RELIASTAR FINANCIAL CORP
DEF 14A, 1997-03-25
LIFE INSURANCE
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                            RELIASTAR FINANCIAL CORP.


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                            NOTICE OF ANNUAL MEETING
                                       AND
                                 PROXY STATEMENT


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                         ANNUAL MEETING OF SHAREHOLDERS
                                   MAY 8, 1997



To Our Shareholders:

On behalf of your  board of  directors,  I  cordially  invite  you to attend the
Annual Meeting of Shareholders of ReliaStar  Financial Corp. The meeting will be
held at 10:00 a.m. on May 8, 1997, at the general  offices of the Corporation at
20 Washington Avenue South,  Minneapolis,  Minnesota. The accompanying Notice of
Annual  Meeting and Proxy  Statement  describe the proposals to be considered at
the meeting.  I encourage you to read this  material,  sign and date your proxy,
and  return it in the  enclosed  envelope  whether or not you plan to attend the
meeting in person.



                                        Sincerely,


                                        /s/ John G. Turner
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                                            John G. Turner
                                            Chairman and Chief Executive Officer


                            RELIASTAR FINANCIAL CORP.

                    NOTICE OF ANNUAL MEETING OF SHAREHOLDERS
                             TO BE HELD MAY 8, 1997

     The Annual Meeting of ReliaStar  Financial  Corp., a Delaware  corporation,
will be held on Thursday,  May 8, 1997,  at 10:00  o'clock  a.m., at the general
offices of the Corporation,  20 Washington Avenue South, Minneapolis,  Minnesota
55401, for the following purposes:

     1.   To elect five directors for terms expiring in 2000.

     2.   To  consider  and vote upon a  proposal  to  ratify  and  approve  the
          ReliaStar 1993 Stock Incentive Plan, as amended.

     3.   To  consider  and vote  upon a  proposal  to amend  the  Corporation's
          Certificate of Incorporation to change the Corporation's Capital Stock
          from no par value to $.01 par value per share.

     4.   To  consider  and vote upon a proposal  to ratify the  appointment  of
          Deloitte  &  Touche  LLP  as  the  Corporation's   independent  public
          accountants for 1997.

     5.   To  transact  such other  business  as may  properly  come  before the
          meeting and any adjournments thereof.

     Holders  of record of Common  Stock at the close of  business  on March 10,
1997 are  entitled to notice of and to vote at the  meeting and any  adjournment
thereof.

     All shareholders are cordially invited to attend the Annual Meeting.

                       BY ORDER OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS


                              /s/Richard R. Crowl
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                                 Richard R. Crowl
                                    Secretary
March 25, 1997

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                             YOUR VOTE IS IMPORTANT

YOU ARE URGED TO SIGN,  DATE AND  PROMPTLY  RETURN  YOUR  PROXY IN THE  ENCLOSED
ENVELOPE WHETHER OR NOT YOU PLAN TO BE PRESENT AT THE ANNUAL MEETING.
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                                 PROXY STATEMENT

     The  enclosed  proxy is  solicited  by the Board of  Directors of ReliaStar
Financial Corp.  ("Corporation") for the Annual Meeting of the Corporation to be
held on Thursday,  May 8, 1997, at 10:00 o'clock a.m., at the general offices of
the Corporation,  20 Washington Avenue South, Minneapolis,  Minnesota 55401, and
for any and all adjournments thereof.
     This Proxy  Statement  will be mailed on or about  March 25,  1997.  Shares
represented by a proxy in the form  solicited  will be voted in accordance  with
the shareholder's  instructions  contained  therein.  In the absence of contrary
instructions,  shares  represented  by  these  proxies  will  be  voted  FOR the
proposals  set forth herein and as  determined  by the Board on any other matter
properly  brought before the meeting.  A proxy may be revoked at any time before
being voted by filing  written  notice with the  Corporation,  by executing  and
filing a new proxy with the Corporation,  or by voting in person at the meeting.
Notice  to  the  Corporation  should  be  addressed  to  the  Secretary  of  the
Corporation, 20 Washington Avenue South, Minneapolis, Minnesota 55401.

                      OUTSTANDING SHARES AND VOTING RIGHTS

     Shareholders  of  record  at the close of  business  on March 10,  1997 are
entitled to receive  notice of and to vote at the Annual Meeting and any and all
adjournments.  As of March 10, 1997 there were outstanding  40,183,601 shares of
Common Stock of the  Corporation.  Each share of Common Stock is entitled to one
vote.  Participants in the ReliaStar  Success Sharing Plan and ESOP ("Plan") are
entitled to instruct the trustee on how to vote all shares of the  Corporation's
Common  Stock  allocated  to their  accounts  under the plan and will  receive a
separate  proxy for voting such shares.  The plan provides that shares for which
the  trustee  receives  no  voting  instructions  from  participants,  including
unallocated  shares  held in the ESOP,  will be voted by the trustee in the same
proportion as shares for which instructions are received.
     Votes cast by proxy or in person at the Annual Meeting will be tabulated by
the election  inspectors  appointed for the meeting and will determine whether a
quorum is present. The election inspectors will treat abstentions as shares that
are present and entitled to vote for purposes of  determining  the presence of a
quorum but as unvoted for  purposes of  determining  the  approval of any matter
submitted to the  shareholders  for a vote.  If a broker  indicates on the proxy
that it does  not have  discretionary  authority  to vote  certain  shares  on a
particular  matter,  those shares will not be considered as present and entitled
to vote with respect to that matter.

                     BENEFICIAL OWNERS OF VOTING SECURITIES

     The  Corporation  is subject to the insurance  holding  company laws of the
states in which its insurance  subsidiaries are domiciled.  Under those laws, no
person or group may acquire "control" of the Corporation without first obtaining
the  approval  of the  insurance  commissioner  in each such state  pursuant  to
procedures  prescribed by statute which may require notice to interested parties
and a public hearing. "Control" for this purpose is the ownership of 10% or more
of the  Corporation's  voting  securities  unless the  acquiring  party  files a
disclaimer of  affiliation  which shows that control does not exist in fact. The
Corporation's  insurance  subsidiaries  are  domiciled in  Minnesota,  New York,
Virginia, and Washington.
     Beneficial   owners  of  more  than  five  percent  of  the   Corporation's
outstanding voting securities, based on information supplied to the Corporation,
are as follows:

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

TITLE OF                   NAME OF                                                AMOUNT AND NATURE OF      PERCENT OF
CLASS                      BENEFICIAL OWNER                                       BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP       CLASS(1)
- -----                      ----------------                                       --------------------       --------
<S>                        <C>                                                    <C>                        <C>  
Common Stock               FMR Corp.                                              3,740,449  (2)             9.31%
                           82 Devonshire Street, Boston MA 02109

                           Wilmington Trust Company                               2,652,257  (3)             6.60%
                           1100 North Market Street, Wilmington, DE 19890


</TABLE>


(1)  Based upon shares outstanding as of the record date.

(2)  As of January 31,  1997.  FMR Corp.  has sole  voting  power as to 202,160,
     shared  voting power as to 0, sole  dispositive  power as to 3,740,449  and
     shared  dispositive  power as to 0 of the reported shares.  Various persons
     have the right to receive or the power to direct the  receipt of  dividends
     from,  or the  proceeds  from the  sale of,  the  reported  shares.  No one
     person's interest in the reported shares exceeds 5% of the class.  Fidelity
     Management & Research Company  ("Fidelity"),  a wholly-owned  subsidiary of
     FMR  Corp.,  is the  beneficial  owner of  3,388,789  shares as a result of
     acting as  investment  adviser to several  investment  companies  ("Funds")
     registered under Section 8 of the Investment Company Act of 1940. Edward C.
     Johnson 3d, FMR Corp., through its control of Fidelity,  and the Funds each
     has sole  power to  dispose  of the  3,388,789  shares  owned by the Funds.
     Neither FMR Corp. nor Edward C. Johnson 3d, Chairman of FMR Corp.,  has the
     sole power to vote or direct the voting of the shares owned directly by the
     Fidelity  Funds,  which power  resides with the Funds'  Boards of Trustees.
     Fidelity  Management Trust Company, a wholly-owned  subsidiary of FMR Corp.
     is the  beneficial  owner of 351,660 of the reported  shares as a result of
     serving as an  investment  manager of one or more  institutional  accounts.
     Edward C.  Johnson  3d and FMR  Corp.,  through  its  control  of  Fidelity
     Management  Trust  Company,  each has sole  dispositive  power over 351,660
     shares and sole  power to vote or to direct  the voting of 202,160  shares,
     and no power to vote or to direct the voting of 149,500 shares owned by the
     institutional account(s).  Edward C. Johnson 3d and Abigail P. Johnson, who
     own 12% and 24.5%  respectively of the  outstanding  voting Common Stock of
     FMR Corp.,  together with trusts for the benefit of family members,  form a
     controlling group with respect to FMR Corp.

(3)  As of December  31,  1996.  These  shares are held in trust  either for the
     benefit of  participants in the ESOP portion of the  Corporation's  Success
     Sharing Plan and ESOP or for personal trust accounts.

     As of March 10, 1997,  there were  2,408,378  shares in the ESOP portion of
     the Corporation's  Success Sharing Plan and ESOP. Of these shares,  468,490
     shares were allocated to ESOP  participants and 1,939,888 were unallocated.
     See the  discussion  on page 2 concerning  voting rights under the ESOP. In
     addition, as of March 10, 1997, the Trustee,  Wilmington Trust Company, was
     the record owner of 505,038 shares held in the Success  Sharing  portion of
     the  Corporation's  Success  Sharing  Plan and ESOP.  These  shares are not
     listed as  beneficially  owned by the Trustee on the  foregoing  beneficial
     ownership  chart,  as the  shares  are  allocated  to and voted by  Success
     Sharing Plan  participants,  and the Trustee claims no voting or investment
     power over these shares.

     As of December 31, 1996,  the Trustee  acted as trustee for personal  trust
     accounts holding 90,192 shares. The Trustee had sole dispositive and voting
     power as to 900 of these shares and shared  dispositive and voting power as
     to 88,192 of these shares.

     Ownership of equity  securities  of the  Corporation  by its  directors and
executive  officers  as of  February  28,  1997 is shown  below.  No  individual
director or executive officer has beneficial  ownership of more than one percent
of the Corporation's  equity  securities.  Directors and executive officers as a
group beneficially own about 2.9% of the Corporation's Common Stock.

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

                                                         AMOUNT AND NATURE OF BENEFICIAL
                                                            OWNERSHIP OF COMMON STOCK
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NAME                                                OWNED          OPTIONS (2)            TOTAL
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<S>                                                <C>                 <C>                  <C>  
Carolyn H. Baldwin                                 241  (1)            1,083                1,324
F. Caleb Blodgett                               17,261  (3)            1,083               18,344
David C. Cox                                     8,071  (1)            1,083                9,154
Jaye F. Dyer                                    25,551  (3)              749               26,300
Luella Gross Goldberg                           31,040  (1)(3)         1,083               32,123
William A. Hodder                               20,606  (1)            1,083               21,689
James J. Howard                                  3,694  (1)            1,083                4,777
Randy C. James                                   2,177  (1)            1,083                3,260
Richard L. Knowlton                             13,557  (1)            1,083               14,640
David A. Koch                                    4,765  (1)            1,083                5,848
Richard M. Kovacevich                            4,861                 1,083                5,944
Glen D. Nelson                                  24,494  (1)(3)         1,083               25,577
James J. Renier                                  7,215  (1)            1,083                8,298
John G. Turner                                 100,288  (3)(4)       161,624              261,912
John H. Flittie                                 73,921  (3)(4)       100,229              174,150
Steven W. Wishart                               46,660  (3)(4)       114,736              161,396
Robert C. Salipante                             26,746  (4)           49,197               75,943
Michael J. Dubes                                41,003  (3)(4)        67,769              108,772
Directors and Executive
  Officers as a group
  (22 PERSONS)                                 551,455  (1)(3)(4)    616,601            1,168,056
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</TABLE>

(1)  Includes Common Stock that each of the following individual directors has a
     right to receive upon  termination as a director and which is  beneficially
     owned by each  such  director  through  a rabbi  trust  established  by the
     issuer: Ms. Baldwin, 65 shares; Mr. Cox, 317 shares; Mrs. Goldberg,  15,000
     shares;  Mr. Hodder,  7,090 shares;  Mr. Howard,  2,017 shares;  Mr. James,
     1,077 shares;  Mr. Knowlton,  532 shares; Mr. Koch, 336 shares; Dr. Nelson,
     1,238  shares;  Dr.  Renier,  336  shares.  See the  discussion  on page 19
     regarding the voting rights of these  directors in the Common Stock held by
     the rabbi trust.

(2)  Includes options exercisable within 60 days of February 28, 1997.

(3)  Includes  shares of Common  Stock held by family  members as  follows:  Mr.
     Blodgett, 2,000 shares; Mr. Dyer, 19,352 shares; Mrs. Goldberg, 442 shares;
     Dr. Nelson,  4,327 shares; Mr. Turner,  10,228 shares; Mr. Flittie,  12,252
     shares; Mr. Wishart,  14,450 shares; Mr. Dubes, 8,989 shares. Mr. Blodgett,
     Dr.  Nelson and Mr.  Turner each  disclaim  beneficial  ownership  of these
     shares held by family members.

(4)  Includes  shares of Common  Stock held by the Trustee of the  Corporation's
     Success  Sharing  Plan and  ESOP on  behalf  of the  named  individuals  as
     follows: Mr. Turner, 9,561 shares; Mr. Flittie,  2,462 shares; Mr. Wishart,
     5,354 shares; Mr. Salipante, 762 shares; Mr. Dubes, 4,071 shares; directors
     and executive officers as a group, 31,843 shares.


                      EXPENSES AND METHODS OF SOLICITATION

     The Corporation will bear the expenses of the solicitation of proxies which
it will conduct principally by mail. In addition, certain officers and employees
of the Corporation may solicit  proxies  personally,  by telephone or by special
letter,  at the  Corporation's  expense,  and the Corporation may also reimburse
brokers,  custodians,  nominees and  fiduciaries for expenses in sending proxies
and proxy material to their principals and beneficial owners.
     The Corporation  has retained  Georgeson & Company Inc. to assist it in the
distribution of proxies for a total estimated fee of $7,000 plus expenses.


               SHAREHOLDER PROPOSALS AND MISCELLANEOUS INFORMATION

      Shareholder  proposals to be  presented at the 1998 Annual  Meeting of the
Corporation must be received by the Corporation not later than November 25, 1997
if they are to be considered for inclusion in the Corporation's  Proxy Statement
and identified in its form of proxy for the 1998 Annual  Meeting.  So far as the
Board of Directors and the management of the  Corporation  are aware, no matters
other than those  described  in the Notice of 1997  Annual  Meeting  and in this
Proxy  Statement  will be acted upon at the meeting.  However,  if other matters
properly  come before the meeting,  it is the  intention of the persons named as
proxies in the enclosed proxy to vote in accordance  with direction  provided by
the Board of Directors on such other matters.
      The  annual  report  of the  Corporation  for  1996,  including  financial
statements  which are  incorporated  herein by reference,  is enclosed with this
Notice and Proxy Statement.


                                   PROPOSAL 1


                              ELECTION OF DIRECTORS

     The Corporation's  Certificate of Incorporation  provides that the Board of
Directors shall consist of not less than six nor more than eighteen persons. The
Board is divided into three classes, and directors of one class are elected each
year for a term of three  years.  Each class shall  consist of not less than two
nor more  than  six  directors.  The  Board  has  determined  that the  class of
directors  to be elected in 1997 for a term of three  years shall be set at five
and has nominated  David C. Cox,  Luella G. Goldberg,  Randy C. James,  David A.
Koch and James J. Renier for  election to the Board for terms  expiring in 2000.
Directors Jaye F. Dyer, whose term expires with the 1997 Annual Meeting,  and F.
Caleb  Blodgett,  whose term would  expire  with the 1998  Annual  Meeting,  are
retiring in accordance with the Board's retirement policies.  Director Daniel J.
Callahan,  III resigned as director effective February 11, 1997. Each nominee is
currently a director of the Corporation.  The affirmative vote of the holders of
a  majority  of the  outstanding  shares  present  in  person or by proxy at the
meeting and eligible to vote will be required to approve the  proposed  election
of  directors.  The Board  recommends  that  shareholders  vote FOR the nominees
listed  below.   Proxies  solicited  by  the  Board  will  be  so  voted  unless
shareholders  specify  otherwise on their proxies.  Each nominee has indicated a
willingness  to serve,  but in case any nominee is not a candidate at the Annual
Meeting,  it is intended  that the proxies  will vote in favor of the  remaining
nominees and such other person as the proxies may determine.  Periods of service
as  directors  and  executive  officers  shown  below  include  service  in such
capacities  prior to 1989  for  ReliaStar  Life  Insurance  Company  ("ReliaStar
Life").  The  Corporation  became  a  successor  to  ReliaStar  Life,   formerly
Northwestern  National Life Insurance Company  ("Northwestern"),  through a 1989
merger  by  which   Northwestern   became  a  wholly  owned  subsidiary  of  the
Corporation.


NOMINEES FOR ELECTION FOR TERMS EXPIRING IN 2000


DAVID C. COX, age 59, director since 1988

President and Chief Executive Officer,  Cowles Media Company (communications and
publishing)  since 1985;  Director of Cowles Media  Company,  National  Computer
Systems, Inc. and Tennant Company.


LUELLA GROSS GOLDBERG, age 60, director since 1976

Chair, Board of Trustees, University of Minnesota Foundation since 1996, Trustee
since 1976; Trustee Emeritus of the Board of Trustees of Wellesley College since
1996,  Trustee from 1978 to 1996, Acting President during 1993,  Chairman of the
Board of Trustees from 1985 to 1993; Director of TCF Financial Corporation,  TCF
Bank Minnesota,  Hormel Foods Corporation,  Piper Funds Inc., Piper Global Funds
Inc.,  Piper  Institutional  Funds  Inc.  and a  number  of  related  closed-end
investment companies.


RANDY C. JAMES, age 49, director since 1994

Management  Consultant  since 1993;  Group  Executive  Vice  President,  Bank of
America (banking and financial  services) from 1992 to 1993;  Chairman and Chief
Executive Officer, Bank of America, Oregon (banking and financial services) from
1991 to 1992.


DAVID A. KOCH, age 66, director since 1981

Chairman,  Graco Inc.  (manufacturer  of fluid handling  equipment)  since 1996,
Chairman and Chief Executive  Officer from 1985 through 1995;  Director of Graco
Inc. and Federal Reserve Bank of Minneapolis.


JAMES J. RENIER, age 67, director since 1985

Retired  Chairman and Chief Executive  Officer,  Honeywell Inc. (global controls
company)  since 1994,  Chairman of the  Executive  Committee  from 1993 to 1994,
Chairman  and Chief  Executive  Officer  from 1988 to 1993;  Director  of Deluxe
Corporation, First Bank System, Inc. and KLM Royal Dutch Airlines.


DIRECTORS WHOSE CURRENT TERMS EXPIRE IN 1999


CAROLYN H. BALDWIN, age 48, director since 1993

Vice  President,  Chief of  Internal  Audits and  Director,  Corporate  Auditing
Department of The Coca-Cola Company  (manufacturer,  distributor and marketer of
non-alcoholic   beverages)   since  1993,   President  of  Coca-Cola   Financial
Corporation from 1991 to 1993.


JOHN H. FLITTIE, age 60, director since 1993

President and Chief  Operating  Officer of the  Corporation  and ReliaStar  Life
since 1993,  Senior  Executive Vice President and Chief  Operating  Officer from
1992 to 1993, Senior Executive Vice President from 1991 to 1992,  Executive Vice
President and Chief Financial Officer from 1989 to 1991;  President of ReliaStar
United  Services  Life  Insurance  Company and ReliaStar  Bankers  Security Life
Insurance Company since 1996;  Director of Community First Bankshares,  Inc. and
subsidiaries of the Corporation.


JAMES J. HOWARD, age 61, director since 1993

Chairman of the Board,  President and Chief Executive  Officer,  Northern States
Power Company (electric and gas utility company) since 1994,  Chairman and Chief
Executive Officer from 1988 to 1994;  Director of Northern States Power Company,
Ecolab,  Inc., Federal Reserve Bank of Minneapolis,  Honeywell Inc. and Walgreen
Company.


RICHARD M. KOVACEVICH, age 53, director since 1988

Chairman and Chief Executive Officer, Norwest Corporation (bank holding company)
since 1997,  Chairman,  President and Chief Executive Officer from 1995 to 1997,
President  and Chief  Executive  Officer from 1993 to 1995,  President and Chief
Operating Officer from 1989 to 1993; Director of Norwest  Corporation,  Northern
States Power Company, Dayton Hudson Corporation and PETsMART, Inc.


GLEN D. NELSON, age 59, director since 1979

Vice Chairman,  Medtronic,  Inc.  (manufacturer of implantable  medical devices)
since 1988;  Director of  Medtronic,  Inc.,  The St. Paul  Companies,  Inc.  and
Carlson Holdings, Inc.


DIRECTORS WHOSE CURRENT TERMS EXPIRE IN 1998


WILLIAM A. HODDER, age 65, director since 1979

Retired  Chairman  and  Chief  Executive  Officer,   Donaldson   Company,   Inc.
(manufacturer of filters and noise abatement equipment) since 1996, Chairman and
Chief  Executive  Officer  from  1994 to 1996,  Chairman,  President  and  Chief
Executive Officer from 1985 to 1994; Director of Cowles Media Company, Musicland
Stores Corporation, Norwest Corporation, Supervalu Inc. and Tennant Company.


RICHARD L. KNOWLTON, age 64, director since 1988

Chairman  of the Board of The  Hormel  Foundation  (charitable  foundation  that
controls 41.7% of Hormel Foods Corporation)  since 1995;  Chairman of the Board,
Hormel Foods Corporation from 1993 to 1995, Chairman and Chief Executive Officer
from 1992 to 1993, Chairman,  President and Chief Executive Officer from 1981 to
1992; Director of First Bank System, Inc., Mayo Foundation and Supervalu Inc.


JOHN G. TURNER, age 57, director since 1983

Chairman and Chief Executive Officer of the Corporation and ReliaStar Life since
1993,  Chairman,  President and Chief Executive  Officer in 1993,  President and
Chief Executive Officer from 1991 to 1993, President and Chief Operating Officer
from 1986 to 1991; Director of subsidiaries of the Corporation.


                      COMMITTEES OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS

     The Corporation's Board has established the following standing committees:

     EXECUTIVE  COMMITTEE.  When the  Board  is not in  session,  the  Executive
Committee has the powers of the Board. The Executive  Committee held no meetings
in 1996. Current members are Directors Turner (Chair),  Blodgett, Dyer, Flittie,
Goldberg, Knowlton, Kovacevich and Renier.

     FINANCE  COMMITTEE.  The Finance  Committee  considers  investment  policy,
shareholder dividends and matters of corporate finance, including capitalization
and financing  policies.  Five Finance Committee meetings were held during 1996.
Current members are Directors Turner (Chair), Blodgett, Dyer, Flittie, Goldberg,
Knowlton, Kovacevich and Renier.

     AUDIT COMMITTEE. The Audit Committee reviews annual financial statements of
the  Corporation  prior to release  to the  public,  examines  and  reviews  the
internal and external  audits of the  Corporation's  accounts and advises in the
selection of the  Corporation's  auditor.  The Audit  Committee  met three times
during 1996. Current members are Directors Koch (Chair),  Baldwin,  Cox, Howard,
James and Nelson.

     BOARD  AFFAIRS  COMMITTEE.  The Board Affairs  Committee  advises the Board
concerning selection of the Chief Executive Officer,  recommends  candidates for
election to the Board,  advises the Board regarding its committee  structure and
compensation,   and  approves   guidelines  for  the  Corporation's   charitable
contributions  programs.  The Committee  held three  meetings  during 1996.  The
Committee  will consider  candidates  for election to the Board  recommended  by
shareholders if any such recommendation is submitted in writing to the Secretary
of the  Corporation  no later than  December 31  preceding  the annual  meeting,
together  with  information  which will enable the  Committee  to  evaluate  the
qualifications  of  the  recommended  nominee.  Current  members  are  Directors
Goldberg (Chair), Baldwin, Blodgett, Dyer, Hodder, Koch and Nelson.

     PERSONNEL AND COMPENSATION POLICY COMMITTEE. The Personnel and Compensation
Policy Committee reviews and approves, or, where appropriate,  recommends to the
Board for approval, compensation and benefit plans for employees and retirees of
the Corporation and its subsidiaries, assists the Board in the evaluation of the
Chief Executive  Officer's  performance,  makes  recommendations  concerning the
Chief Executive Officer's compensation,  evaluates succession plans and provides
oversight concerning equal employment  opportunity  programs.  The Committee met
three times during 1996. Current members are Directors Hodder (Chair), Blodgett,
Cox, Dyer, Howard, James, Kovacevich and Renier.

     The Board held eight regular  meetings during 1996. Each director  attended
at least 75 percent of the  combined  total  number of meetings of the Board and
committees of the Board on which each director served during 1996.


             SECTION 16(a) BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP REPORTING COMPLIANCE

     Under federal  securities  laws,  the  Corporation's  directors,  executive
officers and holders of more than 10% of a registered class of the Corporation's
equity  securities  are  required  to file  reports  of their  ownership  of the
Corporation's  equity securities with the Securities and Exchange Commission and
the New York Stock  Exchange.  Specific  due dates for these  reports  have been
established, and the Corporation is required to disclose in this proxy statement
any failures to file required  reports or late filings during 1996. Based on the
written  representations  of the  Corporation's  insiders,  all of these  filing
requirements  were satisfied,  except that the following  individuals each filed
one late report to report the redemption of the Corporation's Depository shares,
each representing  one-quarter  share of 10% Senior Cumulative  Preferred Stock:
John H.  Flittie,  executive  officer and  director;  Kenneth U. Kuk,  executive
officer, and William A. Hodder, director.


                             EXECUTIVE COMPENSATION

PERSONNEL AND COMPENSATION POLICY COMMITTEE REPORT ON EXECUTIVE COMPENSATION

     The Personnel and  Compensation  Policy Committee of the Board of Directors
("Committee")  is  responsible  for  developing  the   Corporation's   executive
compensation  policies  and making  recommendations  to the Board  with  respect
thereto.  In addition,  the Committee makes annual  recommendations to the Board
concerning the  compensation to be paid to the Chief  Executive  Officer ("CEO")
and determines the compensation to be paid to the other named executive officers
of the Corporation as a group. The Committee also administers all aspects of the
Corporation's  executive  compensation  program  including  its stock  incentive
plans. The Committee is composed entirely of outside directors.
     COMPENSATION  PHILOSOPHY.  The  Committee's  philosophy  with regard to the
executive  compensation  programs of the  Corporation  is to (i)  emphasize  the
correlation between executive pay and the Corporation's  performance relative to
plan  and to peer  companies;  (ii)  reward  long-term  performance;  and  (iii)
strengthen  the  link  between  management's  and  shareholders'   interests  by
encouraging management's ownership of the Corporation's stock.
     The executive  compensation  program in effect for 1995  continued in 1996.
This pay  strategy is to provide  aggregate  salary and  incentive  compensation
based on market  compensation  percentile  targets  linked to the  Corporation's
performance. The objective of the program is to pay well below the market median
for threshold  levels of  performance,  at or slightly  above the median for par
performance,  and significantly above the median for superior performance.  With
the involvement of external  consultants,  market percentiles are determined for
the Corporation's peer group and other diversified  insurance companies for each
component of pay (base salary, annual cash compensation, and total compensation)
based on survey  data and proxy  statement  information.  The "peer  group" is a
group of publicly  traded  companies  approved by the Committee which compete in
the Corporation's primary lines of business. In 1996, as has been the case since
1993,  there were 25 companies in the peer group,  including the Corporation and
all eight of the companies  included in the S&P Life Insurance Index depicted in
the performance graph on page 14. The peer group is subject to occasional change
as the Corporation or its competitors change their focus, as members of the peer
group merge or are acquired,  or as new competitors emerge.  Commencing in 1997,
there will be 21 companies in the peer group, including the Corporation.
     BASE SALARY. In July, 1996 the Committee  approved an increase in the CEO's
base salary.  The Committee based this  recommendation on the Board's subjective
evaluation  of Mr.  Turner's  performance  relative to  pre-established  factors
relating to corporate  performance,  leadership,  strategy,  financial  results,
talent management,  board relations and communication/external  relations. These
criteria were not assigned specific weights for purposes of this evaluation.  In
reaching its  decision to  recommend  an increase in the CEO's base salary,  the
Committee  considered the Board's evaluation of Mr. Turner's  performance during
1995 and 1996 and his salary relative to the percentile target of the peer group
along with the recommendation of external consultants.
     In February,  1996, the Committee  considered and approved salary increases
for each of the other named executive  officers based on the CEO's evaluation of
each executive's 1995 performance and  consideration of each executive's  salary
relative  to  the  percentile  targets  established  for  each  position.  These
performance  evaluations  were  conducted  in  accordance  with a  process  used
throughout the Corporation.  This process based the performance  rating for each
individual on the accomplishment of specific objectives. These objectives varied
for each  executive  officer  and  related to factors  such as sales,  earnings,
investment quality and expense management.
     ANNUAL BONUSES.  The annual incentive  bonuses paid for 1996 to the CEO and
other named  executive  officers of the  Corporation  were paid  pursuant to the
Corporation's  Annual  Incentive Bonus Plan for Designated  Executive  Officers.
This Plan  complies  with the  requirements  of Section  162(m) of the  Internal
Revenue Code and compensation paid pursuant to the Plan is fully  tax-deductible
to the  Corporation.  Under the Plan, the Corporation  must achieve an after-tax
operating  income return on common equity  ("ROE") for the Plan year of at least
10.7% in order for any annual incentive  bonuses to be paid to the eight covered
executive  officers.  The  Corporation  surpassed this goal for 1996. If the ROE
goal is achieved,  a maximum  bonus pool is created  which equals two percent of
the  Corporation's  income from  continuing  operations for the Plan year before
income taxes, realized investment gains and losses,  extraordinary items and the
cumulative  effect of accounting  changes.  The total bonus pool amount for 1996
payments was $5,763,000.  The Plan provides that the maximum bonuses that can be
paid to the CEO and to the COO are 20% and 17%, respectively,  of the bonus pool
amount  for the  Plan  year,  and  that the  maximum  bonus to any of six  other
executive officers covered under the Plan may not exceed 10.5% of the bonus pool
amount. For 1996, the maximum bonuses that could be paid to the CEO and COO were
$1,153,000 and $980,000,  respectively, and the maximum bonus payable to each of
the other named executive officers was $605,115.
     Although the Plan specifies the maximum annual bonuses which may be paid to
any covered executive for a Plan year, the Committee  exercised  discretion,  as
permitted  under the Plan and Section  162(m),  to pay lesser  annual  incentive
bonuses for 1996 to the covered  executive  officers.  The Committee  determined
these actual bonuses based on the Enterprise  Performance Factor, a factor based
on operating ROE,  operating  earnings per share,  and capital  gains/losses for
1996 compared to planned goals for these  measures.  In some cases,  performance
compared to business unit goals and the  attainment  of  individual  performance
goals  approved by the Committee are  considered in the bonus  computation.  The
portion of the  annual  incentive  attributable  to the  Enterprise  Performance
Factor is 100 percent  for the CEO,  80 percent for the COO,  and 50 percent for
the other named executive  officers.  In addition,  the Committee  established a
threshold  increase in per share  operating  income over the previous year below
which no bonus based on the Enterprise  Performance Factor would be payable. The
award level opportunity for 1996, as a percentage of base annualized salary, for
achievement of the threshold,  par and maximum goals,  respectively,  was 32.5%,
65%, and 97.5% for the CEO, 30%, 60%, and 90% for the COO, and 25%, 50%, and 75%
for the other named  executive  officers.  The  Corporation's  1996  performance
relative to the Enterprise Performance Factor was approximately one-third of the
way between the par and maximum goals. This resulted in awards on the Enterprise
Performance  Factor  approximately  one-third  of the  way  between  the par and
maximum levels for the named executive officers.
     LONG-TERM  INCENTIVE  COMPENSATION.  The Corporation's  executive long-term
incentive  compensation  program  ("Program") has performance goals based on the
Corporation's total shareholder return ("TSR") relative to the same peer company
group used for compensation and financial performance  comparison purposes.  The
Committee believes that this Program links the long-term incentive reward system
to long-term corporate performance and the creation of shareholder value.
     Awards are calculated based on the Corporation's  quarterly average TSR for
each three-year performance cycle compared to the quarterly average TSR achieved
by the peer group. Threshold,  par and maximum performance levels are defined as
percentile  rankings relative to the peer group, with the par level representing
performance  at  the  60th  percentile  of  the  peer  group.  The  Program  has
overlapping  three-year  performance cycles such that one performance cycle ends
each year. The award level  opportunity  for each three-year  performance  cycle
under this Program,  as a percentage of base annualized  salary, is 16.25%,  65%
and 130% for achievement of threshold, par and maximum TSR goals,  respectively,
for the CEO; 15%, 60% and 120%,  respectively,  for the COO; and 12.5%,  50% and
100%, respectively, for the other named executive officers. Performance relative
to the peer group for the three-year  performance  cycle ended December 31, 1996
produced awards three-fourths of the way between par and maximum, reflecting the
Corporation's  rank of seventh out of the 25 companies in the peer group for the
three-year  TSR. The  Committee's  policy is to require  that the  Corporation's
independent  auditors  perform certain  agreed-upon  procedures  relative to the
calculation of performance-based compensation before awards are paid.
     STOCK-BASED COMPENSATION.  The Board of Directors and the Committee believe
that stock ownership by management is a major incentive in building  shareholder
value and aligning the  interests of employees  and  shareholders.  To encourage
increased ownership of the Corporation's  stock by management,  the Committee in
1993  established  stock  ownership  targets,  expressed  as a multiple  of base
salary,  for each member of the Corporation's  senior  management.  These target
ownership  levels  are  to be  achieved  over  a  seven-year  period.  To  offer
opportunities to executives to accomplish these stock ownership objectives,  the
Corporation's  1993 Stock Incentive Plan ("Stock Plan") authorizes the Committee
to make awards of stock options and restricted and unrestricted shares of Common
Stock to key  employees.  The Stock Plan also provides for grants of replacement
stock options and features a deposit share  program  which  provides  executives
with an opportunity to attain their stock ownership objectives.
     In 1996 the Committee  awarded  options to purchase  146,227  shares of the
Corporation's  Common Stock to the named executive officers.  The exercise price
for each  grant  was the fair  market  value as of the date of  grant.  Of these
options,  73,017 were awarded in connection with the  Committee's  philosophy to
make annual  stock  option  grants in amounts  determined  by  reference  to the
executives'  base salaries.  The multiples of salary are determined  annually by
the Committee based on each executive's position and responsibility and based on
total compensation percentile targets. The option multiple may be adjusted based
on the executive's  most recent  performance and a subjective  evaluation of the
executive's future contribution to the Corporation.
     In July 1996,  the Committee  granted the CEO an option to purchase  39,229
shares.  Based on its review of the CEO's  compensation as described  above, the
Committee  determined to make this additional  grant of stock options to the CEO
in order to bring the CEO's total  compensation  up to the targeted  percentile.
The Committee also determined that, in the future,  consideration for the annual
option  grant to the CEO will  occur in July in  conjunction  with the review of
performance  and base salary rather than in February as has been the case in the
past. The other named executive officers will continue to be eligible for annual
option grants in February.
     The Committee does not specifically  consider the number of options already
held by the executive in determining the size of the annual stock option grants.
Generally,  one-third of the stock  options  granted to each  officer  vests and
becomes  exercisable  on each of the first  three  anniversaries  of the date of
grant.  To encourage early exercise of stock options during their ten-year term,
the stock  options  awarded  by the  Committee  in 1996 to the  named  executive
officers  include a  replacement  stock option  feature.  When these options are
exercised,  the executive will be awarded replacement stock options to purchase,
at the fair market value on the date of exercise of the underlying options,  the
number of shares used by the executive to pay the purchase price (or which would
have been used if the shares had been  tendered  instead of cash) and the number
of shares  withheld by the  Corporation  or remitted by the executive in payment
for withholding  taxes.  The replacement  stock options have a term equal to the
remaining term of the underlying  options.  They vest and become exercisable six
months after they are granted.  The annual and  replacement  stock option awards
granted to the named  executive  officers in 1996 by the Committee  include both
incentive and nonqualified stock options.
     The Stock Plan also  authorizes  the  Committee  to make  restricted  stock
awards  to  eligible  participants  pursuant  to the  terms of a  deposit  share
program.  This program allows  eligible  participants  who deposit  unrestricted
shares of the  Corporation's  common  stock with the  Corporation  to receive an
award of  restricted  stock.  This  program is  designed to  encourage  eligible
executives  to take  payment of  specified  portions of their  awards  under the
Corporation's  annual incentive  compensation  program in the form of shares, as
opposed to cash,  and to agree to hold  these  shares  for an  extended  period.
Eligible  participants,  the number of shares permitted to be deposited with the
Corporation,  and the number of  matching  restricted  shares to be awarded  are
determined  annually by the  Committee in  consideration  of total  compensation
percentile  targets and the progress of the named executive  officers as a group
in attaining their share ownership objectives. For 1996 incentive awards payable
in February,  1997, the Committee  determined that the named executive  officers
and about 60 other key  employees  would be eligible to elect to deposit  shares
with fair market value of up to one-fourth of the executive's  annual  incentive
compensation  award for 1996.  To receive a restricted  stock  award,  the named
executive had to elect, in advance of the bonus payment date, to receive payment
of a specified  percentage of incentive  awards for 1996 in unrestricted  shares
deposited  with the  Corporation.  The Committee  determined to match each share
deposited with one-half of a restricted share and provided that fifty percent of
the  restricted  shares  granted  would vest three years and fifty percent would
vest five years  after the date of  deposit.  The  restricted  shares may not be
sold, exchanged, transferred or otherwise disposed of until they are vested, but
the  executives  are  entitled to vote and receive  dividends  on them until the
restricted  period ends. If the shares deposited by the executives are withdrawn
prior to the vesting of the matching restricted shares, the executive forfeits a
proportional amount of the nonvested restricted shares. Except in the event of a
disability,  retirement  as defined in the plan, or death,  the  executive  will
forfeit any nonvested restricted shares upon his/her termination of employment.
     POLICY WITH REGARD TO TAX  DEDUCTIBILITY  OF  EXECUTIVE  COMPENSATION.  The
Securities  and Exchange  Commission  requires  this Report of the  Committee on
Executive  Compensation  to address the  Corporation's  policy  with  respect to
eligibility for deductibility  under Section 162(m) of the Internal Revenue Code
of 1986, as amended ("Code"),  of compensation  paid to its executive  officers.
The  Corporation  has adopted  the Annual  Incentive  Bonus Plan for  Designated
Executive Officers, as previously described in this report, which is designed to
preserve the  Corporation's  federal  income tax deduction for annual  incentive
bonuses  paid  to  executive  officers  of the  Corporation.  In  addition,  the
Committee adopted  amendments to the long-term  incentive  compensation  program
which were  approved by  shareholders  in 1996 that  preserve the  Corporation's
federal  income tax  deduction  for awards  made under the  program to the named
executive officers. The Committee has adopted an amendment to the 1993 ReliaStar
Stock  Incentive  Plan,  which if approved by  shareholders  will  preserve  the
Corporation's  tax  deduction  for stock  option  exercise  gains under  Section
162(m).  The Committee intends to take the steps it deems advisable to allow the
Corporation to deduct future  compensation  amounts paid to the named  executive
officers to the extent it is possible to do so without  compromising the ability
of the plans to motivate and reward excellent performance.

                                            The Members of the Committee:

                                            WILLIAM A. HODDER (CHAIR)
                                            F. CALEB BLODGETT
                                            DAVID C. COX
                                            JAYE F. DYER
                                            JAMES J. HOWARD
                                            RANDY C. JAMES
                                            RICHARD M. KOVACEVICH
                                            JAMES J. RENIER


SUMMARY COMPENSATION TABLE

     The following table sets forth the cash and noncash  compensation  for each
of  the  last  three  fiscal  years  awarded  to or  earned  by  the  CEO of the
Corporation  and  the  four  other  highest  paid  executive   officers  of  the
Corporation:


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<CAPTION>

                                                                                   LONG TERM COMPENSATION(1)
                                                                                   -------------------------
                                                                                         AWARDS         PAYOUTS
                                                        ANNUAL                           ------         -------
                                                     COMPENSATION
                                                     ------------
                                                                                           RESTRICTED  SECURITIES
                                                                 OTHER ANNUAL     STOCK    UNDERLYING     LTIP        ALL OTHER
                                              SALARY      BONUS  COMPENSATION    AWARDS      OPTIONS     PAYOUTS    COMPENSATION
NAME AND PRINCIPAL POSITION         YEAR      ($)(1)     ($)(2)       ($)        ($)(3)      (#)(4)      ($)(5)          ($)
- ---------------------------         ----      ------     ------ -------------    ------      ------      ------     --------
<S>                                 <C>       <C>        <C>              <C>     <C>        <C>         <C>           <C>      
John G. Turner, Chairman and
   Chief Executive Officer          1996      623,654    506,923          0       60,009     65,000      739,375       93,492(6)
                                    1995      586,269    499,216          0      119,635     32,058      764,400       81,452(7)
                                    1994      543,185    370,723          0      202,027     30,510      713,700       53,917(8)
John H. Flittie, President
  and Chief Operating               1996      451,923    309,860          0       36,544     38,704      483,000       53,732(6)
  Officer                           1995      425,100    306,239          0      263,656     21,040      505,680       53,802(7)
                                    1994      407,546    305,848          0      138,836     40,739      494,160       40,006(8)
Steven W. Wishart, Senior Vice
  President and Chief Investment    1996      296,846    203,852          0            0     11,571      261,625       34,693(6)
  Officer                           1995      288,173    181,075          0            0     17,615      285,180       36,058(7)
                                    1994      279,019    191,052          0       87,545     33,393      280,500       26,810(8)
Robert C. Salipante, Senior Vice
  President                         1996      272,538    185,608          0       20,869     15,065      249,375       32,124(6)
                                    1995      245,019    175,020          0      129,362     18,989      245,000       30,177(7)
                                    1994      223,980    161,586          0       75,645     10,661      231,500       19,576(8)
Michael J. Dubes, Senior Vice
  President                         1996      288,269    142,431          0       17,252     15,887      258,125       59,985(6)
                                    1995          N/A        N/A        N/A          N/A        N/A          N/A          N/A
                                    1994      231,711    111,947    119,154(9)    61,039     18,007      250,500       41,786(8)
- ----------------

</TABLE>


(1)  Includes  base  salary  paid,   amounts  deferred  under  salary  reduction
     agreements and amounts  applied to purchase  certain fringe  benefits under
     the Corporation's cafeteria plan.

(2)  Amounts  shown for each year include the annual  incentive  bonuses paid in
     cash and in Common  Stock.  Cash bonus  amounts are  converted to shares by
     dividing  the dollar  amount by the fair  market  value of the stock on the
     bonus  determination  date.  Amounts  shown for each year also include cash
     awards,   paid  in  the  following  year,  pursuant  to  the  Corporation's
     broad-based  Success  Sharing Plan  covering all eligible  employees of the
     Corporation.

(3)  The total number of restricted  shares held, and their value as of December
     31, 1996, based on the closing price, by each of the named executives is as
     follows: Mr. Turner, 22,901 shares ($1,322,533); Mr. Flittie, 19,635 shares
     ($1,133,921);  Mr. Wishart, 10,183 shares ($588,068); Mr. Salipante, 11,687
     shares  ($674,924);  Mr. Dubes,  11,074  ($639,524).  Dividends are paid on
     these restricted shares at the same rate as those paid on the Corporation's
     Common Stock.

(4)  The Corporation has not issued any free-standing stock appreciation rights.

(5)  Payout  amounts  shown for each year are for  performance  cycles ending in
     that  year.  Such  amounts  are  determined  and paid in cash in the  first
     quarter of the following year.

(6)  Includes  (a) combined  contributions  to the  Corporation's  tax-qualified
     Success Sharing Plan and ESOP and a nonqualified  supplemental plan for the
     1996 plan year as follows: Mr. Turner,  $50,469; Mr. Flittie,  $36,573; Mr.
     Wishart,  $24,022;  Mr. Salipante,  $22,055;  Mr. Dubes,  $23,328; (b) 1996
     premiums  paid  for  term  life  insurance  coverage  and  the  actuarially
     projected  current  dollar  value of the  benefit to the  executive  of the
     remainder of premiums for split dollar life insurance  coverage paid by the
     Corporation  on behalf of the named  executives  as  follows:  Mr.  Turner,
     $15,638; Mr. Flittie, $13,866; Mr. Wishart, $10,671, Mr. Salipante, $6,117;
     Mr. Dubes,  $9,415; (c) interest accrued during 1996 on long-term incentive
     program payout amounts deferred at the executive's election as follows: Mr.
     Turner,  $27,385;  Mr. Flittie,  $3,293; Mr. Salipante,  $3,952; Mr. Dubes,
     $6,473;  (d) lump-sum cash payment of $20,769 in accrued vacation pay as of
     December 31, 1995 made to Mr. Dubes  pursuant to a change in a subsidiary's
     vacation carry-over policy.

(7)  Includes  (a) combined  contributions  to the  Corporation's  tax-qualified
     Success Sharing Plan and ESOP and a nonqualified  supplemental plan for the
     1995 plan year as follows: Mr. Turner,  $51,137; Mr. Flittie,  $37,079; Mr.
     Wishart,  $25,136; Mr. Salipante,  $21,372; (b) 1995 premiums paid for term
     life insurance coverage and the actuarially  projected current dollar value
     of the benefit to the  executive  of the  remainder  of premiums  for split
     dollar life  insurance  coverage paid by the  Corporation  on behalf of the
     named executives as follows: Mr. Turner, $16,434; Mr. Flittie, $13,562; Mr.
     Wishart,  $10,922; Mr. Salipante,  $5,579; (c) interest accrued during 1995
     on long-term  incentive  program payout amounts deferred at the executive's
     election  as  follows:  Mr.  Turner,  $13,881;  Mr.  Flittie,  $3,161;  Mr.
     Salipante,  $3,226. Mr. Dubes was not in an Executive Officer position with
     the Corporation in 1995.

(8)  Includes  (a) combined  contributions  to the  Corporation's  tax-qualified
     Success Sharing Plan and ESOP and a nonqualified  supplemental plan for the
     1994 plan year as follows: Mr. Turner,  $35,198; Mr. Flittie,  $26,409; Mr.
     Wishart,  $18,080;  Mr. Salipante,  $14,514;  Mr. Dubes,  $15,015; (b) 1994
     premiums  paid  for  term  life  insurance  coverage  and  the  actuarially
     projected  current  dollar  value of the  benefit to the  executive  of the
     remainder of premiums for split dollar life insurance  coverage paid by the
     Corporation  on behalf of the named  executives  as  follows:  Mr.  Turner,
     $15,473; Mr. Flittie, $11,089; Mr. Wishart, $8,730; Mr. Salipante,  $5,062;
     Mr. Dubes,  $5,833; (c) interest accrued during 1994 on long-term incentive
     program payout amounts deferred at the executive's election as follows: Mr.
     Turner, $3,246; Mr. Flittie, $2,508; Mr. Dubes, $2,002; (d) $18,658 paid to
     Mr. Dubes in pay-out of accrued vacation.

(9)  Includes $53,141 in  reimbursement of moving expenses,  club initiation and
     dues of $61,735, other perquisites and personal benefits totaling $4,278.

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>


                                        COMPARISON OF FIVE-YEAR CUMULATIVE TOTAL RETURN*
                                        ------------------------------------------------

THE FOLLOWING ARE DATA POINTS WHICH  REPRESENT  RELIASTAR'S  FIVE YEAR CUMULTIVE
TOTAL RETURN COMARED TO THE S&P LIFE INS. INDEX AND S&P 500 INDEX.


        [GRAPHIC OMITTED]
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<S>                        <C>             <C>            <C>             <C>            <C>           <C>   
  ReliaStar                100.00          170.05         219.49          204.49         321.31        428.14
  S&P Life Ins. Index      100.00          134.18         135.93          112.74         161.88        197.80
  S&P 500 Index            100.00          107.62         118.46          120.03         165.13        203.05
  -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

</TABLE>

*Assumes $100 invested on December 31, 1991 in ReliaStar  Financial Corp. Common
Stock, the S&P 500 Index and the S&P Life Insurance Index.  Total return assumes
reinvestment of dividends.


STOCK OPTIONS

     The following  tables  summarize  stock option grants and exercises  during
1996 with  respect  to the CEO and the  other  executive  officers  named in the
Summary  Compensation Table and the value of the options held by such persons at
the end of 1996.

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

                                             STOCK OPTION GRANTS IN 1996

                                             NUMBER OF
                                             SECURITIES          PERCENTAGE OF
                                             UNDERLYING          TOTAL OPTIONS                                        GRANT DATE
                                               OPTIONS              GRANTED        EXERCISE OR       EXPIRATION         PRESENT
                                               GRANTED              IN 1996        BASE PRICE           DATE             VALUE
NAME                                            (#)(1)                (%)              ($)                              ($)(2)
- ------------------                         ----------------    ---------------    -------------   ---------------      --------
<S>                                           <C>                  <C>               <C>              <C>               <C>    
John G. Turner                                6,441  (3)             .89             46.5625          02/06/06          100,995
                                             19,330  (3)            2.66             46.5625          02/07/06          303,094
                                             39,229  (3)            5.41             43.6875          07/10/06          571,959

John H. Flittie                              16,161  (3)            2.23             46.5625          02/07/06          253,404
                                              5,767  (4)             .79             52.0625          02/10/03           84,890
                                              6,209  (4)             .86             52.0625          02/11/03           91,396
                                             10,567  (4)            1.46             52.0625          02/10/04          165,691

Steven W. Wishart                             6,441  (3)             .89             46.5625          02/06/06          100,995
                                              2,933  (3)             .40             46.5625          02/07/06           45,989
                                              2,197  (4)             .30             45.3125          02/10/03           28,825

Robert C. Salipante                           6,441  (3)             .89             46.5625          02/06/06          100,995
                                              4,833  (3)             .67             46.5625          02/07/06           75,781
                                              3,791  (4)             .52             48.25            02/11/03           50,686

Michael J. Dubes                              6,441  (3)             .89             46.5625          02/06/06          100,995
                                              3,996  (3)             .55             46.5625          02/07/06           62,657
                                              5,450  (4)             .75             42.9375          02/10/03           66,926
- --------------

</TABLE>

(1)  All options  granted may be exercised  with cash or already owned shares of
     Common Stock valued at the time of exercise and include a right to have the
     Corporation  withhold  shares upon exercise to satisfy the  executive's tax
     liability incurred as a result of the exercise.

(2)  Present values have been estimated  using a variation of the  Black-Scholes
     valuation method, assuming a dividend yield of 2.56%, a 36-month volatility
     factor of .2374,  a risk-free  rate of return equal to the zero coupon bond
     interest rate for bonds of the same term issued in the month of each option
     grant, and exercise at the end of the option term.

(3)  Options granted are exercisable with respect to one-third of the underlying
     shares on each of the first  three  one-year  anniversaries  of the date of
     grant. The options have a term of ten years, subject to earlier termination
     in certain events related to termination of employment.  The options have a
     replacement  (reload)  feature  which  results in the grant of a new option
     upon the executive's  exercise of the option using  previously owned shares
     or cash  equivalent.  The replacement  option's  exercise price is the fair
     market value of the Common Stock on the replacement  option grant date, and
     its term is equal to the remaining term of the option exercised.

(4)  Replacement (reload) option awarded on exercise of option with payment made
     with  previously  owned Common Stock or cash  equivalent.  The  replacement
     option has a term equal to the remaining term of the option exercised,  has
     an exercise  price equal to the fair  market  value of Common  Stock on the
     replacement  option  grant date and may be  exercised  six months after the
     date of grant.

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

                             AGGREGATED STOCK OPTION EXERCISES IN 1996 AND YEAR-END STOCK OPTION VALUES


                                                                           NUMBER OF SECURITIES          VALUE OF UNEXERCISED
                                                                         UNDERLYING UNEXERCISED          IN-THE-MONEY OPTIONS
                                 SHARES ACQUIRED            VALUE          OPTIONS AT END OF 1996        AT END OF 1996
                                   ON EXERCISE            REALIZED       (EXERCISABLE/UNEXERCISABLE)     (EXERCISABLE/UNEXERCISABLE)
   NAME                                (#)                   ($)                     (#)                           ($)
- ----------------               -------------------      -------------    --------------------------      ---------------------------
<S>                                  <C>                    <C>                <C>                          <C>       
John G. Turner                       9,628                  316,854            135,603/96,542               4,787,492/1,652,057
John H. Flittie                     32,850                  716,923             80,629/59,930               3,027,417/855,354
Steven W. Wishart                    3,322                   50,557            102,971/22,108               3,622,070/429,209
Robert C. Salipante                  6,000                  108,938             37,605/23,388               1,077,926/432,328
Michael J. Dubes                    18,922                  434,536             61,399/27,728               2,247,726/498,633

</TABLE>

LONG-TERM INCENTIVE PROGRAM AWARDS

     The  Corporation's  long-term  incentive  program  provides  for payment of
awards at the conclusion of three-year  performance cycles.  Awards are based on
the Corporation's  quarterly average total shareholder return ("TSR"),  for each
three-year  performance cycle, compared to the quarterly average TSR achieved by
a peer  group of  companies.  The  peer  group  is a group  of  publicly  traded
companies  approved by the Personnel and  Compensation  Policy  Committee  which
compete in the Corporation's  primary lines of business.  There are 25 companies
in the peer group,  including  the  Corporation  and all eight of the  companies
included in the S&P Life Insurance  Index depicted in the  performance  graph on
page 14. At the  commencement  of each  performance  cycle,  threshold,  par and
maximum  performance level goals are defined as percentile  rankings relative to
the peer group.
     Awards  are  determined  as a  specified  percentage  of  each  executive's
annualized base salary in effect for the last year of the performance  cycle for
the Corporation's  attainment of the threshold, par or maximum TSR goals for the
cycle.  Awards for the  performance  cycle which ended  December 31,  1996,  are
reported as long-term  incentive plan payouts in the Summary  Compensation Table
on page 12. The following  table  reflects  estimates for awards that may become
payable to the CEO and other named executive officers for the performance cycles
which were in progress  during 1996 but which did not end in 1996, if threshold,
par or maximum  performance is achieved.  The amounts shown for each performance
level are based on estimates of the  executive's  annualized base salary for the
final year of the  performance  cycle using an assumed annual salary increase of
five percent.  Actual base salary amounts may vary from these estimates.  Awards
under the program made to any participant for a performance cycle may not exceed
$2  million.  The  award  for any  performance  cycle is not  earned  until  the
conclusion of the cycle, and the Committee has the right to amend or discontinue
the program as to cycles in progress at any time.

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

                             PERFORMANCE OR OTHER PERIOD             ESTIMATED FUTURE PAY-OUTS UNDER NON-STOCK-PRICE-BASED PLANS
NAME                         UNTIL MATURATION OR PAY-OUT             THRESHOLD ($)           TARGET ($)           MAXIMUM ($)
- ------------------           ------------------------------          --------------------------------------------------------
<S>                                    <C>                             <C>                    <C>                   <C>    
John G. Turner                         1995-1997                       110,906                443,625               887,250
                                       1996-1998                       116,452                465,806               931,612

John H. Flittie                        1995-1997                        72,450                289,800               579,600
                                       1996-1998                        76,073                304,290               608,580

Steven W. Wishart                      1995-1997                        39,244                156,975               313,950
                                       1996-1998                        41,206                164,824               329,648

Robert C. Salipante                    1995-1997                        37,406                149,625               299,250
                                       1996-1998                        39,277                157,106               314,213

Michael J. Dubes                       1995-1997                        38,719                154,875               309,750
                                       1996-1998                        40,655                162,619               325,238

</TABLE>

Commencing with the 1997-1999  performance  cycle, there will be 21 companies in
the peer group, including the Corporation.


DEFINED BENEFIT RETIREMENT PLAN

     QUALIFIED DEFINED BENEFIT  RETIREMENT PLAN. The following table illustrates
the estimated  monthly  defined  benefit  retirement  benefit  payable under the
Corporation's  defined  benefit  retirement  plan  covering the named  executive
officers together with amounts that may be payable under supplemental retirement
agreements ("SRAs") the Corporation has adopted to replace any qualified defined
benefit plan benefits  which are limited by operation of certain  federal income
tax limitations.  The Corporation's  qualified  defined benefit  retirement plan
provides  benefits at normal  retirement age 65 for eligible  employees who have
attained  age 21. The plan's  normal  benefit is a  five-year  certain  and life
monthly  benefit  generally equal to two percent of the last five years' average
annual regular salary for each of the first 25 years of credited service plus .6
percent of such salary for each of the next ten years of credited  service  with
an  overall  maximum of 35 years of service  counted,  minus two  percent of the
primary Social Security  benefit for each year of credited service not in excess
of 25. Final average salary includes  regular cash  compensation,  including any
amounts  deferred  under salary  reduction  agreements  and  contributed  to the
Corporation's  401(k) plan and amounts elected to be applied to purchase certain
fringe  benefits  pursuant to the  Corporation's  cafeteria  plan through salary
reduction agreements, but does not include incentive compensation.  The Employee
Retirement Income Security Act of 1974, as amended ("ERISA"),  imposes a maximum
limit on the annual  retirement  benefits  payable  under  qualified  retirement
plans.  For 1996,  that annual limit was  $120,000.  In  addition,  the Internal
Revenue  Code limits the amount of annual  compensation  that may be  considered
under qualified  retirement plans. In 1996, that annual limit was $150,000.  The
table shown below does not take into consideration  either of these limitations.
The  Corporation  has adopted SRAs that are designed to replace any pension plan
benefits  to which a  participant  would  otherwise  be  entitled  but for these
limitations.   Executive  officers  of  the  Corporation,  including  the  named
executive officers,  are covered under these SRAs. Current  compensation covered
by a combination of the defined benefit  retirement plan and the SRA for each of
the named executive officers is as follows: Mr. Turner,  $650,000;  Mr. Flittie,
$460,000;  Mr.  Wishart,  $299,000;  Mr.  Salipante,  $285,000;  and Mr.  Dubes,
$295,000.  Years of credited  service for the named  executive  officers  are as
follows: Mr. Turner, 29 years; Mr. Flittie, 11 years; Mr. Wishart, 26 years; Mr.
Salipante,  4 years;  and Mr.  Dubes,  29 years.  Mr.  Flittie  has an  unfunded
agreement which will provide him with a supplemental retirement benefit, payable
outside of the plan,  based on 25 years of credited  service at age 65, less the
amount of his actual retirement  benefit payable under the plan. The table below
shows the estimated monthly  retirement benefit from the plan for the salary and
length of service shown net of the Social Security  offset.  The Social Security
offset reflected in the table is the maximum primary Social Security benefit for
a fully insured retiree at December 31, 1996.

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

                                                               ESTIMATED FIVE-YEAR CERTAIN AND LIFE MONTHLY ANNUITY AT AGE 65
                                                                                  YEARS OF CREDITED SERVICE
                                                             ----------------------------------------------------------------
FINAL AVERAGE ANNUAL REGULAR SALARY($)                        15             20             25            30             35
- --------------------------------------                        --             --             --            --             --
<S>                                                           <C>           <C>            <C>            <C>           <C>  
200,000..............................................         4,602         6,136          7,670          8,170         8,670
250,000..............................................         5,852         7,803          9,754         10,379        11,004
300,000..............................................         7,102         9,470         11,837         12,587        13,337
350,000..............................................         8,352        11,136         13,920         14,795        15,670
400,000..............................................         9,602        12,803         16,004         17,004        18,004
450,000..............................................        10,852        14,470         18,087         19,212        20,337
500,000..............................................        12,102        16,136         20,170         21,420        22,670
550,000..............................................        13,352        17,803         22,254         23,629        25,004
600,000..............................................        14,602        19,470         24,337         25,837        27,337
650,000..............................................        15,852        21,136         26,420         28,045        29,670
700,000..............................................        17,102        22,803         28,504         30,254        32,004
750,000..............................................        18,352        24,470         30,587         32,462        34,337
800,000..............................................        19,602        26,136         32,670         34,670        36,670

</TABLE>

SUPPLEMENTAL EXECUTIVE RETIREMENT PLAN

     The Corporation has  established a Supplemental  Executive  Retirement Plan
("SERP") for  executive  officers  selected by the  Personnel  and  Compensation
Policy   Committee,   including  all  of  the  officers  named  in  the  Summary
Compensation Table. Under the SERP, participants whose termination of employment
occurs after age 55 and 10 or more years of vesting service, or after age 65 and
5 or more years of vesting service are entitled to a monthly  pension  beginning
at or after age 65,  determined as follows:  If the participant has completed 10
or more years of credited  service,  the  supplemental  benefit is the amount by
which 55% of the  participant's  last five  years  average  annual  compensation
(salary  plus annual  bonus)  exceeds the SERP  offset  amount.  The SERP offset
amount  is  the  sum  of  the  following:  (i)  the  amount  payable  under  the
Corporation's  qualified  defined benefit  retirement plan described above, (ii)
the  participant's  monthly  primary Social Security  benefit offset  determined
under the retirement plan as described above, (iii) an amount which approximates
the monthly benefit payable to the participant which is attributable to employer
contributions  under  the  Corporation's   qualified  and  supplemental  defined
contribution  plans,  (iv)  the  amount  of any  vested  pension  earned  by the
participant  under a prior  employer's  defined  benefit  plan or  under a prior
employer's  defined  contribution  plan if that  plan was the  prior  employer's
primary retirement plan, and (v) the amount payable under any other supplemental
retirement plan or agreement  covering the  participant.  If the participant has
less  than ten years of  credited  service,  the SERP  amount is 10% of the SERP
amount determined as described above for each year of the participant's credited
service up to 10. The SERP is  unfunded.  The  following  table  shows  selected
estimated  annual  benefits  payable under the SERP,  calculated as a five years
certain and life monthly  benefit,  assuming  retirement  at age 65 in 1997,  to
persons  having at least ten years of service and the indicated  average  annual
compensation  after reduction for the primary Social Security benefit offset but
before reductions for any of the other offsets listed above. For purposes of the
SERP,  the years of  service as of  December  31,  1996 for the named  executive
officers is as  follows:  Mr.  Turner,  29 years;  Mr.  Flittie,  11 years;  Mr.
Wishart,  26 years; Mr.  Salipante,  4 years;  and Mr. Dubes, 29 years.  Current
compensation covered by the SERP for the named executive officers is as follows:
Mr. Turner,  $1,113,754;  Mr.  Flittie,  $749,592;  Mr. Wishart,  $492,690;  Mr.
Salipante, $450,795; and Mr. Dubes, $422,924.

SALARY + ANNUAL INCENTIVE($)                        ESTIMATED ANNUAL BENEFIT ($)
- ----------------------------                        ----------------------------

   350,000                                                    176,588
   400,000                                                    204,088
   450,000                                                    231,588
   500,000                                                    259,088
   550,000                                                    286,588
   600,000                                                    314,088
   650,000                                                    341,588
   700,000                                                    369,088
   750,000                                                    396,588
   800,000                                                    424,088
   850,000                                                    451,588
   900,000                                                    479,088
   950,000                                                    506,588
 1,000,000                                                    534,088
 1,050,000                                                    561,588
 1,100,000                                                    589,088
 1,150,000                                                    616,588
 1,200,000                                                    644,088
 1,250,000                                                    671,588
 1,300,000                                                    699,088
 1,350,000                                                    726,588
 1,400,000                                                    754,088
 1,450,000                                                    781,588
 1,500,000                                                    809,088


CHANGE IN CONTROL AND TERMINATION ARRANGEMENTS

     The  Corporation  has  management  agreements  with  each of its  executive
officers.  If, following a change in control of the Corporation,  an executive's
employment  is  involuntarily  terminated  as  defined  in the  agreements,  the
executive may, depending upon the timing and subject to certain limitations,  be
entitled to receive  lump-sum cash severance  compensation  equal to three times
the sum of (i) the  executive's  base  annual  salary  in  effect at the time of
termination  of  employment  plus (ii) the average  annual bonus  payable to the
executive for the shorter of the most recent completed three years or the actual
period of the executive's  employment with the Corporation or its  subsidiaries.
The executive is also entitled to continuation of certain insurance benefits and
to  receive a  lump-sum  cash  payment of the  present  value of the  additional
qualified and nonqualified  supplemental  defined benefit pension benefits which
the executive would have earned had employment continued to the earlier of three
years following  termination of employment or to age 65. In addition,  all stock
options  granted to the executive vest and become  exercisable  upon a change of
control,  and all restrictions on any restricted  shares of Common Stock granted
to the executive lapse upon such change of control.  The  Corporation  will also
reimburse an executive for legal expenses incurred to resolve disputes under the
agreements.
     The Corporation has established  grantor trusts under which the Corporation
may set aside  funds to  satisfy  the  obligations  of the  Corporation  and its
subsidiaries under their incentive  compensation  plans,  deferred  compensation
programs and supplemental  profit sharing plans. The Chief Executive  Officer of
the Corporation,  subject to approval of the Personnel and  Compensation  Policy
Committee,  may cause the  Corporation  to set aside funds pursuant to the trust
instruments, except that in the event of a change of control of the Corporation,
the  trusts  provide  that  such  funds  shall   automatically   be  irrevocably
contributed to the trusts.
     Under the terms of the stock options granted to directors, officers and key
employees, if there is a change in control of the Corporation, as defined in the
Corporation's  stock option  plans,  the portion of any  outstanding  options in
which the grantee is not vested shall immediately vest and become exercisable.
     The  Board  of  Directors   has  adopted  a  policy   providing   that  the
Corporation's  health,  welfare and  severance  plans and policies  shall not be
changed,  except as legally  required,  for three  years  following  a change in
control of the  Corporation  and has approved  amendments  to the  Corporation's
qualified  retirement  plans which provide full vesting of accrued  benefits for
participants  whose  employment  terminates under certain  circumstances  within
three years following a change of control of the Corporation.


DIRECTORS' COMPENSATION

     ANNUAL  RETAINER AND MEETING  FEES.  Directors of the  Corporation,  except
directors who also serve as officers,  are currently paid an annual  retainer of
$22,500.  The Board of Directors  has voted to increase this retainer to $24,000
for the board year which commences on the date of the Corporation's  1997 Annual
Meeting The annual retainer for directors who also serve as Chair of a Committee
of the Board of  Directors  is  currently  $24,500 and will  increase to $28,000
following the  Corporation's  1997 Annual Meeting.  Directors,  except those who
also serve as  officers,  also receive a meeting fee of $1,000 for each Board or
Committee meeting attended.
     Pursuant  to  amendments  to  the  ReliaStar   Stock   Ownership  Plan  for
Nonemployee Directors  ("Directors' Stock Plan") approved by shareholders at the
Corporation's 1996 Annual Meeting,  directors are required to receive payment of
30% of their  annual  retainer  in  shares  of the  Corporation's  Common  Stock
("Shares").  Directors  also may elect to receive  Shares in payment of all or a
portion of the balance of their annual retainer and meeting fees.  Directors may
elect to have any annual  retainer or meeting fees  otherwise  payable in Shares
credited to a Deferred  Share  Account  pursuant to the terms of the  Directors'
Stock Plan.  Directors  may also elect to defer fees  otherwise  payable in cash
pursuant  to  the  terms  of  the  ReliaStar  Deferred   Compensation  Plan  for
Nonemployee Directors ("Directors' Deferred Compensation Plan").
     DEFERRED SHARE  ACCOUNT.  Pursuant to the  director's  written  election in
advance of any board year, any annual retainer or meeting fee amounts  otherwise
payable to the director in Shares shall be credited to a Deferred  Share Account
on the date payable with the number of Deferred Share Account units equal to the
number of such Shares.  The Deferred  Share Account is an unsecured  bookkeeping
account in which the  Corporation's  liability  is measured by and is payable in
Shares.  On any date that cash  dividends are payable on the Shares,  additional
units shall be credited to the Deferred  Share  Account in a dollar amount equal
to the  dividends  which would be paid if the units  credited to such account on
the dividend  record date were Shares.  The  Corporation  has  designated,  as a
funding  vehicle for its liability  under the Deferred Share  Accounts,  a rabbi
trust with an independent  trustee.  The trust is funded with Shares held by the
trustee  in its name,  on a  commingled  basis,  and all assets of the trust are
subject to the claims of the general  creditors of the  Corporation.  The Shares
held in the trust are voted by the trustee in its discretion, provided that each
director  having  units in the Deferred  Share  Account may instruct the trustee
with  respect to the voting of a fraction of the Shares held by the trust on the
applicable  record date,  the numerator of which is the number of units credited
to  the  director's  Deferred  Share  Account  as of the  record  date  and  the
denominator of which is the total number of Share units credited to all Deferred
Share Accounts on that date.
     DIRECTORS'  DEFERRED  COMPENSATION  PLAN. Under the terms of the Directors'
Deferred Compensation Plan, directors may elect to defer all or a portion of the
annual  retainer  not  required to be paid in stock and  meeting  fees which are
payable in cash in an unfunded,  unsecured  deferred cash account.  In 1996, the
Board Affairs  Committee  amended the Directors'  Deferred  Compensation Plan to
permit directors a one time irrevocable  election to convert all or a portion of
their existing  deferred cash accounts credited for previous Board service under
the Directors' Deferred Compensation Plan to Deferred Share Account units at the
closing  price of the Shares on the date of  conversion.  These  Deferred  Share
Accounts  are  the  same  in all  material  respects  as  described  above.  The
Corporation  designated the rabbi trust described above as a funding vehicle for
Deferred Share Accounts under the  Directors'  Deferred  Compensation  Plan. The
Corporation  transferred  treasury shares to the rabbi trust equal to the number
of Deferred Share Account units resulting from the conversion.
     DIRECTORS'  STOCK  OPTIONS.  The  Directors'  Stock Plan also  provides for
annual nondiscretionary grants of options to purchase 1,250 Shares to be made on
the  date  of each  Annual  Meeting  to each  nonemployee  director  whose  term
continues  past the Annual  Meeting.  Pursuant  to the  Directors'  Stock  Plan,
options to purchase  1,250 Shares at $43.875 per share were granted to each such
nonemployee  Director on May 9, 1996.  The exercise  price of the options is the
fair market value, as defined in the Directors'  Stock Plan, of the Shares as of
the date of grant,  and each option is for a term of ten years.  The options are
nonqualified  stock options which are intended not to qualify as incentive stock
options  under  the  provisions  of  Section  422 of the  Code.  Options  may be
exercised by payment of cash or transfer of Shares already owned by the director
with a market value equal to the exercise price.  The exercise price also may be
paid by delivering  instructions  to the Corporation to withhold from the Shares
that would otherwise be issued upon exercise that number of Shares having a fair
market value equal to the exercise price.
     Options granted to the director vest and become  exercisable in three equal
annual  installments  on each of the first  three  anniversaries  of the date of
grant.  A director  whose service as a director  terminates  before the award is
vested will forfeit any nonvested  options upon  termination  of service  unless
such  termination  is  a  qualified  termination.  A  qualified  termination  is
termination of service due to the  director's  death or disability or retirement
from  the  Board  in  accordance  with  the  Board's  policy  on  retirement  of
nonemployee  directors  then in effect.  In the event of a director's  qualified
termination,  any nonvested  stock options  granted to the director  immediately
shall vest and become  exercisable.  Options granted under the Directors'  Stock
Plan are  exercisable  only by the director or by his or her  beneficiary in the
event of the  director's  death  during the option  term.  In no event shall any
option granted be exercisable at any time after ten years plus one day after the
date the option is granted.
     OTHER  COMPENSATION.  The  Corporation  also has a retirement  plan for its
nonemployee  directors.  Under this plan,  retiring directors who have served on
the Board as  nonemployee  directors  for at least  five years are  eligible  to
receive  an  annual  benefit  equal to the  annual  retainer  in  effect  on the
director's last day of service on the Board. This benefit is payable in cash for
a period  equal to the shorter of term of service as a  nonemployee  director or
fifteen  years.  In addition,  Mr. James also  received  $13,000 in fees for his
service as Chairman of the Northern Life Advisory  Board, an advisory board of a
subsidiary of the Corporation, and will receive an annual retainer of $6,000 for
his services in this  capacity  during 1997,  plus $1,000 for each Northern Life
Advisory Board meeting attended during 1997.


                                   PROPOSAL 2

           PROPOSAL TO APPROVE THE RELIASTAR 1993 STOCK INCENTIVE PLAN
                                   AS AMENDED

     At the Annual Meeting of the Corporation,  the  shareholders  will consider
and vote upon a proposal,  recommended by the Board of Directors, to approve the
ReliaStar 1993 Stock Incentive Plan ("Plan"),  as amended. On November 14, 1996,
the Personnel and Compensation Policy Committee  ("Committee") adopted the Plan,
as amended,  subject to shareholder  approval.  The Plan,  which was approved by
shareholders in 1993, is designed to attract, retain and motivate management and
key  employees  and  assist  in  aligning  their  interests  with  those  of the
Corporation's  shareholders  by  increasing  and  expanding  stock  ownership by
management and key employees.  The Plan provides for the award of restricted and
unrestricted  shares of Common Stock directly and pursuant to the  Corporation's
annual and long-term  incentive  compensation  programs.  In addition,  the Plan
provides  for the  grant of stock  options.  The  amendments  to the Plan do not
materially  change the basic terms of the Plan or increase  the number of shares
authorized  to be  granted  as  previously  approved  by the  shareholders.  The
amendments  to the Plan,  as adopted by the  Committee,  are as follows:  (i) an
amendment required under Section 162(m) of the Internal Revenue Code of 1986, as
amended (the "Code"),  which is necessary to assure that gains from stock option
exercises by executive officers named in the proxy statement will continue to be
excluded from the $1 million annual limit on the Corporation's tax deduction for
executive  compensation  paid to certain  executives;  and (ii) an  amendment to
delete  language  currently in the Plan which requires  shareholder  approval of
certain Plan amendments.
     SECTION 162(m)  AMENDMENT.  Section 162(m) of the Code prohibits a publicly
traded  corporation  from  deducting  compensation  in excess of $1 million  per
taxable year paid to any person who, on the last day of the taxable year, is the
CEO or one of the four most highly compensated executive officers other than the
CEO.   Under   Code   Section   162(m),    compensation    that   qualifies   as
"performance-based  compensation"  is not counted for purposes of the $1 million
limit.  In  addition  to other  requirements,  compensation  will be  considered
"performance-based" if it is paid pursuant to a plan the material terms of which
are  disclosed  to and  approved  by  shareholders  prior to the payment of such
compensation.  In addition,  Section 162(m) requires plans which allow grants of
stock  options  to state a limit on the  number  of  stock  options  that can be
granted to any one  individual  in any one plan year.  The amended  Plan sets at
750,000 the maximum  number of shares with respect to which stock options may be
awarded to any  individual  participant in any Plan year. The Board of Directors
deems it to be in the best interests of the Corporation and its  shareholders to
preserve,  insofar as possible, the Corporation's tax deduction for compensation
in excess of $1 million paid to its executive officers.  Shareholder approval of
the Plan, as amended,  is required to ensure that certain  awards  granted under
the Plan will  continue  to be fully tax  deductible  pursuant  to Code  Section
162(m).
     PLAN  AMENDMENT  PROVISION.  The amended  and  restated  Plan also  deletes
language  currently  in the Plan  which  requires  shareholder  approval  of any
amendment which materially increases benefits accruing to participants under the
Plan,  which  materially  increases the number of securities which may be issued
under the Plan, or which materially  modifies the requirements as to eligibility
for  participation  in the Plan. The Plan provision being deleted was originally
set forth in the Plan in order to comply with rules promulgated under Section 16
of the  Securities  Exchange Act of 1934 related to  short-swing  profit insider
trading  liability.  Recent  amendments  to the  Section  16 rules  have made it
unnecessary for the Plan document to recite these restrictions. By deleting this
provision,  it will be possible for the  Committee to consider and adopt certain
kinds of Plan  amendments in the future  without  submitting the amendments to a
vote of shareholders.  The amendments which could be so adopted by the Committee
include  amendments which could increase the cost of the Plan to the Corporation
and amendments  which may alter the allocation of the benefits under the Plan as
between the persons and groups  specified  in the table of Plan  benefits  shown
below.  Specific  amendments  have  not  been  determined,   but  could  include
amendments  which expand the group of employees who are eligible to  participate
in the Plan. Under federal tax law, however,  shareholder approval will continue
to be required  for any  amendments  which would  increase  the number of shares
available  under the Plan for the grant of  incentive  stock  options,  or which
would expand the class of employees eligible to receive incentive stock options,
or which would increase the number of stock options that could be granted to any
Plan  participant.  In addition,  current New York Stock Exchange Rules to which
the  Corporation is subject also require  shareholder  approval of any amendment
which would increase the number of shares  reserved for issuance under the Plan.
Notwithstanding the deletion of this provision from the Plan document, it is the
Corporation's  intention to continue to seek shareholder  approval of amendments
for which such approval is required,  in the opinion of its counsel, as a matter
of tax law or New York  Stock  Exchange  Rules,  or which is  otherwise  legally
required.
     The Board of Directors  believes it is in the Corporation's  best interests
for  shareholders  to  approve  these  amendments  to  the  Plan  and  therefore
recommends  that  shareholders  vote FOR the  proposal to approve  the Plan,  as
amended.


                                 SUMMARY OF PLAN

     The following  description of the primary features of the Plan, as amended,
is  qualified  in all respects by reference to the full text of the Plan, a copy
of which is available from the Corporation.

ADMINISTRATION:  The Plan is  administered  by the Committee.  The Committee has
full  authority  to designate  plan  participants,  to determine  the timing and
amount of  participants'  awards,  to  interpret  the Plan and to make all other
determinations necessary or advisable for the administration of the Plan.

ELIGIBLE  EMPLOYEES:  All key employees of the  Corporation or any subsidiary of
the Corporation in which the Corporation has a 50% or more interest are eligible
to participate in the Plan. Based on the Corporation's  present employment,  the
number  of key  employees  currently  eligible  to  participate  in the  Plan is
approximately 300 employees.

SHARES SUBJECT TO THE PLAN: Prior to January 1, 1997, the total number of shares
that could be  delivered  or  purchased  under the Plan was limited to 2,400,000
shares.  Pursuant to the Plan's "evergreen"  provision as originally approved by
shareholders in 1993, on January 1, 1997, all shares then available for delivery
or purchase  under the Plan plus two  percent  (2%) of the  Corporation's  total
issued  and  outstanding  shares as of  January  1, 1997  became  available  for
delivery  or  purchase  under  the Plan,  such that as of  January  1,  1997,  a
cumulative  total of 3,200,334  shares were  available  for delivery or purchase
under the Plan. On January 1 of each subsequent year the Plan is in effect,  all
shares then  available for delivery or purchase  under the Plan plus two percent
of the Corporation's  total issued and outstanding  shares as of that date shall
become  available for delivery or purchase  under the Plan. The amount of shares
available  for delivery or purchase in any one calendar year includes any shares
available  in the  previous  year or years but not issued in such year or years.
Notwithstanding  any adjustment in the number of shares subject to the Plan made
pursuant to this provision, the Plan provides that no more than 2,400,000 shares
shall be cumulatively  available for grant of incentive stock options.  The Plan
permits the use of either authorized and unissued shares or shares reacquired by
the  Corporation,  including  treasury shares.  As amended,  the Plan limits the
number of shares which may be granted to any single  participant in any one Plan
year to  750,000.  Shares  issued  under  the Plan may be either  restricted  or
unrestricted.  Shareholders  of the Corporation  have no preemptive  rights with
respect to the shares issued pursuant to the Plan.

PLAN  TERM:  The Plan will  remain in effect  until  January  13,  2003,  unless
terminated earlier by the Committee.

VESTING:  Stock options and shares awarded under the Plan are either 100% vested
as of the date of grant or may be subject to a vesting  schedule  determined  by
the Committee which may, at the Committee's discretion,  provide for accelerated
vesting in the event of a change of control of the Corporation.

RIGHTS AS A SHAREHOLDER:  A Plan participant has no rights as a shareholder with
respect to any unrestricted shares issued or shares covered by any stock options
granted  under  the Plan  until the date a stock  certificate  is  issued.  With
respect to restricted shares, a participant may be entitled to receive dividends
and to vote such  shares,  but may not  otherwise  be  entitled to dispose of or
otherwise assign the shares during the restricted period.

DEPOSIT  SHARE  PROGRAM:  The  Plan's  deposit  share  program  allows  eligible
participants  to elect to deposit  certain  shares with the  Corporation  and to
receive  a  restricted  stock  award  for each  share  deposited.  The  eligible
participants  and the  number  of  shares  permitted  to be  deposited  with the
Corporation  are  determined  annually  by  the  Committee.   Based  on  current
employment,  approximately 65 employees are currently eligible to participate in
this program.  The Committee has established  for each such  participant a share
ownership  target (a multiple of base  salary) to be achieved  over a seven-year
period.  To receive a restricted  share award under this program,  a participant
must  elect at least 30 days  prior  to the  payment  date of an award  under an
executive compensation program to deposit shares with the Corporation.  Once the
shares are  deposited  with the  Corporation,  the  Corporation  shall match the
shares deposited with up to one restricted share for each share deposited by the
participants, as determined by the Committee. The restricted shares deposited by
the Corporation shall vest in accordance with vesting  provisions  determined by
the  Committee.  With  respect  to all grants  made to date under the Plan,  the
Committee has provided that one-half of the  restricted  shares shall vest after
three  years and  one-half  shall  vest  after  five  years from the date of the
deposit.  The shares  deposited by the participant may be withdrawn prior to the
vesting of the restricted matching shares, at which time the participant's right
to a proportional amount of nonvested restricted shares shall terminate.  Except
in the event of a disability or  retirement,  as defined in the Plan, and death,
upon a  participant's  termination  of  employment  with  the  Corporation,  the
nonvested shares shall be forfeited unless the Committee determines otherwise.

TERMINATION AND AMENDMENT OF THE PLAN: The Committee has the authority,  without
further action on the part of shareholders,  to suspend, amend, or terminate the
Plan.  However,  shareholder  approval  may be required as a matter of law as to
certain kinds of  amendments,  such as amendments  which  increase the number of
shares subject to the Plan,  amendments which materially  increase the number of
shares which may be issued pursuant to incentive stock options granted under the
Plan,  amendments  which  materially  expand the class of employees  eligible to
receive  incentive stock options,  or amendments which would increase the number
of  options  that  could be granted to any  participant.  The Plan  permits  the
Committee  to  amend  an  outstanding  option  or  restricted  share  agreement,
including an amendment which accelerated the vesting date of the option.

FEDERAL INCOME TAX  CONSEQUENCES  OF OPTIONS:  Under current  federal tax law, a
participant  who is granted an  incentive  stock  option  does not  realize  any
taxable  income at the time of grant or at the time of  exercise.  However,  the
excess of the fair market  value of the shares on the date of exercise  over the
option price is a preference item for purposes of the  alternative  minimum tax.
The  Corporation is not entitled to any deduction at the time of grant or at the
time of exercise of an incentive  stock option.  A participant  who is granted a
nonqualified stock option does not have taxable income at the time of grant, but
generally  does have taxable  income at the time of exercise equal to the excess
of the market  value of the shares on the exercise  date over the option  price.
The  Corporation  is entitled to a deduction at the time the optionee has income
in an amount equal to such income.  Upon  disposition of shares acquired through
exercise of an option,  the participant  will recognize gain or loss measured by
the difference between the amount received and the participant's  adjusted basis
for the shares.  Shares  acquired  pursuant to an  incentive  stock  option will
generally  have an adjusted  basis  equal to the option  price,  whereas  shares
acquired pursuant to a nonqualified stock option will generally have an adjusted
basis equal to the fair market value of the shares on the date of exercise.  The
Corporation  is generally  not entitled to a deduction at the time a participant
disposes of the shares.

STOCK OPTION PROVISIONS: Stock options granted under the Plan are subject to the
following additional terms and conditions:
     OPTION  PRICE.  The  exercise  price of options  will equal the fair market
value of Common  Stock on the date of grant  which is the average of the highest
and lowest  market  prices  for Common  Stock as  reported  on the  consolidated
transaction  reporting  system for the New York Stock Exchange.  The fair market
value of incentive  stock options first  exercisable  in one year may not exceed
$100,000 as of the date of grant.  The fair market  value of Common  Stock as of
March 10, 1997 was $64.4375.
     OPTION  TERM.  The period  within which  options may be  exercised  will be
determined by the Committee. In no event are incentive stock options exercisable
later than ten years after the date of grant, and nonqualified stock options may
not be  exercised  later  than ten  years  and one day  after the date of grant.
Participants  forfeit any options not  exercised  within the  applicable  option
term.
     REPLACEMENT  STOCK OPTIONS.  An option may, at the Committee's  discretion,
include the right to acquire a replacement  stock option ("RSO").  The Committee
may also  grant  separate  options  ("Separate  Options")  which  include an RSO
feature with  respect to options  issued  under the Plan not  containing  an RSO
feature.  Upon  exercise of an option with an RSO feature or a related  Separate
Option  using  stock held at least six months or using  cash,  the  employee  is
granted  an RSO to  purchase,  at the  fair  market  value as of the date of the
option exercise,  such number of shares as determined by the Committee,  but not
in excess of the number of whole  shares used by the  employee in payment of the
purchase  price (or would have been used if shares had been tendered  instead of
cash) and the number of whole shares,  if any,  withheld by the  Corporation  or
remitted  by the  employee  as  payment  for  withholding  taxes.  An RSO may be
exercised  between  the date six months  after the date of grant and the date of
expiration  which  will be the same as the date of  expiration  of the option to
which the RSO is related. An RSO shall not contain an RSO feature and a Separate
Option  shall not be granted  with  respect to an RSO.  The RSO  features  of an
option and Separate  Options are subject to cancellation by the Committee at any
time in the Committee's sole discretion.
     TERMINATION OF EMPLOYMENT OR DEATH.  Incentive stock options must generally
be exercised  within three months of a participant's  termination of employment.
If  termination  is due to disability  or death,  the time period within which a
participant or beneficiary may exercise  incentive stock options is increased to
one  year  in the  case  of  disability  and  five  years  in the  event  of the
participant's  death.  The Plan also  permits the  Committee to grant to certain
participants  incentive  stock options which,  if not exercised  within the time
periods  applicable  to incentive  stock  options  following  the  participant's
termination of employment,  shall thereupon  become  nonqualified  stock options
exercisable  during  the time  periods  applicable  to such  nonqualified  stock
options. In no event, however, are incentive stock options exercisable more than
ten  years  after  the date of  grant.  For  nonqualified  stock  options,  if a
termination  qualifies as a retirement under a qualified plan of the Corporation
or  termination  is due to disability,  the  participant  has five years (or the
remaining  term  of the  option,  if  earlier)  within  which  to  exercise  any
outstanding  nonqualified  stock options,  and the participant  will immediately
vest in all  previously  granted  nonqualified  stock  options.  To the extent a
participant's termination of employment is due to his death, or his death occurs
after a termination, the participant's beneficiary has the time period remaining
to the participant,  had the participant lived, in which to exercise the option.
Any  nonqualified  option that is not vested prior to the termination  caused by
the  participant's  death shall  immediately  vest on the date of death.  Upon a
participant's  termination of employment  for any reason other than  retirement,
disability or death,  the  participant or, if applicable,  his beneficiary  will
have 60 days (or such longer  period as determined  by the  Committee)  from the
date of such  termination  to  exercise  an option in which the  participant  is
vested, and such participant will forfeit all nonvested options.
     PAYMENT FOR STOCK OPTIONS.  Upon exercise of an option,  participants  must
pay for shares in full, by certified  check,  cashier's check or money order. In
lieu of paying for shares in this manner, the participant may pay all or part of
the exercise  price by  delivering  to the  Corporation  owned and  unencumbered
shares of common stock of the  Corporation  having a fair market value as of the
date of  exercise  equal  to or less  than  the  exercise  price  of the  option
exercised, with cash for the remainder, if any, of the exercise price.
     The  benefits  that  will be  received  by or  allocated  to the  following
individuals  or groups  under the Plan,  as  amended,  for the Plan year  ending
December  31, 1997 are not yet  determinable  because such awards are granted by
the Committee, in its discretion, based in part on performance for the 1997 Plan
year. If the Plan,  as amended,  had been in effect  during 1996,  however,  the
awards made thereunder would have been identical to the awards actually made for
the 1996 Plan year under the Plan prior to the amendment. These awards are shown
in the Summary Compensation Table on page 12 and in the following table:

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

                                                                       STOCK OPTIONS             RESTRICTED STOCK
NAME AND POSITION                                                      NUMBER OF UNITS (#)       DOLLAR VALUE ($)
- -----------------                                                      -------------------       ----------------
<S>                                                                           <C>                       <C>   
John G. Turner, Chairman and Chief                                            65,000                    60,009
  Executive Officer
John H. Flittie, President and Chief Operating Officer                        38,704                    36,544
Steven W. Wishart, Senior Vice President                                      11,571                         0
Robert C. Salipante, Senior Vice President                                    15,065                    20,869
Michael J. Dubes, Senior Vice President                                       15,887                    17,252
Executive Group                                                              185,609                   169,919
Non-executive Director Group                                                       0                         0
Non-executive Officer Employee Group                                         436,672                   217,312

</TABLE>


                        SHAREHOLDER APPROVAL OF THE PLAN

     The affirmative  vote of a majority of the  outstanding  shares of stock of
the  Corporation  present or represented  and entitled to vote at the meeting is
required to approve the Plan, as amended. The Board of Directors recommends that
shareholders vote FOR the proposal to approve the Plan, as amended.


                                   PROPOSAL 3

          PROPOSAL TO AMEND THE CERTIFICATE OF INCORPORATION TO CHANGE
         THE CORPORATION'S CAPITAL STOCK FROM NO PAR VALUE TO $.01 PAR
                                VALUE PER SHARE

     The  shareholders of the Corporation at the 1996 Annual Meeting approved an
amendment to the Certificate of  Incorporation  to increase the number of shares
of Common Stock of the  Corporation  authorized for issuance from 100 million to
200 million.  With this amendment,  the total number of shares of all classes of
capital  stock  which the  Corporation  is  authorized  to issue is 207  million
shares, consisting of 7 million shares of Preferred Stock and 200 million shares
of Common Stock.  In the period since the 1996 Annual  Meeting,  the Corporation
has not had a need to issue  shares of Common Stock  authorized  for issuance by
this  amendment.  Accordingly,  the  Corporation  has refrained  from filing the
amendment, and the amendment is not yet effective.
     The Board of  Directors  now  proposes  that the  shareholders  modify  the
amendment prior to its filing to provide that all shares of the capital stock of
the  Corporation  have a nominal par value of $.01 per share.  At  present,  the
capital stock has no par value per share.
     The reason for the proposed  modification of the amendment is to enable the
Corporation  to reduce  substantially  the  filing fee  payable to the  Delaware
Secretary of State in  connection  with the increase in the number of authorized
shares of Common Stock.  The Board of Directors  believes  that,  except for the
different filing fee treatment, there is no functional difference under Delaware
law,  under the  accounting  principles  used by the  Corporation  or otherwise,
between  capital  stock  with no par value per share and  capital  stock  with a
nominal par value per share.
     If the  shareholders  do  not  approve  the  proposed  modification  of the
amendment at the 1997 Annual Meeting,  the Corporation  will proceed to file the
amendment  as  originally  approved  in  1996.  In such  event,  the  number  of
authorized  shares of Common  Stock  would  increase,  but there  would not be a
change in the par value of the capital stock.
     Because  the  proposed  modification  of  the  amendment  will  enable  the
Corporation to realize a significant filing fee savings,  the Board of Directors
believes  that  approval  of  the  proposal  is in  the  best  interests  of the
Corporation and its shareholders.
     If the  proposed  modification  of the  amendment  is  approved,  the first
sentence of Article Fourth of the  Corporation's  Certificate  of  Incorporation
would be amended to read as follows:

      "The total  number of shares of all  classes of capital  stock
      which the  Corporation  shall have the  authority  to issue is
      207,000,000   shares,   consisting  of  7,000,000   shares  of
      Preferred  Stock,  par value $.01 per share,  and  200,000,000
      shares of Common Stock, par value $.01 per share."

     The affirmative vote of the holders of a majority of the outstanding shares
present  in  person  or by proxy at the  meeting  and  eligible  to vote will be
required  to  approve  the  proposed   modification  of  the  amendment  to  the
Corporation's  Certificate of Incorporation.  The Board of Directors  recommends
that the shareholders vote FOR the proposed modification to the amendment to the
Corporation's Certificate of Incorporation.


                                   PROPOSAL 4


                      PROPOSAL TO RATIFY THE APPOINTMENT OF
                         INDEPENDENT PUBLIC ACCOUNTANTS

     At the Annual Meeting  shareholders  will consider a proposal to ratify the
appointment of Deloitte & Touche LLP as independent  public  accountants for the
Corporation  for  1997.  Deloitte  & Touche  LLP  served as  independent  public
accountants for the Corporation for 1996. A representative  of Deloitte & Touche
LLP is expected to be present at the Annual Meeting, will have an opportunity to
make a statement and will be available to respond to appropriate questions.
     The Board of Directors  recommends that  shareholders vote FOR ratification
of the  appointment of Deloitte & Touche LLP as independent  public  accountants
for the  Corporation for 1997.  Proxies  solicited by the Board will be so voted
unless shareholders specify otherwise on their proxies.




Dated March 25, 1997



                                 RELIASTAR 1993
                              STOCK INCENTIVE PLAN

                 (AS AMENDED AND RESTATED EFFECTIVE MAY 8, 1997)


                                   ARTICLE I.
                                     GENERAL

     Sec. 1.1 NAME OF PLAN.  The name of the plan set forth herein is "ReliaStar
1993 Stock Incentive Plan" (the "Plan").

     Sec.  1.2  PURPOSES.  The  purposes  of the Plan are to  provide  long-term
incentives and rewards to those  employees  largely  responsible for the success
and growth of ReliaStar Financial Corp. ("Corporation") and its Subsidiaries, to
assist the  Corporation in attracting and retaining  executives  with experience
and ability on a basis competitive with industry practices, and to associate the
interests of such employees with those of the Corporation's shareholders.

     Sec. 1.3  EFFECTIVE  DATE.  The  effective  date of the Plan is January 14,
1993,  the date on which  it was  approved  by the  Board  of  Directors  of the
Corporation;  provided,  however,  that all Awards hereunder shall be subject to
approval of the Plan by the holders of a majority of the  outstanding  shares of
the  Corporation's  stock present or represented and entitled to vote on it at a
duly held meeting of shareholders. The effective date of the Plan as amended and
restated is the date on which it is approved by the holders of a majority of the
outstanding  shares  of the  Corporation's  stock  present  or  represented  and
entitled to vote on it at a duly held meeting of shareholders.

     Sec. 1.4 NUMBER OF SHARES. Subject to adjustments  contemplated by Sec. 5.2
hereof,  the Shares that may be delivered  or purchased  under the Plan prior to
January 1, 1997 shall not exceed the sum of two million  four  hundred  thousand
(2,400,000)  Shares.  Commencing on January 1, 1997,  all Shares not  previously
delivered or purchased  under the Plan plus two percent (2%) of the total issued
and  outstanding  Shares as of January 1, 1997 and each subsequent year the Plan
is in effect shall be available  for  delivery or purchase  under the Plan.  The
amount of Shares  available  for delivery or purchase in any one  calendar  year
shall  include any such Shares  available in the previous  year or years but not
delivered  or purchased  in such year or years,  provided  that no more than two
million four hundred thousand (2,400,000) Shares shall be cumulatively available
for the grant of Incentive  Stock  Options.  Shares to be delivered or purchased
under the Plan may be authorized and unissued shares or issued shares reacquired
by the  Corporation  including  treasury  Shares.  Subject  to  the  adjustments
contemplated  by Sec. 5.2 hereof,  and only to the extent  required in order for
Stock Options under the Plan to qualify for the  performance-based  compensation
exception  described in Sec.  162(m) of the Code,  the maximum  number of Shares
with respect to which Stock Options may be awarded to any individual Participant
in any calendar year shall be 750,000.


                                   ARTICLE II.
                                   DEFINITIONS

     Sec. 2.1 AWARD.  "Award" means a grant of Stock Options,  Stock Awards,  or
Restricted Stock Awards, or a combination thereof, under the Plan.

     Sec. 2.2 BENEFICIARY.  "Beneficiary" means the person or persons designated
as  such  by a  Participant's  will  or  pursuant  to the  laws  of  decent  and
distribution.

     Sec. 2.3 BOARD OF  DIRECTORS.  "Board of  Directors"  or "Board"  means the
Board of Directors of the Corporation.

     Sec. 2.4 BONUS  DETERMINATION  DATE. "Bonus  Determination  Date" means the
date as of which the dollar amount of a Qualified  Bonus has been determined and
approved  by the  Committee,  and the  Committee  has  determined  that all or a
portion thereof shall be paid in the form of a Stock Award.

     Sec. 2.5 CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER. "Chief Executive Officer" means the chief
executive officer of the Corporation.

     Sec. 2.6 CODE.  "Code" means the Internal Revenue Code as amended from time
to time.

     Sec. 2.7  COMMITTEE.  "Committee"  means the members of the  Personnel  and
Compensation  Policy Committee of the Board of Directors exclusive of any member
who is not "disinterested"  within the meaning of Regulation  ss.240.16b-3 under
the Exchange Act, as applicable to the Corporation at the time in question.

     Sec. 2.8 CORPORATION. "Corporation" means ReliaStar Financial Corp.

     Sec.  2.9 DATE OF GRANT.  "Date of Grant"  means the date  designated  in a
resolution  by the  Committee as the date for  granting  Stock  Options.  If the
Committee  does not  designate  a Date of Grant in its  resolution,  the Date of
Grant shall be the date of the Committee's resolution.

     Sec. 2.10 FAIR MARKET  VALUE.  "Fair Market Value" as applied to a specific
date means the  average of the  highest and lowest  market  price of Shares,  as
reported on the  consolidated  transaction  reporting  system for New York Stock
Exchange  issues on such date or, if Shares were not traded on such date, on the
next preceding day on which the Shares were traded.

     Sec. 2.11 INCENTIVE  STOCK OPTIONS.  "Incentive  Stock Options" means Stock
Options that are intended to qualify under Section 422 of the Code.

     Sec. 2.12 NONQUALIFIED OPTIONS.  "Nonqualified Options" means Stock Options
that are not intended to qualify under Section 422 of the Code.

     Sec. 2.13 PARTICIPANT. A "Participant" means a person designated as such by
the Committee for participation in the Plan.

     Sec.  2.14 PLAN YEAR.  "Plan Year" means a one-year  period  commencing  on
January 1 of a calendar year and ending on December 31 of such calendar year.

     Sec.  2.15  QUALIFIED  BONUS.  "Qualified  Bonus"  means a bonus to which a
Participant  is  entitled  under the  terms of a bonus  plan or  program  of the
Corporation or a Subsidiary which permits,  subject to the Committee's approval,
payment of all or a portion of such bonus in the form of a Stock Award  pursuant
to the terms of this Plan.

     Sec. 2.16  RESTRICTED  STOCK AWARD.  "Restricted  Stock Award" means Shares
awarded to a Participant by the Committee pursuant to Article VIII hereof, which
shares are subject to certain terms, conditions and restrictions.

     Sec. 2.17 EXCHANGE ACT. "Exchange Act" means the Securities Exchange Act of
1934, as amended.

     Sec. 2.18 SHARES. "Shares" means shares of common stock of the Corporation.

     Sec. 2.19 STOCK AWARD.  "Stock Award" means Shares awarded to a Participant
by the Committee pursuant to the terms of Article VII hereof.

     Sec. 2.20 STOCK OPTION.  "Stock Option" or "Stock  Options" means an option
or options granted to a Participant to purchase Shares from the Corporation.  As
to Participants who are subject to Section 16 of the Exchange Act, Stock Options
may be either  Nonqualified  Stock  Options or Incentive  Stock  Options.  Stock
Options are subject to the terms of Article VI hereof.

     Sec. 2.21 SUBSIDIARY. "Subsidiary" means a subsidiary of the Corporation in
which the Corporation has a fifty percent (50%) or more interest.

     Sec.  2.22 TEN PERCENT  SHAREHOLDER.  "Ten Percent  Shareholder"  means any
individual owning more than ten percent (10%) of the total combined voting power
of all classes of stock of the Corporation. An individual shall be considered to
own any voting stock owned  (directly  or  indirectly)  by or for his  brothers,
sisters, spouse, ancestors, or lineal descendants and shall be considered to own
proportionately  any voting  stock owned  (directly or  indirectly)  by or for a
corporation,  partnership,  estate,  or  trust  of which  said  individual  is a
shareholder, partner or beneficiary.


                                  ARTICLE III.
                             ADMINISTRATION OF PLAN

     Sec. 3.1  ELIGIBILITY.  Any key employee of the Corporation or a Subsidiary
who has been  designated  as a  Participant  by the  Committee  is  eligible  to
participate  in the Plan. No member of the Committee is eligible to  participate
in the Plan.  The Committee  may  designate one or more classes of  Participants
under the Plan.

     Sec.  3.2  COMMITTEE.  The Plan  shall be  administered  by the  Committee.
Members of the Committee shall serve at the pleasure of the Board.

     Sec.  3.3  POWERS OF  COMMITTEE.  The  Committee  shall have all the powers
vested  in it by the  terms  of the  Plan,  such  powers  to  include  exclusive
authority  (within the limitations  described herein) to select the employees to
be granted  Awards  under the Plan,  to  determine  the type,  size and terms of
Awards to be made to each employee  selected,  to determine the time when Awards
will be granted,  and to establish objectives and conditions for earning Awards.
The Committee  shall have full power and  authority to administer  and interpret
the  Plan and to adopt  such  rules,  regulations,  agreements,  guidelines  and
instruments  for the  administration  of the  Plan  and for the  conduct  of its
business  as  the  Committee  deems  necessary  or  advisable.  The  Committee's
interpretation of the Plan, and all actions taken and determinations made by the
Committee  pursuant to the powers vested in it, shall be conclusive  and binding
on all parties  concerned,  including the  Corporation,  its  Subsidiaries,  its
shareholders,  Plan  Participants  and any  employee of the  Corporation  or its
Subsidiaries.  The  Committee  may  delegate  duties to any  person or  persons;
provided, no delegation of duties is permitted which would cause the Plan not to
satisfy the disinterested administration requirement of Exchange Act Rule 16b-3.

     Sec. 3.4 DECISIONS OF THE COMMITTEE. Any action required or permitted to be
taken by the Committee  under the Plan shall require the  affirmative  vote of a
majority of those members present and voting at a properly  convened  meeting of
the  Committee.  Members of the  Committee may  participate  in a meeting of the
Committee by means of conference telephone or similar  communications  equipment
whereby all meeting participants can hear each other and such participation will
constitute  presence in person at the meeting.  A majority of all members of the
Committee shall constitute a "quorum" for Committee business.  The Committee may
act by  written  determination  instead  of by  affirmative  vote at a  meeting,
provided  that any written  determination  shall be signed by all members of the
Committee,  and any such written  determination shall be as fully effective as a
majority vote of members  constituting a quorum at a meeting.  Any decision made
or action taken by the Committee in connection  with the Plan shall be final and
conclusive as to all parties involved.


                                   ARTICLE IV.
                                     AWARDS

     Sec.  4.1 TYPES.  Awards  under the Plan may include  Stock  Awards,  Stock
Options, Restricted Stock Awards or a combination thereof as the Committee shall
determine.  Stock  Options  shall be  subject  to the  provisions  of Article VI
hereof,  Stock Awards shall be subject to the  provisions of Article VII hereof,
and  Restricted  Stock Awards shall be subject to the provisions of Article VIII
hereof.

     Sec.  4.2  PERFORMANCE  GOALS.  The  Committee  may  establish   meaningful
performance  goals to be  achieved  within  such  performance  periods as may be
selected by it in its sole discretion, using such measures of the performance of
the Corporation and its Subsidiaries as it may select.

     Sec. 4.3  GUIDELINES.  The  Committee  may from time to time adopt  written
policies for its implementation of the Plan. Such policies may include, but need
not be limited to, the type,  size and term of Awards to be made to Participants
and the conditions for payment of such Awards.

     Sec. 4.4 VESTING.  The Committee  may determine  that all or a portion of a
payment  to a  Participant  under the Plan,  whether it is to be made as a Stock
Award,  Restricted Stock Award or Stock Options or a combination thereof,  shall
be vested at such times and upon such terms as may be selected by it in its sole
discretion.

     Sec.  4.5  ASSIGNMENT  OR  TRANSFER.  No Awards under the Plan or rights or
interests in the Plan shall be  assignable  or  transferable  by a  Participant,
voluntarily  or  involuntarily,  except by the will or the laws of  descent  and
distribution.  For the  purposes of this Sec.  4.5,  and  original  deposit,  as
defined in Sec.  8.6(a),  is not considered an Award under, or right or interest
in Plan.  During the lifetime of a Participant,  Awards are exercisable only by,
and payable only to, the Participant.

     Sec. 4.6  AGREEMENTS.  All Awards granted under the Plan shall be evidenced
by  agreements  in such  form and  containing  such  terms and  conditions  (not
inconsistent with the Plan) as the Committee shall adopt.


                                   ARTICLE V.
                            MISCELLANEOUS PROVISIONS

     Sec. 5.1 RIGHTS AS SHAREHOLDER.  A Participant under the Plan shall have no
rights as a  shareholder  with respect to Awards under the Plan unless and until
certificates for such Shares are issued to the Participant.  The issuance by the
Corporation  of shares of stock of any class,  or  securities  convertible  into
shares of stock of any class,  for cash or  property  or for labor or  services,
either upon direct sale or upon the  exercise of rights or warrants to subscribe
therefor,  or upon  conversion  of  shares  or  obligations  of the  Corporation
convertible  into such  shares or other  securities,  shall not  affect,  and no
adjustment  by reason  thereof  shall be made with  respect to Awards  under the
Plan.

     Sec. 5.2 DILUTION AND OTHER ADJUSTMENTS.  In the event of any change in the
outstanding  Shares by reason of any split,  stock  dividend,  recapitalization,
merger,  consolidation,  combination  or  exchange  of shares  or other  similar
corporate change,  such equitable  adjustments shall be made in the Plan and the
Awards under it as the  Committee  determines  are  necessary  and  appropriate,
including, if necessary,  any adjustment in the maximum number or kind of shares
subject  to the Plan or which may be or have been  awarded  to any  Participant.
Such adjustment shall be conclusive and binding for all purposes of the Plan.

     Sec. 5.3 COMPLIANCE  WITH LAW AND APPROVAL BY REGULATORY  BODIES.  No Stock
Option shall be  exercisable,  no Shares shall be issued,  no  certificates  for
Shares shall be  delivered,  and no payment  shall be made except in  compliance
with all  applicable  federal  and state laws and  regulations  and rules of all
domestic stock exchanges on which the Shares are listed.  The Corporation  shall
have the right to rely on the opinion of its counsel as to such compliance.  If,
in the opinion of the Corporation's  counsel, the transfer,  issuance or sale of
any  Shares  under the Plan shall not be lawful for any  reason,  including  the
inability  of  the  Corporation  to  obtain  from  any  regulatory  body  having
jurisdiction  the  authority  deemed by such  counsel to be  necessary  for such
transfer,  issuance or sale, the Corporation shall not be obligated to transfer,
issue or sell such Shares.  Any share  certificate  issued may bear such legends
and  statements as the Committee may deem  advisable or desirable.  Further,  in
connection  with any sale,  issuance  or  transfer  hereunder,  the  Participant
acquiring the Shares shall, if requested by the Corporation,  give  satisfactory
assurances to the  Corporation's  counsel that the Shares are being acquired for
investment and not with a view to resale or distribution thereof and provide any
other assurance as the Corporation may deem desirable.

     Sec. 5.4 AMENDMENT OF PLAN. The Committee may at any time terminate or from
time to time  amend  the  Plan in whole or in  part,  but no such  action  shall
adversely affect any rights or obligations with respect to any Awards previously
made under the Plan. With the consent of the affected Participant, the Committee
may amend  outstanding  agreements  evidencing Awards under the Plan in a manner
not inconsistent with the terms of the Plan.

     Sec. 5.5  DURATION OF PLAN.  Unless the Plan is  terminated  earlier by the
Committee,  the Plan shall  remain in full  force and effect  until the close of
business on January 13, 2003,  at which time the right to grant Awards under the
Plan shall terminate unless the Corporation's  shareholders approve an extension
or renewal.  Any awards  granted  under the Plan on or before  January 13, 2003,
shall  continue  to be governed  thereafter  by the terms of the Plan and of the
Awards;  provided if the  Corporation  terminates  the Plan,  Stock  Options not
vested on the date of the Plan termination  are, unless otherwise  determined by
the Committee, forfeited.

     Sec.  5.6   WITHHOLDING  OF  TAXES.   There  shall  be  deducted  from  all
distributions  under the Plan the amount of any taxes which the  Corporation  or
Subsidiary  may  be  required  to  withhold  by any  federal,  state,  or  local
government.  In addition,  there shall be deducted any other amount  required by
law or by order of a court or government  agency to be withheld from payments to
any Participant.  With respect to Stock Awards and Restricted Stock Awards,  the
Corporation  shall have the right to require  payment of any such taxes  through
withholding from the Participant's  salary or otherwise.  Participants and their
personal  representatives  shall  be  responsible  for  payment  of any  and all
federal, state, local, foreign, or other taxes imposed on amounts paid under the
Plan. The Corporation and its Subsidiaries  assume no responsibility for the tax
consequences to the Participant for his/her  participation in the Plan.  Subject
to rules established by the Committee, withholding required by this Sec. 5.6 may
be satisfied by (i) the Company  withholding  shares issued on exercise or award
or (ii) the Participant  delivering  Shares owned by Participant,  having a Fair
Market  Value  as of the date of  delivery  equal  to or less  than  the  amount
required to be withheld pursuant to this Sec. 5.6.

     Sec. 5.7 NOT AN EMPLOYMENT CONTRACT.  Neither the Plan nor participation in
the Plan shall be construed as creating any agreement as to continued employment
with the Corporation or any of its affiliates.

     Sec. 5.8  TRANSFER OF  EMPLOYMENT.  For  purposes of the Plan,  transfer of
employment between the Corporation,  its Subsidiaries or affiliates  (affiliates
shall not apply for Incentive  Stock  Options) shall not be deemed a termination
of employment.

     Sec. 5.9 UNFUNDED  PLAN.  The Plan shall be unfunded,  and the  Corporation
shall not be required to segregate  any assets that may  represent  Awards under
the Plan.  Any  liability of the  Corporation  to any person with respect to any
Award  under the Plan shall be based  solely  upon the  contractual  obligations
created  pursuant to the Plan and evidenced by  Agreements  pursuant to Sec. 4.6
hereof.  No such obligation of the Corporation  shall be deemed to be secured by
any pledge of, or other encumbrance on, any property of the Corporation.

     Sec. 5.10 NO RIGHTS AS SHAREHOLDER. Awards under the Plan shall not entitle
a Participant or any other person succeeding to his/her rights, to any dividend,
voting or other right as a shareholder of the  Corporation  unless and until the
issuance of a stock certificate to the Participant or such other person pursuant
to the  provisions of the Plan and then only  subsequent to the date of issuance
thereof.

     Sec. 5.11  GOVERNING LAW. This Plan is governed in all respects by the laws
of the State of Delaware.

     Sec. 5.12 SEVERABILITY.  In the event that any provision in this Plan would
invalidate the Plan, the provision shall be null and void, and the Plan shall be
construed as if it did not contain that provision.

     Sec.  5.13 RULES OF  CONSTRUCTION.  Headings  are given to the articles and
sections of the Plan solely as a convenience to facilitate reference.  Reference
to any  statute,  regulation,  or other  provision  of law shall be construed to
refer to any amendment to or successor of such provision of law.

     Sec. 5.14 REFERENCES ARE TO PLAN. References herein to sections or articles
are to sections or articles of the Plan unless the context clearly  indicates to
the contrary.

     Sec. 5.15  COMPLIANCE  WITH SECTION 16. With respect to persons  subject to
Section 16 of the  Exchange  Act,  transactions  under the Plan are  intended to
comply with all applicable  conditions of Rule 16b-3 or its successors under the
Exchange  Act.  The old  Section  16 rules  shall  apply  until the  Corporation
expressly  elects  the new  Section  16 rules to  apply or such  rules  apply by
operation  of law.  To the  extent  any  provision  of the Plan or action by the
Committee  fails to so comply,  it shall be deemed null and void,  to the extent
permitted by law and deemed advisable by the Committee.


                                   ARTICLE VI.
                             AWARD OF STOCK OPTIONS

     Sec.  6.1  GRANT OF STOCK  OPTIONS.  Contemporaneously  with or at any time
after the Committee has designated an eligible  employee as a  Participant,  the
Committee may award a  Participant  Stock Options at Fair Market Value as of the
Date of Grant, provided however, that an award of Stock Options to a Ten Percent
Shareholder  shall be at one  hundred  ten  percent  (110%) of such Fair  Market
Value. At the time of grant,  the Committee  shall send written  notification to
each  Participant  indicating  (i) the Date of Grant,  (ii) the  number of Stock
Options granted to the  Participant,  (iii) the time period in which to exercise
such Stock Options, and (iv) a stock option agreement providing for the purchase
of one Share for each Stock Option granted.

     Sec. 6.2  CALCULATION OF AWARDS.  The number of Stock Options  granted to a
Participant in a Plan Year shall be determined by the Committee.

     Sec. 6.3 EXERCISE OF STOCK  OPTIONS.  An individual  entitled to exercise a
Stock Option may,  subject to the terms and conditions of the Plan,  exercise it
in whole or in part at any time, by delivery to the  Corporate  Secretary at the
Company's  principal office written notice of exercise.  Such notice of exercise
shall  specify the number of whole  Shares  with  respect to which the option is
being  exercised,  the Fair Market Value of the Shares on the Date of Grant, and
must be  accompanied  by payment in full by certified  check,  cashier's  check,
money order or other form of cash  payment as approved by the  Committee  in the
amount of the  exercise  price for the Shares to be  purchased,  plus any amount
required for withholding as provided in Sec. 5.6; provided,  however, in lieu of
paying the exercise price by certified check, cashier's check, or money order as
described  above,  the  individual may pay all or part of such exercise price by
delivering  to the Company  owned and  unencumbered  Shares having a Fair Market
Value as of the date of exercise equal to or less than the exercise price of the
options exercised, with cash for the remainder, if any, of the exercise price.

     Sec. 6.4 INCENTIVE STOCK OPTIONS. Incentive Stock Options granted under the
Plan are intended to be incentive  stock  options  under Section 422 of the Code
and shall be  administered  as such by the Committee.  An Incentive Stock Option
shall be subject to the following:

          (a)  OPTION PERIOD.  Each Incentive Stock Option granted shall expire,
               and all  rights to  purchase  shares  shall  cease ten (10) years
               after the Date of Grant of the Incentive  Stock Option or on such
               earlier date as may be fixed by the Committee, or on such date as
               is  provided  by  this  Plan  in  the  event  of  termination  of
               employment  or a  reorganization  of  the  Corporation,  provided
               however, that any Incentive Stock Option granted to a Ten Percent
               Shareholder  shall expire five (5) years after the Date of Grant,
               or on  such  earlier  date  as  otherwise  may  be  fixed  by the
               Committee or provided by this Plan.

          (b)  EXERCISE AT TERMINATION  OF EMPLOYMENT.  The right to exercise an
               Incentive Stock Option upon a termination of employment  shall be
               as follows:

               1.   Upon a termination  of employment  due to the  Participant's
                    death,  any  outstanding  Incentive  Stock  Options  must be
                    exercised  by a  Beneficiary  within the earlier of five (5)
                    years  from  the  Participant's  date of  death  or the time
                    period  remaining to the  Participant  to exercise his Award
                    had the Participant lived.

               2.   Upon a  termination  of  employment  due to a  Participant's
                    disability,  as that term is used in Code Section  22(e)(3),
                    any  outstanding  Incentive  Stock Options must be exercised
                    within  the  earlier  of one year  after  the  onset of such
                    disability or the time period  remaining to the  Participant
                    to exercise his Award.

               3.   Upon a  termination  of  employment  for any  other  reason,
                    except  dishonesty  or any other  illegal act, a Participant
                    must exercise any outstanding Incentive Stock Options within
                    the earlier of three (3) months of such  termination  or the
                    time period  remaining  to the  Participant  to exercise his
                    Award.  In the event of dishonesty or any other illegal act,
                    any Incentive Stock Options unexercised at termination shall
                    be forfeited by the Participant.

               4.   Notwithstanding the foregoing, the Committee may grant Stock
                    Options  with  exercise  periods  longer  than  provided  in
                    paragraphs  1, 2, and 3 of this  subsection  (b)  which  are
                    intended to qualify as Incentive Stock Options and which, if
                    not exercised in the time periods  provided in paragraphs 1,
                    2, and 3 of this  subsection  (b)  shall  thereafter  become
                    Nonqualified Stock Options subject to the provisions of Sec.
                    6.5  hereof;  provided,  however,  that this  paragraph 4 of
                    subsection (b) shall apply only to Participants  who are not
                    subject to Section 16 of the Exchange Act.

          (c)  TRANSFERABILITY OF STOCK OPTIONS. No Incentive Stock Option shall
               be assignable  or  transferable  by the  individual to whom it is
               granted  except that it may be transferred by will or the laws of
               descent and  distribution,  in accordance  with the provisions of
               the Plan.  If a  Participant  dies  within  the  exercise  period
               specified  in  either  paragraph  (2) or (3)  of  subsection  (b)
               hereof,  the Beneficiary  shall have the time period remaining to
               the Participant in which to exercise the Incentive Stock Option.

          (d)  The Committee shall determine the vesting schedule  applicable to
               Incentive Stock Options.

     Sec. 6.5 NONQUALIFIED  STOCK OPTIONS.  Nonqualified Stock Options are Stock
Options  that are not intended to qualify  under Code Section 422.  Nonqualified
Stock Options shall be subject to the following:

          (a)  OPTION  PERIOD.  Except as provided  below,  each option  granted
               shall  expire and all rights to purchase  shares  shall cease ten
               years  and one day  after  the Date of Grant of the  Nonqualified
               Stock Option or on such date prior thereto as may be fixed by the
               Committee.  In  the  event  of  a  plan  termination  or  Company
               reorganization,  Nonqualified  Stock Options shall be exercisable
               pursuant to the rules set forth in Sec. 5.5 and Sec. 6.6.

          (b)  VESTING  OF  NONQUALIFIED  STOCK  OPTIONS.  The  Committee  shall
               determine the vesting schedule  applicable to Nonqualified  Stock
               Options.

          (c)  EXERCISE  AT  TERMINATION  OF  EMPLOYMENT.  The right to exercise
               Nonqualified Stock Options upon a termination of employment shall
               be as follows:

               1.   Upon  the  Participant's   termination  of  employment  that
                    qualifies as a  retirement  under the  qualified  retirement
                    plan  of the  Corporation  or  Subsidiary  under  which  the
                    Participant  is covered,  or a termination of employment due
                    to the onset of a  Participant's  disability as that term is
                    used in Sec. 8.6 (i), the  Participant  shall have until the
                    earlier of the  expiration of the option period  provided to
                    the Participant in subsection (a) above or the date five (5)
                    years from the date of such  termination  of  employment  to
                    exercise such  options.  Any  nonvested  options  previously
                    granted to the  Participant  shall  immediately  vest on the
                    date of such  termination  of employment and shall no longer
                    be subject to any vesting schedule.

               2.   To the extent a  Participant's  termination of employment is
                    due to  his  death,  or his  death  occurs  subsequent  to a
                    termination of  employment,  the  Participant's  Beneficiary
                    shall have the time period  remaining to the Participant had
                    the Participant lived in which to exercise such options. Any
                    nonvested  options  previously  granted  to the  Participant
                    shall  immediately  vest on the date of such  termination of
                    employment due to the death of the Participant.

               3.   Upon the  Participant's  termination  of employment  for any
                    other  reason  except  dishonesty  or any illegal  act,  the
                    Participant  shall have until the earlier of the  expiration
                    of  the  option  period   provided  to  the  Participant  in
                    subsection  (a) above or unless a longer  period is provided
                    by the Committee,  the date sixty (60) days from the date of
                    such  termination of employment to exercise options in which
                    the Participant is vested on the date of such termination of
                    employment.  Any  options  in which the  Participant  is not
                    vested on the date of such  termination  shall be forfeited.
                    In the event of  dishonesty  or other illegal act, all Stock
                    Options  unexercised at  termination of employment  shall be
                    forfeited by the Participant.

     Sec.  6.6 MERGER,  DISSOLUTION,  OR TRANSFER  OF  SUBSTANTIALLY  ALL OF THE
PROPERTY OF THE  CORPORATION.  Stock Options granted but  unexercised  under the
Plan shall  terminate upon the effective date of the  dissolution or liquidation
of the  Corporation;  or upon  reorganization,  merger,  or consolidation of the
Corporation  with  one or  more  Corporations,  if the  Corporation  is not  the
surviving  corporation;  or upon a transfer of substantially all of the property
of the Corporation.

     Notwithstanding  the above, Stock Options shall not terminate to the extent
that  written  provision  is  made  for  their   continuance,   assumption,   or
substitution  by a successor  employer or its parent or subsidiary in connection
with a transaction described in the preceding sentence.

     Sec. 6.7 UNEXERCISED  STOCK OPTIONS.  Any Stock Option not exercised within
the applicable time period set forth in Article VI shall be forfeited.

     Sec. 6.8  REPLACEMENT  STOCK  OPTIONS.  A Stock Option  granted at any time
under the Plan may, at the Committee's discretion,  include the right to acquire
a  Replacement  Stock Option  ("RSO").  The  Committee  may also grant  separate
options ("Separate  Options") which include an RSO feature with respect to Stock
Options issued under the Plan not  containing an RSO feature.  If a Stock Option
either  contains  the RSO  feature or a Separate  Option has been  granted  with
respect  thereto and if a Participant  pays all or part of the purchase price of
the Stock Option with Shares held by the Participant for at least six (6) months
or with cash,  then upon exercise of the Stock Option the Participant is granted
an RSO to purchase,  at the Fair Market Value as of the date of the Stock Option
exercise,  such number of Shares as  determined  by the Committee at the time of
granting the Stock Option,  but not in excess of the number of whole Shares used
by the  Participant in payment of the purchase price (or would have been used if
Shares had been  tendered  instead of cash) and the number of whole  shares,  if
any,  withheld by the  Corporation  or remitted  by  Participant  as payment for
withholding taxes. An RSO may be exercised between the date six (6) months after
the Date of Grant of the RSO and the date of expiration,  which will be the same
as the date of  expiration  of the Stock Option to which the RSO is related.  An
RSO shall not contain an RSO feature and a Separate  Option shall not be granted
with respect to an RSO. The RSO feature of a Stock Option and a Separate  Option
are subject to cancellation  by the Committee  without notice at any time in the
Committee's sole discretion.


                                  ARTICLE VII.
                                  STOCK AWARDS

     Sec. 7.1 BONUS PAYABLE IN THE FORM OF STOCK AWARDS.  The Committee,  in its
sole discretion,  may determine that all or part of any Qualified Bonus shall be
paid in the  form of a Stock  Award.  Stock  Awards  shall  be  subject  to such
guidelines and rules as the Committee may establish pursuant to Sec. 3.3. hereof
and to the specific provisions of this Article VII.

     Sec. 7.2  DETERMINATION  BY NUMBER OF SHARES.  The portion of any Qualified
Bonus payable as a Stock Award shall be converted to a whole number of Shares by
dividing the dollar amount of such Qualified  Bonus,  or portion  thereof by the
Fair Market Value of one Share as of the Bonus  Determination Date as determined
in good  faith by the  Committee.  Any  fractional  Shares  shall be paid to the
Participant in cash.

     Sec. 7.3 ISSUANCE OF STOCK  CERTIFICATE.  The  Corporation  shall issue and
deliver  a  certificate  for the  Shares  granted  as a Stock  Award  as soon as
administratively  and legally possible after the Bonus  Determination  Date. Any
delay  in  issuance  of  such  certificate  for  such  Shares  after  the  Bonus
Determination Date shall be subject to the following:

          (a)  If, during the period of such delay, the Corporation declares and
               pays a cash dividend and the  circumstances are such that, if the
               certificate  for  such  Shares  had  been  issued  on  the  Bonus
               Determination  Date,  the cash  dividend  would have been paid on
               such Shares,  then there shall be paid in cash to Participants to
               whom  Shares  have been  awarded  but not issued on the  dividend
               payable date an amount  equivalent to the  dividends  which would
               have been  payable  with  respect to such Shares if they had been
               issued and outstanding on or after the Bonus  Determination Date.
               Such  dividend  equivalents  shall be paid in cash on the date or
               dates as of  which  dividends  on the  Corporation's  issued  and
               outstanding Shares are payable.

          (b)  If,  during the period of such  delay,  there is an  increase  or
               decrease in the number of issued and  outstanding  Shares through
               the  declaration of a stock dividend or through  recapitalization
               resulting in a stock split-up,  change in par value,  combination
               or exchange of Shares, or the like ("Stock Adjustment"),  and the
               circumstances are such that if the certificate for each Share had
               been issued on the Bonus  Determination  Date such  Shares  would
               have been adjusted to give effect to such Stock Adjustment,  then
               the number of Shares in such Stock  Award  shall be  adjusted  to
               reflect such Stock Adjustment.

          (c)  If such Shares have not been issued 90 days  following  the Bonus
               Determination  Date,  then the net  dollar  amount of such  Stock
               Award shall, in lieu of issuance of Shares, be paid in cash.


                                  ARTICLE VIII.
                             RESTRICTED STOCK AWARDS

     Sec. 8.1 RESTRICTED  STOCK AWARDS.  The Committee may make Restricted Stock
Awards to Participants  which shall be subject to the provisions of this Article
VIII.

     Sec. 8.2  RESTRICTED  STOCK  AGREEMENTS.  Restricted  Stock Awards shall be
evidenced by Restricted Stock Agreements which shall conform to the requirements
of the Plan and may contain such other  provisions  (such as provisions  for the
protection  of  Restricted  Stock  in  the  event  of  mergers,  consolidations,
dissolutions,  and liquidations  affecting either the Restricted Stock Agreement
or the stock issued thereunder) as the Committee shall deem advisable.

     Sec. 8.3 PAYMENT OF RESTRICTED STOCK AWARDS.  Restricted Stock Awards shall
be paid by delivering to the Participant,  or custodian or escrow  designated by
the  Committee  and the  Participant,  a certificate  or  certificates  for such
restricted  shares  of common  stock of the  Corporation  ("Restricted  Shares")
registered in the name of such  Participant.  The Participant  shall have all of
the rights of a common stock  shareholder with respect to such Restricted Shares
except as to such  restriction  as appear  on the face of the  certificate.  The
Committee shall designate the Corporation or one or more of its employees to act
as custodian or escrow for the certificates ("Escrow Agent").

     Sec. 8.4 TERMS,  CONDITIONS AND  RESTRICTIONS.  Restricted  Shares shall be
subject  to  such  terms  and  conditions,   including  vesting  and  forfeiture
provisions,  if any, and to such restrictions against resale,  transfer or other
disposition  as may be  determined  by the Committee at such time as it grants a
Restricted  Stock Award to a Participant.  Any new or different  Shares or other
securities  resulting from any adjustment of such Restricted  Shares pursuant to
Section  8.2  hereof  shall  be  subject  to  the  same  terms,  conditions  and
restrictions as the Restricted  Shares prior to such  adjustment.  The Committee
may in its discretion,  remove, modify or accelerate the release of restrictions
on  any  Restricted  Shares  as it  deems  appropriate.  In  the  event  of  the
Participant's  death following the transfer of Restricted  Shares to him or her,
the  Participant's  legal  representative  or person  receiving such  Restricted
Shares  under  the  Participant's   will  or  under  the  laws  of  descent  and
distribution  shall take such  Restricted  Shares  subject to the same terms and
conditions and provisions in effect at the time of the  Participant's  death, to
the extent applicable.

     Sec. 8.5  DIVIDENDS AND VOTING  RIGHTS.  During the  restricted  period the
Participant  shall have the right to receive  dividends  from and to vote his or
her Restricted Shares.

     Sec. 8.6 DEPOSIT  SHARE  PROVISIONS.  Subject to the  provisions  set forth
below  ("Deposit  Share  Provisions")  and subject to rules  established  by the
Committee,  eligible  Participants who deposit with the Corporation Shares which
such Participants elect to receive in the form of Shares, rather than cash under
the Corporation's  incentive  compensation programs designated by the Committee,
are eligible to receive a Restricted Stock Award:

          (a)  The  Committee   shall  notify  each   Participant   selected  to
               participate  in the  Deposit  Share  Provisions  ("Deposit  Share
               Participants")  of the maximum  number (and any lesser number) of
               Shares they are permitted to deposit with the Escrow  Agent,  and
               Deposit  Share  Participants  may choose to deposit any number of
               Shares they are permitted to deposit  under the  Committee  rules
               (the "Original Deposit").

          (b)  Deposit Share  Participants must make their irrevocable  election
               on or before the date  designated  by the Committee or if no date
               is designated, then at least 30 days prior to the date payment of
               awards is made ("Award Date"). Deposit Share Participants who are
               subject to the  provisions of Section 16 of the Exchange Act must
               make their irrevocable  election on or before the date designated
               by the  Committee or if no such date is  designated,  then before
               August 1, of the  applicable  year, but in any event at least six
               (6) months prior to the Award Date.

          (c)  All elections shall be in writing and filed with the Committee or
               its designee.  Such elections may, if permitted by the Committee,
               also  specify one of the  following  alternatives  regarding  the
               manner  in  which  dividends  are  paid  on all  deposited  stock
               (including shares in the Original Deposit,  Shares purchased with
               dividends, if any, and matching Restricted Shares :

               (1)  Dividends  shall  be used  for the  purchase  of  additional
                    Shares for the Deposit Share Participant's account; or

               (2)  Dividends  shall  be paid  currently  to the  Deposit  Share
                    Participant.

          (d)  As  soon  as  practicable  following  an  Original  Deposit,  the
               Corporation  shall match these Shares and deposit with the Escrow
               Agent  for the  Deposit  Share  Participant's  account  up to one
               Restricted  Share  for each  Share of the  Original  Deposit,  as
               determined by the Committee.  The Restricted  Shares deposited by
               the  Corporation  shall  vest in  accordance  with  the  schedule
               determined  by  the   Committee.   Restricted   Shares  shall  be
               distributed promptly as they vest.

          (e)  Shares purchased with dividends paid on deposited stock (Original
               Deposit, Restricted Stock or any shares purchased with dividends)
               may be withdrawn  from a Deposit Share  Participant's  account at
               any time.

          (f)  A Deposit Share  Participant  may  temporarily  withdraw all or a
               portion  of  the  Shares  on  deposit   (other  than   non-vested
               Restricted Stock) in order to exercise Stock Options,  subject to
               an equal number of Shares  being  promptly  redeposited  with the
               Escrow Agent after such exercise.

          (g)  A Deposit Share  Participant's  interests in the Original Deposit
               or the  Restricted  Stock may not be sold,  pledged,  assigned or
               transferred  in any  manner,  other  than by will or the  laws of
               descent and distribution,  so long as such shares are held by the
               Escrow  Agent,  and any such sale,  pledge,  assignment  or other
               transfer shall be null and void,  provided,  however, a pledge of
               the Deposit Share Participant's  interest in the Original Deposit
               may be permitted in accordance with rules which the Committee may
               establish.

          (h)  Any or all of the Original  Deposit may be withdrawn at any time.
               Withdrawal shall cause a forfeiture of any non-vested  Restricted
               Shares  attributable to the Shares of the Original  Deposit being
               withdrawn.  Any Shares withdrawn shall be deemed to be made under
               paragraph  (e) to the extent there are any such shares,  and then
               under this paragraph (h).

          (i)  In the event the Deposit Share Participant's  employment with the
               Corporation and its subsidiaries is terminated during the vesting
               period by the reason of the Deposit  Share  Participant's  death,
               "Disability" or "Retirement",  the vesting  requirement  shall be
               deemed fulfilled upon the date of such termination of employment.
               For  purposes of this Sec.  8.6(i),  "Disability"  shall mean the
               cessation of employment of the Deposit  Share  Participant  under
               circumstances  where the Deposit Share Participant is eligible to
               receive  a  monthly  disability  benefit  pursuant  to the  group
               long-term   disability   insurance   program   sponsored  by  the
               Corporation or subsidiary  which employs the Participant or would
               be  eligible  to  receive  if he/she  were a  participant  in the
               applicable  program.  Unless otherwise provided by the Committee,
               for  purposes of this Sec.  8.6(i),  "Retirement"  shall mean the
               Deposit  Share  Participant's   termination  of  employment  that
               qualifies as Normal  Retirement  under the  qualified  retirement
               plan of the  Corporation or subsidiary of the  Corporation  under
               which the Deposit Share Participant is covered.

          (j)  In the  event  of  Deposit  Share  Participant's  termination  of
               employment with the Corporation and its  subsidiaries  during the
               vesting  period for any reason other than those set forth in Sec.
               8.6(i) hereof,  the Shares,  to the extent not otherwise  vested,
               shall  automatically be forfeited and returned to the Corporation
               unless the Committee  shall,  in its sole  discretion,  otherwise
               provide.


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                            RELIASTAR FINANCIAL CORP.

                             MINNEAPOLIS, MINNESOTA
               SHAREHOLDER'S PROXY - ANNUAL MEETING - MAY 8, 1997
                 (SOLICITED ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS)

The undersigned  hereby appoints John G. Turner,  John H. Flittie and Richard R.
Crowl, and each of them,  attorneys and proxies,  with power of substitution and
revocation to each, to vote all shares of the Corporation  which the undersigned
would be entitled  to vote if  personally  present at the Annual  Meeting of the
Corporation  to be held on Thursday,  May 8, 1997,  at 10 o'clock  a.m.,  at the
general offices of the Corporation at 20 Washington  Avenue South,  Minneapolis,
Minnesota,  and at any adjournments  thereof, upon any and all business that may
properly come before said meeting.

THIS PROXY SHALL BE VOTED AS FOLLOWS:
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
1.   ELECTION OF DIRECTORS

     <S>                                             <C>
     [ ]FOR ALL NOMINEES LISTED BELOW                [ ]WITHHOLD AUTHORITY 
        (except as marked to the contrary below)        to vote for all nominees listed below

           DAVID C. COX, LUELLA GROSS GOLDBERG, RANDY C. JAMES, DAVID A. KOCH AND JAMES J. RENIER
    (INSTRUCTION:  TO WITHHOLD AUTHORITY TO VOTE FOR ANY INDIVIDUAL NOMINEE, WRITE THAT NOMINEE'S NAME IN THE SPACE BELOW)

__________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
</TABLE>

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
<S>                     <C>               <C>                      <C>
2.   PROPOSAL TO RATIFY AND APPROVE THE RELIASTAR 1993 STOCK INCENTIVE PLAN AS AMENDED
                        [ ]FOR            [ ]AGAINST               [ ]ABSTAIN

3.   PROPOSAL TO AMEND THE CERTIFICATE OF INCORPORATION TO CHANGE THE CORPORATION'S CAPITAL STOCK FROM NO PAR VALUE TO $.01 
     PAR VALUE PER SHARE

                        [ ]FOR            [ ]AGAINST               [ ]ABSTAIN

                                     (OVER)

                                              (CONTINUED FROM OTHER SIDE)

4.   PROPOSAL TO RATIFY APPOINTMENT OF DELOITTE & TOUCHE AS INDEPENDENT PUBLIC ACCOUNTANTS

                        [ ]FOR            [ ]AGAINST               [ ]ABSTAIN
</TABLE>

THE SHARES TO WHICH THIS PROXY RELATES WILL BE VOTED AS SPECIFIED ON THIS PROXY,
BUT IF NO SPECIFICATION IS MADE, THEY WILL BE VOTED FOR PROPOSALS 1, 2, 3 AND 4.
DISCRETIONARY  AUTHORITY IS HEREBY  CONFERRED AS TO ALL OTHER  MATTERS WHICH MAY
PROPERLY COME BEFORE THE MEETING.



                              Dated -------------------------------------- 1997


                               ------------------------------------------------
                                                  (Signature)

                               ------------------------------------------------
                                                  (Signature)                 

      
                    Please  sign  exactly as  addressed,  but if  executed  by a
                    corporation,   fiduciary,  etc.,  sign  that  name  and  add
                    signature and capacity of authorized signer.               
                    ------------------------------------------------------------
                    PLEASE MARK,  SIGN, DATE AND RETURN THIS PROXY CARD PROMPTLY
                    USING THE ENCLOSED ENVELOPE.
                    ------------------------------------------------------------



                                                                  March 27, 1997


TO:  Participants in the ReliaStar Success Sharing Plan and ESOP

The Annual Meeting of  Shareholders of ReliaStar  Financial Corp.  ("ReliaStar")
will be held in the  auditorium of 20  Washington  Avenue,  South,  Minneapolis,
Minnesota,  on Thursday,  May 8, 1997 at 10:00 a.m.  ReliaStar  shareholders  of
record  as of March  10,  1996 may vote the  Shares  they held of record on that
date.

Although you are not a shareholder of record under the ReliaStar Success Sharing
Plan and ESOP ("ESOP") and as such are not entitled to vote at the meeting,  you
do have an interest in the ReliaStar  Common Stock  ("Shares") held by the Plan.
For this reason, you may instruct Wilmington Trust Company,  the Trustee for the
Plan, how to vote the Shares allocated to your accounts as of the record date.

Enclosed are several  documents  that are important for both the Annual  Meeting
and proxy voting.

1.   The Notice of Annual Meeting and Proxy Statement  explains the proposals to
     be voted upon at the Annual Meeting.

2.   The enclosed  Voting  Instruction  Card is to be used to record your voting
     instructions for the Shares allocated to your accounts.

3.   An annual report is enclosed for former employees who are  participating in
     the ReliaStar  Success  Sharing Plan and ESOP.  (Please note that an annual
     report has been sent to all active  employees of ReliaStar  under  separate
     cover.)

The number of Shares  allocated to your  accounts on the record date is shown on
the Voting Instruction Card. The Shares get one vote each.

TO VOTE ALL OF YOUR SHARES,  SIMPLY  COMPLETE AND RETURN THE VOTING  INSTRUCTION
CARD, USING THE ENCLOSED ENVELOPE, TO NORWEST BANK ON BEHALF OF WILMINGTON TRUST
COMPANY. YOUR CARD MUST BE RECEIVED BEFORE MAY 1, 1997.

The Trustee will vote those Shares for which no voting instructions are received
as well as the Shares  that are held in trust for  allocation  to  participants'
accounts  in future  years in the same  proportion  as Shares  for which  voting
instructions are received.

If you have any questions  about any of this  material,  please call me at (612)
372-5771.




Lance Johnson
Director, Employee Benefits

Encl.

                 RELIASTAR COMMON STOCK VOTING INSTRUCTION FORM

                     RELIASTAR SUCCESS SHARING PLAN AND ESOP
                        MUST BE RECEIVED BY NORWEST BANK
                            NO LATER THAN MAY 1, 1997

I hereby instruct Wilmington Trust Company, the Trustee of the ReliaStar Success
Sharing Plan and ESOP  ("Plan"),  to vote my interest in the shares of ReliaStar
Common  Stock held in the Plan by the  Trustee at the close of business on March
10, 1997, at the Annual Meeting of ReliaStar  Financial Corp., to be held on May
8, 1997,  and at any  adjournment  thereof,  in the manner  directed  below with
respect to the matters  described in the  accompanying  Notice of Annual Meeting
and Proxy Statement for said meeting:

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>

THIS PROXY SHALL BE VOTED AS FOLLOWS:
- -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
1.   ELECTION OF DIRECTORS
     <S>                    <C>                      <C>                         <C>
     [ ] FOR ALL NOMINEES LISTED BELOW               [ ]WITHHOLD AUTHORITY
         except as marked to the contrary below)      to vote for all nominees

           DAVID C. COX, LUELLA GROSS GOLDBERG, RANDY C. JAMES, DAVID A. KOCH AND JAMES J. RENIER
    (INSTRUCTION:  TO WITHHOLD AUTHORITY TO VOTE FOR ANY INDIVIDUAL NOMINEE, WRITE THAT NOMINEE'S NAME IN THE SPACE BELOW)

- -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
2.   PROPOSAL TO RATIFY AND APPROVE THE RELIASTAR 1993 STOCK INCENTIVE PLAN AS AMENDED
                           [ ] FOR                   [ ] AGAINST                 [ ] ABSTAIN

3.   PROPOSAL TO AMEND THE CERTIFICATE OF INCORPORATION TO CHANGE THE CORPORATION'S CAPITAL STOCK FROM NO PAR VALUE TO $.01 PAR
    VALUE PER SHARE
                           [ ] FOR                   [ ] AGAINST                 [ ] ABSTAIN

                                                        (OVER)


                                              (CONTINUED FROM OTHER SIDE)

4.   PROPOSAL TO RATIFY APPOINTMENT OF DELOITTE & TOUCHE LLP AS INDEPENDENT PUBLIC ACCOUNTANTS
                           [ ] FOR                   [ ] AGAINST                 [ ] ABSTAIN

</TABLE>

I understand that this  instruction  form must be received by the Trustee by May
1, 1997. I also  acknowledge  receipt of the proxy materials for the 1997 Annual
Meeting.

If no  instruction  is indicated  above,  the Trustee is  instructed  to vote my
interest in the ReliaStar  Common Stock held by the Trust on the proposals shown
proportionately  in  accordance  with  instructions  received  from  other  Plan
Participants  with  respect  to shares of  ReliaStar  Common  Stock  ("ReliaStar
Shares").  I  understand  that  ReliaStar  Shares for which the Trustee does not
receive voting instructions,  including  unallocated ESOP Common shares, will be
voted by the Trustee in the same  proportion as all  ReliaStar  Shares for which
the Trustee receives voting  instructions.  If no instructions are received from
any Participants,  the Trustee will vote "FOR" the above proposals. On any other
matters that may properly  come before the  meeting,  the Trustee  shall vote in
accordance with its best judgment.

                                Dated _____________________________________ 1997


                                 _______________________________________________
                                           Signature of Participant

                                   (Please date and sign exactly as shown.)




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