STOCK OPTION PLAN

            THIS AMENDMENT NO. 1 (this "Amendment") to the Amended and Restated
1996 Directors' Stock Option Plan (the "Plan"), of CARRIAGE SERVICES, INC., a
Delaware corporation (the "Company"), adopted effective October 29, 1998;

            WHEREAS, the Company originally adopted the Plan (then known as the
1996 Nonemployee Directors' Stock Option Plan) effective July 18, 1996, and then
amended and restated the Plan effective as of January 7, 1997; and

            WHEREAS, the Board of Directors of the Company has proposed that the
Plan be further amended as hereafter described;

            NOW, THEREFORE, the Plan shall be amended as follows:

            1. DEFINED TERMS. Capitalized terms used but not defined herein
shall have the meanings given such terms in the Plan.

            2. ELIGIBILITY; AWARDS. There shall be added to Paragraph III of the
Plan a new subparagraph E, which subparagraph E shall read as follows:

                  "E. Each person who is an Eligible Director on October 29,
            1998 and who on such date is not a full-time employee of either the
            Company or any subsidiary of the Company ("Nonemployee Director"),
            shall, in addition to the other Options described in this Paragraph
            III, receive as of such date, but without the exercise of discretion
            of any person or persons, an Option exercisable for 18,000 shares of
            Stock (subject to adjustment in the same manner as provided in
            Paragraph VII hereof with respect to shares of Stock subject to
            Options then outstanding), subject to the vesting requirements
            hereafter described. The purchase price of Stock under each Option
            issued under this subparagraph E shall be the same as specified in
            Paragraph V hereof. Each Option granted under this subparagraph E
            shall vest as to the number of shares of Stock shown below, subject
            to the requirement that each Nonemployee Director receiving such
            Option be and remain an Eligible Director on and as of each of the
            dates of the Company's annual meeting of stockholders in the years
            shown opposite such number of shares:
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            ANNUAL STOCKHOLDERS
            MEETING  IN THE YEAR          NO. OF SHARES OF STOCK
            --------------------          ----------------------
                  1999                          6,000
                  2000                          6,000
                  2001                          6,000

                  A Nonemployee Director receiving Options under this
            subparagraph E shall not be eligible to receive Options under
            subparagraph C of this Paragraph III on any of the annual
            stockholders meeting dates set forth above. All of the other
            provisions of the Plan applicable to Options granted hereunder shall
            apply equally to Options granted pursuant to this subparagraph E."

            3. NUMBER OF AUTHORIZED SHARES. The first sentence of Article IV of
the Plan is hereby amended in its entirety so that, as amended, the first
sentence of said Article IV shall read as follows:

                  "The aggregate number of shares which may be issued under
            Options granted under the Plan shall not exceed 350,000 shares of
            Stock."

            4. EFFECTIVENESS OF AMENDMENT. The amendment to the Plan evidenced
by this Amendment shall be effective as of October 29, 1998, provided that such
amendment is approved by the stockholders of the Company on or before September
30, 1999.

            5. RATIFICATION. As amended hereby, the Plan in hereby ratified and
confirmed.

                                                                    EXHIBIT 99.4

                            CARRIAGE SERVICES, INC.

             AMENDMENT NO. 2 TO 1996 DIRECTORS' STOCK OPTION PLAN

            THIS AMENDMENT NO. 2 (this "Amendment") to the Amended and Restated
1996 Directors' Stock Option Plan (as heretofore amended, the "Plan"), of
CARRIAGE SERVICES, INC., a Delaware corporation (the "Company"), adopted
effective February 28, 1999;

            WHEREAS, the Company originally adopted the Plan (then known as the
1996 Nonemployee Directors' Stock Option Plan) effective July 18, 1996, and then
amended and restated the Plan effective as of January 7, 1997, and the Company
thereafter amended the Plan on October 29, 1998; and

            WHEREAS, the Board of Directors of the Company has proposed that the
Plan be further amended as hereafter described;

            NOW, THEREFORE, the Plan shall be amended as follows:

            1. DEFINED TERMS. Capitalized terms used but not defined herein
shall have the meanings given such terms in the Plan.

            2. ELIGIBILITY. The first sentence of Paragraph IIIA of the Plan is
hereby amended in its entirety so that, as amended, the first sentence of said
Paragraph IIIA shall read as follows:

                  "Options may be granted only to individuals who are Eligible
            Directors of the Company."

            4. EFFECTIVENESS OF AMENDMENT. The amendment to the Plan evidenced
by this Amendment shall be effective as of February 28, 1999, provided that such
amendment is approved by the stockholders of the Company on or before September
30, 1999.

            5. RATIFICATION. As amended hereby, the Plan in hereby ratified and
confirmed.


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