DS BANCOR INC
DEF 14A, 1996-03-29
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                            SCHEDULE 14A INFORMATION
 
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                                     [LOGO]
 
                                DS BANCOR, INC.
 
                              33 ELIZABETH STREET
                            DERBY, CONNECTICUT 06418
 
                                                                  March 29, 1996
Dear Shareholder:
 
    You are cordially invited to attend the 1996 annual meeting of  shareholders
(the  "Annual Meeting")  of DS  Bancor, Inc. (the  "Corporation") to  be held on
Wednesday, April 24, 1996, at 10:00 a.m., local time, at the Grassy Hill  Lodge,
77 Sodom Lane, Derby, Connecticut.
 
    The  Annual Meeting has been called for the following purposes: (1) to elect
three directors for terms of three years each and one director for a term of one
year; (2)  to  ratify  the  appointment  of Friedberg,  Smith  &  Co.,  P.C.  as
independent  public accountants of the Corporation  for the year ending December
31, 1996; and (3) to  transact such other business  as may properly come  before
the Annual Meeting or any adjournments thereof.
 
    It  is  important that  your shares  be represented  at the  Annual Meeting.
Whether or not  you plan  to attend  the Annual  Meeting, you  are requested  to
complete, date, sign and return the enclosed proxy card in the enclosed envelope
for which postage has been paid.
 
                                          Very truly yours,
 
                                                      [SIGNATURE]
 
                                          HARRY P. DIADAMO JR.
                                          PRESIDENT AND CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER
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                                     [LOGO]
 
                                DS BANCOR, INC.
 
                              33 ELIZABETH STREET
                            DERBY, CONNECTICUT 06418
 
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                    NOTICE OF ANNUAL MEETING OF SHAREHOLDERS
                           TO BE HELD APRIL 24, 1996
                               -----------------
 
    NOTICE  IS HEREBY  GIVEN that the  1996 annual meeting  of shareholders (the
"Annual Meeting") of  DS Bancor, Inc.  (the "Corporation") will  be held at  the
Grassy  Hill Lodge, 77  Sodom Lane, Derby, Connecticut,  on Wednesday, April 24,
1996, at 10:00 a.m., local time, for the following purposes:
 
         1. To  elect three  directors for  terms of  three years  each and  one
    director for a term of one year (Proposal 1);
 
         2. To ratify the appointment by the Corporation's Board of Directors of
    the  firm of Friedberg, Smith &  Co., P.C. as independent public accountants
    of the Corporation for the year ending December 31, 1996 (Proposal 2); and
 
         3. To transact  such other  business as  may properly  come before  the
    Annual Meeting or any adjournments thereof.
 
    Pursuant  to  the  Corporation's  bylaws,  the  Board  of  Directors  of the
Corporation has fixed the close of business on March 15, 1996 as the record date
for the determination of shareholders entitled to  notice of and to vote at  the
Annual  Meeting. Only record holders of Corporation common stock at the close of
business on  that date  are entitled  to notice  of and  to vote  at the  Annual
Meeting or any adjournments thereof.
 
    In  the event that there are not sufficient votes to approve any one or more
of the foregoing proposals at the time of the Annual Meeting, the Annual Meeting
may be adjourned in order to permit further solicitation by the Corporation.
 
                                          By Order of the Board of Directors
 
                                                      [SIGNATURE]
 
                                          HARRY P. DIADAMO JR.
                                          PRESIDENT AND CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER
 
Derby, Connecticut
March 29, 1996
 
    IT IS IMPORTANT THAT PROXIES BE RETURNED PROMPTLY. THEREFORE, WHETHER OR NOT
YOU PLAN TO BE PRESENT  IN PERSON AT THE ANNUAL  MEETING, PLEASE SIGN, DATE  AND
COMPLETE  THE  ENCLOSED  PROXY AND  RETURN  IT  IN THE  ENCLOSED  ENVELOPE WHICH
REQUIRES NO POSTAGE IF MAILED IN THE UNITED STATES.
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                                     [LOGO]
 
                                DS BANCOR, INC.
                              33 ELIZABETH STREET
                            DERBY, CONNECTICUT 06418
                                 (203) 736-9921
 
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                                PROXY STATEMENT
                         ANNUAL MEETING OF SHAREHOLDERS
                                 APRIL 24, 1996
 
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                SOLICITATION, VOTING AND REVOCABILITY OF PROXIES
 
    This  Proxy  Statement  is  furnished to  shareholders  of  DS  Bancor, Inc.
("Bancor" or the "Corporation") in  connection with the solicitation of  proxies
by  the  Board  of  Directors  of  Bancor  for  use  at  the  annual  meeting of
shareholders (the "Annual Meeting") to be held on Wednesday, April 24, 1996,  at
10:00  a.m.,  local  time, at  the  Grassy  Hill Lodge,  77  Sodom  Lane, Derby,
Connecticut, and at any adjournments thereof.
 
    If the enclosed form of proxy is properly executed and returned to Bancor in
time to be voted at the Annual  Meeting, the shares represented thereby will  be
voted  in accordance with the instructions marked thereon. EXECUTED BUT UNMARKED
PROXIES WILL BE VOTED (1) FOR PROPOSAL 1 TO ELECT THE FOUR NOMINEES OF THE BOARD
OF DIRECTORS  AS DIRECTORS  OF BANCOR;  AND (2)  FOR PROPOSAL  2 TO  RATIFY  THE
APPOINTMENT OF FRIEDBERG, SMITH & CO., P.C. AS INDEPENDENT PUBLIC ACCOUNTANTS OF
THE  CORPORATION FOR THE YEAR  ENDING DECEMBER 31, 1996.  The Corporation is not
aware of any  other matters  that are  proposed to  be presented  at the  Annual
Meeting.  However, if further business is  properly presented, the persons named
in the accompanying proxy will  vote such proxy as  determined by a majority  of
the Board of Directors.
 
    The  presence of a shareholder at  the Annual Meeting will not automatically
revoke the shareholder's proxy. Shareholders may, however, revoke a proxy at any
time prior to its exercise  by filing with the  Secretary of the Corporation  or
the  presiding officer at the Annual Meeting  a written notice of revocation, by
delivering to the Secretary of the  Corporation or the presiding officer at  the
Annual  Meeting a duly executed  proxy bearing a later  date or by attending the
Annual Meeting and voting in person.
 
    The cost of soliciting proxies will be borne by the Corporation. In addition
to use of  the mails, proxies  may be  solicited personally or  by telephone  or
telegraph  by  officers, directors  and employees  of  the Corporation  or Derby
Savings Bank  (the  "Bank"  or  "Derby  Savings")  who  will  not  be  specially
compensated  for such  solicitation activities.  Arrangements will  also be made
with brokerage  houses  and  other  custodians,  nominees  and  fiduciaries  for
forwarding  solicitation materials  to the beneficial  owners of  shares held of
record by such  persons, and  the Corporation  will reimburse  such persons  for
their  reasonable expenses  incurred in  that connection.  This Proxy Statement,
together with the enclosed proxy card, is initially being mailed to shareholders
on or about March 29, 1996.
 
    The securities which can be voted at the Annual Meeting consist of shares of
common stock, par value  $1.00 per share, of  Bancor, with each share  entitling
its holder to one vote on all matters, without any right to cumulative voting in
the  election of  directors. The close  of business  on March 15,  1996 has been
fixed by  the  Board  of Directors  as  the  record date  for  determination  of
shareholders  entitled to notice of, and to  vote at, the Annual Meeting. On the
record date,  3,029,027  shares of  Bancor  common stock  were  outstanding  and
eligible to be voted at the Annual Meeting.
 
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    The  presence, in  person or by  proxy, of  at least one-third  of the total
number of  outstanding  shares  of  Bancor common  stock  entitled  to  vote  is
necessary to constitute a quorum at the Annual Meeting. Assuming the presence of
a  quorum at the Annual Meeting, directors will be elected by a plurality of the
votes of the shares of Bancor common  stock present in person or represented  by
proxy  and entitled to vote and the affirmative  vote of a majority of the votes
cast is  required to  ratify the  appointment of  the Corporation's  independent
public  accountants.  Shareholders'  votes  will  be  tabulated  by  the persons
appointed by the Board  of Directors to  act as inspectors  of election for  the
Annual  Meeting. Abstentions and broker non-votes will be treated as shares that
are present, or represented,  and entitled to vote  for purposes of  determining
the  presence of a  quorum at the  Annual Meeting. Broker  non-votes will not be
counted as a vote cast or entitled to vote on any matter presented at the Annual
Meeting. Abstentions will not be counted in determining the number of votes cast
in connection with  the ratification  of the appointment  of independent  public
accountants.
 
    A  copy of the annual report to shareholders for the year ended December 31,
1995 accompanies this proxy  statement. THE CORPORATION IS  REQUIRED TO FILE  AN
ANNUAL  REPORT ON FORM 10-K FOR ITS FISCAL YEAR ENDED DECEMBER 31, 1995 WITH THE
SECURITIES AND EXCHANGE COMMISSION (THE "SEC"). SHAREHOLDERS MAY OBTAIN, FREE OF
CHARGE, A COPY OF SUCH ANNUAL REPORT ON FORM 10-K (WITHOUT EXHIBITS) BY  WRITING
TO MR. JOHN F. COSTIGAN, SECRETARY, DS BANCOR, INC., 33 ELIZABETH STREET, DERBY,
CONNECTICUT 06418.
 
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                           STOCK OWNED BY MANAGEMENT
 
    The following table sets forth information as of March 15, 1996 with respect
to  the amount of Bancor's  common stock beneficially owned  by each director of
Bancor, Bancor's Chief Executive Officer  and the other most highly  compensated
executive  officers of Bancor and by all the directors and executive officers of
Bancor as a group.
 
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<CAPTION>
                                                                  AMOUNT AND NATURE OF
NAME AND POSITION(S)                                              BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP   PERCENT OF STOCK
WITH THE CORPORATION                                                      (A)               OUTSTANDING
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<S>                                                              <C>                     <C>
Achille A. Apicella (b)........................................            10,274                *
Director
Walter R. Archer Jr. (b).......................................            23,311                *
Director
John F. Costigan (c)...........................................             6,085                *
Director and Secretary
Michael F. Daddona Jr. (d).....................................           322,338               10.62%
Chairman of the Board
Harry P. DiAdamo Jr. (e).......................................           161,931                5.11
Director, President and Chief Executive Officer
Angelo E. Dirienzo (f).........................................             5,554                *
Director
Laura J. Donahue (b)...........................................            11,934                *
Director
Christopher H.B. Mills (g).....................................           121,280                4.00
Director
John M. Rak (b)(h).............................................             4,885                *
Director
John P. Sponheimer (i).........................................            62,185                1.66
Director
Gary M. Tomkins................................................             1,000                *
Director
Alfred T. Santoro (j)..........................................           116,150                3.69
Vice President and Chief Financial Officer
Thomas H. Wells (k)............................................            34,608                1.13
Senior Vice President of Derby Savings Bank
Directors and executive officers as a group (13 persons).......           886,535               26.46%
</TABLE>
 
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 *  Less than one percent.
 
(a) In accordance with Rule 13d-3 under the Securities Exchange Act of 1934,  as
    amended,  a person is  deemed to be  the beneficial owner  of a security for
    purposes of the Rule if he or  she has or shares voting power or  investment
    power  with  respect to  such  security or  has  the right  to  acquire such
    ownership within 60  days after  March 15, 1996.  All persons  shown in  the
    table  have sole voting and investment  power except as otherwise indicated.
    The table  includes  321,431 shares  of  Bancor's common  stock  subject  to
    outstanding  stock options which are  exercisable by directors and executive
    officers of Bancor within 60 days of March 15, 1996.
 
(b) Includes 3,857 shares of Bancor common  stock subject to stock options  that
    may be exercised within 60 days of March 15, 1996.
 
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(c) Includes  6,085  shares  for  which  Mr.  Costigan  has  shared  voting  and
    investment power with Virginia Costigan (wife).
 
(d) Includes 6,179 shares of Bancor common  stock subject to stock options  that
    may  be exercised  within 60  days of March  15, 1996.  Also includes 35,145
    shares for which  Mr. Daddona has  shared voting and  investment power  with
    Sharon Daddona (wife), 2,864 shares with Michael Daddona (son), 2,864 shares
    with  Marielle Daddona  (daughter), and  2,864 shares  with Michaela Daddona
    (daughter).
 
(e) Includes 141,746 shares of Bancor common stock subject to stock options that
    may be exercised within 60 days of March 15, 1996. Also includes shares  for
    which  Mr. DiAdamo has shared voting  and investment power as follows: 8,908
    shares with Maureen E. DiAdamo (wife), 393 shares with Kevin DiAdamo  (son),
    and 443 shares with Christopher DiAdamo (son).
 
(f) Includes  1,546  shares  for  which  Mr.  Dirienzo  has  shared  voting  and
    investment power with Claire S. Dirienzo (wife). Also includes 3,857  shares
    of Bancor common stock subject to stock options that may be exercised within
    60 days of March 15, 1996.
 
(g) Includes  5,403 shares of Bancor common  stock subject to stock options that
    may be exercised within 60 days of March 15, 1996. See also footnote (c)  to
    the Stock Owned By Principal Shareholders table set forth below.
 
(h) Includes  shares for which Mr. Rak has shared voting and investment power as
    follows: 786 shares with Monica Rak  (wife), 51 shares with Aaron Rak  (son)
    and 40 shares with Michael Rak (son).
 
(i) Includes  3,857 shares of Bancor common  stock subject to stock options that
    may be exercised within 60  days of March 15, 1996  and 47,508 shares as  to
    which  Mr. Sponheimer exercises  voting power but  shares ownership with his
    law partner. Also includes shares for which Mr. Sponheimer has shared voting
    and investment power as follows: 3,886 shares in trust for Brian  Sponheimer
    (son),  3,886 shares in trust for  Brendon Sponheimer (son), 1,386 shares in
    trust for Matthew Sponheimer (son), 831 shares in trust for Matthias Kasulis
    (nephew), and 831 shares  in trust for Benedict  Kasulis (nephew). Does  not
    include  3,307 shares  owned by  Mary Ann  Sponheimer (wife)  as trustee for
    Brian Sponheimer  (son)  as to  which  Mr. Sponheimer  disclaims  beneficial
    ownership.
 
(j) Includes 115,922 shares of Bancor common stock subject to stock options that
    may be exercised within 60 days of March 15, 1996.
 
(k) Includes  29,039 shares of Bancor common stock subject to stock options that
    may be exercised within 60 days of March 15, 1996. Also includes 771  shares
    for  which Mr. Wells has shared voting  and investment power with Phyllis H.
    Wells (wife).
 
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                     STOCK OWNED BY PRINCIPAL SHAREHOLDERS
 
    The following  table sets  forth  information with  respect to  the  persons
believed  by Bancor to be the beneficial owners of more than five percent of the
issued and outstanding shares of Bancor's common stock, based on the most recent
filing with the SEC by each such person or entity as of March 15, 1996 or  other
information  available to Bancor. All such persons have reported sole voting and
dispositive power  over the  entire number  of shares  reported as  beneficially
owned by them, except as otherwise indicated.
 
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<CAPTION>
                                                                   AMOUNT AND NATURE OF  PERCENT OF STOCK
NAME AND ADDRESS                                                   BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP     OUTSTANDING
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<S>                                                                <C>                   <C>
Michael F. Daddona Jr. (a).......................................          322,338              10.62%
156 Wild Rose Drive
Orange, CT 06477
 
Dimensional Fund Advisors, Inc. (b)..............................          195,730               6.46
1299 Ocean Avenue , 11th Floor
Santa Monica, CA 90401
 
JO Hambro & Company Limited (c)..................................          167,694               5.53
30 Queen Anne's Gate
London SW1H 9AL England
 
Harry P. DiAdamo Jr. (d).........................................          161,931               5.11
33 Elizabeth Street
Derby, Connecticut 06418
</TABLE>
 
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(a) Includes  43,737  shares  for  which  Mr.  Daddona  has  shared  voting  and
    investment power with Sharon Daddona (wife), Michael Daddona (son), Marielle
    Daddona (daughter)  and Michaela  Daddona  (daughter). Also  includes  6,179
    shares of Bancor common stock subject to stock options that may be exercised
    within 60 days of March 15, 1996.
 
(b) Dimensional  Fund  Advisors  Inc. ("Dimensional"),  a  registered investment
    advisor, is deemed to have beneficial ownership of 195,730 shares of Company
    stock as of December 31, 1995, all of which shares are held in portfolios of
    DFA Investment  Dimensions  Group  Inc., a  registered  open-end  investment
    company,  or  in series  of  the DFA  Investment  Trust Company,  a Delaware
    business trust, or the  DFA Group Trust and  DFA Participation Group  Trust,
    investment  vehicles  for qualified  employee  benefit plans,  all  of which
    Dimensional Fund Advisors,  Inc. serves as  investment manager.  Dimensional
    disclaims beneficial ownership of all such shares.
 
(c) Bancor  has  been advised  by  the reporting  person  that these  shares are
    beneficially owned as  follows: (i)  JO Hambro &  Partners Limited  ("Hambro
    Partners"),  Growth  Financial  Services  Limited  ("GFSL"),  North Atlantic
    Smaller Companies Investment Trust PLC (formerly Consolidated Venture  Trust
    PLC)  ("NASCIT"), Christopher  H.B. Mills,  JO Hambro  Investment Management
    Limited  ("Hambro  Investment"),  JO  Hambro  &  Company  Limited   ("Hambro
    Company")  and JO  Hambro Asset Management  Limited ("Hambro  Asset") own or
    control, directly or indirectly, an aggregate of 160,808 shares or 5.31%  of
    the  Corporation's  outstanding  common  stock, as  follows:  (i)  Mr. Mills
    beneficially owns 115,877 shares, which amount includes the 5,627 shares  he
    personally  owns and has sole  voting and dispositive power  over as well as
    the 110,250 shares  in respect  of which  he shares  voting and  dispositive
    power  with Hambro  Partners by  virtue of his  role as  chief executive and
    co-investment adviser  to  NASCIT;  (ii) NASCIT  beneficially  owns  110,250
    shares  and shares  voting and dispositive  power with Mr.  Mills and Hambro
    Partners,  its  co-investment  advisers;   (iii)  GFSL  shares  voting   and
    dispositive  power  with  NASCIT and  Hambro  Partners with  respect  to the
    110,250 shares owned by NASCIT because of its agreement to provide to NASCIT
    the services of Mr. Mills; (iv) Hambro Partners, as co-investment adviser to
    NASCIT, shares voting and dispositive power  with Mr. Mills and NASCIT  with
    respect  to  the  110,250  shares owned  by  NASCIT;  (v)  Hambro Investment
    controls voting and dispositive power with respect to 51,817 shares owned by
    a private client; (vi) Hambro Asset, by
 
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    virtue of its control of Hambro Partners and Hambro Investment, controls (in
    the case of the  51,817 shares controlled by  Hambro Investment) and  shares
    control  of (in  the case  of the remaining  110,250 shares)  the voting and
    dispositive power with respect  to the 162,067  shares controlled by  Hambro
    Partners  and Hambro Investment; and (vii)  Hambro Company, by virtue of its
    control of Hambro Asset,  controls (or, as the  case may be, shares  control
    of)  the voting  and dispositive  power with  respect to  the 162,067 shares
    controlled by  Hambro Asset  or  in respect  of  which Hambro  Asset  shares
    control.
 
(d) Includes 141,746 shares of Bancor common stock subject to stock options that
    may  be exercised  within 60  days of  March 15,  1996. Also  includes 9,744
    shares for which  Mr. DiAdamo has  shared voting and  investment power  with
    Maureen DiAdamo (wife), Kevin DiAdamo (son) and Christopher DiAdamo (son).
 
                             ELECTION OF DIRECTORS
                                  (PROPOSAL 1)
 
    The  Corporation's certificate  of incorporation  provides for  a minimum of
nine directors and a maximum of 16.  The number of directors of the  Corporation
is   currently  set  at  11.  Pursuant   to  the  Corporation's  certificate  of
incorporation, the Board of  Directors is divided into  three classes, with  the
number  of directors in each class to be  as nearly equal in number as possible.
In 1996, the  Board of Directors  was re-staggered, effective  as of the  Annual
Meeting,  as  follows: three  directors (terms  of office  expiring at  the 1999
annual meeting); four  directors (terms of  office expiring at  the 1998  annual
meeting);  and  four directors  (terms  of office  expiring  at the  1997 annual
meeting). As a  result, the Annual  Meeting three directors  will be elected  to
terms  of three years  each and one director  will be elected for  a term of one
year.
 
    Unless otherwise specified on the proxy, it is the intention of the  persons
named in the proxy to vote the shares represented by each proxy for the election
as  directors of the nominees listed below. The Board of Directors believes that
such nominees will stand  for election and will  serve if elected as  directors.
If,  however, any person nominated by the  Board of Directors fails to stand for
election or is  unable to accept  election, the  proxies will be  voted for  the
election  of  such  other  person  or persons  as  the  Board  of  Directors may
recommend. Assuming the presence  of a quorum at  the Annual Meeting,  directors
will be elected by a plurality of the votes of the shares of Bancor common stock
present  in person or  represented by proxy  and entitled to  vote at the Annual
Meeting. There are no cumulative voting rights in the election of directors.
 
    There are no arrangements or understandings between the Corporation and  any
person  pursuant  to  which such  person  has  been nominated  or  elected  as a
director.
 
    INFORMATION AS TO NOMINEES  AND CONTINUING DIRECTORS.   The following  table
sets  forth the  names of the  four nominees  for election as  directors and the
names of the seven other directors whose terms of office will continue after the
Annual Meeting. Also set forth is  certain other information, some of which  has
been  supplied by  the directors, with  respect to each  nominee's or director's
principal occupation or employment
 
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during the past five years, his or her  age, the periods during which he or  she
has  served as a director  of the Corporation and  positions currently held with
the Corporation. All of the directors,  except Mr. Mills, serve as directors  of
Derby Savings.
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<CAPTION>
                                                  AGE AT DECEMBER
                                                        31,          DIRECTOR     FOR TERM          POSITION(S) HELD
NAMES                                                  1995            SINCE      EXPIRING        WITH THE CORPORATION
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<S>                                              <C>                <C>          <C>          <C>
NOMINEES FOR 3-YEAR TERMS:
Walter R. Archer Jr............................             65            1990         1999   Director
Laura J. Donahue...............................             47            1986         1999   Director
John M. Rak....................................             49            1986         1999   Director
NOMINEE FOR 1-YEAR TERM:
Harry P. DiAdamo Jr............................             52            1986         1997   President, Chief Executive
                                                                                               Officer and Director
 
<CAPTION>
 
                                                                                    TERM
CONTINUING DIRECTORS:                                                              EXPIRES
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<S>                                              <C>                <C>          <C>          <C>
Michael F. Daddona Jr..........................             42            1991         1997   Chairman of the Board
Christopher H.B. Mills.........................             43            1988         1997   Director
John P. Sponheimer.............................             48            1988         1997   Director
Achille A. Apicella............................             52            1986         1998   Director
John F. Costigan...............................             65            1986         1998   Director and Secretary
Angelo E. Dirienzo.............................             65            1986         1998   Director
Gary M. Tomkins................................             46            1996         1998   Director
</TABLE>
 
    The  principal occupations for the  past five years of  each of the Board of
Directors' four nominees  and the seven  other directors whose  terms of  office
will continue after the Annual Meeting are set forth below:
 
    WALTER  R. ARCHER  JR., a  director of  Derby Savings  since 1988,  became a
director of the Corporation in 1990. He serves on the Executive, Nominating  and
Stock  Option Committees. Mr. Archer is  founder of Burtville Associates, a real
estate holding company, and  Archer Landfill Service Company,  both in Derby.  A
corporator  of Hewitt Memorial Hospital, Mr.  Archer also serves as an executive
board member and assistant  treasurer of the Housatonic  Council, Boy Scouts  of
America.  He received that organization's first  annual Good Scout Award several
years ago,  and  in  February  1996 received  the  Silver  Beaver  Citation  for
distinguished service to youth.
 
    LAURA  J. DONAHUE, a director of Derby  Savings since 1979, has been engaged
in the practice of law in Derby since 1973 and is presently with the law firm of
Donahue & Donahue. Ms.  Donahue is a member  of the Audit/Ethics, Executive  and
Nominating  Committees. She is a trustee of Hewitt Memorial Hospital, a director
of Hewitt Management Corporation, a service company which manages long term care
facilities, a trustee and secretary of Friend A. Russ Fund, Inc., an educational
and charitable organization, and a director  of Derby Neck Library. Ms.  Donahue
is  also an  Advisory Board  member of the  Katharine A.  Matthies Foundation, a
privately endowed  organization  which  awards funding  to  groups  striving  to
improve  the quality of life in the Lower Naugatuck Valley. She is also a member
of the Grievance Panel of  the Superior Court for  the Judicial District of  New
Haven.
 
    JOHN  M. RAK, a director of Derby Savings since 1984, operates a real estate
and appraisal  company under  his  own name  in Derby  and  is a  consultant  to
Insurance  Management Incorporated. He is chairman of the Stock Option Committee
and serves on the Audit/Ethics, Executive and Nominating Committees. Mr. Rak  is
chairman  of the City of Derby's  Economic Development Commission, a director of
Derby Neck  Library, treasurer  and past  president of  Housatonic Council,  Boy
Scouts  of  America  and trustee  of  Johnson  Trust of  Tulsa,  Oklahoma, which
benefits scouting programs in the Naugatuck Valley.
 
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    HARRY  P.  DIADAMO  JR.,  President  and  Chief  Executive  Officer  of  the
Corporation  and the Bank, has  been a director of  Derby Savings since 1980 and
served as  Chairman of  the  Board from  March 1984  to  March 1985.  He  became
President,  Treasurer and Chief  Executive Officer of the  Bank in October 1984.
Mr. DiAdamo is also a member of  the Executive Committee of the Corporation.  He
recently  completed his second  two-year term on  the Board of  the Federal Home
Loan Bank of Boston where he also served as chairman of its Audit Committee  and
as  a member of the  Finance Committee. Mr. DiAdamo is  a member of the Mortgage
Finance  Committee  of  America's  Community  Bankers,  and  the  Executive  and
Legislative  Committees of  the Connecticut  Bankers Association,  as well  as a
director of the Savings Bank Life Insurance Company and Griffin Health Services,
and treasurer  and  an  Advisory Board  member  for  WSHU Public  Radio.  He  is
president  of the Shelton Educational Fund, and Endowment Fund chairman and past
president of the board of Notre Dame  High School in West Haven. Mr. DiAdamo  is
also a member of the New Britain Downtown Council and a Corporator of the Valley
United Way, as well as past chairman of that organization's annual campaign.
 
    MICHAEL F. DADDONA JR., a director of the Corporation and Derby Savings Bank
since  1991, became  Chairman of the  Board of  the Corporation and  the Bank in
November 1992. Mr. Daddona is the owner/ general manager of Automated  Services,
a  vending  machine  and  food  distribution  company  he  founded  in  Milford,
Connecticut in 1972. He  is also the managing  partner of M &  M Realty, a  real
estate  holding company. Mr. Daddona is  chairman of the Executive Committee and
also serves on  the Stock  Option Committee.  A corporator  for Hewitt  Memorial
Hospital and a member of the United Way Founders Club, he is a benefactor of the
Toys  for  Tots  program and  the  Christian  Children's Fund.  He  is  also the
president and founder of Perfect Christmas.  Mr. Daddona received the Spirit  of
Milford  Award, presented by the United Way,  for his generous commitment to the
children of that community.
 
    CHRISTOPHER H.B. MILLS  became a  director of  the Corporation  in 1988  and
currently  serves as a member of the  Executive Committee. He is chief executive
of North American Smaller  Companies Trust PLC  ("NASCIT"), a London  investment
trust  company whose investment manager is JO Hambro & Partners Limited ("Hambro
Partners"). Mr. Mills' services are provided by an agreement between NASCIT  and
Growth  Financial  Services  Limited.  Mr.  Mills serves  as  a  director  of 15
companies in  the United  Kingdom, as  well as  the following  companies in  the
United  States:  American  Plastic  Technologies  Inc.  (plastics),  Avanti Inc.
(petroleum industry), CelluTissue Industries (paper industry), Copy  Duplicating
Products   Inc.   (office  equipment),   Magic   Seasoning  Blends   Inc.  (food
preparations),  Oak  Industries   Inc.  (electronics),   PNG  Corporation   (gas
distribution)  and W-H Holdings  Inc. (petrochemical, refinery  and oil industry
services).
 
    JOHN P.  SPONHEIMER, who  became a  director of  the Corporation  and  Derby
Savings  in 1988,  has been a  partner in  the Ansonia, Connecticut  law firm of
Hoyle & Sponheimer since  1978. He is Chairman  of the Nominating Committee  and
also  serves on  the Executive  Committee. Mr.  Sponheimer was  a member  of the
Connecticut State Legislature from 1975 to  1981, and served as chairman of  the
Banking  Committee of the  Connecticut General Assembly  and as a  member of the
Special Committee on  Interstate Banking of  the General Assembly  from 1980  to
1982.
 
    ACHILLE  A.  APICELLA,  a director  of  Derby  Savings Bank  since  1983, is
president of the certified public accounting  firm of Apicella, Testa &  Company
P.C.  in Shelton, Connecticut. Mr. Apicella  chairs the Audit/ Ethics Committee.
He is a director and vice  chairman of Hewitt Management Corporation, a  service
company  which manages  long term health  facilities, and serves  as trustee and
vice president of Hewitt  Memorial Hospital and as  corporator of Valley  United
Way,  Griffin Hospital, and Boys & Girls Club of the Lower Naugatuck Valley. Mr.
Apicella is  also  a member  of  the  Connecticut Society  of  Certified  Public
Accountants and American Institute of Certified Public Accountants.
 
    JOHN  F. COSTIGAN,  Secretary of  the Corporation  and the  Bank, joined the
staff of Derby Savings in 1961 and has  been a director of the Bank since  1975.
He  had  served in  various capacities  of  increasing responsibility,  and from
October 1984  until  his  retirement  in September  1995  had  been  the  Bank's
Executive Vice President and Chief Operating Officer. Mr. Costigan serves on the
Audit/Ethics,   Deferred   Compensation   and  Nominating   Committees   of  the
Corporation. He  is  president of  Friend  A. Russ  Fund,  Inc. of  Shelton,  an
educational  and charitable organization,  and chairman of  the Advisory Council
for Tele-Media of Western
 
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Connecticut, a cable television company  located in Seymour, Connecticut. He  is
chairman  of a commission exploring ways to  restore the Sterling Opera House, a
Derby landmark that is listed on the  National Register, and also serves on  the
Finance  Committee of St.  Mary's parish in  Derby. He is  past trustee and past
vice chairman of Griffin Health Services Corporation, and past trustee and  past
chairman  of Griffin Hospital, a community hospital located in Derby. In 1994 he
received the Charles H. Flynn Humanitarian Award for volunteer service that  has
raised  the quality of life in the community,  and in 1974 the Valley Chamber of
Commerce Gold Seal Award for outstanding community service.
 
    ANGELO E. DIRIENZO, a director of Derby Savings since 1979, retired in  1992
after  serving five years as superintendent  of Schools in Sherman, Connecticut.
He had previously served as School Superintendent in Oxford, Connecticut and  in
Derby.  He is presently  a Special Educational Consultant  for the New Fairfield
Board of Education. Dr. Dirienzo is  a member of the Audit/Ethics Committee.  He
is an Adjunct Professor at Western Connecticut State University, and has chaired
the  Scholarship Committee of  the New Haven  County Sheriffs' Association since
its inception in 1972. A past president of Griffin Hospital, he currently serves
as a Corporator  there and at  Hewitt Memorial  Hospital as well  as the  Valley
United  Way. Dr. Dirienzo  is also a member  of the Connecticut Superintendents'
Association, the  American Association  of  College and  University  Professors,
American  Association  of  School  Administrators,  and  a  life  member  of the
Connecticut Association of Public School Superintendents. He is a member of  the
board  of the  Olde Derby Historical  Society and  a director of  the Derby Neck
Library.
 
    GARY M. TOMPKINS was elected a director  of the Company in February 1996  to
fill  a vacancy on the Board resulting from the recent death of John J. Brennan.
Affiliated with  Automated  Services  since  1987,  Mr.  Tompkins  has  been  an
executive  assistant for the past  eight years and is  also currently serving in
the capacity of  Operations Director  of Marketing and  Sales. He  serves as  an
advisory  member of Perfect Christmas and as cochairman of the Perfect Christmas
Toy Distribution Committee of the Milford United Way.
 
                   MANAGEMENT RECOMMENDS A VOTE FOR APPROVAL
                     OF MANAGEMENT'S NOMINEES FOR DIRECTOR
 
COMPENSATION OF DIRECTORS
 
    Non-management directors of Bancor receive $400 for each Board of  Directors
meeting  attended, $350  for each committee  meeting attended and  $150 for each
"mini-meeting". Assuming attendance at not less  than three of the four  regular
meetings of the board, a stipend of $12,000 per annum is paid to the chairman of
the  Board  of  Directors.  Compensation to  non-management  directors  of Derby
Savings is $12,000 per annum ($26,000 per annum for the chairman of the  board),
assuming  attendance at  not less than  nine of  the 12 regular  meetings of the
board, plus $400 for each special meeting of the Bank's Board of Directors, $350
for each  committee  meeting and  $150  for each  "mini-meeting"  attended.  Mr.
Daddona  also receives $150 for  each meeting of the  advisory boards of the New
Britain/Hartford and New Haven/Fairfield divisions of the Bank attended. Mr. Rak
receives a like  amount for each  meeting of the  New Britain/Hartford  advisory
board  he attends. Directors who are officers of Bancor or Derby Savings receive
no additional compensation for serving as directors or attending meetings of the
board or its committees.
 
    Pursuant to the terms of the 1994 Stock Option Plan approved by shareholders
at the 1994 annual  meeting, each non-employee director  of the Corporation  who
was  serving on the board  on February 28, 1994, the  effective date of the Plan
(each director of the Company except Messrs. DiAdamo and Costigan) was granted a
ten-year nonqualified  option  to purchase  1,653  shares of  the  Corporation's
common  stock. The per-share option exercise price  of each of those options was
$21.78, which equaled the fair  market value of a share  of common stock on  the
effective  date  of  the  Plan,  as  determined  in  accordance  with  the Plan.
Thereafter, subject to  the availability  of shares, on  the date  of the  first
meeting  of the board next following the  1994 Annual Meeting and following each
annual meeting  of shareholders  of  the Corporation  thereafter, an  option  to
purchase 1,102 shares of Corporation common stock will be granted to each person
who is then
 
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serving  as a non-employee director of the  Corporation. If the number of shares
remaining available for  grant is insufficient  to make any  such annual  option
grants,  the annual option grants for that year shall be correspondingly reduced
on a pro rata basis.
 
    In 1986, the Bank established a  deferred compensation plan for the  benefit
of  its directors. This plan is no longer  available to the members of the Board
of Directors. Directors were entitled to defer all or a portion of the fees paid
to them as directors  of the Bank  over a four-year  period. Directors who  were
officers  of the Bank could  have also participated in  the plan and pursuant to
the plan could have deferred compensation paid to them as officers of the  Bank.
Although  there was no limitation in the plan on the amount of compensation that
could have  been deferred  by directors  who  were also  officers of  the  Bank,
directors  who participated in the plan  only deferred compensation in an amount
which approximated the  fees that  would have  been paid  to them  if they  were
non-management directors of the Bank.
 
    Under  the plan, a director who has  participated in the plan for four years
or who reaches the age  of 65, whichever is  later (the "Retirement Date"),  and
who  is still serving as a director,  is entitled to receive benefits payable in
monthly installments  over  a  ten-year  period. The  aggregate  amount  of  the
benefits payable to a director is actuarially determined using mortality tables.
The  plan also provides for the payment of pre-retirement disability benefits in
the event that a director  is disabled as a result  of illness or injury to  the
extent that he or she is unable to perform his or her usual service to the Board
of  Directors. Benefit payments pursuant to this  provision of the plan would be
paid in the same manner and amount as normal retirement benefits under the plan.
In the event of a  director's death prior to  reaching the Retirement Date,  the
plan  provides for the payment of benefits  to the designated beneficiary of the
director on  a monthly  basis over  a  ten-year period  in an  aggregate  amount
actuarially  determined using  mortality tables. The  plan provides  that if the
service of a director  is terminated voluntarily or  involuntarily prior to  the
Retirement  Date, the director is entitled  to receive all amounts deferred plus
interest thereon  at a  rate of  10% per  annum. Of  the active  directors,  Mr.
Costigan  is  the only  director currently  receiving  benefits under  this plan
($1,949 per  month).  Mr.  Direinzo,  who became  eligible  to  begin  receiving
payments under the plan in September 1995 upon his attaining age 65, has elected
to  further defer receipt of  any benefits under the  plan until September 2000.
The amount of Mr. Dirienzo's benefit is $552 per month.
 
    During 1995, the  Company and  the Bank each  adopted Deferred  Compensation
Plans  for Directors pursuant to which directors of the Company and the Bank who
are not full-time employees may elect to defer all or any portion of his or  her
annual  retainer or any  board or committee fees  or other compensation. Amounts
deferred are credited with interest  compounded monthly. The interest  crediting
rate equals the one-year U.S. Treasury bill rate, as reported in THE WALL STREET
JOURNAL, plus 50 basis points, adjusted monthly. The plan generally provides for
a  lump  sum  distribution of  the  director's  account balance  within  60 days
following termination of service (although  director participant's may elect  to
receive  their account balances in ten  annual equal installments, if so elected
by the director). The following directors have elected to defer all or a portion
of their compensation under these plans: Messrs. Archer (100%), Costigan (100%),
Daddonna (100%) and Dirienzo (35%).
 
BOARD OF DIRECTORS COMMITTEES AND NOMINATIONS BY SHAREHOLDERS
 
    The Board of  Directors of  the Corporation has  designated Messrs.  Archer,
Daddona,  DiAdamo, Donohue, Mills, Rak and Sponheimer as the Executive Committee
of the  Board.  Mr.  Daddona  currently serves  as  Chairman  of  the  Executive
Committee.  The  Executive Committee,  when  the Board  of  Directors is  not in
session, has and may  exercise all of  the power and authority  of the Board  of
Directors   except  as  limited  pursuant  to  Article  IV,  Section  2  of  the
Corporation's bylaws, pursuant to which  the Executive Committee may not,  among
other  things, amend the  Corporation's certificate of  incorporation or bylaws,
adopt an agreement of merger or consolidation, or recommend to the  shareholders
the  sale, lease or  exchange of all  or substantially all  of the Corporation's
assets or  the  dissolution  of  the Corporation.  During  1995,  the  Executive
Committee did not meet.
 
    The  Board of  Directors of  the Corporation  has appointed  an Audit/Ethics
Committee, whose members are  Messrs. Apicella, Costigan,  Dirienzo and Rak  and
Ms.  Donahue. Mr. Apicella serves as Chairman of the Audit/Ethics Committee. The
Committee  reviews  the  Corporation's  financial  statements  and  reviews  the
 
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report of the annual audit by the Corporation's independent accountants prior to
submission  of  that report  to the  full Board  of Directors.  The Audit/Ethics
Committee also  reviews management's  response to  the independent  accountant's
report.  The Audit/Ethics Committee annually  reviews the Corporation's contract
with its  independent accountants  and  makes recommendations  to the  Board  of
Directors  regarding  renewal  of  that  contract.  Additionally,  the Committee
administers  the  Corporation's  ethics  policy  for  directors,  officers   and
employees. During 1995, the Audit/Ethics Committee met six times.
 
    The  Board of  Directors of the  Corporation has appointed  a standing Stock
Option Committee consisting  of Messrs.  Archer, Daddona  and Rak  with Mr.  Rak
serving  as Chairman. The  Stock Option Committee  administers the Corporation's
stock option plans. During 1995, the Stock Option Committee met three times.
 
    Messrs. Archer, Costigan, Rak and Sponheimer and Ms. Donahue currently serve
as the Nominating Committee for selecting the nominees of the board for election
as directors.  Mr. Sponheimer  currently serves  as chairman  of the  Nominating
Committee. The Nominating Committee met one time in 1995.
 
    Shareholders  of Bancor may nominate directors  pursuant to timely notice in
writing to the  secretary of Bancor  in accordance with  Bancor's bylaws. To  be
timely,  a shareholder's notice must  be delivered to or  mailed and received at
the principal executive  offices of the  Corporation not less  than 30 nor  more
than  90 days prior to the Annual  Meeting; provided, however, that in the event
less than 45 days' notice or prior public disclosure of the date of the  meeting
is given or made to shareholders, notice by the shareholder to be timely must be
so  received by  Bancor not  later than the  close of  business on  the 15th day
following the day on which notice of the date of the meeting was mailed or  such
public   disclosure  was  made.  Under  the  Corporation's  bylaws,  shareholder
nominations for the Annual Meeting will be required to have been received on  or
before  April  15,  1996  in  order to  be  timely.  A  shareholder's  notice of
nomination must set forth certain information specified in Article III,  Section
13  of  Bancor's  bylaws  concerning each  person  the  shareholder  proposes to
nominate for election and the shareholder giving the notice. The bylaws  provide
that  no person shall  be eligible for  election as a  director of Bancor unless
nominated in accordance with the procedures set forth in Article III, Section 13
of the bylaws.
 
    During 1995  the  Corporation's  Board  of  Directors  held  four  quarterly
meetings  and three  special meeting(s) and  the Bank's Board  of Directors held
twelve regular monthly meetings and five special meetings. No incumbent director
attended fewer than 75 percent of the  total number of meetings of the Board  of
Directors  of  the Corporation  and the  total  number of  meetings held  by all
committees of the  Board of  Directors of the  Corporation on  which he  served,
except for Mr. Mills who attended five of seven meetings (71.4 percent).
 
                  EXECUTIVE COMPENSATION AND OTHER INFORMATION
 
    Because  the business of the Corporation  currently consists of the business
of Derby  Savings,  no separate  cash  compensation  is paid  to  the  executive
officers of the Corporation, all of whom are executive officers of Derby Savings
and  receive compensation as such. The following table shows, for 1995, 1994 and
1993, the cash  compensation paid  by Derby Savings,  as well  as certain  other
compensation paid or accrued for those years, to the chief executive officer and
each  of the three other highest paid  executive officers of Derby Savings whose
cash compensation (salary and bonus) exceeded $100,000.
 
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                           SUMMARY COMPENSATION TABLE
 
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                                    LONG-TERM
                                                                   COMPENSATION
                                                                      AWARDS
                                                                  --------------
                                      ANNUAL COMPENSATION           SECURITIES
                                -------------------------------     UNDERLYING       ALL OTHER
NAME AND                        FISCAL     SALARY                  OPTIONS/SARS     COMPENSATION
PRINCIPAL POSITION(S)            YEAR        ($)      BONUS ($)        (#)              ($)
- ------------------------------  -------   ---------   ---------   --------------   --------------
<S>                             <C>       <C>         <C>         <C>              <C>
Harry P. DiAdamo Jr. .........     1995   $ 255,973   $  25,000       68,250       $2,250 (a)
 President, Chief Executive        1994     246,040      --           10,000         2,250
 Officer and Director              1993     232,113      --           19,000         3,491
John F. Costigan (b) .........     1995     135,900      --             --         1,944 (a)
 Executive Vice President,         1994     156,543      --           2,500          2,250
 Chief Operating Officer,          1993     153,362      --           4,000          2,317
 Secretary and Director
Alfred T. Santoro ............     1995     150,258      20,000       42,000       12,250 (a)(c)
 Vice President and Chief          1994     138,427      --           5,000          2,139
 Financial Officer                 1993     139,584      --           11,000         2,163
Thomas H. Wells ..............     1995     130,592       5,023         --         2,068 (a)
 Senior Vice President of          1994     125,569      --             --           1,916
 Derby Savings Bank                1993     112,291      --           2,500          1,717
</TABLE>
 
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(a) Includes employer matching contributions made  in 1995 to the Bank's  thrift
    plan for the account of each individual.
 
(b) Mr. Costigan retired as Executive Vice President and Chief Operating Officer
    of  the Company and the Bank in  September 1995. Salary information for 1995
    includes $10,533 of director's fees and fees paid Mr. Costigan for recording
    Board minutes subsequent to his retirement. Of this amount, $9,133 has  been
    deferred  by him under the Deferred Compensation Plans for Directors adopted
    by the Company and the Bank in 1995.
 
(c) Includes annual premium expense of $10,000 for $500,000 of split dollar life
    insurance purchased by  the Bank  on the life  of the  executive officer  in
    1995.  Under the  split dollar life  insurance arrangement, the  Bank is the
    owner of  the policy  and the  beneficiary of  death benefits  equal to  the
    greater  of the cash surrender  value of the policy  or the premiums paid by
    the Bank. The  executive officer's estate  would receive the  excess of  the
    death  benefit over such amount in the  event of his death. The split dollar
    arrangement may be terminated  by the Bank or  the executive officer at  any
    time  and  terminates automatically  upon any  termination of  the executive
    officer's employment with  the Bank (other  than his death).  Upon any  such
    termination  of  employment,  the  executive officer  would  be  entitled to
    purchase the policy from the Bank at the greater of the cash surrender value
    of the policy or the premiums paid by the Bank.
 
OPTION GRANTS
 
    The following table  contains information  with respect to  grants of  stock
options to each of the named executive officers during 1995.
 
                       OPTION GRANTS IN 1995 FISCAL YEAR
 
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                              INDIVIDUAL GRANTS                 POTENTIAL REALIZABLE
                                ---------------------------------------------           VALUE
                                              % OF                                AT ASSUMED ANNUAL
                                              TOTAL                                     RATES
                                             OPTIONS                               OF STOCK PRICE
                                             GRANTED                              APPRECIATION FOR
                                               TO       EXERCISE                       OPTION
                                 OPTIONS    EMPLOYEES    OR BASE                      TERM (a)
                                 GRANTED    IN FISCAL     PRICE     EXPIRATION  ---------------------
NAME                               (#)        YEAR       ($/SH)       DATE       5% ($)      10% ($)
- ------------------------------  ---------   ---------   ---------   ---------   ---------   ---------
<S>                             <C>         <C>         <C>         <C>         <C>         <C>
Harry P. DiAdamo Jr...........    68,250       54.2%    $  25.00     9/19/05    $1,073,051  $2,719,323
John F. Costigan..............     --          --          --          --          --          --
Alfred T. Santoro.............    42,000        33.3       25.00     9/19/05      660,339   1,673,430
Thomas H. Wells...............     --          --          --          --          --          --
</TABLE>
 
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(a) Estimated  market value of underlying securities  at assumed annual rates of
    stock price appreciation for option term minus the exercise price.
 
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OPTION/SAR EXERCISES AND HOLDINGS
 
    The following table sets  forth the 1995 year  end value of all  unexercised
in-the-money  options and stock  appreciation rights ("SARs")  held by the named
executive officers. All options and SARs held by the named executive officers as
of December 31, 1995 are presently exercisable. SARs were granted in tandem with
options granted under the  Corporation's 1985 stock  option plan. The  Company's
1994 stock option plan does not provide for the grant of SARs.
 
              AGGREGATED OPTION/SAR EXERCISES IN LAST FISCAL YEAR
                          AND FY-END OPTION/SAR VALUES
 
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                                                               VALUE OF SECURITIES
                                                                                                   UNDERLYING
                                                                     NUMBER OF SECURITIES          UNEXERCISED
                             SHARES ACQUIRED    VALUE REALIZED      UNDERLYING UNEXERCISED    IN-THE-MONEY OPTIONS/
NAME                         ON EXERCISE (#)          ($)         OPTIONS/SARS AT FY-END (#)  SARS AT FY-END ($)(a)
- --------------------------  -----------------  -----------------  --------------------------  ---------------------
<S>                         <C>                <C>                <C>                         <C>
Harry P. DiAdamo Jr.......         --                 --                     141,746               $   759,264
John F. Costigan..........          2,756          $   5,655                  --                       --
Alfred T. Santoro.........         --                 --                      85,922                   430,551
Thomas H. Wells...........         --                 --                      29,039                   303,563
</TABLE>
 
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(a) Market  value of  underlying securities  at exercise  or year-end  minus the
    exercise or base price.
 
EMPLOYMENT AND CHANGE-IN-CONTROL AGREEMENTS
 
    Derby Savings and the Corporation have entered into an employment  agreement
with Harry P. DiAdamo Jr. The current term of Mr. DiAdamo's employment agreement
is  through  December  31, 1999.  On  each  December 31,  unless  the  Bank, the
Corporation or the employee has previously given written notice to the contrary,
an additional  one-year  period is  added  to the  term  of the  agreement.  The
employment  agreement provided for  an initial annual salary  with a six percent
minimum annual  increase in  subsequent  years. In  1995, Mr.  DiAdamo's  annual
salary  pursuant  to  his  employment  agreement  was  $251,143.  The employment
agreement also provides, among other things, for participation in  discretionary
bonuses  as  authorized  by the  Board  of  Directors and  for  participation in
pension, stock option and other benefits applicable to executive personnel.
 
    Mr. DiAdamo's employment agreement may be  terminated for cause at any  time
by  the Board of Directors.  His employment agreement is  also terminable by the
Corporation or the Bank without cause, whereupon the employee would be  entitled
to  a lump  sum cash  payment equal  to the  full amount  of his  salary for the
remaining term of the agreement, and continuation for the remaining term of  the
agreement of all vested retirement or employee benefits and then existing fringe
benefits.  The employee has no right to terminate his employment agreement prior
to the end of the term without approval  of the boards of directors of the  Bank
and  the  Corporation except  in connection  with  or within  two years  after a
"change in control" of the  Corporation or the Bank,  in which case Mr.  DiAdamo
would  receive a  severance payment of  three times  average annual compensation
based on the prior five-year period. The agreement includes an employee covenant
not to compete for a period of the lesser of one year or the balance of the term
plus six months in the event  the employee terminates his employment during  the
term  of the agreement without board approval. Under the terms of the agreement,
if the employment of Mr. DiAdamo were terminated by the Bank or the  Corporation
other than for cause or by the employee during 1996, the severance payment which
Mr.  DiAdamo would  receive is $1,165,000.  If his employment  was terminated in
1996 voluntarily or involuntarily in connection with or within two years after a
"change in  control," Mr.  DiAdamo  would be  entitled  to receive  a  severance
payment of approximately $990,000.
 
    As  defined in the agreement,  a "change in control"  will be deemed to have
occurred if (i) any person  becomes the beneficial owner of  20% or more of  the
total  number of voting shares  of the Corporation; (ii)  any person becomes the
beneficial owner of  10% or  more, but  less than 20%,  of the  total number  of
voting  shares of the Corporation if the Board of Directors determines that such
beneficial ownership constitutes or will constitute control of the  Corporation;
(iii) any person (other than the persons named as
 
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proxies  solicited on behalf of the Board of Directors of the Corporation) holds
revocable or irrevocable proxies, as to the  election or removal of two or  more
directors  of the  Corporation, for 25%  or more  of the total  number of voting
shares of the Corporation;  (iv) any person has  commenced a tender or  exchange
offer, or entered into an agreement or received an option, to acquire beneficial
ownership  of  20%  or  more  of  the  total  number  of  voting  shares  of the
Corporation; or (v) as a  result of, or in connection  with, any cash tender  or
exchange  offer,  merger,  or  other business  combination,  sale  of  assets or
contested election or any combination of the foregoing transactions, the persons
who were directors  of the Corporation  before such transaction  shall cease  to
constitute  at least two-thirds of the Board  of Directors of the Corporation or
any successor institution. A "change in control"  of the Bank will be deemed  to
have  taken place if the Corporation's  beneficial ownership of the total number
of voting shares of the Bank is reduced to less than 50% unless the  transaction
that  causes such reduction is approved by  two-thirds of the Board of Directors
of the  Bank. For  purposes of  the  foregoing, the  term "person"  includes  an
individual, a corporation, a partnership, a trust, or a group acting in concert.
 
    The  Bank and the Corporation have entered into severance payment agreements
with Alfred T. Santoro and Thomas H.  Wells which generally provide that in  the
event  the  employee's employment  is  terminated, voluntarily  or involuntarily
(other than by normal  retirement, disability or death),  in connection with  or
within  two years after a change in control of the Bank or the Corporation, they
would be entitled  to receive lump  sum cash severance  payments. The amount  of
this payment would equal approximately three times the employee's average annual
compensation  includible  in his  income for  federal  income tax  purposes with
respect to the five-year period  prior to the change in  control of the Bank  or
the  Corporation. For purposes  of the agreements, the  term "change in control"
has a definition substantially the same definition of "change in control" in Mr.
DiAdamo's employment  agreement.  Under  the  terms  of  the  severance  payment
agreements,  if the employment  of Messrs. Santoro and  Wells were terminated by
the Bank or the Corporation in 1996, in connection with a change in control, the
severance  payment  which   each  would  receive   is  $455,000  and   $376,000,
respectively.
 
REPORT ON EXECUTIVE COMPENSATION
 
    Pursuant  to the rules adopted by the SEC designed to enhance the disclosure
of company policies toward executive compensation,  set forth below is a  report
submitted  by the Executive Compensation Committee  of the Board of Directors of
the Bank  and the  stock  option committee  of the  Board  of Directors  of  the
Corporation  addressing  executive officer  compensation  policies for  1995. As
noted above, because the business of  the Corporation currently consists of  the
business  of the Bank,  no separate cash  compensation is paid  to the executive
officers of the Corporation.
 
    During 1995,  decisions  on  compensation (other  than  stock  options)  for
Messrs.  DiAdamo and Costigan were  made by the Bank's  Board of Directors (with
Messrs. DiAdamo and Costigan not  participating (based upon the  recommendations
of  the Executive Compensation Committee of the Board. Decisions on compensation
paid to other  executive officers of  the Bank (other  than stock options)  were
made by Messrs. DiAdamo and Costigan. Decisions as to the grant of stock options
are  made  by  the Stock  Option  Committee of  the  Board of  Directors  of the
Corporation.
 
    The Bank's  executive compensation  policies provide  competitive levels  of
compensation  designed to  integrate pay with  the Bank's  and the Corporation's
annual and  long  term performance  goals.  Underlying this  objective  are  the
following  concepts:  supporting an  individual pay-for-performance  policy that
differentiates compensation  levels  based  on  corporate,  business  unit,  and
individual  performance;  motivating key  senior  officers to  achieve strategic
business  objectives  and  rewarding   them  for  that  achievement;   providing
compensation  opportunities  which  are  competitive  to  those  offered  in the
marketplace, thus  allowing the  Bank and  the Corporation  to compete  for  and
retain  talented executives who are critical to the Bank's and the Corporation's
long term success; and aligning the  interests of executives with the long  term
interests of the Corporation's shareholders.
 
    Executive  compensation  consists  of three  components:  cash compensation,
including base salary and cash bonuses; long term incentive compensation in  the
form of stock options; and executive and retirement benefits. The components are
intended  to provide incentives  to achieve short term  and long term objectives
 
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and to reward exceptional  performance. Performance is  evaluated not only  with
respect  to earnings but  also with respect  to comparable industry performance,
the accomplishment of business objectives, and the individual's contribution  to
earnings and shareholder value.
 
    CASH   COMPENSATION.    Pursuant  to   his  employment  agreement  with  the
Corporation and the Bank, Mr. DiAdamo annually is entitled to receive a  minimum
six  percent increase  in his  base salary.  For 1995,  Mr. DiAdamo  received an
increase in his base  salary of six  percent, as determined  by the Board  after
evaluation  of the factors  set forth above. Messrs.  Santoro and Wells received
increases of  three percent  and four  percent, respectively,  as determined  by
Messrs. DiAdamo and Costigan after evaluation of the above criteria.
 
    Each year, upon review of the recommendations of the Bank's Ad Hoc Committee
on  Bonuses,  the board  determines whether  to  award discretionary  bonuses to
executive officers. In 1995,  the Ad Hoc Committee  on Bonuses was comprised  of
all  directors of the Bank  with the exception of  Messrs. DiAdamo and Costigan.
The board considers granting bonuses only when it determines that performance is
meritorious and exceptional, and only after consideration of such factors as the
Bank's overall  performance for  such  year, especially  when compared  to  peer
institutions,  and the time and talent exerted by management. Bonuses awarded in
1995 to the executive officers ranged up to thirteen percent of base salary.
 
    STOCK OPTIONS.  To encourage growth in shareholder value, stock options  are
granted  by  the Corporation  from time  to time  under the  Corporation's stock
option plan to officers and other employees. During 1995, the Company granted  a
total of 126,000 stock options, including an aggregate of 110,250 options to two
of  the Company's executive officers. All  options that were granted during 1995
had an exercise price of $25.00 per share and will expire in 2005.
 
    EXECUTIVE  AND  RETIREMENT  BENEFITS.    In  addition  to  the  compensation
described  above,  the executive  officers  receive all  normal  employee fringe
benefits, as well as benefits under the Bank's thrift plan and pension plan. The
Bank also provides automobile allowances to executive officers, club memberships
(in the case  of Messrs.  DiAdamo and Costigan),  and pays  life and  disability
insurance premiums for Mr. DiAdamo.
 
    CEO  COMPENSATION.    As  noted  above, under  the  terms  of  Mr. DiAdamo's
employment agreement, Mr. DiAdamo  is entitled to a  six percent minimum  annual
increase  in salary.  In 1995,  Mr. DiAdamo  received a  salary increase  of six
percent and a bonus of $25,000. During  1995, Mr. DiAdamo also received a  grant
of  a ten-year stock option  for 68,250 shares of  Corporation common stock. The
per share exercise price was  $25.00, which equaled the  fair market value of  a
share  of Corporation common stock on the  date of grant. The Board believes the
compensation Mr. DiAdamo received for 1995 appropriately rewards Mr. DiAdamo for
the results he achieved during that year.
 
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
EXECUTIVE COMPENSATION
COMMITTEE OF THE                 STOCK OPTION COMMITTEE OF THE
BOARD OF DIRECTORS               BOARD OF DIRECTORS OF THE
OF THE BANK                      CORPORATION
 
<S>                              <C>
Walter R. Archer Jr., Chairman   John M. Rak, Chairman
Achille A. Apicella              Walter R. Archer Jr.
Angelo E. Dirienzo               Michael F. Daddona Jr.
Michael F. Daddona, Jr., ex
 officio
</TABLE>
 
COMPENSATION COMMITTEE INTERLOCKS AND INSIDER PARTICIPATION
 
    Messrs. DiAdamo and Costigan serve on the Board of Directors of the Bank. As
such, they  participate in  compensation decisions  with respect  to the  Bank's
executive  officers. Neither Mr. DiAdamo nor Mr. Costigan participate or vote in
decisions on their own compensation.
 
    During 1995, the Bank paid $11,436 in legal fees to the law firm of  Donahue
&  Donahue, of  which Laura J.  Donahue, a  director of the  Corporation and the
Bank, is a partner. Effective February 1996, the law firm of Hoyle & Sponheimer,
of which John  Sponheimer is a  partner, became corporate  counsel to the  Bank.
Such firm receives a retainer of $2,000 per month.
 
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COMPARATIVE COMPANY PERFORMANCE
 
    The following graph shows a five year comparison of cumulative total returns
for  the Corporation, the Nasdaq  National Stock Market and  the KBW New England
Savings Bank Index.
 
EDGAR REPRESENTATION OF DATA POINTS USED IN PRINTED GRAPHIC
 
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
             D.S. BANCOR,
                 INC.         NASDAQ STOCK MARKET    KBW NEW ENGLAND BANK INDEX
<S>        <C>               <C>                    <C>
Dec-90               100.00                 100.00                         100.00
                     100.00                 129.92                         145.37
                      57.40                 126.41                         125.96
                      62.42                 143.30                         147.99
Dec-91                76.84                 160.56                         175.57
                     135.27                 165.60                         229.78
                     148.26                 154.28                         238.01
                     151.75                 160.62                         235.98
Dec-92               200.55                 186.87                         308.34
                     207.69                 190.37                         342.04
                     170.19                 194.03                         322.44
                     233.65                 210.38                         417.52
Dec-93               259.61                 214.51                         411.65
                     297.11                 205.49                         433.03
                     343.26                 195.89                         510.16
                     305.76                 212.10                         487.09
Dec-94               256.73                 209.69                         414.42
                     293.79                 228.49                         465.28
                     314.99                 261.36                         528.58
                     321.05                 292.82                         604.84
Dec-95               324.36                 296.30                         646.81
</TABLE>
 
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                          DEC-90     DEC-91     DEC-92     DEC-93     DEC-94     DEC-95
<S>                                                      <C>        <C>        <C>        <C>        <C>        <C>
D.S. Bancor, Inc.                                           100.00      76.84     200.55     259.61     256.73     324.38
NASDAQ Stock Market Index                                   100.00     160.56     186.87     214.51     209.69     296.30
KBW New England Savings Bank Index                          100.00     175.57     308.34     411.65     414.42     646.81
</TABLE>
 
    Assumes $100  invested  on  December  31, 1990  with  full  reinvestment  of
dividends, if any.
 
PENSION PLAN
 
    The  following  table sets  forth  estimated annual  retirement  benefits of
representative years  of service  and annual  compensation under  the  Company's
pension plan.
 
                               PENSION PLAN TABLE
 
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                  YEARS OF SERVICE (a)
                  -----------------------------------------------------
  REMUNERATION       15         20         25         30         35
- ----------------  ---------  ---------  ---------  ---------  ---------
<S>               <C>        <C>        <C>        <C>        <C>
   $  125,000     $  33,900  $  45,200  $  56,500  $  67,800  $  70,925
      150,000        41,400     55,200     69,000     82,800     86,550
    or more
</TABLE>
 
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(a) For  participants aged 65 retiring in 1995 and based on 1995 Social Security
    benefit levels.  Pension  benefits payable  beginning  January 1,  1996  are
    currently  subject to a  statutory maximum of $120,000  per year, subject to
    cost of  living adjustments.  Additionally,  annual compensation  earned  in
    excess  of $150,000 (subject to cost of  living adjustments) may not be used
    in the calculation of retirement benefits.
 
    At December 31, 1995, Messrs.  DiAdamo, Santoro and Wells  had 10, 9 and  20
years, respectively, of credited service.
 
    Contributions  to the pension plan are  determined on an actuarial basis for
the  benefit  of  all  qualifying  employees.  Employees  become  eligible   for
participation  on attainment of  age 21 and  the accumulation of  1,000 hours of
employment in a year. Annual normal retirement benefits are computed at the rate
of 60  percent  of the  participant's  final earnings  less  50 percent  of  the
participant's  social security amount for participants  with exactly 30 years of
credited service.
 
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    For participants with more than 30 years of credited service, annual  normal
retirement  benefits are computed  as for participants with  exactly 30 years of
credited service plus 1/2 of 1  percent of the participant's final earnings  for
each  year  (up  to  ten)  of  credited  service  in  excess  of  30  years. For
participants with  less  than  30  years  of  credited  service,  annual  normal
retirement  benefits are  computed by  multiplying the  annual normal retirement
benefit of a participant with exactly 30 years of credited service by the  ratio
that the number of that participant's years of credited service bears to 30. The
plan  also provides for optional early retirement benefits within ten years of a
participant's normal retirement date provided  the participant has completed  15
years of credited service.
 
    A  participant's final earnings  equals the highest  average annual earnings
received in any  five consecutive  years during the  last ten  years before  the
normal  retirement date. Years of credited service equals the number of years of
employment, not including  the first year  of service, between  ages 25 (for  an
employee  who became a participant prior to  July 1, 1985, otherwise age 21) and
65. For participants  retiring at normal  or early retirement  dates, a  pension
equal  to 50 percent  of the participant's  retirement income is  payable to the
surviving  spouse.  As  an  alternative  to  the  50  percent  continuation,   a
participant  when  he  or  she retires  may  elect  to pay  100  percent  to the
participant's spouse or 66-2/3 percent to  the spouse and retain 33-1/3  percent
of the benefit.
 
CERTAIN TRANSACTIONS
 
    Derby  Savings  makes loans  to its  directors,  officers, members  of their
immediate families and other  employees and holders of  five percent or more  of
the  issued and outstanding shares of Bancor's common stock for the financing of
their homes as well as  for home improvement and  consumer loans. The Bank  also
makes  loans  to  business  entities with  which  such  shareholders  of Bancor,
directors or officers of the Bank or members of their immediate families may  be
associated.  It is the Bank's  policy that these loans  are made in the ordinary
course of business and neither involve  more than normal risk of  collectability
nor  present other unfavorable  features. These loans  are made on substantially
the  same  terms  (including  interest  rate,  fees  and  collateral)  as  those
prevailing  at the time for  comparable transactions with non-affiliated persons
and have been made in compliance with the requirements of state and federal  law
applicable to loans to such persons. As of December 31, 1995 loans to holders of
five  percent or more of Bancor's issued and outstanding common stock, directors
and executive officers of Derby Savings and their affiliated businesses  totaled
approximately $674,000.
 
    For a description of certain transactions regarding the Bank and Ms. Donahue
and   Mr.  Sponheimer,  see  "Compensation   Committee  Interlocks  and  Insider
Participation."
 
         RATIFICATION OF APPOINTMENT OF INDEPENDENT PUBLIC ACCOUNTANTS
                                  (PROPOSAL 2)
 
    The Board of  Directors has appointed  the firm of  Friedberg, Smith &  Co.,
P.C.  to continue as independent public  accountants for the Corporation for the
year ending December 31, 1996. Friedberg, Smith  & Co., P.C. has been acting  as
independent  public accountants of  the Corporation since  its formation in 1987
and for Derby Savings since 1982. Unless otherwise indicated, properly  executed
proxies  will be voted in favor of ratifying the appointment of Friedberg, Smith
& Co., P.C., independent public accountants, to audit the books and accounts  of
the  Corporation and its  subsidiary for the  year ending December  31, 1996. No
determination has been made as to what action the Board of Directors would  take
if the shareholders do not ratify the appointment.
 
    Assuming  the presence  of a quorum  at the Annual  Meeting, the affirmative
vote of the  holders of  at least a  majority of  the votes cast  at the  Annual
Meeting is required to ratify the appointment of Friedberg, Smith & Co., P.C. as
the  Corporation's independent public  accountants for the  year ending December
31, 1996.
 
    Representatives of  Friedberg, Smith  & Co.,  P.C. will  be present  at  the
Annual  Meeting. They will be  given an opportunity to  make a statement if they
desire to do so and will be available to respond to appropriate questions.
 
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<PAGE>
        THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS RECOMMENDS A VOTE FOR THE RATIFICATION OF
               APPOINTMENT OF THE INDEPENDENT PUBLIC ACCOUNTANTS.
 
                             SHAREHOLDER PROPOSALS
 
    Proposals of  shareholders  intended to  be  presented at  the  1997  annual
meeting  of shareholders must  be received by Bancor  at its principal executive
offices on or before November 29, 1996  in order to be considered for  inclusion
in  its proxy statement and  form of proxy relating  to the 1996 annual meeting.
Nothing in this paragraph should be deemed to require the Corporation to include
in its  proxy  statement and  proxy  relating to  the  1997 annual  meeting  any
shareholder proposal which may be omitted from the Corporation's proxy materials
pursuant  to  applicable regulations  of  the SEC  in  effect at  the  time such
proposal is received.
 
    The bylaws of Bancor provide that in order for any director nominations  and
new  business to be properly brought before  an annual meeting by a shareholder,
the shareholder  must  have  given  timely notice  thereof  in  writing  to  the
secretary  of  the Corporation.  To be  timely, a  shareholder's notice  must be
delivered to or mailed and received at the principal executive offices of Bancor
not less  than 30  nor more  than 90  days prior  to the  date of  the  meeting;
provided,  however, that in the event less  than 45 days' notice or prior public
disclosure of the date of the meeting  is given or made to shareholders,  notice
by  the shareholder to be timely must be so received not later than the close of
business on the 15th day following the day  on which such notice of the date  of
the   annual  meeting  was  mailed  or   such  public  disclosure  was  made.  A
shareholder's notice must set forth certain information specified in Article II,
Section 3  of  Bancor's bylaws  with  respect  to each  matter  the  shareholder
proposes  to bring  before the annual  meeting. Bancor's bylaws  provide that no
business shall be conducted at an  annual meeting except in accordance with  the
procedures set forth in Article II, Section 3 of the bylaws.
 
                                 OTHER MATTERS
 
    As  of the date  of this proxy  statement, the Board  of Directors of Bancor
knows of no matters  to be brought  before the Annual  Meeting other than  those
specifically listed in the Notice of Annual Meeting of Shareholders. However, if
further  business is properly  presented, the persons  named in the accompanying
proxy will  vote  such  proxy as  determined  by  a majority  of  the  Board  of
Directors.
 
    The  Board of Directors of Bancor urges  each shareholder, whether or not he
or she intends to be present at the Annual Meeting, to complete, sign and return
the enclosed proxy as promptly as possible.
 
                                          By Order of the Board of Directors
 
                                                      [SIGNATURE]
 
                                          HARRY P. DIADAMO JR.
                                          PRESIDENT AND CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER
 
Derby, Connecticut
March 29, 1996
 
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                               TABLE OF CONTENTS
 
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
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<S>                                              <C>
Solicitation, Voting and Revocability of
  Proxies......................................           1
Stock Owned by Management......................           3
Stock Owned by Principal Shareholders..........           5
Election of Directors..........................           6
Executive Compensation and Other Information...          11
Ratification of Appointment of Independent
  Public Accountants...........................          17
Shareholder Proposals..........................          18
Other Matters..................................          18
</TABLE>
 
                                     [LOGO]
 
                                DS BANCOR, INC.
 
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                                PROXY STATEMENT
 
                                 MARCH 29, 1996
 
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<PAGE>

                                 DS BANCOR, INC.

                 33 ELIZABETH STREET, DERBY, CONNECTICUT  06418

            PROXY FOR ANNUAL MEETING OF SHAREHOLDERS--April 24, 1996

           THIS PROXY IS SOLICITED ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS

The undersigned shareholder of DS Bancor, Inc. (the "Corporation") hereby
appoints John F. Costigan and Alfred T. Santoro, and each of them, with full
power of substitution, as proxies to cast all votes, as designated below, which
the undersigned shareholder is entitled to cast at the 1996 annual meeting of
shareholders (the "Annual Meeting") to be held on April 24, 1996 at 10:00 a.m.,
local time, at the Grassy Hill Lodge, 77 Sodom Lane, Derby, Connecticut, and at
any adjournments thereof, upon the following matters.

This proxy will be voted as directed by the undersigned shareholder.  UNLESS
CONTRARY DIRECTION IS GIVEN, THIS PROXY WILL BE VOTED FOR THE ELECTION OF THE
NOMINEES LISTED IN PROPOSAL 1, FOR PROPOSAL 2 AND IN ACCORDANCE WITH THE
RECOMMENDATIONS OF A MAJORITY OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS AS TO OTHER MATTERS.

The undersigned shareholder hereby acknowledges receipt of the Notice of Annual
Meeting and Proxy Statement and hereby revokes any proxy or proxies heretofore
given.  This proxy may be revoked at any time prior to its exercise.





             (CONTINUED AND TO BE SIGNED AND DATED ON REVERSE SIDE)


<PAGE>

                          (Continued from reverse side)

/X/  Please mark your
     votes as in this
     example.



                       FOR ALL NOMINEES LISTED      WITHHOLD AUTHORITY
                       (EXCEPT AS MARKED TO THE   TO VOTE FOR ALL NOMINEES
                           CONTRARY BELOW)                 LISTED

1.  To elect three               / /                         / /
directors each for a
three-year term and
one director for a
one year term.


NOMINEES (three year terms):       Walter R. Archer, Jr.
                                   Laura J. Donahue
                                   John M. Rak

NOMINEE (one-year term):           Harry P. DiAdamo Jr.

(INSTRUCTION:  TO WITHHOLD AUTHORITY TO VOTE FOR ANY INDIVIDUAL NOMINEE, WRITE
THAT NOMINEE'S NAME ON THE SPACE PROVIDED BELOW.)

________________________________________________________________________________

2.   To ratify the appointment by the        FOR       AGAINST        ABSTAIN
Corporation's Board of Directors of          / /         / /            / /
the firm of Friedberg, Smith & Co.,
P.C. as independent public accoun-
tants of the Corporation for the year
ending December 31, 1996.

If you receive more than one proxy
card, please date, sign and return all
cards in the accompanying envelope.


Dated: ________________________________________________________________________

_______________________________________________________________________________

_______________________________________________________________________________
(Please date and sign here exactly as name appears at left.  When signing as
attorney, administrator, trustee or guardian, give full title as such; and when
stock has been issued in the name of two or more persons, all should sign.)




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