RELIANCE BANCORP INC
DEF 14A, 1996-10-11
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                             RELIANCE BANCORP, INC.
                               585 STEWART AVENUE
                           GARDEN CITY, NEW YORK 11530
                                 (516) 222-9300

October 11, 1996

Dear Stockholder:

You are  cordially  invited to attend the Annual  Meeting of  Stockholders  (the
"Annual Meeting") of Reliance Bancorp, Inc. (the "Company"), the holding company
for Reliance Federal Savings Bank (the "Bank"), to be held on November 12, 1996,
at the Long Island  Marriott Hotel and Conference  Center,  101 James  Doolittle
Boulevard, Uniondale, New York, 11553, at 9:00 a.m. Eastern time.

The attached  Notice of Annual Meeting of  Stockholders  and the Proxy Statement
describe the formal business to be transacted at the Annual  Meeting.  Directors
and officers of the Company,  as well as a  representative  of KPMG Peat Marwick
LLP, the Company's independent  auditors,  will be present at the Annual Meeting
to respond to any questions which stockholders may have.

There are three  matters to be considered  at the Annual  Meeting.  The Board of
Directors  of the  Company  has  determined  that  approval of the matters to be
considered at the Annual Meeting is in the best interests of the Company and its
stockholders.  For the  reasons set forth in the Proxy  Statement,  the Board of
Directors unanimously recommends a vote "FOR" each matter to be considered.

Please sign and return the  enclosed  proxy card  promptly  in the  postage-paid
envelope  provided.  Your  cooperation  is  appreciated  since a majority of the
common stock must be represented  either in person or by proxy,  to constitute a
quorum for the conduct of business.

On behalf of the Board of Directors  and all of the employees of the Company and
the Bank, I wish to thank you for your support and interest.  We look forward to
seeing you at the Annual Meeting.

Sincerely,



Raymond A. Nielsen
President and
Chief Executive Officer


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                             RELIANCE BANCORP, INC.
                               585 STEWART AVENUE
                           GARDEN CITY, NEW YORK 11530
                   -------------------------------------------

                           NOTICE OF ANNUAL MEETING OF
                           STOCKHOLDERS To Be Held On
                                November 12, 1996
                   -------------------------------------------


     NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN that the Annual Meeting of  Stockholders of Reliance
Bancorp,  Inc. will be held on November 12, 1996, at 9:00 a.m., Eastern time, at
the Long  Island  Marriott  Hotel and  Conference  Center,  101 James  Doolittle
Boulevard, Uniondale, New York 11553.

     The Annual  Meeting is for the purpose of  considering  and voting upon the
following matters:

     1.   The election of two directors for terms of three years each;
     2.   Approval of the Reliance Bancorp, Inc. 1996 Stock Option Plan;
     3.   The  ratification  of the  appointment  of KPMG  Peat  Marwick  LLP as
          independent  auditors  of the  Company for the fiscal year ending June
          30, 1997; and
     4.   Such other  matters as may  properly  come  before the  meeting or any
          adjournments thereof.

     The Board of Directors has established  October 4, 1996, as the record date
for the  determination of stockholders  entitled to notice of and to vote at the
Annual  Meeting and at any  adjournments  thereof.  Only  record  holders of the
common  stock of the  Company as of the close of  business  on that date will be
entitled to vote at the Annual Meeting or any adjournments thereof. In the event
there are not  sufficient  votes for a quorum or to approve or ratify any of the
foregoing proposals at the time of the Annual Meeting, the Annual Meeting may be
adjourned in order to permit further  solicitation of proxies by the Company.  A
list of stockholders entitled to vote at the Annual Meeting will be available at
Reliance Bancorp,  Inc., 585 Stewart Avenue,  Garden City, New York 11530, for a
period of ten days prior to the Annual Meeting and will also be available at the
meeting itself.

                                              By Order of the Board of Directors


                                              Robert F. Pelosi
                                              Secretary
Garden City, New York
October 11, 1996


<PAGE>



                             RELIANCE BANCORP, INC.
                           ---------------------------

                                 PROXY STATEMENT
                         ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                                November 12, 1996
                           ---------------------------



General Information

     This proxy statement and the accompanying proxy card are being furnished to
stockholders  of Reliance  Bancorp,  Inc. (the "Company") in connection with the
solicitation  by the Board of Directors of the Company  ("Board of Directors" or
the "Board") of proxies to be used at the annual meeting of  stockholders  to be
held on  November  12,  1996 (the  "Annual  Meeting"),  and at any  adjournments
thereof.  The 1996 Annual Report to  Stockholders,  including  the  consolidated
financial  statements for the fiscal year ended June 30, 1996,  accompanies this
proxy  statement and proxy card,  which are first being mailed to record holders
on or about October 11, 1996.

     Regardless  of the number of shares of common stock owned,  it is important
that  record  holders of a majority  of the  shares be  represented  by proxy or
present in person at the Annual Meeting.  Stockholders  are requested to vote by
completing  the  enclosed  proxy card and  returning  it signed and dated in the
enclosed postage-paid envelope. Stockholders are urged to indicate their vote in
the  spaces  provided  on the  proxy  card.  Proxies  solicited  by the Board of
Directors of the Company will be voted in accordance  with the directions  given
therein.  Where no instructions are indicated,  signed proxy cards will be voted
"FOR"  the  election  of  the   nominees  for  director   named  in  this  proxy
statement,"FOR"  the approval of the Reliance  Bancorp,  Inc.  1996 Stock Option
Plan, and "FOR" the  ratification of the appointment of KPMG Peat Marwick LLP as
independent auditors of the Company for the year ending June 30, 1997.

     Other than the matters  listed on the attached  Notice of Annual Meeting of
Stockholders,  the Board of Directors knows of no matters that will be presented
for consideration at the Annual Meeting.  Execution of a proxy, however, confers
on the designated  proxy holders  discretionary  authority to vote the shares in
accordance  with their best  judgment on such other  business,  if any, that may
properly come before the Annual Meeting or any adjournments thereof.

     A proxy may be revoked at any time prior to its exercise by the filing of a
written notice of revocation with the Secretary of the Company, by delivering to
the Company a duly  executed  proxy  bearing a later date,  or by attending  the
Annual  Meeting and voting in person.  However,  if you are a stockholder  whose
shares  are  not  registered  in  your  own  name,  you  will  need  appropriate
documentation from your record holder to vote personally at the Annual Meeting.


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     The cost of  solicitation  of proxies on behalf of management will be borne
by the Company. In addition to the solicitation of proxies by mail, Kissel-Blake
Inc., a proxy  solicitation  firm, will assist the Company in soliciting proxies
for the  Annual  Meeting  and will be paid a fee of $3,000,  plus  out-of-pocket
expenses. Proxies may also be solicited personally or by telephone by directors,
officers  and regular  employees  of the Company  and its  subsidiary,  Reliance
Federal Savings Bank (the "Bank"),  without additional  compensation  therefore.
The Company will also request persons,  firms and corporations holding shares in
their names, or in the name of their nominees,  which are beneficially  owned by
others,  to send proxy  material  to and  obtain  proxies  from such  beneficial
owners,  and will reimburse such holders for their reasonable  expenses in doing
so.

Voting Securities

     The securities  which may be voted at the Annual Meeting  consist of shares
of common stock of the Company ("Common  Stock"),  with each share entitling its
owner to one vote on all matters to be voted on at the Annual  Meeting except as
described below. There is no cumulative voting for the election of directors.

     The close of  business  on October 4, 1996,  has been fixed by the Board of
Directors  as the  record  date (the  "Record  Date") for the  determination  of
stockholders  of record  entitled to notice of and to vote at the Annual Meeting
and any  adjournments  thereof.  The total  number  of  shares  of Common  Stock
outstanding on the Record Date was 8,911,739 shares.

     As provided in the Company's  Certificate of Incorporation,  record holders
of Common Stock who beneficially own in excess of 10% of the outstanding  shares
of Common  Stock (the  "Limit") are not entitled to any vote with respect to the
shares held in excess of the Limit. A person or entity is deemed to beneficially
own shares owned by an affiliate of, as well as persons  acting in concert with,
such person or entity. The Company's Certificate of Incorporation authorizes the
Board of Directors  to: (i) make all  determinations  necessary to implement and
apply the Limit, including determining whether persons or entities are acting in
concert,  and  (ii)  demand  that  any  person  who is  reasonably  believed  to
beneficially  own stock in excess  of the  Limit to  supply  information  to the
Company to enable the Board to implement and apply the Limit.

     The presence,  in person or by proxy, of the holders of at least a majority
of the  total  number  of  shares  of  Common  Stock  entitled  to  vote  (after
subtracting  any  shares  in  excess  of the  Limit  pursuant  to the  Company's
Certificate of  Incorporation) is necessary to constitute a quorum at the Annual
Meeting.  In the event there are not sufficient votes for a quorum or to approve
or ratify any proposal at the time of the Annual Meeting, the Annual Meeting may
be adjourned in order to permit the further solicitation of proxies.

     As to the election of directors, the proxy card being provided by the Board
of Directors  enables a  shareholder  to vote "FOR" the election of the nominees
proposed by the Board, or to "WITHHOLD AUTHORITY" to vote for one or more of the
nominees being proposed. Under


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Delaware  law  and  the  Company's  Certificate  of  Incorporation  and  Bylaws,
directors are elected by a plurality of votes cast, without regard to either (i)
broker non-votes,  or (ii) proxies as to which authority to vote for one or more
of the nominees being proposed is withheld.

     As to the approval of the  Reliance  Bancorp,  Inc.  1996 Stock Option Plan
(the "1996 Stock Option Plan"),  by checking the  appropriate  box, you may: (i)
vote "FOR" the item;  (ii) vote  "AGAINST"  the item;  or (iii)  "ABSTAIN"  with
respect to the item.  Under Delaware law, an affirmative  vote of holders of the
majority of the shares of Common Stock present at the Annual Meeting,  in person
or by proxy, and entitled to vote is required to constitute stockholder approval
of this proposal.  Shares as to which the "ABSTAIN" box has been selected on the
proxy card,  will be counted as present  and  entitled to vote and will have the
effect of a vote "AGAINST"  approval of the 1996 Stock Option Plan. In contrast,
shares underlying broker non-votes or in excess of the Limit will not be counted
as a present and entitled to vote and will have no effect.

     As to the approval of KPMG Peat Marwick LLP as independent  auditors of the
Company and all other matters that may properly come before the Annual  Meeting,
by checking the  appropriate  box,  you may: (i) vote "FOR" the item;  (ii) vote
"AGAINST"  the item;  or (iii)  "ABSTAIN"  with  respect to the item.  Under the
Company's  Certificate of Incorporation and Bylaws, unless otherwise required by
law,  all such  matters  shall be  determined  by a majority  of the votes cast,
without regard to either (a) broker  non-votes,  or (b) proxies marked "ABSTAIN"
as to that matter.

     Proxies solicited hereby will be returned to the Company's  transfer agent,
Registrar and Transfer Company,  and will be tabulated by inspectors of election
designated  by the Board,  who will not be  employed  by, or a director  of, the
Company  or any of its  affiliates.  After the final  adjournment  of the Annual
Meeting, the proxies will be returned to the Company for safekeeping.

Security Ownership of Certain Beneficial Owners

     The following table sets forth certain  information as to those persons who
are  beneficial  owners of more than 5% of the Company's  outstanding  shares of
Common Stock on the Record Date based solely upon  disclosure in certain reports
received by the Company regarding such ownership filed with the Company and with
the Securities  and Exchange  Commission,  in accordance  with Sections 13(d) or
13(g) of the Securities  Exchange Act of 1934, as amended,  ("Exchange  Act") by
such persons and groups.  Other than those persons listed below,  the Company is
not aware of any person or group,  as such term is defined in the Exchange  Act,
that owns more than 5% of the Company's Common Stock as of the Record Date.


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<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                                            Number of Shares               Percent
                                 Name and Address                            and Nature of                    of
       Title of Class           of Beneficial Owner                       Beneficial Ownership             Class(1)
       --------------           -------------------                       --------------------             --------
        <S>                                                                    <C>                          <C>  
        Common Stock          Reliance Federal Savings Bank                     826,169                      9.27%
                              Employee Stock Ownership Plan ("ESOP") (2)
                              585 Stewart Avenue
                              Garden City, NY 11530
       
        Common Stock          Miller, Anderson & Sherrerd (3)
                              1 Tower Bridge
                              West Conshohocken, PA 19428
</TABLE>


(1)  As of  the  record  date  there  were  8,911,739  shares  of  common  stock
     outstanding.

(2)  A Committee of the Board of Directors has been  appointed to administer the
     ESOP (the "ESOP Committee"). An unrelated third party has been appointed as
     the corporate trustee for the ESOP ("ESOP Trustee"). The ESOP Committee may
     instruct the ESOP Trustee regarding  investment of funds contributed to the
     ESOP.  The ESOP Trustee must vote all allocated  shares held in the ESOP in
     accordance  with the  instructions  of the  participants.  As of the Record
     Date,  165,600  shares of Common  Stock in the ESOP have been  allocated to
     participants.  Under  the ESOP,  unallocated  shares  held in the  suspense
     account  will be voted by the ESOP Trustee in a manner  calculated  to most
     accurately  reflect the instructions  received from participants  regarding
     the  allocated  stock  so long  as such  vote  is in  accordance  with  the
     provisions of Employee  Retirement  Income Security Act of 1974, as amended
     ("ERISA").

(3)  Based on a Schedule  13G,  filed on  February  12,  1996 for the year ended
     December 31, 1995,  in which  Miller,  Anderson & Sherrerd,  an  investment
     advisor  disclosed  that it had sole  power to  dispose  or to  direct  the
     disposition of 507,300 shares.

                 PROPOSALS TO BE VOTED ON AT THE ANNUAL MEETING
                        PROPOSAL 1. ELECTION OF DIRECTORS

     Pursuant to the  Company's  Bylaws,  the number of directors of the Company
may be  designated  by the  Board  of  Directors.  In June  1996,  the  Board of
Directors  designated that the number of directors be increased to eight (8) and
Mr.  Conrad J.  Gunther,  Jr. was appointed to the Board of Directors for a term
expiring in 1998.  All the members of the Board of Directors of the Company also
presently  serve as directors of the Bank.  Directors  are elected for staggered
terms  of three  years  each,  with a term of  office  of only one of the  three
classes of directors expiring each year.  Directors serve until their successors
are elected and qualified.

     The nominees proposed for election at the Annual Meeting are Messrs. Thomas
G. Davis, Jr. and Donald LaPasta.  All nominees named are presently directors of
the  Company  and the Bank.  No person  being  nominated  as a director is being
proposed for election  pursuant to any  agreement or  understanding  between any
such person and the Company.

     In the event that  either Mr.  Davis or Mr.  LaPasta are unable to serve or
declines to serve for any reason,  it is intended  the proxies will be voted for
the election of such other person as may be  designated  by the present Board of
Directors.  The Board of Directors  has no reason to believe that Messrs.  Davis
and LaPasta will be unable or unwilling to serve.  Unless  authority to vote for
the  nominees is withheld,  it is intended  that the shares  represented  by the
enclosed  proxy card if executed and returned  will be voted FOR the election of
the nominees proposed by the Board of Directors.


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                        THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS RECOMMENDS
                         A VOTE FOR THE ELECTION OF THE
                     NOMINEES NAMED IN THIS PROXY STATEMENT.


Information  with  respect  to the  Nominees,  Continuing  Directors,  and Named
Executive Officers

     The  following  table sets forth,  as of the Record Date,  the names of the
nominees and the  continuing  directors and certain  executive  officers,  their
ages, a brief description of their recent business experience, including present
occupations  and  employment,  certain  directorships  held by each, the year in
which each  became a director  and the year in which their terms (or in the case
of the nominees,  their proposed terms) as director of the Company  expire.  The
table  also sets  forth  the  amount of  Common  Stock and the  percent  thereof
beneficially  owned by each  director  and each  Named  Executive  Officer  (see
"Summary  Compensation  Table") and all directors  and  executive  officers as a
group as of the Record Date.

<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                                                                   Shares of
        Name and Principal                                                      Expiration        Common Stock       Ownership
      Occupation at Present and                             Director            of Term as         Beneficially      As a Percent  
      for the Past Five Years                  Age          Since(1)            Director            Owned(2)          of Class(3)  
      -----------------------                  ---          --------            --------            --------          -----------  
<S>                                             <C>           <C>                <C>               <C>                  <C>  
Nominees

Thomas G. Davis, Jr.                            62            1991               1999               52,385 (4)(5)           *
  Retired President and Director of
  Institutional Mortgage Investors
  Management Corporation, a national
  investment firm involved in the
  purchase of mortgages for pension
  and other types of funds.

Donald LaPasta                                  77            1958               1999               52,074 (4)(5)           *
  Retired Chairman of the Board and
  Chief Executive Officer of the Bank.

Continuing Directors

Conrad J. Gunther, Jr.                          50            1996               1998                2,052 (4)(5)           *
  Vice President of Allied Coverage Corp,
   an independent insurance brokerage

Raymond L. Nielsen                              70            1961               1998              154,784 (6)(7)       1.65%
  Chairman of the Board and former                                                                         (9)
  Chief  Executive Officer of the
  Company and the Bank.
</TABLE>


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<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                                                                   Shares of                      
        Name and Principal                                                      Expiration        Common Stock       Ownership    
      Occupation at Present and                             Director            of Term as         Beneficially      As a Percent 
      for the Past Five Years                  Age          Since(1)            Director            Owned(2)          of Class(3) 
      -----------------------                  ---          --------            --------            --------          ----------- 
<S>                                             <C>           <C>                <C>               <C>                  <C>  
Continuing Directors (Continued)
J. William Newby                                68            1979               1998               47,205 (4)(5)           *
  Owner/President of Beacon
  Mortgage Company, a national
  mortgage brokerage and servicing  firm.

Raymond A. Nielsen (8)                          45            1983               1997              149,584 (6)(7)       1.60%
 President and Chief Executive                                                                             (9)
 Officer  of the  Company  and the  Bank
  since  July 1,  1996.  Formerly  Chief
 Operating Officer of the Bank from 
June 18, 1986 to June 30, 1996.

Douglas G. LaPasta (10)                         50            1983               1997               43,385 (4)(5)           *
  Principal of Stonehill Management
  Consultants, a management
  consulting firm.

Peter F. Neumann                                62            1982               1997               60,885 (4)(5)           *
  President of Bradley Parker, Flynn-
  Neumann, Inc., an insurance agency
  and director of Vicon Industries, Inc.


Executive Officers Who Are Not Directors

Gerald M. Sauvigne                              43             --                 --                54,717 (6)(7)           *
  Executive Vice President and                                                                             (9)
  Treasurer of the Company
  and the Bank.

Robert F. Pelosi                                64             --                 --                40,242 (6)(7)           *
  Senior Vice President and                                                                                (9)
  Secretary of the Company
  and the Bank.

 John F. Traxler                                48             --                 --                38,265 (6)(7)           *
  Vice President and Investment                                                                            (9)
  Officer of the Company
  and the Bank.

All directors and executive officers            --             --                 --               909,750 (11)         9.71%
  as a group (21 persons)
</TABLE>

- ----------
 *Does not exceed 1.0% of the Company's voting securities.
(Footnotes on next page)


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(1)  Includes years of service as a director of the Company's  predecessor,  the
     Bank.
(2)  Each  person  effectively  exercises  sole (or shares  with spouse or other
     immediate family member) voting or dispositive power as to shares reported.
(3)  For  purposes  of  calculating  the  aggregate  ownership  percentage,  all
     presently  exercisable options have been added to the amount of outstanding
     common stock as of the record date.
(4)  Includes  11,799  unvested  shares  awarded each to Messrs.  Davis,  Donald
     LaPasta, Douglas G. LaPasta, Neumann, Newby and 1,552 shares awarded to Mr.
     Gunther under the Reliance  Federal Savings Bank  Recognition and Retention
     Plan for Outside  Directors (the "DRP").  Although awards granted under the
     plan vest at a rate of 20% commencing  March 31, 1995 for each  participant
     except Mr.  Gunther  whose  award  begins  vesting on June 19,  1997,  each
     participant presently has voting power as to the shares awarded.
(5)  Includes  26,220 options  granted each to Messrs.  Davis,  Donald  LaPasta,
     Neumann  and Newby and 22,220  granted to  Douglas  G.  LaPasta,  under the
     Reliance  Bancorp,  Inc. 1994 Stock Option Plan for Outside  Directors (the
     "Directors' Option Plan") which are currently exercisable.  Excludes 13,110
     shares subject to option  granted each to Messrs.  Davis,  Donald  LaPasta,
     Douglas G.  LaPasta,  Neumann,  and Newby which will vest on March 31, 1997
     and 6,727 shares granted to Mr. Gunther which are  exercisable at a rate of
     33 1/3% per year commencing June 19, 1997.
(6)  Includes  54,272;  54,272;  14,904;  11,799;  and 9,315 of unvested  shares
     awarded  to  Messrs.  R.L.  Nielsen,  R.A.  Nielsen,  Sauvigne,  Pelosi and
     Traxler, respectively,  under the Reliance Federal Savings Bank Recognition
     and  Retention  Plan for Officers  and  Employees  (the "MRP").  MRP awards
     granted under the plan vest at a rate of 20% per year commencing  March 31,
     1995 and November 9, 1995. Each  participant  presently has voting power as
     to the shares awarded.
(7)  Includes 62,100;62,100; 22,356; 15,732 and 14,490 shares subject to options
     granted  to  Messrs.  R.L.  Nielsen,  R.A.  Nielsen,  Sauvigne,  Pelosi and
     Traxler,  respectively,  under the Reliance  Bancorp,  Inc. 1994  Incentive
     Stock Option Plan which are currently exercisable. Excludes 93,150; 93,150;
     33,534; 23,598 and 21,735, respectively,  of shares subject to option which
     become exercisable at a rate of 33 1/3% per year commencing March 31, 1997.
(8)  Raymond A. Nielsen is the son of Raymond L. Nielsen.
(9)  Includes  5,594;  5,594;  5,594;  4,660 and 4,250 shares awarded to Messrs.
     R.L. Nielsen,  R.A. Nielsen,  Sauvigne,  Pelosi and Traxler,  respectively,
     under the Reliance  Federal Savings Bank Employee Stock Ownership Plan (the
     "ESOP").
(10) Douglas G. LaPasta is the nephew of Donald LaPasta.
(11) Excludes a total of 72,277 options  granted to six outside  directors under
     the 1994  Stock  Option  Plan for  Outside  Directors.  Excludes a total of
     494,937  shares subject to options  awarded under the 1994 Incentive  Stock
     Option Plan.  Includes a total of 386,449  shares awarded under the MRP and
     DRP, as to which voting may be directed.

Note: The above table does not include options granted to Executive Officers and
Directors pursuant to the 1996 Stock Option Plan.

Meetings of the Board and Committees of the Board

     The  Board of  Directors  of the  Company  conducts  its  business  through
meetings of the Board and through  activities  of its  committees.  The Board of
Directors of the Company  meets  quarterly and may have  additional  meetings as
needed.  During  fiscal  1996,  the Board of  Directors  of the Company  held 15
meetings.  All of the  directors  of the  Company  attended  at least 75% in the
aggregate of the total number of the Company's board meetings held and committee
meetings  on which  such  director  served  during  fiscal  1996.  The  Board of
Directors of the Company  maintains  committees,  the nature and  composition of
which are described below:


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     Audit  Committee.  The Audit  Committee of the Company  consists of Messrs.
Newby,  Donald  LaPasta  and  Davis  all of whom  are  outside  directors.  This
committee  meets on a quarterly  basis to meet with the internal and independent
auditors  and to review  the  plans  and  reports  of such  auditors.  The Audit
Committee met two (2) times in fiscal 1996.

     Nominating  Committee.  The  Company's  Nominating  Committee  for the 1996
Annual Meeting  consisted of Messrs.  Douglas G. LaPasta,  R. L. Nielsen,  R. A.
Nielsen,  Newby and Neumann. The Committee considers and recommends the nominees
for  Director  to  stand  for  election  at  the  Company's  annual  meeting  of
stockholders.  The Company's Certificate of Incorporation and Bylaws provide for
stockholder nominations of Directors.  These provisions require such nominations
to be made pursuant to timely notice in writing to the Secretary of the Company.
The stockholder's  notice of nomination must contain all information relating to
the nominee which is required to be disclosed by the Company's Bylaws and by the
Exchange Act. See  "Additional  Information - Notice of Business to Be Conducted
at an Annual Meeting." The Nominating Committee met on June 19, 1996.

     Compensation/Benefits  Committee.  The Joint Compensation  Committee of the
Company and the Bank (the "Compensation Committee") consists of Messrs. Neumann,
Newby, Donald LaPasta,  Douglas G. LaPasta and Davis. The Compensation Committee
establishes  guidelines for the level of  compensation  and to review  incentive
compensation  programs for executive  officers.  The Compensation  Committee met
four times in fiscal 1996.

     Proxy  Committee.  The Proxy  Committee of the Company  consists of Messrs.
R.L.  Nielsen,  Neumann  and  Newby.  The  Proxy  Committee  serves as proxy for
stockholders  solicited by the Board of Directors for voting at annual  meetings
or other meetings of stockholders. The Proxy Committee met once in fiscal 1996.

Directors' Compensation

     Directors'  Fees. Each outside  director of the Company  receives an annual
retainer of $6,000,  except for the Chairman who receives a salary at $1,000 per
month. No additional fees are paid for attending  meetings.  The annual retainer
for outside  directors  of the Bank is currently  $18,000,  payable on an annual
basis with the exception of the Chairman of the Board who receives  $36,000.  In
addition,  each outside  director of the Bank  receives  $1,000 for each meeting
attended. Neither the Company nor the Bank pays fees for committee meetings.

     Directors'  Consultation  and Retirement Plan. The Bank has established the
Reliance  Federal Savings Bank Outside  Directors'  Consultation  and Retirement
Plan (the "Directors' Retirement Plan"). Outside directors of the Bank, who have
served the Bank for at least ten years and who have attained the age of at least
70, will be eligible to receive  benefits under the Directors'  Retirement Plan.
Pursuant to such plan, if, within thirty days of retirement, an outside director
agrees to provide  consulting  services to the Bank, such outside director shall
be paid an annual retirement  benefit, in equal monthly  installments,  equal to
the lesser of the number of


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months such outside director agrees to provide consulting services or ten years.
The annual benefit will be based on the outside  director's  annual retainer fee
determined as of the outside director's termination date.

     Directors' Option Plan. The Company has adopted the Reliance Bancorp,  Inc.
1994 Stock Option Plan for Outside Directors ("the Directors' Option Plan"), the
purpose of which is to  promote  the  growth  and  profitability  of the Bank by
providing  an  incentive  in the form of stock  options  to  attract  and retain
outside  directors of the Company and the Bank by encouraging  their acquisition
of an equity interest in the Company.

     Under the Directors' Option Plan, outside directors were granted, effective
March 31, 1994, non-statutory stock options to purchase 196,650 shares of Common
Stock. Accordingly, Messrs. Donald LaPasta, Douglas LaPasta, Neumann, Newby, and
Davis were each  granted an option to purchase  39,330  shares of the  Company's
Common Stock at an exercise price of $10.00 per share.  On June 19, 1996,  under
the same plan, Mr.  Gunther,  who became a director as of such date, was granted
6,727 shares of common stock at a price of $15.25.

     All  options  granted  pursuant  to  the  Directors'   Option  Plan  become
exercisable on a cumulative  basis in equal annual  installments at a rate of 33
1/3% per year  commencing  on March 31,  1995 with  respect  to  Messrs.  Donald
LaPasta,  Douglas  LaPasta,  Neumann,  Newby and  Davis  and June 19,  1997 with
respect to Mr. Gunther. To satisfy the exercise of an option under the Directors
Option Plan,  either  authorized but unissued  shares or treasury  shares may be
used.

     All options granted under the Directors Option Plan expire upon the earlier
of 10 years  following  the date of  grant  or one year  following  the date the
optionee ceases to be a director for any reason other than removal for cause, in
which  case  they  terminate  immediately.  Upon  death  or  disability  of  the
participant,  retirement  from the Board upon reaching  mandatory  retirement as
specified  in the Bylaws of the  Company or the Bank or in the event of a change
of control as defined in the  Directors'  Option  Plan,  all options  previously
granted automatically become exercisable.

     Bank  Recognition  and Retention Plan for Outside  Directors.  The Bank has
established the Reliance Federal Savings Bank Recognition and Retention Plan for
Outside  Directors  (the  "DRP")  as a  method  of  providing  directors  with a
proprietary  interest in the Company to encourage them to continue to serve with
the Bank. Awards to directors vest in equal annual installments at a rate of 20%
per year commencing one year from the date of grant.  Awards will be 100% vested
upon  termination  of  employment  or  service  as a  director  due to  death or
disability  of the  director or following a change in the control of the Bank or
the Company. In the event a director otherwise discontinues service on the Board
prior to earning all plan shares  subject to an award,  the directors  nonvested
awards will be forfeited. When shares become vested and are actually distributed
in accordance  with the DRP, the recipients  will also receive  amounts equal to
any accrued  dividends  with respect  thereto.  Prior to vesting,  recipients of
awards may direct voting of the shares allocated to them.


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Executive Compensation

     The  following  report  of  the   compensation   committee  and  the  stock
performance  graph shall not be deemed  incorporated by reference by any general
statement  incorporating by reference this proxy statement into any filing under
the Securities Act of 1933 (the "Securities Act") or the Exchange Act, except as
to the extent that the Company  specifically  incorporates  this  information by
reference, and shall not otherwise be deemed filed under such Acts.

            Compensation Committee Report on Executive Compensation.

     Under rules  established  by the Securities  and Exchange  Commission  (the
"SEC"),  the Company is  required to provide  certain  data and  information  in
regard  to  the  compensation  and  benefits  provided  to the  Company's  Chief
Executive Officer and other executive officers. The disclosure  requirements for
the Chief  Executive  Officer and other  executive  officers  include the use of
tables and a report explaining the rationale and considerations  that led to the
fundamental compensation decisions affecting those individuals.  The Company and
the  Bank  have a  Joint  Compensation/Benefits  Committee  consisting  of  only
disinterested  outside  directors.  In the past, given the limited nature of the
operations of the Company, no annual compensation was paid to executive officers
of the Company for their  services as officers of the Company.  For fiscal 1997,
the  Chairman  of the Board will  receive  compensation  of $1,000 per month for
services  performed  for the  Company.  Accordingly,  the  following  discussion
addresses  compensation  paid by the Bank to executive  officers of the Bank. In
fulfillment of the SEC requirement,  the Compensation Committee has prepared the
following report for inclusion in this proxy statement.

     General. The stated purpose of the Compensation  Committee is to review the
respective  compensation  philosophy  and programs and exercise  authority  with
respect to the payment of direct  salaries  and  incentive  compensation  to the
directors  and officers of the Bank and Company and serve as  administrator  for
certain  benefit plans of the Bank and Company as may be determined by the Board
of Directors. The Compensation Committee periodically reviews and determines the
compensation  of  the  Chief  Executive  Officer  and  certain  other  executive
officers,  and authorizes the  compensation  paid to the remaining  officers and
employees.

     Base Salary.  All officers'  salaries are reviewed annually in June for the
upcoming fiscal year. Management prepares its recommendations (for all employees
and officers  other than the CEO and  President)  and supplies the  Compensation
Committee  with  reference  materials  such as  various  published  compensation
surveys and other  supporting  documentation.  Salary  levels are designed to be
competitive with cash compensation levels paid by peer group  institutions.  The
Bank generally considers its peer group to be thrift institutions and banks with
assets between $1.0 billion and $5.0 billion  operating  within the Mid-Atlantic
region,  with specific emphasis on the metropolitan New York area and generating
a comparable  Return on Equity.  The peer group used to compare  salaries is not
necessarily comprised of the same institutions which make up the peer group used
in the Stock Performance Graph. Among the published compensation surveys used to
determine  compensation  levels for the Chief Executive  Officer,  President and
other executive


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officers  for the July 1995  salary  adjustment  were the  "1995  SNL  Executive
Compensation Review" (by SNL Securities), "1994 Executive Compensation Practices
in Financial Companies" (KPMG Peat Marwick),  and "1994 Compensation for Savings
Institutions" (by the Savings and Community Bankers of America).  Evaluations of
the executive officers of the Bank and their specific levels of compensation are
based on  discretionary  criteria  and no  specific  formula is  utilized to fix
annual compensation.

     Short-term Incentive  Compensation.  The Bank maintains a formal "Incentive
Compensation  Plan." The Plan is  specifically  designed to provide a short-term
incentive to executive officers and other officers of the Bank. The Compensation
Committee considers the payment of discretionary  awards if and when appropriate
under  the  terms of the  Plan.  Prior to the  start of each  Fiscal  Year,  the
Committee establishes a "Target Incentive Award" for each Participant,  based on
that  Participant's  "Target Incentive Award Category." Each Award is determined
by a weighted measurement system containing two components: the Bank's financial
performance and the individual officer's performance.

     The  financial  performance  component  consists  of a variety  of  factors
including, but not limited to, earnings per share and returns on average equity.
The Committee  determines  the weight to be assigned to each factor,  and in any
given  semi-annual  Award Period  different  factors may be  emphasized  and all
factors may not be addressed.  Financial performance targets or goals are judged
against the Bank's own anticipated  performance and the actual experience of the
Bank's peers.  The  Committee  makes this  performance  measure as objective and
quantitative as possible,  and the Target Incentive Award has been structured so
that this component makes up the majority of the award.

     The  Compensation  Committee of the Bank,  which  administers the plan, has
discretion  under  the  Incentive  Compensation  Plan  to  make  adjustments  in
Incentive  Compensation  awards where circumstances  warrant.  In addition,  the
Committee retains the right to include an "Exceptional  Performance  Component".
This component,  awarded for  exceptional  Bank financial  performance,  may not
exceed  120% of the Target  Incentive  Award.  For fiscal  1996,  the  Company's
financial  performance  was in the  areas  specified  within  the  Plan  and the
individual officers' performance, resulted in awards ranging from 90% to 100% of
the Target Incentive Award.

     Long-term  Incentive  Compensation.  The long-term  incentive  compensation
portion  of  Company's  and the  Bank's  compensation  program  consists  of the
Employee Stock  Ownership Plan (the "ESOP"),  the Recognition and Retention Plan
for Officers and Employees (the "MRP"),  the Incentive  Stock Option Plan all of
which  were  established  in  conjunction  with the  Bank's  conversion  and the
company's  initial public stock  offering.  Additionally,  on July 17, 1996, the
Board of  Directors  adopted the 1996 Stock  Option Plan which is  submitted  to
stockholders  for approval under Proposal 2 of this Proxy  statement.  The ESOP,
Incentive  Stock Option Plan,  MRP and 1996 Stock Option Plan are designed as an
incentive to the  executive  officers and employees of the Bank and act to align
the interests of the officers and employees of the Bank with


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stockholders.  The  executive  and  other  officers  of the  Bank  were  awarded
options/shares  under the  Incentive  Stock  Option  Plan and the MRP which were
allocated by the  Compensation  Committee  based upon  regulatory  practices and
policies,  the practices of other recently converted  financial  institutions as
verified by external  surveys and based upon the  executive  officer's  level of
responsibility  and  contributions to the Bank as determined by the Compensation
Committee.  The outstanding  awards are taken into account in determining annual
compensation for the executive officers.

     The Compensation  Committee  administers the MRP, determines which eligible
employees will be granted plan share awards (the "Plan Share Awards") and grants
Plan Share Awards.  Under the MRP, Plan Share Awards,  which are nontransferable
and  nonassignable,  are granted in the form of shares of Company  Common  Stock
which are held in trust  until the Plan  Share  Awards  vest.  See the  "Summary
Compensation Table."

     Chief Executive Officer. Effective July 1, 1995, Mr. Raymond L. Nielsen was
granted a salary increase of 7.14% to bring his annual compensation to $375,000.
This salary  adjustment and the Incentive  Compensation paid to Mr. R.L. Nielsen
recognized his significant contributions to the Bank's successful operations and
reputation  in our  marketplace  and  maintains  his overall  compensation  on a
competitive  level with industry peers. In comparison to cash  compensation paid
to Chief Executive  Officers by industry peer groups,  Mr. R.L. Nielsen's salary
was similar to the average  compensation  survey relied upon by the Compensation
Committee.  No  specific  formula  is used in  connection  with the  Committee's
decisions  regarding  the Chief  Executive  Officer's  annual salary nor did the
Committee set specified  salary  levels based on the  achievement  of particular
quantifiable  objectives or financial goals of the Bank.  Rather,  the Committee
considered the overall  profitability of the Bank and the contributions  made to
the Bank by the CEO.

             Compensation/Benefits Committee of the Company and Bank.

               Peter F. Neumann (Chairman)
               Donald LaPasta                           Douglas G. LaPasta
               Thomas G. Davis, Jr.                     J. William Newby

     Compensation  Committee  Interlocks and Insider  Participation.  All of the
members of the  Compensation  Committee -- Messrs.  Donald  LaPasta,  Douglas G.
LaPasta,  Neumann,  Newby and Davis -- are outside directors of the Company. The
SEC  further  requires  disclosure  of,  among  other  items,  any member of the
Compensation  Committee who was formerly an officer of the company or any of its
subsidiaries.  Director Donald LaPasta, member of the Compensation Committees of
both the Bank and the Company,  was formerly the Chairman of the Board and Chief
Executive  Officer of the Bank. Mr. LaPasta  retired from the Bank on October 1,
1983.

     Stock  Performance  Graph.  The  following  graph  shows  a  comparison  of
cumulative total shareholder  return on the Company's Common Stock, based on the
market price of the Common Stock assuming  reinvestment  of dividends,  with the
cumulative  total return of companies in the Nasdaq  National  Market and Nasdaq
Bank Stocks for the period  beginning on March 31, 1994,  the day the  Company's
Common Stock began trading, through June 30, 1996.


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       Cumulative Total Return Among Reliance Bancorp, Inc. Common Stock,
               CRSP Nasdaq Market Index and CRSP Nasdaq Bank Index
                         March 31, 1994 - June 30, 1996


    [THE FOLLOWING WAS REPRESENTED BY A LINE GRAPH IN THE PRINTED DOCUMENT]


<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                               SUMMARY

                                       3/31/94      6/30/94     12/31/94     6/30/95     12/31/95      6/30/96
                                       -------      -------     --------     -------     --------      -------
<S>                                    <C>          <C>          <C>         <C>          <C>          <C>    
Reliance Bancorp, Inc.                 100.000      123.684      112.518     154.003      160.476      174.007
CRSP Nasdaq Market Index               100.000       95.325      102.041     127.093      144.292      163.357
CRSP Nasdaq Bank Index                 100.000      107.945      100.856     121.786      150.211      158.824
</TABLE>

Notes:

A. The lines represent  index levels derived from compounded  daily returns that
   include all dividends.
B. The indexes are  reweighted  daily,  using the market  capitalization  on the
   previous trading day.
C. If the interval is not a trading day, the preceding trading day is used.
D. The index level for all series were set to $100.00 on 3/31/94.


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     Summary Compensation Table. The following table shows, for the fiscal years
ending June 30, 1996, 1995 and 1994, the cash  compensation paid by the Bank, as
well as certain other compensation paid or accrued for those years, to the Chief
Executive  Officer and the other highest paid Executive  Officers of the Company
and/or the Bank who received an amount in salary and bonus in excess of $100,000
in fiscal  1996.  The Company did not pay any cash  compensation  in fiscal year
1996, 1995 and 1994.
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                     Annual Compensation                Long-Term Compensation
                                                     -------------------                ----------------------
                                                                                            Awards             Payouts
                                                                                            ------             -------
                                                                         Other     Restricted    Securities
                                                                         Annual      Stock        Underlying              All Other
           Name and                                           Bonus   Compensation   Awards       Options/       LTIP   Compensation
        Principal Office                Year     Salary($)    ($)(1)    ($)(2)       ($)(3)    SARs (#)($)(4)  Payouts(5)    $(7)
        ----------------                ----     ---------    ------    ------       ------    --------------  ----------    ----
<S>                                     <C>      <C>          <C>          <C>      <C>            <C>             <C>        <C>   
Raymond L. Nielsen                      1996     375,000      93,750       --          --             --           --         83,156
   Chief Executive Officer and          1995     356,730      87,500       --       426,298(6)        --           --         48,342
   Chairman of the Board (8)            1994     301,844      91,250       --       350,000        155,250         --           --
                                                                                                                         
Raymond A. Nielsen                      1996     305,000      76,250       --          --             --           --         95,062
  President and Chief                   1995     294,558      72,250       --       426,298(6)        --           --         73,896
  Operating Officer (8)                 1994     261,659      86,000       --       350,000        155,250         --           --
                                                                                                                         
Gerald M. Sauvigne                      1996     145,000      29,000       --          --             --           --          5,694
  Senior Vice President                 1995     137,596      27,000       --          --             --           --           --
  and Treasurer (8)                     1994     108,636      35,000       --       248,400         55,890         --           --
                                                                                                                         
Robert F. Pelosi                        1996     110,000      22,000       --          --             --           --           --
  Senior Vice President                 1995     107,019      21,000       --          --             --           --           --
  and Secretary                         1994      93,079      21,600       --       196,650         39,330         --           --
                                                                                                                         
John F. Traxler                         1996     105,000      16,800       --          --             --           --           --
  Vice President and                    1995     101,923      17,000       --          --             --           --           --
  Investment Officer                    1994      89,118      14,000       --       155,250         36,225         --           --
                                                                                                                       
</TABLE>

(1)  Consists of payments  under the Bank's  Incentive  Compensation  Plan.  See
     Executive Compensation- Compensation Committee Report.
(2)  For fiscal years 1996, 1995 and 1994,  there were no (a)  perquisites  over
     the lesser of $50,000 or 10% of the individual's total salary and bonus for
     the year; (b) payments of  above-market  preferential  earnings on deferred
     compensation;  (c) payments of earnings with respect to long-term incentive
     plans prior to settlement or maturation; (d) tax payment reimbursements; or
     (e) preferential discounts on stock.
(3)  Pursuant to the MRP, Messrs. R.L. Nielsen, R.A. Nielsen,  Sauvigne,  Pelosi
     and Traxler held an aggregate of 54,272;  54,272;  14,904; 11,799 and 9,315
     unvested  shares of Common Stock,  respectively,  as of June 30, 1996.  The
     market  value of all  shares at June 30,  1996  would  have been  $848,000;
     $848,000;  $232,875;  $184,359 and $145,547 for Messrs. R.L. Nielsen,  R.A.
     Nielsen, Sauvigne, Pelosi and Traxler, respectively.  Such awards will vest
     in five equal  installments  at a rate of 20% per year,  the first of which
     commenced on March 31, 1995, with the exception of 41,590 shares granted to
     each of Messrs. R.L. Nielsen and R.A. Nielsen which will vest in five equal
     installments at a rate of 20% per year,  beginning on November 9, 1995. See
     footnote (6) for  discussion  of 1995 grant.  When shares become vested and
     are  distributed,  the  recipient  will also  receive  an  amount  equal to
     accumulated  dividends  and  earnings  thereon  (if any).  All awards  vest
     immediately  upon  termination  of employment  due to death,  disability or
     following a change in control.

(4)  Includes  options  granted  under the  Incentive  Stock Option  Plan.  Each
     incentive stock option was granted in tandem with a limited  rights,  which
     is exercisable only in the event of a change in control of the Company.
(Footnotes continued next page)


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(5)  For the fiscal  year 1994,  the Bank had no  long-term  incentive  plans in
     existence and therefore  made no payouts or awards under any such plan. The
     Bank did not make any payment of long-term  incentive  plans in fiscal 1995
     and 1996.
(6)  Messrs.  R.L.  Nielsen and R.A. Nielsen were each granted plan share awards
     of 41,590  shares of Common Stock to vest in equal annual  installments  of
     20% per year commencing on November 9, 1995 pursuant to the MRP. The market
     price on the date of grant was $10.25 per share.
(7)  For fiscal  year 1996,  amount  includes  SERP  contributions  of  $67,556,
     $48,362 and $2,094 for Messrs.  R.L.  Nielsen,  R.A.  Nielsen and Sauvigne,
     respectively,  for the reduction of benefits related to the Bank's ESOP and
     $15,600, $46,700 and $3,600, respectively,  for reduction of benefits under
     the Bank's defined benefit pension plan.
(8)  Effective July 1, 1996, Mr. R.L.  Nielsen is the Chairman of the Board, Mr.
     R.A. Nielsen is the President and Chief Executive  Officer and Mr. Sauvigne
     is the Executive Vice President and Treasurer.

     Employment  Agreements.   The  Bank  and  the  Company  have  entered  into
employment agreements with Messrs. R.A. Nielsen,  Sauvigne, Pelosi, and Traxler.
The Company also has entered into an employment agreement with Mr. R.L. Nielsen.
These employment agreements are intended to ensure that the Bank and the Company
will be able to maintain a stable and competent  management  base. The continued
success  of the Bank and the  Company  depends  to a  significant  degree on the
skills and competence of these individuals.

     On September 11, 1996, the Company  adopted new  employment  agreements for
Messrs.  R.A.  Nielsen and Sauvigne  and amended the  employment  agreements  of
Messrs.  Pelosi and Traxler.  The new employment  agreements  also reflected the
promotions of Mr. R.A. Nielsen to Chief Executive Officer and of Mr. Sauvigne to
Executive  Vice  President  effective  July  1,  1996.  The  Company  employment
agreements provide for a five-year term for each of Messrs.  R.L. Nielsen,  R.A.
Nielsen and Sauvigne and provide for a two-year term for each of Messrs.  Pelosi
and Traxler,  except that the term is three years with respect to the obligation
to make payments based on termination of employment after a change in control as
discussed below. The Bank agreements provide that commencing on July 1, 1996 and
continuing on July 1 of each year thereafter, the Board of Directors of the Bank
may,  with the  consent  of the  respective  employees,  extend  the  employment
agreements  with the Bank for an additional  year, such that the remaining terms
of the  respective  agreements  shall be the amount of the original  term unless
written  notice  of  non-renewal  is  given  by the  Board  of  Directors  after
conducting a performance evaluation of the executive.  The employment agreements
with the Company provide for automatic daily  extensions such that the remaining
terms  shall be the  amount  of the  original  term  unless  written  notice  of
non-renewal is given by the Board of Directors or the employee.  The Company and
Bank employment  agreements  provide that Messrs.  R.L.  Nielsen,  R.A. Nielsen,
Sauvigne,  Pelosi and Traxler  will  receive  annual  base  salaries of $12,000,
$375,000, $175,000, $120,000 and $107,500,  respectively, which will be reviewed
annually  by the Board.  In addition  to the base  salary,  the Company and Bank
employment  agreements  provide for,  among other things,  disability  payments,
participation in retirement  plans,  stock benefit plans and other  compensation
plans applicable to executive  personnel from time to time. The Company and Bank
employment  agreements  provide for  termination  by the Bank or the Company for
"cause",  as defined in such  agreements,  at any time. In the event the Bank or
the Company  chooses to terminate the  executive's  employment for reasons other
than a change in control, retirement or for cause or in


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<PAGE>


the  event  of the  executive's  resignation  from  the  Bank  and  the  Company
subsequent to: (i) the failure to re-elect the executive to his current  offices
or the extent this  executive  serves as a director of the  Company,  failure to
renominate  or reelect  the  executive  as a director;  (ii) a material  adverse
change in the executive's functions,  duties or responsibilities,  or relocation
of his principal  place of  employment,  or a material  reduction in benefits or
perquisites;  (iii)  liquidation or  dissolution of the Bank or the Company;  or
(iv) a breach of the agreement by the Bank or the Company,  the executive or, in
the event of death, his  beneficiary,  would be entitled to receive an aggregate
payment amount equal to the amount of the remaining  payments (or benefits) that
the executive  would have earned if he continued his employment with the Bank or
Company  during  the  remaining  unexpired  term of the  agreement  based on the
executive's  defined  base  salary  on the date the  executive  was  terminated.
Additionally,  the Company  employment  agreement  of Messrs.  R.A.  Nielsen and
Sauvigne  provide  that in the event of their  termination  of  employment,  the
Company or any of its subsidiaries amend any employee benefit plan maintained by
the Company or any of its subsidiaries such that it reduces the benefits payable
to the  executives  that the Company will provide the executive with an economic
benefit equal to the amount of any such reduction on an annual basis.

     Under the terms of the Company  employment  agreements,  if  termination of
employment,  whether voluntary or involuntary,  follows a "change in control" of
the Bank or the Company, as defined in the employment agreements,  the executive
or, in the event of death,  his  beneficiary,  would be entitled to an aggregate
payment equal to the greater of (1) the payments due under the remaining term of
the agreement,  (2) five times the average annual  compensation  with respect to
Messrs.  R.L. Nielsen,  R.A. Nielsen and Sauvigne or (3) three times the average
compensation  with respect to Messrs.  Pelosi and Traxler.  Such average  annual
compensation will be determined,  in the case of the Bank employment agreements,
over the  five  most  recent  taxable  years,  and,  in the case of the  Company
employment  agreements,  for the three or two preceding taxable years, whichever
is applicable to the term of the respective employment  agreement.  Such average
annual compensation shall include any commissions,  bonuses,  pension and profit
sharing plan benefits,  severance  payments,  retirement  benefits,  director or
committee  fees and fringe  benefits  paid or to be paid to the executive in any
such years.  The Bank and the Company would also continue the executive's  life,
health,  and disability  coverage and any dependent that is currently covered by
such plans,  for the remaining  unexpired  term of the  agreements to the extent
allowed by the plans or policies  maintained by the Company or Bank from time to
time.  Payments to the executive under the Bank's employment  agreements will be
guaranteed by the Company in the event that payments or benefits are not paid by
the Bank.  The  agreements  also  provide  that the Bank and the  Company  shall
indemnify  the  executive  to the fullest  extent  allowable  under  federal and
Delaware law, respectively.

     In the event of a change in control of the Bank or the  Company,  the total
amount  of  payments  due  under  the  Company  employment  agreements,  in  the
aggregate, based solely on cash compensation paid to the five executives covered
by such  agreements  over the past three or two taxable  years and excluding any
benefits under any employee benefit plan which may be payable,  are estimated to
be approximately: $2.4 million for Mr. R.L. Nielsen, $2.1 million for Mr. R.A.


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Nielsen, $849,000 for Mr. Sauvigne, $466,000 for Mr. Pelosi and $402,000 for Mr.
Traxler. In addition,  upon a change in control,  certain awards made to each of
the  executives  under  the  Incentive  Option  Plan  and  the  MRP  would  vest
immediately. If any amounts payable in connection with any change in control are
determined  to be "excess  parachute  payments"  under  Section 280G of the code
resulting in the imposition of the 20% excise tax on such payments under Section
4999 of the code,  each  officer  will  receive  from the Company an  additional
amount such that the effect of the  imposition of that excise tax is effectively
eliminated.

     Stock Option Plan. The following table provides  certain  information  with
respect to the number of shares of Common Stock represented by outstanding stock
options held by the Named Executive  Officers as of June 30, 1996. Also reported
are the values for  "in-the-money"  options which  represent the positive spread
between the exercise  price of any such existing  stock options and the year-end
price of the Common  Stock.  No options were  exercised  by the Named  Executive
Officers in fiscal year 1996.


                          FISCAL YEAR END OPTION VALUES

                           Number of Securities          Value of Unexercised
                         Underlying Unexercised          In-the- Money Options
                         Options at June 30, 1996           at June 30, 1996
      Name               Exercisable/Unexercisable    Exercisable/Unexercisable
                                  (#)                         ($)(1)
- -------------------     --------------------------    -------------------------
Raymond L. Nielsen        62,100  /  93,150           349,313  /  523,969
Raymond A. Nielsen        62,100  /  93,150           349,313  /  523,969
Gerald M. Sauvigne        22,356  /  33,534           125,726  /  188,629
Robert F. Pelosi          15,732  /  23,598            88,493  /  132,739
John F. Traxler           14,490  /  21,735            81,506  /  122,254

(1)  Market Value of underlying  securities at fiscal  year-end  ($15.625) minus
     the exercise or base price, $10.00 per share.

     Pension  Plan.  The  Bank  maintains  the  Reliance  Federal  Savings  Bank
Retirement  Plan (the "Pension  Plan"),  for the benefit of the employees of the
Bank.  The  Pension is a  noncontributory  defined  benefit  pension  plan.  All
employees  over  the age of 21 who  have  worked  1,000  hours at the Bank for a
twelve month period are eligible to  participate  in the Pension Plan.  The Bank
annually  contributes  an amount to the Pension  Plan  necessary  to satisfy the
actuarially determined minimum funding requirements in accordance with ERISA.

     Upon the  attainment of normal  retirement  age (age 65), a participant  is
entitled  to  a  retirement   benefit  in  an  amount  equal  to  50.0%  of  the
participant's  average annual base wage  (determined by using the  participant's
earnings for the highest five  complete  consecutive  plan years out of the last
ten plan years of a participant's employment) multiplied by a ratio, the


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numerator of which is the number of months of the participant's service, and the
denominator of which is 240.  Under the Pension Plan,  benefits are also payable
for  termination  due to early  retirement  or death of a  married  participant.
Benefits become vested after a participant  completes five years of service.  In
the case of death, or early  retirement  occurring on or after attainment of age
60, but after the  completion of five years of service,  benefits are reduced if
they commence prior to age 65.

     Supplemental  Executives'  Retirement Plan. The Bank maintains the Reliance
Federal  Savings Bank  Supplemental  Executives'  Retirement  Plan (the "SERP"),
which is  intended to provide an  additional  retirement  benefit to  designated
executives who are  participants  in the Bank's tax qualified  plans,  and whose
benefits under such plans are reduced due to the limitations  imposed by Section
415 of the Code on the maximum  annual  benefits and  contributions  that may be
made with regard to such plans and the limitations imposed by Section 401(a)(17)
of the Code on the maximum amount of compensation that may be taken into account
in determining  benefits and contributions  with respect to such plans. The SERP
is intended to provide a benefit equal to the benefit the participant would have
received under the applicable tax qualified plans if the Code's  limitations did
not apply and the  amounts  such  individuals  will  actually  receive  with the
application of the Code's limitations.

     The following table sets forth the estimated  annual benefits payable under
the Pension Plan and SERP described  above upon retirement at age 65 in calendar
year 1995,  expressed in the form of a 10-year  certain and continuous  annuity,
for the average annual earnings and years of service classifications specified.

                      Creditable Years of Service at Age 65
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
         Average
         Annual
     Earnings(1)(2)              15                  20                 25                30                    35
     --------------        --------------     --------------     --------------     --------------       --------------
      <S>                     <C>                <C>                <C>               <C>                   <C>     
      $ 25,000                $ 9,375            $ 12,500           $ 12,500          $ 12,500              $ 12,500
        50,000                 18,750              25,000             25,000            25,000                25,000
       100,000                 37,500              50,000             50,000            50,000                50,000
       150,000                 56,250              75,000             75,000            75,000                75,000
       200,000                 75,000             100,000            100,000           100,000               100,000
       250,000                 93,750             125,000            125,000           125,000               125,000
       300,000                112,500             150,000            150,000           150,000               150,000
       350,000                131,250             175,000            175,000           175,000               175,000
       400,000                150,000             200,000            200,000           200,000               200,000
</TABLE>


(1)  The  covered  salary  under the Pension  Plan is the  amounts  shown in the
     column  entitled  "Salary" in the Summary  Compensation  Table and does not
     include amounts shown in the column entitled "Bonus" in such table.


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(2)  The  benefits  listed in the  retirement  benefit  table are not subject to
     Social Security or other offset amounts.

     The  following  table  sets  forth the years of  certified  service  (i.e.,
benefit  service)  as of the fiscal  year ended June 30,  1996,  for each of the
individuals named in the Summary Compensation Table.

                                                        Credited Service
                                                        ----------------
                                                       Years         Months
                                                       -----         ------
         Raymond L. Nielsen..................           45             0
         Raymond A. Nielsen..................           26             0
         Gerald M. Sauvigne..................           18            10
         Robert F. Pelosi....................           33             9
         John F. Traxler.....................           23             4

Transactions With Certain Related Persons

     Federal law and  regulation  require that all loans or extensions of credit
to  executive  officers and  directors  must be made on  substantially  the same
terms, including interest rates and collateral,  as those prevailing at the time
for  comparable  transactions  with the general public and must not involve more
than the normal risk of repayment or present  other  unfavorable  features;  and
such law and regulation places  limitations on the amounts of certain extensions
of credit to  executive  officers and  directors.  Although the Company does not
currently  lend funds to its executive  officers and directors,  the Bank,  from
time to time,  lends funds to executive  officers.  The Bank's policy  regarding
loans  to  directors  and  executive   officers  is  in  accordance   with  such
requirements.  The Bank's policy provides that all loans made by the Bank to its
directors  and  executive  officers  shall  be made in the  ordinary  course  of
business,  on  substantially  the  same  terms,  including  interest  rates  and
collateral,  as those  prevailing at the time for comparable  transactions  with
other persons and shall not involve more than the normal risk of  collectibility
or present other unfavorable features.

     Nielsen  and  Shoemaker  Architects  P.C.,  of which the son of  Raymond L.
Nielsen is a principal,  has been engaged by the Bank on a periodic basis in the
past to provide  professional  services  and is  currently  so  engaged  for the
modernization of multiple branch facilities and installation of automated teller
machines.  The engagement was approved by the Board of Directors of the Bank and
architectural   fees  paid  by  the  Bank  during  fiscal  year  1996  totalling
approximately $169,000 were fixed in accordance with professional standards.


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             PROPOSAL 2. APPROVAL OF THE RELIANCE BANCORP, INC. 1996
                                STOCK OPTION PLAN

                  1996 Stock Option Plan - Summary Description

     The  Board of  Directors  of the  Company  is  presenting  for  stockholder
approval the Reliance Bancorp, Inc. 1996 Incentive Stock Option Plan (the "Stock
Option  Plan"),  in the form  attached  hereto as Exhibit A. The  purpose of the
Stock  Option  Plan  is  to  advance  the  interests  of  the  Company  and  its
stockholders by providing  those key employees and nonemployee  directors of the
Company and its affiliates,  including the Bank, upon whose judgment, initiative
and  efforts  the  successful  conduct of the  business  of the  Company and its
affiliates  largely  depends,  with  additional  incentive  in  the  form  of  a
proprietary  interest in the Company to perform in a superior  manner. A further
purpose  of the  Stock  Option  Plan is also to  attract  and  retain  people of
experience  and ability to the service of the  Company and its  affiliates.  The
following is a summary of the  material  terms of the Stock Option Plan which is
qualified  in its  entirety by the complete  provisions  of the  attached  Stock
Option Plan document attached as Exhibit A.

General

     The Stock Option Plan  authorizes the granting of options to purchase up to
450,000  shares  of  Common  Stock  (which  is  equal  to  5% of  the  Company's
outstanding  shares as of July 17, 1996), and the granting of limited rights and
dividend  adjustment  rights in conjunction  with the granting of stock options.
Under the Stock Option Plan, options to purchase 315,000 shares are reserved for
grants to officers  and  employees  and options to purchase  135,000  shares are
reserved for grants to Outside  Directors.  All officers and other  employees of
the  Company  and its  affiliates,  and  directors  who are not also  serving as
employees of the Company or any of its  affiliates  ("Outside  Directors"),  are
eligible to receive  awards under the Stock  Option  Plan, a potential  total of
approximately  500  persons.  The Stock  Option Plan will be  administered  by a
committee of non-employee  directors (the "Committee").  Authorized but unissued
shares or shares  previously  issued  and  reacquired  by the  Company or shares
repurchased  in the open  market may be used to satisfy an exercise of an option
under the Stock  Option Plan.  If  authorized  but  unissued  shares are used to
satisfy option exercises,  the number of shares outstanding would increase which
would have a dilutive effect on the holdings of existing stockholders.

Awards to Employees

     Types of Awards. The Stock Option Plan authorizes the grant to employees of
(i)  options to  purchase  the  Company's  Common  Stock  intended to qualify as
incentive  Stock options under Section 422 of the Code (options which afford tax
benefits to the recipients upon compliance with certain  conditions and which do
not result in tax  deductions to the Company)  referred to as  "Incentive  Stock
Options";  (ii)  options  that do not so  qualify  (options  which do not afford
income tax benefits to  recipients,  but which may provide tax deductions to the
Company)  referred to as  "Non-statutory  Stock  Options";  (iii) Limited Rights
(discussed below) which are exercisable only


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upon a change in control (as defined in the Stock  Option  Plan) of the Company;
and (iv) dividend adjustment rights which, upon the payment by the Company of an
extraordinary  dividend  (as  defined  in the Stock  Option  Plan),  at the sole
discretion of the Committee, would provide a grant to the holder of the dividend
adjustment  tight  a cash  payment  equal  to the  amount  of the  extraordinary
dividend multiplied by the number of shares subject to the Option underlying the
dividend adjustment right ("Dividend Adjustment Right").

     The Board of  Directors,  on July 17, 1996,  granted  87,600  options (with
Limited  Rights and Dividend  Adjustment  Rights) under the Stock Option Plan to
employees,  of which  60,600 are  intended to be Incentive  Stock  Options.  The
remaining  227,400  options have been  reserved for future  grants to employees.
Pursuant to the Stock Option Plan,  unless  determined by the  Committee,  stock
options granted to employees  shall become  exercisable six months from the date
of grant,  provided,  however,  that all options  shall  become fully vested and
exercisable  upon death,  disability,  retirement  or a change of control of the
Company or Bank, as defined in the Stock Option Plan.  The Committee may, in its
sole  discretion,  accelerate  the time at which any stock option  granted to an
employee may be exercised in whole or in part.  The exercise  price of all stock
options must be 100% of the fair market value of the underlying  Common Stock at
the time of grant,  except as provided below.  The exercise price may be paid in
cash or in Common Stock.

     Incentive  Stock  Options  may only be  granted to  employees.  In order to
qualify as Incentive Stock Options under Section 422 of the Code, in addition to
certain other restrictions, the exercise price must not be less than 100% of the
fair market value on the date of grant.  Incentive  Stock Options granted to any
person who is the beneficial  owner of more than 10% of the  outstanding  voting
stock may be  exercised  only for a period of five  years from the date of grant
and the  exercise  price must be at least equal to 110% of the fair market value
of the underlying common stock on the date of grant.

     Termination of Employment.  Options  granted under the Stock Option Plan to
employees may be exercised at such times as the Committee determines,  but in no
event shall an option be exercisable more than ten years from the date of grant.
Unless  otherwise  determined  by the  Committee,  upon  the  termination  of an
employee's service for any reason, other than death,  disability,  retirement or
change in control,  the employee's  options will be exercisable only as to those
shares  that  were  immediately  exercisable  by the  employee  at the  date  of
termination and only for a period of three months in the case of Incentive Stock
Options and one year in the case of Non-Statutory Stock Options. In the event of
disability, the period for exercise is one year from termination of employment.

     Limited Rights. Upon exercise of Limited Rights in the event of a change in
control of the Company or the Bank,  the optionee  will be entitled to receive a
lump sum cash payment equal to the difference  between the exercise price of the
related  option and the fair market value of the shares of Common Stock  subject
to the option on the date of  exercise  of the right in lieu of  purchasing  the
stock underlying the option.


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     Dividend Adjustment Rights.  Simultaneously with the grant of any option to
any employee,  the Committee may grant a Dividend  Adjustment Right with respect
to all or some of the shares  covered by such option.  The  Dividend  Adjustment
Right  provides,  at the sole  discretion of the Committee,  in the event of the
declaration of an extraordinary  dividend, a separate cash benefit equal to 100%
of the amount of any extraordinary dividend declared by the Company on shares of
Common Stock subject to an option.  Under the terms of the Stock Option Plan, an
extraordinary  dividend is any dividend paid on shares of Common Stock where the
rate of the dividend exceeds the Bank's current earnings or the weighted average
cost of funds on  interest  bearing  liabilities  for the  period  in which  the
dividend is declared.  The Dividend  Adjustment Right is transferable  only when
the underlying option is transferable and under the same conditions.

     Change in  Control.  In the event of a change in control of the  Company or
Bank,  options  then  available  for  grant  under the  Stock  Option  Plan will
automatically  be granted,  on a pro rata basis,  among  current  employees  and
Outside  Directors  who have  previously  been granted  options  under the Stock
Option plan,  as of the date of the change in control.  All such options will be
100% vested and exercisable  upon the date of grant and will remain  exercisable
for 10 years following the change in control.

Awards to Outside Directors

     On July 17, 1996, the Board of Directors  granted a total of 40,500 options
to current  Outside  Directors.  Under the terms of the Plan,  each such current
Outside  Director will receive a grant of 6,750 options on July 1, 1997 and July
1, 1998 to the  extent  such  Outside  Director  is  serving on the Board of the
Company at such  dates,  for a total of 81,000  options.  The  remaining  13,500
options have been reserved for grants to future Outside  Directors.  The initial
awards granted to each current Outside Directors are Non-statutory Stock Options
to purchase  Common Stock at an exercise  price of 100% of the Fair Market Value
of the Common Stock of the Company on the date of grant.

     The options awarded to current  Outside  Directors  become  exercisable six
months subsequent to the date of grant, however, all options become fully vested
and exercisable upon death,  disability,  retirement or change in control of the
Company or Bank. Exercise price must be fair market value for Directors.

Amendment

     The Board of  Directors  may at any time amend the Stock Option Plan in any
respect,  provided that, the provisions  governing grants of Options and Limited
Rights,  unless  permitted by the rules  promulgated  under Section 16(b) of the
Exchange Act.


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Nontransferabifity

     An award of options  under the Stock Option Plan shall not be  transferable
by the optionee other than by will or the laws of descent and  distribution  and
may only be exercised  during his lifetime by the optionee,  or by a guardian or
legal  representative.  With  the  consent  of the  Committee  an  employee  may
designate  a person  or his or her  estate,  beneficiary  of any  stock  option,
Limited Right and Dividend  Adjustment  Right award to which the optionee  would
then be entitled, in the event of the death of the employee.

Tax Treatment

     An optionee will generally not be deemed to have recognized  taxable income
upon grant or exercise  of any  Incentive  Stock  Option,  provided  that shares
transferred in connection  with the exercise are not disposed of by the optionee
for at least one year after the date the shares are  transferred  in  connection
with the  exercise  of the option  and two years  after the date of grant of the
option. If the holding periods are satisfied,  upon disposal of the shares,  the
aggregate  difference  between the per share option  exercise price and the fair
market value of the common Stock is  recognized  as income  taxable at long term
capital gains rates. No compensation  deduction may be taken by the Company as a
result of the grant or exercise  of  Incentive  Stock  Options,  assuming  these
holding  periods are met. In the case of the exercise of a  Non-Statutory  Stock
Option,  an  optionee  will be  deemed to have  received  ordinary  income  upon
exercise of the stock option in an amount equal to the aggregate amount by which
the per share  exercise price is exceeded by the fair market value of the Common
Stock.  In the event that a  Non-Statutory  Stock Option is  exercised  during a
period that would  subject the optionee to liability  under Section 16(b) of the
Exchange Act (i.e.,  within six months of the date of grant),  the optionee will
not be deemed to have  recognized  income  until such  period of  liability  has
expired,  unless the optionee  makes a Section 83(b) election under the Code. In
the event shares received  through the exercise of an Incentive Stock Option are
disposed of prior to the  satisfaction of the holding periods (a  "disqualifying
disposition"),  the  exercise of the option will be treated as the exercise of a
Non-  Statutory  Stock  Option,  except that the  optionee  will  recognize  the
ordinary income for the year in which the disqualifying  disposition occurs. The
amount of any Ordinary  income  deemed to have been received by an optionee upon
the  exercise  of a  Non-Statutory  Stock  Option  or  due  to  a  disqualifying
disposition will be a deductible expense of the Company for tax purposes, In the
case of Limited Rights,  upon exercise,  the option holder would have to include
the amount paid to him upon exercise in his gross income for federal  income tax
purposes  in the year in which  the  payment  is made and the  Company  would be
entitled to a deduction for federal  income tax purposes of the amount paid. The
employee will recognize taxable income for the amount of cash received under the
Dividend  Adjustment  Right for the year such amounts are paid.  The Company may
take on off-setting  deduction for such amount.  Dividend Adjustment Rights have
the same tax treatment as other Non-Statutory Stock Options.


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Awards

     The following table provides certain information with respect to certain of
the options granted to executive officers and non-employee directors pursuant to
the Stock Option Plan on July 17, 1996. Additionally, see "New Plan Benefits."

               Recipients                                          Option Awards
               ----------                                          -------------
           Raymond L. Nielsen                                          9,000
           Raymond A. Nielsen                                          9,000
           Gerald M. Sauvigne                                          9,000
           Robert F. Pelosi                                            6,150
           John F. Traxler                                             6,150

           All current executive officers as a group
           (15 persons)                                               87,600

           All current directors who are not
           executive officers as a group
           (6 persons)                                                40,500

     In  addition,  there are options  for  227,400 and 13,500  shares of Common
Stock  reserved  for future  grants to  employees  and Outside  Directors of the
Company and the Bank, respectively.

     The options  granted to  employees  reflected  in the table  above  include
Limited Rights and Dividend  Adjustment  Rights and are  exercisable  six months
from the date of grant, provided,  however, that all options will be immediately
exercisable  in the  event  the  optionee  terminates  employment  due to death,
disability,  retirement  or change in control.  The  exercise  price of all such
options is 100% of the fair market value of the  underlying  Common Stock at the
time of grant, which as of July 17, 1996 was $15.75.

     Options granted to Outside  Directors  reflected in the table above include
Limited Rights and Dividend  Adjustment  Rights and become  exercisable from the
date of grant. The exercise price of all such options is 100% of the fair market
value of the underlying Common Stock at the time of grant,  which as of July 17,
1996 was $15.75.

     As of September 25, 1996,  the closing price per share of common Stock,  as
reported on the Nasdaq Stock Market was $18.3125.

Stockholder Approval

     The Company is submitting  the Stock Option Plan for  Stockholder  approval
although  it is  not  required.  If the  Stock  Option  Plan  does  not  receive
stockholder  approval,  the Board of  Directors  of the Company may  nonetheless
maintained the effectiveness of the Stock Option Plan


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and award  grants  thereunder.  Implementation  of the Stock  Option Plan in the
absence of approval  by a majority of the votes cast at this  meeting may result
in the  inability  of the Company to continue the listing of its Common Stock on
the Nasdaq Stock Market. In the event that its Common Stock is not quoted on the
Nasdaq Stock  Market,  the Company  believes its Common Stock would  qualify for
quotation on the Nasdaq Small-Cap Market.

     Unless marked to the contrary, the shares represented by the enclosed proxy
card,  if  executed  and  returned,  will be voted  "FOR" the  approval  of the,
Reliance Bancorp 1996 Incentive Stock Option Plan.

     THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS  RECOMMENDS  THAT YOU VOTE "FOR" THE APPROVAL OF THE
RELIANCE BANCORP 1996 INCENTIVE STOCK OPTION PLAN.

New Plan Benefits

     The  following  table  provides  certain  information  with  respect to all
options under the Stock Option Plan, specifying the amounts granted to the Named
Executive Officers individually,  all current executive officers as a group, all
current directors who are not executive  officers as a group, and all employees,
including all current officers who are not executive officers, as a group.

                                NEW PLAN BENEFITS
<TABLE>
<CAPTION>
                                                                  Stock Option
                                                                      Plan
                                                              -------------------- 
                                                          Dollar              Number
 Name and Position(l)                                     Value(2)            of Units
 --------------------                                     --------           --------
<S>                                                     <C>                     <C>  
Raymond L. Nielsen, Chairman of the Board               $    --                 9,000
Raymond A. Nielsen, CEO and President                        --                 9,000
Gerald M. Sauvigne, Executive VP and Treasurer               --                 9,000
Robert P. Pelosi, Senior VP and Secretary                    --                 6,150
John F. Traxler, VP and Investment Officer                   --                 6,150

All current executive officers
officers as a group (15 persons)                             --                87,600

All current directors (who are not executive
officers) as a group (6 persons)                             --                40,500

All employees (who are not executive officers)
as a group (approximately 500 persons)                       --                    --
</TABLE>


(1)  Unless otherwise stated,  the listed positions are with the Company and the
     Bank. Mr. R.L. Nielsen is an employee of the Company only.
(2)  Assuming a market  value of the  underlying  securities  of  $18.3125  (the
     closing price as of September 25, 1996) minus the exercise or base price of
     $15.75 (the fair market value on the date of grant), the participants would
     have a benefit of the following dollar values.  Messrs.  R.L. Nielsen,  R.A
     Nielsen  and  Sauvigne  each would have a benefit  of $23,063  and  Messrs.
     Pelosi  and  Traxler  each would have a benefit  of  $15,759.  All  current
     executive officers as a group and directors as a group would have a benefit
     of $224,475 and 103,781, respectively.


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                     PROPOSAL 3. RATIFICATION OF APPOINTMENT
                             OF INDEPENDENT AUDITORS

     The Company's  independent auditors for the fiscal year ended June 30, 1996
were KPMG Peat Marwick LLP. The  Company's  Board of Directors  has  reappointed
KPMG Peat Marwick LLP to continue as  independent  auditors for the Bank and the
Company  for the year  ending  June 30,  1997  subject to  ratification  of such
appointment by the stockholders.

     Representatives  of KPMG Peat  Marwick  LLP will be  present  at the Annual
Meeting. They will be given an opportunity to make a statement if they desire to
do  so  and  will  be  available  to  respond  to  appropriate   questions  from
stockholders present at the Annual Meeting.

     Unless marked to the contrary, the shares represented by the enclosed proxy
card will be voted FOR  ratification of the appointment of KPMG Peat Marwick LLP
as the independent auditors of the Company.

     THE  BOARD  OF  DIRECTORS   RECOMMENDS  A  VOTE  FOR  RATIFICATION  OF  THE
APPOINTMENT OF KPMG PEAT MARWICK LLP AS THE INDEPENDENT AUDITORS OF THE COMPANY.


                             ADDITIONAL INFORMATION


Stockholder Proposals

     To be considered for inclusion in the Company's proxy statement and form of
proxy  relating  to the Annual  Meeting of  Stockholders  to be held in 1997,  a
stockholder  proposal  must be received by the  Secretary  of the Company at the
address set forth on the attached notice of annual meeting of stockholders,  not
later than June 13, 1997.  Any such  proposal  will be subject to 17 C.F.R.  ss.
240.14a-8 of the Rules and Regulations under the Exchange Act.

Notice of Business to be Conducted at an Annual Meeting

     The  Bylaws of the  Company  provide  an  advance  notice  procedure  for a
stockholder to properly bring business before an annual meeting. The stockholder
must give written  advance  notice to the Secretary of the Company not less than
ninety (90) days before the date  originally  fixed for such meeting;  provided,
however, that in the event that less than one hundred (100) days notice or prior
public  disclosure of the date of the meeting is given or made to  stockholders,
notice by the stockholder to be timely must be received not later than the close
of business on the tenth day following the date on which the Company's notice to
stockholders of the annual meeting date was mailed or such public disclosure was
made. The advance notice by stockholders must include the stockholder's name and
address, as they appear on the Company's record of


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stockholders,  a brief  description  of the  proposed  business,  the reason for
conducting such business at the annual  meeting,  the class and number of shares
of the Company's  capital stock that are beneficially  owned by such stockholder
and any material interest of such stockholder in the proposed  business.  In the
case of nominations to the Board, certain information regarding the nominee must
be provided. Nothing in this paragraph shall be deemed to require the Company to
include in its proxy  statement  and proxy  relating  to an annual  meeting  any
stockholder  proposal which does not meet all of the  requirements for inclusion
established by the SEC in effect at the time such proposal is received.

Other Matters Which May Properly Come Before the Meeting

     The Board of Directors  knows of no business  which will be  presented  for
consideration at the Annual Meeting other than as stated in the Notice of Annual
Meeting of Stockholders.  If, however, other matters are properly brought before
the Annual Meeting, it is the intention of the persons named in the accompanying
proxy to vote the shares represented  thereby on such matters in accordance with
their best judgment.

     Whether or not you intend to be  present  at the  Annual  Meeting,  you are
urged to return  your  proxy  card  promptly.  If you are  present at the Annual
Meeting  and wish to vote your  shares in  person,  your proxy may be revoked by
voting at the Annual Meeting.

     A copy of the Annual  Report to  Stockholders  on Form 10-K,  including the
consolidated  financial  statements  for the fiscal year ended June 30, 1996, as
filed with the SEC, will be furnished  without charge to  stockholders of record
upon written request to Reliance Bancorp, Inc., 585 Stewart Avenue, Garden City,
New York 11530.


                                              By Order of the Board of Directors



                                              Robert F. Pelosi
                                              Secretary



Garden City, New York
October 11, 1996

YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO ATTEND THE ANNUAL MEETING IN PERSON. WHETHER OR NOT
YOU PLAN TO ATTEND THE ANNUAL  MEETING,  YOU ARE  REQUESTED TO SIGN AND PROMPTLY
RETURN THE ACCOMPANYING PROXY CARD IN THE ENCLOSED POSTAGE-PAID ENVELOPE.


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                                                                       Exhibit A
                             RELIANCE BANCORP, INC.
                        1996 INCENTIVE STOCK OPTION PLAN


1. DEFINITIONS.

     (a) "Affiliate" means (i) a member of a controlled group of corporations of
which  the  Holding  Company  is a  member  or (ii) an  unincorporated  trade or
business which is under common control with the Holding Company as determined in
accordance with Section 414(c) of the Internal Revenue Code of 1986, as amended,
(the "Code") and the  regulations  issued  thereunder.  For purposes  hereof,  a
"controlled group of corporations" shall mean a controlled group of corporations
as defined in Section 1563(a) of the Code  determined  without regard to Section
1563(a)(4) and (e)(3)(C).

     (b) "Alternate  Option Payment  Mechanism" refers to one of several methods
available  to a  Participant  to fund the  exercise of a stock option set out in
Section 12. These  mechanisms  include:  broker assisted  cashless  exercise and
stock for stock exchange.

     (c) "Award" means any grant of benefits pursuant to Section 3 hereof.

     (d) "Bank" means Reliance Federal Savings Bank.

     (e) "Board of  Directors"  or "Board"  means the board of  directors of the
Holding Company.

     (f)  "Change in  Control"  means a change in control of the Bank or Holding
Company of a nature  that:  (i) would be  required to be reported in response to
Item 1(a) of the current  report on Form 8-K,  as in effect on the date  hereof,
pursuant  to  Section 13 or 15(d) of the  Securities  Exchange  Act of 1934,  as
amended (the "Exchange  Act"); or (ii) results in a Change in Control within the
meaning of the Home Owners' Loan Act of 1933, as amended  ("HOLA") and the Rules
and Regulations  promulgated by the Office of Thrift Supervision ("OTS") (or its
predecessor agency), as in effect on the date hereof (provided that, in applying
the  definition  of  change  in  control  as set  forth  under  such  rules  and
regulations,  the Board shall  substitute  its judgment for that of the OTS); or
(iii)  without  limitation  such a Change  in  Control  shall be  deemed to have
occurred at such time as (A) any "person" (as the term is used in Sections 13(d)
and 14(d) of the Exchange Act) is or becomes the "beneficial  owner" (as defined
in Rule 13d-3 under the Exchange Act), directly or indirectly,  of securities of
the Bank or the Holding  Company  representing  20% or more of the Bank's or the
Holding Company's  outstanding  securities except for any securities of the Bank
purchased  by the  Holding  Company  and  any  securities  purchased  by any tax
qualified  employee  benefit  plan of the  Holding  Company or the Bank;  or (B)
individuals who constitute the Board on the date hereof (the "Incumbent  Board")
cease for any reason to  constitute at least a majority  thereof,  provided that
any person becoming a director  subsequent to the date hereof whose election was
approved  by a vote of at least  seventy-five  percent  (75%)  of the  directors
comprising the Incumbent  Board, or whose nomination for election by the Holding
Company's  stockholders  was approved by the same Nominating  Committee  serving
under an Incumbent


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Board, shall be, for purposes of this clause (B), considered as though he were a
member  of  the  Incumbent  Board;  or  (C) a plan  of  reorganization,  merger,
consolidation,  sale of all or  substantially  all the assets of the Bank or the
Holding  Company  or  similar  transaction  occurs in which the Bank or  Holding
Company is not the resulting  entity;  or (D) a solicitation  of shareholders of
the Holding Company, by someone other than the current management of the Holding
Company,  seeking  stockholder  approval of a plan of reorganization,  merger or
consolidation of the Holding Company or Bank or similar  transaction with one or
more  corporations,  as a result of which the outstanding shares of the class of
securities  then subject to the plan are exchanged for or converted into cash or
property or securities not issued by the Bank or the Holding  Company;  or (E) a
tender offer is made for 20% or more of the voting securities of the Bank or the
Holding Company.

     (g) "Committee" means a committee consisting of at least two members of the
Board  of  Directors  who are  defined  as  Outside  Directors,  all of whom are
"Non-Employee  Directors"  as such term is defined  under  Rule 16b-3  under the
Exchange Act as promulgated by the Securities and Exchange Commission.

     (h)  "Common  Stock"  means the Common  Stock of the Holding  Company,  par
value, $.01 per share or any stock exchanged for shares of Common Stock pursuant
to Section 17 hereof.

     (i) "Date of Grant" means the effective date of an Award.

     (j)  "Directors'  Awards"  means awards of  Non-statutory  Stock Options to
Outside Directors pursuant to the terms of Section 10.

     (k)  "Disability"  means the  permanent  and total  inability  by reason of
mental or physical  infirmity,  or both,  of a  Participant  to perform the work
customarily assigned. Additionally, a medical doctor selected or approved by the
Board of Directors  must advise the Committee  that it is either not possible to
determine when such Disability  will terminate or that it appears  probable that
such  Disability  will be permanent  during the remainder of said  Participant's
lifetime.

     (l)  "Dividend  Adjustment  Right"  means the  adjustment  of the number of
shares  subject to an option  and/or the Exercise  Price of an option and/or the
right to receive an amount of cash based upon the terms set forth in Section 9.

     (m) "Effective Date" means July 17, 1996, the effective date of the Plan.

     (n)  "Employee"  means any person who is currently  employed by the Holding
Company or an  Affiliate,  including  officers,  but such term shall not include
Outside Directors.

     (o)  "Exercise  Price" means the  purchase  price per share of Common Stock
deliverable  upon the  exercise  of each  Option in order  for the  option to be
exchanged for shares of Common Stock.


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     (p)  "Extraordinary  Dividend"  means a distribution to shareholders by the
Holding Company of earnings or capital in excess of either (i) current  earnings
or (ii) the  weighted  average cost of funds of the Bank for the period in which
the dividend is paid, as determined for this purpose by the Committee.

     (q) "Fair Market  Value"  means,  when used in  connection  with the Common
Stock on a  certain  date,  the  average  of the high and low bid  prices of the
Common Stock as reported by the Nasdaq National Market  ("Nasdaq") (as published
by the Wall Street  Journal,  if  published) on such date or if the Common Stock
was not traded on such date, on the next preceding day on which the Common Stock
was traded thereon or the last previous date on which a sale is reported. If the
Common Stock is not reported on the Nasdaq,  the Fair Market Value of the Common
Stock is the value so determined by the Committee in good faith.

     (r) "Holding Company" means Reliance Bancorp, Inc.

     (s) "Incentive  Stock Option" means an Option granted by the Committee to a
Participant,  which Option is designated by the Committee as an Incentive  Stock
Option pursuant to Section 7.

     (t) "Limited Right" means the right to receive an amount of cash based upon
the terms set forth in Section 8.

     (u)  "Non-statutory  Stock Option" means an Option granted by the Committee
to a Participant pursuant to Section 6, which is not designated by the Committee
as an Incentive  Stock Option or which is  redesignated  by the Committee  under
Section 7 as a  Non-Statutory  Stock  Option.  All  options  granted  to Outside
Directors pursuant to Section 10 shall be Non-statutory Stock Options.

     (v)  "Option"  means the right to buy a fixed amount of Common Stock at the
Exercise  Price within a limited  period of time  designated  as the term of the
option as granted under Sections 6 and 7 of the Plan.

     (w)  "Outside  Director"  means a member of the Board of  Directors  of the
Holding Company or its Affiliates, who is not also an Employee.

     (x)  "Participant"  means any Employee who holds an outstanding Award under
the terms of the Plan.

     (y)  "Retirement"  with  respect  to a  Participant  means  termination  of
employment which constitutes  retirement under any tax qualified plan maintained
by the Holding Company or the Bank. However,  "Retirement" will not be deemed to
have occurred for purposes of this Plan if a  Participant  continues to serve on
the Board of Directors  of the Holding  Company or its  Affiliates  even if such
Participant is receiving benefits under any tax-qualified retirement plan of the
Holding  Company  or  its  Affiliates.  With  respect  to an  Outside  Director,
"Retirement" means the termination of service from the Board of Directors of the
Holding Company or its Affiliates


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following  written  notice  to the Board as a whole of such  Outside  Director's
intention  to retire or  retirement  as  determined  by the  Holding  Company or
applicable  Affiliate's  bylaws,  except that an Outside  Director  shall not be
deemed to have  "Retired"  for purposes of the Plan in the event he continues to
serve as a consultant or advisory  director to the Holding Company or any of its
Affiliates.

     (z) "Termination  for Cause" shall mean  termination  because of a material
loss  to  the  Holding  Company  or  one  of  its  subsidiaries  caused  by  the
Participant's intentional failure to perform stated duties, personal dishonesty,
willful violation of any law, rule,  regulation,  (other than traffic violations
or similar  offenses) or final cease and desist order. No act, or the failure to
act, on  Participant's  part shall be "willful"  unless  done,  or omitted to be
done,  not in good  faith  and  without  reasonable  belief  that the  action or
omission was in the best interest of the Holding Company or its affiliates.

2. ADMINISTRATION.

     (a) The Plan as regards  Options shall be granted and  administered  by the
Committee.  The Committee is authorized,  subject to the provisions of the Plan,
to establish  such rules and  regulations  as it deems  necessary for the proper
administration   of  the  Plan   and  to  make   whatever   determinations   and
interpretations in connection with the Plan it deems necessary or advisable. All
determinations  and  interpretations  made by the Committee shall be binding and
conclusive  on  all  Participants  and  on  their  legal   representatives   and
beneficiaries.

     (b) The grant of Non-statutory  Stock Options to Outside Directors are made
herein by the terms of this Plan. Actual transference of any Non-statutory Stock
Options to Outside  Directors  requires  no, nor allows any,  discretion  by the
Committee.

3. TYPES OF AWARDS.

           The following Awards may be granted under the Plan:

           (a)       Non-statutory Stock Options;
           (b)       Incentive Stock Options;
           (c)       Limited Rights;
           (d)       Dividend Adjustment Rights; and
           (e)       Directors Awards

as described below in paragraphs 6 through 10 of the Plan.

4. STOCK SUBJECT TO THE PLAN.

     Subject to  adjustment  as provided  in Section  17, the maximum  number of
shares  reserved  hereby for  purchase  pursuant to the  exercise of Options and
Option-related  Awards granted under the Plan is 450,000 shares of which Options
to purchase  315,000  shares are reserved for grants to Employees and Options to
purchase 135,000 shares are reserved for grants to Outside


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Directors.  These shares of Common Stock subject to Options which may be awarded
hereunder may be either  authorized  but unissued  shares or  authorized  shares
previously  issued and  reacquired  by the Holding  Company.  To the extent that
Options are granted under the Plan, the shares  underlying  such Options will be
unavailable  for any other use  including  future  grants  under the Plan except
that,  to the extent  that  Options  terminate,  expire,  are  forfeited  or are
cancelled  without  having  been  exercised  (in  the  case of  Limited  Rights,
exercised for cash), new Options may be made with respect to these shares.

5. ELIGIBILITY.

     All Employees shall be eligible to receive Options under the Plan.  Outside
Directors  shall only be eligible to receive  Non-statutory  Stock Options under
the Plan  under  Section 10 of this Plan.  An Outside  Director  who is a former
Employee may,  however,  continue to hold unexercised or unvested Awards granted
while such person was an Employee.

6. NON-STATUTORY STOCK OPTIONS.

     The Committee may,  subject to the  limitations  of the Plan,  from time to
time,  grant  Non-statutory  Stock Options to Employees and, upon such terms and
conditions as the Committee may determine,  grant Non-statutory Stock Options in
exchange for and upon  surrender of previously  granted  Awards under this Plan.
Non-statutory Stock Options granted under this Plan are subject to the following
terms and conditions:

     (a) Exercise Price. The Exercise Price of each  Non-statutory  Stock Option
shall be  determined  by the  Committee on the date the option is granted.  Such
Exercise  Price  shall  not be less than  100% of the Fair  Market  Value of the
Common Stock on the Date of Grant.  Common Stock  underlying such  Non-statutory
Stock Options may be purchased  only upon full payment of the Exercise  Price or
upon operation of an Option  Exercise  Alternative  set out in Section 12 of the
Plan.

     (b) Terms of Options.  Non-Statutory Stock Options may in the discretion of
the Committee be granted at any time and subject to any conditions allowed under
this  Plan.  The term  during  which  each  Non-statutory  Stock  Option  may be
exercised  shall  be  determined  by the  Committee,  but in no  event  shall  a
Non-statutory Stock Option be exercisable in whole or in part more than 10 years
from  the  Date  of  Grant.  Unless  otherwise   determined  by  the  Committee,
Non-statutory  Stock Options shall become  exercisable six months  subsequent to
the Date of Grant; provided, however, that all options shall become fully vested
and exercisable  upon the  Participant's  termination due to death,  Disability,
Retirement or in the event of a Change in Control.  The Common Stock  comprising
each  installment  may be  purchased  in whole or in part at any time during the
term of such Non-statutory  Stock Option after such  Non-Statutory  Stock Option
becomes exercisable.  The Committee may, in its sole discretion,  accelerate the
time at which any  Non-statutory  Stock  Option may be  exercised in whole or in
part. The acceleration of any Non-statutory  Stock Option under the authority of
this paragraph will create no right,  expectation or reliance on the part of any
other Participant or that certain Participant  regarding any other unaccelerated
Non-statutory Stock Options.


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     (c) The terms and  conditions of any  Non-statutory  Stock Options shall be
evidenced by an agreement (the "NSO Agreement") which such NSO Agreement will be
subject to the terms and conditions of the Plan.

     (d)  Termination  of Employment.  Notwithstanding  any provisions set forth
herein or contained in any NSO Agreement  relating to an award of an Option,  in
the  event  of  termination  for  reasons  other  than  for  death,  Disability,
Retirement  or Change in Control or  Termination  for Cause,  only those options
exercisable at the time of termination may be exercised and only for a period of
one year after such termination.  In the event of the Participant's  termination
of service  for  death,  Disability,  Retirement  or in the event of a Change in
Control,  all options shall become exercisable and may be exercised for a period
of one year after such  termination.  In the event of Termination for Cause, all
rights  under  the  Participant's   Non-Statutory  Stock  Options  shall  expire
immediately upon termination.

7. INCENTIVE STOCK OPTIONS.

     The Committee may,  subject to the  limitations  of the Plan,  from time to
time,  grant  Incentive  Stock  Options to  Employees.  Incentive  Stock Options
granted  pursuant  to the Plan  shall be  subject  to the  following  terms  and
conditions:

     (a) Exercise Price. The Exercise Price of each Incentive Stock Option shall
be not less than 100% of the Fair Market  Value of the Common  Stock on the Date
of Grant.  However,  if at the time an  Incentive  Stock  Option is granted to a
Participant, the Participant owns Common Stock representing more than 10% of the
total  combined  voting  securities  of the Holding  Company (or,  under Section
424(d) of the Code, is deemed to own Common Stock  representing more than 10% of
the total combined voting power of all classes of stock of the Holding  Company,
by reason of the ownership of such classes of stock, directly or indirectly,  by
or for any  brother,  sister,  spouse,  ancestor  or lineal  descendent  of such
Participant, or by or for any corporation, partnership, estate or trust of which
such Participant is a shareholder,  partner or beneficiary),  ("10% Owner"), the
Exercise Price per share of Common Stock  deliverable  upon the exercise of each
Incentive  Stock  Option shall not be less than 110% of the Fair Market Value of
the Common Stock on the Date of Grant. Shares may be purchased only upon payment
of the full Exercise Price or upon operation of an Option  Exercise  Alternative
set forth in Section 12 of the Plan.

     (b) Amounts of Incentive  Stock  Options.  Incentive  Stock  Options may be
granted to any Employee in such amounts as determined by the Committee; provided
that the amount granted is consistent with the terms of Section 422 of the Code.
In the case of a stock option  intended to qualify as an Incentive Stock Option,
the  aggregate  Fair  Market  Value  (determined  as of the time the  Option  is
granted)  of the Common  Stock with  respect to which  Incentive  Stock  Options
granted  are  exercisable  for the  first  time by the  Participant  during  any
calendar year (under all plans of the Participant's employer corporation and its
parent and subsidiary corporations) shall not exceed $100,000. The provisions of
this  Section  7(b) shall be construed  and applied in  accordance  with Section
422(d) of the Code and the regulations, if any, promulgated thereunder.


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To the extent an Award of an Incentive Stock Option under this Section 7 exceeds
this $100,000  limit,  the portion of the Award of an Incentive  Stock Option in
excess of such limit shall be deemed a Non-statutory Stock Option. The Committee
shall have  discretion to redesignate  Stock Options  granted as Incentive Stock
Options as Non-statutory  Stock Options.  Such Non-statutory Stock Options shall
be subject to Section 6 of the Plan.

     (c) Terms of Incentive  Stock Options.  Incentive  Stock Options may in the
discretion of the Committee be granted at any time and subject to any conditions
allowed under this Plan. The term during which each  Incentive  Stock Option may
be exercised  shall be  determined  by the  Committee,  but in no event shall an
Incentive  Stock  Option be  exercisable  in whole or in part more than 10 years
from the Date of Grant. If at the time an Incentive Stock Option is granted to a
Participant  who is a 10% Owner,  the  Incentive  Stock  Option  granted to such
Participant shall not be exercisable after the expiration of five years from the
Date of Grant. No Incentive Stock Option granted under this Plan is transferable
except by will or the laws of descent and distribution and is exercisable in his
lifetime only by the Participant to whom it is granted.

     Unless otherwise determined by the Committee, Incentive Stock Options shall
become  exercisable  six  months  subsequent  to the  Date of  Grant;  provided,
however,  that all options  shall become fully vested and  exercisable  upon the
Participant's  termination  due to death,  Disability,  Retirement  or Change in
Control.  The shares comprising each installment may be purchased in whole or in
part at any time  during  the term of such  Incentive  Stock  Option  after such
installment  becomes  exercisable.  The Committee  may, in its sole  discretion,
accelerate  the time at which any  Incentive  Stock  Option may be  exercised in
whole or in part. To the extent that such acceleration, through the operation of
law,  destroys  incentive  treatment under the Code, then such accelerated Stock
Option shall be deemed to be a Non-Statutory  Stock Option.  The acceleration of
any Incentive  Stock Option under the authority of this paragraph will create no
right,  expectation  or  reliance on the part of any other  Participant  or that
certain Participant regarding any other unaccelerated Incentive Stock Options.

     (d) The  terms  and  conditions  of any  Incentive  Stock  Option  shall be
evidenced by an agreement (the "Incentive  Stock Option  Agreement")  which such
Incentive Stock Option  Agreement will be subject to the terms and conditions of
the Plan.

     (e)  Termination  of  Employment.   Unless  otherwise   determined  by  the
Committee,  upon the termination of a Participant's service for any reason other
than  death,  Disability,  Retirement  or Change in  Control  the  Participant's
Incentive  Stock Options shall be exercisable  only as to those shares that were
immediately  exercisable by the  Participant at the date of termination and only
for a period of three months following termination;  provided, however, that, in
the event that the Committee  extends the  exercisability of any Incentive Stock
Options beyond three months following termination,  such Incentive Stock Options
shall be treated as Non-Statutory Stock Options. In the event of the termination
of a Participant's service due to death, Disability,  Retirement or in the event
of a Change in Control,  all of the Participant's  Incentive Stock Options shall
become   exercisable   for  a  period  of  one  year  after  such   termination.
Notwithstanding,  any  Incentive  Stock  Options are  exercised  more than three
months after the Participant's terminations,


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such Options shall be treated as  Non-Statutory  Stock Options.  In the event of
Termination for Cause all rights under the Participant's Incentive Stock Options
shall expire  immediately  upon  termination.  In the event of  Disability,  the
period for exercise is one year from termination of employment.

     (g) Compliance  with Code. The Incentive  Stock Options  granted under this
Section 7 of the Plan are  intended  to qualify  as  "incentive  stock  options"
within the meaning of Section 422 of the Code, but the Holding  Company makes no
warranty as to the  qualification  of any option as an  incentive  stock  option
within the meaning of Section 422 of the Code. All Incentive  Stock Options that
do not so quality shall be treated as Non-statutory Stock Options.

8. LIMITED RIGHTS.

     Simultaneously  with the grant of any  Option  to an  Employee  or  Outside
Director, the Committee may grant a Limited Right with respect to all or some of
the shares  covered by such Option.  Limited  Rights granted under this Plan are
subject to the following terms and conditions:

     (a) Terms of Rights.  In no event shall a Limited Right be  exercisable  in
whole or in part before the  expiration  of six months from the Date of Grant of
the  Limited  Right.  A Limited  Right may be  exercised  only in the event of a
Change in Control.

          The Limited Right may be exercised only when the underlying  Option is
eligible to be exercised,  and only when the Fair Market Value of the underlying
shares  on the day of  exercise  is  greater  than  the  Exercise  Price  of the
underlying Option.

          Upon exercise of a Limited Right, the underlying Option shall cease to
be exercisable.  Upon exercise or termination of an Option,  any related Limited
Rights shall  terminate.  The Limited Rights may be for no more than 100% of the
difference  between the  purchase  price and the Fair Market Value of the Common
Stock subject to the underlying  option.  The Limited Right is transferable only
when the underlying option is transferable and under the same conditions.

     (b) Payment.  Upon exercise of a Limited  Right,  the holder shall promptly
receive  from the  Holding  Company  an  amount  of cash or some  other  payment
alternative  found in Section 11, equal to the  difference  between the Exercise
Price of the  underlying  option and the Fair Market  Value of the Common  Stock
subject to the  underlying  Option on the date the Limited  Right is  exercised,
multiplied  by the number of shares with respect to which such Limited  Right is
being  exercised.  Payments shall be less an applicable  tax  withholding as set
forth in Section 18.

9. DIVIDEND ADJUSTMENT RIGHT

     Simultaneously  with the grant of any Option under this Plan, the Committee
may grant a Dividend  Adjustment  Right.  Upon the  payment of an  Extraordinary
Dividend, the Committee may grant to the holder of a Dividend Adjustment Right a
payment from the Holding Company


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of an amount of cash equal to the amount of the  Extraordinary  Dividend paid on
one share of Common  Stock,  multiplied  by the number of shares of Common Stock
subject to the underlying Option

10. DIRECTORS' AWARDS

     Awards to Outside Directors under this Plan  ("Directors'  Awards) are made
in the form of  Non-statutory  Stock  Options.  Directors'  Awards shall be made
subject to the following terms and conditions:

     (a) Initial  Grant of  Directors'  Awards.  Each  Outside  Director  who is
serving  on the Board of  Directors  on the  Effective  Date of this Plan  shall
receive  Non-statutory Stock Options for 6,750 shares of Common Stock, each with
a Dividend  Adjustment Right pursuant to Section 9, which shall be granted as of
the Effective Date of the Plan.

     (b) Continuing Grant of Directors'  Awards.  Any Outside Director currently
serving  on the  Board of  Directors  as of the  Effective  Date of the Plan who
continues  to serve as a  Director  on July 1, 1997 and July 1,  1998,  shall be
granted  Options for 6,750 shares on each  respective date pursuant to the terms
fixed by the Committee.

     (c)  Grants to  Subsequent  Outside  Directors.  To the  extent  Options to
purchase  shares are available for grant under the Plan, due to such Options not
being reserved for granting  under  paragraphs (a) and (b) of this Section 10 or
due to  forfeiture  of Options  previously  awarded to  Outside  Directors,  the
Committee  shall have the authority to grant such  available  Options to Outside
Directors in amounts and with terms as determined by the Committee.

     The terms and  conditions  of any  Director  Award will be  evidenced by an
agreement which shall be subject to the terms and conditions of the Plan.

     (d) Exercise Price. The Exercise Price of each  Non-statutory  Stock Option
awarded to an Outside  Director  shall equal the Fair Market Value of the Common
Stock on the date of the grant of the Option.  Shares may be purchased only upon
full  payment of the  Exercise  Price or upon  operation  of an Option  Exercise
Alternative set forth in Section 12 of the Plan.

     (e)  Terms  of  Non-statutory  Stock  Options  Award to  Directors.  Unless
otherwise  determined by the Committee,  Non-Statutory  Stock Options granted to
Outside Directors shall become  exercisable six months subsequent to the Date of
Grant.  The term  during  which each  Non-statutory  Stock  Option  awarded to a
director may be exercised  shall be 10 years from the Date of Grant.  The shares
comprising  each  installment  may be  purchased in whole or in part at any time
during the term of such Non-statutory Stock Option.

     (f) Death,  Disability,  Retirement or Change in Control of a Director. All
Stock  Options  shall be fully vested and  exercisable  upon death,  Disability,
Retirement or Change in Control.


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     (g)  Forfeiture.  If the service of an Outside  Director as a member of the
Board is terminated for any other reason than death,  Disability,  Retirement or
Change in Control,  all unvested  Stock Options  shall be forfeited  immediately
upon such termination and the Outside Director shall have no further rights with
respect to such Directors' Award.



11. PAYOUT ALTERNATIVES

     Payments due to a Participant  upon the exercise or redemption of an Award,
may be made under the following terms and conditions:

     (a) Discretion of the Committee.  The Committee has the sole  discretion to
determine the form of payment (whether monetary,  Common Stock, a combination of
payout  alternatives  or  otherwise)  it shall  use in making  distributions  or
payments for all Options.  If the Committee  requests any or all Participants to
make  an  election  as to form of  payment  or  distribution,  it  shall  not be
considered bound by the election.

     (b)  Payment  in the form of Common  Stock.  Any  shares  of  Common  Stock
tendered  in  satisfaction  of an  obligation  arising  under this Plan shall be
valued  at the  Fair  Market  Value  of the  Common  Stock  at the  time  of the
distribution.  The  Committee may use Common Stock in Treasury or may direct the
market purchase of such Common Stock to satisfy its obligations under this Plan.

12. OPTION EXERCISE ALTERNATIVES

     The Committee has sole  discretion to determine the form of payment it will
accept for the exercise of an Option.  The  Committee  may  indicate  acceptable
forms in the  Incentive  Stock Option or  Non-statutory  Stock Option  Agreement
covering such Options or may reserve its decision until the time of exercise. No
Option is to be  considered  exercised  until payment in full is accepted by the
Committee or its agent.

     (a) Cash  Payment.  The exercise  price may be paid in cash or by certified
check.

     (b) Borrowed  Funds.  To the extent  permitted by law,  the  Committee  may
permit all or a portion of the  exercise  price of an Option to be paid  through
borrowed funds.

     (c)  Exchange  of  Common  Stock.  (i)  The  Committee  may,  in  its  sole
discretion,  permit  payment by the tendering of previously  acquired  shares of
Common Stock.

          (ii) Any shares of Common  Stock  tendered in payment of the  exercise
price of an Option  shall be valued at the Fair Market Value of the Common Stock
on the date prior to the date of exercise.


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13. GRANTS IN THE EVENT OF A CHANGE IN CONTROL

     (a) In the event of a Change in Control,  Options then  available for grant
under this Plan pursuant to Section 4 shall be automatically granted among those
current Employees and current Outside Directors who have previously been granted
Options under this Plan, as of the date of the Change in Control.  The number of
shares subject to Options to be granted to each such individual pursuant to this
Section 13 shall be determined by multiplying  the number of Options to purchase
shares  of Common  Stock  then  available  for grant to  Employees  and  Outside
Directors,  respectively,  pursuant to Section 4 by a fraction, the numerator of
which is the number of Options to  purchase  shares of Common  Stock  previously
granted to that individual  under this Plan, and the denominator of which is the
total number of Options to purchase shares of Common Stock previously granted to
all Employees, in the case of an Employee, and all current Outside Directors, in
the case of an Outside Director, under this Plan.

     (b) The Exercise Price for any option granted  pursuant to Section 13 shall
be the average of the Exercise Price of each share of Common Stock,  as adjusted
pursuant  to Section  17,  subject to an Option  granted  under this Plan to the
respective Employee or Outside Director prior to the Change in Control.

     (c) All  Options  granted  pursuant  to Section 13 shall be 100% vested and
exercisable upon the Change in Control and shall remain exercisable for a period
of 10 years from the date of grant.

14. RIGHTS OF A SHAREHOLDER: NONTRANSFERABILITY.

     No Participant  or Outside  Director shall have any rights as a shareholder
with respect to any shares of Common  Stock  covered by an Option until the date
of issuance of a stock  certificate for such Common Stock.  Nothing in this Plan
or in any Option  granted  confers on any  person any right to  continue  in the
employ or service of the Holding  Company or its Affiliates or interferes in any
way with the right of the  Holding  Company or its  Affiliates  to  terminate  a
Participant's services as an officer or other employee at any time.

     Except as permitted  under the Code and the rules  promulgated  pursuant to
Section 16(b) of the Exchange Act or any successor  statutes or rules, no Option
under the Plan shall be  transferable  by the  Participant  or Outside  Director
other  than  by will  or the  laws of  intestate  succession  or  pursuant  to a
qualified domestic relations order.

15. AGREEMENT WITH GRANTEES.

     Each  Option  will  be  evidenced  by a  written  agreement  ("Agreement"),
executed by the  Participant or Outside  Director and the Holding Company or its
Affiliates  that  describes  the terms and  conditions  for receiving the Option
including  the date of  Option,  the  Exercise  Price if any,  the term or other
applicable periods, and other terms and conditions as may be required or imposed
by the  Plan,  the  Board of  Directors,  tax law  consideration  or  applicable
securities law.


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16. DESIGNATION OF BENEFICIARY.

     A Participant  or Outside  Director may, with the consent of the Committee,
designate a person or persons to receive,  in the event of death,  any Option to
which the Participant would then be entitled. Such designation will be made upon
forms  supplied by and  delivered  to the Holding  Company and may be revoked in
writing.  If a Participant or Outside Director fails  effectively to designate a
beneficiary,  then the Participant's or Outside Director's estate will be deemed
to be the beneficiary.

17. ADJUSTMENTS.

     In the event of any  change in the  outstanding  shares of Common  Stock by
reason of any stock dividend, split,  recapitalization,  merger,  consolidation,
spin-off,  reorganization,  combination or exchange of shares,  or other similar
corporate  change,  or other increase or decrease in such shares without receipt
or payment of consideration by the Holding Company, the Committee will make such
adjustments to previously  granted Awards, to prevent dilution or enlargement of
the rights of the Participant or Outside  Director,  including any or all of the
following:

          (a)  adjustments  in the aggregate  number or kind of shares of Common
               Stock or other  securities that may underlie future Options under
               the Plan;

          (b)  adjustments  in the aggregate  number or kind of shares of Common
               Stock or other securities  underlying  Options already made under
               the Plan;

          (c)  adjustments in the purchase price of outstanding Incentive and/or
               Non-statutory  Stock Options,  or any Limited Rights  attached to
               such Options.

     No such adjustments may,  however,  materially change the value of benefits
available  to a  Participant  or Outside  Director  under a  previously  granted
Option.  All awards  under this Plan shall be  binding  upon any  successors  or
assigns of the Holding Company.

18. TAX WITHHOLDING.

     Awards  under this Plan shall be subject to tax  withholding  to the extent
required  by any  governmental  authority.  If this Plan meets the  requirements
under 17 C.F.R.  ss.240.16b-3  under the Exchange Act ("Rule  16b-3"),  then any
withholding shall comply with Rule 16b-3 or any amendment or successive rule.

19. AMENDMENT OF THE PLAN.

     The Board of Directors  may at any time,  and from time to time,  modify or
amend the Plan in any respect, prospectively or retroactively; provided however,
that provisions governing grants of Options and Limited Rights, unless permitted
by the rules  promulgated  to Section  16(b) of the Exchange  Act,  shall not be
amended  more than once every six months other than to comport with the Internal
Revenue Code or the Employee Retirement Income Security Act, if applicable.

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     No such  termination,  modification or amendment may affect the rights of a
Participant or Outside Director under an outstanding  Option without the written
permission of such Participant or Outside Directors.

20. APPROVAL OF SHAREHOLDERS.

     The Plan shall be presented to  shareholders  for approval for purposes of:
(i) obtaining favorable treatment under Section 16(b) of the Securities Exchange
Act; (ii) obtaining  preferential tax treatment for Incentive Stock Options; and
(iii)  maintaining  listing on Nasdaq  National  Market.  The  failure to obtain
shareholder  approval will not effect the validity or  effectiveness of the Plan
and the Options granted hereunder,  provided,  however,  that if the Plan is not
approved by  stockholders,  the Board of Directors may, in its sole  discretion,
terminate the Plan and rescind any Options granted  hereunder and, to the extent
the Board of Directors  does not exercise its  discretion to terminate the Plan,
any Incentive  Stock Options  granted shall be deemed to be Non- Statutory Stock
Options.

21. TERMINATION OF THE PLAN.

     The right to grant Options under the Plan will  terminate  upon the earlier
of (i) ten (10) years after the  Effective  Date or (ii) the  issuance of Common
Stock or (iii) the exercise of Options,  or related Limited Rights equivalent to
the maximum number of shares  reserved under the Plan as set forth in Section 4.
The Board of  Directors  has the right to suspend or  terminate  the Plan at any
time,  provided  that,  except as to  termination  of the Plan or  rescission of
awards pursuant to Section 20 hereof,  no such action will,  without the consent
of a Participant or Outside Director, adversely affect his vested rights under a
previously granted Option.

22. APPLICABLE LAW.

     The Plan will be  administered  in accordance with the laws of the state of
Delaware.

23. COMPLIANCE WITH SECTION 16.

     If this Plan is qualified  under Rule 16b-3 (or any successor  rule),  with
respect to persons subject to Section 16 of the Exchange Act, transactions under
this Plan are intended to comply with all applicable conditions of Rule 16b-3 or
its successors  under the Exchange Act. To the extent any provisions of the Plan
or action by the Committee fail to so comply,  such  provisions  shall be deemed
null and void,  to the  extent  permitted  by law and  deemed  advisable  by the
Committee.


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24. DELEGATION OF AUTHORITY

     The Committee may delegate all authority for: the determination of forms of
payment to be made by or received by the Plan; the execution of Agreements;  the
determination  of Fair Market Value;  the  determination of all other aspects of
administration of the plan to the executive officer(s) of the Holding Company or
Reliance  Federal  Savings  Bank  ("Bank").   The  Committee  may  rely  on  the
descriptions,  representations,  reports  and  estimate  provided  to it by  the
management  of the  Holding  Company or the Bank for  determinations  to be made
pursuant to the Plan.

     IN WITNESS WHEREOF, Reliance Bancorp, Inc. has established this Plan, to be
executed by a designee of the Board of Directors its duly  corporate  seal to be
affixed and duly attested, effective as of the ____ day of____, 1996.


[CORPORATE SEAL]                                          RELIANCE BANCORP, INC.




ADOPTED BY THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS:


_____________                          By: _____________________________________
Date                                          Raymond L. Nielsen
                                              Chairman of the Board of Directors
                                              For the Board of Directors


APPROVED BY STOCKHOLDERS:


_____________                          By: _____________________________________
Date                                          Robert F. Pelosi
                                              Secretary

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                                 REVOCABLE PROXY
                             RELIANCE BANCORP, INC.
                         ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                    November 12, 1996, 9:00 a.m. Eastern time

         The  undersigned  hereby  appoints the official proxy  committee of the
Board of Directors of Reliance  Bancorp,  Inc. (the  "Company"),  each with full
power of substitution,  to act as attorneys and proxies for the undersigned, and
to vote all  shares of Common  Stock of the  Company  which the  undersigned  is
entitled  to vote only at the  Annual  Meeting  of  Stockholders,  to be held on
November 12, 1996, at 9:00 a.m.  Eastern time, at the Long Island Marriott Hotel
and Conference Center, 101 James Doolittle Boulevard,  Uniondale,  New York, and
at any and all adjournments thereof, as follows:

1.   The election as directors of all nominees  listed  (except as marked to the
     contrary below):         FOR |__|     WITHHOLD |__|     FOR ALL EXCEPT |__|

     Thomas G. Davis, Jr. and Donald LaPasta. 

     INSTRUCTION:  To withhold your vote for any individual  nominee,  mark "For
     All Except" and write that nominee's name on the space provided below:

- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

2.   Approval of the Reliance Bancorp, Inc. 1996 Stock Option Plan.
             FOR |__|     AGAINST |__|     ABSTAIN |__|

3.   The  ratification of KPMG Peat Marwick as independent  auditors of Reliance
     Bancorp, Inc. for the fiscal year ending June 30, 1997.
             FOR |__|     AGAINST |__|     ABSTAIN |__|

     THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS RECOMMENDS A VOTE "FOR" EACH OF THE LISTED PROPOSALS

     THIS PROXY IS SOLICITED BY THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS

     This  proxy  is  revocable  and  will  be  voted  as  directed,  but  if no
instructions  are specified,  this proxy will be voted FOR each of the proposals
listed.  If any other  business is presented at the Annual  Meeting,  this proxy
will be voted  by those  named in this  proxy  in their  best  judgment.  At the
present time, the Board of Directors  knows of no other business to be presented
at the Annual Meeting.

     The  stockholder  acknowledges  receipt  from  the  Company  prior  to  the
execution of this proxy of a Notice of Annual Meeting of  Stockholders  and of a
Proxy   Statement   dated  October  11,  1996,  and  of  the  Annual  Report  to
Stockholders.

     Please sign exactly as your name appears hereon.  When signing as attorney,
executor,  administrator,  trustee or guardian,  please give your full title. If
shares  are held  jointly,  each  holder  may sign  but  only one  signature  is
required.

                                             Dated:_______________________, 1996


                                             -----------------------------------
                                             Signature of Stockholder

                                             -----------------------------------
                                             Signature of Stockholder

                                             PLEASE COMPLETE, DATE, SIGN
                                             AND MAIL THIS PROXY PROMPTLY
                                             IN THE ENCLOSED POSTAGE-PAID
                                             ENVELOPE.


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