STATEN ISLAND BANCORP INC
DEF 14A, 2000-03-31
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                           SCHEDULE 14A INFORMATION

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                    [Staten Island Bancorp, Inc. Letterhead]


March 30, 2000


Dear Stockholder:

         You are cordially  invited to attend the Annual Meeting of Stockholders
of Staten Island Bancorp,  Inc. The meeting will be held at the Excelsior Grand,
located at 2380 Hylan Boulevard, Staten Island, New York, on Thursday, April 27,
2000 at 10:00 a.m.,  Eastern Time. The matters to be considered by  stockholders
at the Annual Meeting are described in the accompanying materials.

         It is very  important  that you be  represented  at the Annual  Meeting
regardless of the number of shares you own or whether you are able to attend the
meeting in person. We urge you to mark, sign, and date your proxy card today and
return  it in the  envelope  provided,  even if you plan to  attend  the  Annual
Meeting.  This will not prevent you from voting in person,  but will ensure that
your vote is counted if you are unable to attend.

         Your continued  support of and interest in Staten Island Bancorp,  Inc.
is sincerely appreciated.

                                                     Sincerely,



                                                     /s/ Harry P. Doherty
                                                     --------------------
                                                     Harry P. Doherty
                                                     Chairman of the Board
                                                     and Chief Executive Officer



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                           STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.
                                 15 Beach Street
                          Staten Island, New York 10304
                                 (718) 447-7900


                    NOTICE OF ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                          To Be Held on April 27, 2000


         NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN that the Annual Meeting of Stockholders ("Annual
Meeting") of Staten Island  Bancorp,  Inc. (the  "Company")  will be held at the
Excelsior Grand,  located at 2380 Hylan Boulevard,  Staten Island,  New York, on
Thursday,  April  27,  2000 at  10:00  a.m.,  Eastern  Time,  for the  following
purposes,  all of which are more completely set forth in the accompanying  proxy
statement ("Proxy Statement"):

         (1) To elect three (3) directors  for a three-year  term or until their
successors are elected and qualified;

         (2) To  ratify  the  appointment  by the Board of  Directors  of Arthur
Andersen L.L.P. as the Company's independent auditors for the fiscal year ending
December 31, 2000;

         (3) To consider and vote upon a  stockholder's  proposal that the Board
of  Directors  take the  necessary  steps to  achieve  a sale or  merger  of the
Company;
         (4)  To  consider  and  vote  upon a  stockholder  proposal  to  remove
anti-takeover  defenses  from the Company's  Certificate  of  Incorporation  and
Bylaws; and
         (5) To transact  such other  business as may  properly  come before the
meeting or any  adjournment  thereof.  Management is not aware of any other such
business.

         The Board of  Directors  has fixed March 17, 2000 as the voting  record
date for the determination of stockholders  entitled to notice of and to vote at
the  Annual  Meeting.  Only  those  stockholders  of  record  as of the close of
business on that date will be entitled to vote at the Annual Meeting.

                                             BY ORDER OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS


                                                     /s/ Patricia J. Villani
                                                     -----------------------
                                                     Patricia J. Villani
                                                     Corporate Secretary

Staten Island, New York
March 30, 2000

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YOU ARE CORDIALLY  INVITED TO ATTEND THE ANNUAL  MEETING.  IT IS IMPORTANT  THAT
YOUR SHARES BE REPRESENTED REGARDLESS OF THE NUMBER YOU OWN. EVEN IF YOU PLAN TO
BE PRESENT, YOU ARE URGED TO COMPLETE,  SIGN, DATE AND RETURN THE ENCLOSED PROXY
PROMPTLY  IN THE  ENVELOPE  PROVIDED.  IF YOU ATTEND THE  MEETING,  YOU MAY VOTE
EITHER IN PERSON OR BY PROXY.  ANY PROXY  GIVEN MAY BE REVOKED BY YOU IN WRITING
OR IN PERSON AT ANY TIME PRIOR TO THE EXERCISE THEREOF.
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                           STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.

                                 PROXY STATEMENT

                         ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS

                                 April 27, 2000

         This Proxy Statement is furnished to holders of common stock,  $.01 par
value  per  share  ("Common  Stock"),  of  Staten  Island  Bancorp,   Inc.  (the
"Company"),  the  Delaware-chartered  thrift  holding  company for Staten Island
Savings  Bank (the  "Savings  Bank").  The Company  acquired  all of the Savings
Bank's common stock issued in connection with the conversion of the Savings Bank
from mutual to stock form in December 1997 (the "Conversion"). Proxies are being
solicited  on behalf of the Board of  Directors of the Company to be used at the
Annual Meeting of  Stockholders  ("Annual  Meeting") to be held at the Excelsior
Grand,  located at 2380 Hylan Boulevard,  Staten Island,  New York, on Thursday,
April 27, 2000 at 10:00 a.m.,  Eastern  Time,  for the purposes set forth in the
Notice of Annual Meeting of  Stockholders.  This Proxy  Statement is first being
mailed to stockholders on or about March 30, 2000.

         The proxy  solicited  hereby,  if properly  signed and  returned to the
Company and not revoked prior to its use,  will be voted in accordance  with the
instructions  contained  therein.  If no contrary  instructions are given,  each
proxy  received will be voted for the nominees for directors  described  herein,
for  ratification  of the  appointment of Arthur Anderson L.L.P for fiscal 2000,
against  each  stockholder  proposal  and,  upon the  transaction  of such other
business as may properly come before the meeting,  in  accordance  with the best
judgment of the persons appointed as proxies. Any stockholder giving a proxy has
the power to revoke it at any time before it is exercised by (i) filing with the
Secretary of the Company written notice thereof (Patricia J. Villani,  Corporate
Secretary, Staten Island Bancorp, Inc., 15 Beach Street, Staten Island, New York
10304);  (ii)  submitting a  duly-executed  proxy bearing a later date; or (iii)
appearing at the Annual  Meeting and giving the  Secretary  notice of his or her
intention to vote in person.  Proxies  solicited hereby may be exercised only at
the Annual  Meeting  and any  adjournment  thereof  and will not be used for any
other meeting.

                                     VOTING

         Only  stockholders of record at the close of business on March 17, 2000
("Voting  Record Date") will be entitled to vote at the Annual  Meeting.  On the
Voting Record Date, there were 37,391,215 shares of Common Stock outstanding and
the Company had no other class of equity securities  outstanding.  Each share of
Common  Stock is  entitled  to one vote at the  Annual  Meeting  on all  matters
properly  presented at the meeting.  Directors are elected by a plurality of the
votes cast with a quorum  present.  The three  persons who receive the  greatest
number of votes of the holders of Common Stock represented in person or by proxy
at the Annual Meeting will be elected directors of the Company.  Abstentions are
considered in determining  the presence of a quorum and will not affect the vote
required for the election of directors. The affirmative vote of the holders of a
majority  of the total  votes  present in person or by proxy at the  meeting and
entitled  to vote is  required  to ratify  the  appointment  of the  independent
auditors and to approve each stockholder  proposal.  Abstentions will be counted
as present and  entitled to vote and will have the effect of a vote against such
proposals.  Under  rules of the New York Stock  Exchange  ("NYSE"),  each of the
proposals, except for the stockholder proposals, is considered a "discretionary"
item upon which brokerage firms may vote in their  discretion on behalf of their
clients if such clients have not furnished voting instructions and, accordingly,
there will be no "broker  non-votes"  with  respect to the election of directors
and the  ratification  of the Company's  independent  auditors.  The stockholder
proposals are  considered  "non-discretionary"  items and brokerage  firms which
have received no  instructions  from their clients will have no discretion  with
respect to voting on such  items.  Broker  non-votes  will have no effect on the
stockholder proposals.

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               INFORMATION WITH RESPECT TO NOMINEES FOR DIRECTOR,
                   CONTINUING DIRECTORS AND EXECUTIVE OFFICERS

Election of Directors

         There  currently  are  10  directors  of  the  Company.  The  Company's
Certificate of Incorporation provides that the Board of Directors of the Company
shall be divided into three classes as nearly equal in number as possible,  with
one class to be elected annually.  Stockholders of the Company are not permitted
to cumulate their votes for the election of directors.

         At the Annual  Meeting,  stockholders  of the Company  will be asked to
elect one class of directors,  consisting of three  directors,  for a three-year
term expiring in 2003, and until their successors are elected and qualified.

         No director or executive officer of the Company is related to any other
director or executive officer of the Company by blood, marriage or adoption, and
each of the nominees currently serve as a director of the Company.

         Unless  otherwise  directed,  each proxy  executed  and  returned  by a
stockholder  will be voted for the election of the nominees for director  listed
below.  If the person or persons named as nominee  should be unable or unwilling
to stand for  election  at the time of the  Annual  Meeting,  the  proxies  will
nominate and vote for one or more replacement  nominees recommended by the Board
of Directors.  At this time,  the Board of Directors  knows of no reason why the
nominees listed below may not be able to serve as directors if elected.

         The following  tables present  information  concerning the nominees for
director of the Company and each director whose term continues.

          Nominees for Director for a Three-Year Term Expiring in 2003
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                                                                     Director
              Name and Position                 Age(1)               Since(2)

Harry P. Doherty                                  57                   1989
Chairman of the Board and Chief Executive
Officer

William G. Horn                                   76                   1968
Director

William E. O'Mara                                 69                   1994
Director

         The Board of Directors recommends that you vote FOR the election of the
above nominees for director.

            Members of the Board of Directors Continuing in Office -
                      Directors Whose Terms Expire in 2001
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                                                                     Director
                Name and Position               Age(1)               Since(2)


Charles J. Bartels                                76                   1964
Director
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James R. Coyle                                    53                   1990
Director, President and Chief Operating Officer

John R. Morris                                    61                   1986
Director

Kenneth W. Nelson                                 77                   1977
Director

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                      Directors Whose Terms Expire in 2002
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                                                                     Director
                Name and Position                Age(1)              Since(2)


Harold Banks                                      76                    1983
Director

Denis P. Kelleher                                 61                    1988
Director

Julius Mehrberg                                   70                    1996
Director
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(1)      At March 17, 2000.
(2)      Includes service as a director of the Savings Bank.

         Information  concerning the principal position with the Company and the
Savings Bank and  principal  occupation of each nominee for director and members
of the Board continuing in office during the past five years is set forth below.

Harold  Banks.  Mr.  Banks  is a  cemetarian  and has been  Executive  Director,
Secretary and Treasurer of Ocean View The Cemetery Beautiful, Staten Island, New
York,  since 1979.  Mr. Banks also serves on the Boards of the Elmweir  Cemetery
Association and Mt. Zion Cemetery.

Charles J.  Bartels.  Mr.  Bartels is President and Chief  Executive  Officer of
Bartels & Eleford,  Inc., a real estate appraisal firm located in Staten Island,
New York.

James R. Coyle. Mr. Coyle has served as President and Chief Operating Officer of
the Savings Bank since June 1990. Previously, Mr. Coyle served as Executive Vice
President  from 1987 to 1990 and as Chief  Financial  Officer from 1989 to 1990.
Mr.  Coyle has been  employed by the Savings  Bank since  1970.  Mr.  Coyle is a
member of the Board of the Center for Financial Studies, Fairfield, Connecticut,
and is a member of Community Bankers Association of New York State ("CBANYS").

Harry P.  Doherty.  Mr.  Doherty  has served as  Chairman of the Board and Chief
Executive  Officer of the Savings Bank since May 1990.  Previously,  Mr. Doherty
served as President and Chief Operating  Officer from 1989 to 1990 and Executive
Vice  President  from 1987 to 1989. Mr. Doherty has been employed by the Savings
Bank since 1966. Mr. Doherty serves as a director of the Institutional Investors
Capital  Appreciation Mutual Fund as well as the MSB Fund. Mr. Doherty serves as
a director of both CBANYS and America's Community Bankers.

William G. Horn.  Mr.  Horn is  currently  retired.  Previously,  Mr. Horn was a
Senior Account Agent for the Allstate Insurance Company.

Denis P. Kelleher. Mr. Kelleher is Chief Executive Officer of Wall Street Access
(formerly Wall Street  Investors  Services),  a financial  services  company and
member firm of the NYSE, located in New York City. Mr. Kelleher also serves as a
director of the Irish Investment Fund, a closed end investment company listed on
the NYSE having a main investment focus in Irish-based securities.
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Julius Mehrberg.  Mr. Mehrberg is a principal and partner in various real estate
development  and  management  companies,  primarily  Fingerboard  Estates Corp.,
located in Staten Island, New York.

John R. Morris.  Mr.  Morris  retired  from  Merrill  Lynch in May 1997 where he
served as a Vice President of the Capital Markets and Private Client groups. Mr.
Morris has over 35 years of  experience  in the  financial  services  area.  Mr.
Morris currently is a private investor and is self-employed as a consultant.

Kenneth W. Nelson. Mr. Nelson is Chairman, President and Chief Executive Officer
of Tech Products,  Inc., a manufacturing and marketing company located in Staten
Island,  New York.  Mr. Nelson is also Chairman of Methods  Research  Corp.,  an
importing  and  marketing  company  located  in  Farmingdale,  New  Jersey,  and
Chairman,  President and Chief  Executive  Officer of Carey Realty Corp., a real
estate holding company located in Staten Island, New York. Mr. Nelson also

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serves as a director of American  Centurion  Life Assurance Co., a subsidiary of
American  Express  Insurance and  Annuities,  and of First Fortis Life Insurance
Company, a subsidiary of Fortis, Inc. Insurance and Annuities.

William E. O'Mara.  Mr.  O'Mara is an employee with the firm of Wohl and O'Mara,
civil engineers and land surveyors, located in Staten Island, New York. Prior to
January 2, 1998, he served as a partner in the firm.

Stockholder Nominations

         Article IV, Section 4.15 of the Company's  Bylaws  governs  nominations
for election to the Board of Directors and requires all such nominations,  other
than those made by the Board of Directors  or committee  appointed by the Board,
to be made at a meeting of  stockholders  called for the election of  directors,
and only by a stockholder  who has complied  with the notice  provisions in that
section.  Stockholder  nominations  must be made  pursuant  to timely  notice in
writing  to  the  Secretary  of  the  Company.   Generally,   to  be  timely,  a
stockholder's  notice must be delivered to, or mailed,  postage prepaid,  to the
principal  executive offices of the Company not later than 120 days prior to the
anniversary  date of the mailing of proxy materials by the Company in connection
with the  immediately  preceding  annual meeting of stockholders of the Company.
Each written notice of a stockholder nomination is required to set forth certain
information  specified in the Bylaws.  Any such nomination by a stockholder must
have been  delivered or received no later than the close of business on November
30, 1999 with respect to the Annual Meeting. No such nominations by stockholders
were received with respect to the Annual Meeting.

Board of Directors Meetings and Committees of the Company and the Savings Bank

         Regular  meetings of the Board of  Directors of the Company are held as
necessary.  Through the year ended  December 31, 1999, the Board of Directors of
the Company met 12 times. No director of the Company  attended fewer than 75% of
the total number of Board meetings or committee meetings on which he served that
were held during this period.  The entire Board of Directors of the Company acts
as a Nominating Committee. The Board of Directors of the Company has established
the following committees:

 Audit  Committee.  The Audit  Committee of the Company  recommends  independent
auditors to the Board  annually and reviews the Company's  financial  statements
and the scope and results of the audit  performed by the  Company's  independent
auditors and the Company's  system of internal  control with management and such
independent  auditors  and reviews  regulatory  examination  reports.  The Audit
Committee,  which is comprised of Messrs. Morris (Chairman),  Horn, Kelleher and
O'Mara, met four times during fiscal 1999.

 Compensation  and Benefits  Review  Committee.  The  Compensation  and Benefits
Review  Committee  (the  "Compensation  Committee")  of the Company  reviews and
recommends compensation and benefits for the Company employees. The Compensation
Committee,  which is comprised of Messrs. Horn (Chairman),  Kelleher and Morris,
met four times during fiscal 1999.

         The Board of Directors  of the Savings  Bank meets on a monthly  basis,
and may have  additional  special  meetings.  During the year ended December 31,
1999,  the Board of  Directors  of the Savings  Bank met 12 times.  The Board of
Directors  of the Savings Bank has  established  nine  committees,  including an
Executive Committee,  Compensation Committee,  Investment Committee, Loan Review
and Loan Real Estate  Investment  Committee.  No  director  of the Savings  Bank
attended  fewer  than 75% of the total  number of Board  meetings  or  committee
meetings on which he served that were held during this period.

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Executive Officers Who Are Not Directors

         Set forth below is information concerning the executive officers of the
Company and the Savings  Bank who do not serve on the Board of  Directors of the
Company.  All executive officers are elected by the Board of Directors and serve
until their  successors  are  elected and  qualified.  No  executive  officer is
related to any  director  or other  executive  officer of the  Company by blood,
marriage or adoption,  and there are no arrangements or understandings between a
director of the Company and any other  person  pursuant to which such person was
elected an executive officer.

John P. Brady.  Age 48 years.  Mr. Brady has served as Executive  Vice President
and Chief Lending Officer of the Savings Bank since May 1987. Mr. Brady has been
employed by the Savings Bank since 1982 and previously  served as Vice President
and  mortgage  officer  and as the  Community  Reinvestment  Act officer for the
Savings Bank.

Frank J.  Besignano.  Age 45 years.  Mr.  Besignano  has  served as Senior  Vice
President of the Savings Bank for Marketing, Business Development and Compliance
since May 1991.  Mr.  Besignano has been employed by the Savings Bank since 1982
and previously served as Vice President and marketing officer.

Edward J.  Klingele.  Age 47  years.  Mr.  Klingele  has  served as Senior  Vice
President and Chief Financial  Officer of the Savings Bank since May 1990 and of
the Company since its inception.  Mr.  Klingele has been employed by the Savings
Bank since 1976 and  previously  served as  Controller  of the Savings Bank from
1984 to 1990.

Deborah Pagano.  Age 45 years.  Ms. Pagano has served as Senior Vice President -
Branch  Administration  for the Savings Bank since May 1989. Ms. Pagano has been
employed by the Savings Bank since 1976 and previously  served as Vice President
of the Savings Bank from 1984 to 1989.

Donald C. Fleming. Age 51 years. Mr. Fleming has served as Senior Vice President
of the Savings Bank for Strategic  Planning and Technical Services since January
1997. Previously,  Mr. Fleming served as Director,  Executive Vice President and
Chief Financial  Officer of North Side Savings Bank, Floral Park, New York, from
1988 to 1996.

             SECTION 16(a) BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP REPORTING COMPLIANCE

         Section 16(a) of the  Securities  Exchange Act of 1934, as amended (the
"Exchange Act"), requires the Company's officers and directors,  and persons who
own more than 10% of the Common Stock,  to file reports of ownership and changes
in ownership  with the Securities  and Exchange  Commission  ("SEC") and the New
York Stock Exchange.  Officers,  directors and greater than 10% stockholders are
required by  regulation  to furnish the Company with copies of all Section 16(a)
forms  they  file.  The  Company  knows of no person who owns 10% or more of the
Common Stock.

         Based  solely on review of the  copies of such forms  furnished  to the
Company, or written representations from its officers and directors, the Company
believes  that with respect to the year ended  December 31, 1999,  the Company's
officers and directors  satisfied the reporting  requirements  promulgated under
Section 16(a) of the 1934 Act.

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                      BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP OF COMMON STOCK
                   BY CERTAIN BENEFICIAL OWNERS AND MANAGEMENT

         The following table sets forth,  as of the Voting Record Date,  certain
information  as to the Common  Stock  beneficially  owned by (i) each  person or
entity,  including  any "group" as that term is used in Section  13(d)(3) of the
Exchange Act, who or which was known to the Company to be the  beneficial  owner
of more than 5% of the issued and outstanding  Common Stock;  (ii) the directors
of the Company;  (iii) certain executive officers of the Company and the Savings
Bank; and (iv) all directors and certain  executive  officers of the Company and
the Savings Bank as a group.

                                          Amount and Nature
           Name of Beneficial               of Beneficial
           Owner or Number of              Ownership as of         Percent of
            Persons in Group              March 17, 2000(1)       Common Stock

Staten Island Bancorp, Inc.                    3,435,620(2)          9.19%
Employee Stock Ownership Plan
15 Beach Street
Staten Island, New York 10304

Directors:

Harold Banks                                     103,066(3)             *
Charles J. Bartels                                68,585(4)             *
James R. Coyle                                   244,351(5)             *
Harry P. Doherty                                 344,364(6)             *
William G. Horn                                   59,533(7)             *
Denis P. Kelleher                                103,189(8)             *
Julius Mehrberg                                   69,950(9)             *
John R. Morris                                   92,200(10)             *
Kenneth W. Nelson                               120,000(11)             *
William E. O'Mara                                54,000(12)             *

Certain Executive Officers:

Frank J. Besignano                               99,346(13)             *
John P. Brady                                   109,532(14)             *
Donald C. Fleming                                84,824(15)             *
Deborah Pagano                                  105,144(16)             *
Edward J. Klingele                               98,398(17)             *

All Directors and certain Executive Officers
of the Company and the Savings Bank as a
group (15 persons)                                1,756,482        4 .66%

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 *       Represents less than 1% of the outstanding stock.

 (1)     Based upon  filings made  pursuant to the Exchange Act and  information
         furnished by the respective individuals.


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         Under regulations  promulgated  pursuant to the Exchange Act, shares of
         Common Stock are deemed to be  beneficially  owned by a person if he or
         she  directly  or  indirectly  has or shares  (i) voting  power,  which
         includes  the power to vote or to direct the voting of the  shares,  or
         (ii) investment power, which includes the power to dispose or to direct
         the disposition of the shares.  Unless otherwise  indicated,  the named
         beneficial owner has sole voting and dispositive  power with respect to
         the shares.

(2)      The Staten Island  Bancorp,  Inc.  Employee Stock  Ownership Plan Trust
         ("Trust") was established  pursuant to the Staten Island Bancorp,  Inc.
         Employee  Stock  Ownership  Plan  ("ESOP") by an agreement  between the
         Company and Messrs. Coyle,  Doherty,  Horn, Kelleher and O'Mara who act
         as trustees of the plan  ("Trustees").  As of the Voting  Record  Date,
         2,975,753 shares of Common Stock held in the Trust were unallocated and
         459,867  shares had been  allocated  to the  accounts of  participating
         employees.  Under the terms of the ESOP,  the Trustees  will  generally
         vote  the  allocated  shares  held in the ESOP in  accordance  with the
         instructions of the participating employees. Unallocated shares held in
         the ESOP will  generally  be voted in the same  ratio on any  matter as
         those allocated  shares for which  instructions  are given,  subject in
         each case to the fiduciary  duties of the ESOP trustees and  applicable
         law. Any allocated  shares which either  abstain on the proposal or are
         not voted will be disregarded  in  determining  the percentage of stock
         voted  for  and  against  each   proposal  by  the   participants   and
         beneficiaries.  The  amount  of  Common  Stock  beneficially  owned  by
         directors  who serve as Trustees of the ESOP and by all  directors  and
         executive  officers  as a group does not include the shares held by the
         ESOP  (except  for  shares  allocated  to  an  executive  officer  as a
         participant).

(3)      Includes 32,000 shares held in the Company's  Recognition and Retention
         Plan Trust  ("Recognition  Plan") allocated to Mr. Banks, 10,000 shares
         subject to stock options which are exercisable  within 60 days of March
         17, 2000 and 48,566  shares held by the  retirement  fund of Ocean View
         The Cemetery  Beautiful,  of which Mr. Banks is the Executive Director.
         Mr. Banks  disclaims  beneficial  ownership with respect to such shares
         held in the Ocean View The Cemetery Beautiful retirement fund.

(4)      Includes 2,459 shares held by Mrs.  Bartels,  32,000 shares held in the
         Recognition  Plan  allocated to Mr.  Bartels,  10,000 shares subject to
         stock  options which are  exercisable  within 60 days of March 17, 2000
         and 1,290  shares held in trust for Mr.  Bartel's  grandchildren  as to
         which he is custodian.

(5)      Includes  39,424  shares held jointly with Mr.  Coyle's  spouse,  3,645
         shares held by children of Mr. Coyle who reside with him, 37,746 shares
         held by the  Savings  Bank's  401(k)  Plan,  1,935  shares  held by the
         Directors'  Deferred  Compensation  Plan,  110,400  shares  held in the
         Recognition Plan allocated to Mr. Coyle, 45,000 shares subject to stock
         options  which are  exercisable  within  60 days of March 17,  2000 and
         6,201 shares allocated to him pursuant to the ESOP.

(6)      Includes 54,517 shares held jointly with Mr.  Doherty's  spouse,  1,750
         shares  held by children  of Mr.  Doherty  who reside with him,  52,696
         shares held by the Savings Bank's 401(k) Plan, 4,200 shares held by the
         Directors'  Deferred  Compensation  Plan,  160,000  shares  held in the
         Recognition  Plan  allocated to Mr.  Doherty,  65,000 shares subject to
         stock  options which are  exercisable  within 60 days of March 17, 2000
         and 6,201 shares allocated to him pursuant to the ESOP.
<PAGE>

(7)      Includes  4,010  shares held by the  Directors'  Deferred  Compensation
         Plan, 32,000 shares held in the Recognition Plan allocated to Mr. Horn,
         10,000 shares subject to stock options which are exercisable  within 60
         days of March 17, 2000 and 5,600  shares  held in trust for Mr.  Horn's
         grandchildren.

(8)      Includes  1,343  shares held  individually  by Mr.  Kelleher's  spouse,
         26,846 shares held by the Directors' Deferred Compensation Plan, 10,000
         shares subject to stock options which are exercisable within 60 days of
         March 17, 2000 and 32,000 shares held in the Recognition Plan allocated
         to Mr. Kelleher.

                                         (Footnotes continued on following page)

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<PAGE>

(9)      Includes  10,000 shares held  individually  by Mr.  Mehrberg's  spouse,
         7,950 shares held by the Directors' Deferred  Compensation Plan, 10,000
         shares subject to stock options which are exercisable within 60 days of
         March 17, 2000 and 32,000 shares held in the Recognition Plan allocated
         to Mr. Mehrberg.

(10)     Includes  45,200 shares held jointly with Mr. Morris's  spouse,  10,000
         shares subject to stock options which are exercisable within 60 days of
         March 17, 2000 and 32,000 shares held in the Recognition Plan allocated
         to Mr. Morris.

(11)     Includes 18,000 shares held individually by Mrs. Nelson,  24,000 shares
         held by Tech  Product,  Inc.  of  which  Mr.  Nelson  is a  controlling
         shareholder,  32,000 shares held in the  Recognition  Plan allocated to
         Mr. Nelson,  2,000 shares held in trust for Mr.  Nelson's  children and
         grandchildren  as to which he is custodian,  10,000  shares  subject to
         stock  options which are  exercisable  within 60 days of March 17, 2000
         and 10,000 shares held by the Margaret M. Nelson Realty Trust for which
         Mr.  Nelson  serves  as a  trustee.  Mr.  Nelson  disclaims  beneficial
         ownership with respect to such shares held in trust.

(12)     Includes  32,000 shares held in the  Recognition  Plan allocated to Mr.
         O'Mara and 10,000 shares subject to stock options which are exercisable
         within 60 days of March 17, 2000.

(13)     Includes  6,526 shares held jointly with Mr.  Besignano's  spouse,  427
         shares held in his Individual Retirement Account, 27,637 shares held by
         the Savings Bank's 401(k) Plan,  44,160 shares held in the  Recognition
         Plan allocated to Mr. Besignano, 15,800 shares subject to stock options
         which are exercisable within 60 days of March 17, 2000 and 4,796 shares
         allocated to Mr. Besignano pursuant to the ESOP.

(14)     Includes  24,720 shares held by the Savings Bank's 401(k) Plan,  57,600
         shares held in the  Recognition  Plan  allocated to Mr.  Brady,  20,600
         shares subject to stock options which are exercisable within 60 days of
         March 17, 2000 and 6,201 shares allocated to him pursuant to the ESOP.

(15)     Includes 21,040 shares held jointly with Mr. Fleming's  spouse,  44,160
         shares held in the Recognition  Plan allocated to Mr.  Fleming,  15,800
         shares subject to stock options which are exercisable within 60 days of
         March 17, 2000 and 3,824 shares allocated to him pursuant to the ESOP.

(16)     Includes  13,585 shares held by the Savings Bank's 401(k) Plan,  17,814
         held  jointly  with Ms.  Pagano's  spouse,  50,320  shares  held in the
         Recognition  Plan  allocated to Ms.  Pagano,  18,000 shares  subject to
         stock  options which are  exercisable  within 60 days of March 17, 2000
         and 5,425 shares allocated to her pursuant to the ESOP.

(17)     Includes 4,590 shares held jointly with Mr.  Klingele's  spouse,  5,750
         shares held in trust for children of Mr.  Klingele who reside with him,
         12,163  shares held by the Savings  Bank's  401(k) Plan,  52,000 shares
         held in the Recognition Plan allocated to Mr.  Klingele,  18,600 shares
         subject to stock options which are exercisable  within 60 days of March
         17, 2000 and 5,295 shares allocated to him pursuant to the ESOP.


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<PAGE>

Summary Compensation Table

         The  following  table  sets  forth a  summary  of  certain  information
concerning the compensation paid by the Savings Bank (including amounts deferred
to future periods by the named executive  officers) for services rendered in all
capacities  during  the year  ended  December  31,  1999 to the Chief  Executive
Officer of the  Savings  Bank and the four other most highly  compensated  named
executive officers of the Savings Bank.
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

                                                                                    Long Term Compensation
                                                                                    ----------------------
                                         Annual Compensation                      Awards             Payouts
                           -----------------------------------------------   -----------------------------------
      Name and                                                Other                       Securities
      Principal                                               Annual         Restricted   Underlying     LTIP        All Other
      Position             Year      Salary     Bonus      Compensation(1)    Stock(2)     Options      Payouts    Compensation
      --------             ----      ------     -----     ----------------    --------     -------     ---------   ------------
<S>                        <C>     <C>         <C>              <C>          <C>            <C>           <C>       <C>
Harry P. Doherty           1999    $562,015    $389,813         --         $    --            --          --        $148,224
Chairman and Chief         1998     519,426      --             --          4,050,000      325,000        --         120,331
Executive Officer          1997     504,015      --             --              --            --          --          50,625

James R. Coyle             1999     402,972     222,750         --              --            --          --         114,359
President and Chief        1998     373,923      --             --          2,794,500      225,000        --         101,806
Operating Officer          1997     348,513      --             --              --            --          --          37,236

John P. Brady              1999     164,693      60,660         --              --            --          --          65,418
Executive Vice             1998     161,554      --             --          1,458,000      103,000        --          73,257
  President                1997     163,190      --             --              --            --          --          20,973

Deborah Pagano             1999     143,039      35,006         --              --            --          --          57,758
Senior Vice                1998     139,676      --             --          1,273,725       90,000        --          62,023
  President                1997     125,852      --             --              --            --          --          19,298

Edward J. Klingele         1999     149,846      38,808         --              --            --          --          54,749
Senior Vice                1998     145,497      --             --          1,316,250       93,000        --          58,084
  President                1997     129,473      --             --              --            --          --          16,584
</TABLE>

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(1)      Does  not  include  amounts  attributable  to  miscellaneous   benefits
         received by the named executive  officer.  In the opinion of management
         of the Savings  Bank,  the costs to the Savings Bank of providing  such
         benefits to the named executive  officer during the year ended December
         31,  1999 did not  exceed  the lesser of $50,000 or 10% of the total of
         annual salary and bonus reported for the individual.

(2)      Represents  the grant of 200,000,  138,000,  72,000,  65,000 and 62,900
         shares of restricted Common Stock to Messrs.  Doherty, Coyle, Brady and
         Klingele  and Ms.  Pagano,  respectively,  pursuant to the  Recognition
         Plan,  which were deemed to have had the indicated value at the date of
         grant,  and which  had a fair  market  value at  December  31,  1999 of
         $3,600,000,  $2,484,000,  $1,296,000, $1,170,000 and $1,132,200 for the

<PAGE>

         grants to Messrs.  Doherty,  Coyle,  Brady and Klingele and Ms. Pagano,
         respectively.  The  awards  vest 20% per year  from the date of  grant.
         Dividends paid on the restricted Common Stock are held in a Recognition
         Plan Trust and paid to the recipient when the restricted stock vests.

(3)      In 1999,  consists of the Savings Bank's  contributions  to the Savings
         Bank's 401(k) plan of $10,000,  $10,000,  $9,600, $6,941 and $8,582 for
         the  account of Messrs.  Doherty,  Coyle,  Brady and  Klingele  and Ms.
         Pagano, respectively,  $82,406 and $48,541 allocated to Messrs. Doherty
         and Coyle,  respectively,  pursuant to the Savings Bank's  Supplemental
         Executive  Retirement  Plan ("SERP"),  and $55,818,  $55,818,  $55,818,
         $47,808  and $49,176  allocated  on behalf of Messrs.  Doherty,  Coyle,
         Brady, Klingele and Ms. Pagano, respectively, pursuant to the ESOP.

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<PAGE>

Stock Options

         The following table sets forth certain information concerning exercises
of stock options by the named executive  officers during the year ended December
31, 1999 and options held at December 31, 1999.


                               AGGREGATED OPTION EXERCISES IN LAST FISCAL YEAR
                                          AND YEAR END OPTION VALUES
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>


                                                                                                    Value of
                         Shares                                  Number of                        Unexercised
                       Acquired on        Value                Unexercised                         Options at
       Name             Exercise        Realized            Options at Year End                    Year End(1)
       ----             --------        --------            --------------------                  -----------
                                                      Exercisable      Unexercisable     Exercisable    Unexercisable
                                                      -----------      -------------     -----------    -------------
<S>                         <S>           <S>           <C>              <C>               <C>             <C>
Harry P. Doherty            --             --           65,000           260,000           $ --            $ --

James R. Coyle              --             --           45,000           180,000             --              --

John P. Brady               --             --           20,600            82,400             --              --

Deborah Pagano              --             --           18,000            72,000             --              --

Edward J. Klingele          --             --           18,600            74,400             --              --
</TABLE>

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(1)      Based on a per share market price of $18.00 at December 31, 1999.

Employment Agreements

         In December  1997,  the Company and the Savings Bank (the  "Employers")
have entered into  employment  agreements with each of Messrs.  Doherty,  Coyle,
Brady,  Besignano,  Klingele and Fleming and Ms.  Pagano (the "Senior  Executive
Officers").  The Employers have agreed to employ each Senior  Executive  Officer
for a term of three years, in each case in their current  respective  positions.
The Senior  Executive  Officers'  compensation and expenses shall be paid by the
Employers in the same proportion as the time and services  actually  expended by
each Senior  Executive  Officers  on behalf of each  respective  Employer.  With
respect to Messrs. Doherty and Coyle, the employment agreements will be reviewed
annually,  and with respect to the five other  Senior  Executive  Officers,  the
employment  agreements will be reviewed prior to the second anniversary and each
anniversary  thereafter  by the Boards of  Directors of the  Employers.  At such
times, the term of the Senior Executive Officers' employment agreements shall be
extended each year for a successive additional one-year period upon the approval
of the Employers' Boards of Directors, unless either party elects, not less than
30 days prior to the annual anniversary date, not to extend the employment term.

         Each of the employment  agreements are terminable with or without cause
by the  Employers.  The  Senior  Executive  Officers  shall  have  no  right  to
compensation  or other benefits  pursuant to the  employment  agreements for any
period after  voluntary  termination  or termination by the Employers for cause.

<PAGE>

The agreements provide for certain benefits in the event of the Senior Executive
Officer's  death,  disability  or  retirement.  In the event that (i) the Senior
Executive Officer  terminates his or her employment because of failure to comply
with any material provision of the employment  agreement or the Employers change
the Senior Executive Officer's title or duties or (ii) the employment  agreement
is terminated by the Employers other than for cause,  disability,  retirement or
death or by the executive as a result of certain adverse actions which are taken
with respect to the executive's  employment following a change in control of the
Company,  as  defined,  Messrs.  Doherty  and Coyle will be  entitled  to a cash
severance  amount equal to three times their  average  annual  compensation,  as
defined,  plus an amount to reimburse Messrs.  Doherty and Coyle for certain tax
obligations,  and the five other Senior Executive Officers will be entitled to a
cash severance amount equal to two times their average annual  compensation,  as
defined.

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<PAGE>

         A change in control is generally  defined in the employment  agreements
to include  any change in control of the Company  required to be reported  under
the federal securities laws, as well as (i) the acquisition by any person of 20%
or more of the Company's  outstanding  voting  securities and (ii) a change in a
majority of the directors of the Company  during any  three-year  period without
the  approval of at least  two-thirds  of the persons who were  directors of the
Company at the beginning of such period.

         With respect to the  employment  agreements  with the five other Senior
Executive Officers,  each employment  agreement provides that, in the event that
any of the payments to be made  thereunder  or  otherwise  upon  termination  of
employment  are deemed to  constitute  "excess  parachute  payments"  within the
meaning of Section  280G of the Internal  Revenue Code of 1986,  as amended (the
"Code"), then such payments and benefits received thereunder shall be reduced by
the  amount  which is the  minimum  necessary  to  result  in the  payments  not
exceeding  three times the  recipient's  average  annual  compensation  from the
employer  which was includable in the  recipient's  gross income during the most
recent five taxable years.  Recipients of excess parachute  payments are subject
to a 20% excise tax on the amount by which such payments exceed the base amount,
in addition to regular  income taxes,  and payments in excess of the base amount
are not  deductible by the employer as  compensation  expense for federal income
tax purposes.

         Although the above-described  employment  agreements could increase the
cost of any  acquisition  of control of the Company,  management  of the Company
does not believe that the terms thereof  would have a significant  anti-takeover
effect.  The Company and/or the Savings Bank may determine to enter into similar
employment agreements with other officers in the future.

Director's Compensation

         Directors of the Company, except for Messrs. Doherty and Coyle, receive
$1,800 per meeting attended of the Board and $1,200 per committee  meeting ($600
in the case of the Savings Bank Loan Review Committee) attended. The Chairman of
each  committee of the Board also receives  $1,500 per meeting  attended $750 in
the case of the Savings Bank Loan Review  Committee).  Board fees are subject to
periodic adjustment by the Board of Directors.

Retirement Plan

         The Savings Bank maintains a  non-contributory,  tax-qualified  defined
benefit  pension  plan (the  "Retirement  Plan")  for  eligible  employees.  All
salaried  employees  at least  age 21 who have  completed  at least  one year of
service are eligible to participate in the Retirement  Plan. The Retirement Plan
provides for a benefit for each participant,  including executive officers named
in the  Executive  Compensation  Table above,  equal to 2% of the  participant's
final  average   compensation   (average  annual   compensation  during  the  36
consecutive  calendar months during the final 120 consecutive calendar months of
employment)  multiplied by the participant's years (and any fraction thereof) of
eligible employment (up to a maximum of 30 years). A participant is fully vested
in his or her benefit under the Retirement Plan after five years of service. The
Retirement  Plan is  funded by the  Savings  Bank on a  actuarial  basis and all
assets are held in trust by the Retirement Plan trustee.  The Savings Bank froze
the Retirement Plan as of December 31, 1999.


                                       12
<PAGE>

         The following table  illustrates the annual benefit payable upon normal
retirement  at age 65 at  various  levels of  compensation  and years of service
under the  Retirement  Plan and the SERP  maintained  by the Savings  Bank.  The
annual  retirement  benefits shown in the table are single life annuity  amounts
with no offset for Social Security  benefits,  and there are no other offsets to
benefits.
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                        Years of Service (2)
     Final Average      ------------------ ------------------ ---------------- ----------------- ------------------
    Compensation (1)            15                 20                25                30                35


<S>            <C>                 <C>                <C>              <C>               <C>                <C>
               $125,000            $37,500            $50,000          $62,500           $75,000            $75,000
                150,000             45,000             60,000           75,000            90,000             90,000
                175,000             52,500             70,000           87,500           105,000            105,000
                200,000             60,000             80,000          100,000           120,000            120,000
                225,000             67,500             90,000          112,500           135,000            135,000
                250,000             75,000            100,000          125,000           150,000            150,000
                300,000             90,000            120,000          150,000           180,000            180,000
                400,000            120,000            160,000          200,000           240,000            240,000
                450,000            135,000            180,000          225,000           270,000            270,000
                500,000            150,000            200,000          250,000           300,000            300,000
                550,000            165,000            220,000          275,000           330,000            330,000
                600,000            180,000            240,000          300,000           360,000            360,000
</TABLE>
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(1)      For the fiscal  year of the  Retirement  Plan  beginning  on January 1,
         1999, the average final  compensation for computing  benefits under the
         Retirement  Plan cannot  exceed  $160,000 (as  adjusted for  subsequent
         years  pursuant  to  Code  provisions).   Benefits  in  excess  of  the
         limitation  are provided  through the SERP.  For the fiscal year of the
         Retirement  Plan  beginning  on  January 1, 1999,  the  maximum  annual
         benefit  payable under the Retirement  Plan cannot exceed  $135,000 (as
         adjusted for subsequent years pursuant to Code provisions).

(2)      The maximum years of service credited for benefit purposes is 30 years.


         The  following  table sets forth the years of credited  service and the
average annual earnings  determined as of December 31, 1999, the end of the 1999
plan  year,  for each of the  individuals  named in the  Executive  Compensation
Table.

                                           Years of Credited    Average Annual
                                                Service            Earnings


               Harry P. Doherty...........      34 years          $505,349
               James R. Coyle.............      30 years           366,407
               John P. Brady..............      18 years           162,151
               Deborah Pagano.............      21 years           137,848
               Edward J. Klingele.........      22 years           143,319
<PAGE>

Supplemental Executive Retirement Plan

         The Savings Bank has adopted the SERP to provide for eligible employees
benefits  that would be due under its  Retirement  Plan and 401(k)  Plan if such
benefits were not limited under the Code. SERP benefits provided with respect to
the Retirement  Plan are reflected in the pension table.  The Board of Directors
of the  Savings  Bank  also has  adopted  an  amendment  to the SERP to  provide
eligible  employees  with  benefits  that  would be due  under  the ESOP if such
benefits were not limited under the Code.

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<PAGE>
Transactions With Certain Related Persons

         In accordance with applicable federal laws and regulations, the Savings
Bank offers  mortgage loans to its directors,  officers and employees as well as
members  of  their  immediate  families  for  the  financing  of  their  primary
residences  and  certain  other  loans.   Until  November  1996,  the  Financial
Institutions  Reform,  Recovery,  and  Enforcement Act of 1989 required that all
loans or  extensions  of credit to executive  officers and  directors be made on
substantially the same terms, including interest rates and collateral,  as those
prevailing at the time for comparable  transactions  with the general public and
not involve more than the normal risk of repayment or present other  unfavorable
features.  In addition,  loans made to a director or executive officer in excess
of the greater of $25,000 or 5% of the Savings Bank's capital and surplus (up to
a maximum  of  $500,000)  must be  approved  in  advance  by a  majority  of the
disinterested members of the Board of Directors.

         Except as hereinafter indicated,  all loans made by the Savings Bank to
its  executive  officers  and  directors  are  made in the  ordinary  course  of
business, are made on substantially the same terms, including interest rates and
collateral,  as those  prevailing at the time for comparable  transactions  with
other persons and do not involve more than the normal risk of  collectibility or
present other unfavorable features.

         In accordance  with  applicable  regulations,  the Savings Bank extends
residential first mortgage loans to its directors and executive officers secured
by  their  primary  residence  pursuant  to a  benefit  program  that is  widely
available to employees of the Savings Bank and does not give  preference  to any
executive  officer or director over other  employees of the Savings Bank.  Under
the terms of such loans,  the interest  rate is 1% below that charged on similar
loans to non-employees and certain fees and charges are waived. Set forth in the
following table is certain  information  relating to such preferential  loans to
executive officers and directors which were outstanding at December 31, 1999.
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

                                                  Largest Amount of
                                                 Indebtedness between
                                                   January 1, 1999       Balance as of     Interest
           Name               Year Loan Made    and December 31, 1999  December 31, 1999     Rate
           ----               --------------    ---------------------  -----------------     ----
<S>                                <C>               <C>                   <C>              <C>
         Harry P. Doherty          1999              $440,000              $419,391         5.375%
         John P. Brady             1998                64,940                58,091         5.250
         Frank J. Besignano        1999               380,000               327,536         6.125
         Donald C. Fleming         1998               199,551               195,726         5.875
         Edward J. Klingele        1998               171,000               166,626         5.625
         Deborah Pagano            1998               127,169               120,764         5.500
</TABLE>


Compensation Committee Interlocks and Insider Participation

         The Compensation Committee of the Board of Directors of the Company and
the Savings Bank  determines  the salaries and bonuses of the  Company's and the
Savings  Bank's Senior  Executive  Officers.  The  Compensation  Committee  also
reviews and  approves  the  salaries  and bonuses for the Savings  Bank's  other
officers and employees as prepared and submitted to the  Compensation  Committee
by the Savings Bank's Senior Executive Officers. During 1999, the members of the

<PAGE>

committee were Messrs.  Horn (Chairman),  Kelleher and Morris. The report of the
Compensation  Committee  with respect to  compensation  for the Chief  Executive
Officer and all other  Savings Bank  officers and  employees  for the year ended
December 31, 1999 is set forth below.

Report of the Compensation Committee

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<PAGE>
         The purpose of the  Compensation  Committee is to determine and oversee
the  compensation  practices of the Company and the Savings Bank.  In 1998,  the
Committee  retained  the  services of William M.  Mercer,  Inc. to review  these
compensation  practices and to assist in the development of an annual  incentive
program.  The purpose of the annual  incentive  program is to reinforce a formal
and objective  pay-for-performance framework that ties the achievement of annual
strategic  and  operating  goals  with  incentive  compensation  and to  provide
competitive  total cash  compensation  opportunities  with upside (and downside)
potential.

         The  objectives of the Company's  compensation  program are to attract,
develop and retain strong executive  officers that are capable of maximizing the
Company's  performance.  The total  compensation  program  provides  competitive
compensation  opportunities  that are aligned with the financial  performance of
the Company. Key compensation  elements include base salary,  annual incentives,
and  long-  term  incentives.   Base  salary  levels  are  based  on  individual
performance and targeted to approximate  the  competitive  median salaries among
the  Company's  relative  peer group of public  savings banks located in the New
York metropolitan  area.  Annual incentives are targeted to deliver  competitive
cash compensation opportunities when performance is at expectation.  The size of
the actual  awards  vary  within a range based on the  Company's  financial  and
operating  performance as well as the  achievement of certain  individual  goals
that  contribute  to the overall  success of the  Company.  Long-term  incentive
awards  (stock  options and  restricted  stock  grants) are  targeted to provide
competitive  compensation  opportunities  and to align executive awards with the
creation of shareholder value. It is intended that variable  compensation levels
(annual plus  long-term  incentives)  eventually  will  comprise the majority of
total compensation opportunities for the senior executive team.

         Based upon the above factors, the Compensation  Committee increased Mr.
Doherty's base salary by  approximately  $52,500 or 10.0% to $577,500  effective
May 1999. The Compensation  Committee provided for an average 7.80% increase for
the  six  other  Senior   Executive   Officers.   All  such  increases   reflect
contributions  to the goals and objectives of the Company and the increased cost
of living within the market from which the Company draws its workforce.

         The annual  incentive  program for 1999 provided for target  incentives
for the Chief Executive Officer equal to fifty percent (50%) of his base salary,
forty percent (40%) of base salary for the President and Chief Operating Officer
and thirty  percent  (30%) of base  salary for the five other  Senior  Executive
Officers.  The total  amount  of the  individual  awards to the Chief  Executive
Officer  and the  President  and  Chief  Operating  Officer  is  based  upon the
Company's  consolidated  financial  performance.   The  other  Senior  Executive
Officers  awards  were  similarly  computed  with  the  Company's   consolidated
financial performance comprising forty percent (40%) of the award and individual
performance  comprising sixty percent (60%).  Individual  performance awards are
not paid unless the Company's consolidated financial targets are met.

         The measurements utilized for the financial performance portion of such
awards were as follows:  (i) thirty  percent (30%) of the financial  performance
measure was based upon the diluted earnings per share of the Common Stock;  (ii)
forty percent (40%) was based upon the return on average shareholders' equity of
the Company; and (iii) thirty percent (30%) was based upon the return on average
assets of the Company. For each of the financial  performance  measurements,  as
well as the individual performance measurements,  a series of achievement levels
was  established.  Each level was assigned a percentage  award from zero percent
(0%) up to one hundred percent (100%).  The zero percent (0%) award  represented
performance  below a threshold level of achievement  deemed  reasonable.  If the
range of  performance  specified  for a one  hundred  percent  (100%)  award was

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exceeded,  the  executive  could  be paid an award  of up to one  hundred  fifty
percent (150%)of the financial performance and individual performance awards.

         For fiscal year 1999, the Company's financial  performance  resulted in
awards of one hundred thirty-five percent (135%) of target amounts for financial
performance. The Senior Executive Officers also received approximately sixty-one
percent (61%) of their individual performance awards.

         Following review and approval of the Compensation Committee, all issues
pertaining  to  executive  compensation  are  submitted  to the  full  Board  of
Directors  for their  approval.  No officer of the Company  participates  in the
review of his or her respective compensation.

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                       William G. Horn, Committee Chairman
                           Denis P. Kelleher, Director
                            John R. Morris, Director





                               Performance Graph

         The following  graph  demonstrates  comparison of the cumulative  total
returns  for the  Common  Stock,  Standard  and  Poor's  500  Index  and the SNL
Securities All Thrift Index for the period  commencing on December 22, 1997, the
date the Common Stock began trading on the NYSE, and December 31, 1999.

[GRAPH-GRAPH PLOTTED POINTS LISTED BELOW]
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                                                                                                  Period Ending
                                        -----------------------------------------------------------------------
 Index                                  12/22/97       12/31/97    06/30/98    12/31/98    06/30/99    12/31/99
- ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
<S>                                     <C>              <C>         <C>         <C>          <C>         <C>
 Staten Island Bancorp, Inc.            100.00           109.84      119.71      105.80       96.51       97.66
 S&P 500                                100.00           101.81      119.84      130.87      147.07      158.41
 SNL Thrift Index                       100.00           102.51      105.75       90.16       89.71       73.65
</TABLE>


         The  above  graph  represents  $100  invested  in the  Common  Stock at
$19.0625 per share,  the closing  price per share as of December  22, 1997,  the
date it commenced  trading on the NYSE. The cumulative total returns include the
payment of dividends by the Company.

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                     RATIFICATION OF APPOINTMENT OF AUDITORS

         The Board of Directors  of the Company has  appointed  Arthur  Andersen
L.L.P.,  independent  certified public accountants,  to perform the audit of the
Company's  financial  statements  for the year ending  December  31,  2000,  and
further directed that the selection of auditors be submitted for ratification by
the stockholders at the Annual Meeting.

         The Company has been  advised by Arthur  Andersen  L.L.P.  that neither
that firm nor any of its associates has any relationship with the Company or its
subsidiaries other than the usual  relationship that exists between  independent
certified public  accountants and clients.  Arthur Andersen L.L.P. will have one
or more  representatives  at the Annual  Meeting who will have an opportunity to
make a  statement,  if they so desire,  and who will be  available to respond to
appropriate questions.

         The Board of Directors recommends that you vote FOR the ratification of
the appointment of Arthur Andersen L.L.P. as independent auditors for the fiscal
year ending December 31, 2000.

                              STOCKHOLDER PROPOSALS

         The Company has been notified that Jewelcor Management, Inc., 100 North
Wilkes-Barre Boulevard,  Wilkes-Barrie,  Pennsylvania 18702, which is the record
owner of 150 shares of Common Stock and the  beneficial  owner of 134,850 shares
of Common Stock, intends to present the following stockholder proposal No. 1 for
consideration  at the Annual  Meeting.  The Company also has been  notified that
Allison  Holtzman Garcia,  2358 Northwest 23rd Road, Boca Raton,  Florida 33434,
who is the beneficial owner of 4,000 shares of Common Stock,  intends to present
the  following  stockholder  proposal  No.  2 for  consideration  at the  Annual
Meeting.  Mrs. Holtzman Garcia is the daughter of the Chairman,  Chief Executive
Officer and controlling shareholder of Jewelcor Management, Inc. For the reasons
stated  under  "Response  by Your Board of  Directors,"  the Board of  Directors
believes that approval of the stockholder proposals is not in the best interests
of the  Company  or its  shareholders  and  recommends  a  vote  "AGAINST"  both
stockholder proposals.

Stockholder Proposal No. 1

         RESOLVED,  it is  recommended  that the  Board of  Directors  of Staten
Island Bancorp,  Inc. (the "Company") take the necessary steps to achieve a sale
or merger of the Company on terms that will maximize shareholder value.

Stockholder's Supporting Statement

         As set forth below,  if the Company  achieved  the average  acquisition
multiples  obtained in 1999 by thrifts in two of the Company's peer groups,  the
Company could potentially  obtain an acquisition price between $28.72 and $32.25
per share.

         Jewelcor Management, Inc. ("JMI") compared the Company's book value and
earnings per share ("EPS") with the acquisition  ratios for two of the Company's
peer groups:  "Regional  Peer Group" and  "Asset-Size  Peer  Group."  Based upon
summary statistics for mergers announced in 1999, JMI derived the Median Average
Announced  Price/Book  Ratio  ("Price/Book")  and the Median  Average  Announced
Price/Last  Twelve  Months EPS Ratio  ("Price/EPS")  for both  groups.  JMI then
derived  an  average  of  both  peer  groups'  respective  Price/Book  ("Average

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Price/Book") and Price/EPS  ("Average  Price/EPS") and multiplied the applicable
peer group average  ratios times the Company's book value and last twelve months
diluted EPS ("Company EPS").



     Company Stock Price (11/16/99)                            $20.00
     Company Book Value (9/30/99)                              $15.02
     Company Price/Book                                       133.16%

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     Average Price/Book                                        191.24%
     POTENTIAL ACQUISITION PRICE                               $28.72


     Company EPS (9/30/99)                                      $1.30
     Company's Price/EPS                                        15.38X



     Average Price/EPS                                          24.81X
     POTENTIAL ACQUISITION PRICE                               $32.25

         The "Regional Peer Group"  consists of the following  thrifts for which
 acquisitions  were announced from January  through August of 1999 and for which
 multiples were available:  Skaneateles  Bancorp,  Adirondack Financial Services
 Bancorp,  SHS Bancorp, SFS Bancorp,  Little Falls Bancorp,  Statewide Financial
 Corp, Albion Banc Corp, JSB Financial, Reliance Bancorp, Chatham Savings, FSB.

         The  "Asset-Size  Peer Group"  consists of the  following  thrifts with
 total  assets  between $1 billion and $10 billion for which  acquisitions  were
 announced  from  April  through  August  of 1999 and for which  multiples  were
 available:  First Liberty  Financial  Corp,  St. Paul Bancorp,  JSB  Financial,
 Reliance Bancorp.

         Based upon  information  provided by SNL Securities L.C., the following
 table shows Price/Book and Price/EPS multiples for both of the peer groups:


                              Price/Book Multiples
                   -----------------------------------------------------
                   Low                     High           Median Average
                   ---                     ----           --------------
 Regional          114.65%                 225.01%        168.12%
 Asset-Size        153.86                  366.90         214.36

                   -----------------------------------------------------
                             Price/EPS Multiples
                   -----------------------------------------------------
                   Low                     High           Median Average
                   ---                     ----           --------------
 Regional          13.72x                  47.77x         27.29x
 Asset-Size        13.84                   38.15          22.32

 Although the Company may or may not achieve any of the  individual  acquisition
 multiples  achieved within the peer groups, JMI believes that the most reliable

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 way to apply these acquisition multiples to the Company is to use an average of
 such multiples. In JMI's opinion, the use of average multiples between the peer
 groups lessens any potential skewing effect that may result from any individual
 multiple.  None of the thrifts that  comprise the peer groups are  identical to
 the  Company.  The  "Potential  Acquisition  Price"  is based  entirely  on the
 mathematical  application of the average multiples discussed above and does not
 necessarily  represent  the  price an  acquiror  would be  willing  to pay in a
 transaction.

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                       Response of Your Board of Directors
                          to Stockholder Proposal No. 1

         Your Board of Directors  unanimously  recommends  that you VOTE AGAINST
the above stockholder proposal No. 1 for the reasons set forth below.

Your Board is Committed to Enhancing Shareholder Value

         The Board of Directors is committed to enhancing  shareholder value and
acting in accordance with its fiduciary  duties to ALL  shareholders.  We simply
disagree  with the  proponent on the best way to achieve this  objective.  Based
upon our experience  and track record,  we urge you to support us in our ongoing
efforts to enhance shareholder value.

         In  connection  with  our  recommendation  that you  vote  against  the
stockholder proposal, we urge you to consider the following accomplishments:

     o       We were recently ranked as having the 8th highest return on average
             assets of the top 100 publicly traded thrifts.

     o       Our net  income  has  substantially  increased  in each of the last
             three years.

     o       Our assets and deposits have substantially increased in each of the
             last three years.

         We believe that we are  continuing to increase the  franchise  value of
the Company.  Your Board believes that shareholders have been well served by the
Board's  leadership  and guidance,  and the Board  believes that it is in a much
better position than the proponent to determine what is in the best interests of
ALL shareholders.

         Your Board will carefully  consider any  appropriate  action that would
serve  the best  interests  of the  shareholders.  In  light  of our  increasing
profitability  and future  prospects,  we believe  that a forced sale in today's
environment is not in the best interests of ALL  shareholders.  The stock prices
of many  prospective  acquirors are  significantly  down over the past year, and
acquisition  premiums  have also  declined.  We believe  that the two  potential
acquisition  prices shown by the  proponent are  unreliable.  Even the proponent
indicated  that its analysis  was based  entirely on  mathematical  calculations
without  taking  into  account (1) the  differences  between the Company and the
other companies selected,  (2) the value of our assets and liabilities,  and (3)
industry performance, business and economic conditions.

We Earned the 8th Highest Return on Average Assets in 1998

         We  earned  the 8th  highest  return on  average  assets of the top 100
publicly  traded  thrifts  in  1998,  according  to a  survey  published  by SNL
Securities in July 1999. On all of the factors considered by SNL Securities,  we
were the 22nd highest thrift of the top 100 publicly  traded thrifts  throughout
the  country  for the three  years  ended  1998.  The other  factors  considered
included return on average equity, earnings per share growth,  efficiency ratio,
nonperforming  assets to total assets, and net charge-offs to average loans. Our
return on average equity  increased from 6.39% in 1998 to 8.44% in 1999, and our
cash earnings substantially  increased from $1.22 per share in 1998 to $1.59 per
share in 1999.



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Our Net Income Has Substantially Increased

         Our profitability has substantially increased over the last three years
as shown in the following table:
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<CAPTION>
- -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
                           Net Interest           Non-Interest
        Year                  Income                 Income               Net Income
                                         --------------------------------------------
                                         (In Thousands)

<S>     <C>                  <C>                     <C>                   <C>
        1997                 $86,755                 $7,454                $14,549
        1998                 121,072                 10,380                 44,262
        1999                 138,409                 30,853                 52,875
</TABLE>

         Your  Board  of  Directors   believes  that  the  Company's   financial
performance has been and continues to be strong.

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Our Assets and Deposits Continue to Grow

         Our total assets  increased  by $712.4  million or 18.9% in 1999 and by
$1.1 billion or 42.5% in 1998 over the respective prior years. In addition,  our
total deposits  increased by $91.2 million or 5.3% in 1999 and by $105.4 million
or 6.5% in 1998  over the  respective  prior  years.  Your  Board  of  Directors
believes  that  prudent,  sustainable  growth  is in the best  interests  of the
shareholders.

Our Directors and Officers Have a Significant Ownership Interest

         Your Board of Directors believes that it is important for the directors
and executive  officers to own a significant number of shares of Common Stock so
that their interests are aligned with all shareholders. The 15 current directors
and executive officers as a group are deemed to beneficially own an aggregate of
441,633  shares of Common  Stock,  excluding  restricted  stock awards and stock
options.  These shares had an aggregate market value of $7.9 million at December
31, 1999,  which  represents  a  significant  investment  by our  directors  and
executive officers.

Adoption of the Proposal Would be Detrimental to the Board's Efforts

         Your Board  believes that adoption of this  stockholder  proposal would
create an uncertain public atmosphere which, in its judgment, would disadvantage
any efforts to merge or sell the Company.  Adoption of the proposal could result
in the  Board  having  diminished  bargaining  power and  being  pressured  into
accepting a price for the Common Stock that does not reflect the true  long-term
value of the  Company.  In  addition,  the  uncertain  atmosphere  that could be
created by adoption of this proposal could result in us losing valuable customer
relationships and employees, which could impair the value of our franchise.

         For the reasons set forth above,  the Board of Directors  believes that
stockholder  proposal No. 1 is not in the best  interests of the Company and its
shareholders.  Accordingly,  the Board of Directors unanimously  recommends that
you VOTE AGAINST stockholder proposal No. 1.

Stockholder Proposal No. 2

         Resolved,  it is  recommended  that the  Board of  Directors  of Staten
Island  Bancorp,  Inc. (the "Company") take the steps necessary to implement the
following  actions to remove the  "anti-takeover"  defenses  from the  Company's
Certificate of  Incorporation  and Bylaws,  unless precluded by state or federal
law:


         1.       Repeal the following Articles of the Company's  Certificate of
                  Incorporation:

                  a.     Repeal  Article  7 (A)  which  segregates  the Board of
                         Directors  into three  separate  classes with staggered
                         terms of office and prohibits cumulative voting for the
                         election  of  directors.   (This  proposed   action  is
                         intended  only to affect  elections of  directors  that
                         occur after Article 7 (A) is repealed).
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                  b.     Repeal Article 8 which prohibits  shareholder action by
                         written  consent and prohibits the  shareholders'  from
                         calling a special meeting.

                  c.     Repeal Article 11 which requires the  affirmative  vote
                         of at  least  80% of  shares  entitled  to  vote  in an
                         election of  directors  ("Voting  Shares") to approve a
                         business  combination  not recommended by two-thirds of
                         the Board of Directors.

                  d.     Repeal  Article 12 which  prohibits the  acquisition of
                         10%  of  the  Company's  equity  securities  except  in
                         certain circumstances,  including where approved by the
                         Board of Directors.


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                  e.       Repeal  Article  13 which  prohibits  changes  by the
                           shareholders   to  the   Company's   Certificate   of
                           Incorporation  without  the  affirmative  vote of the
                           holders  of 80%  of  Voting  Shares  and  which  also
                           requires  the  affirmative  vote of at  least  80% of
                           Voting Shares to change Sections 2.4, 2.14, 4.1, 4.2,
                           4.3,  4.4,  and 4.15 and Article VI of the  Company's
                           By-laws.

         2.       Repeal the following Sections of the Company's By-laws:

                  a.     Repeal Section 2.4 which  prohibits  shareholders  from
                         calling a special meeting.


                  b.     Repeal  Section  11.1  which  prohibits  changes to the
                         Company's  By-laws  other  than  as  set  forth  in the
                         Company's Certificate of Incorporation.

         3.       Amend  Section  4.2 of the  Company's  By-laws  to remove  all
                  language  regarding the  segregation of the Board of Directors
                  into three separate classes.

Stockholder's Supporting Statement

         The Certificate of Incorporation  and By-laws of the Company  presently
contain   "anti-takeover"   provisions   which   restrict  the  ability  of  the
stockholders to effectuate a proposed  takeover of the Company that has not been
approved  by the Board of  Directors.  The  existence  of these  provisions  may
present  an  insurmountable  obstacle  for a suitor  of the  Company  who is not
approved  by the Board of  Directors  but who seeks to acquire  the Company at a
stock price above current market prices.

         These provisions may discourage  potential suitors from even pursuing a
takeover of the Company.  Moreover,  these provisions restrict the stockholders'
ability to alter the composition of the Board.

         I am  submitting  the  above  proposal  since it is my  belief  that we
stockholders should be given every opportunity to maximize our investment in the
Company.

         It should be noted that the Board of Directors is not able to amend the
Company's  Certificate  of  Incorporation  by  itself.  Any  amendments  to  the
Certificate   of   Incorporation   approved  by  the  Board  of  Directors  must
subsequently be approved by the stockholders in order to be implemented.




<PAGE>


                       Response of Your Board of Directors
                          to Stockholder Proposal No. 2

          Your Board of Directors  unanimously  recommends that you VOTE AGAINST
the above stockholder proposal No. 2 for the reasons set forth below.

Your Board is Committed to Enhancing Shareholder Value

         As we indicated in our response to the first stockholder proposal, your
Board of Directors is  committed  to enhancing  shareholder  value and acting in
accordance  with its  fiduciary  duties to ALL  shareholders.  Your  Board  will
carefully consider any appropriate action that would serve the best interests of
the shareholders.

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         While your Board of  Directors is not aware of any effort that might be
made to obtain control of the Company,  the Board of Directors  believes that it
is  appropriate  to include  certain  provisions as part of the  Certificate  of
Incorporation  and  Bylaws to  protect  the  interests  of the  Company  and its
shareholders  from hostile  takeovers that the Board of Directors might conclude
are not in the best interests of the Company's shareholders.  It should be noted
that at the time of our initial  public stock  offering,  our  prospectus  fully
disclosed the  provisions of the  Certificate of  Incorporation  and Bylaws that
might be deemed to have an anti-takeover  effect. This disclosure was made prior
to any purchase of stock by any  shareholder,  past or current,  of the Company,
and we have not amended our  Certificate of  Incorporation  or Bylaws to add any
additional anti-takeover provisions since such time.

Your Board  Believes  That It Is in the Best  Position to Negotiate on Behalf of
All Shareholders

         The Board of Directors believes that the provisions which Mrs. Holtzman
Garcia  proposes to eliminate  are in fact in the best  interests of the Company
and its shareholders.  In the opinion of the Board of Directors, the Board is in
the best  position to  determine  the true value of the Company and to negotiate
more effectively on behalf of all shareholders.  Accordingly, the Board believes
that it is in the best  interests of the  shareholders  to  encourage  potential
acquirors  to  negotiate  directly  with the Board of  Directors  and that these
provisions  encourage such  negotiations  while  discouraging  hostile  takeover
attempts which may not be in the best interests of all the  shareholders.  It is
also the view of the Board of Directors that these provisions in the Certificate
of  Incorporation  and Bylaws  should not  discourage  persons from  proposing a
merger  or other  transaction  at  prices  reflective  of the true  value of the
Company and which is in the best interests of all of the shareholders.

         Attempts to take  control of  financial  institutions  have become more
common.  Takeover  attempts which have not been  negotiated with and approved by
the Board of Directors present shareholders with the risk of a takeover on terms
which may be less  favorable  than might  otherwise be available.  A transaction
which is negotiated  and approved by the Board of Directors,  on the other hand,
can be carefully  planned and undertaken at an opportune time in order to obtain
maximum value for the Company and its shareholders.

Repeal of the Provisions Could Be Detrimental to Shareholders

         The proposed repeal of Article 7(A) of our Certificate of Incorporation
could result in a shareholder  group acquiring control of your Company through a
proxy  contest,  without  paying  any  control  premium  to  any  of  the  other
shareholders.  The  repeal of Article 8 would  allow the proxy  contest to occur
without  having an annual  meeting  of  shareholders.  Your  Board of  Directors
believes that anyone seeking control of the Company should have to pay a premium
to ALL shareholders,  and that the proposed repeal of these provisions is not in
your best interests.



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         In addition, an unsolicited takeover proposal can seriously disrupt the
business and management of a corporation and cause it great expense.  Although a
tender  offer or other  takeover  attempt may be made at a price  above  current
market  prices,  such  offers  are  sometimes  made  for  less  than  all of the
outstanding  shares  of a  target  company.  As a  result,  shareholders  may be
presented with the alternative of partially  liquidating  their  investment at a
time that may be disadvantageous, or retaining their investment in an enterprise
which is under  different  management and whose  objective may not be similar to
those  of the  remaining  shareholders.  Accordingly,  the  Board  of  Directors
believes that these  provisions in the Certificate of  Incorporation  and Bylaws
provide  benefits  to all of the  shareholders  of the Company and should not be
removed.

         The Board of  Directors  has a fiduciary  responsibility  to act in the
best interests of ALL  shareholders  and  accordingly has a legal duty to oppose
unfair takeover offers.  Anti-takeover  measures are intended to (a) provide the
Board  with  adequate  time  and  flexibility  to  negotiate  on  behalf  of the
shareholders  and (b) enhance the Board's  ability to negotiate with a potential
acquiror,  develop  alternatives which may better maximize  shareholder  values,
preserve the  long-term  value of the Company for the  shareholders,  and ensure
that  all  shareholders   are  treated  fairly  and  equally.   The  purpose  of
anti-takeover  defenses in general is to protect  shareholders  against  abusive
takeover practices.

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Your Board Believes That the Proposal Is Vague

         Your Board of Directors  believes  that this  proposal is so inherently
vague  and  indefinite  as to be  subject  to  varying  interpretations  by Mrs.
Holtzman  Garcia,  the  Company and other  shareholders.  In this  regard,  Mrs.
Holtzman  Garcia and her  counsel  failed to take into  account  or discuss  the
effect of applicable Delaware and federal laws, even after we had requested them
to do so. Your Board believes that the proposal is vague and indefinite  because
the repeal of the various provisions  referenced in the proposal will not result
in the removal of the "anti-takeover" defenses.

         For  example,  the  repeal  of  Article  7(A)  of  our  Certificate  of
Incorporation  will not  result in  cumulative  voting  being  available  in the
election of  directors.  Under Section 214 of the Delaware  General  Corporation
Law,  cumulative voting is not available unless it is expressly  provided for in
the  Certificate.  In addition,  the repeal of Article 8 of our  Certificate  of
Incorporation  will  not  result  in  shareholders  being  able to call  special
meetings  under Section  211(d) of the Delaware  General  Corporation  Law. With
respect  to  the  proposed   repeal  of  Article  12  of  our   Certificate   of
Incorporation,  the  proponent  failed to indicate  that  federal  banking  laws
prohibit  anyone from  acquiring more than 10% of our Common Stock without first
obtaining the requisite regulatory approval.

         For the reasons set forth above,  the Board of Directors  believes that
stockholder  proposal No. 2 is not in the best  interests of the Company and its
shareholders.  Accordingly,  the Board of Directors unanimously  recommends that
you VOTE AGAINST stockholder proposal No. 2.

                STOCKHOLDER PROPOSALS FOR THE 2001 ANNUAL MEETING

         Any proposal  which a stockholder  wishes to have included in the proxy
materials of the Company  relating to the next annual meeting of stockholders of
the Company,  which  currently  is  scheduled to be held in April 2001,  must be
received at the  principal  executive  offices of the Company,  15 Beach Street,
Staten  Island,  New York  10304,  Attention:  Patricia  J.  Villani,  Corporate
Secretary, no later than November 30, 2000.

         Stockholder  proposals  which are not  submitted  for  inclusion in the
Company's proxy  materials  pursuant to Rule 14a-8 under the Exchange Act may be
brought  before an annual  meeting  pursuant  to Section  2.14 of the  Company's
Bylaws,  which provides that business at an annual meeting of stockholders  must
be (a) properly  brought  before the meeting by or at the direction of the Board
of  Directors,  or (b)  otherwise  properly  brought  before  the  meeting  by a
stockholder.  For business to be properly  brought before an annual meeting by a
stockholder, the stockholder must have given timely notice thereof in writing to
the  Secretary  of the Company.  To be timely,  a  stockholder's  notice must be
delivered to, or mailed and received at, the principal  executive offices of the
Company  not later than 120 days prior to the  mailing of proxy  materials  with
respect to the  immediately  preceding  annual  meeting of  stockholders  of the
Company.

                                 ANNUAL REPORTS

         A copy of the  Company's  Annual  Report to  Stockholders  for the year
 ended December 31, 1999 accompanies this Proxy Statement. Such annual report is
 not part of the proxy solicitation materials.

         Upon  receipt of a written  request,  the Company  will  furnish to any
 stockholder  without charge a copy of the Company's  Annual Report on Form 10-K
 for fiscal 1999  required  to be filed under the  Exchange  Act.  Such  written

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 requests should be directed to Donald C. Fleming,  Staten Island Bancorp, Inc.,
 15 Beach Street,  Staten Island,  New York 10304.  The Form 10-K is not part of
 the proxy solicitation materials.

                                  OTHER MATTERS

         Each proxy solicited hereby also confers discretionary authority on the
 Board of  Directors  of the  Company  to vote the  proxy  with  respect  to the
 election  of any person as a director  if the nominee is unable to serve or for
 good cause will not serve,  matters incident to the conduct of the meeting, and
 upon such  other  matters as may  properly  come  before  the  Annual  Meeting.
 Management  is not aware of any  business  that may  properly  come  before the
 Annual Meeting other than the matters  described above in this Proxy Statement.
 However,  if any other matters should  properly come before the meeting,  it is

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 intended that the proxies  solicited hereby will be voted with respect to those
 other  matters  in  accordance  with the  judgment  of the  persons  voting the
 proxies.

         The cost of the  solicitation  of proxies will be borne by the Company.
 The Company will reimburse  brokerage firms and other custodians,  nominees and
 fiduciaries  for  reasonable  expenses  incurred  by them in sending  the proxy
 materials  to the  beneficial  owners of the  Common  Stock.  The  Company  has
 retained  Georgeson  Shareholder  Communications,   Inc.  to  assist  with  the
 solicitation of proxies for a fee not to exceed $4,000,  plus reimbursement for
 out-of-pocket  expenses.  In  addition  to  solicitations  by mail,  directors,
 officers and  employees of the Company or the Savings Bank may solicit  proxies
 personally or by telephone without additional compensation.



                                              By Order of the Board of Directors




                                              /S/ Patricia J. Villani
                                              -----------------------
                                              Patricia J. Villani
                                              Corporate Secretary



March 30, 2000
<PAGE>
                                REVOCABLE PROXY
                          STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.

    [ X ]   PLEASE MARK VOTES
            AS IN THIS EXAMPLE

THIS PROXY IS SOLICITED  ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF  DIRECTORS  OF STATEN  ISLAND
BANCORP,  INC. FOR USE AT THE ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS TO BE HELD ON APRIL
27, 2000 AND AT ANY ADJOURNMENT  THEREOF.  The  undersigned  hereby appoints the
Board of Directors of Staten Island  Bancorp,  Inc. (the  "Company") as proxies,
each with  power to  appoint  his  substitute,  and  hereby  authorizes  them to
represent and vote, as designated  below,  all the shares of Common Stock of the
Company  held of  record by the  undersigned  on March  17,  2000 at the  Annual
Meeting of Stockholders to be held at the Excelsior Grand, located at 2380 Hylan
Boulevard,  Staten Island, New York on Thursday,  April 27, 2000, at 10:00 a.m.,
Eastern Time, and any adjournment thereof.  Please be sure to sign and date this
Proxy in the box below.

1. ELECTION OF DIRECTORS

Nominees for three-year term expiring in 2003:
Harry P. Doherty, William G. Horn and William E. O'Mara

                                With-      For All
                       For      hold       Except

                       [  ]     [  ]          [  ]

INSTRUCTION: To withhold authority to vote for any individual nominee, mark "For
All Except" and write that nominee's name in the space provided below. The Board
of Directors  recommends  that you vote FOR the election of the nominees  listed
above.

- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

2. PROPOSAL to ratify the appointment of Arthur Anderson L.L.P. as the Company's
independent auditors for the year ending December 31, 2000.

                        For      Against        Abstain
                       [  ]        [  ]          [  ]

The Board of  Directors  recommends  that you vote FOR the  ratification  of the
appointment of Arthur Anderson L.L.P. as independent auditors of the Company.

3.  STOCKHOLDER'S  PROPOSAL that the Board of Directors take the necessary steps
to achieve a sale or merger of the Company.  The Board of  Directors  recommends
that you vote AGAINST the stockholder's  proposal.

                        For      Against        Abstain
                       [  ]        [  ]          [  ]


4. STOCKHOLDER'S  PROPOSAL to remove  anti-takeover  defenses from the Company's
Certificate of Incorporation and Bylaws.

                        For      Against        Abstain
                       [  ]        [  ]          [  ]

The  Board of  Directors  recommends  that you vote  AGAINST  the  stockholder's
proposal.
<PAGE>
5. In their  discretion,  the  proxies  are  authorized  to vote upon such other
business as may properly come before the meeting.  Detach above card, sign, date
and mail in postage paid envelope provided.

          Please be sure to sign and date this Proxy in the box below.

                   _________________________________________
                                      Date

                   _________________________________________
                             Stockholder sign above

                   _________________________________________
                         Co-holder (if any) sign above


   Detach above card, sign, date and mail in postage paid envelope provided.

                          STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.

THIS PROXY IS SOLICITED BY THE BOARD OF  DIRECTORS.  THE SHARES OF THE COMPANY'S
COMMON STOCK WILL BE VOTED AS SPECIFIED. IF NOT OTHERWISE SPECIFIED,  THIS PROXY
WILL BE VOTED FOR THE ELECTION OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTOR'S NOMINEES FOR DIRECTOR,
FOR THE PROPOSAL TO RATIFY THE AUDITORS,  AGAINST EACH STOCKHOLDER  PROPOSAL AND
OTHERWISE AT THE  DISCRETION  OF THE  PROXIES.  YOU MAY REVOKE THIS PROXY AT ANY
TIME PRIOR TO THE TIME IT IS VOTED AT THE ANNUAL MEETING.

Please sign this proxy  exactly as your name(s)  appear(s)  on this proxy.  When
signing in a representative  capacity,  please give title.  When shares are held
jointly, only one holder need sign.

                              PLEASE ACT PROMPTLY
                    SIGN, DATE & MAIL YOUR PROXY CARD TODAY

<PAGE>
15 BEACH STREET
STATEN ISLAND, NEW YORK 10304
(718) 447-7900
March 30, 2000


To:      Participants in the Staten Island Savings Bank 401(k) Plan

As described  in the  attached  materials,  your voting  instructions  are being
solicited in  connection  with the  proposals to be  considered at the Company's
upcoming  Annual Meeting of  Stockholders  to be held on April 27, 2000. We hope
you will take advantage of the  opportunity to direct the manner in which shares
of Common Stock of the Company allocated to your account under the Staten Island
Savings Bank 401(k) Plan (the "Plan") will be voted.

Enclosed with this letter is the Proxy Statement, which describes the matters to
be voted upon, a voting  instruction  ballot,  which will permit you to vote the
shares allocated to your account,  an Annual Report to Stockholders and a return
envelope.  After you have reviewed the Proxy Statement, we urge you to vote your
shares held pursuant to the Plan by marking,  dating,  signing and returning the
enclosed voting  instruction  ballot to the inspector of elections,  Registrar &
Transfer Company, in the accompanying envelope.

We urge each of you to vote as a means of participating in the governance of the
affairs of the Company.  Shares held in the Plan will be voted in  proportion to
all affirmative and negative votes cast by Plan participants.  While I hope that
you will vote in the  manner  recommended  by the Board of  Directors,  the most
important thing is that you vote in whatever manner you deem appropriate. Please
take a moment to do so.

Please note that the enclosed  material  relates only to those shares which have
been  allocated to your account  under the Plan.  You have or will receive other
voting  material for those shares  owned by you  individually  and not under the
Plan.

Sincerely,



/s/Harry P. Doherty
- -------------------
Harry P. Doherty
Chairman of the Board
  and Chief Executive Officer

<PAGE>
                       REVOCABLE VOTING INSTRUCTION CARD
                          STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.

      [ X ]    PLEASE MARK VOTES
               AS IN THIS EXAMPLE

                         Annual Meeting of Stockholders

The undersigned  hereby  instructs the Trustee of the trust created  pursuant to
the Staten  Island  Savings  Bank 401(k) Plan (the "Plan") to vote the shares of
Common Stock of Staten Island Bancorp, Inc. (the "Company") which were allocated
to my account as of March 17, 2000 under the Plan upon the  following  proposals
to be presented at the Annual  Meeting of  Stockholders  of the Company on April
27, 2000, at 10:00 am, Eastern Time, and any adjournment thereof.

4
0
1
K

1. ELECTION OF DIRECTORS

Nominees for three-year term expiring in 2003:
Harry P. Doherty, William G. Horn and William E. O'Mara

                                 With-       For All
                        For      hold         Except

                        [  ]     [  ]          [  ]

INSTRUCTION: To withhold authority to vote for any individual nominee, mark "For
All Except" and write that nominee's name in the space provided below. The Board
of Directors  recommends  that you vote FOR the election of the nominees  listed
above.

- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------


2. PROPOSAL to ratify the appointment of Arthur Andersen L.L.P. as the Company's
independent auditors for the year ending December 31, 2000.

                          For      Against      Abstain

                          [  ]     [  ]          [  ]


The Board of  Directors  recommends  that you vote FOR the  ratification  of the
appointment of Arthur Andersen L.L.P. as independent auditors of the Company.

3.  STOCKHOLDER'S  PROPOSAL that the Board of Directors take the necessary steps
to achieve a sale or merger of the Company.  The Board of  Directors  recommends
that you vote AGAINST the stockholder's  proposal. 4. STOCKHOLDER'S  PROPOSAL to
remove  anti-takeover  defenses from the Company's  Certificate of Incorporation
and Bylaws.

                          For      Against      Abstain

                          [  ]     [  ]          [  ]


The  Board of  Directors  recommends  that you vote  AGAINST  the  stockholder's
proposal.

5. In their  discretion,  the  proxies  are  authorized  to vote upon such other
business as may properly come before the meeting.

         Please be sure to sign and date this Proxy in the box below.

                   _________________________________________
                                      Date

                   _________________________________________
                             Stockholder sign above

                   _________________________________________
                         Co-holder (if any) sign above



    Detach above card, sign, date and mail in postage paid envelope provided.

                          STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.

If you do not return this card properly completed,  your shares will be voted in
the same proportion as the shares in the Plan which are voted.

                              PLEASE ACT PROMPTLY
              SIGN, DATE & MAIL YOUR VOTING INSTRUCTION CARD TODAY


<PAGE>
15 BEACH STREET
STATEN ISLAND, NEW YORK 10304
(718) 447-7900
March 30, 2000


To:  Participants  in the Staten Island Bancorp,  Inc.  Employee Stock Ownership
     Plan

As described  in the  attached  materials,  your voting  instructions  are being
solicited in  connection  with the  proposals to be  considered at the Company's
upcoming  Annual Meeting of  Stockholders  to be held on April 27, 2000. We hope
you will take advantage of the  opportunity to direct the manner in which shares
of Common Stock of the Company granted to you under the Employee Stock Ownership
Plan ("ESOP") will be voted.

Enclosed with this letter is the Proxy Statement, which describes the matters to
be voted upon, a voting  instruction  ballot,  which will permit you to vote the
shares granted to you, an Annual Report to Stockholders  and a return  envelope.
After you have  reviewed  the Proxy  Statement,  we urge you to vote your shares
held pursuant to the ESOP by marking, dating, signing and returning the enclosed
voting  instruction  ballot to the inspector of elections,  Registrar & Transfer
Company, in the accompanying envelope.

We urge each of you to vote as a means of participating in the governance of the
affairs  of the  Company.  If your  voting  instructions  for the  ESOP  are not
received,  the  shares  allocated  to your  account  will be  voted  in the same
proportion as the allocated shares under the ESOP have been voted.  While I hope
that you will vote in the manner recommended by the Board of Directors, the most
important thing is that you vote in whatever manner you deem appropriate. Please
take a moment to do so.

Please note that the enclosed  material  relates only to those shares which have
been  allocated to your account  under the ESOP.  You will receive  other voting
material for those shares owned by you individually and not under the ESOP.

Sincerely,



/s/Harry P. Doherty
- -------------------
Harry P. Doherty
Chairman of the Board
  and Chief Executive Officer

<PAGE>
                       REVOCABLE VOTING INSTRUCTION CARD
                          STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.

    [ X ]    PLEASE MARK VOTES
             AS IN THIS EXAMPLE

                         Annual Meeting of Stockholders

The undersigned  hereby  instructs the Trustee of the trust created  pursuant to
the Employee Stock Ownership Plan ("ESOP") of Staten Island  Bancorp,  Inc. (the
"Company")  to vote the  shares  of  Common  Stock  of the  Company  which  were
allocated  to my account as of March 17, 2000 under the ESOP upon the  following
proposals to be presented at the Annual Meeting of  Stockholders  of the Company
on April 27, 2000, at 10:00 am, Eastern Time, and any adjournment thereof.

Please be sure to sign and date this Voting Instruction Card in the box below.


1. ELECTION OF DIRECTORS

Nominees for three-year term expiring in 2003:
Harry P. Doherty, William G. Horn and William E. O'Mara

                                With-      For All
                       For      hold       Except

                       [  ]     [  ]          [  ]

INSTRUCTION: To withhold authority to vote for any individual nominee, mark "For
All Except" and write that nominee's name in the space provided below. The Board
of Directors  recommends  that you vote FOR the election of the nominees  listed
above.

2. PROPOSAL to ratify the appointment of Arthur Andersen L.L.P. as the Company's
independent auditors for the year ending December 31, 2000.

                        For      Against        Abstain
                       [  ]        [  ]          [  ]

The Board of  Directors  recommends  that you vote FOR the  ratification  of the
appointment of Arthur Andersen L.L.P. as independent auditors of the Company.

3.  STOCKHOLDER'S  PROPOSAL that the Board of Directors take the necessary steps
to achieve a sale or merger of the Company.  The Board of  Directors  recommends
that you vote AGAINST the stockholder's  proposal.

                        For      Against        Abstain
                       [  ]        [  ]          [  ]


4. STOCKHOLDER'S  PROPOSAL to remove  anti-takeover  defenses from the Company's
Certificate of Incorporation and Bylaws.

                        For      Against        Abstain
                       [  ]        [  ]          [  ]

The  Board of  Directors  recommends  that you vote  AGAINST  the  stockholder's
proposal.
<PAGE>
5. In their  discretion,  the  proxies  are  authorized  to vote upon such other
business as may properly come before the meeting.  Detach above card, sign, date
and mail in postage paid envelope provided.


          Please be sure to sign and date this Proxy in the box below.

                   _________________________________________
                                      Date

                   _________________________________________
                             Stockholder sign above

                   _________________________________________
                         Co-holder (if any) sign above


   Detach above card, sign, date and mail in postage paid envelope provided.

                          STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.

If you do not return this card properly  completed,  shares will be voted by the
Trustee  in the same  proportion  as the  allocated  shares  under the ESOP have
voted.

                              PLEASE ACT PROMPTLY
              SIGN, DATE & MAIL YOUR VOTING INSTRUCTION CARD TODAY

<PAGE>
15 BEACH STREET
STATEN ISLAND, NEW YORK 10304
(718) 447-7900
March 30, 2000


To:      Participants in the Staten Island Bancorp, Inc.
         1998 Recognition and Retention Plan

As described  in the  attached  materials,  your voting  instructions  are being
solicited in  connection  with the  proposals to be  considered at the Company's
upcoming  Annual Meeting of  Stockholders  to be held on April 27, 2000. We hope
you will take advantage of the  opportunity to direct the manner in which shares
of Common  Stock of the Company  granted to you under the 1998  Recognition  and
Retention Plan (the "Recognition Plan") will be voted.

Enclosed with this letter is the Proxy Statement, which describes the matters to
be voted upon, a voting  instruction  ballot,  which will permit you to vote the
shares granted to you, an Annual Report to Stockholders  and a return  envelope.
After you have  reviewed  the Proxy  Statement,  we urge you to vote your shares
held pursuant to the Recognition Plan by marking,  dating, signing and returning
the enclosed voting instruction ballot to the Human Resources  Department in the
accompanying envelope.

We urge each of you to vote as a means of participating in the governance of the
affairs of the Company. If your voting instructions for the Recognition Plan are
not  received,  the shares  awarded to you pursuant to the plan will be voted by
the Trustees of the Recognition Plan as directed by the Plan  Administrators  in
their discretion.  While I hope that you will vote in the manner  recommended by
the Board of Directors,  the most  important  thing is that you vote in whatever
manner you deem appropriate. Please take a moment to do so.

Please note that the enclosed  material  relates only to those shares which have
been granted to you under the  Recognition  Plan.  You will receive other voting
material  for  those  shares  owned  by  you  individually  and  not  under  the
Recognition Plan.

Sincerely,


/s/Harry P. Doherty
- -------------------
Harry P. Doherty
Chairman of the Board
  and Chief Executive Officer
<PAGE>
                       REVOCABLE VOTING INSTRUCTION CARD
                          STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.


     [ X ]     PLEASE MARK VOTES
               AS IN THIS EXAMPLE

                         Annual Meeting of Stockholders

The undersigned  hereby  instructs the Trustees of the trust created pursuant to
the 1998  Recognition and Retention Plan  ("Recognition  Plan") of Staten Island
Bancorp,  Inc. (the "Company") to vote the shares of Common Stock of the Company
which were  granted to me as of March 17, 2000 under the  Recognition  Plan upon
the following proposals to be presented at the Annual Meeting of Stockholders of
the Company on April 27, 2000, at 10:00 am.  Eastern Time,  and any  adjournment
thereof.

R
R
P

1. ELECTION OF DIRECTORS

Nominees for three-year term expiring in 2003:
Harry P. Doherty, William G. Horn and William E. O'Mara

                               With-      For All
                       For      hold       Except

                       [  ]     [  ]          [  ]


INSTRUCTION: To withhold authority to vote for any individual nominee, mark "For
All Except" and write that nominee's name in the space provided below. The Board
of Directors  recommends  that you vote FOR the election of the nominees  listed
above.

2. PROPOSAL to ratify the appointment of Arthur Andersen L.L.P. as the Company's
independent auditors for the year ending December 31, 2000.

                        For      Against        Abstain
                       [  ]        [  ]          [  ]

The Board of  Directors  recommends  that you vote FOR the  ratification  of the
appointment of Arthur Andersen L.L.P. as independent auditors of the Company.

3.  STOCKHOLDER'S  PROPOSAL that the Board of Directors take the necessary steps
to achieve a sale or merger of the Company.  The Board of  Directors  recommends
that you vote AGAINST the stockholder's  proposal.

                        For      Against        Abstain
                       [  ]        [  ]          [  ]

4. STOCKHOLDER'S  PROPOSAL to remove  anti-takeover  defenses from the Company's
Certificate of Incorporation and Bylaws.

                        For      Against        Abstain
                       [  ]        [  ]          [  ]

The  Board of  Directors  recommends  that you vote  AGAINST  the  stockholder's
proposal.
<PAGE>
5. In their  discretion,  the  proxies  are  authorized  to vote upon such other
business as may properly come before the meeting.  Detach above card, sign, date
and mail in postage paid envelope provided.


          Please be sure to sign and date this Proxy in the box below.

                   _________________________________________
                                      Date

                   _________________________________________
                             Stockholder sign above

                   _________________________________________
                         Co-holder (if any) sign above


   Detach above card, sign, date and mail in postage paid envelope provided.

                          STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.

If you do not return this card properly  completed,  shares will be voted by the
Trustees of the Recognition Plan as directed by the plan administrators in their
discretion.

                              PLEASE ACT PROMPTLY
              SIGN, DATE & MAIL YOUR VOTING INSTRUCTION CARD TODAY




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