AVATAR HOLDINGS INC
DEF 14A, 1999-04-26
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                                          AVATAR
                                          HOLDINGS INC.
                                          201 Alhambra Circle
                                          Coral Gables, Florida 33134
                                          (305) 442-7000
 
                    NOTICE OF ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                           To Be Held On May 27, 1999
 
To the Stockholders of Avatar Holdings Inc.:
 
     The Annual Meeting of Stockholders of Avatar Holdings Inc. will be held at
the Hyatt Regency Coral Gables, 50 Alhambra Plaza, Coral Gables, Florida on May
27, 1999, at 10:00 a.m. local time, for the following purposes:
 
     1. To elect nine directors.
 
     2. To consider and vote upon a proposal to amend and restate Avatar's 1997
        Incentive and Capital Accumulation Plan.
 
     3. To approve the appointment of Ernst & Young LLP, independent
        accountants, to act as auditors for Avatar for the year ending December
        31, 1999.
 
     4. To transact such other business as properly may come before the meeting,
        or any adjournment or adjournments thereof.
 
     The Board of Directors has fixed the close of business on March 31, 1999 as
the record date for the determination of stockholders entitled to receive notice
of, and to vote at, the Annual Meeting or any adjournment or adjournments
thereof.
 
     WHETHER OR NOT YOU EXPECT TO BE PRESENT AT THE ANNUAL MEETING, PLEASE
COMPLETE, DATE, SIGN AND RETURN THE ENCLOSED PROXY PROMPTLY IN THE
POSTAGE-PREPAID ENVELOPE PROVIDED FOR YOUR CONVENIENCE. IF YOU ATTEND THE ANNUAL
MEETING, YOU MAY REVOKE YOUR PROXY AND VOTE YOUR SHARES IN PERSON IF YOU WISH.
 
                                          By Order of the Board of Directors,
 
                                          Juanita I. Kerrigan
                                          Vice President and Secretary
 
Dated: April 28, 1999.
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    AVATAR HOLDINGS INC., 201 ALHAMBRA CIRCLE, CORAL GABLES, FLORIDA 33134
                                (305) 442-7000
 
              PROXY STATEMENT FOR ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                          To Be Held On May 27, 1999
 
     This Proxy Statement and the enclosed form of proxy are furnished to the
stockholders of Avatar Holdings Inc., a Delaware corporation ("Avatar"), in
connection with the solicitation of proxies by and on behalf of the Board of
Directors of Avatar for use at the Annual Meeting of Stockholders to be held at
the place and time and for the purposes set forth in the annexed Notice of
Annual Meeting of Stockholders.
 
                      VOTING RIGHTS AND PROXY INFORMATION
 
Record Date; Voting Rights
 
     Pursuant to the By-Laws of Avatar, the Board of Directors has fixed the
close of business on March 31, 1999 as the record date for the determination of
stockholders entitled to notice of and to vote at the meeting or any adjournment
or adjournments thereof.
 
     At the close of business on March 31, 1999, 9,170,102 shares of Common
Stock, $1.00 par value, of Avatar ("Common Stock"), which constitutes the only
class of voting securities of Avatar, were outstanding and entitled to vote. For
each share of Common Stock held of record as of the close of business on March
31, 1999, stockholders are entitled to one vote, except in regard to the
election of directors, for which there will be cumulative voting as described
under the heading "Election of Directors." In accordance with Avatar's By-Laws,
the holders of a majority of the outstanding shares of Common Stock, present in
person or represented by proxy, will constitute a quorum for the transaction of
business at the Annual Meeting.
 
     At the close of business on March 31, 1999, $115,000,000 principal amount
of Avatar's 7% Convertible Subordinated Notes due 2005 (the 7% Notes") were
outstanding which are in the aggregate convertible into an aggregate of
3,616,352 shares of Common Stock. Ownership of 7% Notes does not entitle any
holder thereof to any voting rights in connection with this Annual Meeting of
Stockholders.
 
Proxies
 
     When a proxy is received, properly executed, in time for the Annual
Meeting, the shares represented thereby will be voted at the meeting as
directed. If no such direction is specified, such shares will be voted: (1) FOR
the election as directors of Avatar of the nine nominees named therein; (2) FOR
approval of the proposal to amend and restate Avatar's 1997 Incentive and
Capital Accumulation Plan ("Incentive Plan"); (3) FOR approval of the
appointment of Ernst & Young LLP, independent accountants, as auditors of Avatar
for the year ending December 31, 1999; and (4) in connection with the
transaction of such other business as properly may come before the meeting in
accordance with the judgment of the person or persons voting the proxy. Any
stockholder who executes a proxy may revoke it at any time prior to its exercise
by giving written notice of such revocation to the Secretary of Avatar. In
addition, a stockholder who attends the meeting may vote in person, thereby
cancelling any proxy previously given by such stockholder.
 
     Nominees for director will be elected by a plurality of the votes cast at
the Annual Meeting by the holders of Common Stock present in person or by proxy
and entitled to notice of, and to vote at, the Annual Meeting. Consequently,
only shares that are voted in favor of a particular nominee will be counted
toward such nominee's achievement of a plurality. Shares present at the meeting
that are not voted for a particular nominee or shares present by proxy where the
stockholder properly withheld authority to vote for such nominees (including
broker non-votes) will not be counted toward such nominee's achievement of a
plurality.
 
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     The affirmative vote of a majority of the shares of Common Stock present in
person or by proxy and entitled to notice of, and to vote at, the Annual Meeting
is necessary to approve the proposal to amend and restate Avatar's Incentive
Plan and to ratify the appointment of Ernst & Young LLP as auditors for the year
ending December 31, 1999. Abstentions will have the same effect as votes against
the proposal because the shares are considered present at the meeting but are
not affirmative votes, and broker non-votes will not be counted in respect of
the proposal.
 
     This proxy statement and the form of proxy enclosed herewith, and the
accompanying Annual Report of Avatar for the fiscal year ended December 31,
1998, including financial statements, were first mailed to stockholders of
record as of the close of business on March 31, on or about April 28, 1999.
 
                      PRINCIPAL STOCKHOLDERS AND SECURITY
                            OWNERSHIP OF MANAGEMENT
 
Principal Stockholders
 
     The following table sets forth, as of March 31, 1999, information with
respect to each person or entity known by the Board of Directors to be the
beneficial owner of more than 5% of the outstanding Common Stock. Except as
otherwise indicated, all shares are owned directly.
 
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                                         AMOUNT AND
                                                                          NATURE OF
                                                                         BENEFICIAL     PERCENT OF
   NAME OF BENEFICIAL OWNER           ADDRESS OF BENEFICIAL OWNER       OWNERSHIP(1)      CLASS
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<S>                              <C>                                    <C>             <C>
Odyssey Partners,                31 West 52nd Street                      2,107,763(2)(3)    23.0%
  L.P.                           New York, NY 10019

Spears, Benzak,                  45 Rockefeller Plaza                     1,345,525(4)     14.0%
  Salomon &                      New York, NY 10111
  Farrell, Inc.

Ronald Baron                     767 Fifth Avenue                           926,770(5)     10.1%
                                 24th Floor
                                 New York, NY 10153

Martin J. Whitman                767 Third Avenue                           791,800(6)      8.6%
                                 New York, NY 10017
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</TABLE>
 
     (1) Calculated pursuant to Rule 13d-3(d) of the Exchange Act. Under Rule
13d-3(d), shares not outstanding which are subject to options, warrants, rights
or conversion privileges exercisable within 60 days are deemed outstanding for
the purpose of calculating the number and percentage owned by such person, but
not deemed outstanding for the purpose of calculating the percentage owned by
each other person listed.
 
     (2) Does not include shares owned by Leon Levy, who is Chairman of the
Board and a member of the Executive Committee of Avatar and is a general partner
of Odyssey Partners, L.P., a Delaware limited partnership ("Odyssey"). Mr. Levy,
Jack Nash, Stephen Berger, Joshua Nash, Brian Wruble and Nash Family
Partnership, L.P., by virtue of being general partners of Odyssey, share voting
and dispositive power with respect to the Common Stock owned by Odyssey and,
accordingly, may each be deemed to own beneficially the Common Stock owned by
Odyssey. Each of the aforesaid persons has expressly disclaimed any such
beneficial ownership (within the meaning of Exchange Act Rule 13d-3(d)(1)) which
exceeds the proportionate interest in the Common Stock which he or it may be
deemed to own as a general partner of Odyssey. Avatar has been advised that no
other person exercises (or may be deemed to exercise) any voting or investment
control over the Common Stock owned by Odyssey. Odyssey is a private investment
 
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partnership. Mr. Levy's ownership of Common Stock is indicated in the table
included in "Security Ownership of Management."
 
     (3) By virtue of its present Common Stock ownership, Odyssey may be deemed
to be a "control" person of Avatar within the meaning of that term as defined in
Rule 12b-2 under the Securities Exchange Act of 1934, as amended.
 
     (4) Does not include shares owned or shares issuable upon conversion of 7%
Notes owned by William G. Spears, a nominee for election at the Annual Meeting,
which ownership is indicated in the table included in "Security Ownership of
Management." Includes 443,900 shares issuable upon conversion of $14,116,000
principal amount of 7% Notes. The information as to securities owned was
furnished to Avatar by Spears, Benzak, Salomon & Farrell, Inc. Based upon
information set forth in the Schedule 13G, dated February 12, 1999, filed by
KeyCorp, the parent holding company of Spears, Benzak, Salomon & Farrell, Inc.
(a registered investment adviser), such 7% Notes and such shares are held for
the benefit of various of its clients; it has revocable shared dispositive power
with such clients; and it has no power to vote or direct the vote of such
shares.
 
     (5) Based upon information provided by Baron Capital Group, Inc., Ronald
Baron owns 13,000 shares of Avatar and may be deemed to own an additional 41,000
by reason of his position as a General Partner of an investment partnership. Mr.
Baron also may be deemed to own an additional 872,770 shares on behalf of
investment advisory clients of Baron Capital Management, Inc. and BAMCO, Inc.,
both registered investment advisers of which he is the controlling person, and
he expressly disclaims beneficial ownership of such shares.
 
     (6) Based upon information set forth in the Schedule 13G, dated February
12, 1999, Mr. Whitman may be deemed to own 728,800 shares of Avatar and 63,000
shares of Avatar on behalf of investment advisory clients of EQSF Advisers, Inc.
("EQSF") and M.J. Whitman Advisers, Inc. ("MJWA"), respectively, both registered
investment advisers of which he is Chief Executive Officer and the controlling
person, and he expressly disclaims beneficial ownership of such shares. Third
Avenue Value Fund, Third Avenue SmallCap Value Fund, Third Avenue Real Estate
Value Fund and Third Avenue Portfolio of the WRL Series Fund, all registered
investment advisers, have the right to receive dividends from and the proceeds
of the sale of 474,300 shares, 238,500 shares, 12,500 shares and 3,500 shares,
respectively, of the shares held by EQSF.
 
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Securities Ownership of Management
 
     The following table sets forth, as of March 31, 1999, information with
respect to the outstanding shares of Common Stock beneficially owned by each
present director, nominee for director, by each of the Named Executive Officers
identified herein under the caption "Summary Compensation Table," and by all
present directors and executive officers of Avatar as a group. Except as
otherwise indicated, all shares are owned directly.
 
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                   AMOUNT AND NATURE OF                 PERCENT OF
               NAME OR GROUP                    BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP(1)(2)               CLASS(2)
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<S>                                             <C>                                     <C>
Leon Levy                                               3,014,689(3)                       30.8%
Milton Dresner                                              3,644(4)                          *
Edwin Jacobson                                               None
Gerald D. Kelfer                                           99,433(5)                          *
Leon T. Kendall                                               200(6)                          *
Martin Meyerson                                             2,347(7)                          *
Gernot H. Reiners                                             628(8)                          *
Kenneth T. Rosen                                            1,000                             *
Fred Stanton Smith                                            943(8)                          *
William G. Spears                                          39,530(9)                          *
Henry King Stanford                                           200                             *
Jonathan Fels                                               4,716(8)                          *
Michael Levy                                                5,345(8)                          *
Michael S. Rubin                                             None
All directors and executive officers as a
  group (consisting of 19 persons of whom 14
  beneficially own shares of Common Stock)              3,173,146(3)(4)(5)(6)(7)(8)(9)     32.3%
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</TABLE>
 
     * Represents less than one percent.
 
     (1) The information as to securities owned by directors, officers and
nominees was furnished to Avatar by such directors, officers and nominees.
 
     (2) Calculated pursuant to Rule 13d-3(d) of the Exchange Act. Under Rule
13d-3(d), shares not outstanding which are subject to options, warrants, rights
or conversion privileges exercisable within 60 days are deemed outstanding for
the purpose of calculating the number and percentage owned by such person, but
not deemed outstanding for the purpose of calculating the percentage owned by
each other person listed. As of March 31, 1999, there were 9,170,102 shares of
Common Stock outstanding.
 
     (3) Includes 2,107,763 shares owned by Odyssey. Mr. Levy is a general
partner of Odyssey and therefore may be deemed to own beneficially the shares of
Common Stock owned by Odyssey. See Notes (2) and (3) to the preceding table
included in "Principal Stockholders." Also includes 628,930 shares issuable upon
conversion of $20,000,000 principal amount of 7% Notes owned by Mr. Levy.
 
     (4) Includes 3,144 shares issuable upon conversion of $100,000 principal
amount of 7% Notes.
 
     (5) Includes 90,000 shares issuable upon exercise of options which are
exercisable as of February 13, 1999 and 9,433 shares issuable upon conversion of
$300,000 principal amount of 7% Notes.
 
     (6) Does not include 200 shares owned by Mr. Kendall's wife for her own
account, as to which shares Mr. Kendall disclaims beneficial ownership.
 
     (7) Does not include 847 shares owned by Mr. Meyerson's wife, as to which
shares Mr. Meyerson disclaims beneficial ownership.
 
     (8) Includes 628, 943, 4,716 and 5,345 shares, respectively, issuable upon
conversion of $20,000, $30,000, $150,000 and $170,000, respectively, principal
amounts of 7% Notes.
 
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     (9) Does not include 901,625 shares held and 443,900 shares issuable upon
conversion of $14,116,000 principal amount of 7% Notes held by Spears, Benzak,
Salomon & Farrell, Inc. See Note (4) to the preceding table included in
"Principal Stockholders." Does not include 1,000 shares owned by Mr. Spears'
wife for her own account, as to which shares Mr. Spears disclaims beneficial
ownership. Includes 19,600 shares owned by Mr. Spears. Also includes 16,000
shares held and 3,930 shares issuable upon conversion of $125,000 principal
amount of 7% Notes owned by an individual profit sharing plan, a charitable
remainder trust and a family foundation, over which shares Mr. Spears has either
sole or shared voting and investment power.
 
                           1.   ELECTION OF DIRECTORS
 
     Nine directors are to be elected for the ensuing year and until their
respective successors are duly elected and qualified. Stockholders have
cumulative voting rights with respect to election of directors. Under cumulative
voting, each stockholder is entitled to the same number of votes per share as
the number of directors to be elected (or, for purposes of this election, nine
votes per share). A stockholder may cast all such votes for a single nominee or
distribute them among the nominees, as he wishes, either by so marking his
ballot at the meeting or by specific voting instructions sent to Avatar with a
signed proxy. In connection with the solicitation of proxies, discretionary
authority to cumulate votes is being solicited. Unless authority to vote for the
nominees for director is withheld, it is the intention of the persons named in
the accompanying proxy to vote the proxies in such manner as will elect as
directors the nominees named below.
 
     Edwin Jacobson and Leon T. Kendall, currently directors of Avatar, have
decided to retire from the Board and will not stand for re-election.
 
     All of the nominees were elected at the May 28, 1998 Annual Meeting of
Avatar's Stockholders except William G. Spears. The Board of Directors met five
times during 1998, including the annual meeting of directors held immediately
following the 1998 Annual Meeting of Stockholders.
 
     The Board of Directors does not contemplate that any of the persons named
below will be unable, or will decline, to serve. However, if any of such persons
is unable or declines to serve, the persons named in the accompanying proxy may
vote for another person or persons in their discretion.
 
     The following table sets forth certain information with respect to each
nominee for director. Except as otherwise indicated, each nominee has held his
present occupation or occupations for more than the past five years and has not
been principally employed by any subsidiary or affiliate of Avatar. There are no
family relationships between any nominee, director or executive officer of
Avatar.
 
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                         PRINCIPAL OCCUPATION OR
             NAME                AGE                  OCCUPATIONS AND DIRECTORSHIPS
<S>                              <C>    <C>
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Leon Levy                        73     Chairman of the Board of Avatar since January 22, 1981;
Director since                          General Partner, Odyssey Partners, L.P., a private
September 1980                          investment partnership; Chairman of the Board of
                                        Oppenheimer funds; former Chairman of the Board
                                        (1974-1985) of Oppenheimer Management Corp.
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Gerald D. Kelfer                 53     Vice Chairman of the Board of Avatar since December 1996,
Director since                          Chief Executive Officer since July 31, 1997 and President
October 1996                            since February 13, 1997; formerly a principal in Odyssey
                                        Partners, L.P., from July 1994 to February 1997; and
                                        Executive Vice President, Senior General Counsel and
                                        Director of Olympia & York Companies, from 1985 to 1994.
</TABLE>
 
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<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                         PRINCIPAL OCCUPATION OR
             NAME                AGE                  OCCUPATIONS AND DIRECTORSHIPS
<S>                              <C>    <C>
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Milton Dresner                   73     Founding Partner, The Highland Companies, since 1960, a
Director since                          diversified real estate development and management organi-
July 1995                               zation; Director: Hudson General Corporation, Childtime
                                        Childcare, BioTime, Inc.
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Martin Meyerson                  76     President Emeritus and Professor of Public Policy and
Director since                          Planning, University of Pennsylvania, since February 1981,
May 1981                                and President thereof from 1970 to 1981; President, FISCIT
                                        (Switzerland/U.S.); formerly also Chairman, University of
                                        Pennsylvania Foundation; Chairman, Marconi International
                                        Foundation.
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Gernot H. Reiners                57     Principal, Sage Consult L.L.C., a real estate and
Director since                          financial consulting business, since January 1998;
October 1997                            partner, Real Estate Capital Partners, a real estate
                                        advisory and management firm, from September 15, 1997 to
                                        December 1998; Former Managing Partner and a member of the
                                        Board of Managers of BHF-BANK AG from May 1992 to March
                                        1997 and Co-Manager of the Bank's New York Branch from
                                        March 1987 to May 1992.
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Kenneth T. Rosen                 50     Professor of Business Administration, since 1979, and
Director since                          Chairman of the Fisher Center for Real Estate and Urban
September 1994                          Economics, since 1981, University of California, Berkeley;
                                        also President, Rosen Consulting Group, a real estate
                                        consulting business, since 1990, and Chief Executive
                                        Officer of Lend Lease Rosen Real Estate Securities, a
                                        registered investment adviser, since February 1995;
                                        Director: Golden West Financial Corporation, The PMI
                                        Group, Inc.
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Fred Stanton Smith               70     Vice Chairman of the Board, The Keyes Company, a real
Director since                          estate brokerage, financing, management, insurance and de-
September 1980                          velopment firm, since January 28, 1992; formerly
                                        President, The Keyes Company; Director, Eagle National
                                        Bank.
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William G. Spears                60     Chairman of the Board, since 1972, Spears, Benzak, Salomon
                                        & Farrell, Inc., a registered investment adviser, which in
                                        April 1995 became a wholly-owned subsidiary of KeyCorp;
                                        also, Chairman of the Board, Key Asset Management (a
                                        subsidiary of KeyCorp), a registered investment adviser,
                                        since August 1996; Director: United HealthGroup, Alcide
                                        Corporation.
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Henry King Stanford              83     President Emeritus, The University of Miami since July
Director since                          1981, and President Emeritus, University of Georgia since
September 1980                          July 1987; formerly President, The University of Miami,
                                        from July 1962 to June 1981; also formerly Interim
                                        President, University of Georgia, from July 1986 to June
                                        1987.
</TABLE>
 
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                  INFORMATION REGARDING THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS
 
Certain Committees of the Board
 
     To assist it in carrying out its duties, the Board of Directors has
established an Executive Committee, an Audit Committee, a Community Affairs
Committee and an Incentive Plan Committee, the current members of which are as
follows:
 
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                       COMMUNITY AFFAIRS
  EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE         AUDIT COMMITTEE              COMMITTEE          INCENTIVE PLAN COMMITTEE
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<S>                       <C>                       <C>                       <C>
Edwin Jacobson(1)(2)      Leon T. Kendall(1)        Henry King Stanford(1)    Leon T. Kendall(1)
Leon Levy(2)              Milton Dresner            Martin Meyerson           Milton Dresner
Gerald D. Kelfer(2)       Martin Meyerson           Fred Stanton Smith        Kenneth T. Rosen
Fred Stanton Smith        Fred Stanton Smith
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</TABLE>
 
    (1) Chairman
    (2) Officer of Avatar
 
     The Board of Directors has not established a Nominating Committee. As more
fully described below, the Executive Committee ordinarily performs the functions
of a compensation committee.
 
Executive Committee
 
     The Executive Committee of the Board of Directors has authority to exercise
most powers of the full Board of Directors in connection with matters which
arise during the intervals between meetings of the Board of Directors. In
addition to such other functions as are assigned to it from time to time by the
Board of Directors, the Executive Committee also reviews and approves or
recommends to the Board the compensation and terms of employment of all officers
and employees of Avatar and its subsidiaries whose base salaries exceed $100,000
per annum. The Executive Committee met four times during the fiscal year ended
December 31, 1998.
 
Audit Committee
 
     The Audit Committee of the Board of Directors recommends to the Board of
Directors the appointment of the independent auditors, subject to approval by
the stockholders of Avatar; reviews the independent auditors' report and
management letters and reports to the Board of Directors with respect thereto;
reviews with the internal auditors Avatar's accounting policies and procedures,
including its internal accounting controls and internal auditing procedures;
determines whether there are any conflicts of interest in financial or business
matters between Avatar and any of its officers or employees; and reviews the
recommendations of the independent auditors. The Audit Committee also performs
such other tasks as are assigned to it from time to time by the Board of
Directors. The Audit Committee met three times during the fiscal year ended
December 31, 1998.
 
Community Affairs Committee
 
     The Community Affairs Committee of the Board of Directors monitors the
reputation and standing in the community of Avatar and its various subsidiaries
and divisions, and oversees the interaction of Avatar with the community. The
Community Affairs Committee also performs such other tasks as are assigned to it
from time to time by the Board of Directors. The Community Affairs Committee did
not meet during the fiscal year ended December 31, 1998.
 
Incentive Plan Committee
 
     The Incentive Plan Committee of the Board of Directors, administers the
1997 Incentive and Capital Accumulation Plan (the "Incentive Plan") and approves
grants thereunder. The Incentive Plan Committee selects the officers and other
key employees to receive grants and determines the form, amount and other terms
and conditions of grants. The Incentive Plan Committee met three times during
the fiscal year ended December 31, 1998.
 
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Directors' Compensation
 
     Compensation of directors who are not salaried employees of Avatar is
$17,500 per annum. A member of the Executive Committee who is not a salaried
employee of Avatar receives a fee of $500 for attendance at each meeting.
Members and the Chairman of the Audit Committee receive additional compensation
of $12,000 and $14,000 per annum, respectively. Members and the Chairman of the
Community Affairs Committee receive additional compensation of $2,000 per annum
plus a fee of $500 for attendance at each meeting. Members and the Chairman of
the Incentive Plan Committee receive additional compensation of $1,000 per annum
plus a fee of $500 for attendance at each meeting.
 
Directors' Attendance
 
     In fiscal year 1998 all of the incumbent directors attended 75% or more of
the aggregate of their respective Board and Committee meetings, except Mr.
Reiners who was unable to attend two of the five meetings of the Board as the
result of rescheduling of certain meetings.
 
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                  EXECUTIVE COMPENSATION AND OTHER INFORMATION
 
Summary Compensation Table
 
     The following table sets forth information with respect to compensation of
the Chief Executive Officer and the four other highest paid executive officers
of Avatar whose total salary and bonus was $100,000 or more for the year ended
December 31, 1998 (these five executive officers being hereinafter referred to
as the "Named Executive Officers").
 
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                                                                        LONG-TERM
                                                                                                      COMPENSATION
                                                    ANNUAL COMPENSATION                                  AWARDS
                                         -----------------------------------------                   ---------------
                                                                      OTHER(1)        RESTRICTED       SECURITIES
NAME AND PRINCIPAL                                                     ANNUAL            STOCK         UNDERLYING
POSITION(S)                      YEAR     SALARY        BONUS       COMPENSATION       AWARDS($)       OPTIONS(#)
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<S>                              <C>     <C>           <C>         <C>                <C>            <C>
Gerald D. Kelfer(3)              1998    $485,000(4)   $500,000(4)     $    --        $1,600,0002
  Chief Executive Officer        1997     383,367(3)         --         44,513(5)                        225,000
  and President
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Edwin Jacobson(6)                1998    $337,500(4)   $     --
  Chairman of the Executive      1997     325,000            --
  Committee                      1996     325,000            --
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Jonathan Fels(9)                 1998    $311,538(4)(7) $     --
  President, Avatar
  Properties Inc.
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Michael Levy(9)                  1998    $311,538(4)(7) $     --
  Executive Vice President
  and Chief Operating Officer,
  Avatar Properties Inc.
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Michael S. Rubin(9)              1998    $226,442(4)   $ 75,000(8)
  President, Avatar
  Retirement Communities,
  Inc.
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
</TABLE>
 
(1) Of the Named Executive Officers, Messrs. Kelfer and Rubin also received
    automobile allowances. Avatar also provides group life, health,
    hospitalization and medical reimbursement plans which do not discriminate in
    scope, terms or operation in favor of officers and are available to all
    full-time employees. The aggregate value of these and any additional
    perquisite and other personal benefits cannot be specifically or precisely
    ascertained but do not, in any event, exceed 10% of the total annual salary
    and bonus reported for each of the Named Executive Officers.
 
(2) On December 7, 1998, Mr. Kelfer was awarded an opportunity to receive
    100,000 Performance Conditioned Restricted Stock Units, which are subject to
    conditions of grant as well as vesting. See "Employment and Other
    Agreements" below. The dollar amount reported in the table has been
    calculated by multiplying the closing price of Avatar Common Stock on the
    date of award by 100,000. At December 31, 1998, Mr. Kelfer continued to hold
    the award, and the dollar amount calculated on such date was the same. Mr.
    Kelfer is not entitled to receive dividends on the units.
 
(3) Includes director's fees of $2,598 paid prior to Mr. Kelfer's employment as
    an executive officer. Mr. Kelfer has served as Chief Executive Officer since
    July 31, 1997, as President since February 13, 1997 and as a member of the
    Board since October 1996 and as Vice Chairman thereof since December 1996.
    See "Employment and Other Agreements" below.
 
(4) For discussion of Avatar's employment agreements with Messrs. Kelfer,
    Jacobson, Fels, Levy and Rubin, see "Employment and Other Agreements" below.
 
(5) Represents payments by Avatar of relocation expenses and temporary living
    and commutation costs aggregating $29,432 and $15,081, respectively.
 
(6) In addition to his position as Chairman of the Executive Committee, Mr.
    Jacobson served as Chief Executive Officer from February 27, 1994 to July
    31, 1997, and as President from February 27, 1994 to February 13, 1997. See
    "Employment and Other Agreements" below.
 
(7) For information with respect to transactions regarding Mr. Fels and Mr. Levy
    see "Certain Relationships and Related Transactions."
 
(8) Represents salary adjustment retroactive to October 6, 1997, date of
    employment. See "Employment and Other Agreements" below.
 
(9) Messrs. Fels, Levy and Rubin became executive officers on December 7, 1998.
 
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Option/SAR Grants in 1998
 
     During 1998, no options or SARs were granted to any Named Executive
Officer.
 
Aggregated Option Exercises in 1998 and Option Values at December 31, 1998
 
     During 1998 no options were exercised by any Named Executive Officer and no
options held by any Named Executive Officer were in-the-money at December 31,
1998.
 
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                            NUMBER OF SECURITIES
                                                           UNDERLYING UNEXERCISED
                                                                 OPTIONS AT
                                                            DECEMBER 31, 1998(#)
                                                          -------------------------
NAME                                                      EXERCISABLE/UNEXERCISABLE
- ----                                                      -------------------------
<S>                                                       <C>
Gerald D. Kelfer........................................     45,000/180,000
Edwin Jacobson..........................................                0/0
Jonathan Fels...........................................                0/0
Michael Levy............................................                0/0
Michael S. Rubin........................................                0/0
</TABLE>
 
Employment and Other Agreements
 
Agreements With Gerald Kelfer
 
     Employment
 
     Gerald Kelfer, President, Chief Executive Officer and Vice Chairman of the
Board, has an employment agreement with Avatar, pursuant to which Mr. Kelfer
currently receives an annual base salary of $490,000, with mandatory annual
increases in the amount of $20,000, and an annual bonus of $500,000. The
employment agreement provides for a five-year term, which expires on February
13, 2002.
 
     If Mr. Kelfer's employment is terminated due to his disability or death, he
or his estate will receive his accrued but unpaid base salary and a prorated
bonus through the date of termination. If Mr. Kelfer resigns without good reason
or is terminated for cause, he is entitled to receive his base salary (but not
his bonus) through the date of termination. If Mr. Kelfer resigns for good
reason or is terminated without cause, he is entitled to receive his base salary
and bonus for the balance of the term of his employment agreement.
 
     Nonqualified Stock Option
 
     Pursuant to a Nonqualified Stock Option Agreement, on February 13, 1997 Mr.
Kelfer was granted options to purchase 225,000 shares of Avatar Common Stock
under the existing Incentive Plan, which was approved by Avatar's stockholders
at the 1997 Annual Meeting, at an exercise price of $34.00 per share. Mr. Kelfer
may pay the exercise price in cash or by executing a non-recourse promissory
note. Two-fifths of the options were vested as of February 13, 1999 and an
additional one-fifth of these options will vest on each February 13 thereafter
through 2002.
 
     If Mr. Kelfer's employment is terminated due to his disability or death,
the options will remain exercisable for a period of one year following the date
of termination. If Mr. Kelfer resigns without good reason or is terminated for
cause, any unexercised options become null and void upon such termination.
Otherwise, the option will remain exercisable until February 13, 2007.
 
     Restricted Stock Unit
 
     Subject to the approval of the Amended and Restated Incentive Plan (see
"Approval of Amended and Restated 1997 Incentive and Capital Accumulation Plan")
by Avatar's stockholders, on December 7, 1998 Avatar entered into a restricted
stock unit agreement with Mr. Kelfer pursuant to which Mr. Kelfer has been
awarded an opportunity to receive 100,000 performance conditioned restricted
stock units representing 100,000 shares of Avatar Common Stock. If Avatar's
stockholders approve the Amended and Restated Incentive Plan, the actual grant
of the units is conditioned
 
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upon (i) the closing price of Avatar Common Stock being at least $25.00 per
share for 20 trading days out of 30 consecutive trading days during the period
beginning on the date immediately following stockholder approval of the Amended
and Restated Incentive Plan and ending on February 12, 2002 the ("Grant
Period"), and (ii) the continued employment of Mr. Kelfer at the time the
foregoing condition is satisfied. Any units granted to Mr. Kelfer vest in full
on February 13, 2002 or upon the occurrence of a change in control of Avatar,
provided that, in either case, Mr. Kelfer is then employed by Avatar.
 
     If Mr. Kelfer's employment is terminated due to his disability or death,
the units granted to him will vest pro rata based on the number of whole months
having elapsed during the Grant Period prior to Mr. Kelfer's disability or
death. If Mr. Kelfer resigns without good reason or is terminated for cause, all
of the units will be forfeited. Otherwise, the units immediately vest in full
upon termination of Mr. Kelfer's employment.
 
     Success Fee
 
     On December 7, 1998, Avatar entered into an agreement with Mr. Kelfer
pursuant to which he may receive a fee of up to $1 million if he is successful
in selling Avatar's Florida utilities businesses prior to December 31, 1999, for
at least a minimum specified sales price. Payment of the success fee is also
conditioned on Mr. Kelfer performing the services required of him to the
reasonable satisfaction of the Executive Committee. On April 15, 1999, the sale
transaction was consummated at a price in excess of the minimum specified in the
agreement.
 
  Employment Agreements With Edwin Jacobson
 
     On July 27, 1995, Avatar entered into an employment agreement with Mr.
Jacobson (the "1995 Agreement"), which became effective on June 16, 1997,
following the termination of the prior employment agreement dated June 15, 1992
(as amended as of March 1, 1994, the "1992 Agreement"). Pursuant to the 1995
Agreement, Mr. Jacobson continued his employment as Chairman of the Executive
Committee and President and Chief Executive Officer of Avatar and was entitled
to receive a base salary of not less than $400,000 per annum (in addition to
certain other payments) until the termination of such agreement on June 16, 2000
(unless sooner terminated in accordance with the agreement).
 
     On February 13, 1997, the 1995 Agreement was amended to modify his duties
to those of Chief Executive Officer and Chairman of the Executive Committee. On
June 16, 1997, Mr. Jacobson exercised his right under the amended 1995 Agreement
to change his duties and responsibilities, and he resigned as Chief Executive
Officer effective as of July 31, 1997. The amended 1995 Agreement was further
amended to reduce his base salary to $325,000 per annum and to eliminate
provisions for final payment and mitigation. On March 25, 1999, Mr. Jacobson
decided not to stand for re-election to the Board of Directors at the Annual
Meeting. Although he will no longer be the Chairman of the Executive Committee
or an executive officer of Avatar, he will remain an employee of Avatar, with no
change in compensation or benefits, and with such duties as reasonably may be
requested of him by Avatar.
 
     If Mr. Jacobson's employment is terminated due to his disability, death or
resignation without good reason or terminated by Avatar for cause, he or his
estate will receive his base salary through the date of termination and any
incentive compensation payable pursuant to the Awards discussed below. If Mr.
Jacobson resigns for good reason or is terminated without cause, he will be
entitled to receive his full base salary through June 6, 2000 and any incentive
compensation payable under the Awards.
 
     Pursuant to each of the 1992 Agreement and the 1995 Agreement, Mr. Jacobson
was granted an "Award" (as defined in such agreements) based upon an aggregate
of 150,000 shares and 75,000 shares, respectively, of Avatar Common Stock
(subject to adjustment in certain events). The Awards granted under the 1992
Agreement are now fully vested, and those granted under the 1995
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Agreement vest ratably during the term of such agreement. Such Awards provide
for Mr. Jacobson to receive, within ten days following June 16, 2000 (or the
termination date, if earlier), a cash payment equal to the excess of a formula
amount based upon the closing prices of Avatar Common Stock during a specified
period prior to June 16, 2000 (or the termination date, if earlier), over the
closing price of Avatar Common Stock on the date of grant of each Award,
multiplied by the number of shares which will have become vested. If Mr.
Jacobson's employment is terminated due to his disability, death or resignation
with good reason, 50% of his remaining unvested shares will vest and any
remaining unvested shares will be forfeited. If Mr. Jacobson's employment is
terminated by Avatar for cause, any unvested shares will be forfeited.
 
  Employment Agreements with Jonathan Fels and Michael Levy
 
     On December 4, 1997, Avatar acquired certain assets of Brookman-Fels, Jeff
Ian, Inc. (see "Certain Relationships and Related Transactions") and entered
into employment agreements with its principals. Jonathan Fels is employed as
President of Avatar Properties Inc. ("Properties") for a term of five years at a
base salary of $300,000 per annum, and Michael Levy is employed as Executive
Vice President and Chief Operating Officer of Properties for a term of five
years at a base salary of $300,000 per annum.
 
     Pursuant to their employment agreements Messrs. Fels and Levy were entitled
to participate in certain future real estate transactions ("carried interest").
The employment agreements with Messrs. Fels and Levy were amended as of February
19, 1999, among other things, to terminate the "carried interest" provisions, in
lieu of which each of Messrs. Fels and Levy was granted an option to purchase
50,000 shares of Avatar Common Stock. (See "Nonqualified Stock Option Agreements
with Mr. Fels, Mr. Levy and Mr. Rubin" below.)
 
     If the employment of Mr. Fels or Mr. Levy, as the case may be, is
terminated due to disability, death or resignation without good reason or
terminated by Avatar for cause, then he or his estate (in the event of his
death) will receive his accrued but unpaid base salary through the date of
termination. If Mr. Fels or Mr. Levy resigns for good reason or is terminated
without cause, he is entitled to receive his base salary through the later of
June 4, 2000 or six months from the date of termination.
 
  Employment Agreement with Michael S. Rubin
 
     On October 3, 1997, Avatar acquired certain assets of Hilcoast Development
Corp. (the Developer of the Century Village concept of active adult communities)
and employed its principal officers. As of October 6, 1997, Avatar entered into
an employment agreement with Michael S. Rubin, pursuant to which Mr. Rubin was
employed as President of Avatar Retirement Communities, Inc. for a term of two
years at a base salary of $200,000 per annum in addition to the grant of stock
appreciation rights ("SAR's") in Avatar Retirement Communities. As of February
19, 1999 the employment agreement was amended to, among other things: extend the
term of employment to October 6, 2002; ratify a salary adjustment to $275,000
retroactive to October 6, 1997; and terminate the SAR's, in lieu of which Mr.
Rubin was granted options to purchase 50,000 shares of Avatar Common Stock. (See
"Nonqualified Stock Option Agreements with Mr. Fels, Mr. Levy and Mr. Rubin"
below.)
 
     If Mr. Rubin's employment is terminated due to his disability or death, he
or his estate will receive his accrued but unpaid base salary through the date
of termination. If Mr. Rubin resigns without good reason or is terminated for
cause, he is entitled to receive his base salary for a period of six months from
the date of termination. If Mr. Rubin resigns for good reason or is terminated
without cause, he is entitled to receive his base salary through the later of
April 3, 2000 or six months from the date of termination.
 
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  Nonqualified Stock Option Agreements with Mr. Fels, Mr. Levy and Mr. Rubin
 
     Pursuant to separate nonqualified stock option agreements with Messrs.
Fels, Levy and Rubin, each of them was granted options to purchase 50,000 shares
of Avatar Common Stock under the existing Incentive Plan, at an exercise price
of $25.00 per share. One-third of the options granted to each of Messrs. Fels,
Levy and Rubin vest on February 19, 2000 and on each of the next two
anniversaries thereof.
 
     If the employment of Messrs. Fels, Levy or Rubin, as the case may be, is
terminated due to his disability or death, the options will remain exercisable
until the later of one year following the date of termination or the fifth
anniversary of the date he commenced employment with Avatar. If Messrs. Fels,
Levy or Rubin resigns without good reason or is terminated for cause, any
unexercised options become null and void upon such termination. Otherwise, the
options will remain exercisable until February 13, 2007.
 
Executive Committee, Incentive Plan Committee and Board of Directors Report on
Executive Compensation
 
     The Executive Committee of Avatar's Board of Directors traditionally
performs the functions of a compensation committee, including the review and
approval of compensation and terms of employment for all officers and those
employees of Avatar and its subsidiaries whose base salaries exceed $100,000 per
annum. The compensation arrangements regarding any executive officer who is also
a member of the Executive Committee have been acted on and approved by the Board
of Directors (with such member not participating) or a committee thereof
composed of outside directors.
 
     Avatar's executive compensation is intended to reward, retain and motivate
management. In determining salary levels for the executive officers, primary
consideration is given to each executive's level of responsibility and
individual performance, as well as compensation generally received by executives
in the real estate business.
 
     In 1997, Avatar established the 1997 Incentive and Capital Accumulation
Plan (the "Incentive Plan"), which is administered by the Incentive Plan
Committee of the Board of Directors (a committee of outside directors). The
Incentive Plan is intended to provide incentives which will attract and retain
highly competent persons as key employees of Avatar and its subsidiaries, by
providing them with opportunities to acquire shares of stock or to receive
monetary payments based on the value of such shares pursuant to the Benefits
described therein. The Incentive Plan also is intended to assist in aligning the
interests of Avatar's key employees with those of its stockholders.
 
     In the third quarter of 1997, Avatar began assembling an executive
management team in order to implement Avatar's new business strategy, which
concentrates on the development and management of active adult communities,
upscale custom and semi-custom homes and communities, and commercial and
industrial properties. It was contemplated at the time that equity incentives
would be provided to certain of the executives in the future.
 
     In 1998, Avatar retained a benefits consulting firm to review Avatar's
executive compensation policies. The Board of Directors and the Incentive Plan
Committee reviewed the consulting firm's recommendation and analyses, which
included comparisons to other public companies in the real estate development
business, the recommendation of Avatar's CEO, and relevant accounting and
federal tax considerations. Following this study, it was determined that
additional incentives based on the value of Avatar's common stock were
appropriate for key executives. In December 1998, the Incentive Plan Committee
considered stock option grants to certain executives and key employees but
deferred action at that time pending the negotiation and resolution of
amendments to the employment arrangements with certain executives and key
employees. When these arrangements were completed in early 1999, the executives
were granted options to purchase an aggregate of 175,000 shares.
 
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     In order to maintain Avatar's ability to provide incentives to management,
in December 1998, the Incentive Plan Committee authorized an amendment and
restatement of the Incentive Plan to, among other things, increase by 325,000
the number of shares of Avatar's common stock that may be subject to Benefits
granted under the plan. The amendment and restatement is subject to the approval
of stockholders. See "Approval of Amended and Restated 1997 Incentive and
Capital Accumulation Plan."
 
CEO Compensation
 
     In 1998, Gerald D. Kelfer, Avatar's CEO, was paid salary and a bonus in
accordance with terms of his employment agreement, which had been authorized by
the Incentive Plan Committee and ratified by the Board of Directors in 1997. The
amounts paid in 1998 were not discretionary or otherwise related to the
financial performance of Avatar.
 
     In December 1998, the Incentive Plan Committee awarded Mr. Kelfer an
opportunity to receive 100,000 Performance Conditioned Restricted Stock Units
under the amended and restated Incentive Plan. See "Employment and Other
Agreements -- Agreements with Gerald Kelfer." In awarding these units, the
Incentive Plan Committee considered, among other things, that: the incentive
arrangements are comparable to those of CEO's in similar companies; Mr. Kelfer's
existing stock options are substantially out-of-the-money; he has a limited
equity interest in Avatar; and the normal vesting date of the restricted stock
units (February 13, 2002), would be subject to his continued employment.
Moreover, the grant of the units is conditioned on stockholder approval of the
amended and restated Incentive Plan. The agreement also provides that, unless
Avatar's common stock attains a market price of at least $25 per share for 20
trading days out of 30 consecutive trading days, Mr. Kelfer will not be entitled
to receive any of the units. Avatar's stock price on the date of the award was
$16 per share.
 
     In December 1999, Avatar's Board of Directors (without Mr. Kelfer)
authorized the payment of a fee to Mr. Kelfer of an amount up to $1 million if
he is successful in selling Avatar's Florida utilities businesses for a
specified minimum sales price prior to December 31, 1999. See "Employment and
Other Agreements -- Agreements with Gerald Kelfer." Payment of the success fee
is separate from the compensation payable under his employment agreement and is
also conditioned on Mr. Kelfer performing the services required of him to the
reasonable satisfaction of the Executive Committee.
 
     The Board considered a number of factors in determining the success fee
including the uniqueness and importance of the sale of these businesses to
Avatar's long-term business plans and the significance of Mr. Kelfer's role in
the sale process. Furthermore, the Board considered the analyses of a benefits
consulting firm retained by Avatar concerning precedents for the payment of this
type of fee as well as the reasonableness of the amount of the fee and the
conditions to its payment.
 
<TABLE>
<S>                           <C>                                      <C>
March 25, 1999                EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE                      INCENTIVE PLAN COMMITTEE

                              Edwin Jacobson, Chairman                 Leon T. Kendall, Chairman
                              Gerald D. Kelfer                         Milton Dresner
                              Leon Levy                                Kenneth T. Rosen
                              Fred Stanton Smith

                              BOARD OF DIRECTORS
                              (other than Gerald D. Kelfer)

                              Leon Levy, Chairman                      Gernot H. Reiners
                              Milton Dresner                           Kenneth T. Rosen
                              Edwin Jacobson                           Fred Stanton Smith
                              Leon T. Kendall                          Henry King Stanford
                              Martin Meyerson
</TABLE>
 
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Compensation Committee Interlocks and Insider Participation
 
     The members of the Executive Committee are Messrs. Jacobson, Kelfer, Levy
and Smith. Mr. Jacobson serves as Chairman of the Executive Committee; Mr. Levy
serves as Chairman of the Board of Directors; and Mr. Kelfer serves as Vice
Chairman of the Board of Directors, Chief Executive Officer and President. The
members of the Incentive Plan Committee are Messrs. Dresner, Kendall and Rosen.
 
Performance Graph
 
     The following graph provides a comparison of the cumulative total returns
based on an investment of $100 after the close of the market on December 31,
1993 in Avatar's Common Stock, the NASDAQ Market Index and a composite peer
group index (the "Peer Index") for the periods indicated, in each case assuming
reinvestment of any dividends. The cumulative total returns for the NASDAQ
Market Index were prepared by Media General Financial Services, Inc. ("Media
General"). The Peer Index is a combination of the Real Estate Subdividers and
Developers Index and the Water Utilities Index, each of which is published by
Media General. The cumulative total returns for each index were prepared by
Media General and were combined by Avatar to form the Peer Index based on the
relative percentage of Avatar's assets applicable to each of Avatar's lines of
business (i.e., real estate and water utilities) at the end of each year
depicted in the graph.
 
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                           Avatar
Measurement Period                                        Holdings
(Fiscal Year Covered)                                       Inc.             NASDAQ          Peer Index
<S>                                                        <C>               <C>               <C>
1993                                                        100.00            100.00            100.00
1994                                                        113.01            104.99             95.62
1995                                                        104.09            136.18            113.47
1996                                                         95.17            169.23            134.68
1997                                                         84.57            207.00            183.01
1998                                                         47.58            291.96            174.81
</TABLE>
 
Certain Relationships and Related Transactions
 
     On January 28, 1998, Leon Levy, Avatar's Chairman of the Board, purchased
$20,000,000 aggregate principal amount of Avatar's 7% Notes in an underwritten
public offering of the 7% Notes. In connection with his purchase, Avatar agreed
to provide Mr. Levy with certain registration rights, with respect to the 7%
Notes issued to Mr. Levy, any shares of Common Stock issued upon conversion of
such 7% Notes and certain shares of Common Stock owned by him.
 
     On December 4, 1997, Avatar acquired certain assets of Brookman-Fels, Jeff
Ian, Inc. ("Brookman-Fels"), a regional developer of custom and semi-custom
homes and communities in
 
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South Florida, and entered into employment agreements with its three principals.
Two of the principals, Jonathan Fels and Michael Levy, each own 45% of
Brookman-Fels. The purchase price is payable in installments from February 1,
1998 through November 1, 2002. During 1998, Avatar made payments, including
interest, of $800,000, and the outstanding principal balance was $2,380,000 at
December 31, 1998.
 
     During 1997, a subsidiary of Avatar entered into joint venture and
construction management agreements with a subsidiary of Brookman-Fels for
development of certain parcels of Avatar's Harbor Islands property. On June 1,
1998, Avatar's subsidiary acquired certain assets from its joint venture partner
for a purchase price of $1,995,000, and the joint venture and construction
management agreements were modified to provide for Avatar's subsidiary to manage
construction at Harbor Islands.
 
     On June 1, 1998, a newly-formed subsidiary of Avatar and a subsidiary of
Brookman-Fels formed a joint venture and entered into a construction management
agreement for Presidential Estates, a South Florida residential community. The
purchase price of $588,000 for a 49% interest in the joint venture and 50% of
the profits is represented by a promissory note, bearing interest at 8% per
annum, payable, together with accrued interest, upon the closing of agreed upon
units. Avatar's subsidiary manages construction at Presidential Estates.
 
             2. APPROVAL OF AMENDED AND RESTATED 1997 INCENTIVE AND
                           CAPITAL ACCUMULATION PLAN
 
  Background
 
     In 1998 Avatar retained a benefits consulting firm to review Avatar's
executive compensation policies. The Board of Directors and the Incentive Plan
Committee reviewed the consulting firm's recommendation and analyses, the
recommendation of Avatar's CEO, and relevant accounting and federal tax
consequences. Following this study, it was determined that additional incentives
based on the value of Avatar's Common Stock were appropriate for key executives.
 
     On December 7, 1998, the Incentive Plan Committee adopted, and the Board of
Directors ratified, subject to approval by the stockholders at the Annual
Meeting, an Amended and Restated 1997 Incentive and Capital Accumulation Plan
(the "Amended and Restated Incentive Plan"). Under the existing Incentive Plan,
the Benefits outstanding as of the record date represent the maximum aggregate
number of shares of Avatar Common Stock permitted under the existing Incentive
Plan. The proposed amendments to the existing Incentive Plan would, among other
things, increase the aggregate number of shares of Avatar's common stock that
may be subject to Benefits (as defined in the Incentive Plan) granted under the
Incentive Plan from 425,000 shares to 750,000 shares and would change the
maximum individual limit to 350,000 shares.
 
     The Amended and Restated Incentive Plan is intended to provide incentives
which will attract and retain highly competent persons as key employees of
Avatar and its subsidiaries, by providing them with opportunities to acquire
shares of stock or to receive monetary payments based on the value of such
shares pursuant to the Benefits described herein. In addition, the Amended and
Restated Incentive Plan is intended to assist in aligning the interests of
Avatar's key employees with those of its stockholders.
 
     The following summary describes the material features of the proposed
Amended and Restated Incentive Plan but is not intended to be complete and is
qualified in its entirety by reference to the copy of the Amended and Restated
Incentive Plan that is annexed to this Proxy Statement as Annex A and has been
marked to indicate changes to the Incentive Plan as currently in effect. The
locations of proposed deletions are indicated by carats ""' and proposed
additions are indicated as underlined.
 
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  Shares Available
 
     The Amended and Restated Incentive Plan makes available for Benefits (as
defined below) an aggregate of 750,000 shares of Avatar Common Stock, subject to
certain adjustments. During the term of the Plan, the maximum number of shares
of Avatar Common Stock with respect to which Benefits may be granted (or
measured) to any individual participant may not exceed 350,000. Any shares of
Common Stock subject to a stock option or stock appreciation right which for any
reason is cancelled or terminated without having been exercised and, subject to
limited exceptions, any shares subject to stock awards, performance awards or
stock units which are forfeited, any shares subject to performance awards
settled in cash or any shares delivered to Avatar as part or full payment for
the exercise of a stock option or stock appreciation right, shall again be
available for Benefits under the Amended and Restated Incentive Plan.
 
  Administration
 
     The Amended and Restated Incentive Plan provides for administration by a
committee of the Board of Directors or a subcommittee of a committee of the
Board (the "Committee"), which shall be comprised, unless otherwise determined
by the Board, solely of not less than two members who shall be (i) "Non-Employee
Directors" within the meaning of Rule 16b-3(b)(3) (or any successor rule)
promulgated under the Securities Exchange Act of 1934, as amended, and (ii)
"outside directors" within the meaning of Treasury Regulation
sec. 1.162-27(e)(3) under Section 162(m) of the Internal Revenue Code of 1986,
as amended (the "Code"). The Committee is authorized, subject to the provisions
of the Amended and Restated Incentive Plan, to establish such rules and
regulations as it deems necessary for the proper administration of the Amended
and Restated Incentive Plan and to make such determinations and interpretations
and to take such action in connection with the Amended and Restated Incentive
Plan and any Benefits granted as it deems necessary or advisable. Thus, among
the Committee's powers are the authority to select officers and other key
employees of Avatar and its subsidiaries to receive Benefits, and to determine
the form, amount and other terms and conditions of Benefits. The Committee also
has the power to modify or waive restrictions on Benefits, to amend Benefits and
to grant extensions and accelerations of Benefits.
 
  Eligibility for Participation
 
     Key employees of Avatar or any of its subsidiaries are eligible to
participate in the Amended and Restated Incentive Plan. The selection of
participants from eligible key employees is within the discretion of the
Committee. Currently, 18 key employees are eligible to participate in the
Incentive Plan.
 
  Types of Benefits
 
     The Amended and Restated Incentive Plan provides for the grant of any or
all of the following types of benefits: (1) stock options, including incentive
stock options and non-qualified stock options; (2) stock appreciation rights;
(3) stock awards; (4) performance awards; and (5) stock units (collectively,
"Benefits"). Benefits may be granted singly, in combination, or in tandem as
determined by the Committee. Stock awards, performance awards and stock units
may, as determined by the Committee in its discretion, constitute
Performance-Based Awards, as described below.
 
  Stock Options
 
     Under the Amended and Restated Incentive Plan, the Committee may grant
awards in the form of options to purchase shares of Avatar Common Stock. Options
may either be incentive stock options, qualifying for special tax treatment, or
non-qualified options; however, no incentive stock option shall be issued to a
participant in tandem with a non-qualified stock option. The Committee
 
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will, with regard to each stock option, determine the number of shares subject
to the option, the manner and time of the option's exercise (but in no event
later than ten years after the date of grant) and vesting, and the exercise
price per share of stock subject to the option; however, the exercise price
shall not be less than 100% of the fair market value of the Avatar Common Stock
on the date the stock option is granted (the "Fair Market Value"). The exercise
price may be paid in cash or, in the discretion of the Committee, by the
delivery of shares of Avatar Common Stock then owned by the participant, by the
withholding of shares of Avatar Common Stock for which a stock option is
exercisable, by delivering to the Company a promissory note (or other form of
indebtedness) on such terms and conditions as the Committee shall determine in
its sole discretion at the date of grant, or by a combination of these methods.
In the discretion of the Committee, payment may also be made by delivering a
properly executed exercise notice to Avatar together with a copy of irrevocable
instructions to a broker to deliver promptly to Avatar the amount of sale or
loan proceeds to pay the exercise price. The Committee may prescribe any other
method of paying the exercise price that it determines to be consistent with
applicable law and the purpose of the Incentive Plan. In determining which
methods a participant may utilize to pay the exercise price, the Committee may
consider such factors as it determines are appropriate.
 
  Stock Appreciation Rights (SARs)
 
     The Amended and Restated Incentive Plan authorizes the Committee to grant
an SAR either in tandem with a stock option or independent of a stock option. An
SAR is a right to receive a payment, in cash, Avatar Common Stock, or a
combination thereof, equal to the excess of (x) the Fair Market Value, or other
specified valuation (which shall not be greater than the Fair Market Value), of
a specified number of shares of Avatar Common Stock on the date the right is
exercised over (y) the fair market value, or other specified valuation (which
shall not be less than Fair Market Value), of such shares of Avatar Common Stock
on the date the right is granted, all as determined by the Committee. Each SAR
shall be subject to such terms and conditions as the Committee shall impose from
time to time.
 
  Stock Awards
 
     The Committee may, in its discretion, grant Stock Awards (which may include
mandatory payment of bonus incentive compensation in stock) consisting of Avatar
Common Stock issued or transferred to participants with or without other
payments therefor. Stock Awards may be subject to such terms and conditions as
the Committee determines appropriate, including, without limitation,
restrictions on the sale or other disposition of such shares, the right of the
Company to reacquire such shares for no consideration upon termination of the
participant's employment within specified periods, and may constitute
Performance-Based Awards, as described below. The Stock Award shall specify
whether the participant shall have, with respect to the shares of Avatar Common
Stock subject to a Stock Award, all of the rights of a holder of shares of
Avatar Common Stock, including the right to receive dividends and to vote the
shares.
 
  Performance Awards
 
     The Amended and Restated Incentive Plan allows for the grant of performance
awards which may take the form of shares of Avatar Common Stock or stock units,
or any combination thereof and which may constitute Performance-Based Awards.
Such awards will be contingent upon the attainment over a period to be
determined by the Committee of certain performance targets. The length of the
performance period, the performance targets to be achieved and the measure of
whether and to what degree such targets have been achieved will be determined by
the Committee. Payment of earned performance awards will be made in accordance
with terms and conditions prescribed or authorized by the Committee. The
participant may elect to defer, or the Committee may require the deferral of,
the receipt of performance awards upon such terms as the Committee deems
appropriate.
 
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  Stock Units
 
     The Committee may, in its discretion, grant Stock Units to participants,
which may constitute Performance-Based Awards. A "Stock Unit" means a notional
account representing one share of Avatar Common Stock. The Committee determines
the criteria for the vesting of Stock Units and whether a participant granted a
Stock Unit shall be entitled to Dividend Equivalent Rights (as defined in the
Incentive Plan). Upon vesting of a Stock Unit, unless the Committee has
determined to defer payment with respect to such unit or a participant has
elected to defer payment, shares of Avatar Common Stock representing the Stock
Units will be distributed to the participant (unless the Committee, with the
consent of the participant, provides for the payment of the Stock Units in cash,
or partly in cash and partly in shares of Avatar Common Stock, equal to the
value of the shares of Avatar Common Stock which would otherwise be distributed
to the participant).
 
  Performance-Based Awards
 
     Certain Benefits granted under the Amended and Restated Incentive Plan may
be granted in a manner such that the Benefit qualifies for the performance-based
compensation exemption to Section 162(m) of the Code ("Performance-Based
Awards"). As determined by the Committee in its sole discretion, either the
granting or vesting of such Performance-Based Awards will be based upon one or
more of the following factors: net sales, pre-tax income before allocation of
corporate overhead and bonus, budget, earnings per share, net income, division,
group or corporate financial goals, return on stockholders' equity, return on
assets, attainment of strategic and operational initiatives, appreciation in
and/or maintenance of the price of the Avatar Common Stock or any other
publicly-traded securities of Avatar, market share, gross profits, earnings
before interest and taxes, earnings before interest, taxes, depreciation and
amortization, economic value-added models and comparisons with various stock
market indices, reductions in costs, or any combination of the foregoing.
 
     With respect to Performance-Based Awards, the Committee shall establish in
writing, (x) the goals applicable to a given period and such performance goals
shall state, in terms of an objective formula or standard, the method for
computing the amount of compensation payable to the participant if such
performance goals are obtained and (y) the individual employees or class of
employees to which such performance-based goals apply no later than 90 days
after the commencement of such period (but in no event after 25% of such period
has elapsed). No Performance-Based Award shall be payable to, or vest with
respect to, as the case may be, any participant for a given fiscal period until
the Committee certifies in writing that the objective performance goals (and any
other material terms) applicable to such period have been satisfied.
 
  Other Terms of Benefits
 
     The Amended and Restated Incentive Plan provides that Benefits shall not be
transferable other than by will or the laws of descent and distribution. The
Committee shall determine the treatment to be afforded to a participant in the
event of termination of employment for any reason including death, disability or
retirement. Notwithstanding the foregoing, other than with respect to incentive
stock options, the Committee may permit the transferability of an award by a
participant to members of the participant's immediate family or trusts for the
benefit of such person or family partnerships.
 
     Upon the grant of any Benefit under the Amended and Restated Incentive
Plan, the Committee may, by way of an agreement with the participant, establish
such other terms, conditions, restrictions and/or limitations covering the grant
of the Benefit as are not inconsistent with the Amended and Restated Incentive
Plan. No Benefit shall be granted under the Amended and Restated Incentive Plan
after February 13, 2007. The Committee reserves the right to amend, suspend or
terminate the Amended and Restated Incentive Plan at any time, subject to the
rights of participants with respect to any outstanding Benefits. No amendment of
the plan may be made without approval of the stockholders of Avatar if the
amendment will: (i) disqualify any incentive stock options granted
 
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under the plan; (ii) increase the total number of shares which may be issued
under the plan; (iii) increase the maximum number of shares with respect to
stock options, SAR and other Benefits that may be granted to any individual
under the plan; (iv) change the types of factors on which Performance-Based
Awards are to be based under the plan; or (v) modify the requirements as to
eligibility for participation in the plan.
 
     The Amended and Restated Incentive Plan contains provisions for equitable
adjustment of Benefits in the event of a merger, consolidation, reorganization,
recapitalization, stock dividend, stock split, reverse stock split, split up,
spinoff, combination of shares, exchange of shares, dividend in kind or other
like change in capital structure or distribution (other than normal cash
dividends) to stockholders of Avatar. The Amended and Restated Incentive Plan
contains provisions for the acceleration of exercisability or vesting of
Benefits in the event of a Change in Control of Avatar, including the cash
settlement of such Benefits.
 
  Certain Federal Income Tax Consequences
 
     The statements in the following paragraphs of the principal federal income
tax consequences of Benefits under the Amended and Restated Incentive Plan are
based on statutory authority and judicial and administrative interpretations, as
of the date of this Proxy Statement, which are subject to change at any time
(possibly with retroactive effect). The law is technical and complex, and the
discussion below represents only a general summary.
 
     Incentive Stock Options.  Incentive stock options ("ISOs") granted under
the Amended and Restated Incentive Plan are intended to meet the definitional
requirements of Section 422(b) of the Code for "incentive stock options."
 
     An employee who receives an ISO does not recognize any taxable income upon
the grant of such ISO. Similarly, the exercise of an ISO generally does not give
rise to federal income tax to the employee, provided that (i) the federal
"alternative minimum tax," which depends on the employee's particular tax
situation, does not apply and (ii) the employee is employed by Avatar from the
date of grant of the option until three months prior to the exercise thereof,
except where such employment terminates by reason of disability (where the three
month period is extended to one year) or death (where this requirement does not
apply). If an employee exercises an ISO after these requisite periods, the ISO
will be treated as an NSO (as defined below) and will be subject to the rules
set forth below under the caption "Non-Qualified Stock Options and Stock
Appreciation Rights."
 
     Further, if after exercising an ISO, an employee disposes of the Avatar
Common Stock so acquired more than two years from the date of grant and more
than one year from the date of transfer of the Avatar Common Stock pursuant to
the exercise of such ISO (the "applicable holding period"), the employee will
generally recognize a long-term capital gain or loss equal to the difference, if
any, between the amount received for the shares and the exercise price. If,
however, an employee does not hold the shares so acquired for the applicable
holding period -- thereby making a "disqualifying disposition" -- the employee
would recognize ordinary income equal to the excess of the fair market value of
the shares at the time the ISO was exercised over the exercise price and the
balance, if any, income would be long-term capital gain (provided the holding
period for the shares exceeded one year and the employee held such shares as a
capital asset at such time). If the disqualifying disposition is a sale or
exchange that would permit a loss to be recognized under the Code (were a loss
in fact to be realized), and the sales proceeds are less than the fair market
value of the shares on the date of exercise, the employee's ordinary income
therefrom would be limited to the gain (if any) realized on the sale.
 
     An employee who exercises an ISO by delivering Avatar Common Stock
previously acquired pursuant to the exercise of another ISO is treated as making
a "disqualifying disposition" of such Avatar Common Stock if such shares are
delivered before the expiration of their applicable holding period. Upon the
exercise of an ISO with previously acquired shares as to which no disqualifying
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disposition occurs, despite some uncertainty, it appears that the employee would
not recognize gain or loss with respect to such previously acquired shares.
 
     Avatar will not be allowed a federal income tax deduction upon the grant or
exercise of an ISO or the disposition, after the applicable holding period, of
the Avatar Common Stock acquired upon exercise of an ISO. In the event of a
disqualifying disposition, Avatar generally will be entitled to a deduction in
an amount equal to the ordinary income included by the employee, provided that
such amount constitutes an ordinary and necessary business expense to Avatar and
is reasonable and the limitations of Sections 280G and 162(m) of the Code
(discussed below) do not apply.
 
     Non-Qualified Stock Options and Stock Appreciation Rights.  Non-qualified
stock options ("NSOs") granted under the Amended and Restated Incentive Plan are
options that do not qualify as ISOs. An employee who receives an NSO or an SAR
will not recognize any taxable income upon the grant of such NSO or SAR.
However, the employee generally will recognize ordinary income upon exercise of
an NSO in an amount equal to the excess of the fair market value of the shares
of Avatar Common Stock at the time of exercise over the exercise price.
Similarly, upon the receipt of cash or shares pursuant to the exercise of an
SAR, the individual generally will recognize ordinary income in an amount equal
to the sum of the cash and the fair market value of the shares received.
 
     As a result of Section 16(b) of the Exchange Act, under certain
circumstances, the timing of income recognition may be deferred (generally for
up to six months (the "Deferral Period")) for any individual who is an officer
or director of Avatar or a beneficial owner of more than ten percent (10%) of
any class of equity securities of Avatar. Absent a Section 83(b) election (as
described below under "Other Awards"), recognition of income by the individual
will be deferred until the expiration of the Deferral Period, if any.
 
     The ordinary income recognized with respect to the receipt of shares or
cash upon exercise of an NSO or an SAR will be subject to both wage withholding
and other employment taxes. In addition to the customary methods of satisfying
the withholding tax liabilities that arise upon the exercise of an SAR for
shares or upon the exercise of an NSO, Avatar may satisfy the liability in whole
or in part by withholding shares of Avatar Common Stock from those that
otherwise would be issuable to the individual or by the employee tendering other
shares owned by him or her, valued at their fair market value as of the date
that the tax withholding obligation arises.
 
     A federal income tax deduction generally will be allowed to Avatar in an
amount equal to the ordinary income included by the individual with respect to
his or her NSO or SAR, provided that such amount constitutes an ordinary and
necessary business expense to Avatar and is reasonable and the limitations of
Sections 280G and 162(m) of the Code do not apply.
 
     If an individual exercises an NSO by delivering shares of Avatar Common
Stock, other than shares previously acquired pursuant to the exercise of an ISO
which is treated as a "disqualifying disposition" as described above, the
individual will not recognize gain or loss with respect to the exchange of such
shares, even if their then fair market value is different from the individual's
tax basis. The individual, however, will be taxed as described above with
respect to the exercise of the NSO as if he or she had paid the exercise price
in cash, and Avatar likewise generally will be entitled to an equivalent tax
deduction.
 
     Other Awards.  With respect to other Benefits under the Amended and
Restated Incentive Plan that are settled either in cash or in shares of Avatar
Common Stock that are either transferable or not subject to a substantial risk
of forfeiture (as defined in the Code and the regulations thereunder), employees
generally will recognize ordinary income equal to the amount of cash or the fair
market value of the Avatar Common Stock received.
 
     With respect to Benefits under the Amended and Restated Incentive Plan that
are settled in shares of Avatar Common Stock that are restricted to
transferability or subject to a substantial risk of forfeiture -- absent a
written election pursuant to Section 83(b) of the Code filed with the Internal
Revenue Service within 30 days after the date of transfer of such shares
pursuant to the award (a
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"Section 83(b) election") -- an individual will recognize ordinary income at the
earlier of the time at which (i) the shares become transferable or (ii) the
restrictions that impose a substantial risk of forfeiture of such shares lapse,
in an amount equal to the excess of the fair market value (on such date) of such
shares over the price paid for the award, if any. If a Section 83(b) election is
made, the individual will recognize ordinary income, as of the transfer date, in
an amount equal to the excess of the fair market value of the Avatar Common
Stock as of that date over the price paid for such award, if any.
 
     The ordinary income recognized with respect to the receipt of cash, shares
of Avatar Common Stock or other property under the Amended and Restated
Incentive Plan will be subject to both wage withholding and other employment
taxes.
 
     Avatar generally will be allowed a deduction for federal income tax
purposes in an amount equal to the ordinary income recognized by the employee,
provided that such amount constitutes an ordinary and necessary business expense
and is reasonable and the limitations of Sections 280G and 162(m) of the Code do
not apply.
 
     Dividends and Dividend Equivalents.  To the extent Benefits under the
Amended and Restated Incentive Plan earn dividends or dividend equivalents,
whether paid currently or credited to an account established under the Amended
and Restated Incentive Plan, an individual generally will recognize ordinary
income with respect to such dividends or dividend equivalents.
 
     Change in Control.  In general, if the total amount of payments to an
individual that are contingent upon a "change of control" of Avatar (as defined
in Section 280G of the Code), including payments under the Amended and Restated
Incentive Plan that vest upon a "change in control," equals or exceeds three
times the individual's "base amount" (generally, such individual's average
annual compensation for the five calendar years preceding the change in
control), then, subject to certain exceptions, the payments may be treated as
"parachute payments" under the Code, in which case a portion of such payments
would be non-deductible to Avatar and the individual would be subject to a 20%
excise tax on such portion of the payments.
 
     Certain Limitations on Deductibility of Executive Compensation.  With
certain exceptions, Section 162(m) of the Code denies a deduction to publicly
held corporations for compensation paid to certain executive officers in excess
of $1 million per executive per taxable year (including any deduction with
respect to the exercise of an NSO or SAR or the disqualifying disposition of
stock purchased pursuant to an ISO). One such exception applies to certain
performance-based compensation provided that such compensation has been approved
by stockholders in a separate vote and certain other requirements are met. If
approved by its stockholders, Avatar believes that Stock Options, SARs and
Performance-Based Awards granted under the Amended and Restated Incentive Plan
should qualify for the performance-based compensation exception to Section
162(m).
 
  Other Information
 
     The closing price of a share of Avatar Common Stock on April 22, 1999 was
$18 1/4 per share.
 
     The Amended and Restated Incentive Plan is being submitted for stockholder
approval in accordance with the laws of the State of Delaware. The favorable
vote of a majority of the shares of Avatar Common Stock represented and entitled
to vote at the Annual Meeting is required for approval of the Amended and
Restated Incentive Plan. If the Amended and Restated Incentive Plan is not
approved by the stockholders, any Benefits granted under the Amended and
Restated Incentive Plan shall not become effective and shall be cancelled.
 
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Board Recommendation
 
     The Board of Directors believes that the Amended and Restated Incentive
Plan is in the best interest of Avatar and its stockholders and therefore
recommends that the stockholders vote FOR the approval of the Amended and
Restated Incentive Plan.
 
     THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS RECOMMENDS THAT THE ACCOMPANYING PROXY BE VOTED FOR
SUCH APPROVAL AND IT IS INTENDED THAT THE PROXIES WILL BE VOTED IN SUCH MANNER
UNLESS OTHERWISE DIRECTED.
 
  New Plan Benefits
 
     The following awards of Benefits will not be effective unless the
stockholders approve the Amended and Restated Incentive Plan at this Annual
Meeting.
 
                      Amended and Restated Incentive Plan
 
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                                                       NUMBER OF
           NAME AND POSITION                           DOLLAR VALUE ($)                  UNITS
           -----------------                           ----------------                ---------
<S>                                                    <C>                             <C>
Gerald D. Kelfer
  Chief Executive Officer and
  President                                             1,600,000  (1)                 100,000 (1)
Edwin Jacobson
  Chairman of the Executive
  Committee                                                 --                            --
Jonathan Fels
  President, Avatar
  Properties Inc.                                           --                            --
Michael Levy
  Executive Vice President
  and Chief Operating
  Officer, Avatar Properties
  Inc.                                                      --                            --
Michael S. Rubin
  President, Avatar
  Retirement Communities,
  Inc.                                                      --                            --
Executive Officer Group                                 1,600,000                      100,000
Non-Executive Officer Director Group                        --                            --
Non-Executive Officer Employee Group                        --     (2)                   5,000 (2)
</TABLE>
 
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     (1) On December 7, 1998, Mr. Kelfer was awarded an opportunity to receive
100,000 Performance Conditioned Restricted Stock Units, which are subject to
conditions of grant as well as vesting. See "Employment and Other Agreements"
above. The dollar amount reported in the table has been calculated by
multiplying the closing price of Avatar Common Stock on the date of the award by
100,000.
 
     (2) A non-executive officer was granted 5,000 options at an exercise price
of $25 per share.
 
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                           3. APPOINTMENT OF AUDITORS
 
     Ernst & Young LLP, independent accountants, audited the financial
statements of Avatar for the fiscal year ended December 31, 1998. Such audit
services consisted of the firm's examination of and report on the annual
financial statements and assistance and consultation in connection with filings
with the Securities and Exchange Commission and other matters.
 
     Representatives of Ernst & Young LLP are expected to attend the Annual
Meeting, will have the opportunity to make a statement if they desire to do so
and will be available to respond to appropriate questions.
 
     Based upon the recommendation of the Audit Committee, and subject to
approval by the stockholders, the Board of Directors has appointed Ernst & Young
LLP, independent accountants, as auditors of Avatar for the fiscal year ending
December 31, 1999. Approval by the stockholders will require the affirmative
vote of a majority of the votes present at the meeting in person or by proxy and
entitled to be cast. The Board of Directors recommends that the accompanying
proxy be voted FOR such approval and it is intended that the proxies will be
voted in such manner unless otherwise directed.
 
            STOCKHOLDERS' PROPOSALS AND NOMINATIONS OF BOARD MEMBERS
 
     If a stockholder intends to present a proposal for action at the 2000
Annual Meeting and wishes to have such proposal considered for inclusion in
Avatar's proxy materials in reliance on Rule 14a-8 under the Securities Exchange
Act of 1934, the proposal must be submitted in writing and received by the
Secretary of the Company by December 29, 1999. Such proposal must also meet the
other requirements of the rules of the Securities and Exchange Commission
relating to stockholders' proposals.
 
     Avatar's By-Laws establish an advance notice procedure with regard to
certain matters, including stockholder proposals and nominations of individuals
for election to the Board of Directors. In general, notice of a stockholder
proposal or a director nomination for an annual meeting must be received by
Avatar not less than 60 days nor more than 90 days prior to the anniversary date
of the preceding annual meeting of stockholders and must contain specified
information and conform to certain requirements, as set forth in the By-Laws. If
the chairman at any stockholders' meeting determines that a stockholder proposal
or director nomination was not made in accordance with the By-Laws, Avatar may
disregard such proposal or nomination.
 
     In addition, if a stockholder submits a proposal outside of Rule 14a-8 for
the 2000 Annual Meeting, and the proposal fails to comply with the advance
notice procedure prescribed by the By-Laws, then Avatar's proxy may confer
discretionary authority on the persons being appointed as proxies on behalf of
the Board of Directors to vote on the proposal. Proposals and nominations should
be addressed to the Secretary of Avatar, Juanita I. Kerrigan, Avatar Holdings
Inc., 201 Alhambra Circle, Coral Gables, Florida 33134.
 
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                                 SECTION 16(a)
                   BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP REPORTING COMPLIANCE
 
     Section 16(a) of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934 requires Avatar's
officers and directors, and any persons who own more than ten percent of
Avatar's Common Stock to file reports of initial ownership of Avatar's Common
Stock and subsequent changes in that ownership with the Securities and Exchange
Commission. Officers, directors and greater than ten-percent beneficial owners
are also required to furnish Avatar with copies of all Section 16(a) forms they
file. Based solely upon a review of the copies of the forms furnished to Avatar,
or written representations from certain reporting persons that no Forms 5 were
required, Avatar believes that during the 1998 fiscal year all Section 16(a)
filing requirements were complied with.
 
                             ADDITIONAL INFORMATION
 
     All of the expenses involved in preparing, assembling and mailing this
Proxy Statement and the accompanying material will be paid by Avatar. In
addition to the solicitation of proxies by mail, Avatar will request brokers and
securities dealers to obtain proxies from and send proxy material to their
principals. Expenses incurred in this connection will be reimbursed by Avatar.
Proxies may be solicited personally, by telephone or telegraph, by the directors
and officers of Avatar without additional compensation. The Board of Directors
knows of no business to come before the meeting other than as stated in the
Notice of Annual Meeting of Stockholders. Should any business other than that
set forth in such Notice properly come before the meeting, or any adjournment or
adjournments thereof, it is the intention of the persons named in the
accompanying proxy to vote such proxy in accordance with their judgment on such
matters.
 
                                          By Order of the Board of Directors,
 
                                          Juanita I. Kerrigan
                                          Vice President and Secretary
 
Dated: April 28, 1999.
 
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                                                                         Annex A
 
                              AVATAR HOLDINGS INC.
 
                              AMENDED AND RESTATED
 
                  1997 INCENTIVE AND CAPITAL ACCUMULATION PLAN
 
   
     1. Purpose.  The Avatar Holdings Inc. Amended and Restated 1997 Incentive
and Capital Accumulation Plan (the "Plan") is intended to provide incentives
which will attract, retain and motivate highly competent persons as key
employees of Avatar Holdings Inc. (the "Company") and of any subsidiary
corporation now existing or hereafter formed or acquired, by providing them
opportunities to acquire shares of the common stock, par value $1.00 per share,
of the Company ("Common Stock") or to receive monetary payments based on the
value of such shares pursuant to the Benefits (as defined below) described
herein. Furthermore, the Plan is intended to assist in aligning the interests of
the Company's key employees to those of its stockholders.
    
 
   
     2. Administration.  (a) The Plan will be administered by a committee of the
Board of Directors of the Company (the "Board") or a subcommittee of a committee
of the Board (which may be the Company's Compensation Committee), appointed by
the Board from among its members (the "Committee"), and shall be comprised,
unless otherwise determined by the Board, solely of not less than two members
who shall be (i) "Non-Employee Directors" within the meaning of Rule 16b-3(b)(3)
(or any successor rule) promulgated under the Securities Exchange Act of 1934,
as amended (the "Exchange Act") and (ii) "outside directors" within the meaning
of Treasury Regulation Section 1.162-27(e)(3) under Section 162(m) of the
Internal Revenue Code of 1986, as amended (the "Code"). The Committee is
authorized, subject to the provisions of the Plan, to establish such rules and
regulations as it deems necessary for the proper administration of the Plan and
to make such determinations and interpretations and to take such action in
connection with the Plan and any Benefits (as defined in Section 4 hereof)
granted hereunder as it deems necessary or advisable. All determinations and
interpretations made by the Committee shall be binding and conclusive on all
participants and their legal representatives. No member of the Board of
Directors, no member of the Committee and no employee of the Company shall be
liable for any act or failure to act hereunder, except in circumstances
involving his or her bad faith, gross negligence or willful misconduct, or for
any act or failure to act hereunder by any other member or employee or by any
agent to whom duties in connection with the administration of this Plan have
been delegated. The Company shall indemnify members of the Committee and any
agent of the Committee who is an employee of the Company or any of its
subsidiaries, against any and all liabilities or expenses to which they may be
subjected by reason of any act or failure to act with respect to their duties on
behalf of the Plan, except in circumstances involving such person's bad faith,
gross negligence or willful misconduct.
    
 
     (b) The Committee may delegate to one or more of its members, or to one or
more agents, such administrative duties as it may deem advisable, and the
Committee, or any person to whom it has delegated duties as aforesaid, may
employ one or more persons to render advice with respect to any responsibility
the Committee or such person may have under the Plan. The Committee may employ
such legal or other counsel, consultants and agents as it may deem desirable for
the administration of the Plan and may rely upon any opinion or computation
received from any such counsel, consultant or agent. Expenses incurred by the
Committee in the engagement of such counsel, consultant or agent shall be paid
by the Company, or the subsidiary or affiliate whose employees have benefitted
from the Plan, as determined by the Committee.
 
     3. Participants.  Participants will consist of such key employees of the
Company and any subsidiary corporation of the Company as the Committee in its
sole discretion determines to be in a position to impact the success and future
growth and profitability of the Company and whom the
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Committee may designate from time to time to receive Benefits under the Plan.
Designation of a participant in any year shall not require the Committee to
designate such person to receive a Benefit in any other year or, once
designated, to receive the same type or amount of Benefit as granted to the
participant in any other year. The Committee shall consider such factors as it
deems pertinent in selecting participants and in determining the type and amount
of their respective Benefits.
 
   
     4. Type of Benefits.  Benefits under the Plan may be granted in any one or
a combination of (a) Stock Options, (b) Stock Appreciation Rights, (c) Stock
Awards, (d) Performance Awards, and (e) Stock Units (each as described below,
and collectively, the "Benefits"). Stock Awards, Performance Awards, and Stock
Units may, as determined by the Committee in its discretion, constitute
Performance-Based Awards, as described in Section 11 hereof. Benefits shall be
evidenced by agreements (which need not be identical) in such forms as the
Committee may from time to time approve; provided, however, that in the event of
any conflict between the provisions of the Plan and any such agreements, the
provisions of the Plan shall prevail.
    
 
   
     5. Common Stock Available Under the Plan.  The aggregate number of shares
of Common Stock that may be subject to Benefits, including Stock Options,
granted under this Plan shall be 750,000 shares of Common Stock, which may be
authorized and unissued or treasury shares, subject to any adjustments made in
accordance with Section 12 hereof. The maximum number of shares of Common Stock
with respect to which Benefits may be granted or measured to any individual
participant under the Plan during the term of the Plan shall not exceed 350,000,
provided, however, that the maximum number of shares of Common Stock with
respect to which Stock Options and Stock Appreciation Rights may be granted to
an individual participant under the Plan during the term of the Plan shall not
exceed 350,000 (in each case, subject to adjustments made in accordance with
Section 12 hereof). Any shares of Common Stock subject to a Stock Option or
Stock Appreciation Right which for any reason is cancelled or terminated without
having been exercised, any shares subject to Stock Awards, Performance Awards or
Stock Units which are forfeited, any shares subject to Performance Awards
settled in cash or any shares delivered to the Company as part or full payment
for the exercise of a Stock Option or Stock Appreciation Right shall again be
available for Benefits under the Plan. The preceding sentence shall apply only
for purposes of determining the aggregate number of shares of Common Stock
subject to Benefits but shall not apply for purposes of determining the maximum
number of shares of Common Stock with respect to which Benefits (including the
maximum number of shares of Common Stock subject to Stock Options and Stock
Appreciation Rights) that may be granted to any individual participant under the
Plan.
    
 
   
     6. Stock Options.  Stock Options will consist of awards from the Company
that will enable the holder to purchase a number of shares of Common Stock, at
set terms. Stock Options may be "incentive stock options" ("Incentive Stock
Options"), within the meaning of Section 422 of the Code, or Stock Options which
do not constitute Incentive Stock Options ("Nonqualified Stock Options"). The
Committee will have the authority to grant to any participant one or more
Incentive Stock Options, Nonqualified Stock Options, or both types of Stock
Options (in each case with or without Stock Appreciation Rights). Each Stock
Option shall be subject to such terms and conditions consistent with the Plan as
the Committee may impose from time to time, subject to the following
limitations:
    
 
   
          (a) Exercise Price.  Each Stock Option granted hereunder shall have
     such per-share exercise price as the Committee may determine at the date of
     grant; provided, however, subject to subsection (d) below, that the per
     share exercise price shall not be less than 100% of the Fair Market Value
     (as defined below) of the Common Stock on the date the Stock Option is
     granted.
    
 
          (b) Payment of Exercise Price.  The option exercise price may be paid
     in cash or, in the discretion of the Committee determined at the date of
     grant, by the delivery of shares of
 
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     Common Stock of the Company then owned by the participant, by the
     withholding of shares of Common Stock for which a Stock Option is
     exercisable, by delivering to the Company an executed prommissory note (or
     such other form of indebtedness) on such terms and conditions as the
     Committee shall determine in its sole discretion at the date of grant, or
     by a combination of these methods. In the discretion of the Committee,
     payment may also be made by delivering a properly executed exercise notice
     to the Company together with a copy of irrevocable instructions to a broker
     to deliver promptly to the Company the amount of sale or loan proceeds to
     pay the exercise price. To facilitate the foregoing, the Company may enter
     into agreements for coordinated procedures with one or more brokerage
     firms. The Committee may prescribe any other method of paying the exercise
     price that it determines to be consistent with applicable law and the
     purpose of the Plan, including, without limitation, in lieu of the exercise
     of a Stock Option by delivery of shares of Common Stock of the Company then
     owned by a participant, providing the Company with a notarized statement
     attesting to the number of shares owned, where, upon verification by the
     Company, the Company would issue to the participant only the number of
     incremental shares to which the participant is entitled upon exercise of
     the Stock Option. In determining which methods a participant may utilize to
     pay the exercise price, the Committee may consider such factors as it
     determines are appropriate.
    
 
   
          (c) Exercise Period.  Stock Options granted under the Plan shall be
     exercisable at such time or times and subject to such terms and conditions
     as shall be determined by the Committee; provided, however, that no Stock
     Option shall be exercisable later than ten years after the date it is
     granted except in the event of a participant's death, in which case, the
     exercise period of such participant's Stock Options may be extended beyond
     such period but no later than one year after the participant's death. All
     Stock Options shall terminate at such earlier times and upon such
     conditions or circumstances as the Committee shall in its discretion set
     forth in such option agreement at the date of grant.
    
 
   
          (d) Limitations on Incentive Stock Options.  Incentive Stock Options
     may be granted only to participants who are employees of the Company or
     subsidiary corporation of the Company at the date of grant. The aggregate
     Fair Market Value (determined as of the time the Stock Option is granted)
     of the Common Stock with respect to which Incentive Stock Options are
     exercisable for the first time by a participant during any calendar year
     (under all option plans of the Company) shall not exceed $100,000. For
     purposes of the preceding sentence, Incentive Stock Options will be taken
     into account in the order in which they are granted. The per share exercise
     price of an Incentive Stock Option shall not be less than 100% of the Fair
     Market Value of the Common Stock on the date of grant, and no Incentive
     Stock Option may be exercised later than ten years after the date it is
     granted; provided however, Incentive Stock Options may not be granted to
     any participant who, at the time of grant, owns stock possessing (after the
     application of the attribution rules of Section 424(d) of the Code) more
     than 10% of the total combined voting power of all classes of stock of the
     Company or any subsidiary corporation of the Company, unless the exercise
     price is fixed at not less than 110% of the Fair Market Value of the Common
     Stock on the date of grant and the exercise of such option is prohibited by
     its terms after the expiration of five years from the date of grant of such
     option. In addition, no Incentive Stock Option may be issued to a
     participant in tandem with a Nonqualified Stock Option.
    
 
   
     7. Stock Appreciation Rights.  The Committee may, in its discretion, grant
Stock Appreciation Rights to the holders of any Stock Options granted hereunder.
In addition, Stock Appreciation Rights may be granted independently of, and
without relation to, options. A Stock Appreciation Right means a right to
receive a payment, in cash, Common Stock or a combination thereof, in an amount
equal to the excess of (x) the Fair Market Value, or other specified valuation,
of a specified number of shares of Common Stock on the date the right is
exercised over (y) the Fair Market Value, or other specified valuation (which
shall be no less than the Fair Market Value), of such shares of Common Stock on
the date the right is granted, all as determined by the Committee; provided,
however, that if a Stock Appreciation Right is granted in tandem with or in
substitution for a Stock
    
 
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Option, the designated Fair Market Value in the award agreement may be the Fair
Market Value on the date such Stock Option was granted. Each Stock Appreciation
Right shall be subject to such terms and conditions as the Committee shall
impose from time to time.
 
   
     8. Stock Awards. The Committee may, in its discretion, grant Stock Awards
(which may include mandatory payment of bonus incentive compensation in stock)
consisting of Common Stock issued or transferred to participants with or without
other payments therefor. Stock Awards may be subject to such terms and
conditions as the Committee determines appropriate, including, without
limitation, restrictions on the sale or other disposition of such shares, the
right of the Company to reacquire such shares for no consideration upon
termination of the participant's employment within specified periods, and may
constitute Performance-Based Awards, as described in Section 11 hereof. The
Committee may require the participant to deliver a duly signed stock power,
endorsed in blank, relating to the Common Stock covered by such an Award. The
Committee may also require that the stock certificates evidencing such shares be
held in custody or bear restrictive legends until the restrictions thereon shall
have lapsed. The Stock Award shall specify whether the participant shall have,
with respect to the shares of Common Stock subject to a Stock Award, all of the
rights of a holder of shares of Common Stock of the Company, including the right
to receive dividends and to vote the shares.
    
 
   
     9. Performance Awards.  (a) Performance Awards may be granted to
participants at any time and from time to time, as shall be determined by the
Committee. Performance Awards may constitute Performance-Based Awards, as
described in Section 11 hereof. The Committee shall have complete discretion in
determining the number, amount and timing of awards granted to each participant.
Such Performance Awards may be in the form of shares of Common Stock or Stock
Units. Performance Awards may be awarded as short-term or long-term incentives.
Performance targets may be based upon, without limitation, Company-wide,
divisional and/or individual performance.
    
 
   
     (b) With respect to those Performance Awards that are not intended to
constitute Performance-Based Awards, the Committee shall have the authority at
any time to make adjustments to performance targets for any outstanding
Performance Awards which the Committee deems necessary or desirable unless at
the time of establishment of such targets the Committee shall have precluded its
authority to make such adjustments.
    
 
     (c) Payment of earned Performance Awards shall be made in accordance with
terms and conditions prescribed or authorized by the Committee. The participant
may elect to defer, or the Committee may require or permit the deferral of, the
receipt of Performance Awards upon such terms as the Committee deems
appropriate.
 
   
     10. Stock Units.  (a) The Committee may, in its discretion, grant Stock
Units to participants hereunder. The Committee shall determine the criteria for
the vesting of Stock Units. Stock Units may constitute Performance-Based Awards
as described in Section 11 hereof. A Stock Unit granted by the Committee shall
provide payment in shares of Common Stock at such time as the award agreement
shall specify. Shares of Common Stock issued pursuant to this Section 10 may be
issued with or without other payments therefor as may be required by applicable
law or such other consideration as may be determined by the Committee. The
Committee shall determine whether a participant granted a Stock Unit shall be
entitled to a Dividend Equivalent Right (as defined below).
    
 
   
     (b) Upon vesting of a Stock Unit, unless the Committee has determined to
defer payment with respect to such unit or a participant has elected to defer
payment under subsection (c) below, shares of Common Stock representing the
Stock Units shall be distributed to the participant unless the Committee, with
the consent of the participant, provides for the payment of the Stock Units in
cash or partly in cash and partly in shares of Common Stock equal to the value
of the shares of Common Stock which would otherwise be distributed to the
participant.
    
 
   
     (c) Prior to the date on which a Stock Unit may vest, the Committee may
permit a participant to elect not to receive Common Stock upon the vesting of
such Stock Unit and for the Company to
    
 
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continue to maintain the Stock Unit on its books of account. In such event, the
value of a Stock Unit shall be payable in shares of Common Stock pursuant to the
agreement of deferral.
 
   
     (d) A "Stock Unit" means a notional account representing one share of
Common Stock. A "Dividend Equivalent Right" means the right to receive the
amount of any dividend paid on the share of Common Stock underlying a Stock
Unit, which shall be payable in cash or in the form of additional Stock Units.
    
 
   
     11. Performance-Based Awards.  Certain Benefits granted under the Plan may
be granted in a manner such that the Benefits qualify for the performance-based
compensation exemption of Section 162(m) of the Code ("Performance-Based
Awards"). As determined by the Committee in its sole discretion, either the
granting or vesting of such Performance-Based Awards is to be based upon one or
more of the following factors: net sales, pretax income before allocation of
corporate overhead and bonus, budget, earnings per share, net income, division,
group or corporate financial goals, return on stockholders' equity, return on
assets, attainment of strategic and operational initiatives, appreciation in
and/or maintenance of the price of the Common Stock or any other publicly-traded
securities of the Company, market share, gross profits, earnings before interest
and taxes, earnings before interest, taxes, depreciation and amortization,
economic value-added models and comparisons with various stock market indices,
reductions in costs or any combination of the foregoing. With respect to
Performance-Based Awards, (i) the Committee shall establish in writing (x) the
performance goals applicable to a given period, and such performance goals shall
state, in terms of an objective formula or standard, the method for computing
the amount of compensation payable to the participant if such performance goals
are obtained and (y) the individual employees or class of employees to which
such performance-based goals apply no later than 90 days after the commencement
of such period (but in no event after 25% of such period has elapsed) and (ii)
no Performance-Based Awards shall be payable to or vest with respect to, as the
case may be, any participant for a given period until the Committee certifies in
writing that the objective performance goals (and any other material terms)
applicable to such period have been satisfied. With respect to any Benefits
intended to qualify as Performance-Based Awards, after establishment of a
performance goal, the Committee shall not revise such performance goal or
increase the amount of compensation payable thereunder (as determined in
accordance with Section 162(m) of the Code) upon the attainment of such
performance goal. Notwithstanding the preceding sentence, the Committee may
reduce or eliminate the number of shares of Common Stock or cash granted or the
number of shares of Common Stock vested upon the attainment of such performance
goal.
    
 
   
     12. Adjustment Provisions; Change in Control.  (a) If there shall be any
change in the Common Stock of the Company, through merger, consolidation,
reorganization, recapitalization, stock dividend, stock split, reverse stock
split, split up, spinoff, combination of shares, exchange of shares, dividend in
kind or other like change in capital structure or distribution (other than
normal cash dividends) to stockholders of the Company, an adjustment shall be
made to each outstanding Stock Option and Stock Appreciation Right such that
each such Stock Option and Stock Appreciation Right shall thereafter be
exercisable for such securities, cash and/or other property as would have been
received in respect of the Common Stock subject to such Stock Option or Stock
Appreciation Right had such Stock Option or Stock Appreciation Right been
exercised in full immediately prior to such change or distribution, and such an
adjustment shall be made successively each time any such change shall occur. In
addition, in the event of any such change or distribution, in order to prevent
dilution or enlargement of participants' rights under the Plan, the Committee
will have authority to adjust, in an equitable manner, the number and kind of
shares that may be issued under the Plan, the number and kind of shares subject
to outstanding Benefits, the exercise price applicable to outstanding Benefits,
and the Fair Market Value of the Common Stock and other value determinations
applicable to outstanding Benefits. Appropriate adjustments may also be made by
the Committee in the terms of any Benefits under the Plan to reflect such
changes or distributions and to modify any other terms of outstanding Benefits
on an equitable basis, including modifications of performance targets and
changes in the length of performance periods. In
    
 
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addition, other than with respect to Stock Options, Stock Appreciation Rights
and other awards intended to constitute Performance-Based Awards, the Committee
is authorized to make adjustments to the terms and conditions of, and the
criteria included in, Benefits in recognition of unusual or nonrecurring events
affecting the Company or the financial statements of the Company, or in response
to changes in applicable laws, regulations, or accounting principles.
Notwithstanding the foregoing, (i) each such adjustment with respect to an
Incentive Stock Option shall comply with the rules of Section 424(a) of the
Code, and (ii) in no event shall any adjustment be made which would render any
Incentive Stock Option granted hereunder other than an incentive stock option
for purposes of Section 422 of the Code.
    
 
   
     (b) Notwithstanding any other provision of this Plan, in the event of a
Change in Control (as defined below), the Committee, in its discretion, may take
such actions as it deems appropriate with respect to outstanding Benefits,
including, without limitation, accelerating the exercisability or vesting of
such Benefits.
    
 
     The Committee, in its discretion, may determine that, upon the occurrence
of a Change in Control of the Company, each Stock Option and Stock Appreciation
Right outstanding hereunder shall terminate within a specified number of days
after notice to the holder, and such holder shall receive, with respect to each
share of Common Stock subject to such Stock Option or Stock Appreciation Right,
an amount equal to the excess of the Fair Market Value of such shares of Common
Stock immediately prior to the occurrence of such Change in Control over the
exercise price per share of such Stock Option or Stock Appreciation Right; such
amount to be payable in cash, in one or more kinds of property (including the
property, if any, payable in the transaction) or in a combination thereof, as
the Committee, in its discretion, shall determine.
 
     For purposes of this Section 12(b), a "Change in Control" of the Company
shall be deemed to have occurred upon any of the following events:
 
          (A) A person or entity or group of persons or entities, acting in
     concert, shall become the direct or indirect beneficial owner (within the
     meaning of Rule 13d-3 of the Exchange Act) of securities of the Company
     representing fifty-one percent (51%) or more of the combined voting power
     of the issued and outstanding common stock of the Company (a "Significant
     Owner"), unless such shares are originally issued to such Significant Owner
     by the Company; or
 
   
          (B) The majority of the Company's Board of Directors is no longer
     comprised of the incumbent directors who constitute the Board of Directors
     on the Effective Date (as defined in Section 22 hereof) and any other
     individual(s) who becomes a director subsequent to the Effective Date whose
     initial election or nomination for election as a director, as the case may
     be, was approved by at least a majority of the directors who comprised the
     incumbent directors as of the date of such election or nomination; or
    
 
        (C) A sale of all or substantially all of the assets of the Company; or
 
          (D) The Board of Directors shall approve any merger, consolidation, or
     like business combination or reorganization of the Company, the
     consummation of which would result in the occurrence of any event described
     in clause (C) above, and such transaction shall have been consummated.
 
   
     13. Nontransferability.  Each Benefit granted under the Plan to a
participant shall not be
    
transferable otherwise than by will or the laws of descent and distribution, and
shall be exercisable, during the participant's lifetime, only by the
participant. In the event of the death of a participant, each Stock Option or
Stock Appreciation Right theretofore granted to him or her shall be exercisable
during such period after his or her death as the Committee shall in its
discretion set forth in such option or right at the date of grant and then only
by the executor or administrator of the estate of the deceased participant or
the person or persons to whom the deceased participant's rights under the Stock
Option or Stock Appreciation Right shall pass by will or the laws of descent and
distribution. Notwithstanding the foregoing, at the discretion of the Committee,
an award of a
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Benefit other than an Incentive Stock Option may permit the transferability of a
Benefit by a participant solely to the participant's spouse, siblings, parents,
children and grandchildren or trusts for the benefit of such persons or
partnerships, corporations, limited liability companies or other entities owned
solely by such persons, including trusts for such persons, subject to any
restriction included in the award of the Benefit.
 
   
     14. Other Provisions.  The award of any Benefit under the Plan may also be
subject to such other provisions (whether or not applicable to the Benefit
awarded to any other participant) as the Committee determines appropriate,
including, without limitation, for the installment purchase of Common Stock
under Stock Options, for the installment exercise of Stock Appreciation Rights,
to assist the participant in financing the acquisition of Common Stock, for the
forfeiture of, or restrictions on resale or other disposition of, Common Stock
acquired under any form of Benefit, for the acceleration of exercisability or
vesting of Benefits in the event of a change of control of the Company (whether
or not a Change in Control), for the payment of the value of Benefits to
participants in the event of a change of control of the Company (whether or not
a Change in Control), or to comply with federal and state securities laws, or
understandings or conditions as to the participant's employment in addition to
those specifically provided for under the Plan.
    
 
     15. Fair Market Value.  For purposes of this Plan and any Benefits awarded
hereunder, Fair Market Value shall be the closing price of the Company's Common
Stock on the date of calculation (or on the last preceding trading date if
Common Stock was not traded on such date) if the Company's Common Stock is
readily tradeable on a national securities exchange or other market system, and
if the Company's Common Stock is not readily tradeable, Fair Market Value shall
mean the amount determined in good faith by the Committee as the fair market
value of the Common Stock of the Company.
 
     16. Withholding.  All payments or distributions of Benefits made pursuant
to the Plan shall be net of any amounts required to be withheld pursuant to
applicable federal, state and local tax withholding requirements. If the Company
proposes or is required to distribute Common Stock pursuant to the Plan, it may
require the recipient to remit to it or to the corporation that employs such
recipient an amount sufficient to satisfy such tax withholding requirements
prior to the delivery of any certificates for such Common Stock. In lieu
thereof, the Company or the employing corporation shall have the right to
withhold the amount of such taxes from any other sums due or to become due from
such corporation to the recipient as the Committee shall prescribe. The
Committee may, in its discretion and subject to such rules as it may adopt
(including any as may be required to satisfy applicable tax and/or non-tax
regulatory requirements), permit an optionee or award or right holder to pay all
or a portion of the federal, state and local withholding taxes arising in
connection with any Benefit consisting of shares of Common Stock by electing to
have the Company withhold shares of Common Stock having a Fair Market Value
equal to the amount of tax to be withheld, such tax calculated at rates required
by statute or regulation.
 
   
     17. Tenure.  A participant's right, if any, to continue to serve the
Company or any of its subsidiaries or affiliates as a director, officer,
employee, or otherwise, shall not be enlarged or otherwise affected by his or
her designation as a participant under the Plan.
    
 
     18. Unfunded Plan.  Participants shall have no right, title, or interest
whatsoever in or to any investments which the Company may make to aid it in
meeting its obligations under the Plan. Nothing contained in the Plan, and no
action taken pursuant to its provisions, shall create or be construed to create
a trust of any kind, or a fiduciary relationship between the Company and any
participant, beneficiary, legal representative or any other person. To the
extent that any person acquires a right to receive payments from the Company
under the Plan, such right shall be no greater than the right of an unsecured
general creditor of the Company. All payments to be made hereunder shall be paid
from the general funds of the Company and no special or separate fund shall be
established and no segregation of assets shall be made to assure payment of such
amounts
 
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except as expressly set forth in the Plan. The Plan is not intended to be
subject to the Employee Retirement Income Security Act of 1974, as amended.
 
     19. No Fractional Shares.  No fractional shares of Common Stock shall be
issued or delivered pursuant to the Plan or any Benefit. The Committee shall
determine whether cash, or Benefits, or other property shall be issued or paid
in lieu of fractional shares or whether such fractional shares or any rights
thereto shall be forfeited or otherwise eliminated.
 
   
     20. Duration, Amendment and Termination.  No Benefit shall be granted more
than ten years after the Effective Date. The Committee may amend the Plan from
time to time or suspend or terminate the Plan at any time. However, no action
authorized by this Section 20 shall reduce the amount of any existing Benefit or
change the terms and conditions thereof without the participant's consent. No
amendment of the Plan may be made without approval of the stockholders of the
Company if the amendment will: (i) disqualify any Incentive Stock Options
granted under the Plan; (ii) increase the total number of shares which may be
issued under the Plan; (iii) increase the maximum number of shares with respect
to Stock Options, Stock Appreciation Rights and other Benefits that may be
granted to any individual under the Plan; (iv) change the types of factors on
which Performance-Based Awards are to be based under the Plan; or (v) modify the
requirements as to eligibility for participation in the Plan.
    
 
     21. Governing Law.  This Plan, Benefits granted hereunder and actions taken
in connection herewith shall be governed and construed in accordance with the
laws of the State of Delaware (regardless of the law that might otherwise govern
under applicable Delaware principles of conflict of laws).
 
   
     22. Effective Date.  (a) The Plan shall be effective as of December 7,
1998, the date on which the Plan was adopted by the Committee (the "Effective
Date"), provided that the Plan is approved by the stockholders of the Company at
an annual meeting or any special meeting of stockholders of the Company within
12 months of the Effective Date, and such approval of stockholders shall be a
condition to the right of each participant to receive any Benefits hereunder.
Any Benefits granted under the Plan prior to such approval of stockholders shall
be effective as of the date of grant (unless, with respect to any Benefit, the
Committee specifies otherwise at the time of grant), but no such Benefit may be
exercised or settled and no restrictions relating to any Benefit may lapse prior
to such stockholder approval, and if stockholders fail to approve the Plan as
specified hereunder, any such Benefit shall be cancelled.
    
 
     (b) This Plan shall terminate on February 13, 2007 (unless sooner
terminated by the Committee).
 
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                                                   Notice of 1999
                                                   Annual Meeting
                                                   and Proxy
                                                   Statement
 
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                                                    AVATAR
                                                    HOLDINGS INC.
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                                     PROXY
 
                              AVATAR HOLDINGS INC.
                              201 ALHAMBRA CIRCLE
                          CORAL GABLES, FLORIDA 33134
 
          THIS PROXY IS SOLICITED ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS
 
     The undersigned hereby appoints Gerald D. Kelfer and Juanita I. Kerrigan as
Proxies, each with the power to appoint his or her substitute; and hereby
authorizes them to represent and vote, as designated on the reverse side, all
the shares of Common Stock of Avatar Holdings Inc. held of record by the
undersigned at the close of business on March 31, 1999 at the Annual Meeting of
Stockholders to be held on May 27, 1999, or any adjournment or adjournments
thereof.
 
                  THIS PROXY IS CONTINUED ON THE REVERSE SIDE.
   PLEASE MARK, SIGN, DATE AND RETURN THIS PROXY PROMPTLY USING THE ENCLOSED
                                   ENVELOPE.
 
                            (continued on next page)
 
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<S>                                                           <C>           <C>
This proxy when properly executed will be voted in the        Please mark       X
manner directed herein by the undersigned stockholder.         your votes
If no direction is made, this proxy will be voted FOR Items        as
1, 2 and 3.                                                   indicated in
                                                              this example
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<TABLE>
<S>                              <C>               <C>               <C>                                    <C>   <C>      <C>
                                                                                                            FOR   AGAINST  ABSTAIN
 
Item 1 -- ELECTION OF NINE       FOR all nominees      WITHHOLD      Item 2 -- APPROVAL OF THE PROPOSAL TO  / /     / /      / /
          DIRECTORS               listed at left     AUTHORITY to              AMEND AND RESTATE THE 1997
      Nominees: L. Levy,            (except as       vote for all              INCENTIVE AND CAPITAL
      M. Dresner, G.D. Kelfer,    marked to the    nominees listed.            ACCUMULATION PLAN OF AVATAR
      M. Meyerson,               contrary below).                              HOLDINGS INC.
      G.H.  Reiners,
      K.T. Rosen, F.S. Smith,                                        Item 3 -- APPROVAL OF THE APPOINTMENT  / /     / /      / /
      W.G. Spears,                     / /               / /                   OF ERNST & YOUNG, LLP, INDEPENDENT
      H.K. Stanford                                                            ACCOUNTANTS, AS AUDITORS OF
                                                                               AVATAR HOLDINGS INC. FOR
                                                                               1999.
(INSTRUCTION: To withhold authority to vote for any individual       Item 4 -- In their discretion the proxies are authorized to
nominee write that nominee's name in the space provided below.)                vote upon such other business as may properly come
                                                                               before the meeting.
 
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                                          Date:                           , 1999
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                                                       (Signature)
 
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                                               (Signature if held jointly)
 
                                          Please sign exactly as name appears.
                                          When shares are held by joint tenants,
                                          both should sign. When signing as
                                          attorney, executor, administrator,
                                          trustee, or guardian, please give full
                                          title as such. If a corporation,
                                          please sign in full corporate name by
                                          President or other authorized officer.
                                          If a partnership, please sign in
                                          partnership name by authorized person.


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