ROME BANCORP INC
DEF 14A, 2000-04-05
SAVINGS INSTITUTION, FEDERALLY CHARTERED
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                                 SCHEDULE 14A

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                                    [LOGO]

                                         April 5, 2000


Dear Shareholder:

     You are cordially invited to attend the year 2000 Annual Meeting of
Shareholders of Rome Bancorp, Inc., the holding company for The Rome Savings
Bank, which will be held on May 3, 2000 at 6:30 p.m., local time, at the main
office of The Rome Savings Bank, 100 W. Dominick Street, Rome, New York, 13440-
5810 (the "Annual Meeting").

     The attached Notice of Annual Meeting and Proxy Statement describe the
formal business that we will transact at the Annual Meeting.  In addition to the
formal items of business, management will report on the operations and
activities of Rome Bancorp and Rome Savings and you will have an opportunity to
ask questions.

     The Board of Directors of Rome Bancorp has determined that an affirmative
vote on each matter to be considered at the Annual Meeting is in the best
interests of Rome Bancorp and its shareholders and unanimously recommends a vote
"FOR" each of these matters.

     Please complete, sign and return the enclosed proxy card promptly, whether
or not you plan to attend the Annual Meeting.  Your vote is important regardless
of the number of shares you own.  Voting by proxy will not prevent you from
voting in person at the Annual Meeting but will assure that your vote is counted
if you cannot attend.

     On behalf of the Board of Directors and the employees of Rome Bancorp and
Rome Savings, we thank you for your continued support and look forward to seeing
you at the Annual Meeting.


                                    Sincerely yours,




                                    /s/ Charles M. Sprock
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                                    Charles M. Sprock
                                    Chairman, President and Chief Executive
                                       Officer
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                              Rome Bancorp, Inc.
                             100 W. Dominick Street
                           Rome, New York 13440-5810


                    Notice of Annual Meeting of Shareholders

                                Date:   Wednesday, May 3, 2000
                                Time:   6:30 p.m., local time
                                Place:  The Rome Savings Bank
                                        100 W. Dominick
                                        Rome, New York 13440-5810

     At our 2000 Annual Meeting, we will ask you to:

     1.   Elect two directors to serve for a three-year term to expire at the
          2003 annual meeting. The following two directors are the Board of
          Director's nominees:

          Richard H. McMahon        Marion C. Scoville

     2.   Ratify the appointment of KPMG LLP as our independent public
          accountants for the fiscal year ending December 31, 2000;

     3.   Adopt the Rome Bancorp, Inc. 2000 Stock Option Plan;

     4.   Adopt the Rome Bancorp, Inc. 2000 Recognition and Retention Plan; and

     5.   Transact any other business as may properly come before the Annual
          Meeting or at any adjournment or postponement thereof.

     You may vote at the Annual Meeting if you were a shareholder of Rome
Bancorp at the close of business on March 20, 2000, the record date.


                                    By Order of the Board of Directors,



                                    /s/ Marion C. Scoville
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                                    Marion C. Scoville
                                    Corporate Secretary

Rome, New York
April 5, 2000


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You are cordially invited to attend the Annual Meeting. It is important that
your shares be represented regardless of the number of shares you own. The
Board of Directors urges you to sign, date and mark the enclosed proxy card
promptly and return it in the enclosed envelope. Returning the proxy card will
not prevent you from voting in person if you attend the Annual Meeting.
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                              GENERAL INFORMATION

General

     We have sent you this Proxy Statement and enclosed proxy card because the
Board of Directors is soliciting your proxy to vote at the Annual Meeting.  This
Proxy Statement summarizes the information you will need to know to cast an
informed vote at the Annual Meeting.  You do not need to attend the Annual
Meeting to vote your shares.  You may simply complete, sign and return the
enclosed proxy card and your votes will be cast for you at the Annual Meeting.
This process is described below in the section entitled "Voting Rights."

     We began mailing this Proxy Statement, the Notice of Annual Meeting and the
enclosed proxy card on or about April 5, 2000 to all shareholders entitled to
vote.  If you owned common stock of Rome Bancorp at the close of business on
March 20, 2000, the record date, you are entitled to vote at the Annual Meeting.
On the record date, there were 3,400,776 shares of common stock outstanding.

Quorum

     A quorum of shareholders is necessary to hold a valid meeting.  If the
holders of at least a majority of the total number of the outstanding shares of
common stock entitled to vote are represented in person or by proxy at the
Annual Meeting, a quorum will exist.  We will include proxies marked as
abstentions and broker non-votes to determine the number of shares present at
the Annual Meeting.

Voting Rights

     You are entitled to one vote at the Annual Meeting for each share of the
common stock of Rome Bancorp that you owned as of record at the close of
business on March 20, 2000.  The number of shares you own (and may vote) is
listed at the top of the back of the proxy card.

     You may vote your shares at the Annual Meeting in person or by proxy.  To
vote in person, you must attend the Annual Meeting and obtain and submit a
ballot, which we will provide to you at the Annual Meeting.  To vote by proxy,
you must complete, sign and return the enclosed proxy card.  If you properly
complete your proxy card and send it to us in time to vote, your "proxy" (one of
the individuals named on your proxy card) will vote your shares as you have
directed.  If you sign the proxy card but do not make specific choices, your
proxy will vote your shares FOR each of the proposals identified in the Notice
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of the Annual Meeting.

     If any other matter is presented, your proxy will vote the shares
represented by all properly executed proxies on such matters as a majority of
the Board of Directors determines.  As of the date of this Proxy Statement, we
know of no other matters that may be presented at the Annual Meeting, other than
those listed in the Notice of the Annual Meeting.

Vote by Rome, MHC

     Rome, MHC is the holding company of Rome Bancorp which was formed pursuant
to the reorganization of Rome Savings to a mutual holding company structure on
October 6, 1999.  As indicated under "Security Ownership of Certain Beneficial
Owners and Management," Rome, MHC owns 51%, or 1,734,396 shares, of the
outstanding common stock of Rome Bancorp.  All shares of common stock owned by
Rome, MHC will be voted in accordance with the instructions of the Board of
Trustees of Rome, MHC. Rome, MHC is expected to vote such shares "FOR" Proposals
1, 2 and 5.  While Rome, MHC also intends to vote "FOR" Proposals 3 and  4, the
adoption of these proposals requires the approval of a majority of the total
votes of the common stock issued and outstanding exclusive of the shares owned
by Rome, MHC.
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Vote Required

     For the election of directors under Proposal 1, the nominees who receive
the most votes will be elected.  Under this voting standard, a failure to vote
or an indication of "WITHHOLD AUTHORITY" on your proxy card with respect to any
nominee will not count "FOR" or "AGAINST" that nominee.   A broker non-vote will
have no effect on the outcome of this proposal because only a plurality of votes
cast is required to elect a director.  You may not vote your shares cumulatively
for the election of directors.  Because Rome, MHC owns more than 50% of Rome
Bancorp's outstanding shares, we expect that Rome, MHC will control the outcome
of the vote on Proposal 1.

     In order to implement each of Proposal 3 and Proposal 4, the majority of
the outstanding shares of our common stock that are not held by Rome, MHC must
be voted "FOR" each proposal.  Under this voting standard, we must treat an
abstention or failure to vote the same as a vote "AGAINST" a proposal.  Shares
for which no vote is cast or for which the "ABSTAIN" box has been selected on
the proxy card, will be treated the same as a vote "AGAINST" each proposal.  A
broker non-vote with respect to either of these proposals will be treated the
same as a vote "AGAINST" that proposal.

     In order to implement each of Proposal 2 and Proposal 5, we must obtain the
affirmative vote of the holders of a majority of the shares of our common stock
represented in person or by proxy at the Annual Meeting and entitled to vote on
each proposal.  Under this voting standard, shares as to which the "ABSTAIN" box
has been selected on the proxy card will count as shares represented and
entitled to vote and will be treated as votes "AGAINST" a proposal.  Shares for
which no vote is cast with respect to a proposal will be treated as shares that
are not represented and will have no effect on the outcome of the vote for  that
proposal.  A broker non-vote with respect to either of these proposals will be
treated as shares that are not represented and will have no effect on the
outcome of that proposal.  Because Rome, MHC owns more than 50% of Rome
Bancorp's outstanding shares, we expect that Rome, MHC will control the outcome
of the votes on Proposal 2 and Proposal 5.

Confidential Voting Policy

     Rome Bancorp maintains a policy of keeping shareholder votes confidential.
We only let our Inspector of Election and certain employees of our independent
tabulating agent examine the voting materials.  We will not disclose your vote
to management unless it is necessary to meet legal requirements. We will,
however, forward any written comments that you may have to management.

Revoking Your Proxy

     You may revoke your proxy at any time before it is exercised by:

 .    Filing with the Corporate Secretary a letter revoking the proxy;
 .    Submitting another signed proxy with a later date; and
 .    Attending the Annual Meeting and voting in person, provided you file a
     written revocation with the Secretary of the Annual Meeting prior to the
     voting of such proxy.

     If your shares are not registered in your own name, you will need
appropriate documentation from your shareholder of record to vote personally at
the Annual Meeting.  Examples of such documentation include a broker's
statement, letter or other document that will confirm your ownership of shares
of Rome Bancorp.

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Solicitation of Proxies

     Rome Bancorp will pay the costs of soliciting proxies from its
shareholders.  Directors, officers or employees of Rome Bancorp and Rome Savings
may solicit proxies by:

 .    mail;
 .    telephone; and
 .    other forms of communication.

     We will also reimburse banks, brokers, nominees and other fiduciaries for
the expenses they incur in forwarding the proxy materials to you.

Interest of Certain Persons in Matters to be Acted Upon

     Our directors, officers and employees will be granted stock options under
the Rome Bancorp, Inc. 2000 Stock Option Plan being presented for shareholder
approval in Proposal 3, if our shareholders approve Proposal 3.  Our directors,
officers and employees will be awarded restricted stock under the Rome Bancorp,
Inc. 2000 Recognition and Retention Plan being presented for shareholder
approval in Proposal 4, if our shareholders approve Proposal 4.  As a result,
our directors, officers and employees have a personal interest in the outcome of
the vote on Proposals 3 and 4.

Obtaining an Annual Report on Form 10-KSB

     If you would like a copy of our Annual Report on Form 10-KSB and audited
financials for the year ended December 31, 1999, which will be filed with the
Securities and Exchange Commission ("SEC"), we will send you one (without
exhibits) free of charge.  Please write to:

     Marion C. Scoville
     Corporate Secretary
     Rome Bancorp, Inc.
     100 W. Dominick Street
     Rome, New York 13440-5810

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         SECURITY OWNERSHIP OF CERTAIN BENEFICIAL OWNERS AND MANAGEMENT

Principal Shareholders of Rome Bancorp

     The following table contains common stock ownership information for persons
known to Rome Bancorp to "beneficially own" 5% or more of Rome Bancorp's common
stock as of December 31, 1999. In general, beneficial ownership includes those
shares that a person has the power to vote, sell, or otherwise dispose.
Beneficial ownership also includes that number of shares which an individual has
the right to acquire within 60 days (such as stock options) of the date this
table was prepared.  Two or more persons may be considered the beneficial owner
of the same shares. We obtained the information provided in the following table
from filings with the SEC and with Rome Bancorp.  In this proxy statement,
"voting power" is the power to vote or direct the voting of shares, and
"investment power" includes the power to dispose or direct the disposition of
shares.

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<CAPTION>
                  Name and Address of     Amount and Nature of
Title of Class      Beneficial Owner       Beneficial Ownership    Percent
- --------------      ----------------       --------------------    -------
<S>               <C>                        <C>                  <C>
Common Stock      Rome, MHC
                  100 W. Dominick Street        1,734,396           51.0%
                  Rome, New York 13440-5810
</TABLE>

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Security Ownership of Management

     The following table shows the number of shares of Rome Bancorp's common
stock beneficially owned by each director, and all directors and executive
officers of Rome Bancorp as a group, as of December 31, 1999.  Except as
otherwise indicated, each person and each group shown in the table has sole
voting and investment power with respect to the shares of common stock listed
next to their name.

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<CAPTION>
                                                        Amount and Nature            Percent of
                            Position with                 of Beneficial             Common Stock
   Name                   Rome Bancorp (1)                 Ownership (2)            Outstanding (3)
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<S>                       <C>                    <C>                            <C>
Bruce R. Engelbert        Director                          15,000                          *
David C. Grow (4)         Director                          15,400                          *
Kirk B. Hinman (5)        Director                          22,000                          *
T. Richard Leidig (6)     Director                          22,000                          *
Richard H. McMahon (7)    Director                          22,000                          *
Marion C. Scoville        Director                           4,285                          *
Charles M. Sprock         Chairman, President                                               *
                          and Chief Executive
                          Officer                           22,000
Michael J. Valentine      Director                          22,000                          *
All directors and executive
officers as a group (13)                                   298,307                          8.77%
persons (8)
</TABLE>
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* Less than one percent of the total outstanding shares of common stock.

(1)     Titles are for both Rome Bancorp and Rome Savings.
(2)     All shares are common stock of Rome Bancorp, par value $0.01.
(3)     Based on a total of 3,400,776 shares of Rome Bancorp's common stock
        outstanding as of December 31, 1999.
(4)     Includes 7,100 shares held in Mr. Grow's Individual Retirement Account
        ("IRA"), 700 shares held in his spouse's IRA and 100 shares held by his
        daughter.  Mr. Grow disclaims beneficial ownership of the shares held by
        his wife and his daughter, over which he has neither voting nor
        investment powers.
(5)     These shares are held jointly with Mr. Hinman's spouse.
(6)     These shares are held individually by Mr. Leidig's spouse.
(7)     Includes 7,100 shares held in Mr. McMahon's IRA.
(8)     The number of shares for all executive officers and directors as a group
        includes 133,310 shares held by the ESOP Trust, over which certain
        directors and executive officers may be deemed to have shared investment
        power. The shares have not yet been allocated to the individual accounts
        of the executive officers as of December 31, 1999. The individual
        participants in the ESOP have shared voting power with the ESOP Trustee.

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                  DISCUSSION OF PROPOSALS RECOMMENDED BY BOARD


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                                   PROPOSAL 1
                             ELECTION OF DIRECTORS

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General

     The Board has nominated two persons for election as directors at the Annual
Meeting.  The nominees are currently serving on Rome Bancorp's Board of
Directors.   If you elect the nominees, they will hold office until the Annual
Meeting in 2003, or until their successors have been elected.

     We know of no reason why any nominee may be unable to serve as a director.
If any nominee is unable to serve, your proxy may vote for another nominee
proposed by the Board.  If for any reason these nominees prove unable or
unwilling to stand for election, the Board will nominate alternates or reduce
the size of the Board of Directors to eliminate the vacancy. The Board has no
reason to believe that its nominees would prove unable to serve if elected.

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Nominees and Continuing Directors


                                                                 Position(s)
                                                                  Held with
                               Age(1)    Term Expires          Rome Bancorp             Director Since(2)
                              --------  ---------------    -------------------------   -------------------

Nominees
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<S>                           <C>        <C>               <C>                          <C>
Richard H. McMahon               69          2000               Director                       1969

Marion C. Scoville               69          2000               Director and                   1994
                                                                Corporate Secretary
</TABLE>

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                                                                 Position(s)
                                                                  Held with
                               Age(1)    Term Expires          Rome Bancorp             Director Since(2)
                              --------  ---------------    -------------------------   -------------------

Continuing Directors
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<S>                           <C>        <C>               <C>                           <C>
Charles M. Sprock                60          2002               Chairman, President             1980
                                                                and Chief Executive
                                                                Officer

Bruce R. Engelbert               62          2001               Director                        1982

David C. Grow                    56          2001               Director                        1993

Kirk B. Hinman                   48          2002               Director                        1994

T. Richard Leidig                68          2001               Director                        1976

Michael J. Valentine             57          2002               Director                        1993
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(1)  As of December 31, 1999.
(2)  Includes service as a director of Rome Savings prior to the formation of
     Rome Bancorp in 1999.

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     The principal occupation and business experience of each nominee for
election as director and each Continuing Director are set forth below.

Nominees

     Richard H. McMahon has been a partner at the law firm of McMahon, Grow &
Getty since 1964. The firm serves as counsel for Rome Savings and engages in a
general legal practice emphasizing real estate, estates and banking.  He
currently serves as Vice President and director of Central New York Abstract
Corporation in Utica, New York.

     Marion C. Scoville serves as the Corporate Secretary and Executive
Assistant to the President of Rome Savings.  Ms. Scoville has been with Rome
Savings since 1956, when she started as a teller.

Continuing Directors

     Charles M. Sprock is the Chairman of the Board, President and Chief
Executive Officer of Rome Savings.  He currently serves as director for the
Institutional Investors Mutual Fund in New York City and the Canterbury Printing
Company of Rome, Inc. in Rome, New York.

     Bruce R. Engelbert was the President and 50% shareholder of Engelbert's
Jewelers, Inc., a retail jewelry business with one store in Rome and another in
New Hartford, New York, from 1982 to 1995.

     David C. Grow has been a partner at the law firm of McMahon, Grow & Getty
since 1975.  The firm acts as counsel to Rome Savings and engages in a general
legal practice emphasizing real estate, estates and banking.  He currently
serves as director for the Canterbury Printing Company of Rome, Inc. in Rome,
New York.

     Kirk B. Hinman has served as the President of Rome Strip Steel Company,
Inc. since 1989.  He also serves on the board of Directors of Canterbury
Printing Company of Rome, Inc., Enviromaster International and Excellus, Inc.

     T. Richard Leidig is self-employed as a business consultant.  He served as
Vice President of Administration of Rome Cable Corp. until retiring from that
position in 1986.

     Michael J. Valentine is the President of Mele Manufacturing Company, Inc.,
which manufactures and imports  products in the jewel case, stationery, custom
packaging and sports flooring businesses.

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<S> <C>
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The Board of Directors unanimously recommends a vote "FOR" all of the nominees
for election as directors.
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              INFORMATION ABOUT BOARD OF DIRECTORS AND MANAGEMENT

Board of Directors

     Rome Bancorp's Board of Directors currently consists of eight members.
Rome Bancorp's Certificate of Incorporation provides that the Board shall be
divided into three classes, as nearly equal in number as possible. The terms of
two directors expire at the Annual Meeting.

     The Board of Directors oversees our business and monitors the performance
of our management. In accordance with our corporate governance procedures, the
Board of Directors does not involve itself in the day-to-day operations of Rome
Bancorp.  Rome Bancorp's executive officers and management oversee the day-to-
day operations of Rome Bancorp.  Our directors fulfill their duties and
responsibilities by attending regular meetings of the Board which are held on a
monthly basis.  Our directors also discuss business and other matters with the
Chairman, other key executives, and our principal external advisers (legal
counsel, auditors, financial advisors and other consultants).

     The Board of Directors held 12 regular meetings and four special meetings
during the fiscal year ended December 31, 1999.  Each incumbent director
attended at least 75% of the meetings of the Board of Directors, plus meetings
of committees on which that particular director served during this period.

Committees of the Board

     The Board of Directors of Rome Bancorp has established the following
committees:

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<S>             <C>
EXECUTIVE       The Executive Committee exercises the powers of the Board of Directors of
COMMITTEE       in between Board meetings.  It approves loans within Rome Savings'
                authority and reviews the loan portfolio.

                Directors Engelbert, Hinman, McMahon, Sprock and Leidig currently serve
                as members of the committee.  Mr. Sprock is the Chairman of the Committee.
                The Executive Committee met 23 times in the 1999 fiscal year.

AUDIT           The Audit Committee oversees the audit process.  Meetings are called by
COMMITTEE       Rome Bancorp's internal auditors.

                Directors Engelbert, Hinman, Leidig and Valentine currently serve as
                members of the committee.  Mr. Valentine is the Chairman of the Committee.

                The Audit Committee did not meet in the 1999 fiscal year.

COMPENSATION    The Compensation Committee assesses the structure of the management team
COMMITTEE       and the overall performance of Rome Savings.  It oversees executive
                compensation by approving salary increases and reviews general personnel
                matters such as staff performance evaluations.

                Directors Hinman, McMahon and Valentine serve on the committee.  Mr.
                McMahon is the Chairman of the Committee.  The Compensation Committee
                met five times in the 1999 fiscal year.
</TABLE>

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     The Board of Directors, acting as the nominating committee, met in January,
2000 to select the nominees for election as directors at the Annual Meeting.

Directors' Compensation

     Meeting Fees. Currently, each non-employee director of Rome Savings
receives the following fees:

     .  fee of $800 per Board of Directors meeting attended;
     .  fee of $300 per Executive Committee meeting attended;
     .  fee of $250 per committee meeting attended for all other committees;
     .  fee of $200 per conference attended; and
     .  an annual retainer equal to $8,000.

     Total directors' meeting and committee fees for fiscal 1999 were $180,800.
We do not compensate our employee-directors for service as directors.  Directors
are also entitled to the protection of certain indemnification provisions in our
Certificate of Incorporation and Bylaws.

     Recognition and Retention Plan and Stock Option Plan.  In addition, our
directors are eligible to participate in the Rome Bancorp, Inc. 2000 Stock
Option Plan and Rome Bancorp, Inc. 2000 Recognition and Retention Plan.  These
stock benefit plans are discussed under  "--Benefits," "Stock Option Plan" and
"Recognition and Retention Plan."

Executive Officers Who Are Not Directors

     The following individuals are executive officers of Rome Bancorp and Rome
Savings and hold the offices set forth below opposite their names.

     Biographical information and the business experience of each non-director
executive officer of Rome Bancorp and Rome Savings is set forth below.

     Anthony B. Bauer currently serves as Senior Vice President, a position he
has held for the last year. As the Senior Vice President in charge of
Operations, he supervises the checking, loan servicing, and data processing
departments.

     David C. Nolan is the Treasurer and Chief Financial Officer.  His
experience at Rome Savings includes positions as the Chief Accounting Officer,
Manager of the Asset Liability Compensation Committee ("ALCO"), and Manager of
fixed income portfolios.

     James F. Sullivan is currently the Vice President and Senior Loan Officer
of Rome Savings, an office which he has held since 1997.  He is responsible in
this capacity for Rome Savings' loan portfolio.

     D. Bruce Fraser is the Vice President in charge of Branch Administration
and Security.  Mr. Fraser oversees the operations of the branches and security
for Rome Savings.

     Jeannette Remp Sawyer is the Vice President in charge of monitoring and
resolving delinquent residential mortgages and bank-owned real estate.

     The Board of Directors annually elects the executive officers of Rome
Bancorp and Rome Savings. The elected officers hold office until their
respective successors have been elected and qualified, or until death,
resignation or removal by the Board of Directors.

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Executive Compensation

     The following table sets forth cash and noncash compensation for the fiscal
years ended December 31, 1999 and 1998 awarded to or earned by Charles M.
Sprock, Rome Bancorp's President and Chief Executive Officer.  No other
officer's total annual salary and bonus for 1999, 1998 or 1997 was in excess of
$100,000.

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<CAPTION>
                                        Summary Compensation Table

                                                          Annual Compensation
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                                                                               Other
                                                                              Annual              All Other
Name and Principal                                                          Compensation         Compensation
   Positions                  Year      Salary($)       Bonus($)              ($)(1)               ($)(2)
- ------------------------     -------  ------------   -------------       -------------------  -----------------
<S>                           <C>     <C>          <C>                  <C>                   <C>
Charles M. Sprock             1999     $221,231             -                 $5,800                $9,060
 Chairman, President and
 Chief Executive Officer      1998     $199,732             -                 $5,500                $9,140

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(1)  Includes $4,000 for club memberships and the remaining amounts for the use
     of an automobile.
(2)  Includes the following components:  (1) $4,800 and $5,000 in employer
     contributions by Rome Savings to a 401(k) plan for the benefit of Mr.
     Sprock for the fiscal years 1999 and 1998, respectively; and (2) $4,260 and
     $4,140 as the premium cost for the fiscal years 1999 and 1998,
     respectively, for life insurance coverage under the group term insurance
     plan, which has no cash surrender value.
</TABLE>

     Employment Agreements.  Rome Bancorp has entered into an employment
agreement with Charles M. Sprock to secure his services as Chairman, President
and Chief Executive Officer.  The employment agreement has a three-year term
which will be automatically extended on a daily basis so that the remaining term
will always be three years unless written notice of non-renewal is given by the
Board of Directors of Rome Bancorp or Mr. Sprock.  This agreement provides for a
minimum annual salary of $250,000, and participation on generally applicable
terms and conditions in other compensation and fringe benefit plans. It also
guarantees customary corporate indemnification and errors and omissions
insurance coverage throughout the employment term and for six years after
termination.  The agreement provides for the reimbursement of Mr. Sprock's
ordinary and necessary business expenses, such as travel and entertainment
expenses, but does not guarantee any specific executive perquisites, such as
club memberships or automobile expenses.

     Rome Bancorp may terminate Mr. Sprock's employment, and he may resign, at
any time with or without cause.  However, in the event of termination by Rome
Bancorp during the term without cause, we will owe Mr. Sprock severance benefits
generally equal to the value of the cash compensation and fringe benefits that
the executive would have received if he had continued working for an additional
three years. In particular, Mr. Sprock would be entitled to: a lump sum payment
equal to the  present value of the amount he would have earned in salary had he
continued working an additional three years; and a lump sum payment equal to the
present value of the additional contributions or benefits that he would have
earned under the Rome Savings pension plan, 401(k) plan and ESOP had he
continued work an additional three years.  The employment agreement also
provides for the cash out of any stock options, appreciation rights or
restricted stock as if Mr. Sprock were fully vested at the time of his
termination and the continuation of  coverage under the life, health, disability
insurance plans of Rome Savings or Rome Bancorp for an additional three years.
The same severance benefits would be payable if he resigns during the term
following: a loss of title, office or membership on the board of directors;
material reduction in duties, functions or responsibilities; involuntary
relocation of Mr. Sprock's principal place of employment to a location over 50
miles in distance from Rome Savings' principal office in Rome, New York; or
other material breach of contract by Rome Bancorp which is not cured within 30
days.  Mr. Sprock may resign for any reason following a change in

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control and collect severance benefits as if he had been discharged without
cause. The employment agreement also provides certain uninsured death and
disability benefits.

     Under the employment agreement, Mr. Sprock has agreed that in the event his
employment terminates, either voluntarily or involuntarily, under circumstances
in which he is not entitled to severance benefits, he will not compete with Rome
Savings or take a position with any of its competitors within Oneida County, New
York for a period of one year.

     If Rome Bancorp experiences a change in ownership, a change in effective
ownership or control or a change in the ownership of a substantial portion of
their assets as contemplated by section 280G of the Internal Revenue Code, a
portion of any severance payments under the employment agreement might
constitute an "excess parachute payment" under current federal tax laws.  Any
excess parachute payment would be subject to a 20% federal excise tax payable by
the executive.  Neither Rome Savings nor Rome Bancorp could claim a federal
income tax deduction for an excess parachute payment.   The employment agreement
requires Rome Bancorp to indemnify Mr. Sprock against the financial effects of
such an excise tax.

Benefit Plans

     Pension Plan.  Rome Savings maintains a tax-qualified pension plan that
covers substantially all employees who are age 21 and have at least one year of
service.  Rome Savings also maintains a nonqualified Supplemental Executive
Retirement Plan that provides a supplemental retirement benefit to Mr. Sprock
equal in value to the additional benefits he would have been provided under the
tax-qualified pension plan but for the limits on benefits under tax-qualified
pension plans imposed by the Internal Revenue Code.  The following table shows
the estimated aggregate benefits payable under the tax-qualified pension plan
and the Supplemental Executive Retirement Plan upon retirement at age 65 with
various years of service and average compensation combinations.

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                 Years of Benefit Service
                   ----------------------------------------------------------
<S>                  <C>       <C>       <C>       <C>       <C>
      Average
 Compensation (1)       10         15        20        25          30
- -----------------  ----------   --------  --------  --------   ---------
     $  75,000        $15,000   $22,500  $ 30,000  $ 37,500    $ 45,000
       100,000         20,000    30,000    40,000    50,000      60,000
       125,000         25,000    37,500    50,000    62,500      75,000
       150,000         30,000    45,000    60,000    75,000      90,000
       160,000         32,000    48,000    64,000    80,000      96,000
       200,000         40,000    60,000    80,000   100,000     120,000
       250,000         50,000    75,000   100,000   125,000     150,000
- --------------
</TABLE>

(1)    Average compensation is average base salary, as reported in the "Salary"
       column of the Summary Compensation Table, for the highest three
       consecutive years of employment within the final 10 years of employment.
       Tax laws impose a limit ($160,000 for individuals retiring in 1999) on
       the average compensation that may be counted in computing benefits under
       the tax-qualified pension plan. For Mr. Sprock, benefits based on average
       compensation in excess of this limit are payable by the Supplemental
       Executive Retirement Plan.

       The benefits shown in the preceding table are annual benefits payable in
the form of a single life annuity and are not subject to any deduction for
Social Security benefits or other offset amounts.  As of December 31, 1999, the
number of years of service credited to Mr. Sprock under the plans was 30 years,
the maximum that may be credited under the plans.  As of December 31, 1999, Mr.
Sprock's total annual benefit

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under the tax-qualified pension plan and the Supplemental Executive Retirement
Plan was $150,000, payable in the form of a life annuity commencing at age 65.

     401(k) Plan.  Rome Savings maintains a tax-qualified 401(k) defined
contribution plan for employees who have attained age 21 and have at least one
year of service.  Eligible employees may make pre-tax contributions to the plan
through salary reduction elections from 1% to 15% of annual compensation,
subject to limitations of the Internal Revenue Code (for 1999, the annual limit
was $10,000).  Rome Savings makes a matching contribution to the plan equal to
50% of the first six percent of annual compensation contributed to the plan on a
pre-tax basis by the eligible employee.

     Employee Stock Ownership Plan. This plan is a tax-qualified plan that
covers substantially all employees who have at least one year of service and
have attained age 21.  Rome Bancorp has lent this plan enough money to purchase
8% of the shares which were issued in the reorganization of Rome Savings to a
mutual holding company structure, to investors other than Rome, MHC.

     Although contributions to this plan are discretionary, Rome Savings intends
to contribute enough money each year to make the required principal and interest
payments on the loan from Rome Bancorp.  This loan is for a term of 15 years and
calls for level annual payments of principal and interest. The plan has pledged
the shares as collateral for the loan and is holding them in a suspense account.

     The plan will release a portion of the pledged shares annually, allocating
the shares released each year among the accounts of participants in proportion
to their salary for the year.  For example, if a participant's salary for a year
represents 1% of the total salaries of all participants for the year, the plan
would allocate to that participant 1% of the shares released for the year.
Participants direct the voting of shares allocated to their accounts.  Shares in
the suspense account will usually be voted in a way that mirrors the votes which
participants cast for shares in their individual accounts.

     This plan may purchase additional shares in the future, and may do so using
borrowed funds, cash dividends, periodic employer contributions or other cash
flows.

     Benefit Restoration Plan. Rome Bancorp has also adopted a Benefit
Restoration Plan for Mr. Sprock. This plan provides Mr. Sprock with the benefits
that would otherwise be due to him as a participant in the 401(k) plan and the
employee stock ownership plan if such benefits were not limited by certain
provisions of the Internal Revenue Code.  In addition, in the event Mr. Sprock
retires prior to the end of the ESOP loan term, the plan will provide Mr. Sprock
a benefit equal to the value of the shares of Rome Bancorp that would have been
allocated to his account under the ESOP had he remained employed through the end
of the ESOP loan term.

     Rome Bancorp has established an irrevocable "grantor trust" to hold assets
for the payment of benefits under this plan.  The assets of the trust are
considered to be part of the general assets of Rome Bancorp and will be subject
to the claims of its general creditors.  Earnings on the trust's assets will be
taxable to Rome Bancorp.

     Stock Option Plan.  The Board of Directors of Rome Savings has adopted the
Rome Bancorp, Inc. 2000 Stock Option Plan.  This plan is subject to the approval
of the shareholders other than Rome, MHC at the Annual Meeting.  See "Proposal 3
- -- Stock Option Plan."

     Recognition and Retention Plan.  The Board of Directors of Rome Savings has
adopted the Rome Bancorp, Inc. 2000 Recognition and Retention Plan.  This plan
is subject to the approval of the shareholders other than Rome, MHC at the
Annual Meeting.  See "Proposal 4 - Recognition and Retention Plan."

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Transactions with Certain Related Persons

     We make residential mortgage loans to employees.  We do not offer employees
residential mortgages at a reduced rate.  The mortgage loans have the same
underwriting terms that apply to non-employee borrowers.

     Rome Bancorp's authority to extend credit to directors, executive officers,
and 10% shareholders, as well as entities controlled by such persons, is
currently governed by the requirements of Sections 22(g) and 22(h) of the FRB
and Regulation O of the FRB thereunder.  Among other things, these provisions
require that extensions of credit to insiders (a) be made on terms that are
substantially the same as, follows credit underwriting procedures that are not
less stringent than those prevailing for comparable transactions with
unaffiliated persons and that not involve more than the normal risk of repayment
or present other unfavorable features and (b) do not exceed certain limitations
on the amount of credit extended to such persons, individually and in aggregate,
which limits are based, in part, on the amount of Rome Bancorp's capital. Rome
Bancorp intends that any transactions in the future between Rome Bancorp and its
executive officers, directors, holders of 10% or more of the shares of any class
of its common stock and affiliates thereof, will contain terms no less favorable
to Rome Bancorp than could have been obtained by it in arm's-length negotiations
with unaffiliated persons and will be approved by a majority of independent
outside directors of Rome Bancorp not having any interest in the transaction.

     Rome Bancorp has made loans or extended credit to its executive officers
and directors and also to certain persons related to executive officers and
directors.  All such loans were made by Rome Bancorp in the ordinary course of
business and were not made more favorable terms, nor did they involve more than
the normal risk of collectibility or present unfavorable features.  The
outstanding principal balance of such loans to directors, executive officers and
their associates totaled $190,600, or 0.5%, of Rome Bancorp's total equity at
December 31, 1999.

     We retain the law firm of McMahon, Grow & Getty.  David C. Grow and Richard
H. McMahon, both directors of Rome Bancorp and Rome Savings and Trustees of
Rome, MHC, are partners of McMahon, Grow & Getty.  For 1999, we paid $71,002 in
legal fees to this law firm.

     All future affiliated transactions will be made or entered into on terms
that are no less favorable to Rome Bancorp than those that can be obtained from
an unaffiliated third party.  A majority of the independent, disinterested
members of Rome Bancorp's board of directors must approve future affiliated
transactions and forgiveness of loans.

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                                   PROPOSAL 2

                          RATIFICATION OF APPOINTMENT
                       OF INDEPENDENT PUBLIC ACCOUNTANTS

                          ---------------------------

     The Board of Directors has appointed KPMG LLP to act as the independent
public accountants for Rome Bancorp for the fiscal year ending December 31,
2000, and we are asking shareholders to ratify the appointment.  Representatives
of KPMG LLP are expected to attend the Annual Meeting.


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The Board of Directors unanimously recommends a vote "FOR" the ratification of
the appointment of KPMG LLP as independent public accountants for Rome Bancorp.
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                                   PROPOSAL 3

                         ADOPTION OF ROME BANCORP, INC.
                             2000 STOCK OPTION PLAN

                      -----------------------------------

General

     The Board of Directors has adopted the Rome Bancorp, Inc. 2000 Stock Option
Plan, subject to approval by the holders of a majority of Rome Bancorp's
outstanding shares of common stock that are not owned by Rome, MHC.  Provided
below is a summary of our reasons for adopting this plan and seeking the
approval of our shareholders.  The following summary is qualified in its
entirety by the full text of the plan document.  The plan document is included
at the end of this Proxy Statement as Exhibit A and is incorporated by reference
into this proposal.

Why we are asking for shareholder approval

     We are asking our shareholders to approve the Rome Bancorp, Inc. 2000 Stock
Option Plan so that we will be able to grant stock options to our directors and
officers.  Most of the companies with which we compete for directors and
management-level employees are public companies that offer stock options as part
of their director and officer compensation packages.  By approving this plan,
our shareholders will enable us to offer a more competitive compensation package
in attracting and retaining highly qualified directors and officers.  In
addition, the value of the stock options that we would grant under this plan
relates directly to the market price of our common stock.  Adding stock options
to our compensation package would link the financial interests of our directors
and officers with the financial interest of our shareholders.

If we do not receive shareholder approval, we will not implement the plan

     Applicable federal banking regulations did not permit us to implement a
stock option plan during the first six months after the completion of Rome
Savings' stock conversion and our initial public offering. These regulations
permit us to implement a stock option plan after six months and before the first
anniversary of these events only if we obtain the approval of the holders of a
majority of our shares of common stock that are not owned by Rome, MHC.  If we
do not receive this approval, it will not be possible for us to grant stock
options.  In this event, we expect that the Board will consider substituting
other forms of compensation to assure that our compensation packages for
officers and directors are competitive with those of other publicly traded
financial services companies in our market area.

Purpose of the Option Plan

     The purpose of the option plan is to promote growth and profitability to
Rome Bancorp and its shareholders, to provide certain key officers, employees
and directors of  Rome Bancorp and its affiliates with an incentive to achieve
corporate objectives, to attract and retain individuals of outstanding
competence and to provide such individuals with an equity interest in Rome
Bancorp.

Description of the Option Plan

     Administration.  The plan will be administered by an administrative
committee consisting of all members of the Board of Directors or, if designated
by the Board, a committee of outside directors who are "disinterested directors"
under the federal tax and securities laws.  In general, disinterested directors
are directors who (1) are not, and never were, officers or employees of Rome
Bancorp or Rome Savings; and (2)

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do not receive material compensation from Rome Bancorp or Rome Savings except
for service as a director. The administrative committee must have at least two
members and has broad discretionary powers.

     Stock Subject to the Option Plan.  Rome Bancorp has reserved 166,638 shares
of its common stock for issuance upon the exercise of options under the plan.
Such shares may be authorized and unissued shares or shares previously issued
that Rome Bancorp has reacquired.  Any shares subject to grants under the option
plan which expire or are terminated, forfeited or canceled without having been
exercised or vested in full, shall be available for new option grants.  As of
March 22, 2000, the aggregate fair market value of the shares reserved for
issuance under the plan was $1,083,147, based on the latest closing sales price
per share of Rome Bancorp common stock of $6.50 on The Nasdaq Stock Market.

     Eligibility.  The administrative committee for the plan selects the people
who receive stock option grants.  Any employee of Rome Bancorp, Rome Savings or
any affiliate approved by the administrative committee may be selected to
receive option grants.  Directors of Rome Bancorp, Rome Savings or any affiliate
approved by the Board who are not also employees or officers may be selected by
the committee to receive option grants. As of April 5, 2000, the administrative
committee had not selected the employees and directors who will be eligible to
receive option grants.

     Terms and Conditions of Options.  The administrative committee sets the
terms and conditions of the stock options that it grants.  In setting terms and
conditions, it must observe the following restrictions:

     .    It may not grant options to purchase more than 41,659 shares to any
          one employee. In addition, it may not grant options to purchase more
          than 8,332 shares of our common stock to any one non-employee director
          or options to purchase more than 49,991 shares of our common stock to
          all outside directors in the aggregate.

     .    It may not grant a stock option with a purchase price that is less
          than the fair market value of a share of our common stock on the date
          it grants the stock option.

     .    It may not grant a stock option with a term that is longer than 10
          years.

     .    It may not grant options that become exercisable more rapidly than at
          the rate of 20% per year measured from the date we receive shareholder
          approval for the plan, with acceleration permitted only in cases of
          death or disability.

     .    It may not grant options with an effective date that is before the
          date that we receive shareholder approval for the plan.

The committee may grant incentive stock options that qualify for special federal
income tax treatment or non-qualified stock options that do not qualify for
special federal income tax treatment.  Incentive stock options are subject to
certain additional restrictions under the Internal Revenue Code and the plan.

     Upon the exercise of an option, the exercise price of the option must be
paid in full.  Payment may be made in cash, common stock of Rome Bancorp already
owned by the option holder, shares to be acquired by the option holder upon
exercise of the option, or in such other consideration as the administrative
committee authorizes.  Options may be transferred prior to exercise only to
certain family members, certain non-profit organizations, and on death of the
option holder.

     Mergers and Reorganizations; Adjustments for Extraordinary Dividends.  The
number of shares available under the plan, the maximum limits on option grants
to individual officers and directors and to non-employee directors in the
aggregate, and the number of shares subject to outstanding options will be
adjusted

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to reflect any merger, consolidation or business reorganization in which Rome
Bancorp is the surviving entity, and to reflect any stock split, stock dividend
or other event generally affecting the number of shares. If a merger,
consolidation or other business reorganization occurs and Rome Bancorp is not
the surviving entity, outstanding options may be canceled upon 30 days' written
notice to the option holder so long as the option holder receives payment
determined by the Board to be of a value equivalent to the value of the canceled
options.

Termination or Amendment of the Option Plan

     This plan will be in effect for a ten-year period that will begin on the
date of shareholder approval and will end on the tenth anniversary of the date
of shareholder approval.  The Board of Directors may suspend or terminate the
plan before then.  It may also amend this plan at any time and in any respect.
Any amendment that would change the class of eligible employees, increase the
number of stock options that may be granted to any person or in total, or reduce
the minimum option price must first be approved by our shareholders.

Federal Income Tax Consequences

     The following discussion is intended to be a summary and is not a
comprehensive description of the federal tax laws, regulations and policies
affecting Rome Bancorp and recipients of stock option grants under the plan.
Any descriptions of the provisions of any law, regulation or policy are
qualified in their entirety by reference to the particular law, regulation or
policy.  Any change in applicable law or regulation or in the policies of
various taxing authorities may have a significant effect on this summary.  The
plan is not a qualified plan under section 401(a) of the Internal Revenue Code.

     Federal Tax Consequences for Option Recipients.  Incentive stock options
will not create federal income tax consequences when they are granted.  If they
are exercised during employment or within three months after termination of
employment, the exercise will not create federal income tax consequences either.
When the shares acquired on exercise of an incentive stock option are sold, the
seller must pay federal income taxes on the amount by which the sales price
exceeds the purchase price.  This amount will be taxed at capital gains rates if
the sale occurs at least two years after the option was granted and at least one
year after the option was exercised. Otherwise, it is taxed as ordinary income.

     Incentive stock options that are exercised more than one year after
termination of employment due to death or disability or three months after
termination of employment for other reasons are treated as non-qualified stock
options.  Non-qualified stock options will not create federal income tax
consequences when they are granted.  When they are exercised, federal income
taxes at ordinary income tax rates must be paid on the amount by which the fair
market value of the shares acquired by exercising the option exceeds the
exercise price.  When an option holder sells shares acquired by exercising non-
qualified stock option, he or she must pay federal income taxes on the amount by
which the sales price exceeds the purchase price plus the amount included in
ordinary income at option exercise.  This amount will be taxed at capital gains
rates, which will vary depending upon the time that has elapsed since the
exercise of the option.  A cash payment under the plan's change of control
provisions is taxed as if it were the exercise of a non-qualified stock option
followed immediately by a resale of the stock acquired by exercising the option.

     Federal Tax Consequences for Rome Bancorp.  When a non-qualified stock
option is exercised, Rome Bancorp may be allowed a federal income tax deduction
for the same amount that the option holder includes in his or her ordinary
income.  When an incentive stock option is exercised, there is no tax deduction
unless the shares acquired are resold sooner than two years after the option was
granted or one year after the option was exercised.  A cash payment under the
plan's change of control provisions is deductible as if it were the exercise of
a non-qualified stock option.  The Internal Revenue Code places an annual limit
of

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$1 million each on the tax deduction which we may claim in any fiscal year for
the compensation of our chief executive officer and for the compensation of our
four next most highly compensated executive officers whose salary and bonus for
the fiscal year in question equals or exceeds $100,000.  There is an exception
to this limit for so-called "qualified performance-based compensation".  We have
designed this plan with the intention that the stock options that we grant will
constitute qualified performance-based compensation.  As a result, we do not
believe that this limit will impair our ability to claim federal income tax
deductions that are otherwise available when an option holder exercises a non-
qualified stock option.  No executive of Rome Bancorp currently receives
compensation that would be rendered nondeductible by this limitation.

     The preceding statements summarize the general principles of current
federal income tax law applicable to options that may be granted under the plan.
State and local tax consequences may also be significant.


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The Board of Directors unanimously recommends a vote "FOR" the adoption of the
Rome Bancorp, Inc. 2000 Stock Option Plan.
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                                   PROPOSAL 4

                         ADOPTION OF ROME BANCORP, INC.
                      2000 RECOGNITION AND RETENTION PLAN

                        -------------------------------

Purpose of the Recognition and Retention Plan

     The purpose of the plan is to promote the growth and profitability of Rome
Bancorp and its shareholders, to provide certain key officers, employees and
directors of Rome Bancorp and its affiliates with an incentive to achieve
corporate objectives, to attract and retain individuals of outstanding
competence and to provide such individuals with an equity interest in Rome
Bancorp.

Description of the RRP

     Administration.  The plan will be administered by an administrative
committee consisting of all members of the Board of Directors or, if designated
by the Board, a committee of outside directors who are "disinterested directors"
under the federal tax and securities laws.  In general, disinterested directors
are directors who (1) are not, and never were, officers or employees of Rome
Bancorp or Rome Savings; and (2) do not receive material compensation from Rome
Bancorp or Rome Savings except for service as a director. The administrative
committee must have at least two members and has broad discretionary powers.

     Stock Subject to the RRP.  Rome Bancorp will establish a trust and will
contribute certain amounts of money or property to be determined by the Board,
in its discretion.  No contributions by participants will be permitted.  The
trustee will invest the assets of the trust primarily in the shares of our
common stock that will be used to make restricted stock awards.  It is currently
anticipated that the trust will purchase common stock on the open market, or in
private transactions.  The trust is not expected to purchase previously
authorized but unissued shares from Rome Bancorp.  The trust is not authorized
to purchase more than 49,991 shares of common stock of Rome Bancorp and cannot
purchase more than this number.  As of March 22, 2000, the aggregate fair market
value of the shares of common stock to be purchased under this plan was

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$324,942, based on the closing sales price per share of Rome Bancorp common
stock of $6.50 on The Nasdaq Stock Market on March 22, 2000.

     Eligibility.   The administrative committee for the plan selects the people
who receive restricted stock awards under the plan.  Any employee of Rome
Bancorp, Rome Savings or any affiliate approved by the administrative committee
may be selected to receive stock awards.  Directors of Rome Bancorp, Rome
Savings or any affiliate approved by the Board who are not also employees or
officers may be selected by the committee to receive stock awards.  As of April
5, 2000, the administrative committee had not yet selected the employees and
directors who will receive stock awards.

     Terms and Conditions of Awards.  On or after March 22, 2000, the
administrative committee may, in its discretion, grant awards of restricted
stock to eligible individuals, up to a maximum of 49,991 shares. The
administrative committee will determine at the time of the grant the number of
shares of common stock subject to an award, the vesting schedule applicable to
the award and may, in its discretion, establish other terms and conditions
applicable to the award.  In setting terms and conditions, it must observe the
following restrictions:

     .    It may not grant restricted stock awards for more than 12,497 shares
          of our common stock to any one officer or employee, more than 2,499
          shares of our common stock to any one non-employee director, or more
          than 14,997 shares to all non-employee directors in the aggregate.

     .    It may not grant restricted stock awards that become exercisable more
          rapidly than at the rate of 20% per year measured from the date we
          receive shareholder approval for the plan, with acceleration permitted
          only in cases of death or disability.

     .    It may not grant restricted stock awards with an effective date that
          is before the date that we receive shareholder approval for the plan.

As a general rule, shares of our common stock that are subject to a restricted
stock award are held in trust for the benefit of the award recipient until
vested and, when vested, are transferred from the trust to the award recipient.
While the shares are held in the trust, the award recipient receives dividends
and exercises voting rights.  In the alternative, the administrative committee
may authorize the immediate distribution of the restricted shares to the award
recipient in the form of a stock certificate bearing a legend containing the
applicable vesting restrictions.

     Mergers and Reorganizations.  The number of shares available under the
plan, the maximum limits on restricted stock awards to individual officers and
directors and to non-employee directors in the aggregate, and any outstanding
awards will be adjusted to reflect any merger, consolidation or business
reorganization in which Rome Bancorp is the surviving entity, and to reflect any
stock split, stock dividend or other event generally affecting the number of
shares.  If a merger, consolidation or other business reorganization occurs and
Rome Bancorp is not the surviving entity, the trustee will hold any money,
stock, securities or other property received in the trust fund, and adjust any
award by allocating such money, stock, securities or other property to the
individual eligible for the award.

Termination or Amendment

     The Board has the authority to suspend or terminate the plan in whole or in
part at any time by giving written notice to the administrative committee, but
the plan may not be terminated while there are outstanding awards that will vest
in the future.  Upon the termination of the plan, the trustee will make
distributions from the trust as directed by the administrative committee and
will return any remaining assets of the trust to Rome Bancorp.

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Federal Income Tax Consequences

     The following discussion is intended to be a summary and is not a
comprehensive description of the federal tax laws, regulations and policies
affecting Rome Bancorp and recipients of awards that may be granted under the
plan.  Any descriptions of the provisions of any law, regulation or policy are
qualified in their entirety by reference to the particular law, regulation or
policy.  Any change in applicable law or regulation or in the policies of
various taxing authorities may have a significant effect on this summary.  The
plan is not a qualified plan under Section 401(a) of the Internal Revenue Code.

     The stock awards under the plan do not result in federal income tax
consequences to either Rome Bancorp or the award recipient.  As a general rule,
once the award is vested and the shares subject to the award are distributed,
the award recipient will generally be required to include in ordinary income,
for the taxable year in which the vesting date occurs, an amount equal to the
fair market value of the shares on the vesting date.  Rome Bancorp will
generally be allowed to claim a deduction, for compensation expense, in a like
amount.  If dividends are paid on unvested shares held under the plan, such
dividend amounts will also be included in the ordinary income of the recipient.
Rome Bancorp will be allowed to claim a deduction for compensation expense for
this amount as well.

     Section 162(m) of the Internal Revenue Code limits Rome Bancorp's
deductions for compensation in excess of $1,000,000 per year for the chief
executive officer and the four other most highly paid executives named in its
proxy statement.  Compensation amounts resulting from restricted stock awards
will be subject to this deduction limitation if this amount of the restricted
stock awards plus other compensation of the executive that is subject to the
limit exceeds $1,000,000.  No executive of Rome Bancorp currently receives
compensation subject to this limitation.  We expect that the administrative
committee will take these deduction limits into account in setting the size and
the terms and conditions of restricted stock awards. However, the administrative
committee may decide to grant restricted stock awards all or a portion of which
will exceed the deduction limit.

     The preceding statements are intended to summarize the general principles
of current federal income tax law applicable to awards that may be granted under
the plan.  State and local tax consequences may also be significant.


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The Board of Directors unanimously recommends a vote "FOR" the adoption of the
Rome Bancorp, Inc. 2000 Recognition and Retention Plan.
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                                   PROPOSAL 5

         AUTHORIZATION OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS, IN ITS DISCRETION, TO
  DIRECT THE VOTE OF THE PROXIES UPON SUCH OTHER MATTERS AS MAY PROPERLY COME
                 BEFORE THE ANNUAL MEETING, AND ANY ADJOURNMENT
            OR POSTPONEMENT THEREOF, INCLUDING, WITHOUT LIMITATION,
                     A MOTION TO ADJOURN THE ANNUAL MEETING


                         -----------------------------
The Board of Directors is not aware of any other business that may properly come
before the Annual Meeting. The Board seeks the authorization of the shareholders
of Rome Bancorp, in the event matters properly come before the meeting,
including, but not limited to, the consideration of whether to adjourn the
Annual Meeting once called to order and to direct the manner in which those
shares represented at the Annual Meeting by proxies solicited pursuant to this
Proxy Statement shall be voted. As to all such matters, the Board intends that
it would direct the voting of such shares in the manner determined by the Board,
in its discretion, and in the exercise of its duties and responsibilities, to be
in the best interests of Rome Bancorp and its shareholders, taken as a whole.


==============================================================================
The Board of Directors unanimously recommends that shareholders vote "FOR"
authorization of the Board of Directors, in its discretion, to direct the vote
of the proxies upon such other matters as may properly come before the Annual
Meeting, and any adjournment or postponement thereof, including, without
limitation, a motion to adjourn the Annual Meeting.
==============================================================================


                                      -20-
<PAGE>

                             ADDITIONAL INFORMATION

Information About Shareholder Proposals

     If you wish to submit proposals to be included in our next proxy statement
for the 2001 Annual Meeting of Shareholders, we must receive them by November
15, 2000, pursuant to the proxy solicitation regulations of the SEC.  SEC rules
contain requirements as to which shareholder proposals must be in the Proxy
Statement.  Any such proposal will be subject to 17 C.F.R. (S)240.14a-8 of the
rules and regulations promulgated by the SEC.

     In addition, under Rome Bancorp's Bylaws, if you wish to nominate a
director or bring other business before an annual meeting:

     .    You must be a shareholder of record entitled to vote and have given
          timely notice in writing to the Secretary of Rome Bancorp.

     .    Your notice must contain the specific information required in our
          Bylaws.


                                    By Order of the Board of Directors,





                                    /s/ Marion C. Scoville
                                    ------------------------------
                                    Marion C. Scoville
                                    Corporate Secretary

Rome, New York
April 5, 2000



==============================================================================
To assure that your shares are represented at the Annual Meeting, please
complete, sign, date and promptly return the accompanying proxy card in the
postage-paid envelope provided.
==============================================================================


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<PAGE>

                                                                       Exhibit A



                              Rome Bancorp, Inc.

                            2000 Stock Option Plan



                        ______________________________



                           Adopted on March 22, 2000
                          Effective as of May 3, 2000
<PAGE>

                               TABLE OF CONTENTS
                               -----------------
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                                            Page
                                                                            ----

                             Article I
                             ---------
                              Purpose
                             ---------
<S>           <C>                                                           <C>
Section 1.1    General Purpose of the Plan................................   1
               ---------------------------

                             Article II
                             ----------
                             Definitions
                             -----------
Section 2.1     Bank......................................................   1
                ----
Section 2.2     Board.....................................................   1
                -----
Section 2.3     Change in Control.........................................   1
                -----------------
Section 2.4     Code......................................................   3
                ----
Section 2.5     Committee.................................................   3
                ---------
Section 2.6     Company...................................................   3
                -------
Section 2.7     Disability................................................   3
                ----------
Section 2.8     Disinterested Board Member................................   3
                --------------------------
Section 2.9     Effective Date............................................   3
                --------------
Section 2.10    Eligible Director.........................................   3
                -----------------
Section 2.11    Eligible Employee.........................................   3
                -----------------
Section 2.12    Employer..................................................   3
                --------
Section 2.13    Exchange Act..............................................   4
                ------------
Section 2.14    Exercise Price............................................   4
                --------------
Section 2.15    Fair Market Value.........................................   4
                -----------------
Section 2.16    Family Member.............................................   4
                -------------
Section 2.17    FDIC Regulations..........................................   4
                ---------------
Section 2.18    Incentive Stock Option....................................   4
                ----------------------
Section 2.19    Non-Profit Organization...................................   4
                -----------------------
Section 2.20    Non-Qualified Stock Option................................   4
                --------------------------
Section 2.21    Option....................................................   5
                ------
Section 2.22    Option Period.............................................   5
                -------------
Section 2.23    Person....................................................   5
                ------
Section 2.24    Plan......................................................   5
                ----
Section 2.25    Retirement................................................   5
                ----------
Section 2.26    Share.....................................................   5
                -----
Section 2.27    Termination for Cause.....................................   5
                ---------------------
</TABLE>
                             Article III
                             -----------
                          Available Shares
                          ----------------

Section 3.1     Available Shares..........................................   5
                ----------------

                             Article IV
                             ----------
                           Administration
                           --------------
<TABLE>
<S>            <C>                         <C>
Section 4.1     Committee.................................................   6
                ---------
Section 4.2     Committee Action..........................................   6
                ----------------
Section 4.3     Committee Responsibilities................................   7
                --------------------------
</TABLE>
                             Article V
                             ---------
                        Stock Option Grants
                        -------------------
<TABLE>
<S>             <C>                                                         <C>
Section 5.1     Grant of Options..........................................   7
                ----------------
Section 5.2     Size of Option............................................   8
                --------------
Section 5.3     Exercise Price............................................   8
                --------------
Section 5.4     Option Period.............................................   8
                -------------
Section 5.5     Required Regulatory Provisions............................   9
                ------------------------------
Section 5.6     Additional Restrictions on Incentive Stock Options........  10
                --------------------------------------------------
</TABLE>
                             Article VI
                             ----------
                       Options -- In General
                       ---------------------
<TABLE>
<S>             <C>                                                        <C>
Section 6.1     Method of Exercise........................................  12
                ------------------
Section 6.2     Limitations on Options....................................  13
                ----------------------
</TABLE>

                             Article VII
                             -----------
                      Amendment and Termination
                      -------------------------
<TABLE>
<S>            <C>                                                         <C>
Section 7.1     Termination...............................................  13
                -----------
Section 7.2     Amendment.................................................  14
                ---------
Section 7.3     Adjustments in the Event of a Business Reorganization.....  14
                -----------------------------------------------------
</TABLE>
                             Article VIII
                             ------------
                            Miscellaneous
                           ---------------
<TABLE>
<S>            <C>                                                         <C>
Section 8.1     Status as an Employee Benefit Plan........................  15
                ----------------------------------
Section 8.2     No Right to Continued Employment..........................  15
                --------------------------------
Section 8.3     Construction of Language..................................  15
                ------------------------
Section 8.4     Governing Law.............................................  15
                -------------
Section 8.5     Headings..................................................  16
                --------
Section 8.6     Non-Alienation of Benefits................................  16
                --------------------------
Section 8.7     Taxes.....................................................  16
                -----
Section 8.8     Notices...................................................  16
                -------
Section 8.9     Required Regulatory Provisions............................  17
                ------------------------------
Section 8.10    Approval of Shareholders..................................  17
                ------------------------
</TABLE>
                                 Article IX
                                 ----------
        Additional Provisions Subject to Further Shareholder Approval
    -----------------------------------------------------------------------
<TABLE>
<S>            <C>                                                         <C>
Section 9.1     Accelerated Vesting Upon Retirement or Change in Control..  17
                --------------------------------------------------------
Section 9.2     Discretion to Establish Vesting Schedules.................  17
                -----------------------------------------
Section 9.3     No Effect Prior to Shareholder Approval...................  17
                ---------------------------------------
</TABLE>
<PAGE>

                   Rome Bancorp, Inc. 2000 Stock Option Plan
                   -----------------------------------------


                                   Article I
                                   ---------

                                    Purpose
                                    -------


          Section 1.1   General Purpose of the Plan.
                        ---------------------------

          The purpose of the Plan is to promote the growth and profitability of
Rome Bancorp, Inc., to provide eligible directors, certain key officers and
employees of Rome Bancorp, Inc. and its affiliates with an incentive to achieve
corporate objectives, to attract and retain individuals of outstanding
competence and to provide such individuals with an equity interest in Rome
Bancorp, Inc.



                                  Article II
                                  ----------

                                  Definitions
                                  -----------


          The following definitions shall apply for the purposes of this Plan,
unless a different meaning is plainly indicated by the context:

          Section 2.1   Bank means The Rome Savings Bank, a New York-chartered
                        ----
stock savings bank, and any successor thereto.

          Section 2.2   Board means the board of directors of the Company.
                        -----

          Section 2.3   Change in Control means any of the following events:
                        -----------------

          (a) the consummation of a reorganization, merger or consolidation of
     the Company with one or more other persons, other than a transaction
     following which:

               (i) at least 51% of the equity ownership interests of the entity
          resulting from such transaction are beneficially owned (within the
          meaning of Rule 13d-3 promulgated under the Securities Exchange Act of
          1934, as amended ("Exchange Act")) in substantially the same relative
          proportions by persons who, immediately prior to such transaction,
          beneficially owned (within the meaning of Rule 13d-3 promulgated under
          the Exchange Act) at least 51% of the outstanding equity ownership
          interests in the Company; and

               (ii) at least 51% of the securities entitled to vote generally in
          the election of directors of the entity resulting from such
          transaction are beneficially owned (within the meaning of Rule 13d-3
          promulgated under the Exchange Act) in substantially the same relative
          proportions by persons who,
<PAGE>

          immediately prior to such transaction, beneficially owned (within the
          meaning of Rule 13d-3 promulgated under the Exchange Act) at least 51%
          of the securities entitled to vote generally in the election of
          directors of the Company;

          (b) the acquisition of all or substantially all of the assets of the
     Company or beneficial ownership (within the meaning of Rule 13d-3
     promulgated under the Exchange Act) of 25% or more of the outstanding
     securities of the Company entitled to vote generally in the election of
     directors by any person or by any persons acting in concert;

          (c) a complete liquidation or dissolution of the Company;

          (d) the occurrence of any event if, immediately following such event,
     at least 50% of the members of the Board of Directors of Rome Bancorp, Inc.
     do not belong to any of the following groups:

               (i) individuals who were members of the Board of Directors of
          Rome Bancorp, Inc. on the Effective Date; or

               (ii) individuals who first became members of the Board of
          Directors of Rome Bancorp, Inc. after the Effective Date either:

                    (A) upon election to serve as a member of the Board of
               Directors of Rome Bancorp, Inc. by affirmative vote of three-
               quarters of the members of such board, or of a nominating
               committee thereof, in office at the time of such first election;
               or

                    (B) upon election by the shareholders of the Company to
               serve as a member of such board, but only if nominated for
               election by affirmative vote of three-quarters of the members of
               the Board of Directors of Rome Bancorp, Inc., or of a nominating
               committee thereof, in office at the time of such first
               nomination;

          provided, however, that such individual's election or nomination did
          not result from an actual or threatened election contest (within the
          meaning of Rule 14a-11 of Regulation 14A promulgated under the
          Exchange Act) or other actual or threatened solicitation of proxies or
          consents (within the meaning of Rule 14a-11 of Regulation 14A
          promulgated under the Exchange Act) other than by or on behalf of the
          Board of Directors of Rome Bancorp, Inc.; or

          (e) approval by the stockholders of the Company of any agreement, plan
     or arrangement for the consummation of a transaction which, if consummated,
     would result in the occurrence of an event described in section 2.3(a),
     (b), (c) or (d); or

                                       2
<PAGE>

          (f) any event which would be described in section 2.3(a), (b), (c),
     (d) or (e) if the term "Bank" were substituted for the terms "Company" or
     "Rome Bancorp, Inc." therein.

In no event, however, shall a Change of Control be deemed to have occurred as a
result of any acquisition of securities or assets of the Company, the Bank, or a
subsidiary of either of them, by the Company, the Bank, or any subsidiary of
either of them, or by any employee benefit plan maintained by any of them.  For
purposes of this section 2.3, the term "person" shall have the meaning assigned
to it under sections 13(d)(3) or 14(d)(2) of the Exchange Act.

          Section 2.4    Code means the Internal Revenue Code of 1986 (including
                         ----
the corresponding provisions of any succeeding law).

          Section 2.5   Committee means the Committee described in section 4.1.
                         ---------

          Section 2.6    Company means Rome Bancorp, Inc., a corporation
                         -------
organized and existing under the laws of the State of Delaware, and any
successor thereto.

          Section 2.7    Disability means a condition of total incapacity,
                         ----------
mental or physical, for further performance of duty with the Company which the
Committee shall have determined, on the basis of competent medical evidence, is
likely to be permanent.

          Section 2.8    Disinterested Board Member means a member of the Board
                         --------------------------
who (a) is not a current employee of the Company or a subsidiary, (b) is not a
former employee of the Company who receives compensation for prior services
(other than benefits under a tax-qualified retirement plan) during the taxable
year, (c) has not been an officer of the Company, (d) does not receive
remuneration from the Company or a subsidiary, either directly or indirectly, in
any capacity other than as a director except in an amount for which disclosure
would not be required pursuant to Item 404(a) of the proxy solicitation rules of
the Securities and Exchange Commission and (e) does not possess an interest in
any other transaction, and is not engaged in a business relationship, for which
disclosure would be required pursuant to Item 404(a) or (b) of the proxy
solicitation rules of the Securities and Exchange Commission.  The term
Disinterested Board Member shall be interpreted in such manner as shall be
necessary to conform to the requirements of section 162(m) of the Code and Rule
16b-3 promulgated under the Exchange Act.

          Section 2.9   Effective Date means May 3, 2000.
                        --------------

          Section 2.10   Eligible Director means a member of the board of
                         -----------------
directors of an Employer who is not also an employee or an officer of any
Employer.

          Section 2.11   Eligible Employee means any employee whom the Committee
                         -----------------
may determine to be a key officer or employee of an Employer and select to
receive a grant of an Option pursuant to the Plan.

          Section 2.12   Employer means the Company, the Bank and any successor
                         --------
thereto and, with the prior approval of the Board, and subject to such terms and
conditions as may be imposed by the Board, any other savings bank, savings and
loan association, bank, corporation,

                                       3
<PAGE>

financial institution or other business organization or institution. With
respect to any Eligible Employer or Eligible Director, the Employer shall mean
the entity which employs such person or upon whose board of directors such
person serves.

          Section 2.13  Exchange Act means the Securities Exchange Act of 1934,
                        ------------
as amended.

          Section 2.14   Exercise Price means the price per Share at which
                         --------------
Shares subject to an Option may be purchased upon exercise of the Option,
determined in accordance with section 5.3.

           Section 2.15  Fair Market Value means, with respect to a Share on a
                         -----------------
specified date:

          (a) the final reported sales price on the date in question (or if
     there is no reported sale on such date, on the last preceding date on which
     any reported sale occurred) as reported in the principal consolidated
     reporting system with respect to securities listed or admitted to trading
     on the principal United States securities exchange on which the Shares are
     listed or admitted to trading; or

          (b) if the Shares are not listed or admitted to trading on any such
     exchange, the closing bid quotation with respect to a Share on such date on
     the National Association of Securities Dealers Automated Quotations System,
     or, if no such quotation is provided, on another similar system, selected
     by the Committee, then in use; or

          (c) if sections 2.15(a) and (b) are not applicable, the fair market
     value of a Share as the Committee may determine.

           Section 2.16  Family Member means the spouse, parent, child or
                         -------------
sibling of an Eligible Director or Eligible Employee.

           Section 2.17  FDIC Regulations means the rules and regulations of the
                         ----------------
Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation.

          Section 2.18   Incentive Stock Option means a right to purchase Shares
                         ----------------------
that is granted to Eligible Employees pursuant to section 5.1, that is
designated by the Committee to be an Incentive Stock Option and that is intended
to satisfy the requirements of section 422 of the Code.

          Section 2.19   Non-Profit Organization means any organization which is
                         -----------------------
exempt from federal income tax under section 501(c)(3), (4), (5), (6), (7), (8)
or (10) of the Internal Revenue Code.

          Section 2.20   Non-Qualified Stock Option means a right to purchase
                         --------------------------
Shares that is either (a) granted to an Eligible Director or (b) granted to an
Eligible Employee and either (i)  is not designated by the Committee to be an
Incentive Stock Option, or (ii) does not satisfy the requirements of section 422
of the Code.

                                       4
<PAGE>

          Section 2.21  Option means either an Incentive Stock Option or a Non-
                         ------
Qualified Stock Option.

          Section 2.22   Option Period means the period during which an Option
                         -------------
may be exercised, determined in accordance with section 5.4.

          Section 2.23   Person means an individual, a corporation, a bank, a
                         ------
savings bank, a savings and loan association, a financial institution, a
partnership, an association, a joint-stock company, a trust, an estate, an
unincorporated organization and any other business organization or institution.

          Section 2.24  Plan means the Rome Bancorp, Inc. 2000 Stock Option
                        ----
Plan, as amended from time to time.

          Section 2.25   Retirement means with respect to any individual,
                         ----------
termination of all service for all Employers as a director, officer and
employee, at or after the normal or early retirement date set forth in any tax-
qualified retirement plan of the Bank, whether or not the individual in question
actually participates in any such tax-qualified plan of the Bank.

          Section 2.26  Share means a share of Common Stock, par value $.01 per
                        -----
share, of Rome Bancorp, Inc.

          Section 2.27   Termination for Cause means termination of service or
                         ---------------------
removal from office with the Employer upon the occurrence of any of the
following:  (a) the individual intentionally engages in dishonest conduct in
connection with his performance of services for the Employer resulting in his
conviction of a felony; (b) the individual is convicted of, or pleads guilty or
nolo contendere to, a felony or any crime involving moral turpitude; (c) the
individual breaches his fiduciary duties to the Employer for personal profit; or
(d) the individual willfully breaches or violates any law, rule or regulation
(other than traffic violations or similar offenses), or final cease and desist
order in connection with his performance of services for the Employer.



                                  Article III
                                  -----------

                                Available Shares
                                ----------------


           Section 3.1   Available Shares.
                         ----------------

          (a) The maximum aggregate number of Shares with respect to which
Options may be granted at any time shall be equal to the excess of:

          (i)  166,638 Shares; over

                                       5
<PAGE>

          (ii)  the sum of:

               (A) the number of Shares with respect to which previously granted
          Options may then or may in the future be exercised; plus

               (B) the number of Shares with respect to which previously granted
          Options have been exercised;

subject to adjustment pursuant to section 7.3.

          (b) Options to purchase an aggregate maximum of 49,991 Shares (subject
to adjustment pursuant to section 7.3) may be granted to Eligible Directors, and
Options to purchase a maximum of 8,332 Shares (subject to adjustment pursuant to
section 7.3) may be granted to any one Eligible Director.

          (c) Options to purchase a maximum of 41,659 Shares (subject to
adjustment pursuant to section 7.3) may be granted to any one Eligible Employee.

          (d) For purposes of this section 3.1, an Option shall not be
considered as having been exercised to the extent that such Option terminates by
reason other than the purchase of related Shares; provided, however, that for
purposes of meeting the requirements of section 162(m) of the Code, no Eligible
Employee who is a covered employee (within the meaning of section 162(m) of the
Code) shall receive grants of Options for an aggregate number of Shares that is
in excess of the amount specified for him under this section 3.1, computed as if
any Option which is canceled or forfeited reduced the maximum number of Shares.



                                  Article IV
                                  ----------

                                 Administration
                                 --------------


          Section 4.1   Committee.
                        ---------

          The Plan shall be administered by a committee (the "Committee")
consisting of all members of the Board or, if designated by the Board, solely of
Disinterested Board Members. If the Committee consists of fewer than two
Disinterested Board Members, then the Board shall appoint to the Committee such
additional Disinterested Board Members as shall be necessary to provide for a
Committee consisting of at least two Disinterested Board Members.


          Section 4.2   Committee Action.
                        ----------------

          The Committee shall hold such meetings, and may make such
administrative rules and regulations, as it may deem proper.  A majority of the
members of the Committee shall constitute a quorum, and the action of a majority
of the members of the Committee present at a meet-

                                       6
<PAGE>

ing at which a quorum is present, as well as actions taken pursuant to the
unanimous written consent of all of the members of the Committee without holding
a meeting, shall be deemed to be actions of the Committee. All actions of the
Committee shall be final and conclusive and shall be binding upon the Company
and all other interested parties. Any Person dealing with the Committee shall be
fully protected in relying upon any written notice, instruction, direction or
other communication signed by the Secretary of the Committee and one member of
the Committee, by two members of the Committee or by a representative of the
Committee authorized to sign the same in its behalf.


          Section 4.3   Committee Responsibilities.
                        --------------------------

          Subject to the terms and conditions of the Plan and such limitations
as may be imposed by the Board, the Committee shall be responsible for the
overall management and administration of the Plan and shall have such authority
as shall be necessary or appropriate in order to carry out its responsibilities,
including, without limitation, the authority:

          (a) to interpret and construe the Plan, and to determine all questions
     that may arise under the Plan as to eligibility for participation in the
     Plan, the number of Shares subject to the Options, if any, to be granted,
     and the terms and conditions thereof;

          (b) to adopt rules and regulations and to prescribe forms for the
     operation and administration of the Plan; and

          (c) to take any other action not inconsistent with the provisions of
     the Plan that it may deem necessary or appropriate.



                                   Article V
                                   ---------

                              Stock Option Grants
                              -------------------


          Section 5.1   Grant of Options.
                        ----------------

          (a) Subject to the limitations of the Plan, the Committee may, in its
discretion, grant to an Eligible Employee or an Eligible Director an Option to
purchase Shares.  An Option for Eligible Employees must be designated as either
an Incentive Stock Option or a Non-Qualified Stock Option and, if not designated
as either, shall be a Non-Qualified Stock Option.  An Option for an Eligible
Director shall be a Non-Qualified Stock Option.

          (b) Any Option granted under this section 5.1 shall be evidenced by a
written agreement which shall:

          (i) specify the number of Shares covered by the Option determined in
     accordance with section 5.2;

                                       7
<PAGE>

          (ii) specify the Exercise Price, determined in accordance with section
     5.3, for the Shares subject to the Option;

          (iii)  specify the Option Period determined in accordance with section
     5.4;

          (iv) set forth specifically or incorporate by reference the applicable
     provisions of the Plan; and

          (v) contain such other terms and conditions not inconsistent with the
     Plan as the Committee may, in its discretion, prescribe with respect to an
     Option granted to an Eligible Employee or an Eligible Director.


          Section 5.2   Size of Option.
                        --------------

          Subject to section 3.1 and such limitations as the Board may from time
to time impose, the number of Shares as to which an Eligible Employee or
Eligible Director may be granted Options shall be determined by the Committee,
in its discretion.


          Section 5.3   Exercise Price.
                        --------------

          The price per Share at which an Option granted to an Eligible Employee
or Eligible Director shall be determined by the Committee, in its discretion;
provided, however, that the Exercise Price shall not be less than the Fair
Market Value of a Share on the date on which the Option is granted.


          Section 5.4   Option Period.
                        -------------

          Subject to section 5.5, the Option Period during which an Option
granted to an Eligible Employee may be exercised shall commence on the date
specified by the Committee in the Option agreement and shall expire on the date
specified in the Option agreement or, if no date is specified, on the earliest
of:

          (a) in the case of an Option granted to an Eligible Employee:

               (i) the close of business on the last day of the three-month
          period commencing on the date of the Eligible Employee's termination
          of employment with the Employer, other than on account of death or
          Disability, Retirement or a Termination for Cause;

               (ii) the close of business on the last day of the one-year period
          commencing on the date of the Eligible Employee's termination of
          employment due to death, Disability or Retirement;

                                       8
<PAGE>

               (iii)  the date and time when the Eligible Employee ceases to be
          an employee of the Employer due to a Termination for Cause; and

               (iv) the last day of the ten-year period commencing on the date
          on which the Option was granted; and

          (b) in the case of an Option granted to an Eligible Director:

               (i) removal for cause in accordance with the Employer's bylaws,
          or Termination for Cause; or

               (ii)  the last day of the ten-year period commencing on the date
          on which the Option was granted.


          Section 5.5   Required Regulatory Provisions.
                        ------------------------------

          Notwithstanding anything contained herein to the contrary:

          (a) no Option shall be granted to an Eligible Employee or Eligible
     Director under the Plan prior to shareholder approval in accordance with
     section 8.10;

          (b) subject to section 9.2, each Option granted to an Eligible
     Employee or Eligible Director shall become exercisable no more rapidly than
     as follows:

               (i) prior to the first anniversary of the grant date, an Option
          shall not be exercisable;

               (ii) on and after the first anniversary, but prior to the second
          anniversary, of the grant date, an Option may be exercised as to a
          maximum of twenty percent (20%) of the Shares subject to the Option
          when granted;

               (iii)  on and after the second anniversary, but prior to the
          third anniversary, of the grant date, an Option may be exercised as to
          a maximum of forty percent (40%) of the Shares subject to the Option
          when granted, including in such forty percent (40%) any optioned
          Shares purchased prior to such second anniversary;

               (iv) on and after the third anniversary, but prior to the fourth
          anniversary, of the grant date, an Option may be exercised as to a
          maximum of sixty percent (60%) of the Shares subject to the Option
          when granted, including in such sixty percent (60%) any optioned
          Shares purchased prior to such third anniversary;

               (v) on and after the fourth anniversary, but prior to the fifth
          anniversary, of the grant date, an Option may be exercised as to a
          maximum

                                       9
<PAGE>

          of eighty percent (80%) of the Shares subject to the Option when
          granted, including in such eighty percent (80%) any optioned Shares
          purchased prior to such fourth anniversary; and

               (vi) on and after the fifth anniversary of the grant date and for
          the remainder of the Option Period, an Option may be exercised as to
          the entire number of optioned Shares not theretofore purchased;

     provided, however, that such an Option shall become fully exercisable, and
     all optioned Shares not previously purchased shall become available for
     purchase, on the date of the Option holder's death or Disability while in
     the service of an Employer.

          (c) The Option Period of any Option granted hereunder, whether or not
     previously vested, shall be suspended as of the time and date at which the
     Option holder has received notice from the Board that his or her employment
     is subject to a possible Termination for Cause, or in the case of an
     Eligible Director, removal for cause in accordance with the Employer's by-
     laws.  Such suspension shall remain in effect until the Option holder
     receives official notice from the Board that he or she has been cleared of
     any possible Termination for Cause, or in the case of an Eligible Director,
     removal for cause, at which time, the original Exercise Period shall be
     reinstated without any adjustment for the intervening suspended period.  In
     the event that the Option Period under section 5.4 expires during such
     suspension, the Company shall pay to the Eligible Employee, within 30 days
     after his reinstatement as an employee of the Company, damages equal to the
     value of the expired Options (based on the Fair Market Value of a Share as
     of the expiration of the Option Period less the Exercise Price of such
     Options).

          (d) No Option granted to an Eligible Employee or Eligible Director
     hereunder, whether or not previously vested, shall be exercised after the
     time and date at which the Option holder's services with the Employer are
     terminated in a Termination for Cause, or, in the case of an Eligible
     Director, removal for cause in accordance with the Employer's by-laws.


          Section 5.6   Additional Restrictions on Incentive Stock Options.
                        --------------------------------------------------

          An Option granted to an Eligible Employee designated by the Committee
to be an Incentive Stock Option shall be subject to the following limitations:

          (a) If, for any calendar year, the sum of (i) plus (ii) exceeds
     $100,000, where (i) equals the Fair Market Value (determined as of the date
     of the grant) of Shares subject to an Option intended to be an Incentive
     Stock Option which first be  come available for purchase during such
     calendar year, and (ii) equals the Fair Market Value (determined as of the
     date of grant) of Shares subject to any other options intended to be
     Incentive Stock Options and previously granted to the same Eligible
     Employee which first become exercisable in such calendar year, then that
     number of Shares optioned which causes the sum of (i) and (ii) to exceed
     $100,000

                                       10
<PAGE>

     shall be deemed to be Shares optioned pursuant to a Non-Qualified
     Stock Option or Non-Qualified Stock Options, with the same terms as the
     Option or Options intended to be an Incentive Stock Option;

          (b) The Exercise Price of an Incentive Stock Option granted to an
     Eligible Employee who, at the time the Option is granted, owns Shares
     comprising more than 10% of the total combined voting power of all classes
     of stock of the Company shall not be less than 110% of the Fair Market
     Value of a Share, and if an Option designated as an Incentive Stock Option
     shall be granted at an Exercise Price that does not satisfy this
     requirement, the designated Exercise Price shall be observed and the Option
     shall be treated as a Non-Qualified Stock Option;

          (c) The Option Period of an Incentive Stock Option granted to an
     Eligible Employee who, at the time the Option is granted, owns Shares
     comprising more than 10% of the total combined voting power of all classes
     of stock of the Company, shall expire no later than the fifth anniversary
     of the date on which the Option was granted, and if an Option designated as
     an Incentive Stock Option shall be granted for an Option Period that does
     not satisfy this requirement, the designated Option Period shall be
     observed and the Option shall be treated as a Non-Qualified Stock Option;

          (d) An Incentive Stock Option that is exercised during its designated
     Option Period but more than:

               (i) three (3) months after the termination of employment with the
          Company, a parent or a subsidiary (other than on account of disability
          within the meaning of section 22(e)(3) of the Code or death) of the
          Eligible Employee to whom it was granted; and

               (ii) one (1) year after such individual's termination of
          employment with the Company, a parent or a subsidiary due to
          disability (within the meaning of section 22(e)(3) of the Code) or
          death;

     may be exercised in accordance with the terms but shall at the time of
     exercise be treated as a Non-Qualified Stock Option; and

          (e) Except with the prior written approval of the Committee, no
     individual shall dispose of Shares acquired pursuant to the exercise of an
     Incentive Stock Option until after the later of (i) the second anniversary
     of the date on which the Incentive Stock Option was granted, or (ii) the
     first anniversary of the date on which the Shares were acquired.

                                       11
<PAGE>

                                  Article VI
                                  ----------

                             Options -- In General
                             ---------------------


          Section 6.1   Method of Exercise.
                        ------------------

          (a)  Subject to the limitations of the Plan and the Option agreement,
an Option holder may, at any time during the Option Period, exercise his or her
right to purchase all or any part of the Shares to which the Option relates;
provided, however, that the minimum number of Shares which may be purchased at
any time shall be 100, or, if less, the total number of Shares relating to the
Option which remain unpurchased.  An Option holder shall exercise an Option to
purchase Shares by:

          (i) giving written notice to the Committee, in such form and manner as
     the Committee may prescribe, of his intent to exercise the Option;

          (ii) delivering to the Committee full payment, consistent with section
     6.1(b), for the Shares as to which the Option is to be exercised; and

          (iii)  satisfying such other conditions as may be prescribed in the
     Option agreement.

          (b) The Exercise Price of Shares to be purchased upon exercise of any
Option shall be paid in full in cash (by certified or bank check or such other
instrument as the Company may accept) or, if and to the extent permitted by the
Committee, by one or more of the following:  (i) in the form of Shares already
owned by the Option holder having an aggregate Fair Market Value on the date the
Option is exercised equal to the aggregate Exercise Price to be paid; (ii) by
requesting the Company to cancel without payment Options outstanding to such
Person for that number of Shares whose aggregate Fair Market Value on the date
of exercise, when reduced by their aggregate Exercise Price, equals the
aggregate Exercise Price of the Options being exercised; or (iii) by a
combination thereof.  Payment for any Shares to be purchased upon exercise of an
Option may also be made by delivering a properly executed exercise notice to the
Company, together with a copy of irrevocable instructions to a broker to deliver
promptly to the Company the amount of sale or loan proceeds to pay the purchase
price.  To facilitate the foregoing, the Company may enter into agreements for
coordinated procedures with one or more brokerage firms.

          (c) When the requirements of section 6.1(a) and (b) have been
satisfied, the Committee shall take such action as is necessary to cause the
issuance of a stock certificate evidencing the Option holder's ownership of such
Shares.  The Person exercising the Option shall have no right to vote or to
receive dividends, nor have any other rights with respect to the Shares, prior
to the date as of which such Shares are transferred to such Person on the stock
transfer records of the Company, and no adjustments shall be made for any
dividends or other rights for which the record date is prior to the date as of
which such transfer is effected, except as may be required under section 7.3.

                                       12
<PAGE>

          Section 6.2   Limitations on Options.
                        ----------------------

          (a) An Option by its terms shall not be transferable by the Option
holder other than to Family Members or Non-profit Organizations or by will or by
the laws of descent and distribution and shall be exercisable, during the
lifetime of the Option holder, only by the Option holder, a Family Member or a
Non-profit Organization.  Any such transfer shall be effected by written notice
to the Company given in such form and manner as the Committee may prescribe and
shall be recognized only if such notice is received by the Company prior to the
death of the person giving it.  Thereafter, the transferee shall have, with
respect to such Option, all of the rights, privileges and obligations which
would attach thereunder to the transferor if the Option were issued to such
transferor.  If a privilege of the Option depends on the life, employment or
other status of the transferor, such privilege of the Option for the transferee
shall continue to depend on the life, employment or other status of the
transferor.  The Committee shall have full and exclusive authority to interpret
and apply the provisions of this Plan to transferees to the extent not
specifically described herein.  Notwithstanding the foregoing, an Incentive
Stock Option is not transferable by an Eligible Employee other than by will or
the laws of descent and distribution, and is exercisable, during his lifetime,
solely by him.

          (b)  The Company's obligation to deliver Shares with respect to an
Option shall, if the Committee so requests, be conditioned upon the receipt of a
representation as to the investment intention of the Option holder to whom such
Shares are to be delivered, in such form as the Committee shall determine to be
necessary or advisable to comply with the provisions of applicable federal,
state or local law.  It may be provided that any such representation shall
become inoperative upon a registration of the Shares or upon the occurrence of
any other event eliminating the necessity of such representation.  The Company
shall not be required to deliver any Shares under the Plan prior to (i) the
admission of such Shares to listing on any stock exchange on which Shares may
then be listed, or (ii) the completion of such registration or other
qualification under any state or federal law, rule or regulation as the
Committee shall determine to be necessary or advisable.



                                  Article VII
                                  -----------

                           Amendment and Termination
                           -------------------------


          Section 7.1   Termination.
                        -----------

          The Board may suspend or terminate the Plan in whole or in part at any
time prior to the tenth anniversary of the Effective Date by giving written
notice of such suspension or termination to the Committee.  Unless sooner
terminated, the Plan shall terminate automatically on the day preceding the
tenth anniversary of the Effective Date.  In the event of any suspension or
termination of the Plan, all Options theretofore granted under the Plan that are
outstanding on the date of such suspension or termination of the Plan shall
remain outstanding and exercisable for the period and on the terms and
conditions set forth in the Option agreements evidencing such Options.

                                       13
<PAGE>

          Section 7.2   Amendment.
                        ---------

          The Board may amend or revise the Plan in whole or in part at any
time; provided, however, that, to the extent required to comply with section
162(m) of the Code, no such amendment or revision shall be effective if it
amends a material term of the Plan unless approved by the holders of a majority
of the votes cast on a proposal to approve such amendment or revision.


          Section 7.3   Adjustments in the Event of a Business Reorganization.
                        -----------------------------------------------------

          (a) In the event of any merger, consolidation, or other business
reorganization in which the Company is the surviving entity, and in the event of
any stock split, stock dividend or other event generally affecting the number of
Shares held by each Person who is then a holder of record of Shares, the number
of Shares covered by each outstanding Option and the number of Shares available
to any individual or group of individuals pursuant to section 3.1 shall be
adjusted to account for such event.  Such adjustment shall be effected by
multiplying such number of Shares by an amount equal to the number of Shares
that would be owned after such event by a Person who, immediately prior to such
event, was the holder of record of one Share, and the Exercise Price of the
Options shall be adjusted by dividing the Exercise Price by such number of
Shares; provided, however, that the Committee may, in its discretion, establish
another appropriate method of adjustment.

          (b) In the event of any merger, consolidation, or other business
reorganization in which the Company is not the surviving entity, any Options
granted under the Plan which remain outstanding shall be converted into options
to purchase voting common equity securities of the business entity which
survives such merger, consolidation or other business reorganization having
substantially the same terms and conditions as the outstanding Options under
this Plan and reflecting the same economic benefit (as measured by the
difference between the aggregate exercise price and the value exchanged for
outstanding Shares in such merger, consolidation or other business
reorganization), all as determined by the Committee prior to the consummation of
such merger; provided, however, that the Committee may, at any time prior to the
consummation of such merger, consolidation or other business reorganization,
direct that all, but not less than all, outstanding Options be canceled as of
the effective date of such merger, consolidation or other business
reorganization in exchange for a cash payment per optioned Share equal to the
excess (if any) of the value exchanged for an outstanding Share in such merger,
consolidation or other business reorganization over the Exercise Price of the
Option being canceled.

                                       14
<PAGE>

                                 Article VIII
                                 ------------

                                 Miscellaneous
                                 -------------


          Section 8.1   Status as an Employee Benefit Plan.
                        ----------------------------------

          This Plan is not intended to satisfy the requirements for
qualification under section 401(a) of the Code or to satisfy the definitional
requirements for an "employee benefit plan" under section 3(3) of the Employee
Retirement Income Security Act of 1974, as amended.  It is intended to be a non-
qualified incentive compensation program that is exempt from the regulatory
require  ments of the Employee Retirement Income Security Act of 1974, as
amended.  The Plan shall be construed and administered so as to effectuate this
intent.


          Section 8.2   No Right to Continued Employment.
                        --------------------------------

          Neither the establishment of the Plan nor any provisions of the Plan
nor any action of the Board or the Committee with respect to the Plan shall be
held or construed to confer upon any Eligible Director or Eligible Employee any
right to a continuation of his or her position as a director or employee of the
Company.  The Employers reserve the right to remove any Eligible Director or
dismiss any Eligible Employee or otherwise deal with any Eligible Director or
Eligible Employee to the same extent as though the Plan had not been adopted.


          Section 8.3   Construction of Language.
                        ------------------------

          Whenever appropriate in the Plan, words used in the singular may be
read in the plural, words used in the plural may be read in the singular, and
words importing the masculine gender may be read as referring equally to the
feminine or the neuter.  Any reference to an Article or section number shall
refer to an Article or section of this Plan unless otherwise indicated.


          Section 8.4   Governing Law.
                        -------------

          The Plan shall be construed, administered and enforced according to
the laws of the State of New York without giving effect to the conflict of laws
principles thereof, except to the extent that such laws are preempted by federal
law.  The Plan shall be construed to comply with applicable FDIC Regulations.

                                       15
<PAGE>

          Section 8.5   Headings.
                        --------

          The headings of Articles and sections are included solely for
convenience of reference.  If there is any conflict between such headings and
the text of the Plan, the text shall control.


          Section 8.6   Non-Alienation of Benefits.
                        --------------------------

          The right to receive a benefit under the Plan shall not be subject in
any manner to anticipation, alienation or assignment, nor shall such right be
liable for or subject to debts, contracts, liabilities, engagements or torts.


          Section 8.7   Taxes.
                        -----

          The Company shall have the right to deduct from all amounts paid by
the Company in cash with respect to an Option under the Plan any taxes required
by law to be withheld with respect to such Option.  Where any Person is entitled
to receive Shares pursuant to the exercise of an Option, the Company shall have
the right to require such Person to pay the Company the amount of any tax which
the Company is required to withhold with respect to such Shares, or, in lieu
thereof, to retain, or to sell without notice, a sufficient number of Shares to
cover the minimum amount re  quired to be withheld.


          Section 8.8   Notices.
                        -------

          Any communication required or permitted to be given under the Plan,
including any notice, direction, designation, comment, instruction, objection or
waiver, shall be in writing and shall be deemed to have been given at such time
as it is delivered personally or five (5) days after mailing if mailed, postage
prepaid, by registered or certified mail, return receipt requested, addressed to
such party at the address listed below, or at such other address as one such
party may by written notice specify to the other party:

          (a)  If to the Committee:

               Rome Bancorp, Inc.
               100 West Dominick Street
               Rome, New York 13440-5810

               Attention:     Corporate Secretary
                              -------------------

          (b) If to an Option holder, to the Option holder's address as shown in
     the Employer's records.

                                       16
<PAGE>

          Section 8.9   Required Regulatory Provisions.
                        ------------------------------

          The grant and settlement of Options under this Plan shall be
conditioned upon and subject to compliance with section 18(k) of the Federal
Deposit Insurance Act, 12 U.S.C. 1828(k), and the rules and regulations
promulgated thereunder.


          Section 8.10  Approval of Shareholders.
                        ------------------------

          The Plan shall not be effective or implemented unless approved by the
holders (other than Rome, MHC) of a majority of the total votes eligible to be
cast at any duly called annual or special meeting of the Company.  No Option
shall be granted prior to the date on which the Plan becomes effective.


                                  Article IX
                                  ----------

         Additional Provisions Subject to Further Shareholder Approval
         -------------------------------------------------------------


          Section 9.1   Accelerated Vesting Upon Retirement or Change in
                        ------------------------------------------------
     Control.
     -------

          Notwithstanding anything in the Plan to the contrary, but subject to
section 9.3:  (a) in the event that any Option holder terminates service with
the Employer and such termination constitutes a Retirement, all Options
outstanding to such holder on the date of his Retirement shall, to the extent
not already exercisable, become exercisable upon Retirement; and (b) in the
event of a Change in Control, all Options outstanding under the Plan on the date
of the Change in Control shall, to the extent not already exercisable, become
exercisable on the date of the Change in Control.


          Section 9.2   Discretion to Establish Vesting Schedules.
                        ------------------------------------------

          Notwithstanding anything in the Plan to the contrary, but subject to
section 9.3, section 5.5(b) shall apply in determining the exercisability of
Options granted to Eligible Employees only if no different vesting schedule is
established by the Committee and specified in the agreement evidencing an
outstanding Option.


          Section 9.3   No Effect Prior to Shareholder Approval.
                        ---------------------------------------

          Notwithstanding anything contained in this Article IX to the contrary,
the provisions of this Article IX shall not be applied, and shall be of no force
or effect, unless and until the shareholders of the Company shall have approved
such provisions by affirmative vote of the holders of a majority of the Shares
represented in person or by proxy and entitled to vote at a meeting of
shareholders duly called and held after October 6, 2000.

                                       17
<PAGE>

                                                                       Exhibit B



                               Rome Bancorp, Inc.

                      2000 Recognition and Retention Plan



                         ______________________________



                           Adopted on March 22, 2000
                          Effective as of May 3, 2000
<PAGE>

                              Rome Bancorp, Inc.
                              ------------------
                      2000 Recognition and Retention Plan
                      -----------------------------------

                                   Article I
                                   ---------

                                    PURPOSE
                                    -------

<TABLE>
<S>            <C>                                                    <C>
Section 1.1    General Purpose of the Plan...........................  1
               ---------------------------
</TABLE>

                                  Article II
                                  ----------

                                  Definitions
                                  -----------
<TABLE>
<S>            <C>                                                    <C>
Section 2.1     Award................................................  1
                -----
Section 2.2     Award Notice.........................................  1
                ------------
Section 2.3     Bank.................................................  1
                ----
Section 2.4     Beneficiary..........................................  1
                -----------
Section 2.5     Board................................................  1
                -----
Section 2.6     Change of Control....................................  2
                -----------------
Section 2.7     Code.................................................  3
                ----
Section 2.8     Committee............................................  3
                ---------
Section 2.9     Company..............................................  3
                -------
Section 2.10    Disability...........................................  3
                ----------
Section 2.11    Disinterested Board Member...........................  3
                --------------------------
Section 2.12    Effective Date.......................................  4
                --------------
Section 2.13    Eligible Director....................................  4
                -----------------
Section 2.14    Eligible Employee....................................  4
                -----------------
Section 2.15    Employer.............................................  4
                --------
Section 2.16    Exchange Act.........................................  4
                ------------
Section 2.17    FDIC Regulations.....................................  4
                ----------------
Section 2.18    Person...............................................  4
                ------
Section 2.19    Plan.................................................  4
                ----
Section 2.20    Retirement...........................................  4
                ----------
Section 2.21    Share................................................  5
                -----
Section 2.22    Trust................................................  5
                -----
Section 2.23    Trust Agreement......................................  5
                ---------------
Section 2.24    Trust Fund...........................................  5
                ----------
Section 2.25    Trustee..............................................  5
                -------

</TABLE>
<PAGE>

                                  Article III
                                  -----------

                          Shares Available Under Plan
                          ---------------------------
<TABLE>
<S>            <C>                                                    <C>
Section 3.1    Shares Available Under Plan...........................  5
               ---------------------------
</TABLE>

                                  Article IV
                                  ----------

                                Administration
                                --------------
<TABLE>
<S>            <C>                                                    <C>
Section 4.1    Committee.............................................  6
               ---------
Section 4.2    Committee Action......................................  6
               ----------------
Section 4.3    Committee Responsibilities............................  6
               --------------------------

</TABLE>
                                   Article V
                                   ---------

                                The Trust Fund
                                --------------
<TABLE>
<S>            <C>                                                    <C>
Section 5.1    Contributions.........................................  7
               --------------
Section 5.2    The Trust Fund........................................  7
               --------------
Section 5.3    Investments...........................................  7
               -----------

</TABLE>
                                  Article VI
                                  ----------

                                    Awards
                                    ------
<TABLE>
<S>            <C>                                                    <C>
Section 6.1    To Eligible Directors.................................  8
               ---------------------
Section 6.2    To Eligible Employees.................................  8
               ---------------------
Section 6.3    Awards in General.....................................  8
               -----------------
Section 6.4    Share Allocations.....................................  9
               -----------------
Section 6.5    Dividend Rights.......................................  9
               ---------------
Section 6.6    Voting Rights.........................................  9
               -------------
Section 6.7    Tender Offers......................................... 10
               -------------
Section 6.8    Limitations on Awards................................. 10
               ---------------------

</TABLE>
                                  Article VII
                                  -----------

                           Vesting and Distribution
                           ------------------------
<TABLE>
<S>            <C>                                                   <C>
Section 7.1    Vesting of Awards..................................... 11
               -----------------
Section 7.2    Designation of Beneficiary............................ 11
               --------------------------
Section 7.3    Manner of Distribution................................ 11
               ----------------------
Section 7.4    Taxes................................................. 12
               -----

</TABLE>
<PAGE>

                                 Article VIII
                                 ------------

                           Amendment and Termination
                           -------------------------

<TABLE>
<S>            <C>                                                    <C>
Section 8.1    Termination............................................ 13
               -----------
Section 8.2    Amendment.............................................. 13
               ---------
Section 8.3    Adjustments in the Event of a Business Reorganization.. 13
               -----------------------------------------------------

</TABLE>
                                  Article IX
                                  ----------

                                 Miscellaneous
                                 -------------
<TABLE>
<S>            <C>                                                    <C>
Section 9.1    Status as an Employee Benefit Plan..................... 14
               ----------------------------------
Section 9.2    No Right to Continued Employment....................... 14
               --------------------------------
Section 9.3    Construction of Language............................... 14
               ------------------------
Section 9.4    Governing Law.......................................... 14
               -------------
Section 9.5    Headings............................................... 15
               --------
Section 9.6    Non-Alienation of Benefits............................. 15
               --------------------------
Section 9.7    Notices................................................ 15
               -------
Section 9.8    Required Regulatory Provisions......................... 15
               ------------------------------
Section 9.9    Approval of Shareholders............................... 16
               ------------------------

</TABLE>


                                   Article X
                                   ---------

         Additional Provisions Subject to Further Shareholder Approval
         -------------------------------------------------------------
<TABLE>
<S>            <C>                                                     <C>
Section 10.1   Accelerated Vesting Upon Retirement or
               --------------------------------------
               Change in Control....................................... 16
               -----------------
Section 10.2   Discretion to Establish Vesting Schedules............... 16
               -----------------------------------------
Section 10.3   No Effect Prior to Stockholder Approval................. 16
               ---------------------------------------
</TABLE>
<PAGE>

                              Rome Bancorp, Inc.
                              ------------------
                      2000 Recognition and Retention Plan
                      -----------------------------------


                                   Article I
                                   ---------

                                    Purpose
                                    -------


           Section 1.1   General Purpose of the Plan.
                         ---------------------------

          The purpose of the Plan is to promote the growth and profitability of
Rome Bancorp, Inc. and its affiliated companies and to provide eligible
directors, certain key officers and employees of  Rome Bancorp, Inc. and its
affiliated companies with an incentive to achieve corporate objectives, to
attract and retain directors, key officers and employees of outstanding
competence and to provide such directors, officers and employees with an equity
interest in Rome Bancorp, Inc. and its affiliated companies.



                                  Article II
                                  ----------

                                  Definitions
                                  -----------


          The following definitions shall apply for the purposes of this Plan,
unless a different meaning is plainly indicated by the context:

           Section 2.1   Award means a grant of Shares to an Eligible Director
                         -----
or Eligible Employee pursuant to section 6.1 or 6.2.

          Section 2.2    Award Notice means, with respect to a particular Award,
                         ------------
a written instrument signed by the Company and the Awards recipient evidencing
the granting of the Award and establishing the terms and conditions thereof.

           Section 2.3   Bank means The Rome Savings Bank, a New York-chartered
                         ----
stock savings bank, and any successor thereto.

          Section 2.4    Beneficiary means the Person designated by an Eligible
                         -----------
Director or Eligible Employee pursuant to section 7.2, to receive distribution
of any Shares available for distribution to such Eligible Director or Eligible
Employee, in the event such Eligible Director or Eligible Employee dies prior to
receiving distribution of such Shares.

           Section 2.5   Board means the Board of Directors of the Company.
                         -----
<PAGE>

           Section 2.6   Change of Control means any of the following events:
                         -----------------

          (a) the consummation of a reorganization, merger or consolidation of
     the Company with one or more other persons, other than a transaction
     following which:

               (i) at least 51% of the equity ownership interests of the entity
          resulting from such transaction are beneficially owned (within the
          meaning of Rule 13d-3 promulgated under the Securities Exchange Act of
          1934, as amended ("Exchange Act")) in substantially the same relative
          proportions by persons who, immediately prior to such transaction,
          beneficially owned (within the meaning of Rule 13d-3 promulgated under
          the Exchange Act) at least 51% of the outstanding equity ownership
          interests in the Company; and

               (ii) at least 51% of the securities entitled to vote generally in
          the election of directors of the entity resulting from such
          transaction are beneficially owned (within the meaning of Rule 13d-3
          promulgated under the Exchange Act) in substantially the same relative
          proportions by persons who, immediately prior to such transaction,
          beneficially owned (within the meaning of Rule 13d-3 promulgated under
          the Exchange Act) at least 51% of the securities entitled to vote
          generally in the election of directors of the Company;

          (b) the acquisition of all or substantially all of the assets of the
     Company or beneficial ownership (within the meaning of Rule 13d-3
     promulgated under the Exchange Act) of 25% or more of the outstanding
     securities of the Company entitled to vote generally in the election of
     directors by any person or by any persons acting in concert;

          (c) a complete liquidation or dissolution of the Company;

          (d) the occurrence of any event if, immediately following such event,
     at least 50% of the members of the board of directors of the Company do not
     belong to any of the following groups:

               (i) individuals who were members of the board of directors of the
          Company on the Effective Date; or

               (ii) individuals who first became members of the board of
          directors of the Company after the Effective Date either:

                    (A) upon election to serve as a member of the board of
               Directors of the Company by affirmative vote of three-quarters of

                                       2
<PAGE>

               the members of such board, or of a nominating committee thereof,
               in office at the time of such first election; or

                    (B) upon election by the shareholders of the Company to
               serve as a member of such board, but only if nominated for
               election by affirmative vote of three-quarters of the members of
               the board of directors of the Company, or of a nominating
               committee thereof, in office at the time of such first
               nomination;

          provided, however, that such individual's election or nomination did
          not result from an actual or threatened election contest (within the
          meaning of Rule 14a-11 of Regulation 14A promulgated under the
          Exchange Act) or other actual or threatened solicitation of proxies or
          consents (within the meaning of Rule 14a-11 of Regulation 14A
          promulgated under the Exchange Act) other than by or on behalf of the
          board of directors of the Company;

          (e) approval by the stockholders of the Company of any agreement, plan
     or arrangement for the consummation of a transaction which, if consummated,
     would result in the occurrence of an event described in section 2.6(a),
     (b), (c) or (d); or

          (f) any event which would be described in section 2.6(a), (b), (c),
     (d) or (e) if the term "Bank" were substituted for the term "Company"
     therein.

In no event, however, shall a Change of Control be deemed to have occurred as a
result of any acquisition of securities or assets of the Company, the Bank, or a
subsidiary of either of them, by the Company, the Bank, or any subsidiary of
either of them, or by any employee benefit plan maintained by any of them.  For
purposes of this section 2.6, the term "person" shall have the meaning assigned
to it under sections 13(d)(3) or 14(d)(2) of the Exchange Act.

          Section 2.7    Code means the Internal Revenue Code of 1986 (including
                         ----
the corresponding provisions of any succeeding law).

          Section 2.8   Committee means the Committee described in section 4.1.
                        ---------

          Section 2.9    Company means Rome Bancorp, Inc., a corporation
                         -------
organized and existing under the laws of the State of Delaware, and any
successor thereto.

          Section 2.10   Disability means a condition of total incapacity,
                         ----------
mental or physical, for further performance of duty with the Company which the
Committee shall have determined, on the basis of competent medical evidence, is
likely to be permanent.

          Section 2.11   Disinterested Board Member means a member of the Board
                         --------------------------
who (a) is not a current employee of the Company or a subsidiary, (b) does not
receive remuneration

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from the Company or a subsidiary, either directly or indirectly, in any capacity
other than as a director, except in an amount for which disclosure would not be
required pursuant to Item 404(a) of the proxy solicitation rules of the
Securities and Exchange Commission and (c) does not possess an interest in any
other transaction, and is not engaged in a business relationship, for which
disclosure would be required pursuant to Item 404(a) or (b) of the proxy
solicitation rules of the Securities and Exchange Commission. The term
Disinterested Board Member shall be interpreted in such manner as shall be
necessary to conform to the requirements of Rule 16b-3 promulgated under the
Exchange Act.

           Section 2.12  Effective Date means May 3, 2000.
                         --------------

          Section 2.13   Eligible Director means a member of the board of
                         -----------------
directors of an Employer who is not also an employee of any Employer.

          Section 2.14   Eligible Employee means any employee whom the Committee
                         -----------------
may determine to be a key officer or employee of the Employer and selects to
receive an Award pursuant to the Plan.

          Section 2.15   Employer means the Company, the Bank and any successor
                         --------
thereto and, with the prior approval of the Board of Directors of the Company,
and subject to such terms and conditions as may be imposed by the Board, any
other savings bank, savings and loan association, bank, corporation, financial
institution or other business organization or institution. With respect to any
Eligible Employee or Eligible Director, the Employer shall mean the entity which
employs such person or upon whose board of directors such person serves.

           Section 2.16  Exchange Act means the Securities and Exchange Act of
                         ------------
1934, as amended.

           Section 2.17  FDIC Regulations means the rules and regulations of the
                         ----------------
Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation.

          Section 2.18   Person means an individual, a corporation, a bank, a
                         ------
savings bank, a savings and loan association, a financial institution, a
partnership, an association, a joint-stock company, a trust, an estate, an
unincorporated organization and any other business organization or institution.

           Section 2.19  Plan means the Rome Bancorp, Inc. 2000 Recognition and
                         ----
Retention Plan as amended from time to time.

          Section 2.20   Retirement means, with respect to any individual,
                         ----------
termination of all service for all Employers as a director, officer and employee
at or after the normal or early retirement date set forth in any tax-qualified
plan of the Bank, whether or not the individual in question actually
participates in any such tax-qualified plan of the Bank.

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           Section 2.21  Share means a share of common stock of Rome Bancorp,
                         -----
Inc., par value $.01 per share.

          Section 2.22  Trust means the legal relationship created by the Trust
                         -----
Agreement pursuant to which the Trustee holds the Trust Fund in trust.  The
Trust may be referred to as the "Recognition and Retention Plan Trust of  Rome
Bancorp, Inc."

          Section 2.23   Trust Agreement means the agreement between Rome
                         ---------------
Bancorp, Inc. and the Trustee therein named or its successor pursuant to which
the Trust Fund shall be held in trust.

          Section 2.24   Trust Fund means the corpus (consisting of
                         ----------
contributions paid over to the Trustee, and investments thereof), and all
earnings, appreciations or additions thereof and thereto, held by the Trustee
under the Trust Agreement in accordance with the Plan, less any depreciation
thereof and any payments made therefrom pursuant to the Plan.

          Section 2.25   Trustee means the Trustee of the Trust Fund from time
                         -------
to time in office.  The Trustee shall serve as Trustee until it is removed or
resigns from office and is replaced by a successor Trustee or Trustees appointed
by Rome Bancorp, Inc.


                                  Article III
                                  -----------

                          Shares Available Under Plan
                          ---------------------------


           Section 3.1   Shares Available Under Plan.
                         ---------------------------

          (a) The maximum number of Shares available for Awards under the Plan
shall be 49,991, subject to adjustment pursuant to section 8.3.

          (b) An aggregate maximum of 14,997 Shares (subject to adjustment
pursuant to section 8.3) may be granted as Awards to Eligible Directors, and a
maximum of 2,499 Shares (subject to adjustment pursuant to section 8.3) may be
granted as Awards to any one Eligible Director.

          (c) A maximum of 12,497 Shares (subject to adjustment pursuant to
section 8.3) may be granted as Awards to any one Eligible Employee.

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                                  Article IV
                                  ----------

                                Administration
                                --------------


           Section 4.1   Committee.
                         ---------

          The Plan shall be administered by a committee (the "Committee")
consisting of all members of the Board, or if designated by the Board, solely of
Disinterested Board Members. If the Committee consists of fewer than two
Disinterested Board Members, then the Board shall appoint to the Committee such
additional Disinterested Board Members as shall be necessary to provide for a
Committee consisting of at least two Disinterested Board Members.


           Section 4.2   Committee Action.
                         ----------------

          The Committee shall hold such meetings, and may make such
administrative rules and regulations, as it may deem proper.  A majority of the
members of the Committee shall constitute a quorum, and the action of a majority
of the members of the Committee present at a meeting at which a quorum is
present, as well as actions taken pursuant to the unanimous written consent of
all of the members of the Committee without holding a meeting, shall be deemed
to be actions of the Committee.  All actions of the Committee shall be final and
conclusive and shall be binding upon the Company and all other interested
parties.  Any Person dealing with the Committee shall be fully protected in
relying upon any written notice, instruction, direction or other communication
signed by the Secretary of the Committee and one member of the Committee, by two
members of the Committee or by a representative of the Committee authorized to
sign the same in its behalf.


           Section 4.3   Committee Responsibilities.
                         --------------------------

          Subject to the terms and conditions of the Plan and such limitations
as may be imposed by the Board, the Committee shall be responsible for the
overall management and administration of the Plan and shall have such authority
as shall be necessary or appropriate in order to carry out its responsibilities,
including, without limitation, the authority:

          (a) to interpret and construe the Plan, and to determine all questions
     that may arise under the Plan as to eligibility for Awards under the Plan,
     the amount of Shares, if any, to be granted pursuant to an Award, and the
     terms and conditions of such Award;

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          (b) to adopt rules and regulations and to prescribe forms for the
     operation and administration of the Plan; and

          (c) to take any other action not inconsistent with the provisions of
     the Plan that it may deem necessary or appropriate.



                                   Article V
                                   ---------

                                The Trust Fund
                                --------------


           Section 5.1   Contributions.
                         -------------

          Rome Bancorp, Inc. shall contribute, or cause to be contributed, to
the Trust, from time to time, such amounts of money or property as shall be
determined by the Board, in its discretion.  No contributions by Eligible
Directors or Eligible Employees shall be permitted.


           Section 5.2   The Trust Fund.
                         --------------

          The Trust Fund shall be held and invested under the Trust Agreement
with the Trustee.  The provisions of the Trust Agreement shall include
provisions conferring powers on the Trustee as to investment, control and
disbursement of the Trust Fund, and such other provi  sions not inconsistent
with the Plan as may be prescribed by or under the authority of the Board. No
bond or security shall be required of any Trustee at any time in office.


           Section 5.3   Investments.
                         -----------

          The Trustee shall invest the Trust Fund in Shares and in such other
investments as may be permitted under the Trust Agreement, including savings
accounts, time or other interest bearing deposits in or other interest bearing
obligations of the Company, in such proportions as shall be determined by the
Committee; provided, however, that in no event shall the Trust Fund be used to
purchase more than 49,991 Shares (subject to adjustment pursuant to section
8.3). Notwithstanding the immediately preceding sentence, the Trustee may
temporarily invest the Trust Fund in short-term obligations of, or guaranteed
by, the U.S. Government or an agency thereof, or the Trustee may retain the
Trust Fund uninvested or may sell assets of the Trust Fund to provide amounts
required for purposes of the Plan.

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                                  Article VI
                                  ----------

                                    Awards
                                    ------


           Section 6.1   To Eligible Directors.
                         ---------------------

          Subject to the limitations of the Plan and such limitations as the
Board may from time to time impose, the number of Shares as to which an Eligible
Director may be granted an Award shall be determined by the Committee in its
discretion; provided, however, that in no event shall the number of Shares
allocated to an Eligible Director in an Award exceed the number of Shares then
held in the Trust and not allocated in connection with other Awards.


           Section 6.2   To Eligible Employees.
                         ---------------------

          Subject to the limitations of the Plan and such limitations as the
Board may from time to time impose, the number of Shares as to which an Eligible
Employee may be granted an Award shall be determined by the Committee in its
discretion; provided, however, that in no event shall the number of Shares
allocated to an Eligible Employee in an Award exceed the number of Shares then
held in the Trust and not allocated in connection with other Awards.


           Section 6.3   Awards in General.
                         -----------------

          Any Award shall be evidenced by an Award Notice issued by the
Committee to the Eligible Director or Eligible Employee, which notice shall:

          (a) specify the number of Shares covered by the Award;

          (b) specify the date of grant of the Award;

          (c) specify the dates on which such Shares shall become vested; and

          (d) contain such other terms and conditions not inconsistent with the
     Plan as the Board or Committee may, in its discretion, prescribe.

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           Section 6.4   Share Allocations.
                         -----------------

          Upon the grant of an Award to an Eligible Director or Eligible
Employee, the Committee shall notify the Trustee of the Award and of the number
of Shares subject to the Award.  Thereafter, until such time as the Shares
subject to such Award become vested or are forfeited,  the books and records of
the Trustee shall reflect that such number of Shares have been awarded to such
Award recipient.


           Section 6.5   Dividend Rights.
                         ---------------

          (a) Unless the Committee determines otherwise with respect to any
Award and specifies such determination in the relevant Award Notice, any cash
dividends or distributions declared and paid with respect to Shares subject to
the Award that are, as of the record date for such dividend, allocated to an
Eligible Director or Eligible Employee in connection with such Award shall be
promptly paid to and retained by such Eligible Director or Eligible Employee.
Any cash dividends declared and paid with respect to Shares that are not, as of
the record date for such dividend, allocated to any Eligible Director or
Eligible Employee in connection with any Award shall, at the direction of the
Committee, be held in the Trust or used to pay the administrative expenses of
the Plan, including any compensation due to the Trustee.

          (b) Unless the Committee determines otherwise with respect to any
Award and specifies such determination in the relevant Award Notice, any
dividends or distributions declared and paid in property other than cash with
respect to Shares shall be subject to the same vesting and other restrictions as
the Shares to which the Award relates. Any such dividends declared and paid with
respect to Shares that are not, as of the record date for such dividend,
allocated to any Eligible Director or Eligible Employee in connection with any
Award shall, at the direction of the Committee, be held in the Trust or used to
pay the administrative expenses of the Plan, including any compensation due to
the Trustee or, in the case of a stock dividend, used for future Awards.


           Section 6.6   Voting Rights.
                         -------------

          (a) Each Eligible Director or Eligible Employee to whom an Award has
been made that is not fully vested shall have the right to exercise, or direct
the exercise of, all voting rights appurtenant to unvested Shares related to
such Award.  Such a direction for any Shares as to which the Eligible Director
or Eligible Employee is not the record owner shall be given by completing and
filing, with the inspector of elections, the Trustee or such other person who
shall be independent of the Company as the Committee shall designate in the
direction, a written direction in the form and manner prescribed by the
Committee.  If no such direction is given by an Eligible Director or Eligible
Employee, then the voting rights appurtenant to the Shares allocated to him
shall not be exercised.

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          (b) To the extent that the Trust Fund contains Shares that are not
allocated in connection with an Award, all voting rights appurtenant to such
Shares shall be exercised by the Trustee in such manner as the Committee shall
direct to reflect the voting directions given by Eligible Directors or Eligible
Employees with respect to Shares allocated in connection with their Awards.

          (c) The Committee shall furnish, or cause to be furnished, to each
Eligible Director or Eligible Employee who is not the record holder of the
Shares relating to his or her Award  all annual reports, proxy materials and
other information furnished by  Rome Bancorp, Inc., or by any proxy solicitor,
to the holders of Shares.


           Section 6.7   Tender Offers.
                         -------------

          (a) Each Eligible Director or Eligible Employee to whom an Award has
been made that is not fully vested shall have the right to respond, or  to
direct the response, with respect to the Shares related to such Award, to any
tender offer, exchange offer or other offer made to the holders of Shares.  Such
a direction for any Shares as to which the Eligible Director or Eligible
Employee is not the record owner shall be given by completing and filing, with
the inspector of elections, the Trustee or such other person who shall be
independent of the Company as the Committee shall designate in the direction, a
written direction in the form and manner prescribed by the Committee.  If no
such direction is given by an Eligible Director or Eligible Employee, then the
Shares shall not be tendered or exchanged.

          (b) To the extent that the Trust Fund contains Shares that are not
allocated in connection with an Award, all responses to tender, exchange and
other offers appurtenant to such Shares shall be given by the Trustee in such
manner as the Committee shall direct to reflect the responses given by Eligible
Directors or Eligible Employees with respect to Shares allocated in connection
with their Awards.

          (c) The Committee shall furnish, or cause to be furnished, to each
Eligible Director or Eligible Employee, all information furnished by the offeror
to the holders of Shares.

           Section 6.8   Limitations on Awards.
                         ---------------------

          (a) No Award shall be granted under the Plan prior to the date on
which the Plan is approved by shareholders pursuant to section 9.9.

          (b) An Award by its terms shall not be transferable by the Eligible
Director or Eligible Employee other than by will or by the laws of descent and
distribution, and the Shares granted pursuant to such Award and held in the
Trust shall be distributable, during the lifetime of the Recipient, only to the
Recipient.

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                                  Article VII
                                  -----------

                           Vesting and Distribution
                           ------------------------


           Section 7.1   Vesting of Awards.
                         -----------------

          Subject to the terms and conditions of the Plan, unless otherwise
determined by the Committee and specified in the Award Notice relating to an
Award as permitted in Article X, Shares subject to each Award granted to an
Eligible Director or Eligible Employee  under the Plan shall become vested as
follows:  (i) twenty percent (20%) of such Shares shall become vested as of the
first anniversary of the date of grant; (ii) an additional twenty percent (20%)
of such Shares shall become vested as of the second anniversary of the date of
grant; (iii) an additional twenty percent (20%) of such Shares shall become as
of the third anniversary of the date of grant; (iv) an additional twenty percent
(20%) of such Shares shall become vested as of the fourth anniversary of the
date of grant; (v) an additional twenty percent (20%) of such Shares shall
become vested as of the fifth anniversary of the date of grant; and provided,
further, an Award shall become 100% vested upon the Award recipient's death or
Disability.


           Section 7.2   Designation of Beneficiary.
                         --------------------------

          An Eligible Director or Eligible Employee who has received an Award
may designate a Beneficiary to receive any undistributed Shares that are, or
become, available for distribution on, or after, the date of his death.  Such
designation (and any change or revocation of such designation) shall be made in
writing in the form and manner prescribed by the Committee. In the event that
the Beneficiary designated by an Eligible Director or Eligible Employee dies
prior to the Eligible Director or Eligible Employee, or in the event that no
Beneficiary has been designated, any undistributed Shares that are, or become,
available for distribution on, or after, the Eligible Director's or Eligible
Employee's death shall be paid to the executor or administrator of the Eligible
Director's or Eligible Employee's estate, or if no such executor or
administrator is appointed within such time as the Committee, in its sole
discretion, shall deem reasonable, to such one or more of the spouse and
descendants and blood relatives of such deceased person as the Committee may
select.


           Section 7.3   Manner of Distribution.
                         ----------------------

          (a) Except as provided in section 7.3(b), as  soon as practicable
following the date any Shares granted pursuant to an Award become vested
pursuant to sections 7.1, the Committee shall take such actions as are necessary
to cause the transfer of record ownership of the Shares that have become vested
from the Trustee to the Award holder and shall cause the Trustee to distribute
to the Award holder all property other than Shares then being held in connection
with the Shares being distributed.

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          (b) The Committee may, in its discretion, cause the transfer to an
Award recipient of record ownership of the Shares subject to such Award that
have not yet vested.  Any such Shares shall be held in certificated form only,
and the certificate therefor shall bear the following or a substantially similar
legend:

          The securities evidenced hereby are subject to the terms of an Award
          Notice dated [date] between the issuer and [name of Award recipient]
          pursuant to the Rome Bancorp, Inc. 2000 Recognition and Retention
          Plan, a copy of which is on file with the issuer and may be inspected
          at the issuer's executive offices at 100 West Dominick Street, Rome,
          New York.  No sale, transfer, hypothecation or other disposition of
          these securities may be made except in compliance with the terms of
          such Award Notice  and the terms of the Plan.

          (c)  The Company's obligation to deliver Shares with respect to an
Award shall, if the Committee so requests, be conditioned upon the receipt of a
representation as to the in  vestment intention of the Eligible Director or
Eligible Employee or Beneficiary to whom such Shares are to be delivered, in
such form as the Committee shall determine to be necessary or advisable to
comply with the provisions of applicable federal, state or local law.  It may be
pro  vided that any such representation shall become inoperative upon a
registration of the Shares or upon the occurrence of any other event eliminating
the necessity of such representation.  The Company shall not be required to
deliver any Shares under the Plan prior to (i) the admission of such Shares to
listing on any stock exchange on which Shares may then be listed, or (ii) the
completion of such registration or other qualification under any state or
federal law, rule or regulation as the Committee shall determine to be necessary
or advisable.


           Section 7.4   Taxes.
                         -----

          The Company, the Committee or the Trustee shall have the right to
require any person entitled to receive Shares pursuant to an Award to pay the
amount of any tax which is required to be withheld with respect to such Shares,
or, in lieu thereof, to retain, or to sell without notice, a sufficient number
of Shares to cover the amount required to be withheld.

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                                 Article VIII
                                 ------------

                           Amendment and Termination
                           -------------------------


           Section 8.1   Termination.
                         -----------

          The Board may suspend or terminate the Plan in whole or in part at any
time by giving written notice of such suspension or termination to the
Committee; provided, however, that the Plan may not be terminated while there
are outstanding Awards that may thereafter become vested.  Upon the termination
of the Plan, the Trustee shall make distributions from the Trust Fund in such
amounts and to such persons as the Committee may direct and shall return the
remaining assets of the Trust Fund, if any, to  Rome Bancorp, Inc.


           Section 8.2   Amendment.
                         ---------

          The Board may amend or revise the Plan in whole or in part at any
time; provided, however, that no such amendment or revision shall alter the
stockholder approval standard set forth in Article X as a condition precedent to
the effectiveness of Article X or otherwise directly or indirectly give effect
to the substance of the provisions of Article X without compliance with the
stockholder approval requirement set forth therein.


           Section 8.3   Adjustments in the Event of a Business Reorganization.
                         -----------------------------------------------------

          (a) In the event of any merger, consolidation, or other business
reorganization (including but not limited to a Change of Control) in which  Rome
Bancorp, Inc. is the surviving entity, and in the event of any stock split,
stock dividend or other event generally affecting the number of Shares held by
each person who is then a holder of record of Shares, the number of Shares held
or permitted to be held in the Trust Fund, the number of Shares covered by
outstanding Awards, and the number of Shares available as Awards in total or to
particular individuals or groups shall be adjusted to account for such event.
Such adjustment shall be effected by multiplying such number of Shares by an
amount equal to the number of Shares that would be owned after such event by a
person who, immediately prior to such event, was the holder of record of one
Share, unless the Committee, in its discretion, establishes another appro
priate method of adjustment.

          (b) In the event of any merger, consolidation, or other business
reorganization (including but not limited to a Change of Control) in which Rome
Bancorp, Inc. is not the sur  viving entity, the Trustee shall hold in the Trust
Fund any money, stock, securities or other property received by holders of
record of Shares in connection with such merger, consolidation, or other
business reorganization.  Any Award with respect to which Shares had been
allocated to an Eligible Director or Eligible Employee shall be adjusted by
allocating to the Eligible Director or Eligible Employee receiving such Award
the amount of money, stock, securities or other

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property received by the Trustee for the Shares allocated to such Eligible
Director or Eligible Employee, and such money, stock, securities or other
property shall be subject to the same terms and conditions of the Award that
applied to the Shares for which it has been exchanged.


                                  Article IX
                                  ----------

                                 Miscellaneous
                                 -------------


           Section 9.1   Status as an Employee Benefit Plan.
                         ----------------------------------

          This Plan is not intended to satisfy the requirements for
qualification under sec  tion 401(a) of the Code or to satisfy the definitional
requirements for an "employee benefit plan" under section 3(3) of the Employee
Retirement Income Security Act of 1974, as amended.  It is intended to be a non-
qualified incentive compensation program that is exempt from the regulatory
requirements of the Employee Retirement Income Security Act of 1974, as amended.
The Plan shall be construed and administered so as to effectuate this intent.


           Section 9.2   No Right to Continued Employment.
                         --------------------------------

          Neither the establishment of the Plan nor any provisions of the Plan
nor any action of the Board or the Committee with respect to the Plan shall be
held or construed to confer upon any Eligible Director or Eligible Employee any
right to continue in the service of any Employer. The Employers reserve the
right to dismiss any Eligible Director or Eligible Employee or otherwise deal
with any Eligible Director or Eligible Employee to the same extent as though the
Plan had not been adopted.

           Section 9.3   Construction of Language.
                         ------------------------

          Whenever appropriate in the Plan, words used in the singular may be
read in the plural, words used in the plural may be read in the singular, and
words importing the masculine gender may be read as referring equally to the
feminine or the neuter.  Any reference to an Article or section number shall
refer to an Article or section of this Plan unless otherwise indicated.


           Section 9.4   Governing Law.
                         -------------

          The Plan shall be construed and enforced in accordance with the laws
of the State of New York without giving effect to the conflict of laws
principles thereof, except to the extent that such laws are preempted by the
federal laws of the United States of America.  The Plan shall be construed to
comply with applicable FDIC Regulations.

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           Section 9.5   Headings.
                         --------

          The headings of Articles and sections are included solely for
convenience of reference.  If there is any conflict between such headings and
the text of the Plan, the text shall control.


           Section 9.6   Non-Alienation of Benefits.
                         --------------------------

          The right to receive a benefit under the Plan shall not be subject in
any manner to anticipation, alienation or assignment, nor shall such right be
liable for or subject to debts, contracts, liabilities, engagements or torts.


           Section 9.7   Notices.
                         -------

          Any communication required or permitted to be given under the Plan,
including any notice, direction, designation, comment, instruction, objection or
waiver, shall be in writing and shall be deemed to have been given at such time
as it is personally delivered or 5 days after mailing if mailed, postage
prepaid, by registered or certified mail, return receipt requested, addressed to
such party at the address listed below, or at such other address as one such
party may by written notice specify to the other:

          (a)  If to the Committee:

               Rome Bancorp, Inc.
               100 West Dominick Street
               Rome, New York 13440-5810

               Attention:  Corporate Secretary
                           -------------------

          (b) If to an Eligible Director or Eligible Employee, to the Eligible
     Director's or Eligible Employee's address as shown in the Employer's
     records.


           Section 9.8   Required Regulatory Provisions.
                         ------------------------------

          The making and payment of Awards under this Plan shall be conditioned
upon and subject to compliance with section 18(k) of the Federal Deposit
Insurance Act, 12 U.S.C. 1828(k), and the rules and regulations promulgated
thereunder.

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           Section 9.9   Approval of Shareholders.
                         ------------------------

          The Plan shall not be effective or implemented unless approved by the
holders (other than Rome, MHC) of a majority of the total votes eligible to be
cast at any duly called annual or special meeting of the Company.  No award
shall be made prior to the date on which the Plan becomes effective.



                                   Article X
                                   ---------

         Additional Provisions Subject to Further Shareholder Approval
         -------------------------------------------------------------


           Section 10.1  Accelerated Vesting Upon Retirement or Change in
                         ------------------------------------------------
     Control.
     -------

          Notwithstanding anything in the Plan to the contrary, but subject to
section 10.3, unless otherwise determined by the Committee and specified in the
Award Notice relating to an Award:  (a) in the event that any Award Recipient
terminates service with the Employer and such termination constitutes a
Retirement, all Awards outstanding to such holder on the date of his Retirement
shall, to the extent not already vested, become vested upon Retirement; and (b)
in the event of a Change of Control, all Awards outstanding under the Plan on
the date of the Change of Control shall, to the extent not already vested,
become vested on the date of the Change of Control.


           Section 10.2  Discretion to Establish Vesting Schedules.
                         ------------------------------------------

          Notwithstanding anything in the Plan to the contrary, but subject to
section 10.3, section 7.1 shall apply in determining the vesting of Awards only
if no different vesting schedule is established by the Committee and specified
in the Award Notice.


           Section 10.3  No Effect Prior to Stockholder Approval.
                         ---------------------------------------

          Notwithstanding anything contained in this Article X to the contrary,
the provisions of this Article X shall not be applied, and shall be of no force
or effect, unless and until the shareholders of the Company shall have approved
such provisions by affirmative vote of the holders of a majority of the Shares
represented in person or by proxy and entitled to vote at a meeting of
shareholders duly called and held after October 6, 2000.

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Rome Bancorp, Inc.                                              REVOCABLE PROXY



                     This Proxy is solicited on behalf of
                 the Board of Directors of Rome Bancorp, Inc.
       for the Annual Meeting of Stockholders to be held on May 3, 2000.

         The undersigned stockholder of Rome Bancorp, Inc. hereby appoints
Charles M. Sprock and Bruce R. Engelbert, each of them, with full powers of
substitution, to represent and to vote as proxy, as designated, all shares of
common stock of Rome Bancorp, Inc. held of record by the undersigned on March
20, 2000, at the Annual Meeting of Stockholders (the "Annual Meeting") to be
held at 6:30 p.m., Eastern Time, on May 3, 2000, or at any adjournment or
postponement thereof, upon the matters described in the accompanying Notice of
the Annual Meeting of Stockholders and Proxy Statement, dated April 5, 2000 and
upon such other matters as may properly come before the Annual Meeting. The
undersigned hereby revokes all prior proxies.

         This Proxy, when properly executed, will be voted in the manner
directed herein by the undersigned stockholder. If no direction is given, this
Proxy will be voted FOR the election of all nominees listed in Item 1 and FOR
the proposals listed in Items 2, 3, 4 and 5.

          PLEASE MARK, SIGN AND DATE THIS PROXY ON THE REVERSE SIDE
               AND RETURN IT PROMPTLY IN THE ENCLOSED ENVELOPE.
<PAGE>

The Board of Directors unanimously recommends a vote "FOR" all of the nominees
named in Item 1 and a vote "FOR" each of the proposals in Items 2, 3, 4 and 5.

I Will Attend Annual Meeting.           |_|

Please Mark Your Choice Like This
in Blue or Black Ink.                   |X|



1. Election of two Directors for terms of three years each.
   Nominees: Richard H. McMahon and Marion C. Scoville

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Instruction: TO WITHHOLD AUTHORITY to vote for any individual nominee, write
             that nominee's name in the space provided:


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2. Ratification of the appointment of KPMG LLP as independent auditors for the
   fiscal year ending December 31, 2000.

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3. Approval of the Rome Bancorp, Inc. 2000 Stock Option Plan.

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4. Approval of the Rome Bancorp, Inc. 2000 Recognition and Retention Plan.

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5. Authorization of the Board of Directors, in its discretion, to direct the
   vote of proxies upon such matters incident to the conduct of the Annual
   Meeting as may properly come before the Annual Meeting, and any adjournment
   or postponement thereof, including, without limitation, a motion to adjourn
   the Annual Meeting.

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The undersigned hereby acknowledges receipt of the Notice of Annual Meeting of
Stockholders and the Proxy Statement for the Annual Meeting dated April 5, 2000.

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Signature(s)

Dated:                                                 , 200_
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Please sign exactly as your name appears on this proxy. Joint owners should each
sign personally. If signing as attorney, executor, administrator, trustee or
guardian, please include your full title. Corporate or partnership proxies
should be signed by an authorized officer.


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