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[SUTHERLAND ASBILL & BRENNAN LLP letterhead]
May 5, 2000
VIA EDGAR TRANSMISSION
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U.S. Securities and Exchange Commission
450 Fifth Street, N.W.
Washington, D.C. 20549
Re: Rule 497(j) Filing for
ML of New York Variable Annuity Separate Account A
(File No. 33-43654)
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Commissioners:
On behalf of ML Life Insurance Company of New York (the "Company") and ML of New
York Variable Annuity Separate Account A (the "Account"), pursuant to Rule
497(j) under the Securities Act of 1933, I hereby certify that the form of
prospectus dated May 1, 2000 that would have been filed pursuant to paragraph
(c) of Rule 497 does not differ from that contained in the most recent amendment
to the registration statement. The text of the most recent amendment has been
filed electronically.
Please contact the undersigned at (202) 383-0314, or Mary E. Thornton of our
firm at (202) 383-0698, if you have any questions or comments regarding this
letter.
Sincerely,
/s/ KIMBERLY J. SMITH
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Kimberly J. Smith
Attachment
cc: Edward W. Diffin, Jr., Esq.
Mary E. Thornton, Esq.
